#fuck mothers in particular
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I highly recommend being kicked out of the family. Yeah your siblings might be not talking to you in fear of getting a beating from their (your) gaslighting parents but hey, truth is you've never spent any holidays this peacefully.
#im slightly drunk while writing this i will delete this later for sure#fuck parents#fuck mothers in particular#im alone but i eat what i want i watch what i want and i dont have to visit narrow minded family members#delete later
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#mdzs#jiang cheng#lan wangji#wei wuxian#jin ling#ig in this universe jiang cheng already knows about lan sizhui. which is also a headcanon i see a lot in fic#god that's so funny tho. jc recognizes wen yuan and just decides not to say shit. king honestly#ig also in this universe jiang cheng kept all of wwx's shit for absolutely not sentimental reasons. no reason in particular actually myob#which is also a headcanon i see a lot in fic. wwx comes back to lotus pier and jc just has his room perfectly preserved#i like that headcanon. jc keeps all the things his dead loved ones leave him and he guards them as preciously as he guards his own memories#his father's sect. his mother's whip. his brother's flute. his sister's son#augh the tags got serious#anyways apparently lwj is 188cm and jc is 185cm. fucking tall bastards ugh#that 3cm difference probably has jc seething#yanyan polls
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#persona 4#p4#persona 4 golden#p4g#hanamura yosuke#yosuke hanamura#tatsumi kanji#kanji tatsumi#YOSUKE KANJI FRIENDSHIP IS THE BESTTTTT (and also very canon i can pull out receipts any day man)#kanji may not be as attuned to yosuke as yu tends to be (who else can communicate with just glances at each other) BUT#he gets it!!!#kanji also has a hard time being articulate! he says things he doesnt mean and he comes off rude and abrasive but he doesnt. mean. them.#he calls his mum an old hag but GOD does he fucking love his mother.#kanji and yosuke are both at their core very sensitive individuals but they both maintain this facade of “masculinity” to hide it#and it makes this particular moment all the more precious bcause they're talking without pretention but freely with their hearts#and its this wonderful beautiful moment that they get to share#and you know what makes it better? its that it's just one of MANY#he's good with his queue
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I actually really want Eugene to officiate the Varigo wedding because one, it’s not a very official or proper wedding. If anything, it’s something Rapunzel and Varian put together in one week and is essentially just a giant party where they blow stuff up and eat cake. Varian totally asks Eugene thirty minutes beforehand if he will officiate and after five minutes of sobbing, he agrees.
And two, because I want him to say this line-
“It has been a joy to watch your distracting childish rivalry turn into a distracting childish courtship, which will undoubtedly turn into a distracting childish marriage.”
#B99 mixed with tangled has so much potential#I can absolutely see Varian wanting a wedding but not wanting to put a ton of effort into it so he enlists Rapunzel’s help#Hugo doesn’t really care (secretly he loves it)#Ruddiger and Olivia are the ring bearers#Lance is in charge of all the food preparation#Eugene is on keeping everyone sane duty (he’s also everyone’s right hand man during prep and he’s also weirdly particular ab the decor)#and Raps is in charge of pretty much everything else#Her baby brothers wedding has to go absolutely perfectly#Okay now I need content about Rapunzel stressing herself out for a few days because Varian only gave her like a week to prepare#And she needs everything to be perfect because she loves him so much and he’s done so much for her#And he worked so hard on her wedding#And so much little stuff goes wrong and she breaks down and Varian is just like#“Raps it’s perfect thank you”#🥹🥹🥹#And the rest of the week is enjoyable and fun now that she knows that Varian will love whatever she does#and that he put her in charge for a reason#Oh my gosh the mother-son dance Hugo dances with Donella and Varian dances with Rapunzel wah#And the father son ofc Varian dances with Quirin but fuck it Eugene and Hugo dance#And then they swap#Found family my beloved#tts#tangled the series#rapunzel's tangled adventure#varian#eugene fitzherbert#rapunzel#hugo vat7k#hugo rottewange#team awesome#varigo
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and if i said suguru’s relationship with weakness (’the preciousness of the weak, the ugliness of the weak’) was born out of his feelings towards his mother …
#.#feeling abnormal feeling extremely abnormal#i think suguru fucking haaaaaates his father but his connection to his mother is just . so much more loaded#in that sense his mommy issues are far worse but his daddy issues are definitely more . apparent#he hates his dad he’d do anything anything anythingggg never to end up like him#but he resembles his mother in many ways (the hair. the eyes. the frail heart)#and because of that his hatred/love for Her in particular is just … one big can of worms#’you shouldn’t have given birth to me. you should have saved yourself. it’s your own fault that you’re stuck with him’#etcetc#he feels pity and guilt and hatred and biological love he’d be better off without#i think his mother was very very awful to him too#but even baby sugu knew the root cause was his father#hhhhh ….#i’m a little on the fence between . ’his home life was violently abusive’#and ’his parents were obsessed with appearing normal and perfect no matter the cost’#maybe both ?#like … idk if ever got physical. but i think just the psychological torture of living in that kind of household#left scars in his soul that he’ll never get rid of#in my mind sugu’s backstory is akin to nobara’s but make it straight up horror#anyway that’s all 🙏 sugu your parental issues have bewitched me#ari noises ✩#meta ✩
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i'm so ambivalent about frigga! on one had i think the MCU treated her very poorly and so fandom should build her up and give her some more 'oomph,' on the other hand what fandom has done with her also annoys me because it apparently decided she's the good parent to be contrasted with her husband even when they did the exact same things.
so i always have the urge to "support" her by making her problematic in one way or another. and strange. she deserves to be strange.
#if we go with the 'unreliable narrator' take on the thor movies perhaps that narrator is frigga?#who else has motive to blame the poor parenting on odin and make it clear she did not cause either son to go A Bit Wrong#but she also supports them in a Proper Womanly Way being the most Motherly Mother of all time AND also a dutiful wife.#it's like one of those 'life of queen so-and-so's that monks used to write after queen so-and-so gave money to their monastery!#i also think fandom has almost entirely slept on how glaringly loki in particular has placed her on a pedestal#(i mean... other than by just agreeing with him on that)#so i like to make their relationship a little bit fucked up. i like to make her a bit terrible. i like to make him like that terribleness.#Oh Frigga No!#mcu tag
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remember what the dormouse said.
#fh: bel#fallen hero#how it feels to chew 5 gum#uhhh i think this is technically#body horror#this definitely isn't a unique idea but something about the way sidestep feels like the only way to “fix” what happened to them is to-#become a villain and dismantle the establishment that did this to them and/or enact revenge by any means necessary on those they feel-#wronged them all while grappling with ptsd from fucking being yeeted out a four storey building + dealing with the lingering-#effects of isolation and experimentation all because you're a hashtag empath (telepath) +#being a regene and the rhetoric that you aren't human#ALL of that compounding into feeling like youve “lost your head” so to speak#and my sidestep in particular being a self rival and struggling with insane amounts of impostor syndrome in conjunction with-#survivor's guilt and depression#while also desperately wanting to believe he's a self actualized person and not the rhetoric they seem to think he is#is trying so hard not to “feed his head” as it were. he's trying very hard not to give in to the thought that#everything he made up in his head - that his friends hate him that ortega abandoned him that he's really all alone - is true#especially when they've proven on multiple occasions that that's not the case#and by “feeding” it he would be succumbing to a reality that doesn't exist.#but the thing is minds rely on what they THINK they know. but the truth doesn't care about you or what you think#simultaneously it's very easy to feed it what it wants when everything just serves as a reminder of what u lost#that being YOUR life that YOU forged all your own beyond what They wanted you to be#hence we sort of come full circle: he's losing his head (struggling) but if he could just lose his head (literal)#he could stop feeding it#or something. idk im not a professional#ik white rabbit is about tripping balls on shrooms and lsd but actually “and the [pills] that mother gives you dont do anything at all”#this also is not the first time i have decapitated bel#i love him severely btw#the regene markings r based off a circuit board and took some time but im rly happy with how they turned out#reaper's rewards
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also in a very real way being a soap opera actress is kind of like. one of those half-baked dreams i have that i will never ever pursue. like if someone offered me an open role on a daytime soap opera wo having to audition i would absolutely accept. i would be like hell yeah id love to act these melodramatic dialogue scenes day in and day out. i cant tell u why. so i cant imagine someone doing that and then just moving onto being a serious actor in big high budget things and having legitimate fans who arent old ladies who watch abc every weekday at 2pm. a part of me is like why would you even wanna do that?
#developing one's craft as an actor while working on a soap opera is a skill i highly admire#like i dont consider it any coincidence that bryan cranston started in soaps#it's a fucking grind#idk there's just something about soaps that makes them so fascinating to me i cant explain it at all#and my mother's particular viewership of general hospital is something i respect and admire#general hospital is one of the only adult shows i remember seeing as a kid and not understanding#and then growing up and realizing that it's exactly as nonsensical as i remember#like so few things are that satisfyingly simple#and yet the actual show itself is completely convoluted#i. looooove. it#text post#tales from diana#why would nicholas alexander chavez advance himself in his career? i was enjoying him being my daytime tv buddy#those girls making tiktok edits of you now. they didnt know you back when i knew you bud. they didnt see u hustle#THEY DONT RESPECT U LIKE I RESPECT YOU!!!!!!!!!! no i wont watch any of your new work#but they wont watch general hospital. like i do. in the background while i make lunch#as it's meant to be enjoyed
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this is so compelling and interesting to me which is nice bc i’ve never in my life spared a thought for criston cole…. also just on a base level i’m glad alicent is taking physical pleasure for herself after a lifetime of forced marriage and marital rape… like yeah she deserves that, even if it’s Fraught like all things are when you’re trying to live within westerosi power structures
#i’m interested to see what this is going to do to criston’s very particular brand of self loathing that manifests in misogyny#and the fact that alicent is not only his regent but his Mother (religious figure)#and on alicent’s side obviously theres the fucking rhaenyra by proxy but tbh i don’t really care about that.#what if you fucked somebody you wanted to fuck for the first time in your life and your grandchild died#what would THAT do#idk i’m sad people watch this show in such limited ways bc this is so ahhhh!!
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me, oblivious: let's just stop overthinking and read zeithain. my german isn't that bad. i'm sure i can understand it. the wust section is about his childhood anyways, it's probably just cute, what could possibly go wr–
katte, at page 41 of 784: i can't picture my mother in that stony embrace. when i enter the crypt, i think of nothing. this house smells of stone and dirt, not of anything living or dead.
#fuck you roes fuck you roes fuck you roes#what the FUCK#zeithain#my readings#no i'm so HURT#there's another one that killed me#it goes like:#sometimes when i smell a particular mixture of fresh milk and a special type of resinous wood i remember her [ his mother ] scent#and for a moment it's as if she's alive again#WHATG THE FUCK
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sometimes I’ll see takes on female characters and realise that some of y’all have very little empathy for women. particularly older women.
#shut up abe#those milfs did nothing to you#there are so many times where I see female characters who either are mothers or are coded like that#get absolutely demonised bc they didn’t handle a particular situation w total grace and a male character’s feelings got hurt. lmao#like fuck you I hope they hurt his feelings more#fandom misogyny
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i must not get upset at my lack of an irish accent. getting upset at my lack of an irish accent is the mind killer. getting upset at my lack of an irish accent is the small despair that brings complete ego collapse.
#i have no fucking idea where it went#my theory IS: autism led to TV obsession during Formative Years and due to the fact there is a Lot of american tv i picked it up from that#so i neutralised my accent before it could form#which is a pain in the ass because my parents (my mother in particular) have pretty notable accents#and then theres me. neutralised vaguely-american sounding johnson#and now i have to live with the fact that multiple people throughout my life have genuinely thought i was american#despite the fact i have left ireland exactly 2 times#god ffffuuuucking damnit
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Someone insisting we don't learn language intuitively unless homeschooled...Did...did your parents put in you in school at 18 months of age? Did a teacher go around a room of toddlers with a dictionary saying, "This is what 'mama' means"? Because if the answer to that is no--and it is definitely no--you learned language intuitively, like everyone else. The finer points you learn in school, and later on your own, but even as you're doing that, you're still picking up words and phrases just by talking to people and reading.
#I was perfectly polite in my response to her#but she clearly wants to have a superiority complex#“you must have been homeschooled by an illiterate”#wasn't homeschooled and in fact excelled in English and creative writing classes#and happen to come from a family with three English teachers and two university professors thank you very much#language is and has been a particular interest of mine#when I did manage to get hold of a dictionary and thesaurus after leaving my mother to live with my nana#(one of the aforementioned English teachers) I pored over those for hours#but I didn't learn every word there is to know#that would be impossible#I was also an avid reader#I have learned many words from the dictionary or actively looking them up#but I've also learned intuitively because that is the primary way we learn language#sometimes the words you learn intuitively end up not being to the accepted definition#that's just how it goes#when writing you try to catch yourself#particularly on proof-read#like there's a fucking reason it's much more difficult to acquire a new language after the age of 10 years#and it's not because we become less adept at reading a dictionary or thesaurus after that age#but hey if we want to make baseless assumptions I'll assume she was one of those kids in the gifted program#who never got over the fact it meant absolutely nothing
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Don't do this often, but this story made me see red; if there is anything in this world that I hate the most, it is child abusers (and child abuse apologists). I don't fucking care who you are, what you identify as nor your race: there are no amount of labels, illnesses - nothing - that you can use to excuse this level of depravity (nor any kind of sexual misconduct around children for that matter). This is downright demonic and there's too fucking much of this evil shit in the world. I wish the universe would just erase this bastard and all like him, just reformat completely to start over as dirt.
#justice for heaven#graphic warning but it's a lot this particular story... basically the fuck that did this raped this innocent 7 year old to death#to the point her spinal cord was visible through the gaping hole that used to be her uterus#choked on cement forced in the mouth during the torture#gets his wife and the village to lie about the cause of death and defend him and blame the grieving mother who is a nurse ffs..#just too many things that happened as a direct result of this demonic little shit doing this to a kid and.. God#I hope the other inmates slit his throat but seems to be there are many similar criminals in ethiopia - so fucking upsetting
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i don't want to be weird here but do non-australians know that the "dingo ate my baby" thing is like. a real thing that happened. or do they just think it's silly words.
#there's a particular nationality i'm thinking of but i think i target them a little too much so i'll be nice#anyway. a real human baby got eaten alive and her mother was wrongfully imprisoned for years it was fucked up.
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#more Lavellan posting because i suck and am stupid or whatever anyway#was thinking about how like. if i had it my way i would not fucking send this guy to the conclave especially not#on his own. which then led me down the thought train of 'whatever else she might be his mother is GOOD at blending in and holding her#composure which uh. now has me floating the idea of her having been there too and. yeah I've made myself sad about this#pointy eared little fucker God damnit#original posts#like I'm imagining her being there. pretending she's the first to the keeper since well. she is a mage. and he's just kind of#supposed to be guarding because he's good at that. and. yeahhhhhhhhh#although those two in particular being sent is. potentially not a good look for the clan? but it could be#because she's spent time living directly among humans when they hadn't? that could work
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