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This shit pisses me the fuck off.
I sent another anon about this a few days ago, but there has been a slight update before it's posted.
So, for whatever reason, my boss wanted all of us employees to submit our availability for Thanksgiving/Black Friday week specifically. I thought this was odd, since this is retail and those are typically blackout days, but I know an opportunity when I see one. So I submitted an availability form that's almost exactly the same as my normal availability, except I put "not available" for the entire day of Black Friday.
I didn't do this purely as a dick move (maybe like 20%) but because my manager is an absolute moron and a failure as a manager and cannot schedule coverage to save her life. I worked the Wednesday before Thanksgiving and she scheduled 2 people total to cover the entire store. We easily had 80+ people per hour. It was madness. She also should be steadily increasing coverage as we get closer and closer to the holidays, because literally anyone who knows anything about retail knows we're approaching the busiest time of the year.
So I was able to put 2 and 2 together and (accurately) predict that she would not properly schedule coverage for Black Friday and it would be a total shitshow. And I wanted nothing to do with that, so when submitting my Black Friday availability, I said I was unavailable all day Black Friday. Just to protect myself.
Now I'm assuming that my prediction was correct, because now she's trying to get me to come in today (Friday) when I am fully unavailable all day today. Too bad. I have pictures of the sign you made asking us to submit our Thanksgiving week availability, as well as a picture of my availability form before I turned it in and I have the carbon copy of it. I know what I said. Obviously you don't, but that's not my problem.
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Why do people who post mcyt clips always chose a random ass part of the fucking video to put an audio description for it’s always so misleading and annoying to think there’s actually a transcript for a small clip and then it’s actually a minute long video..
#stupid snake talk#sometimes the scentences they choose to fucking take aren’t even actually in proper order?#like they’ll cut off what a person says or skip a persons line or smth with no indication#and I can never tell if it’s actually a full description or not until I click on the clip#and except for literally like ONE tumblr user they never ever provide a full fucking transcript#fuck you if you do that because it specifically pisses me off#do all of it or none of it#only willing to put in the effort for that shit when it helps grabs people attention huh?#not enough to actually like fucking help people in any way? I hate you.
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Scenes like this keep cropping up and I cannot help but roll my eyes all the way back into my skull
Don't worry guys, having NEW children fixed him. This famously teaches a violent man to stop hitting kids and makes him no longer feel the need to construct nightmarish scenarios so he can humiliate and embarrass those he has power over. Men whose wives produce lots of babies for them are Very fulfilled and Understand how strong bonds are supposed to be
"Instead of advising him he'd been defensive" is a REALLY INTERESTING way to phrase "got so offended at the suggestion to stop murdering women for their land that he shoved his son's face in a festering wound and told him to leave him to get eaten by maggots."
I wonder how they'd spell something like, "walked through a patch of thorns so that his son would be in physical pain and then belittled him for finding an alternate route because he wanted him to suffer" and "lied directly to his face about why he abandoned him when he realized the child could be useful"
#bones reads dotc#it pisses me off because theyre completely dancing around the specifics of WHY he was so bad#Because NO it wasnt just that he was a little defensive and critical#He was a fucking *ghoul*#He LOVES having power over people and still does#It's WHY he likes Starf they said it on the page#But now they're trying to say that Starf fixed him by producing children#And like... do I have to explain in-depth why that's a fucking AWFUL idea?#Why that's incredibly misogynistic??#Why that shouldn't be taught to kids???#I want to climb up on top of a tower and shout#YOU CANNOT FIX ABUSIVE PEOPLE BY GIVING THEM A BABY#THAT WILL ACCOMPLISH THE OPPOSITE RESULT 100% OF THE TIME!!!!#This is domestic violence 101!!!#This is shit they WARN you about right out of the gate when you approach the general vicinity of the topic of battered women#Abusers get MORE abusive the minute they have some kind of power over you. When there's an assurance that you wont leave#for the fandom that is SO VERY quick to accuse Maple of baby trapping Apple they do not so much as PEEP on this#Or how all of Clear's mates are pregnant within a month or two of making it official with him...................#my post on this man didnt go far enough but i physically could not fit more images into it
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every day im reminded that though my parents may have wanted a dog they clearly did not want to take care of a dog
#and i KNEW this which was why i insisted on not getting dogs though they keep trying to gaslight me#into thinking that i agreed on the dogs. i didnt and i wish id railed against it harder#because ill be honest i knew i didnt want to take care of a dog i wasnt in the headspace#but i also knew that if they got the dog that the actual caring duties would be foisted off to me#and the things that They would have to do ie go to the vet nd pay the bills etc theyd complain about and avoid#and thats one thjng. but oh my fucking god. my dad specifically#its like hes trying to get these dogs to die. we have several plants in the backyard#bad for dogs. i point them out. i have pointed them out Several times.#theyre his plants the gardens his thats none of my things. he just goes oh they wont get into them#THEYRE DOGS. but he doesnt want to move his fucking plants#one of the dogs is on medicine but has a habit of not eating his food in the morning#which means if u leave his medicine in hjs bowl the other dog might eat it#one solution is to give him the tablet straight. because hes good about eating it#he doesnt want to because 'thats gross'. Are you five fucking years old#the dog doesnt like the texture of dry food so another solution is to wet it#dad wont do that either because 'hes too spoiled' and 'it takes time' ONE MINUTE?????????#like i have to assume this is some kind of ploy to make me do it instead when i dont wake up that early#because if its not then hes truly just incompetent or doesnt care about the dogs#which brings me back to WHY DID YOU GET THEM IN THE FIRST PLACE.#im sick of having to worry about them when he just does shit like this its wasting my time and its wasting money#but ohhhh we dont want to give the dogs away theyre part of the family 🥺#CLEARLY. because apparently u wanted kids but didnt want to take care of them either!!#im pissed off!!! im tired!!!!!!!!#i need to know im not going batshit here for being pissed off!!!!!#the dogs are getting back to back problems and at least some of it would have been mitigated by oh.#i dont know. the bare minimum?????#at least if the plants had been taken care of i wouldnt have to wonder if theyd just gotten into them#or if its an actual problem like a mass or bite. but no now i dont know#and at this rate were going to waste money going to the vet every fucking week
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daily whistlebreeze until spo becomes PoV day 1398
I like seeing how different I can make gray cats by throwing Whis at them; anyways, Spotfur's been on my mind tonight
#warrior cats#whistlebreeze#spotfur#windclan#medicine cat#warrior#mostly thinking about all the potential she has that was never really used#how Spotfur's rebellion flopped so badly by being Like That#and how she literally stopped existing in ASC#woman has a COMPLICATED relation with having children because her mate died#next arc she's just a generic queen#goddamn these books piss me off sometimes with how neglectful they are about their characters#and it's not like this surprises me. Let's remember I am DAILY WHISTLEBREEZE#I have been drawing a random nobody for nearly four years now and you can still barely give anything Specific about Whis from the books#yeah FrostWhistle. Whis is kind and helpful and they saved each other and it's cool#yeah Ivypool's heart is a thing#but does it really characterise Whis in any interesting way whatsoever?#in my opinion not really no#I've searched fro every instance of Whis appearing on screen and it's mostly Whis being thrown around by the plot or the other cats#or by a fucking rabbit#a few cool things you can say is how Determined Whis was to save Leafkit. that's something#and you could also say that Whis prioritising helping Frost above obeying The Code is something too#but you have to Extrapolate all of this#the books don't give you any insight on what's going on in Whis' mind#and they won't#and that's what they do to most cats in their books#and we all know it and we all just see canon happen and then take the bits that interest us and make it Better#and yeah Spotfur is one of those cats that would really enjoy that treatment#Spotfur has drama on both a political level and interpersonal one (Bris Stem her kits and even her siblings just fucking off n stuff)#and they made her such a weak character by giving us Spotfur's rebellion
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Anyone else have near-perfect executive function at work; but at home, have literally no energy or motivation to do anything except lie in a dark room, with something in or on your ears for several hours?
#It’s got to be the schedule keeping me on task at work#I love microdosing strict routines (not having an actual routine for the day; but having routines for small tasks#which piss me off if I can’t carry them out precisely the way I planned)#For instance: If I’m asked to paperclip a bunch of stuff together with multicolored paperclips of various sizes#I cannot just indiscriminately pick paperclips from the container because that is WRONG and ILLEGAL#The colors must fit the theme of the assignments; and the colors must alternate in a specific order#and the paperclips must all be the same size#If I’m asked to dump out and clean containers of writing utensils I am going to sort them by type and color#whether you like it or not#Black permanent markers have their own container in a different section from the blue permanent markers#Dry-erase markers are not to be mixed with permanent markers because they are easily confused and it is WRONG and ILLEGAL#Do not fuck with the system. It’s the only organizational skill I have and by fucking GOD I’m going to use it in EXCESS#I stuff and fill out envelopes the exact same way every time because if I do it any other way it is WRONG and ILLEGAL#The stamp always goes on last to minimize monetary waste if there is a mistake#Now you’d think my room is squeaky clean and organized because of how particular I am about these small tasks#Right? Right?#NO IT IS NOT. It looks like a bomb went off. Cleaning the room is a big task which cannot be accomplished within two hours#therefore I have discarded it as anything I need a routine for because it would take too long to come up with#and it is very hard for me to do things like that without instructions or a sense of consistency#So I simply don’t#“After five years the dust doesn’t get any worse” correct; but the mold certainly does#I am convinced half my problems with organization as a kid would have been solved if I just had a hamper#“We have a clothes chute; you don’t need a hamper” Maybe you don’t but I DO#I want one now; but I’m going to use it as incentive to get an apartment#because that’s another thing I need to smuggle and I have too much already
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does anyone out here have a dad that isnt an asshole all the fucking time. like is it even possible.
#thinks we're ungrateful and incapable and lazy for lemme check. being disabled#and then when we rightfully call him out on his dick behavior he gets mad and slams things and mutters under his breath#and is like 'oh great so its MY FAULT'#and tries to push the narrative that now we've upset him and he's gonna feel like dogshit for the next two hours like.#congrats. that's how we live our whole fucking lives because of you. im always thinking about what he's gonna get pissed off at next#and how im not enough for him and how he's gonna be mad i couldnt do something#when he says shit like 'we need to teach them to sponge-wash the dishes'#like we're morons. like we dont know#we tried to LOAD the dishwasher and got so nauseous and yucked out we had to switch off every couple items#and both heaved over the trashcan#you think im not doing it specifically to make you upset? you think I CAN and im just choosing not to?#god he makes me so mad. and sad. and full of grief.#and worried for my sister#because she's bipolar and his provocation has a very real not unlikely chance at making her suicidal#it's such a mess#and its unfair for her and its unfair for me
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youtube for some inexplicable reason keeps suggesting videos to me about whether sonic 3 or mufasa will be the bigger hit at the box office and I'm not gonna watch the videos but also like. I really hope it's sonic-
#my reasons for this are as follows#1) I like the sonic movies#2) I am sick and tired of the live action disney remakes AND their obsession with sequels so to essentially do Both at Once is evil to me#and I need it to fail please ohmygod I cannot take any more of these please someone make it STOP#3) I have a very specific hatred of hyper-realistic cgi lion king remake and now they're doing ANOTHER ONE makes me mad also#also yknow what as an aside I'm gonna yell about lion king 2019 fuck it these are my tags on my blog and i am going to subject people to my#Weirdly Specific Opinions about a movie. anyways I mean again hatred for the life action remake obsession ASIDE like. it just fucking sucks#like for how much they hyped up how Realistic the visuals are and how Lifelike it looks uhhhhhhhh. it looks 'realistic' in the sense that#the models and textures are good and like that's all I can say about it#the actual animation like-#IT'S SO BAD. THE CHARACTERS DONT EVEN EMOTE IN ANY WAY AT ALL. IT LOOKS LIKE A BORING NATURE DOCUMENTARY BUT WORSE BECAUSE AT LEAST REAL#LIFE LIONS DONT JUST STAND THERE BLANKLY#and before you say 'oh but sage real life lions dont smile and have eyebrows and stuff' I KNOWWW#BUT ALSO LIKE. BODY LANGUAGE. COME ON. IF YOU DONT WANT TO STUDY REAL LIONS CAN YOU AT LEAST LIKE LOOK AT A HOUSE CAT OR SOMETHING#also it Extra pisses me off because the original lion king like.......... the animation is So Good.... and they clearly did their research#into cat body language.... and also THE ANIMATION IS SOOO GOOD......#and then the remake is um. well fucking look at it.#also they cant even get the ATMOSPHERE right like how do you even do that#ughhhh i haaaate that fucking remake i hate it soooo much#but uh. yeah anyways. hate lion king 2019 and sonic 3 needs to destroy mufasa
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I'm in shambles today. my mini fridge melted some of the ice in its little freezer compartment and I didn't realize until now and now my rug that's sitting there (almost underneath it) is soaked on the corner 🥲🫠
#its like. an eighth of the rug?? idk. it still pisses me off tho 😭#like WHY why did you melt. youre so annoying. im so annoyed ahsjsjsj#i cant even move it out atm because i have so much fucking shit covering it UGH ��� i hate. depression. and depression rooms (specif. mine).#im just hoping itll dry out by itself. i do NOT want mold jfc.#ill prolly check it in a couple hours (so long as i dont fall asleep for a millenia 🧍♂️)#yapping
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english (and almost every other european language tbh) has always been fucking weird to me because why the fuck would you need gender-specific names to like, body scent. why not just call them the same thing. what exactly is the difference between a perfume and a cologne?? or like, niece and nephew? i mean why go out of your way to invent two words that mean the same thing but one is only for men and the other is only for women? when they're quite literally the same thing???
#i remember back in 2020 i had met this nonbinary italian kid on an anime group chat#and they were fucking appaled when i told them we didn't have gender-specific pronouns in turkish#they were like what do you call people then?? and i explained we use the one syllable 'o' for any gender#they had joked then that they wished they lived here instead (or in another world where a not so transphobic Turkey existed i gusss)#but i remember thinking. we understand each other just fine without the pronouns. so why did anyone ever feel the need to invent them?#and in a further note in turkish we dont even use sister and brother. we just call each other siblings#sometimes when you really need to specify it you just say girl siblings or boy sibling. but we dont have actual words for them#as you can probably figure from the post we also dont have seperate names for niece and nephew or perfume and cologne#we do have different names for aunt and uncle though i'll give you that#but that's probably because turkish goes way too much in detail when it comes to terms of familial connection#on another note i just remember something else that fucking pisses me off in english#MISS AND MRS#like who tf thought yeah we need different terms for those#what was the thought process that went into that#in all seriousness though it feels like the western mysogony runs so deep that its affiliated the language in a fundamental level#thoughts#i talk#language#learning languages
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Just read a news article referring to "Married at First Sight" as a "social experiment". It's annoying enough when these reality shows like Love is Blind pretend to be "experiments" rather than heavily produced entertainment; let's not validate that delusion...
#why are we pretending any of this is scientific?#people are here for the draaaama#we just want to watch straight people ruin their lives on tv without any pretentions about it being in any way useful to society#and also that one show about lesbians sleeping with each other's partners#idk I rarely watch these shows but I do love watching them with friends sometimes#or just watching reaction videos to shows I've never seen#I did watch Love is Blind UK with my friend when she came to visit#but we mostly got distracted because we were drinking endless lychee martinis#and hadn't seen each other in aaaages so it was kinda in the background while we were talking shit#this is so petty but it annoys me#I guess we're just using words now without any regard for their actual meaning#it also pisses me off whenever they say sight unseen on Love is Blind#SIGHT UNSEEN??? WHERE THE FUCK DID YOU PULL THAT BOLLOCKS FROM?#JUST SAY WITHOUT SEEING THEM#UNSEEN IMPLIES IT WAS ONCE SEEN#LIKE YOU ERASED THEIR MEMORY#ALSO WHICH SIGHT#BE SPECIFIC#JUST SAY WITHOUY SEEING THEM HOLY SHIT#EVERY TIME I HEAR THAT PHRASE IT'S LIKE NAILS ON A CHALKBOARD#this turned into a big tags rant as usual :)
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duolingo has gotten me to be able to read swedish at. cefr b1 level. and thats it
#do NOT use duolingo to learn a new language.#ok actually i think thats not too bad considering i knew literally no swedish and also wasnt studying it anywhere else#but. you cannot rely on duolingo is what im saying.#you will reach a point where u need to learn from somewhere else#do not even fucking ask how much i can produce/speak. its even worse hdbgsdsfvgbgb#the reason the level is so specific is because i have a book that is labelled a2-b1 and shockingly. im able to read most of it#with no real difficulty. but it does take me approximately one million years longer than reading in english#which. duh. but it still pisses me off lmao
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So like is being more infuriating with every update YouTube's goal or some shit?? the volume is getting fucked up on the music videos I'm listening to and its because of a feature that WON'T LET ME KEEP IT TURNED OFF.
#weed screams#wtf is the stable volume feature and why is it the worst thing they could've possibly implemented#i literally had to stop myself from throwing my phone across the room because of how much it pissed me off#for some reason for certain music videos it's just automatically on amd WON'T LET ME CHANGE IT#so the songs sound way quieter and all that shit.#AND WHAT'S WORSE#IM PLAYING A PARTICULAR SONG ON REPEAT RN AND THE STABLE VOLUME THING TURNS BACK ON FOR A SPECIFIC PART OF THE VIDEO.#LIKE ??????????????? YOUTUBE I'M GOING TO FUCKING KILL YOU#WHOEVER ADDED THIS FUCKING ''FEATURE'' IS GONNA GET THEIR HEAD RIPPED OFF I WILL FIND THEM I WILL BITE THEM#maybe this is my sign to finally succumb to using Spotify or some shit#idk I'm just extremely mad rn. the worst thing you can do to fuck with me is to ruin my music.
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i wish i wasn’t cagey and standoffish but i just take a long time to warm up to people and there are a lot of little things that piss me off or push my boundaries for no reason and i feel bad because usually those things come from other peoples attempts at being friendly or nice but it just feels overly familiar to me. i’m like a cat you’ve got to win me over across a prolonged period of time if you just run up to me shouting what are supposed to be nice things i’ll run away and hide under the bed
#it’s not even because i’m shy i’m not shy At All#i simply have a personality disorder that makes me completely disinterested in anyone who is too In My Face#someone followed me + spam liked a million of my posts + started hitting on me in the replies of my selfie#like who the fuck are you. i don’t even follow you. stand back please#ITS JUST OVERBEARING TO ME OK why are you very boldly flirting with me like that#that shit is never going to work on me it’s just going to piss me off and make me dislike you#and i’m like am i just a prick ?? why do these tiny things always piss me off#i so badly wish i was bubbly and friendly and approachable#i hate how cold i sometimes seem but i know i’m a kind and well intentioned person#i just have very intense personal space issues and very specific boundaries for anyone outwith my Tiny Circle of Approved People#and i DO think we have a problem with being overly familiar on the internet now. like i do not know you. give me some space girl
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i'm gonna be autistic about borderlands for a sec, everyone stay with me okay
i do not understand why the borderlands games try to make moxxi so important to jack, i dont get it, genuinely it doesn't make sense
so, spoilers for BL2, the pre-sequel, tales from the borderlands, and BL3 moxxi's heist- the general info you need is that jack and moxxi canonically dated for a period of time between the first game and TPS, how long this was we arent sure but we can make a guess that at the VERY most it was less then six months of them being together
we can piece this together by the vague timeline of TPS happening about a year or less after the first game
(this is estimated by the fact that Athena said she worked with jack five years ago, meaning TPS happened five years ago by the time the second game takes place and five years is also the amount of time that's passed between the first and the second game so- TPS took place in a very short few month period after the first game)
now we know that they couldn't have been together for long because moxxi was together with BOTH mordecai AND jack during this only a few month period of time between games- this is confirmed in a line of dialogue from BL2 where mordecai says moxxi left him for jack at the end of BL1 but then in TPS moxxi and jack are already broken up, which means they could have only been together for a few months for the timeline of five years to make sense! at the VERY most they were together for like, three months or even just a few weeks. all that matters is that it was not very long
in BL2 there's also a line about jack destroying moxxi's fighting dome because he thought she cheated on him, which is a thing he does AS handsome jack not as the normal dude jack he was when they broke up, the reason for which is still unknown but we know it was Vaguely Messy which is like whatever, sure, that sorta makes sense for him to do but what DOESN'T is the games trying to convince you that jack is in love with her.
okay you still following? cool
in TPS jack is visibly uncomfortable around moxxi and doesn't like working with her, even going as far as asking her to stop calling him 'sugar' a request she just, ignores and continues doing anyway, also during TPS is when jack gets together with nisha, his canon girlfriend he's had through the five years between BL1 and BL2. jack is INSANELY in love with nisha, we see this in the after credits art of both TPS and BL2 same with the way he talks to her/about her in TPS and in outside game material where he literally stutters when talking about her AND in the way he proudly displays her hat in his office in TFTBL alongside his most prized possessions.
he LOVES his woman with his entire heart, he gave her a whole town to prove it!! nisha is his everything outside of hyperion so, tell me, PLEASE why BL3 tried to tell us that jack was still in love with moxxi? because i do not get it at all
what im talking about here is 1. in moxxi's heist timothy is in love with moxxi, this is made canon in TPS where he fumbles through trying to flirt with her and in the heist dlc this is brought up again and timothy has a line about how jack asked moxxi on a date during his reign as handsome jack and sent timothy to go as him because he was busy but like, why would he do that? we know that jack is insane about nisha why would he then?? ask his ex that he visibly hates on a date??? and then 2. they added a fucking painting of her in his office in the casino.
i do not even know where to begin on how much i hate that detail
when you get to jack's office in the casino there are two paintings you find, one is of angel- makes sense, is his daughter who he loves even if he is really bad at it, it's the same as him having the picture of her in his office on helios, he loves his daughter, a painting of her being here is in line with everything else!! plus it's really pretty and i like it
then across from that is a painting of moxxi, which makes no fucking sense!!! why isn't it nisha!! it SHOULD be nisha!! the woman he is CURRENTLY TOGETHER WITH AND MADLY IN LOVE WITH????
i have DETESTED this detail since i first played the dlc, as much i love moxxi's heist and credit it as my favorite borderlands dlc the whole 'moxxi is jack's true love' thing makes me so confused?? they dated for MAYBE three months between BL1 and TPS and then he got into a five year long committed relationship that is never properly explored in the games and then the devs have the gall to say they wish they had done more with nisha like!!! good news you still could have!! but you didn't
anyways, i apologize for this, it has just been bothering me for months and i had to get it out and see if anyone else had noticed this and was bothered by it?? because it makes me go a little insane every time i think about it
then again maybe the character writing in BL3 is just bad
#borderlands 2#borderlands handsome jack#borderlands mad moxxi#borderlands nisha kadam#borderlands rant#i guess#i dont even like nisha and jack together either!! but the way they just erase her to shoe horn moxxi in pisses me off!!#that is NOT the love of his life#OR and hear me out here devs we COULD maybe just possibly add a picture of his first wife?? crazy thought#i swear to fuck if the answer to this is racism i am going to scream#it doesn't help that BL3 specifically has a HUGE problem with misogyny? that game is horrific in the way it treats it's female characters#also just idk jack's writing really fell off in BL3? all the characters did but his stuck out to me in moxxi's heist#it started to fall in tales when they made him super sexist out of nowhere??#and the whole him being cartoonishly evil instead of being grounded like he was in bl2 and tsp made me upset#taking this character with such depth and being like 'yeah he hates women and thinks animal abuse is funny' was a weird turn!#then they do this shit with him in bl3#there are some parts of his writing in bl3 that i like but most of it doesn't sound like him#ALSO TELL US MORE ABOUT HIS FIRST WIFE YOU ASSHOLES#i am fully going to make a huge post about jack's first wife and how awfully they treat that character as a whole#i might also talk about how gross the treatment of the female characters in bl3 is if anyone is interested? because it's gross#anyways#sorry#autism won again#a painting of nisha would have been so pretty too :(#dont play bl3 lol that's the moral here
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do you ever write out a post and then remember the reading comprehension on this site is abysmal and you can practically feel the potential shitty comments and think "actually no this isn't worth it"
#personal#thoughts#🍬 post#vent post#there are these posts about accessibility and tone tags and the way people use trigger warnings on discord and stuff like that#and one of them is like ''the way people spoiler triggers on discord is wrong and doesn't actually help and you shouldn't do it like that''#and it's been like. the exact form of warning that worked for us when the ''correct'' way wouldn't have actually helped at all#I haven't seen the posts in a while but I've seen some of them multiple times before and they always piss me off#and I just fucking want people to realise that people have different access needs#yes that format of warning or tone tag or whatever might not work for you but your experiences aren't universal#and it'd be shitty for me to say that formatting it in a way that works for you is wrong just because it doesn't work for me#but that fucking goes both ways#but I just know if I actually posted the very carefully worded post I typed up about it someone would take it in the worst possible faith#''don't spoiler the word in the warning and don't only spoiler that word and none of the rest of the text''#what if the word itself is the fucking trigger. what if I need you to leave the rest of the text unspoilered so I can figure out what it is#without actually having to see the word because I can back out and avoid a panic attack as long as I don't see the word itself#this isn't even a hypothetical this is something we had to deal with last year#and discord servers with that specific format were the only places we could guarantee we'd be able to avoid being triggered by it
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