#gr**ming tw

[axeltr342]

Callout to @denisbored

// TW NSFW proshipping/comshipping, zoophilia, underage, non consent, age gaps

Denis is a user who supported a zoo comshiper nsfw artist called DLMB_Wilson, which is known for his fixation of drawing nsfw of the character Bill Dickey from The Eltingville Club, even to the point of drawing zoo nsfw of him being f*cked by a dog and a full 12 page comic about his 47 year old self insert gr**ming and having non consent s*x with a 14 year old version of Bill.

There's also his facebook profile called Wilson Montoy in which he admitted everything he is into.

So how does @denisbored fit into this? In the fact that even acknowledging all of this, she stayed in his discord server (her discord username used to be ronnette), interacting and supporting him, even stating that he is doing "justice" for the low amount of porn the protagonists have (the four protagonists of the eltingville club comics and pilot are minors btw).

What is the proof of her acknowledging the weird stuff? Well, in one of Wilson's facebook posts that I've previously mentioned, she reacted with a "love" reaction, specifically to the one confessing all his problematic fetishes (Denis's username on Facebook is Spot Mari).

And when I confronted her about all of this, well...

I hope everyone that reads this takes it into consideration for how they are gonna interact with the user @denisbored from now onwards. Since I confronted her she has been escaping any sort of callout or reflection, even to the point of keeping interaction with users who have proshippers on their DNI.

[bluejay0715]

I love the potential this movie had, but the actual thing drives me off the wall

[TW: Discussion of gr**ming]

Honestly, the whole Nerissa twist itself isn't even what gets me. It's how they did it, and why they did it.

An adult pretending to be a teenager isn't an inherently bad plot, but it is incredibly dark, especially for a kid's movie. To be honest, doing something like that would be incredibly hit or miss, and in this case, it was very hard miss.

The way they went about the twist was just... terrible, and the reasons why they did it are just outright ridiculous. First of all, they did it because they didn't like people shipping Ruby and Chelsea, which like ????? Why does a big studio like you even care? Yeah Ruby already has a love interest but the ocean wlw literally didn't hurt anyone. If it really bothered you that much then you could've come out and politely asked them to stop! They also apparently did it because in the original plot, Agatha had killed Nerissa and Chelsea wanted to avenge her (since they were actually separate characters in the storyboards), but they didn't want Agatha to have blood on her hands... really? She fought in a damn war, she probably has blood on her hands regardless. And besides, them changing it so Chelsea and Nerissa are the same person not only fucked up Chelsea's character, but now Agatha's! It's just... Ugh.

Now, like I said earlier, the Nerissa twist isn't inherently bad. If it had been portrayed better, it could've been a damn good metaphor for predators online! But you can tell they were lazy about it, and that they only went through with it to get people to stop shipping Chelby. Because first of all, there are absolutely no hints to Nerissa being the big bad until the twist comes up, and I know we love twist villains, but there needs to be at least a little more foreshadowing! Make Nerissa more antagonistic and predatory and in the first half of the movie! Then it doesn't look like the whole Chelsea = Nerissa thing wasn't pulled right out of DreamWorks' ass! Another thing is the whole Nerissa being an adult in disguise ISN'T EVEN ADDRESSED AFTERWARDS! IT'S HANDLED LIKE A STEREOTYPICAL BETRAYAL! As someone who's been gr**med, I find this incredibly insulting. When you realize you've been gr**med, you feel sick and dirty, like your insides are squirming around... at least in my experience. If they wanted to make Chelsea an adult, they should've considered the gr**ming factor and the impact it would have on Ruby, but no. Ruby is just completely fine after getting over the initial betrayal and doesn't even bring up the whole pretending to be a teen thing in the final battle, which isn't realistic at all.

*Sigh*

This movie could've been great, DreamWorks. If you had just put more effort into the Nerissa twist, had the other mermaids make a not as antagonistic cameo just to show that not all mermaids are evil, and have a moment where Agatha expresses remorse or guilt for lives she took in the war. Or, alternatively, just kept Chelsea and Nerissa separate characters in the first place (which is what I would've preferred honestly). If they had just let the movie cook a little longer...

But unfortunately, we got stuck with a half baked movie that trips over itself and its message, while also literally having literal gr**ming in the movie that never even gets addressed. Ugh. Just ugh.

[fandomwe1rd0]

No because the Rick and Morty subreddit is another BREED!

TW GR**MING MENTION

When I was on there, (And I don't even spend a lot of time there mind you, I mostly just interact with my Tumblr because y'all are AMAZING! Mwah! Mwah!) I have seen people first hand, ahem: 1. Say that Rick was grooming Morty in a s*xual way (Yep, threw up a lil in my mouth as well, I literally had to argue with them about why he wasn't, so that wasn't fun.)

2. Victim-blame Morty

3. Say that Morty would an amazing s*xual lover (YEP THE 14 YEAR OLD VERSION ON ONE OF MY POSTS, THE POST I MADE WASN'T EVEN CLOSE TO BEING ABOUT THAT)

4. Say that Morty dating adult girls isn't a big deal because it's an adult's show

5. Ship Morty with Planetina, although to be fair these people usually see Planetina as an older teenager even though SHE LITERALLY DOES ALL OF THE STEPS OF GR**MING

[literaryxbones]

Analyzing Songs by The Cure

Analyzing The Cure's Music

In light of The Cure's new album release, "Songs Of A Lost World", I'll be analyzing some of their classic hits to decipher their meaning. Lyrics, woven together with the band's earlier macabre atmosphere, will be taken into consideration. Before delving into the conversation, it must be acknowledged that interpretation is subjective. The beauty of music is experienced on an individual level. People may walk away with different conclusions to the same song. That being said, we are not the artists, producers, or writers. We can't know for sure what Robert Smith's original intent was. Since we don't know him personally, his musical secrets may very well flit over our heads.

A Forest - Seventeen Seconds

The instrumentals introducing us to the song are iconic. They seem to imbue every goth with nostalgia, familiarity, and joy. I consider this track to be a standout number among their discography.

"A Forest's" lyrics are simple. Hunted, watched; a character slinks into the woods following what he thinks is a girl's voice. Haunting instrumentals evoke a sense of being tracked. Smith's vocals carry a hollow bleakness. His voice turns raw as he reveals the man's delusion.

While the lyrical content avoids overt complexity, it's the atmosphere and sonic progression that binds me to the song. Memorable chords, incredible vocals, and a unique, dark soundscape immortalize it in my memory.

This entry happens to remind me of The Corpse Bride (2005.) Victor escapes to the woods after lighting his mother-in-law's dress on fire. Rehearsing for the wedding, he slips his ring onto a dead, hand-shaped tree branch. Emily, the corpse bride, emerges from the soil and begins to pursue him. In disbelief, Victor is quick to dismiss this event as a bad dream.

In terms of an actual confirmed meaning, Robert Smith has given "conflicting information" according to Genius. "It's just about a forest," he says.

Lullaby - Disintegration

Now, this song tends to be controversial within the goth community. The subject of this track is heavily debated.

TW: Mentions S*xual Assault/P*dophilia/Gr**ming

In a recent poll in the Goth Community Chat, 15.2% of people think the song is about sexual assault, while another 15.2% consider it to be just a spooky track. Another popular result suggests that the "spider-man" is an allegory for depression. (12.1%)

Before proceeding further into any conclusions, it is paramount to acknowledge that sexual assault, grooming, and r*** are common issues that plague alternative communities. The goth subculture is no exception. Some of the scenes' most prominent artists have been outed for predatory behavior.

Alternative people are often fetishized by the media and men. Because of our fashion styles, macabre appreciation, and social status, people wrongfully assume that most goths are into BDSM or other similar fetishes, are societal outcasts; and thus are easier to abuse. A person having dark interests does not mean they will tolerate or accept toxic behavior and fantasies.

I myself have been the target of sexual harassment just on the basis of being alt. That does not even begin to include the objectification I've been subject to in general.

With that being mentioned, we must remember to hold aggressors accountable. Especially if they are musicians or in a position of power. People like Morrissey should not be idolized because their actions dwarf the impact his music would've had.

I'll probably make a separate post discussing this in the future, but for now I'll share my personal thoughts on Lullaby.

On a darker note, I believe "Lullaby" is about pedophilia. The title itself references calming songs that a baby listens to before falling asleep. Lullabies provide a sense of security, especially if sung by a caregiver.

The aforementioned "spider-man" creeps up to the bed while the victim shivers. He wraps his arms around his prey. An image of his tongue is burned into the subject's brain while his face is licked and devoured.

What he says seems to corroborate my theory. "Be still, be quiet now, my precious boy, don't struggle like that or I'll only love you more."

It's clear there's a power balance between the two. How the "boy" is referred to suggests he is younger. Controlled by the man's whims, the survivor endures this horrifying experience. In the morning, he awakes in the "shivering cold." Alluding to this detached loneliness, the song concludes by saying that the "spider man is always hungry."

Smith says the song was inspired by a story his uncle used to tell him. The spidery monster ate children in their bed. A line from Mary Howitt's poem "The Spider And The Fly" is used in the outro.

“Will you walk into my parlour?” said the Spider to the Fly, ‘Tis the prettiest little parlour that ever you did spy; The way into my parlour is up a winding stair, And I have many curious things to show you when you are there.” “Oh no, no,” said the Fly, “to ask me is in vain; For who goes up your winding stair can ne’er come down again.”

Such evidence defines my analysis. These sources are the reason why I think that these songs have these particular meanings. This blog post ended up being way longer than I ever expected, so I'm turning it into a two parter.

Sources

1. JupiterCure. “A Forest- The Cure (Lyrics).” Youtube, The Cure, 18 April 2013, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nPLgL_hGQ1M. Accessed 09 January 2025.

2. SadChild, and Keith Pixton. “The Cure – A Forest Lyrics.” Genius, Genius Lyrics, 2014, https://genius.com/The-cure-a-forest-lyrics. Accessed 9 January 2025.

3. giaco74. “the cure - lullaby with lyrics.” Youtube, The Cure, 26 October 2010, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bXNLdBxR_1g. Accessed 09 January 2025.

4. 46 Contributers. “The Cure – Lullaby Lyrics.” Genius, Genius Lyrics, https://genius.com/The-cure-lullaby-lyrics. Accessed 9 January 2025.

Credit

Red Lace F2U Bat Border - @battampria

Black Roses w/ Cross Border - @fawndollie

Written By - @literaryxbones

SORDID

[cloudroid27]

Welp, I'm PISSED right now.

[TW under read more for mentions of Gr••ming]

So apparently GRIFFINILLA'S A FUCKING GROOMER?? WHAT THE FUCK!?

(There is proof about this but let the victim come out about it on Twitter)

Anyways, Separate the Art from the Artist, please. Cuz Fandroid did NOT deserve to be created by a fucking creep.

My god.

[drnecolii]

TW: Mentions gr**ming, proceed with caution.

Just found out yet another creator I happened to like (fanfiction writer) turned out to be a gr**mer. I'm incredibly disappointed as I was a big fan of her work and the writer herself honestly seemed cool, though eccentric at times in my opinion. I seriously hope the victim is okay and healing well, and that they're in a safe environment. It's crazy to know that more and more people like this just keep appearing today.

If you or someone you love believe that you've been a victim to inappropriate potentially dangerous and/or manipulative behavior, contact someone you trust or the local authorities if possible to ensure you and/or your loved one's safety. Stay safe everyone, sending love.

[roxyz-silly-box]

fuck yes. fuck yes. fuck yes. fuck yes. fuck yes.

screams violently.

tw for some -philias and gr--ming under the cut

...i didnt expect to hear anything abt grooming or pedophilia or zoophilia though. that surprised me. what the fuck. this rabbithole is way deeper than i thought it was.

[flowersbark]

Holy shit. Okay. Hi. I’m also a csa survivor. I’m legit so desperate for anything sort of recognition on this issue I’ve been having for almost 2 years now. https://www.tumblr.com/flowersbark/740288973409288192/fellas-is-it-a-proship-to-project-cocsacsa-on

It relates to this post, except I am going to get EXTRA personal on this.

Tw for r//pe, gr///ming, Self-h//rm, and csa (obvsly)

Okay so I also really really reallyyy don’t like proshippers, I am hypersexual, and I have zero access to any sort of help atp in my life. Now that I have those things out of the way right now, I am essentially in a dilemma a lot like that post. One major problem, it’s not me JUST wanting to project, it’s me wanting to BE in that spot of the victim again for some reason. And I mean like srsly getting assaulted again and all that horrible stuff. Like, i THINK these ideas, thoughts, and urges I have are called “intrusive thoughts”?? But I’m not sure. I’m disturbed by them regardless.

This has been so frustrating to deal with bc first of all, I’m not a victim to gr//ming, second, yes, I am a victim of csa at a young age, and third, I find myself having some sort of YEARNING to be hurt in such a way. (Not cocsacsa, just to not let things get mixed up btw) I have looked around on the internet for so long about this issue and I find NOTHING on it, like, am I just going crazy? Am I trying to cope with it in the worst way possible? Like, I genuinely don’t know, and it drives me mad because on one hand, I have this massive theory that it’s a mental attempt of “self- h//rm”, and then on the other hand, it’s a bizarre extreme version of yearning for touch and affection, but I’m just so unsure because I can’t find any other personal accounts of anyone else!

I acknowledge that your post wasn’t about this oddly specifc scenario, and I’m so sorry that this is so out of pocket, and possibly even counterproductive (idk) but as another csa victim, would you be able to offer some sort of insight? Is that something I can even ask for on here? It’s okay if you can’t, or don’t want to, I fully understand if I just never see a response to this. I really hope things get better for you and that you’re a having at the very least, a decent day regardless. Thank you.

Also p.s., sorry for not being able to answer that question, I myself am also uncertain on a definite answer for that. Like, the most I can say is that I think it’s okay to explore unhealthy dynamics, so long as they’re both acknowledged as bad/unhealthy/traumatizing things, and not put out to the public since people can take/look at things and get weird and nasty🤢 (so generally just used in a private and secure setting)

HI !!! uhh

first off, yes you can ask for advice, insight, anything. thats why i made this blog, other than to just vent to strangers. second, thank you for giving me your opinion on the csa proship situation.

i do think what you're going through are intrusive thoughts, and i get those a lot too. especially about going through what i did again, or worse. i also fucking HATE those thoughts, especially because my mind makes it by people i know irl, especially classmate im close to. it makes me feel disgusting and like im sexualizing and making my classmates horrible people when they ARENT. intrusive thoughts arent a reflection of who you are, theyre a reflection of who you DONT want to be, thats why theyre so disturbing.

again, the almost yearning for it is intrusive. it's also a trauma response. like how people who are used to being mentally abused will seek out and be with people that will treat them like that, its kinda like that. its not a good way to cope, but its not the WORST. as the absolute worst would be repeating the cycle.

im sorry if this doesn't help, its kinda just my word vomit with no revisions,, but i hope it does. it gets better, i promise. keep going.

[rosebudbl00d]

TW for gr//ming and nsfw topics

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For people who may be unaware, user elichu (though now he goes by pank00t) participated and engaged in nsfw roleplay with minors while he was an adult and engaged in grooming behaviors. He is not a safe person to be around and he keeps trying to come back. Mainly he interacted in the mcsm fandom back when this first originated but now it appears that he's doing more good omens shit, but that really doesn't matter. A detailed callout post is on instagram under the account @/cappybara31 if you want to know more about the situation.

Outside of this multiple people, including Elichu's ex-partner, have mentioned his weird behavior. For the sake of your own safety please do not interact with him, and all of this goes without saying please don't go and harass him either. Death threats and doxxing and all that will not help the situation at all, the most you can do is block and report them.

He genuinely makes me unsafe myself and I would not trust anyone with him whether or not he says he's changed. If you know anyone who unknowingly supports him please let them know, thank you.

cappybara callpost:

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axelmcsm callout post

[painwolffz]

tw for mentions of csa and gr**ming

i might create a tumblr post exposing a disgusting sub reddit i came across that is against stuff like ageism, and the ownership of children, but also thinks gr**ming and csa are okay, and goes as far as to believe teenagers and kids are adults as well as blame victims for caring abt children. like what the fuck bro. they remind me of white saviors that fails to ‘speak up’ for poc people, or those kind of cishet people who think they’re speaking up and helping the queer community, when they failed doing shit at all

[azion-uchiha11]

Intro

(TW: Mentions of gr**ming)

Hello there... I am Az, Azion or Azzy. Honestly call me whichever you would like. I go by She/Her + They/Them pronouns! I don't really like labeling myself if I am honest so please respect that! I am Pansexual! (Que the pan jokes.) I don't mind which you use just be respectful! I am just somone who likes anime + manga video games and literate roleplaying. I am also tired like 24/7 and am dealing with health issues so I am unsure if this will be a regular thing or not.

As for what I will be posting here. I am not sure really probably just whatever comes to mind or whatever I feel like. Maybe related to fandoms maybe related to roleplays I am doing or maybe related to my health. I am not really sure... lol. Sorry if it's not as organized as other people. This is my first time using tumblr lol so if I am doing something wrong somone let me know...

Physical Health.

As for my conditions I have chronic vertigo/dizziness, chronic migraines, I am severely lactose intolerant and suffer from Amplified Pain Syndrome in my hands and feet (So it hurts to walk, type, write or hold things even though there is nothing physically wrong with them!) I also am chronically tired/fatigued but the doctors don't have answer for that. Yay!

Intrest

Anime + Manga

Naruto/Naruto Shippuden, BSD, Hunter x Hunter, Tokyo Ghoul, My Hero Academia, Demon Slayer, The Promised Neverland, Death Note, Jujitsu Kaisen, Assasination Classroom and Digimon.

Semi-Literate/Literate/Roleplaying

I have always enjoyed doing this kind of thing and I have many OC's in Google docs and even across various fandoms. I also usually enjoy dark plots anyway.

If you wanna rp with me message me and I will give you my discord where we can has out details and i do use anime faceclaims.

Video Games.

I play Neo: The World Ends With You, Super Smash Bros. Ultimate, Naruto Ultimite Ninja Storm 1 & 4, Rocket League, Minecraft, Ninjala, My Hero Academia Ones Justice 2, Catttails, Sonic Forces and Digimon Cybersluth and probably more that I am forgetting.

Books

Maximum Ride, Wings of Fire, Warriors, and The Witcher! (OMG HENRY CAVILL ON THE NETFLIX ADAPTATION TAKE ME!!!!!)

DNI

Please Do Not Interact if your homophobic, TERF, ableist, racist (I am bi-racial), pro-contact/anti-contact MAP, or are a NSFW blog. (I have been gr**med in the past and have trauma from that.)

Tags

I will be tagging my personal/vent thoughts appropriately and with the tag #az thoughts

[sheriffslop]

Lop’s Shipping Discourse Statement !! ✨ ( TW ; Uncensored Mentions of Gr**ming / P*dophilia )

Just releasing this now, so there is less misconceptions about what I have said due to discourse lately. I’m in no way, calling anyone a predator for their ships, however, we have to understand that sometimes media imported from Japan is problematic in a sense, and I know, I know, I know that sometimes there are characters from various mangas, shows, games, etc. where the characters look young but they are legal adults.

I am a baby faced adult, however, I can fully say with confidence that while you personally aren’t a weird, disgusting creep, that doesn’t mean there aren’t any out there that do get drawn to media, using the reason that the character is legal to be creepy about certain aspects. I personally have been fetishized for looking young, even when I was a minor, and y’all have no idea how frequently I have heard statements such as “ I can’t wait until you’re legal “ - I literally had one of the men that groomed / assaulted me reach out not even two weeks after I turned eighteen, trying to get me to visit him states away without my family, that’s when I realized that it was over all an extremely wrong concept, especially since he still mentioned that I was pretty, asked if I still had braces ( something commonly worn on teenagers ). I don’t know what he was planning, but I know it wasn’t good. He wasn’t the only one to act this way towards myself as well. I’ve even had strange men approach me in public and immediately go with pickup lines talking about how “ young “ and “ innocent “ I look, and I know this sounds extreme and maybe even false, but I just want to explain why I have a stance that I do on this issue.

What I am saying is that when the age isn’t confirmed, and a lot of media from Japan has banked off of this concept, it’s a very dicey territory. You guys out there saying Yuma is a legal adult is whatever, it’s fine, for the most part, I’ve been joking, however, I can under that might not have seemed clear due to not using tone tags or being more explicit in the way I was speaking, and tone is always extremely hard to get across using text. For this, I apologize and I never wanted to make anyone feel uncomfortable in the fandom or make anyone feel as if I was directly calling them a predator. That was aggressive and uncalled for on my behalf, and I promise, I’m genuinely not a very hateful person, and those actions absolutely contradict with who I am. I want everyone to have fun here, enjoy being a part of the fandom on the internet, however, I also have my own boundaries concerning this sort of stuff, and I would like for us to reach a mutual understanding.

Just for my personal boundaries, I ask that nobody sends any ships involving Yuma and a confirmed adult in my inbox because it makes me uncomfortable personally, considering that I view him as a minor, and the game already puts him in situations and has him having discussions I find to be a bit icky already. This is more so because I have trauma relating to this sort of stuff and I would like my boundaries respected. I apologize again if I have violated or bullied anybody else over their views.

I’m definitely not saying to stop creating content, I still find the memes to be hilarious and everyone!s artwork thus far has been pretty good, and I’m glad to see people creating or consuming content that they enjoy, because that’s what being a fan is all about !! If your interpretation of Yuma is different than my own, then please, see it that way.

My issue isn’t with you, it’s with Kodaka, it’s with loli / shota bait, it’s with the passive sexualization of characterization belonging to minors, because I believe that it passively promotes the idea to objectify a minor in a light they don’t need to be objectified in. I hope you understand, just as I’m trying to be a bit more understanding with you all.

Regardless !! I appreciate the support and the feedback, I’ve had a ton of fun discussions and seen a lot of enjoyable content thus far. I don’t want anyone to give up, because this is basically the birthing stage of a fandom. Enjoy yourself, have fun, create and enjoy to your heart’s content. 💕✨🥂

[ashiology]

(tw mentions of gr—ming)

THIS. I was manipulated multiple times over my earlier teen years, which wasnt even that long ago now that i think about it. i was gr—med by one guy, and emotionally manipulated multiple times by another. this was around when my egg cracked and i started saying i was trans, and my parents were disappointed, i guess? they refused to use my name and preferred pronouns, and i was devastated. i got attached to those 2 guys who did use my preferred stuff, and they basically just fucked with me. luckily ive ditched them and know better people now.

consider: teenagers aren’t apathetic about everything they’re just used to you shitting all over whatever they show excitement about

[digitalterror-exe]

TW: meantions of multiple party abuse, tortvre, gr**ming and more.

Our egg doner had a network people who she used as informants. I don't believe they knew but often they were legally required to tell her stuff, that included outing us.

Our egg doner is our processor who also practiced anti trans conversation practices on us.

She would never prevent us from getting to harm how ever she would use information against when she wished to, we believed this was planned.

She and her enablers would convince me that if I ran away or attempted to leave that me or my sibling would be murdered, r*ped or assaulted and trafficked in someway or another. We would continuously be brought back to her.

She would psychologically tortvre us. Whether it would be pushing us into the the porch in our underwear whilst it was snowing or watching us scream in pain.

She also attempted to financially gr**m us, may have gr**med or let us be gr**med in other ways too.

She (unknowingly, I think,) conditioned a good few of my alters though extreme psychological abuse to hate me.

[transmasc-slykinnie]

Tee hee

[nxtheromoved]

the amount of k*kas*ku I am forcibly exposed to every time I enter the Sakura tag is disturbing and makes me want to scream