#felicitat

[sextavas]

Amor i Por: Un Duet Perillós?

Cuida el teu cor.

L'amor porta a la por.

La por és el camí

cap al Costat Fosc.

La por porta a la ràbia,

la ràbia porta a l'odi,

l'odi al sofriment.

Un cor valent, no tremola ni es retreu, Reconéix el por, i amb saviesa el supera. L'amor autèntic, ens omple de força, Ens guia en la foscor, i ens fa més feli��os.

[anumineverumi]

Nueva #etapa. Nueva #vida. #psicología #valorarse #autocuidado #amorpropio #feliz #felicidad #happy #felicitat #mónrural #mundorural #unacatalanaenleón (en Matallana de Torío, Spain) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cp4qpWYtzeC/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[negreabsolut]

«L’ésser humà no troba pau i felicitat enlloc, si no és en el seu propi Montserrat.»

~Goethe~

[mnoguesa12]

Comentari d'un audiovisual

Analitzem la pel·lícula "La Teoria Sueca de l'Amor".

La pel·lícula "La Teoria Sueca de l'Amor" és una reflexió sobre la manera com vivim i busquem l'amor a la societat actual. A través de la narrativa, es qüestiona la idea que la felicitat i la realització personal es poden trobar mitjançant relacions romàntiques o matrimonis perfectes. En comptes d'això, s'argumenta que l'amor veritable i durador és una cosa que es troba dins d'un mateix i que es pot compartir amb altres persones en una varietat de formes.

A més, la pel·lícula també aborda temes com la solitud, la tecnologia i el seu impacte en les relacions humanes, i la importància de trobar un propòsit i un significat a la vida. D'aquesta manera "La Teoria Sueca de l'Amor" ens invita a reflexionar sobre la nostra pròpia recerca de l'amor i la felicitat, i a qüestionar els supòsits i mites que s'han difós a la societat sobre aquests temes. Ens permet ser crítics amb la individualització i a reflexionar sobre el fet que sovint ens les haguem d'arreglar com podem amb el suport de la gent que ens envolta, també genera satisfaccions, les quals no et dóna la societat dels individus. A Madrid, es produïen migracions de dones joves del Marroc que no volien casar-se amb el que dictava la seva família o de dones separades, mentre que a Barcelona, les migracions eren de reagrupament familiar, dones casades que es retrobaven aquí amb els seus respectius marits. Aquí entre la qüestió de la modernitat i les societats arcaiques. Aquestes últimes s'associen a accions col·lectives, mentre que la modernitat s'associa a la individualització. Weber va ser un dels primers que va parlar d'Alemanya com un país modern, ja que en tema religiós cada individu vivia la seva espiritualitat de manera individual, en canvi, Andalusia era arcaica, pel fet que la religió es vivia de manera col·lectiva, realitzant processons on assistien milers de persones. Què passa si traslladem la teoria de la individualització a l'àmbit educatiu? Doncs que ens trobem amb el gran dilema actual: l'educació personalitzada. És bona? És dolenta? Fins a quin punt personalitzar tant els aprenentatges és convenient per l'estudiant? Els hi estem fent un favor a l'alumnat? L'estem condemnant?

[tornoaserjo]

Mataria per una piscina

[guillemelgat]

I'm posting this because it's a bop and I haven't been able to stop listening to it for the past week. The title and song reference Mercè Rodoreda, who is possibly the most famous Catalan author ever, she's certainly one of the most important writers in 20th century Catalonia. The protagonist of the video is reading her novel Mirall trencat (Broken Mirror), and there are several lines in the song which reference her works, hence the title. I'd try to mark the quotes, except that I would probably miss half of them, but if someone wants to take a stab at it I'd love to see that!

Deixa’m dir en la meva defensa Let me say in my defense que trobar-te aquí no estava a l’agenda, That finding you here wasn’t on my agenda que tinc més que coll avall que això de tu, de mi, That I’m in over my head, that this thing with you, with me que res: que era remoure la merda. That whatever, that it was fueling the fire Sé que no em convens, que és perdre el temps, I know you’re not good for me, that it’s a waste of time que no vals ni un dels segons que encara tinc. That you’re not worth even one of the seconds I still have Que l’amor, amb tu, com més lluny, més bonic, That love, with you, is better the further away it is citant Mercè Rodoreda. To quote Mercè Rodoreda

Deixa’m dir en la meva defensa, Let me say in my defense que trobar-te aquí no estava a l’agenda. That finding you here wasn’t on my agenda Que m’agrada caminar de nit, carrers petits. That I like to walk at night down small streets Hi ha màgia en la cosa de perdre’t. There’s magic in the act of losing yourself Dius: em puc quedar una estona amb tu? You say, Can I sit with you a while? I somric perquè se’t veu d’una hora lluny: And I smile because I can see you from a mile off Si fas nosa no ho has mai de preguntar, If you get in the way you never need to bother asking això s’ha de saber veure, You’ve got to be able to see that citant Mercè Rodoreda. To quote Mercè Rodoreda

[ TORNADA: Deixa’m dir que encara no estic bé, Let me say that I’m still not okay i que intento no passar pel teu carrer, And that I try not to go down your street i que hi ha cançons que salto molt sovint. And that there’s songs that I often skip Ets tu, record per tota la vida. It's you, you're a memory for the rest of my life Deixa’m dir que encara no soc jo, Let me say that I’m still not myself que ara em falta temps per endreçar-te a lloc, That now I need time to tuck you away in your place que només hi ha vida si la vius a poc a poc, That there’s only a life if you live it slowly citant Mercè Rodoreda. To quote Mercè Rodoreda ]

Deixa’m dir en la meva defensa, Let me say in my defense que trobar-te aquí no estava a l’agenda. That finding you here wasn’t on my agenda que, a vegades, surto així, del plan conèixer gent, That sometimes I go out like this, to meet people que funciona. Hauries de veure That it works—you should see com he anat guanyant soltura, How I’ve been gaining independence com he esporgat pors paralitzants, gegants, i tant: How I’ve cast away paralyzing, gigantic fears; indeed les coses importants són sempre les que no ho semblen, The important things are always the ones that don’t seem it citant Mercè Rodoreda. To quote Mercè Rodoreda

[ TORNADA ]

Deixa’m dir que encara no estic bé, Let me say that I’m still not okay i que intento no passar pel teu carrer, And that I try not to go down your street i que hi ha cançons que salto molt sovint. And that there’s songs that I often skip Ets tu, record per tota la vida. It’s you, a memory for the rest of my life Deixa’m dir que encara no soc jo, Let me say that I’m still not myself que ara em falta temps per endreçar-te a lloc, That now I need time to tuck you away in your place que ara tot és fràgil, tot tremola. That right now everything is fragile, everything is shaking Tinc una autoestima en construcció. My self-love is under construction

Deixa’m dir que hauria estat pitjor, Let me say that it could have been worse que era un gran deliri aquella set d’amor. That it was all a great delusion, that thirst for love Quan et llances a estimar i surts escaldat, què fas? When you throw yourself into loving someone and you end up getting burnt, what do you do? Has de canviar de manera. You have to change something

Deixa’m dir que encara no soc jo, Let me say that I’m still not myself que ara em falta temps per endreçar-te a lloc, That now I need time to tuck you away in your place que només hi ha vida si la vius a poc a poc, That there’s only a life if you live it slowly citant Mercè Rodoreda. To quote Mercè Rodoreda

[jun-elli]

Gran orgull i feliç lluita 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

[f-elicitat]

Não era você. Não era você porque, se fosse, eu não seria eu. Não era você porque eu tentaria, sob todas as formas, me encaixar no espaço que talvez você nem fosse me dar, e Deus sabe disso. Não era você porque, no fundo, você não quis. Porque eu teria que me desdobrar para provar que valeria a pena o seu sacrifício. Não era justamente porque haveria um sacrifício. Não era porque eu não poderia me justificar a todo o momento, na tentativa de demonstrar que eu era a sua pessoa. Não era porque, naquela época, eu teria me negado por completo para me transformar em sua versão. A versão que te teria e me afastaria cada vez mais de mim. Ou de quem eu acho que quero ser. Então não, não era você. Foi por um tempo, confesso. E eu quis muito que continuasse a ser. Mas há um momento, e ele chega para todas nós, que a gente percebe que nada é tão importante quando se manter presente para si mesma. Eu morri de amores por ti, mas continuei respirando, e foi então que eu finalmente percebi que eu só não poderia morrer para mim. Mesmo com todos os pedacinhos quebrados e jogados ao chão, eu não poderia deixar de me reconstruir e continuar caminhando. Por mim. Por quem eu já fui. Por quem eu pretendo ser. Então não, não era você. E talvez não seja ninguém, o que é uma pena. Mas hoje eu consigo agradecer por isso. Se fosse somente por mim, seria todos, menos eu. Mas como não é, repito, não era - e não é - você. E agora posso afirmar: que bom que não. Felicitat.

[wosoamazing]

Trying & Trimester 1

Baby x3 | Baby, Baby... Baby?

Summary: The first trimester of pregnancy

Warnings: IVF, Pregnancy (morning sickness at end)

“Bebé, if I have to sit it’s only fair you sit too,” Alexia whined from her position on the couch.

“I’m coming Ale, I am just getting you a hot water bottle,”

“Per què?” 

“You know the answer to that,” you told her as you sat down next to her handing her the hot water bottle which she immediately put on her stomach as she pulled you inside her side.

“Thank you,” she whispered before focusing back on the match you had playing on the screen.

You’d met Alexia when you signed for Barca in 2016, having previously played for Chelsea, you were in the academy there before making your senior team debut in 2013. A month into you being at Barca Alexia asked you out, and a year later you tore your LCL, ACL and your internal meniscus, ending your playing career, and ‘ruining’ Alexia’s proposal plans, however 6 months later Alexia proposed to you and you of course said yes. You were both now happily married and you worked for Barça as the assistant coach for the women’s team. 

—————

“You’re doing IVF now aren’t you?” Mapi asked when you walked out onto the pitch the next day at training. You’d grown close to Mapi over the years, due to her being one of Alexia’s best friends.

“Why do you say that?” you asked.

“You were both away yesterday, Alexia is only doing light training today and she has been snappier than usual for the past two weeks,”

“We are, but we didn’t want to tell anyone other than Eli because we’re not sure if it will work or not,” you admitted and Mapi nodded before hugging you.

“If you need anything just ask,” she told you firmly before going to warm up.

“Bebé, are you feeling okay?” Alexia asked as she emerged from the office, having taken the day off for your egg transfer, only to see you laid on the couch in a foetal position, under a blanket despite the heat. 

“What if it doesn’t work again,” you mumbled, having already tried three times, all three being unsuccessful, you just really wanted a baby and it wasn’t working.

“Then we try again or we look at other options,” she reasoned with you and you nodded, before climbing onto her lap, she wrapped her arms around you tightly placing her chin on top of your head before she felt you start to softly cry, “It will be okay, we’ll be okay,” Alexia said and you were unsure whether she was reassuring your or herself, she was unsure about that too.

“You’ve been having a lot of blood tests lately, are you sure you’re okay?” Aitana asked you as she’d noticed the tape on your arm.

“Yes I’m sure, when they did the first one, some of my levels were out, so they are just doing subsequent ones to check they’ve fixed themselves,” you lied to her, but thankfully she believed you and nodded before walking away.

“Are you okay?” Mapi asked, knowing the real reason why, it was just you and her left in the meeting room.

“I think. We will find out this afternoon, so it’s just a waiting game,” you told her and she nodded giving you a brief hug before you both left the meeting room and headed out to the pitch.

—

You were visiting Eli when you got the email, having stepped foot into the kitchen when you got the notification.

“Ale, Babe, come here,” you said and she was quick to leave her spot on the couch and to be at your side, “it worked?”

“It worked?”

“Sí, look here,” you said as you put the phone in her hands, she looked down to read it and her face softened before she looked back up to you.

“You’re pregnant,” she said quietly.

“We’re having a baby,” and with that she hugged you tightly.

“Felicitats,” Eli said through tears before hugging you both.

“Què està passant? Per què tothom plora? (What’s going on? Why is everyone crying?)” Alba asked as she emerged from her bedroom.

“You’re going to be a Tia,” you told her and her face twisted in confusion before she soon realised and was joining the group hug, starting to cry as well. You messaged your parents to tell them the exciting news, knowing they wouldn’t be able to answer your call currently, before Alexia messaged Mapi to also tell her the news.

Leading up to your six week ultrasound your breasts had started to become more tender and you were peeing a lot more than you used to, which you expect to happen until further into your pregnancy, and it was safe to say the multiple trips to the bathroom every day was getting old fast. It was during your six week ultrasound that you found out you were having multiple babies, it was decided that you would be booked into see a perinatologist, in four weeks, to confirm the number but also make a plan for your pregnancy.

—

“And if you see here we have three babies, who have perfectly split and all have their very own sack,” the perinatologist said as he pointed to the screen, where your three babies were displayed.

“How’s that possible?” Alexia asked in pure shock she knew how it was just crazy.

“It’s a one in a million chance that an egg with split into three, so yes, very rare but it all is looking good, I’ll print those off for you whilst you get cleaned up and then we can talk more about the pregnancy and how we’re going to approach this,”

“Three?” you asked as you looked at Alexia, both still shocked.

“Sí, but we are going to love all of them, we can do this,” she reassured herself.

The perinatologist explained some things to look out for in the pregnancy, he also told you that your symptoms would most likely be worse than a single pregnancy due to having more hormones, which explained why you already needed to pee so much. He spoke more on what conversations and tests would also need to happen further into your pregnancy.

“Bebé,” you heard Alexia say groggily from your position on the bathroom floor, “are you okay?” Before you had the chance to respond you were leaning back over the toilet, “Oh bebé, estic aquí,” Alexia said softly as she positioned herself on the ground behind you, rubbing your back, “do you need anything?” she asked as you collapsed back into her, having finished.

“Stay,” you replied out of breath.

“Why didn’t you wake me?” she said as she settled in more leaning up against the wall before pulling you into her side.

“You were up all night last night with me, and the night before, and the game this weekend is important, you need to be rested,” you said as you sat up again.

“Et tinc, estàs bé,” Alexia murmured as you sat back up to lean over the toilet, once again collapsing back into her once you were done.

“You’re more important than a game bebé and don’t ever think otherwise, if you’re worried about me getting injured I won’t play, you matter more than football does, promesa.” Alexia said and you hummed in reply, “Do you want to go back to bed or stay here? I bought some sick bags this afternoon,” you let out a sigh of relief at that, the stress of accidentally throwing up somewhere other than the toilet could be lowered.

“Bed please,”

Alexia helped you stand up and clean your teeth before she guided you back to the bed. Helping you sit up against the pillows before sitting beside you, wrapping her arm around your shoulders as you rested your head on her shoulder, she placed a sick bag in her lap, so it was easy to grab if you did end up needing it.

“T'estimo,” she said into the crown of your head, placing a kiss there as her hand ran up and down your side.

“I love you too, thank you for helping me, I’m sorry I keep throwing up,”

“Bebé, of course I would help you, and it’s not your fault, you’re growing three little babies in there. But I still think we talk to the doctor, just incase it doesn’t go away,”

[pelova4president]

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HEM TORNAT, CULERS 💙❤️

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alexiaputellas ❤️❤️

keirawalsh hermosa

y/nsbonmati wish y/n and aitana could both win

↳ goatmati did you see them after the game, they were so cute!!

barcafem11 y/n needs to come to barca

(pretend that jana is aitana and you’re jill)

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mi amor és casa ❤️

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y/n_y/l/n my love 😘

↳ aitanabonmati 🌍❤️

lucybronze who made those amazing photo’s again??

↳ keirawalsh shut up i made those, yours were shit

↳ aitanabonmati true

y/n/l_bonmati14 they’re an absolute powercouple

↳ wosofem1789 y/n should come to barca

↳ goatbarca they’re definitely gonna sign her in the summer

(pretend you’re frido)

y/n_y/l/n, fcbfemeni

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hola, culers 👋

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aitanabonmati mi vida❤️❤️

fembarca11 I KNEW ITTT

barcal0v3r were gonna destroy every team in the CL

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my girl may have won all the prizes a footballer can get but i’ve won the real prize here ❤️

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jillroord and I thought jana and i were cheesy 🥴

↳ y/n_y/l/n shut up we’re not

↳ janafernandez3 jill they’re cuteee

keirawalsh barca’s powercouple 💪

alexiaputellas ❤️❤️

fanbarcafem123 the best couple

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life lately 🫠

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lucybronze living the good life

keirawalsh aitana goodmorning 👋

y/n_y/l/n life with you has been quite alright

↳ aitanabonmati just alright?

↳ y/n_y/l/n okay maybe a bit more than alright?

y/n_y/l/n, aitanabonmati

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a still tiny surprise at the end 🍼

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fcbfemeni felicitats, nascut per ser culer

keirawalsh i’m gonna be the favourite aunt

↳ lucybronze no, i’m definitely the cooler auntie

alexiaputellas tia ale 😍😍

janafernandez3 too cute!! can’t wait

↳ jillroord i want one too 🥺

barcafem1987 THIS IS TOO CUTEEE

wosoawfc a little culer!!

A/N i got a request for cheesy adorable aitana and reader so here it is!

[cruyffista]

Felicitats Masia!: vintage documentary on the cohort of La Masia at the time (footage from 1987).

[sextavas]

Tant de Bo" Suu - Un Cant a l'Alegria i l'Esperança

Tant de bo

que tu fossis com jo,🐝

i veiessis la vida més dolça i menys podrida.

Tant de bo que jo fos més com tu,

i conegués la vida d’aprop,🐝

perquè portes anys escrivint-li cançons.

...

Canta,🐝🐝

que la vida ho demana.

La veritat m’és igual el destí,

el que vull és que caminis amb mi

[talkingwoso]

Felicitat 😁

[negreabsolut]

[archivingbarca]

fcbarcelona: 🥇 Fermín, Cubarsi, and Eric Garcia win the gold medal at the Olympic Games #Paris2024

Felicitats, medallistes! 👏

(ig, 09/08/24)

[fletxerandoliver]

Què és allò que nosaltres anomenem felicitat? És evident que per a cada persona eixa paraula té un significat distint. Doncs i per a mi? Quina cosa és eixa que jo vull? Quina cosa necessite per a poder transitar per aquesta vida de la millor manera possible, sense angoixes impossibles de digerir?

En soc conscient que, com sempre, em disperse molt i no sé anar a l’arrel del problema o de la qüestió …realment què volem dir quan anomenem la paraula felicitat?