#friends friends friend friends frie

[brbarou]

happy valentines day to her exclusively

[moonilit]

I just think kaeya would be very excited… for diluc wedding

[orangerosebush]

It's striking that Artemis arguably hurts Holly most cruelly when he considers her a dear friend, rather than at the beginning of the series when he is her captor -- consistently, Artemis is cruelest to those he considers his loved ones, as what is most important is the safety (physical, mental, etc) of these people in his life.

[connor-draws-things]

God I haven't been on Tumblr in forever anyways hey guys how's it going um. Cries bc I need more online friends cuz my irl friends are always too busy to regularly talk to me.

Hate going days on end without talking. Like ik they're just busy but I be feeling unloved n shit bro. Been feeling like ass lately.

So um. WHO WANTS TO BE MY FRIEND :~D

[glaciem-draco]

There's really something amazing about this idea a lot of us have of Phayu being VegasPete's son/Venice and Prapai being KinnPorsche's son.

One of my favorite things fandom has ever done really.

[hoohoobeanie]

if 31 year old man, why just a lil guy?

[wolfstrong]

Tbh lately I haven’t even been thinking about being in a relationship I’m accepting my expectations are too unrealistic. Like what I’m gonna find some hot guy who I actually think is interesting and he’s gonna like me back? I have to know someone for 5 years before I actually start to like them. And this isn’t to be like oh I hate everyone I meet or whatever, I like most people it just it takes me so long to feel close and comfortable with someone. So I’m not like gonna be able to go on a dating app and find a man. Like no that makes me deeply uncomfortable. I’ll probably be single for like idk maybe ever? And there is nothing I can do about that unless I fundamentally change who I am which I don’t wanna do 😘

[phightingconfessions]

a few weeks ago i told my little sister about phighting and started letting her play it and sharpen her PvP skills

at first I only did this so that I could yap about phighting to someone but then I noticed she was getting good at the game

I now use her as a secret weapon against my friends whenever they make fun of me for losing in a phighting by letting her take over my account for a moment to beat the shit of them, and they do not know that it is my little sister and think it's me

kinda like the "whatever, go my scarab" thing but instead the scarab is my 10 year old sister

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[sullina]

i think part of what makes so many people just flock to dungeon meshi as well is that it's also a story involving an autistic main character, who actually IS the main character

Because many stories will have an autistic character in them and then the story is more about how all the neurotypical people AROUND the autistic character deal with the characters autism, and the autistic character ends up as a side-character in a story that's supposed to be ABOUT them.

But in dungeon meshi, Laios especially is so much the main character! And i know he's not the only one, and not the only autistic character obv, and i know the story isn't about just him alone OR his autism...

But we get Laios' perspective. On just about everything. The story is, in the roughest terms, about the party venturing into the dungeon in order to save Falin, who got eaten by the red dragon. They're on a time constraint and have no money or equipment except what they literally have on their backs. That's the story.

Another author, a worse author, probably wouldn't have made Laios the party leader. A worse author would've relegated Laios to the "weird, awkward newbie who's excited about monsters but doesn't have the slightest clue or experience with them" who's job would've been to cite fun facts about whatever monster they encounter from some book he carries around, and the main interactions between him and the party would've been them yelling at him or calling him weird, to the point where you're wondering what this characters purpose even is in the story beyond comic relief.

And I'm so glad we didn't get this.

Instead of a story that emphasizes how "weird and unlikable" this weird character is, we get Laios being the partys leader, who, yes, is weird, but also competent and knowledgable and skilled and also is still a full character, with thoughts and feelings of his own, who actually speaks his mind and interacts with others on equal footing, who defends himself when he KNOWS he isn't in the wrong.

Laios and Shuros confrontation is both shocking, and also a huge breath of fresh air.

(Also, i know that "Shuro" isn't his real name but i can't remember his real name and I can't be bothered to look it up rn)

Shuro tells Laios to learn to read the room. A worse author would've had Laios apologize to Shuro for his own incompetence, but instead of meekly accepting that accusation, Laios throws it back in Shuros own face. That Shuro should've just been direct and honest with Laios when he KNEW that Laios wasn't getting it, instead of just playing along and letting that resentment fester.

And Laios is not only shouting it out, speaking his mind, and refusing to be treated as lesser than anyone else just because he can't "read the room", but he's also portrayed as RIGHT! Shuro would've have had to put up with Laios, whom he didn't like, but whom he let believe that they were friends, if he had just TOLD Laios he didn't like him DIRECTLY.

and look, i know that there's some hints or pages or whatever you wanna call them, that Shuro is also autistic, but comes with a different background, which basically just makes him and Laios incompatible in a certain sense.

But even with all that, Shuro still had no right to fault Laios for his shortcomings, when his own shortcomings played just as much of a role in their eventual confrontation. And the difference? Shuro KNEW how he himself AND Laios felt, but Laios only knew how he himself felt. Shuro was at an advantage in their situation, and he still faulted Laios and made him out to be this villain, who was purposely trying to make Shuro miserable, when Shuro himself NEVER opened his mouth to correct Laios!

And the thing is, Shuro isn't in the wrong for not liking Laios. Shuro is in the wrong for blowing up at Laios without EVER even giving him the chance to correct his behaviour!

And Laios KNOWS this, and he REFUSES to just apologize for something that wasn't even his fault! How could he possibly have known Shuro didn't like him, when Shuro never gave him any kind of indication of that fact?

And that's just it, isn't it?

Because I know I've experienced this kind of situation, even if exact memories don't come to mind, and I know other autistic or otherwise neurodivergent people have experienced this kind of thing. Of someone whom they were just having a normal conversation with or whom they considered a friend, just randomly blowing up at them for no conceivable reason. From our perspective, the other person just randomly decided they didn't like us anymore, didn't care about us anymore and wanted to be rid of us, or decided we were suddenly just evil, and they got mad at us, yelled at us, called us names, and then just left. And we're left confused and sad and, having no other information to go off of, because none was given to us, are bound to come to the conclusion that there's something wrong with us. We're just not likeable and any kindness from other people coming our way is just them being too polite to say anything until they've decided they had enough of us and abandon us. Because they never liked us. They were just too polite to say anything until they couldn't take us anymore.

[allthingstv]

I’ll be there for you, cause your there for me too

[theia-diki]

Lol I forgot to post this yesterday, but Happy UnderTale 8th Anniversary, the fandom that eventually got me to draw haha

Could only manage a simple flat color in time, but still happy about it, wanna pinch those two babies cheeks

Stay Determined Everyone ;)

[gorillaxyz]

i just need to take a chance BUT IM SO SCAAAAAAAREDDDDDD

[grimembraced]

yo! Im Feral. 17+, any pronouns.

anyways, I dont normally use Tumblr but Im gonna post my FNaF stuffs here because other platforms (ahem Twitter ahem) just suck ass at reaching out to ppls who has the same interest. and I just really. want to be annoying. and brainrot over FNaF sometimes. but I have no friends who r as insane as me abt it so Im sadge and ran over to here.

this acc will also be an art archive where I experiment and explore my art style (which I dont have) so.. dont expect me to draw consistently lol

I rarely open this app, usually I just open it to post, scroll down a bit, maybe rb smth I like, and then close it, so please forgive me for not interacting as much!

so yeah! nice to meet you! :o)

(art tag is #my art !)

(doodle/scribbles tag is #doodle !)

(non art tag is #rambles !)

my other socials:

@tikuscore (Twitter)

@tikuscore.bsky.social (Bluesky)

[edwardashley]

what it feels like trying to coordinate hangouts with all the individuals in my 4 different friend groups

[princessacanthaster]

As I start to jot down my "platonic" f/os im kinda realizing i dont...actually feel anything towards them. and its not a fictional thing i feel it 4 people too

i experienced platonic attraction before but now for several months i just dont really feel it anymore

Ermm....aplatonic self shipper nation rise (specifically caedplatonic ...? maybe)

[spicyicymeloncat]

Wait when is dragons rising??? Damn I haven’t even finished crystalised yet