#godly marriage

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[daytimeromantic]

we are designed by god to fulfil our purpose.

my purpose as a woman is to comfort, nurture and, create a family that is lead by jesus.

my (future) husbands purpose is to provide, lead and, show our children what a godly man looks like.

different does not mean unequal. men and women have different purposes and i want my life to reflect that. god bless you all.

[ladyhearthkeeper]

What I love the most of our marriage is how we both wake up together to pray.

Prayer is at the centre of our marriage.

[true-anr]

A Godly marriage and breastfeeding. It's what God made your breasts for.

First I want to clear up some misconceptions of what ANR is.

Adult nursing (ANR), Adult breastfeeding (ABR or ABF) are all umbrella terms. The simplest way to understand ANR is, any time the breasts are orally stimulated by another adult. The couple is engaged in some form of ANR. Whether or not she is lactating.

The number one reason most people are into ANR is for intimacy. They also find it as excellent way to reduce stress, anxiety and depression. Some women get into ANR as a way to reduce breast cancer risks. yes! There is research that proves this. You can find it by searching for "benefits of breastfeeding" and "benefits of stimulating the breasts".

Though in theory, a woman doesn't have to be lactating to have some of the advantage of this. But a lactating woman will have by far the greatest risk reduction and benefits.

Some get into ANR as a way to help reduce and manage weight. Most breastfeeding women do loose weight. The idea is that a lactation woman burns between 300 to 700 calories per day. Though I personally think it's more of the placebo and lifestyle change that helps them.

Some are into it as a sexual alternative like those with ED or other sexual issues. Even as a form of abstinence.

When a new mother is having trouble bringing in the milk. Some doctors and lactation consultants will suggest that the father finish orally draining the breasts after the baby is done. Same goes for relieving clogged ducts.

Those of us in ANR find that ANR also preps the breasts for a new baby. Making breastfeeding a lot easier. This is because the breasts are use to being orally stimulated. The milk comes in easier and is less painful. Though there is some caution on this as well. Because too much stimulation can cause premature labor.

There are a lot of emotional benefits as well. Such as, some use it as a way to cope with stress, depression and anxiety.

People get into ANR for a lot of other reasons and a lot of other benefits.

If you are in to the bible. ANR is even in the bible. Proverbs Songs of Solomon Isaiah

This shows ANR has been around for a vary long time and is normal.

There are those who get into ANR with some fetishes such as Lactophilia or infantilism. This is what media likes to make people think ANR is. To be clear. ANR in itself is not a fetish. It is two adults expressing affection and intimacy for each other in there own way. But people like to assume Lactophilia or infantilism is ANR. They are not! But some of those people use ANR as a part of there fetish.

You can learn more about ANR by searching: understanding adult breastfeeding relationships and for Christians Christian adult breastfeeding relationships

Hope this helps True.

[holystormfire]

What are some ways to stop and decimate lukewarmness in your walk with God? Check this.

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How do I stay interested while reading the Bible?

[littlemissjesus]

This is what I’m looking for 🤍

[lionhearttt]

“If God gave us a spouse that met our every condition we wouldn’t learn how to love unconditionally.” - Preston Perry

[aniah-who]

Dear wives, this month, we're going to make it our goal to better nurture our husbands. What exactly does that look like?

1. Being his number one encouragement.

Let's focus on building up our man rather than on tearing him down with our words. Our tongues truly do hold the power of life and death, meaning that the words that we choose to speak actually do matter. And believe me, I know It's easy to focus on all of the things that he does wrong, but may we be encouraged to instead reflect on all of the things that he does right and give him praise for those things. Godly and Spirit-led men are likely striving to do their absolute best to make us happy and we shouldn't be so hard on them. Where there is room for complaining, there is just as much room for grace.

2. Fixing the mood before he comes home.

A lot of the time, we can't control the negative circumstances around us and as a result, our mood will evidently take a plummet. This is completely okay. What isn't okay, however, is being comfortably okay with giving our husbands the not-so-best versions of ourselves. I can guarantee you that after working 8+ hours in an undesirable environment, hubby looks forward to coming home and unwinding. He goes out habitually for long periods of time to give pieces of himself away so that there is a roof over our heads and food on the table. The man deserves to relax; and what better way is there to aid him in that capacity than by welcoming and greeting him with a warm presence that encourages him to be at ease? Our mood is what will set the tone for the rest of the night. We can either choose to end the night with great quality time with our husbands, or we can choose to allow us both go to bed grumpy.

3. Fixing the tone.

Passive-aggression is real, and though we may not necessarily say the wrong things, it can be so easy for us to say the right things in the wrong manner. Attitude, sass, and sarcastic remarks can all deeply discourage communication from our husbands. When we speak to him carelessly, we disregard his feelings and that can really cut into his dignity. Colossians 4:6 reminds us, "Let your speech be always with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to answer every man." We should be more careful to speak to our husbands with respect as Jesus specifically commands us, wives, to respect our husbands (Ephesians 5:33). And for the times when we will get feisty, because there will definitely be times, we should simply humble ourselves and be quick to apologize. Humility is not only life-changing, but is also marriage-changing.

4. Letting him know that he’s respected.

This goes hand-in-hand with how we choose to speak to our husbands. We know that our words are important, but they should always be backed by our actions- after all, it's our actions that speak louder. We have to be willing to submit to our husbands. When our husbands tell us to do something, our heart's posture should be to respond with obedience. When he discourages an action- maybe he's wanting us to not wear certain clothing or maybe he doesn't want us splurging, or whatever the case may be- we shouldn't be quick to put up a fight with him. Instead, we should be gentle and simply comply. When we submit ourselves to our husbands, we are submitting ourselves unto the Lord; because just as Christ is the head over the church, our husbands our the head over us. The church is designed to be subjected to Jesus; likewise, wives, we are designed to be subjected to our husbands in everything (Ephesians 5:22-24).

[yeslordmyking]

1 Corinthians 7:4-5 — Today's Verse for Thursday, July 4, 2024

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[lazywhispersobject]

[daytimeromantic]

reasons why i think my husband should lead my family:

1. the bible says so (Ephesians 5:22-24, Colossians 3:19) and, the job of the husband is to do this out of love for his wife, and how Christ loves the Church

2. i want him too! its something that i completely consent and agree to.

3. a “modern” relationship does not create a 50:50 split of work for the woman. a woman ends up doing more work!

[iamrubyjanerabaca]

2023.7.23 Dates

Never got used to dates. In any form of dates. But today was a date to remember. My husband and I went on a date online. His dinner time, my lunch time. It’s one of my core memory now. I am truly grateful for my husband taking initiative on having this date. Dressed up (kinda) and got food delivered, of course he paid for my food (something I’m still not used to). I thank God for allowing us to spend this time together. More than 2 months into marriage and counting. The best is yet to come for both of us.

Letters to my husband.

Moises,

My dearest love. Time flies so fast but everything still feels like the same when we first met. My love for you has grown each day, regardless of time and distance. Today, I appreciate you so much for making time for our date. It’s still surreal that we are now passed 2 months of our marriage. Thank you for everything you do for us and thank you for always having faith in us and in our Lord Jesus Christ. May our Lord continue to bless this marriage as we move forward and may we continue to seek God and put him in the center of our lives and in our marriage. Thank you for making me feel a priority. Thank you for having me in your life. Thank you for the privilege you have given me as your wife. You may call me your half but I pray for you to be whole in Christ. I cannot be your half, I am whole in Christ. I’m not perfect but I am made perfect by my imperfections, I wouldn’t be the wife that I am today if it weren’t because of the imperfections. May we continue to be one in Christ as the days go. As promised in our vows, I will always choose to stay the same way God stayed in my life. I love you and I cannot wait to be in your arms again. I miss you so much.

Always and forever,

RJRAS

[lyzawrites]

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[akinsola]

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