#funeral services directors

[globalindeed]

Answering Quick Questions Related To Funeral Etiquettes

The funeral is always the most complicated event to attend as people are often unsure and clueless about funeral etiquette and several other things like attendance, condolences, gifts, attire, etc. Experts in funeral services can guide you, and the fact is that funeral services directors are always on standby to answer all your questions related to funeral etiquette to help you stay organic and comfortable at the event. Some common questions you can ask funeral services directors about funeral etiquette are reviewed here.

WHAT IS THE RIGHT TIME TO ARRIVE AT FUNERAL SERVICES?

Arriving half an hour earlier than the scheduled time is always a good idea as you will have enough time to park your vehicle comfortably, make some quick updates on your look and attire and join the service by selecting the appropriate seating and settling yourself.

WHAT DO I DO WHEN I ARRIVE A FUNERAL?

As you enter the funeral venue, the first step is to sign the condolence book if the funeral services directors provide it. You must put your name there and remember it is not an autograph. You must also leave a quick condolence message of a maximum of one or two sentences, including your name and explaining your connection with the deceased.

WHAT TO SAY TO PEOPLE AT FUNERAL SERVICES?

It is always challenging to determine the right words to say to those already sad and grieving. However, offering compassion and grief is necessary, and the most straightforward messages you can convey are presented below.

Some simple phrases of comfort include:

I’M SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.

YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS.

YOU ARE IN MY PRAYERS.

HE/SHE WAS A WONDERFUL PERSON.

I WILL MISS HIM/HER.

THIS MUST BE HARD FOR YOU.

I AM HERE FOR YOU.’

WHERE SHOULD I SIT AT THE EVENT?

This is a crucial point, and you must be very careful about this as most front rows are reserved for immediate family members and closest relatives or friends. Close friends are seated behind the family, and work colleagues are on the backside. You can determine your relationship with the deceased and select suitable seating before the event begins.

WHAT ABOUT CLICKING SOME PHOTOGRAPHS AT THE FUNERAL EVENT?

It is generally considered insensitive to click photographs or selfies at the funeral event. Funeral service directors recommend refraining from clicking images and, particularly, selfies at the funeral ceremony.

[morbid-critter]

Alright so I’ve wanted to say this for awhile and it is actually my primary reason for creating this account lol. Just to clarify first though, I love horror, and more importantly I love unrealistic horror so please take everything I say with a grain of salt and do not think I’m trying to tell anyone how to write as that is not the case, I simply am really interested in this kinda thing and believe in the sharing of knowledge.

Anyways,

Embalmed bodies don’t really rot.

Embalming is the preservation of the body by replacing the blood with embalming solution and some formaldehyde, it makes the body a unfavourable food or nutrient source for any kind of bug or microorganisms which would cause decomposition.

If someone in your story is dead and you want them to be a rotting corpse then most realistically they’d have had a direct burial since embalmed body’s arnt supposed to decompose and typically if there was an open casket an embalming would have had to have taken place.

Again this does not mean you have to change your story or how you write in anyway at all, just wanted to share the reality for anyone interested.

-<3

[beyond-the-casket]

Hi, I'm Linds. I am 24 years old and currently enrolled with Mid-America College of Funeral Service. I am studying to obtain my Associates in Applied Science with the focus of Mortuary Science. I am a funeral directing apprentice working toward licensure in funeral directing, embalming, and cremation.

I am a lover of all things macabre. I am a horror enthusiast and love to watch and read anything related to horror. I align myself with the goth community and love everything dark. I created this blog to share my experiences in the funeral business, fun and interesting facts on death and the death industry, my love of graveyards, gothic and macabre art, aesthetics, etc.

If you have mutual interests or want to start a conversation, I am always open to making new friends!

Blessed be, lovelies!🖤

[the-other-aenor]

Since I begin my Funeral Services Education degree journey tomorrow, I felt I needed a fitting background for my laptop.

(And yes, I did add a little Caitlin Doughty too, because I am doing it for her too)

HQ transparent version of the Simpsons meme by mooncakephel on Twitter.

@flanaganfilm

[thebean-17]

Those in the funeral industry, what could you say to someone who wants to work in funeral services or wishes to be an embalmer, or to someone outside the field?

[daring-marionette]

not a kinpost but

OH MY GOD THE NEW SIMS 4 LIFE AND DEATH PACK HAS FUNERAL SERVICE AND MORTICIAN CAREER PATHS IM GOING TO CREAAMMMMMMMMMMMM

[womb-complex]

somebody explain the difference between mortuary science and funeral services because my state only offers the latter

[coffinup]

This is a silly question but is there a big difference in who gets buried with shoes on? My younger sister was buried barefoot and the funeral home didnt even ask about socks or shoes. The ones my uncle and grandpa were served at definitely were. I asked a funeral home worker girlfriend about it and she said yeah, women are buried barefooted way more than men, especially at younger ages. Is that real?

I think families bring shoes for men more because men are typically buried in suits and have corresponding shoes that go with that suit, with women’s outfits I think families don’t think about it as much because women tend to mix and match shoes with outfits more, unless that particular woman had a pair of shoes she loved and always wore. But that’s just my personal speculation, I definitely get people asking if they should bring shoes, and the answer is always that it’s up to them, since in an open casket, the lower legs aren’t even seen, and surprisingly a lot of the times people don’t bother bringing shoes for that reason. A funeral home will put whatever clothing the family provided on the deceased and don’t purposefully leave things out. The only thing i can think of where that would happen is if someone was exceptionally tall and removing their shoes helped them fit in the casket.

Some people prefer to keep their female loved one’s shoes, especially if they fit someone living. I think an important thing to keep in mind too is that priorities vary wildly from family to family. I have many people who feel like it’s only dignified to have their loved one fully dressed, shoes and all, while others would much rather keep as many of their loved one’s things as possible and see burying stuff as a waste. And both are valid feelings!

If it makes you feel better, I have very rarely found people to be buried “barefoot” in the strict sense. We almost always put stocking hose or socks on them. The funeral homes I have worked at always have a supply of extra underwear and foot coverings for the very reason of a family forgetting or choosing not to bring anything. If being buried in your shoes is something that is important to you, mention it on your advance directive/living will!

As a final note, I’m very sorry for the loss of your younger sister and if the thought of her without her shoes upset you. Again, i don’t know if it’s any consolation, but I guarantee the funeral home put socks or stockings on her at the very least.

I think it’s an interesting question and something I didn’t give much thought to before so thank you for bringing it up! I always like hearing these questions because it gives me perspective, so I really appreciate it.

Much love, and As always,

Memento Mori

[businesspikuk]

Honoring Memories: The Importance of Headstone Services

Headstones serve as enduring symbols of remembrance, providing a tangible link to our loved ones long after they have passed away. These solemn markers not only identify the final resting place of the deceased but also serve as a testament to their life and legacy. As such, selecting the right headstone and engaging in thoughtful headstone services is a crucial part of the grieving process.

Headstone services offer families the opportunity to personalize the memorialization of their loved one in a meaningful and lasting way. From choosing the design and materials of the headstone to selecting inscriptions and artwork that capture the essence of the deceased, these services allow families to create a fitting tribute that reflects the unique personality and significance of their loved one.

Moreover, headstones serve as a source of comfort and solace for grieving families, providing a physical space for remembrance and reflection. Visiting the gravesite and seeing the headstone can evoke cherished memories and offer a sense of connection to the departed, helping loved ones navigate through their grief and find healing in the process.

In addition to their emotional significance, headstones also play a practical role in preserving the memory of the deceased for future generations. By marking the gravesite with a durable and well-crafted headstone, families ensure that their loved one's legacy will endure for years to come, allowing future generations to pay their respects and honor their memory.

In conclusion, headstone services play a vital role in the grieving process, offering families the opportunity to create a lasting tribute to their loved one's life and legacy. By engaging in thoughtful headstone services, families can find comfort, closure, and a sense of peace as they navigate through the difficult journey of loss and remembrance.

[mortuarymorticia]

how long have you been studying mortuary science? i'm thinking about going into it, but i don't have any experience...

hi there! i’m loving all these mortuary questions. thank you for coming to me!

so, my background is in thanatology, the more psychological side of death & grieving with an emphasis on addiction & queer bereavement but before i started that path, i was an early educator for almost eight years.

you don’t need experience to start in this field. this is my third year of classes. i would say that within the first year of being a student, i’d try to get into a prep room at your local funeral home to observe a service & an embalming because this field isn’t for everyone & yes, it really smells & can be super gross. but it’s also really interesting & rewarding.

experiment & find ur passion!

[morbid-critter]

Hey, so I know a lot of people are scared of being buried alive out there (fun fact: it’s the reason Cremation started to be considered again after Christianity) and I’m honestly not sure how many people this will actually help but just in case, i wanted to assure you that the chances of you being buried alive are so incredibly slim. And I will now just list some reasons for those curious.

-if you are being buried, you may also likely be embalmed which is not something someone could survive quite honestly.

-even if you weren’t embalmed, lots of the time you will still be given a kind of bath, just the way that is often conducted, I have a hard time believing they wouldn’t notice if you were still alive.

-even a direct burial takes a few days to process usually, so I feel like you’d probably have time to wake up before then

-I don’t know if any of this helps, I just really hope I can make yall understand that the chances of you being buried alive are very much not likely.

[corpsecollegeattendee]

heyheyhey i made a new blog because at the beginning on the summer, after my freshman year of college i have gotten myself a job assisting in a cremetory/cemetery and i am bursti g with so many thoughts on the death industry and things i see all the time and i want to tell people. naturally starting it so close to the end of the summer where ill have to stop working there to attend classes again so i will probably tell a lot of stories in retrospect but i think its all really cool and i have already told everyone i know and want to tell more people. i will probably also talk a lot about me but i feel like my personal experience will interect with how i perceive everything i see so i think its all relavent (this is also to say this is casual and not serious but i think its all really cool. and since im talking about things like my work and school ill probably be excluding my name at least for now) and ill post when i find the time. might also throw some poetic shit in here because i have a lot of throughts.

but as an intro on me a little better; im 18, 1/3 of my way through a 3-1 (wich for me is 2-1 bc of credit stuff) program between a performing arts college and a mortuary college. im on the east coast and dont live anywhere’s near where i grew up since im a state away for college, i currently work at a cemetery/cremetory that ive been working at all summer and work consists of just me and my boss cremating and cleaning with occasional cemetery tasks (but 97% is in the cremetory) but its just us. any people coming to be cremated are dropped off and picked up so we do not deal with families really but we work with a few funeral homes and a direct cremation service. since im still in college im not liscenced or anything and i dont know everything yet but im learning a lot and at this point i know how all the things kinda work to make a cremetory run.

i have like a huge facination on just about everything death, i think it comes as a facet of a greater facination i have on trying to learn everything human and how we kinda of work (i promise im not an alien in a human suit, i just think its fun to think of people and myself as just really convoluted apes and i think its fun to put together different ideas that can be studied or experiencedto put together a picture of what its like to be a person in hundred of ways (and i do think im drawn to death as it is one of the most universal parts of this experience and also tied to a lot of things we do in life) but like it also means i think that like anthropology/linguistics/polotical theory/history/ect is interesting) and i have a lot of big thoughts on it but ive written papers about it so those are too big for this intro.

im historically bad at keeping any sort of ial media presence whatsoever so i hope i do stick with using this. but dont be afraid to ask questions!! ask so many questions!! id be a terrible magician bc my favorite thing is revealing my secrets!!!!

[jalattes]

walking out of a funeral home to 99% totality today was another incredible eclipse experience

[hetheringtonfuneralsperth]

Pre-Planning Your Funeral in Perth: A Comprehensive Guide

In the face of life’s uncertainties, pre-planning your funeral has become an increasingly popular and practical choice. By taking charge of your final arrangements, you not only alleviate the burden on your loved ones during an already challenging time but also ensure that your wishes are honored. If you reside in Perth, Western Australia, there are several crucial aspects to consider when pre-planning your funeral, from choosing a funeral home and director to exploring innovative services such as live telecasts and eco-friendly options.

Choosing the Right Funeral Home:

Selecting the right funeral home is a pivotal first step in the pre-planning process. In Perth, Hetherington Funerals stands out as a reputable and compassionate choice for individuals looking to make their final arrangements. With a long-standing tradition of providing dignified services, Hetherington Funerals offers a range of options to suit diverse preferences and cultural needs.

Funeral Services in Perth:

When pre-planning your funeral in Perth, it’s essential to explore the various services offered by Hetherington Funerals. Traditional funerals, personalized ceremonies, and even eco-friendly options are available to cater to different preferences.

Live Telecast of Funerals:

One innovative service offered by Hetherington Funerals is the live telecast of funerals. In an age where physical attendance may not always be possible, especially considering global events, the option to broadcast funeral services online ensures that friends and family can participate from anywhere in the world. This feature can be especially meaningful for those who wish to include distant loved ones in their final farewell.

To facilitate the live telecast of funerals, Hetherington Funerals employs advanced technology to ensure a seamless and respectful experience for both in-person attendees and virtual participants. By opting for this service, individuals can strengthen the sense of connection among their family and friends, even in times of physical separation.

Eco-Friendly Urns and Funerals:

For those with a commitment to environmental sustainability, Hetherington Funerals provides eco-friendly urns and funeral options. The eco-friendly urns offered by the funeral home are crafted from materials that have minimal impact on the environment. These urns are not only a symbolic representation of a commitment to sustainability but also a tangible way to contribute to a greener future.

Moreover, Hetherington Funerals extends its eco-friendly approach to entire funeral services. Families can opt for environmentally conscious funeral arrangements that include biodegradable materials, sustainable practices, and reduced carbon footprints. Choosing an eco-friendly funeral is a thoughtful way to leave a positive legacy while honoring personal values.

The Role of a Funeral Director:

A crucial aspect of pre-planning a funeral is selecting a reputable and experienced funeral director in Perth. In Perth, Hetherington Funerals takes pride in its team of dedicated funeral directors who guide families through the entire process with empathy and professionalism. These directors play a pivotal role in ensuring that the pre-planned arrangements align with the individual’s wishes and cultural considerations.

The funeral director at Hetherington Funerals takes on the responsibility of coordinating various aspects of the funeral, including logistics, documentation, and liaising with other service providers. Their expertise is invaluable in ensuring that the funeral proceeds smoothly, allowing family and friends to focus on remembering and celebrating the life of their loved one.

Pre-planning your funeral in Perth is a thoughtful and considerate decision that provides peace of mind for both you and your loved ones. Choosing Hetherington Funerals as your partner in this process ensures access to a range of services, from traditional ceremonies to innovative options like live telecasts and eco-friendly choices.

As you embark on the journey of pre-planning, take the time to explore the offerings of Hetherington Funerals and discuss your preferences with their compassionate team. By making these decisions in advance, you not only ensure that your final wishes are honored but also provide comfort to those who will one day celebrate your life.

[i-meticulous4life]

I-meticulous4life pet

We sometimes see support dogs and cats at funerals home and/or funeral services. Other times I see an escorted beloved pet of the deceased attending the funeral service and burial.

Should a pet of the deceased be allowed are the funeral service?

How would you handle the request?

[misericordae]

Just wanted to say that I so appreciate what you do. When my grandma passed when I was a kid we saw her pretty soon after she died and it was kind of rough. She was already very sick and it had been a really horrible night for right up until the end and you could tell.

But I remember she had an open casket funeral and they were able to make her look like herself again and it was really nice to have that be my last memory of seeing her. Even like two decades later I still really appreciate having that memory.

oh thank you so much! i'm glad you had such a good experience with your grandma's funeral. that's exactly what i try to do - make the deceased look as good & like themselves as i can. (whether that's like, using a photo to match hair & makeup, or more involved reconstruction.) there's actually a phrase used in the industry to describe what you want the families to get out of a viewing - memory-picture! you want to provide the best possible memory-picture for the last time the family sees their loved one. making people look good is genuinely my favorite part of the job because of how much it means 💝