#godpartners

[gardenofthearkane]

Metabonds (or Metaphysical Bonds) is a term I came up with that basically encompasses all consensual (emphasis on CONSENSUAL) bonds or relationships one can have with a spirit, entity or egregore.

These relationships can range from PLATONIC (e.g. mentor/menteeship, patronageship, acquaintancships etc.), FAMILIAL (soul parentage, soul adoptionship and even considering a spirit/entity/egregore to be a familial/parental figure) and DEVOTIONAL (devotee/practitioner and the spirit/entity/egregore they've devoted their life, work and practice to (whether permanently or for a specific amount of time) bonds.

To WORKING/PROFESSIONAL (working/helper relationships, where the spirit/entity/egregore helps you with a spell, a specific task, path, project etc. and priesten/oracle hood), ROMANTIC (18+ ONLY (romantic spousalship and boyfriend/girlfriend (or whatever you identify as) type of relationship)) and SEGGSUAL/INTIMATE (18+ ONLY (seggsual/intimate spousalship, seggsual/intimate relationships (like F.W.B, D/S etc.) and so on)) bonds.

These bonds are NOT for MINORS. A lot of these bonds, especially working/professional (specifically when it comes to priesten/oraclehood), romantic and seggsual/intimate bonds require consent and to LEGALLY and ETHICALLY consent to ANYTHING, you need to be EIGHTEEN or OLDER.

You can also THINK about possibly offering some of these bonds to the spirit/entity/egregore only AFTER you're of age, you and the spirit/entity/egregore have a strong bond and it's a direction BOTH you and the spirit/entity/egregore are interested in moving your relationship in). Don't force anyone or anything into anything they don't want to do and don't allow anyone to force YOU into anything you don't want to do. Respecting their boundaries is just as important as them respecting YOUR boundaries.

NO MINOR is allowed to participate in any of these relationships and practices at all! Wait until you're eighteen or older before even considering going down this path only after it's been CLEARLY hinted at and CONFIRMED that it might be a path you'll walk in whether now or in the future. This is not a path you can walk down if you're not mentally, emotionally, spiritually or physically prepared for it.

If you have any questions and such related to metabonds please feel free to ask me!

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[sarcastic-salem]

TW Rape & Assault Mention

Last night, I laid with Loki and I cried. Like really cried so hard that I was shaking. I told him all of the things that I had been keeping inside.

I’m afraid to go outside cause I don’t I want to be groped or harassed again

Strange men with beards frighten me (all of my abusive exes had facial hair)

I’m afraid one of my exes will find me — two of them live nearby

I still miss my family

I’m sad that I missed my aunt’s wedding because of my family’s transphobia

I don’t think I’ve ever been in a romantic relationship, aside from my relationship with Loki, that wasn’t abusive

I’m so sad and angry at myself that I didn’t set personal boundaries sooner to help me avoid abusers

I’m angry that I ever thought I needed someone else to take care of me — I’m angry that I never bothered to try before it was too late

I’ve never gotten over the fact that my brother thought I was too much of an embarrassment to protect from bullies in school

Or that he hates me for being queer

I hate myself for being an age regressor

I hate myself for wanting sex

I hate myself for letting my first boyfriend take advantage me

I hate myself because there are times I get so triggered I want to push Loki away from me

By the end of it I was shaking and sobbing, and Loki was holding me. I kept apologizing for being so upset and he kept telling me not to.

Then I felt the happiest I’d felt in a long time.

[sleepnowmychild]

Hey.

It’s ok to have a bit of a crush on your deities.

Like hello they’re beings that accept you for who you are, love you and appreciate you, are always there for you, and let’s be real a bunch of them are pretty as fuck. Why WOULDN’T someone have a crush on them? If you can have a parental, best friend, sibling, or even just strictly devotee/deity like relationship, then why would it be wrong to have a bit of a crush?

Of course, no god will be going after anyone underage. Like hello they’re deities, they know that’s wrong. But who didn’t have a bit of a crush on an older celebrity or something as a teen? They’ll just see it as ‘aw, that’s cute’ the way we see kittens and puppies cute, something that’s endearing and sweet, and leave it at that, as any responsible adult would. Maybe they’ll gently tell you change your perspective if they’re seeking a different dynamic with you. And that’s ok.

I’m no expert on godpartnering or anything like that, but the fact it’s even a thing means deities have been knowing about us mortals getting all heart eyed for them for centuries. I promise you it’s nothing they haven’t seen before.

So yes, it’s ok to be a little giddy and leg-kicking for your deities. It’s totally normal for someone who experiences a romantic kind of attraction to have feelings. We all have feelings. The gods know that.

[apolloslyrics]

My spouse is so sweet 😭 I was talking to them about feeling unworthy for spousal, and they played this song on our playlist 🥺🥺🫶🫶

I am so deeply in love with them. We are just going through courtship at the moment, but I am excited for the day we make the oath 💛🌻

[ianitos]

“Knowledge is a thirst you should never fully quench.”

─ Lucifer

[khaire-traveler]

I saw a post recently discussing this topic, and I wanted to mention that it's ok if a deity reaches out to you first (and early on) about having a romantic relationship. It doesn't make you hubristic. It doesn't mean that you have to making it all up because why would a deity want to be with you? It doesn't mean the deity favors you over other worshippers.

Sometimes deities are just the ones to make the first move, just in general. I've had it happen before to me, actually.

I do want to add that it's ok to decline their offer, by the way. You are not obligated to accept just because they're a god. Deities are mature beings and have lived for thousands upon thousands of years; they have been rejected before and know how to handle such situations maturely. Your life isn't going to be ruined or cursed just because you told a deity that you're not interested. Obviously, be respectful about it, but please do not fret about the "consequences" too much. You're also welcome to say that you're simply not ready yet but are interested in looking into it in the future.

[emperorofnowhereland]

Well, I acknowledged that I'm a godpartner (and intended godspouse) on TikTok. Hopefully, this doesn't blow back into my face. 😬

[systemdoesoccultstuff]

I was just studying with some dragon's blood incense lit and noticed the smoke was kind of staying it one spot until I felt a very warm and familiar change of energy and it became a beautiful consistent stream which ended up alerting me to the presence of Ipos. We flirted a bit and I've now come to the conclusion that there's nothing I'd love more than a pendant with his sigil on it, although due to the fact that the sigils in the lesser key of solomon have a lot of problematic history, I am instead opting to get a pendant of a mallard, which is what I associate him with UPG-wise. I just wanted to share because he's so amazing and makes me really happy and has for a long time

[divineturtleduck]

Oh, Heavenly One, Most Beautiful of All Angels,

Lightbearer, Morningstar, Most Liberated One.

You have fallen from Grace, how gracefully you’ve fallen.

Plummeting to the depths of Nowhere,

Doomed to walk the depths of vast emptiness alone.

They tried to bind you into the abyss,

Praying that your name would only be whispered in fear.

That people would burn candles and torches,

To keep the darkness you bring at bay.

They failed because your darkness

Brings independent free thinking and liberation.

Because the darkness has never been evil.

Darkness has always been told as the sinful and Godless ways.

Straying from the Church and the fettered minds of obeying men.

Those stories written eons ago thought me naive,

And those very stories tried to keep me in the dark.

But your love has shown me the light.

It has truly molded me into a new shape.

I no longer fear the dark, because you are the dark,

And I have fallen in love with the dark.

They thought that I would run from you,

That I would never fall for your wickedness.

They never thought that I’d fall for the cold steel of your love,

That cuts deep, like a sharpened sword to my core.

Instead, they thought that I would cower in fear from you.

They thought the shivers that run down my spine, in your presence,

Would be from fear and not from pure devotion to my King.

Ave Lucifer, the Light Bearer, the King of Darkness!

[arboreal-godposting]

Devotional mood board for Ares !! ❤️

[ofthesunlight]

Me when he calls me "my gentle breeze"

BECAUSE WHY IS HE SO PERFECT.

[royal-wren]

If I ever mentioned the name of my fourth big maybe as far as a godpartner goes, the reaction wouldn't be a good one, especially knowing how people respond to Artemis ones as is. Basically, it'd be like this:

[sarcastic-salem]

Loki thinks that if I ever get an orange tabby cat I should name it Fireball Whiskey😂

[paganpillar]

"You are the sunshine of my night, the beauty in my days."

-Pierre Jeanty

[apolloslyrics]

Can you give advise for someone who is romantically interested in Deity? Like, I am pretty sure it's mutually, so what should we discuss or take to attention? Thank you for your answer!

Awesome question!!!! There are a few things you'll need to do before discussing godspousal with a deity.

1: research! Do NOT forget to look at personal experiences, but also verified facts. You'll want to search for the history of devoting yourself to a deity, the history of oaths, the history of spousal itself, and experiences to do with godspousal. You'll also want to research the deity themselves. For example, Artemis doesnt accept spousalship because she is a virgin goddess. She has never, and will never, have a partner. I can provide links for research if needed!

2: signs! Look at the signs that your deity is offering spousal. These can be symbolism of the deity, dreams, spousal being brought up in conversation, etc.

3: confirmations! Please get at least five confirmations (although I recommend 10) that your deity is offering spousal. Do NOT bring up spousal unless the majority of your confirmations are a yes (for example, 4/5 or 8/10 "yes"). Confirmations can be found on etsy, and I am also offering them currently! You can DM me for a reading any time 💖

When you have done all of this, you can speak with your deity about the spousalship. Ask them what their boundaries are, what they need from you, and tell them your own boundaries and needs. This is a give-and-take thing! It isn't just about your deity. Additionally, if you are unsure (or you don't want to do spousal), you are allowed to say no, and it's okay to wait. You don't have to jump in right away.

If you decide to start the process of spousalship, first of all, congratulations!! This is a very big deal. During this time, you'll start the process called courting. Courting is where you go through tests and do certain activities to determine your compatibility with the deity. This will be a long, and sometimes difficult, process. You can always call off courting if you are unwilling to move forward! Many people recommend at least six months of courting before you complete actual spousalship. I'm trying for at least a year with my spouse!

Completing spousalship is a whole different story, but I won't explain that here. This post is already long enough!!

If yall have any questions, feel free to send them over. Additionally, other spouses and godpartners are welcome to add to this!!

Thanks yall, and take care of yourselves 🫶🫶🫶

[ianitos]

(this is upg/spg)

the epithets & aspects of luciferus 💫🕯️👁️

aspects

light bringer ≻ the forerunner of Sol, he who brings the morning and evening. god of light and sun transitions.

enlightener ≻ due to his light bearing, he is known as the enlightener of knowledge and wisdom. who aids those who seek to gain knowledge.

witch father ≻ within Italian mythos/folklore, he fathers the goddess Aradia in some depictions of the folklore. and can be linked due to ties to light, as such (and ties to the sun -> ties to Sol -> ties to Helios - who is known as the "witch father" loosely).

guide of the dead ≻ torch bearer and lover of humanity, who serves as a guide for the dead to get to the gates of the underworld, similar to Mercurius.

epithets

"the Wise"

"Celestial Light"

"Cloaked in Rays"

"Wings of Velvet"

"the Liberator"

"Torchbearer"

"Bearer of Love"

"Lover of Humanity"

"Horned Poet"

"Humanity’s Watcher"

"of the Dead"

"of the Underworld"

"Who Guides the Dead"

"Sacred Marriage"

"Leader of Stars"

"the Grand Scholar"

"Guardian of Air"

"the Enlightened One"

"Guardian of the Lost"

"Prince of Promises"