#fuckin sucks

[freefolkfightorflight]

Lol someone took a photo of me (first time in prob decades) and I fucking hate the photo but love the sentiment 🙈🥰

[optimisticlucio]

hi, would you share sources on HeritagePosts supporting Russia and North Korea? i'd be thankful

Sure thing. I’m currently on my phone and they blocked me, so I can’t pull up their russia posting (if anyone else can I’d appreciate it), but I do have a screenshot of them posting North Korea propaganda films and tagging it like this:

To those unaware, DPRK stands for the Democratic People’s Republic of Korea, AKA North Korea. If you didn’t hear this acronym before, it’s because the only people who use this term are North Korea apologists.

Generally these apologists tend to also be apologists for any authoritarian state deemed “communist/socialist” and “not-western”; aka a tankie. I avoided the term until now because any buzzword usage makes people react with preconceived notions but - that’s what they are. They are what the term “Tankie” refers to in the modern day.

[not-eli]

I lost two kilogrammes in less than a week.

I fucking knew it was worth it.

[areyousanta]

There's nothing quite like a Catholic mother making you feel guilty for eating breakfast

[werewyrms]

It feels gross that abandoned art blogs are going to have their work harvested by AI because their owners aren't around to "opt out" or nightshade/glaze their posts :(

[howlingdemon13]

the only thing worse than debilitating sadness is the inability to express it through art and just becoming a horrible concoction of grief-stricken and frustrated.

[a-library-of-old]

Aight yall, lost my virginity to covid which means ima be answering reqs a lot faster (hopefully) but they'll be more unhinged! So be warned :D

[maraoke]

[wings-of-flying]

acid reflux my beloathed. my detested. my abhorred. my hated. my- i think you get the point

[tarukorhohen]

YES

On twitter I’m seeing dozens of threads from Black activists warning people against burnout, giving all sorts of useful tips about preventing and managing it for the sake of a long-term, sustainable effort.

On tumblr I’m seeing a hell of a lot of young white kids yelling at anyone who actually follows those steps, and acting like burnout is a moral falling rather than a well-proven psychological phenomenon.

Be careful who you get your information from. Don’t let guilt lead you to make choices that will harm both you and the movement.

[feather-and-roses]

Just started bawling my eyes out at work cuz my PMDD is getting the best of me and my elderly coworker yelled at my manager until he let me clock out early. It's times like these that I hold onto to remind myself that I am not as alone as I feel. She fought for me knowing nothing more than that I was struggling.

[marcholasmoth]

OSRR: 3668

of the drafts and things i've wanted to say to my friend over the last few days, i finally figured out how to say it best:

when i was in elementary school, the guidance counselors taught us ten-year-olds about conflict resolution. they taught us the importance of not blaming other people for our emotions and the importance of being able to explain ourselves and take accountability for our own feelings. they taught us how to use "i-statements."

that's what i used.

i sat at work and typed for a while to figure out how to best word things. i got it all out in simple sentences, very direct, very precise. and i was able to send it.

instead of feeling anxious and upset, i've been calm and at ease all day. it's now up to her. and i think she'll be able to see what it is that i mean. or at least i hope so.

but that remains to be seen - i told her to take some time to process and think it all through, like i did. so i'll hear from her later.

tw: period nonsense next

but the rest of the day was decent. minus more pain. it's been miserable. and the more pain i end up in, the more my body rejects the reality that it's suffering for no reason.

it gets SO MAD that there isn't a fucking baby. it gets SO MAD that there isn't a hefty dicking happening. it gets SO MAD and it gives me the "tits out" pep talk like it wants me to end up fucked out and pregnant.

the extreme pain is the ONLY time that's a "priority," which it really even isn't a priority, it's a thing that the hormones demand, which is both an interesting proposition and one of the last things i want to deal with lmao.

i hate it.

the rest of the day was decent. i have started to give out the little manta rays i got to random people. i was able to give one to the man who collects the trash every day. "este es para usted," i remembered to say. "gracias, corazón," he replied, with a great big smile. what a sweet man. i hope he had a nice evening.

i went to olive garden for dinner. i gave a bunch of them out while there. i definitely needed the comfort food. damn.

but it was a good day.

joel is downstairs and it's time for me to go to sleep, but i hope he comes in so i can cuddle with him. the worst part of the day is having to leave him in bed as i get up for the day. i just wanna stay there with him. boo.

[solarapplejuice]

no but it's actually funny and by funny i mean not funny at all and really sad. i can't relate as hard cuz i lurk a lot and am too shy / busy to interact with online communities as much as i used to, that combined with the fact that i don't explicitly mention being transfemme in my bio means that i just haven't had the first-hand experience of the TMA/TME conflict. but i trust all of the cooler transfemmes i follow when they talk about it, and this doesn't change that trust at all or make it more valid than it already was, but it is crazy to get my first real sense of "oh shit this is fucking happening" when the CEO is going out of his way to make an ass of himself just to misgender one poor girl. in what universe does TUMBLR of all places become the most unsafe place for trans women? it should be twitter or fucking instagram, hell the very first threads advert i got recommended to me was of blatant transphobia. but i don't think any major social media yet has went out of its way to directly target and nuke transfemme blogs, embarass the women who run them, and threaten to call the cops? this photo mutt dude makes elon look like a hero to trans girlies everywhere. anyway, like i said! my discord is the same as my url 0u0 please add me first i am shy

[a-stone-slab]

You idiots. the Pacific Coast SOUNDS nice, but the people here are so mean you’d want to live literally anywhere else, no matter how good the political climate is here.

[assfuckmcgriddle]

i named this dog Danny Brown

[maraoke]