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When I was 6 or 7, I would freak out if I didn't have easy access to a sink.
I hated my hands being sticky, it was just unbearable at all times. I still hate it.
It was because of this that I went to therapy and got diagnosed with OCD. I started exposure therapy the next week. I'm quite sure it was weekly.
The thing is, you can't expect a child to understand that exposure therapy is supposed to fit into their boundaries, because a small child is taught that they should do adults tell you, and as long as they do that, they're fine.
Saying "No" wasn't something I did often. Being told that I wasn't 'picky' or anything like it was nice, but I mainly didn't want to hurt anyone's feelings.
I think that's why I have such negative feelings towards exposure therapy. I tell people that I went to exposure therapy and they tell me that they want to go, to see if it would help them with ___. I have never seen it as helpful, though. I've always seen it as something I had to go through because of a condition I have.
Someone saying that they want to go to exposure therapy will always sound foreign. Strange. Confusing.
It's always a "Why would you want to?" feeling. There's not quite a word to describe it. Sort of an empty feeling, maybe.
It's like somebody had just told me they wanted to get stuck on the nether roof in a hardcore world.
...The therapist wasn't 'bad', I wouldn't say. I don't hate her. She wasn't a bad person, and she tried to adjust it to my age, I think.
I wish that the plan followed the 'one step at a time' idea, like I was told it was supposed to.
At my first day at therapy, I hid behind a chair. Because I was expected to eat food that had dropped on the ground, since 'normal kids' would be able to do that without qualms about it.
It's strange to be told that you shouldn't be upset about something that should seem disgusting to everyone. Not only is it the floor, but this was a therapists office. It's not a clean space to eat from.
I wouldn't always, or, usually, have time to eat before. I'd usually end up bringing a lunch or something like that. I'm pretty sure it was because this interrupted school, and I hadn't had lunchtime yet.
It's kind of odd to be told that since you are learning to accept things, that the thing that you brought, something you enjoyed, should be ruined on the ground before you ate it. Before you enjoyed it.
I quickly learned to eat in the car
I don't exactly know what this is about, but this is a better explanation of how I got diagnosed with OCD and what exposure therapy was like for me. There's more, but unfortunately it's 2:35 am, and I have school tomorrow
So, thanks for reading.
#I've always thought of everything in life as a metaphor#Or#for a child.#People talk about taking care of a child and understanding their needs and emotions like they're some sort of fragile scientific expiriment#but i think to a child#something they enjoy is something they enjoy#and something they don't enjoy is something they don't enjoy#negatives subtract from positives#whenever you start to make them do something they don't like and ruin the positives#you're making it a negative experience
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Over the Garden Wall 10th Anniversary stop motion short by creator Patrick McHale and Aardman Animations
#Over the Garden Wall#OTGW#video#THIS IS SO BEAUTIFUL I'M CRYING#yeah... i'm gonna need a full length OTGW stop motion film please i'm on my KNEES#stop motion really does such an incredible job of capturing the beauty and tranquility of this series#and Greg my sweet precious child i've missed you so <3
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coding got me saying shit like “target the child” “assign its class” “override its inheritance” like the third wife of a dying oil baron discovering his of-age son born out of wedlock
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This is how many bullets they shot on a fucking kid.
This post has been compiled in Record of Genocide.
#palestine#from the river to the sea palestine will be free#gaza#free gaza#fuck israel#genocide#students for justice in palestine#palestine news#free palestine#gaza genocide#gaza news#stop the genocide#israel is committing genocide#stop israel#boycott israel#israel#america posting#america politics#fuck america#america#vote biden#president biden#biden administration#joe biden#biden#fuck trump#donald trump#trump 2024#child abuse#children of gaza
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as a child there's nothing cooler than a kid who gets subjected to evil experiments and gains special abilities. it's even cooler if these abilities also cause unfathomable suffering to use/against others. children love stories like this.
#I'm talking about max ride flatmate is watching spy x family#reminiscing on my multiple stories and ocs about this like truly#I think this might not be as universal as i think but if you liked max ride it probably was. my main oc as a tiny child was#a girl who grew up to be an unethical scientist who loved experimenting on humans and children. she could turn into a flying purple wolf bt#maximum ride
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I absolutely think adults, especially parents, ascribe manipulative intent to children when they shouldn't and it's absolutely a problem but it's always kind of funny to me when people go online and proclaim that children are incapable of manipulation. When I was three I asked my mom to get my older sibling their favorite candy bar at the grocery story because I knew she'd get me mine too as a reward for being thoughtful and that was way more likely to succeed than if I just asked for a candy bar for me. And it worked. Children scheme at a developmentally appropriate level the trick is not assuming children scheme at an adult level.
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As someone who works with social history for a living, I feel like I’m the aggressive opposite of an anti-vaxxer
I fucking LOVE vaccines, friends. Give me the science stab. I’m so ready. it’s a beautiful day to not die of a Bajillion and one diseases that carried off like half the population before they had even reached age 10, and a significant portion before they made it to old age, 150 years ago
I go to the old cemetery. I see the vast numbers of infant and child and young adult graves. And then I go to my doctor and get injected with Potion of Fuck That Noise. This is beautiful and miraculous and I do not remotely understand how some people can reject it – not just for themselves, but for their children
#vaccines#history#child death#got my first Potion of Fuck Cervical Cancer today#(A bit above the recommended age but as far as I know I’ve never been exposed to HPV so)#(it should still be significantly helpful)
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The group released approximately 6,000 crickets from bags hidden on their persons which they snuck through security just before a talk on the “dangers” of medical transition. They made sure to spread the crickets (which do not infest and pose no danger to humans) across the entire hall, in order to ensure the conference could be safely brought to an end. The speech was postponed and later speeches were cancelled.
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Anyways, thinking about Batman pulling his disappearing act on the GCPD rooftop for the first time after partnering with Robin, and just leaving Robin behind.
Gordon turns around, notices that Batman is gone but the kid is not. Then Robin notices that Batman is gone, and promptly burst into tears because, “He left me! He left me behind!”
Jim Gordon is not heartless and he’s a father, he takes the kid into the precinct. He gives him a blanket and a snack. He tries to calm him down and asks if he knows a phone number that he could call for Batman. He gets a wobbly, “He doesn’t have a phone.”
Jim steps out of his office for a second to speak with an officer about turning the bat signal back on, and when he gets back to his office the kid is gone. The crime scene photos and forensic report from the joker attack yesterday are also gone from his office.
Meanwhile Robin is standing in the alley behind the GCPD, waving as Batman grapples down to meet him. He gives him a big smile and says, “I got the evidence!”
“Good job, Chum.”
#there’s a lot of advantages to having a child sidekick#- Batman to the JLA at some point#Robin#Bruce Wayne#dick Grayson#Batman
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#capitalism#virtue signaling#eat the rich#religion#christianity#atheism#atheist#the left#progressive#working class#labor#child labor#workers rights#twitter post
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a small child came into the café today and asked to buy a chocolate truffle. he tapped a credit card on the reader and it did not go through, mainly because it was not a credit card but in fact a junior cinema pass. i gently explained he couldn't use that to buy things in shops and he looked so gutted that i was like "...but just this once you can have it for free, don't tell my boss though" he said thank you and walked out with his truffle and as he went i heard him chuckling to himself and saying "yes..... yes!!!!!" like the sickos comic
#slightly dotty child or world's most precocious scam artist? you decide.#i asked where his parents were and apparently they were queuing for a table at the restaurant across the street#he even pointed them out to me#so don't worry this was not an unsupervised bébé#be shh now#containment breach
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Funny things I found out playing with language setting in Netflix while looking episode 15:
Chilchuck's scream sounds HAUNTED in brazilian portuguese. Give it a try if you can.
(You can hear it here)
In spanish dub, Senshi says: "tocó mis senos de hombre", which means "he touched my man boobs" in Spanish. And I think that's the best dub line one so far.
#i love replaying certain scenes (usually screams) to see how they nailed it in other dubs#ive done it with Chilchuck & Mickbell screams because they're the funniest ones#give it a shot if you can#its really funny to hear certain character voices in other languages#for example. brazilian portuguesse gave both mickbell and chilchuck un-childlike voices (in japaneese both sound like little childs)#and they reused Chilchuck's japaneese screams for most of the other languages because he is so high-pitched and full of terror that it work#dungeon meshi#chilchuck#chilchuck tims#dunmeshi#delicious in dungeon#senshi#senshi of izganda#senshi dungeon meshi#idk how do you people screen record the episodes#if i knew how to i would put the shots here#my shit#thanks to the one that made the clip on Chil's scream im in love here <3
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don't ask him about that it's private
#for the record if senshi actually did have an illegitimate child he wouldnt know about it#no WAY he’d be a deadbeat on purpose#dungeon meshi#delicious in dungeon#senshi of izganda#marcille donato#chilchuck tims#my art#comic
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