#feb 16 2024

[fridayagaingarfiebaby]

Friday Again Garfie Baby

[abybweisse]

Ch209 spoilers to come. Full chapter.

[we-joyless-few]

i’m sorry i’ve been away so long. i’m gonna keep it a buck-75 with you guys.

tw abuse

i was in a month-long abusive relationship with someone who used to be my friend. a shitty friend, at that. she’s honestly the worst person i have ever met, and i’m thankful she’s out of my life now.

she isolated me, exhausted me, and did much worse than that. i’m thankful we were long-distance only because i probably would never have been able to leave otherwise.

she prevented me from doing things i enjoyed because of how much attention she demanded, including posting here. i only got a few posts in on my other blogs and this one because i only had a spare few chances to do so.

you know shit is bad when the only place you’re granted space is at work. even my “alone time” had her still sending messages and asking for me to do stuff with her.

i’m thankful to be out, but the whole thing was traumatizing and upsetting and i have worse trust issues now than i had going in.

anyway, all that is to say that i’m gonna do what i can to regain some normalcy around here and try to be more active again.

i’ve been writing and reading fics of different fandoms and been doing all the things i enjoy now that i have the freedom to.

i’ll try to post something more light-hearted for my next post, but for now i’m gonna get ready for work.

[austinslounge]

Austin and Josh will be on the Graham Norton show on February 16th! 😁

[sarahlynnirl]

todays mood is the people closest to me continuing to put me through the emotional wringer

[diavalkitty]

Heyyyyy:3

can I hear a wahoo?

[styleandcheek]

I’ll always remember this bday

Also, that outfit was meaningfulllll 😍😘

[destinyc1020]

🥰😍

8 years ago... wow.... time has flown by.... 🥹

tomholland2013: 8 years ago today! No safer hands than @.georgejcottle and his team. Good times. #spidermanhomecoming

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[mappingthesky]

Every time I think I’m out of the Plane Jane hyper-fixation woods, I somehow find myself deep into the planymphia tag at one in the morning just like “well fuck, this is back in full force and likely will be for the next week”.

So in honor of that happening (YET AGAIN) I would just like to thank you for creating this little safe space for us to scream about The Wives (actually tho- how tf are they so hot) your work is very much appreciated <3

they are truly the gift that keeps on giving :’) and i am so endlessly grateful that they do, because it’s brought me to this blog and to all of you!!

anon, this could make me cry!! :’) i am so honored & this means more to me than you know, thank you for your kind words!! in all honesty this blog is my safe space and my escapism and my place to be wonderfully not normal about all of the things i love, and it would not exist without those of you that are right here with me!! so thank YOU for sharing in the joy <3

[mangyuv]

my bad y'all, he fell out of my pocket 🤦🏽‍♀️

smol yuuta okkotsu 🤍

[mikeywayarchive]

Instagram story by mikeyway

[Feb 16, 2024]

[formerheroeswhoquittoolate]

fine I'll do it I'll make an about me post (this sounds begrudging but I actually am excited to do so)

anyway hi! my name's kili (yes like the dwarf in the hobbit) and uh here's some stuff about me that's not in my blog description

I like comics! I like them a lot. despite the size discrepancy between my batfamily posting and my marvel posting at this point in time I'm actually a way bigger marvel fan than dc fan (just because dc's continuity mess is a lot for my stickler-for-cohesiveness brain to handle)

I also like superheroes! one of these first two points may be a side effect of the other.

I do read comics! I know a lot of marvel and dc fans don't (which is fine! by the way) but yeah I do so generally speaking I tend to be talking about those more. also it's been my special interest for like eightplus years so I know a lot. sorry in advance.

I am a proud member of the "charles xavier sucks" club. the man should not be trusted with anyone's children. ever. or adults. or even like plants. just put him in a little cardboard box with a plastic cactus. he'll be fine.

I really enjoy storytelling, both doing it myself and analyzing how other people do it. the second thing is much easier to do than the first but I try my best! (I'm black_banners_raised on ao3, by the way)

I have my own rules for capitalization and they probably seem arbitrary, but in general I tend to not capitalize unless I'm more or less writing an essay. if you're ever confused by my tone please ask! I don't mind clarifying.

I also really really like music and I probably won't post about it much but I have playlists for a lot of stories/characters and I love thinking about sound and lyrics and all of that. it's just another form of storytelling! and it's such a fun form too.

I work in a church! my job is actually to help make it more progressive and accessible to people who are not old and white and it's going well I think (as of now my biggest accomplishment is a summer camp inclusive to disabled and neurodivergent campers, but I'm working on single-use gender neutral bathrooms!)

I like parentheses (this is probably obvious)

I'm not a great artist but I absolutely love fanart! (people who can draw have my eternal admiration)

I'll probably think of other things and add them later

and yeah that's me! hi it's nice to meet you

[snkrbonbon]

Nike KD 4 "GALAXY"

[pangur-and-grim]

a lot of you probably knows Belphie's story, but I'll summarize just in case.

Devon Rex cats are better for people with allergies (less shed fur + less Fel d1 protein in their saliva), so on February 16, 2024, I went the breeder route and put down a deposit. before Belphie even opened his eyes, he was mine!

every Friday, the breeder sent me a new photo. I had a broken leg, and was basically rotting in bed at that point, so it was the best part of my week. then, at 12 weeks old, I BROUGHT HIM HOME!

at first, he was so alive! like a wind-up monkey that never shut off. he dangled from the wall-hangings, savaged my feet as I walked, and used my elderly cats as jumping poles to do cool acrobatics over. but all this gradually faded.

first, he stopped playing. then he stopped climbing. then he stopped moving much at all. my vet ran tests on him and found multiple pathogens (calcivrius + mycoplasma), but the medication didn't help - he kept declining.

on September 17th, I woke up to find him swollen like a balloon. we finally had an answer: he had Feline infectious Peritonitis, aka FIP. before 2017, this would've been a death sentence. he would've kept bloating until he drowned in his own fluids. and before 2024, I would've been forced to inject him with black market drugs. but thankfully, South Tower Animal Hospital in Fergus, Ontario was doing a study on the oral medication! we drove two hours, enrolled him, and left with the GS-441524 pills.

and he went from those photos above.....to this:

I thought Belphie would die as a kitten. I'd accepted that he would never grow up. but now he gets to LIVE!

and all for the low cost of $7,553.....ahhhahaha........god.

that + a recent home disaster has wiped out my savings, but I still need to pay for Belphie's medication. to remain in this study, I need to do bloodwork monthly until Feb 2025, and he'll need daily pills until March 2025.

I've put a risograph print + enamel pin set up at greerstothers.shop. I hate asking for help, but if you'd like to support Belphie's continued treatment, please consider checking them out!

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