#experiencing homelessness

[remellu]

NEED OF SHELTER WITH HOMELESS (GOFUNDME AND ADDITIONAL INFO BELLOW)

DISCLAIMER: You can skip to the gofundme before scrolling to read everything, as I do update on there, but since I don't use tumblr much and this is very urgent, I have additional stuff to say in this post after providing the link. Link: https://gofund.me/952d122a

As you can tell, I'm currently homeless and cannot access resources for shelter, as the homeless epidemic has caused it to get much harder to find shelter and transitional housing. I'm also someone who needs special accommodations as a disabled person, such as my medication and my cat being an emotional support animal, so that alone will make me less likely to be accepted.

I've been seeking a way to get housing way before I became homeless, as I knew the lease wasn't going to be renewed, but I couldn't do it on time. Currently I paid for my 1st and 2nd stay at the hotel I'm currently at. That's been 10 days, and currently I need to renew again by the 13th of February. This is the information for my first booking, which was cheaper than the second check in. 403 was the total including tax, but the second check in is 403 WITHOUT the tax.

Here's the proof of the second stay in for 5 days being higher than the last.

This hotel is literally the cheapest I could find with basic accomidations such as having a microwave and being able to refrigerate food, so I have to deal with the prices fluctuating a bit. It's not going to be the same each time I renew my stay at the hotel. But I don't expect it to reach the 500 USD range, it's going to be bellow that. The better approximate I guess is to get 480 USD for every 5 days of staying if feasible.

This is the current amount I got for the 3rd stay 66.11 is what I have left and the other two are donations that are still processing This isnt enough for the third hotel stay. (Due on the 13th) I would need around 500 USD (in case I need other needs like food/ set up the p.o. box) I'll appreciate any help!

Gofundme does not finish sending transactions on weekends, in fact it postpones it, so that may cause complications for the 3rd and 4th stay if the money comes in too late. I do have a kofi and paypal in case anyone wants to ensure the money comes in faster, I'll put that link for Kofi here: https://ko-fi.com/remellu If you don't have gofundme, I'll provide my Paypal directly as well: paypal.me/yummeiko

Here's a diagram for the 3rd and 4th visit and how transactions work on Gofundme can affect me being able to renew the stay. Especially for the 4th one.

I do not know how long I'm going to stay here, my homeless status is indefinite, I'll I can do is continue to work on finding resources for housing that will fit my financial situation while I try to stay in the hotel as much as possible. 10K USD is the amount asked because I know it may take a while to get things sorted, I may not need that amount, but if I don't and I reach it, I could always use it for deposits and so on as well as furnishing my apartment whenever I can get there. I apologize how lengthy this is. I do not use Tumblr often so if you want to get more frequent updates about what is being donated and my current status is, there's a few places you can follow me at. Twitter (Main): https://twitter.com/Remellu Instagram (main): https://www.instagram.com/remeiu/ Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/remellu.bsky.social I also posted a video in regards to the gofundme on both tiktok and youtube (i may also put these on both my instagrams if the length is allowed. Twitter also has it) Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@remeiu/video/7333364564697894186 Youtube: https://youtu.be/YWokYi2gl0g Again, I'll appreciate any help I will get, and I will also try to come back on this site to update this stuff as well, I'm just not good at remembering I have a tumblr. The best you can do if you can't donate is reblog or share on your other social media we are both on. Thank you in advance!

[reinterlacing]

guys I might be up shit's creek a little too far this time. not sure yet. but I have to be out of where I'm staying in about a month 3 weeks 1.5 weeks 3 days, and I have no cash and nowhere to go yet.

I do have tools of my trade (web/software) and a source of unstable income, and if worst comes to worst I'm more prepared than many to live outdoors for a little bit.

what I actually need: a home. some minimal space of my own. people near me who I can trust.

what I'd settle for: any quiet space without endless unpredictable shit going on nearby. a place where I can be left alone to work, and thus build my way out of this hole I've been in for more than a decade now. no interruption in my access to life preserving medication.

other than that, I'm pretty well self-contained. I even have a 1-🦍 outdoor living setup, and the gear I need to be able to ply my trade anywhere with wifi or a cell signal. including a power bank and a freaking solar panel. no car though, mine died a few months ago.

I just need a place where I can work.

I guess we'll see what happens.

meanwhile, I'm broke, and I could really use some help. even $5 or $10 helps.

[foldingfittedsheets]

My dads hobby is writing songs and playing guitar. It’s his special interest. His music isn’t for me, I’m not sure if that’s as a result of hearing incessant guitar noodling when I lived at home or his overall vibe.

He is negative percent good at taking feedback. When told he sounds better not singing falsetto his next several songs were all falsetto. When saying he mumbles his lyrics and sings too fast to actually understand he just disagrees.

He’ll play open mics and stuff and it makes him happy. Generally even though I have no idea what he’s on about I’ll just make vaguely supportive noises and I don’t try to give feedback. If he’s happy, whatever.

Several months ago while grabbing lunch he started telling me about his new song. It’s about a homeless man. I grew wary at once. My parents are vaguely misinformed liberals and I did not like to think what he, a very well off white man, had thrown together on the subject.

He read out the lyrics, verses romanticizing living on the street, with increasingly vulgar descriptions of how smelly and ugly this man was, and a tag line about how he’d give you the shirt off his back because he was so generous.

I started vibrating with emotion but I tried to ask what his message was. What did he actually want to convey about homeless people? He shrugged and said he didn’t have one, that the song was just meant to think about homeless people.

I tried with increasing desperation to steer him in any other course and he just dug his heels in and told me it was good and he wouldn’t change any lyrics. He’d only shared them to get praises and wasn’t interested in adjustment. In a temper I challenged him to go sing that to a homeless person and see what they thought of this bullshit view of their hardships.

It was rough. The lunch ended in brittle silence. He is incapable of dropping subjects and responds with sullen brooding if people refuse to keep arguing.

Since then every get together he insists he needs to play it for me. That hearing the melody will change my mind. I ask if he’s changed the lyrics and he goes into a huge huff.

We all went to see The Boy and the Heron tonight and he griped that I was judging him. I insisted we drop the subject and now I’m wracking my brain to find some way to lay the issue to rest. Changing his mind is almost certainly impossible and I’m not going to lie and say I think it’s good, but I’m sick of this.

[ruthlesslistener]

hollow and any starset song are now linked perminnently in my head thanks (genuinely thanks, it's fun) to you

EHEHEHEHE

congrats on the brainworms anon!! Now everytime you hear Perfect Machine, Something Wicked, or Diving Bell, be blessed to be reminded of the Sad Long Horse Not-Bug, as I am everytime I listen to those songs in particular

[slashingdisneypasta]

My grandma's ghost friend, Michael, might be back.

[gayghostrights]

I am coping so well :) (my body is in survival mode and as soon as I get a break I’m going to crash)

[wolfgirlsister]

√

[hawkeyedflame]

i applied to like.. 15 jobs today.... wish me luck................

[letueriebeau]

I hate posting shit abt mental illness stuff

The misconceptions that people with npd are all master manipulators playing mind games like hannibal lector are pretty hilarious to me. When in reality the vast majority of us are brain damaged, eccentric weirdos close to homelessness.

[remellu]

EMERGENCY: CURRENTLY HOMELESS IN NEED OF FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE

Due to my homelessness is still indefinite and I have not figured out where I can be temporarily while looking for affordable housing, I need to stay at the hotel for the rest of March. However I usually just try to book several days at a time rather than an entire month because funds are limited. The prices are always fluctuating for hotels so for 5-7 days it's always in the 600-900 USD range

Please donate to my PayPal if you can help for my next booking that I need to do by the 12th, my paypal

I also have a GofundMe campaign but since I need money before the transactions finally go through, I need to prioritize paypal. But with my gofundme link, you can learn more information on this situation and what I am trying to accomplish with the funds as well.

[harleymonster]

I feel bad for succeeding when my brother is struggling with everyday stuff. And short of sending him money every few weeks when he asks I don't actually know what to do. And I feel bad when I'm annoyed doing this because he's been borrowing money off of me since we were teenagers, when I also didn't have money. Now I can afford it, so I should just suck it up and so it open heartedly rather than begrudgingly right?

I don't even know where he lives, if he has somewhere permanent or safe to live. When me and my other brother suggest him moving back to our area and living with our mother he declines but surely it's better than whatever situation he is in right now? I don't know how to make him realise this. Is it up to me to make him realise this? And every time we bring it up I worried that something we say is going to potentially push him over them egde. But also that if we don't stay in contact that one day we'll get a call that he's been found dead somewhere or something. How the fuck do I get him to realise this and do something different?

[chill-guy-but-cooler]

The ignorance of people on this site will always confuse me. How are you on THE gay platform and you refuse to think that people can have different lives and circumstances than you LMAOO

[morinull]

im. dude. like. if i ever. gtfo the us. i hope. i get a lot of anti-us ppl trying 2 come @ me or whatever so i can be like. no. no. u dont understand. our hatred may be different but it is at the very least equal, let us bond

[traaumaa]

i miss my brother

[heartshapedhackjob]

My betta fish Heat Waves died :( he was born in 2019

[spoonbenders-archive]

what was actually wrong with me in 2021