#extreme tranny fuck

[moe-broey]

"I didn't really raise either of you in a gendered way" When I was like 10 or 11 maybe 12 but definitely not 13 yet, one day you asked me if I wanted to try on the wedding dress you married my dad in. I liked playing dress up and I liked hanging out with you, so I said yes. We're in the living room that you would (already have?) marry my stepdad in. You button up the back of the dress, I don't know why this becomes a core memory. You married my stepdad in a sundress, very casual, very small "event", only the barest of minimum people required to officiate and witness the wedding were there. You tell me, "Maybe one day, when you get married, you can wear this dress. Oh, but you don't have to if you don't want to! But, do you want it?" I still have the dress. I'm a man. And I don't think I'll ever marry. "You can get rid of it, you won't hurt my feelings." I can't.

[frankenfran]

people calling marcille a chaser or an insane cis woman or whatever don't fucking get it. she's an extremely beautiful but extraordinarily neurotic trans woman with lots of weird internalised shame and a whole lot of pressure on her. her neurotic and defensive nature makes her an easy target so she only lets people see her "perfect student" side and subtly pushes people away before they can hurt her.

farlin is the only girl who's ever seen right through her straight to the core of her being which happens to be a scared little girl clinging to her plushie for dear life. around her that whole pretense drops and she becomes the silly expressive tantrum girl she really is.

when marcille told her the story from her childhood where she poured juice on ants because she thought they were thirsty farlin was the only one who didn't laugh at something that was clearly so traumatic to her. she said it was such a sweet an innocent thing to do regardless of the outcome and that if she were marcille's mom she wouldn't have punished her for such an innocent mistake.

they're both weird trannies who need each other!

[max1461]

Don't you realize that trans women are also seen as sex objects? Like, to way more of a degree than cis women, in fact? Trans women were associated extremely strongly with sex work until like, maybe a 10 or 15 years ago, and to many people still are. Do you not remember that? Are you not familiar with the trope of a "tranny prostitute"? "Shemale" as a porn category? Do you not realize this was almost certainly the most common way people saw depictions of trans women until the last decade?

If you tell me in full seriousness "cis women are seen as sex objects and trans women aren't", I think you're completely fucking blinded by ideology. You're literally paying zero fucking attention. Trans women have been seen as sex objects to a far greater degree than cis women ever have and I think that's pretty close to an irreproachable fact.

Obviously there are differences between trans and cis women's oppression. Trans women don't have to worry about abortion rights or access to menstrual care products. Cis women don't have to worry about explicit transphobic bigotry on top of the misogyny they face. Their experiences aren't exactly the same. But if you're going to tell me that one of the differences is that "trans women aren't viewed as sex objects", I think your analysis is so fucking ridiculous it's hard to even respond to. Really?

[thyfleshc0nsumed]

do you have any tips for "stating that desire" 😳 ? i'm not scared of rejection, but i have no game nor rizz so i'd be pretty nervous just in a palms sweaty kind of way

The first time I was told I have game, I was genuinely baffled. Because I just do the autistic extremely direct communication thing. Like idk it's not like, a "life hack" it's just how I communicate. And besides being a beautiful woman, that is the greatest tool I have, especially since the bitches I'm trying to pick up are also weirdo autistic trannies. So when I say "just state the desire" I literally mean "just say 'hey do you want to make out'" or whatever the desire is. People love an initiator.

Like if I'm going over to talk to someone I wanna fuck around with, I'll usually chat for a few mins and if there seems like there might be interest, i just put it out there. "God, you really are stunning, I would love to blow you if you're down." "Hey I'd really love if you punched my tits"

There is a definitely some reading the room to be done first for sure but like as long as the setting seems right, idk, really in most cases the worst thing that they can do is say no. Maybe it's awkward, maybe it's not. Maybe you fuck it up and have some egg on your face, maybe not (Lord knows I've done so). All you can control is whether or not you actually state the desire, and take a no gracefully.

And like yeah, being turned down can suck, for sure, but isn't it also kinda beautiful? To have allowed yourself the freedom to desire, and to allow yourself to try and fulfill it, entirely unshackled from the results? Cuz you can't control if they're down or not, nor if they will ever initiate, nor if they make it awkward. But you do have control over you, and if you wanna win, you gotta play. You wanna play, you gotta wager.

[reallife6anoufriev6boy6]

trans male artyom x horny degenerate nikita?

transmasc!artyom x horny degenerate!nikita headcanons!

oh sweet anon….sweet, sweet, anon…you have no idea what youve gotten yourself into….i have so many headcanons about this…

absolutely no one but nikita knows that artyom is trans. artyom would rather kill himself then let any other living soul know that he is.

nikita was friends with artyom before he transitioned which is the only reason why he even knows. he became friends with him and was honestly so turned on that a girl would ever bother being his friend, but once he was told he still didnt care.

all it did was make him like him more, realizing that he liked artyom as a whole (and for what he had in his pants).

nikita has made it extremely difficult for artyom to hang out with him without him being a total creep. he just lets that shit out he doesnt care.

nikita definitely started watching porn and snuff of trans people specifically whenever artyom came out. none of it was in a good light as you can imagine, but it only made him more of a needy freak.

i think nikita would have an obsession with artyoms chest specifically. he would always be asking if he can touch it or just even see it which artyom doesnt typically oblige to, but it gets to a certain point where he just has to so he’ll shut up.

i think even when theyre laying in bed together nikita would have a hand over artyoms chest and then another wrapped around his waist - he likes his curves. artyom hates it, but, again, theres not a lot he can do about it other then let his disgust and discomfort known.

however its not all bad for artyom. it makes it way easier to manipulate nikita into doing what he wants because he thinks if he does anything hes asked to then maybe he’ll get a look at his tits or something.

artyom also likes to tease nikita just to fuck with him. sometimes when its just them in his apartment (which it usually is) he’ll take his shirt off and just keep his binder on while nikitas ass would be practically drooling over it. sometimes he’ll even just wear a bra and then that has him cumming in his pants within seconds.

artyom has probably let nikita finger him at least a couple of times. its always hit or miss - sometimes nikita will have watched too much transmasc porn and will know exactly what hes doing or he will be too stupid and horny to bother making it any good.

he also definitely always wants to get his mouth on him to eat him out. hes only gotten to do that at least once though.

nikita wants nothing more then for artyom to get on his dick. that would be absolute heaven to him, but it never gets that far. itll go as far as artyom sitting on his lap, wearing nothing but a bra and panties while nikitas only wearing his boxers - grinding down against him while he whines and pulls at the back of bra to get it off, but nothing more then that.

nikita might get fed up though and do some pretty shitty things to artyom….who knows….winks…

nikita is definitely a freak about artyom whenever hes on his period and he will always just want to help (and to lick it up) but he has no idea what hes doing. he would say some shit like “yes my glorious transmasc, tranny, trans man king….heh…ill lick that blood up for you so it doesnt make a mess….heh…”

nikita, being a freak and finding himself on questionable porn websites, has definitely gotten into misgendering as a kink. he definitely has done it to artyom during their weird sex things which just really pisses him off and nikita doesnt get why he doesnt like it like the “actors” in the video.

hes also said some transphobic things here and there. like incel level type shit because he doesnt know where else to get any of his information from.

[justsumtransdude2000]

hot take but you guys care too fucking much about how queer people look to non-queer people and it shows in the inter community discourse. like, the he/him lesbian thing (which was kind of terf-y im sorry im sorry im sorry) i felt was less about queer people being upset about the 'rules' of a label being defied and more about certain gay people being upset at how the defying of that label made the queer community look, because if labels aren't extremely strict that means there aren't rules, because the queer community's substitute for rules is labels, and if there aren't rules we aren't like the cis straights, and if we look to dissimilar from them and then we can't sit at their table for lunch! like whether you'd like to admit it or not cis straight people (regardless of 'ally status' because honestly I don't think any straight cis people are genuine allies to this community) are kind of the enemy when it comes to queer rights because there is no differentiation between the good cis straight people - the 'allies' - and the bad ones - the ones who actively campaign against us - because everyone has led them to believe the queer community is something we are not, so 'allies' allyship only extends so far (only extends to binary trans people, or people who 'pick a side' or normal trannies - did I say that? I meant trans people!). like you guys are watering the entire community down for the enemy!

[spacelazarwolf]

what's that thing you mentioned about the ossified larynx? does that really affect your voice?

obligatory i am not a vocologist, this is just what i've learned as a trans singer (and someone who used to be a voice teacher and hopes to be again someday) from articles and professionals who work with or are vocologists.

calcification of the cartilage in the larynx (the tissues becoming harder and less flexible due to a buildup of calcium) typically begins around age 18 and the cartilage will begin to ossify (turn into bone) in the late 20s or early 30s. most people in the field of study around the human voice say that the laryngeal tissue of "women" (people who were assigned female at birth, not accounting for folks on hrt) tends to complete ossification in the late 20's and for "men" (people who were assigned male at birth, not accounting for folks on hrt) in the early 30s. there hasn't been as much research done on trans voices, for obvious reasons. i found one study done on one transgender man, and there is a book about teaching trans voices that i have not read yet as it is pretty expensive.

while everyone's voice and body will react differently to hrt, in general: if you (a person assigned female at birth) start testosterone before calcification begins, your voice will develop pretty much exactly like someone who was assigned male at birth that is not on any sort of puberty blockers or hrt. your larynx will grow and tilt (which is what causes an "adam's apple"), and your vocal folds will thicken and lengthen along with your larynx, and (most likely) it will follow a "male" pattern of calcification and ossification.

if you start before your larynx begins to ossify but after it begins to calcify, depending on the degree of calcification, you might have more difficulty adjusting to vocal changes, your larynx might not grow as much, which means your vocal folds won't have as much space to lengthen, but it won't be an extremely noticeable difference.

if you start after your larynx begins to ossify, it will be similar to the above. depending on the degree of ossification, your larynx may not grow much or at all, and your vocal folds might not lengthen much or at all. they will still thicken so the voice will still drop, but you might notice that you can't produce as much volume or depth of tone as an average cis man.

if you start after your larynx has ossified, the larynx will not grow so the vocal folds won't have room to lengthen, but they will still thicken so the voice will still drop. you will likely not be able to produce as much volume or depth of tone as an average cis man.

which all sounds kind of scary, especially when you get to the post-ossification stage, but it's really not. in terms of vocal capability (not what your voice sounds like in the moment but what it's physically capable of sounding like), the only time you might see significant differences between your voice and the average cis man's is when you're singing, particularly if you're singing in a genre that requires a lot of depth like opera. for just speech, most people on testosterone have the vocal capability of matching a cis man's.

a myth i've heard a lot is that "tranny voice/t voice" is caused by the above changes (calcification and ossification etc.), but it actually has a lot more to do with speech patterns, the way you produce sound, not your physical vocal mechanism. if you grew up using speech patterns that are generally associated with "women", speaking more forward in the mouth, upspeak, less space at the back of the throat, less lifting of the soft palate, when your vocal folds start to lengthen and the pitch of your voice drops, that usual buzzy resonance can sound out of place to cis ears. if you love your t voice, then fuck cisnormative vocal standards. speak with whatever tone and resonance you want! trans people should not have to voice train to become palatable to cis people.

however, if you do want to train your voice to make it sound more like a cis man's would, exercises that encourage you to lift your soft palate and open your throat will help with that. some people have success with picturing the voice "coming from" further back in your mouth (which will give you a darker resonance) rather than close to your nose or teeth (which will give you a more forward resonance).

but of course, as with most discussions around hrt, it really does depend on how your body responds. everyone's voice is unique, and everyone's journey is unique.

this article goes a little more in depth about the actual process of calcification and ossification when it comes to singing, but it's quite technical and is mostly talking about classical singing.

[oliviawebsite]

me: i dont like joe biden its extremely discon-

tumblr liberal who still wears "im with her" merch in 2024: FUCK YOU HAVE FUN IN THE CAMPS TRANNY

[cecilnightvalepalmer]

~PermaHigh / TransAddict OC~

I was bored today and decided to fetch out some from-scratch art skills. No bases used for this lovely fellow!

This is High, he uses she/he pronouns and refers to her gender as either tranny or faggot respectively, and he's extremely radqueer!

She's permahigh (weed) and transaddict (coke and party drugs), along with being diaracial (White to Native American), and a self-proclaimed hippie tree-hugging vegan. He does magic, is a witch / wiccan, and hosts events in her reality for radqueers, like parties and rallies and parades.

She's pansexual and aromantic, sex-driven / hypersexual, and likes having FWB relationships. She's also a somnophile (kind of, enjoys her partners being half-asleep or completely relaxed and drugged up during sex).

Hope you all enjoy! And reminder, if you steal my art, I'll find out and you'll be fucked. I think I put enough watermarks to discourage that though.

[40bodiesinmybasement]

I came to radfems with an open mind and a "we agree on so many things, surely they can't be that bad" mindset. And then I realised, that they are, in fact, that bad.

I, naively, stupidly, like many other people, thought that gender criticals and radical feminists were being misrepresented in conversations. Mainstream media acts as if radfems are 'simply concerned for female only spaces', but they aren't.

Actually engaging with radfem and gender critical content, reading their feminism theory and watching their videos, seeing the way they talk about trans people, gender nonconformity, sexuality, made me realise that I was an absolute fucking idiot for thinking these people were okay and good and excellent even.

They've reached a point where they want to eradicate transgender people and gender non conformity as a whole. They're no longer fueled by the desire to protect women, they never were, actually, they've always been conservatives trying to keep things "sacred". Their hate for the trans community transcends all other aspects of their activism, they're constantly on edge for any signs of gnc so that they can weed the trannies out. They support and uplift the voices of Nazis, welcome them into their spaces ( as long as they hate those dirty transsexuals it's all good and dandy ), and if they don't have a big enough flatform to do that then they'll support these nazis by defending and watering down the dangers of their radical ideas. Even if they claim to be trans friendly "tirfs" they're still very much supporting gender criticals by sharing their ideas or recommending their posts, articles and videos. Their ( gender critical and radfem's ) entire ideology is rooted in racism, misogyny, and classism. They're more than happy to shit on women and talk over prostitues/sex workers, women of colour, queer women, etc. They disguise their right wing extremism behind a thin wall of feminism and lgbt-activism. And for those saying that these extremists are not real radfems- people like this are still given a spotlight in your spaces, and are some of the most influential radical feminists, their voices are heard the most.

Genuinely a vile group. I cannot believe how naive I was. But I am glad I listened to the radfems when they told me to actually engage with them before judging them, because if I didn't then I would've still been blindly in support of them.

[scrunglyscrongly]

hey, i’m scrunchy, i’m 19, t4t only please

made whole new account to be a queer faggy tranny dyke on main and be able to like posts lmao

god is dead and i’m here to vibe in the aftermath !!! 100% will be found lurking in the dyke or t4t tag, feel free to say hi

feel free to send horny or unhorny messages or asks, DMs r very open, i like taking care of people, no pics please tho <3 :]

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[edible-emerald]

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[gibbearish]

zayne is a bust, help me pick the next name to try out. propaganda and poll under the cut

for context all of these except cj were found on old english names websites so . thats why theyre so weird lmao

go back to cj: my bf thinks it fits me pretty well (funnily enough his overall opinion on it has flipped from when i first started using it lmao), my issue is that id still have to figure out what to make it stand for. he suggested "cool joke" and i gotta be real with yall im extremely fucking tempted. esp bc i could make my last name Dude. i could legally be Cool Joke Dude.

Erskine: felt weird at first but ive warmed up to it, esp bc when i ran it by friends they were like "what. what is that doing in my brain. what does that remind me of" and when i went "did it conjure a ferret" they were like ?!?!?!?!? YES THAT EXACTLY????? HOW DID YOU KNOW?????? anyways turns out most people are familiar enough with the word "ermine" to associate it with ferrets but not quite enough to remember the word so like. my name could literally be a spell that conjures ferrets in peoples brains without them knowing why.

Llewellyn: full disclosure that i think it sucks but like. in a hilarious way. you know how it's supposed to sound but without fail it takes a second to say out loud. you have to rev up before you can actually get into it. theres such an unnecessary amount of Ls. saying it feels like wading through knee deep water. its so funny

Ravinger: sounds like ravenger. what more is there to say

Tranter: like. i mean. cmon. "hi i'm tranter. tranny for short." / "what's tranny short for?" "cuz ive got little legs:(" LIKE?????

Horst: HORST????? H O R S T???????? i could be HORST?????? thats so funny. thats SO FUNNY. also the website said after it stopped being used as a first name, it became german slang for an unintelligent person. so like. it sounds like horse and is also german for dumbass. thats so fucking funny

Leofwine: i have no idea how this is supposed to be pronounced and neither has anyone ive showed it to, and it is /extremely/ funny watching them try to figure it out. and i could just do that all the time

Wigstan: so i figure its supposed to be pronounced wigstin (which is funny on its own bc winston overwatch) but fuckin. wig stan. wig stan???? wig stan.

Puck+Dex: gotta be honest idk how i feel abt these ones but one of my friends was p into em so figured i should include em just in case

Eoforwine: i think currently my personal favorite of these, i think its pronounced yo fur win which means the nickname would just be Yo, and i dont Like the concept of names in general so my nickname just being 'hey you' would be p nice, and the website said the name itself means "boar friend" which fucks

[milf--adjacent]

I think the part of the "how do I make friends as an adult" equation some of y'all are missing when you go straight to mocking people is that we don't all live in some liberal metro. There's just not much I can do around here. We don't have clubs that don't involve extreme sports or thousands of dollars worth of investment. The four groups that aren't that way are geared towards old people: I wanna meet people my age with my interests. I wanna meet potential partners. I wanna meet people who won't be dead 3 years from now. I'm stuck in a Republican hellhole with two little islands of centrist blue. It is hell for transfems here. I get sir'd at pride in a dress with she/her pinned to me 7 times. The only real way to bump into people around here is to go drinking, and that ain't exactly covid safe.

What the fuck do I do when I'm a tranny trapped in the South and all my friends from the past decade of my life have moved away or abandoned me?

[spiderbitesandvampirevenom]

That post you replied to is especially ridiculous because it is pedophilic to call your own breasts prepubescent. If the fact that you look like a child turns you on then sorry you are just a pedophile!

I was saying that to mock the trans man that the person was theorizing about "fixing" in the screenshot. you've misread my reply. I am supporting the trans woman in that post, not the transmisogynist.

it is not pedophilic to say your own fucking breasts are prepubescent, because they're not inherently sexual AND because NOTHING IN THE DAMN POST IMPLIED IT WAS SAID IN A SEXUAL CONTEXT. You are being transmisogynistic by assuming such simply because a trans woman was mentioned.

HRT IS QUITE LITERALLY MEDICALLY INDUCED PUBERTY. If a trans woman says her breasts are prepubescent and she hasn't or has just recently started E, that is a Factually Accurate Statement about her breasts.

"second puberty" is an extremely common joke ACROSS THE TRANS SPECTRUM regardless of someone's assigned gender at birth.

Now anon, with that out of the way, you have two options. You can read this, rethink the assumptions that lead you down that train of thought, consciously identify and correct your biases, and grow as a person. If you do so, congrats, you're a normal and well-adjusted adult capable of mature conflict resolution and self-reflection. Alternatively, you can go "LALALALA I CANT HEAR YOU PEDO TRANNY" or some such nonsense and double down. In which case I will block you for being a childish dickhead. The choice is yours. Choose wisely.

[enarei]

jealously used to colour so many of my interactions with other trans women, whom I loved and wanted to be accepted by, but also loathed for being perceivedly extremely stupid about ostracizing what we would now term "boymoders". or not ostracizing, but like. beyond the truscum/tucute divide—which is kinda dead and doesn't really exist anymore, I think it used to be much more common for tgirls on both ends of the spectrum to make fun of people that repressed for being supposedly delusional, if that makes sense? like, I feel the term "hugbox" used to actually be more of a real thing people practiced wth regards to non-presenting tgirls, if you know what I mean

it specifically used to piss me off a lot when people on here would post about "pink years" as a universal facet of early transition, how from the moment you started hormones you just became prettier and more self-confident and the only meaningful barrier to "success"—to being addressed as a woman within two years of starting, was just being a psychotic contrarian and refusing to dress fem because you were pathologically incapable of recognizing yourself as feminine. like I fucking wanted to kill myself and other people really hard, because the only thing worse than having body image issues is being told there isn't a material basis for them existing based on most people being fucking assholes.

I'm almost shocked this didn't get in the way of me becoming friends with a bunch of hot trannies somewhat prone to saying passoid online