#end the 50/50 relationships
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A 50/50 relationship is not in any way better than a traditional marriage lifestyle. Equal partnership is just an illusion sold to women in the name of gender equality bullshit so they would overlook the sacrifices they are making for their relationships, and these men could reap out all their benefits from it without putting in any effort.
Women in the traditional marriages are expected to cook, clean and serve their husbands along with maintaining the feminine beauty standards, giving sexual favours and birthing kids for their husbands in return for these men providing them with a roof over their head, luxurious lifestyle and food (that these women brag about as if they used to be homeless before marriage).
Women in the 50/50 relationships are also performing feminine beauty rituals just to look attractive for their ugly boyfriends or husbands, they are also giving sexual favours to these men that these men are always desperate for, and on top of that, they also give birth to their kids. But men do not provide anything because equal partnership gives them a benefit of splitting the bills 50/50.
Liberal women are too brainwashed to not realise that this is NOT an equal partnership. Men think they don’t have to work hard to have access to women they like only because they can do their own domestic chores, and women keep buying into these scams thinking he won’t be a domestic burden on them.
But later on he does become a burden because there are so many things that these women do for their husbands that cannot be split 50/50. They do not realise this because liberal society has sold them lies that are promoted in the name of gender equality and choice feminism, like “it takes 2 to make a baby”, “casual sex is beneficial for both men and women”, “beauty culture is so empowering” etc.
A 50/50 relationship is only beneficial to men just like a traditional marriage. Women have no advantage in it. They only lose and men keep enjoying their benefits.
Society has set two options for women to choose from; either depend on a man financially and serve him domestically, or become independent and serve him without expecting him to do anything for you.
Nope! You don’t have to choose from any of these options! Independent women do not need men because we can provide everything for ourselves. It’s the men who need women because their entire survival depends on female energy and this is why they take their own lives when single and lonely.
If i would be dating a man, I���d expect him to serve me, financially add value in my life and put in all the efforts to even get my attention. He’d be doing everything for me, i won’t do anything for him. The relationship should be benefitting me and not him. Otherwise, why the fuck would i want him?? 🤷🏻♀️
So unless a man lives up to the highest level of standards that a woman has set for herself and worships her like a goddess, women are better off single as separatists!
#end the 50/50 relationships#end traditional marriages#decenter men#prioritise yourself#stop serving these men#men should serve#raise your standards#high standard women#high standards#radblr#radical feminism#radical feminist community#radical feminist safe#radical feminist#feminism#radical feminists do interact#women#50/50#4b movement#4b separatists
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Adler is a dog guy because he loves the obidence, affection and deference dogs show their masters regardless of how they are treated. A dogs owner is their entire world, they are reliant on them for everything and this is probably appealing for Adler and his need for control. Having a dog strokes his ego both because a dog is obedient and affectionate to it's master, which Adler thinks he is owed and because it affirms his sense of American masculinity. Adler would be one of those dog people that hate cats because you have to respect a cat's boundaries in order for it to love you and you can't control them like you can dogs. Adler likes Bell for the same reason he likes dogs.
#Adler is absolutely obsessed with image and with being the The (Capitalist) American Man™#we get a look into this from his various zombies and online voicelines.#IDK what the American™ breed to have was in vogue at the time but I could see him with something like a gshep#malinois or golden.#Because those are Real Dogs™ that Real American Men™ have.#This is to say that he'd also hate small dogs like Chihuahuas#Park also likes dogs but her relationship with them is fundamentally different than Adler's#She's both non American and a woman. There is no sense of masculinity that needs to be upheld.#She is however#a scientist and dogs a the trainable animal lol.#Bell was named after Pavlov's experiment for a reason.#She'd probably also vibe with cats though because they're chill like that.#Woods would also be one of those guys who says “If it's under 50 pounds it's not a real dog” and grumbles when you bring home a Shit tzu#but still falls head over heels for it. David catches them napping together and he tries to deny it later.#Anyway I think David should find a scruffy white little puppy with the crustiest eyes you can imagine and bring it home and beg Woods#to let him keep it And the dog absolutely ends up being Wood's dog first and foremost.#Can you tell I don't exactly have a charitable view of Adler's personality lol?#You can disagree with me that's fine#Russell Adler#Helen Park#bocw#cod#black ops cold war#black ops#call of duty#call of duty black ops#call of duty black ops cold war
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Grovyle, Celebi, and Dusknoir creating the most intricate plan regarding the most appropriate time to meet Hero and Partner again in the present while they’re next to the Passage of Time. How they’ll explore the present first as a trio for a couple more weeks/months, have Grovyle and Celebi reunite with the two whilst also giving a Big Heads Up regarding Dusknoir; where they’d then go on to see whether or not they truly want him there, and take the necessary action based on their decision. (Whether it’s a unanimous ‘fuck no we don’t want him back’, 50/50, or completely okay with starting over.) Nodding in agreement towards the plan and stepping into the portal together.
They then proceed to immediately get spotted by Hero and Partner just relaxing on the beach.
#I THINK IT’D BE FUNNY#still absolutely of the opinion it’s Grovyle that drags Dusknoir into coming with them.#Mainly because those two deserve closure/get their feelings towards the wraith out.#But Also knowing Dusknoir misses them and would never be able to move on for himself if he didn’t at the Bare Minimum apologize-#-for the heartache he caused those two. but if he heard from the two grass-types that they never wanted to see him again. he’d accept it.#(Because Arcues knows what they want is 100x more important than whatever the hell he was hoping for)#BUT. THAT DOESNT HAPPEN. AND NOW HE SUDDENLY AS A TEARY; FATHERLESS PUPPY CLINGING TO HIM.#AND THE MOST VENGEFUL 1’FT FOX SIDE EYEING HIM.#<<< Ribbons says it’s okay for him to stay. (for literally only her partner; brother; fairy grandmother’s sake.)#(obviously any adult with functioning eyes could tell that was the case/she still hates his ass)#but it’s not like Dusknoir can just up and leave because lo’ and behold it ended up being a 50/50 😭 that old fart is STUCK there#I’ll probably elaborate on this more when my brains functioning#but tl:dr= Grovyle: pure of heart; dumb of ass. (and ends up unintentionally saving their doomed ass father/daughter/son relationship.)#even if it takes. (checks my notes) 3-6 years
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married!!! omg can’t wait for you to divorce congratulations!!
I think you're confusing me for your parents sorry that happened to you! ❤️
#divorce rates for religious couples are way lower than nonreligious#and on top of that my church requires premarital counseling and for you to actually consent to what marriage is#plus the '50% of marriages end in divorce' factoid is skewed because it doesn't separate between people who get married once and#people who are on marriage number 4 with 6 different baby daddies#sorry your parents didn't model good and healthy relationships for you but I've done a lot of work on myself and my husband and I are a tea#love mail#queued
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my personal concept of roadrat: they dont rly have insecurities that need to be patched over w labels or obvious affirmations. they sleep together, they heist together, & are never apart; yet if u ask either of them if theyre dating theyre like 'doesnt sound very anarchy to me.. idk' their relationship transcends the common dating lingo THEY WILL NOT BE CONTAINED!
#i like everyones ideas tho :]#roadrat#txt#when ur focused on surviving & blowing up other ppls lives all the time i dont imagine u stop to think abt what ur relationship means aside#from what just sorta happens when ur alone together or the occasional back-cracking victory snog#i imagine that hog & rat's 50/50 agreement ends for whatever reason n hog goes 'hmph' n starts walking into the sunset but rat goes 'WAUT!?#SO YUH JUST GONNA LEAVE LITTLE OL ME?!' 'grumph' 'fine.. *sniffle* get gone then yuh big lug! *disgusting wet hankey nose blow sound*#but then hog returns 2 camp one night & rat could hear his bike purring from a mile away. hes trying 2 contain his excitement by acting ang#y until hog sighs & opens his arms to him for an instant big boney & metal limb-stabby hug
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#NOT who your favorite is. NOT who you -want- to be most like. who you're actually the most like#I really think I'm 50/50 syd and nick but I'll go with nick#my role in my social life always ends up being the mediator/go-between#if I can do anything I can maintain relationships with two people who hate each other#I am a self-admitted silly guy but at the same time I wish I was taken a little bit more seriously#i want attention but I don't want to be the -center- of attention. I could be in charge if I wanted to but I do -not- want to.#pink floyd
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just read the new mutants issue where Charles chose to stay behind in space and my god the juxtaposition between Charles trusting Erik and Erik joining the hellfire club and wondering at his own trust worthiness. I wonder how much of Charles decision was him ultimately trying to avoid the fact that his first class had seemingly betrayed mutant kind and not be willing to face them and how much of it was Dani and Illyana's reaction to him having Karma mind control Illyana. the fact that Illyana was depending on him to ease her mind through limbo and in choosing to stay he forced karma to do it instead, probably fucking up their relationship in the process.
I love him, this is crazy, how much of this is him trying to runaway and how much is this him not trusting himself to fix things and how much is it just him trusting Erik?
i keep trying to put into words my exact thoughts about the sitch but there really is a lot for one issue aintit... oh charles you and your brain...
#snap chats#thats why we have tag rambles AHAHA#ok so to tackle things one at a time charles ultimately deciding to stay in space despite his expressed want to return to earth#obviously it was when lilandra pointed out if her sister took charge of the shi'ar then the universe- earth included- would be in peril#charles notes his position as a losing one: whichever choice he makes he loses#he goes to earth then the universe could be at stake/he stays in space he loses his kids#of course charles COULD just put his faith in the starjammers but is that a risk he wants to take ? evidently not#charles' reoccurring flaw is he's willing to sacrifice personal relationships for the greater perceived good#even lilandra acknowledges this- that charles' homesickness for earth was an inevitability just as she is indebted to protecting the stars#so now his ruptured relationship with illyana and co- esp right after comforting a split illyana last issue#we've seen charles act more coldly/rashly when he's about to lose people (i think of his first death with the og5 mostly)#i mean it's a key part to charles' chara that he doesn't favor mind controlling others and im sure he has the same regard for his students#he's aware of the damage it can do and in this instance- for one reason or another- he orders it to be done regardless#im sure he does this as a form of defense: if his kids are upset with him they won't feel too bad about losing him and it'll be less painfu#obviously we still see sam wish charles farewell and wish for him to come back soon but yk.. worthy attempt..#and it's not as if charles wants them to hate him ENTIRELY.. he's still touched by sam's goodbye no.... fickle man he is..#i dont think charles is totally afraid to confront the og5- its what made him want to return to earth with the nms initially#tho again.. could his decision to stay in the stars be influenced by that? that maybe he ISNT prepared to confront them like he thought?#who's to say... not me i dont got that psych degree yet..#erik being charles' trusted confidant definitely made his decision easier on top of that: i mean is he needed if he has a substitute#i think charles DOES wholly trust erik: charles really doesnt approach his x-men half heartedly. from his pov ofc#if he didn't genuinely believe in erik's potential he wouldn't have picked him; hes a comforting thought when charles decides to depart#'although i'm gone erik understands me and my goals enough to continue my work as good as i would have so i have nothing to worry about'#which. yk. makes the whole White King thing kinda awkward VJAELVJEAKL charles you fool#i have no idea how this saga ends though... tbh im only on ish 45 of NM i just read 50 and 51 to get context for this ask#so i can only wait and see how this saga turns out... once i finish reading house of m/secret invasion stuff jvLKEJKA#idk im tired and rambling dont pay attention to me.. ramblin bout charles' brain is a good day for me regardless if i make sense jVLAJ
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sanji having the most obvious crush on usopp because his nose won't stop bleeding whenever he sees him being hot and the smoke of his cigarettes literally turns into hearts all the time... but usopp always, always thinks it's because of nami or robin because he's always with them and he just assumes sanji doesn't like him back. and if it happens when they aren't around he just thinks "oh, well, sanji might be thinking about the girls again instead of me".
and meanwhile, sanji is having the hardest time of his life trying to hide that he's head over heels for the sniper. he's sure usopp knows because he would have to be extremely dumb to not realize, and sanji knows that the guy he's in love with is pretty fucking smart, so...
but he forgets that usopp is also pretty fucking stupid. a little detail he ignored.
because one day, usopp is so frustrated and tired of sanji acting like that around him that he confronts him about it. "hey, dude, i know you're like- like this with nami and robin and that's fine because that's just who you are. but could you not do that every time i'm around? it's getting, uh, suffocating?"
and sanji does not understand what he means. "what, like- like what?"
"like this! the way you're drooling over them all the time. the yelling. the bleeding. the smoke thing that- how- how the fuck do you do that anyway?"
"happens naturally. i think my heart is connected to my lungs or some shit at this point."
"oh, okay. cool, just- just don't do that in front of me? because- well, not cool. especially whenever we're alone. if you're not interested in what i have to say, i get it, i'm not a pretty girl like them or- whatever. but i feel a bit left out whenever you keep thinking about them while we speak and-" the sniper refuses to look at him, wanting to the get out of the kitchen as quickly as he can. he notices he's about to cry. "sometimes you just don't notice what's in front of you and it frustrates the fuck out of me, sanji, so- just don't do that anymore. got it?"
sanji can only nod before usopp turns around and goes away.
perhaps usopp is stupid after all, because he's the one that won't see what's in front of him.
#sorry for the angst!!!#i had this on my drafts and i was like yeah why not post it after posting a fluffy fic#this relationship is 50/50 i post fluff and then angst and y'all enjoy it for some reason#they're both stupid btw#if you're curious they end up making up in the end#ofc i can't write angst without a happy ending I'm not that evil (maybe)#one piece#black leg sanji#usopp#sanuso
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i know i write and i yearn but—and maybe this is naive and unrealistic but idc—i would rather drink a denim jacket through a metal straw than date any man i’ve ever encountered in my life bc why would i give up my alone time and start splitting things 50/50 if i was already paying for everything myself 😭
#i know i yearn and i love to do it but if you all met me you’d think i were fuckboy 😭#if any of you are in actual good relationships tell me there’s light at the end of the tunnel 😭#not even kidding i had this coworker and i remember having lunch w him and 2 of my other friends from work#and we got to relationships and one friend brought up her ex#and i was teasingly like yeah. splitting a disney vacation 50/50 when it was your birthday was crazy. thank god he’s gone#and this man (ofc) was like ‘what so you’d never split 50/50 with a guy?’#and i was like. well no bc i’m not insane#and he was so personally offended and i was like. first of all you look like you snuck onto earth#second of all why do you care i would never ever ever be dating you#third of all splitting things halfway when a man will always make more money than me. wild#and then a few weeks later there was a whole fight in the friend group and i didn’t even have a dog in that argument#so i was so confused when one of my friends told me this dude had beef with me#and i was like ?? how is that possible i don’t even speak to him 😭#come to find out he said ‘well she was the one who said she never chases after anyone and it shows bc she doesn’t put in the effort into#the friendship. not even 50/50 emotionally’#and i was like pause. record scratch. freeze frame.#we’re not friends 😭😭😭😭#being mad that i wouldn’t split anything nor chase a man into a relationship is wild. bc it would never be your relationship#he was such a crybaby (derogatory) man. i think about that once month#don’t even get me started on all the other shit he would crash out about
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i fear (for what tomorrow brings)
by scritch
Rating: Teen And Up Audiences Archive Warning: Graphic Depictions Of Violence Relationship: Steve Harrington/Eddie Munson Characters: Steve Harrington, Eddie Munson, Nancy Wheeler, Robin Buckley, Dustin Henderson, Maxine "Max" Mayfield, Lucas Sinclair, Erica Sinclair, Jim "Chief" Hopper, Eleven | Jane Hopper Additional Tags: Alternate Universe - Canon Divergence, Getting Back Together, Vecna Possessing Steve Harrington, Steve Harrington & Dustin Henderson Have a Sibling Relationship, Robin Buckley & Steve Harrington Are Best Friends, Secret Relationship, Canon-Typical Violence, References to Depression, Season/Series 04, Alternate Universe - Everyone Lives/Nobody Dies, Eddie Munson Lives, Angst with a Happy Ending, Established Relationship, Steve Harrington Needs a Hug, POV Steve Harrington, Unreliable Narrator, Horror Words: 93,413 Chapters: 14/14
Summary
Since Starcourt, Steve and Eddie have been meeting (and falling in love) secretly. Until - frustrated by Steve’s secrecy - Eddie ended things between them. Steve doesn't cope well. He's been having nightmares, nosebleeds, and painful headaches. Everything is made much worse after Chrissy Cunningham dies in Eddie's trailer. Steve is forced to watch as Eddie becomes involved in everything Steve tried so hard to protect him from. Or: Steve Harrington's No Good, Very Bad, Awful Month.
#steddie#steddie fic rec#multi-chaptered#50-100k#getting back together#angst with a happy ending#established relationship
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Bro I think I'm. A lesbian.
#read the lesbian manifesto and then stone butch blues today. that novel had me crying for like the entire first 50 pages but it's so amazing#and anyway kinda made me realise properly that sexuality is dumb. but also that its interactions with gender are different for everybody and#there isnt really a rulebook yk#and also ANOTHER one of my male irl friends fucking confessed to me or whatever and it kinda just made me realise how much i hate the idea#like being friends w girls never made me this fuckin nervous that they might end up into me. being confessed to by girls never made me so#fuckin. annoyed and exasperated. maybe its in part bc i hear all the horror stories about men lashing out when they're rejected which makes#it more stressful. but also the manifesto said that identity is always meant to be a RIGHT NOW thing and even if youre like#not sure if you were attracted to men in the past or may be in the future. if right now you dont want to date a man and cant see yourself#happy with one. then you're allowed to be a lesbian lol. and i do think thats where i am#idk where i stand w men physically or whatever but i know i dont want to date any of them. and i can't see myself happy with one long-term#part of the manifesto also talks about how 'not liking heterosexual relationship dynamics' can be part of it but for me that also may be a#gender thing. like obv i dont wanna be in a straight relationship w a man because im not a girl.#but even then the manifesto also talks about how many lesbians are gnc or feel dysphoria bc of the fact that they are socially denied#from womanhood/femininity bc of their attraction to women. who knows. who knows.#i need to hang out with less men. or i guess i need to hang out w more womeb#*women#anyway lesbians👍👍 hmu👍👍👍#dont actually I have 2 lab reports to write which is why I spent all day procrastinating with Gay History
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Post fall Will becomes a stay at home spouse, because he really doesn't have any reason to work lol, and instead of working he becomes one of those interior design/ home renovation influencers. But instead of going with what he'd like, he makes everything in Hannibal's vision. Gifting him the house of his dreams <3
Hannibal gets an old property in Spain or something in the its country side. One day he tells Will of all the things he'd like to change in the house and so Will gets to work for his husband's sake.
Would Hann encourages him to film his progress and post it while keeping caution of the location of their place, making sure not to give any specific information that might lead to them, and without showing their faces? Absolutely. And Will loves it so much.
The experience of working through each project, the filming and editing of each video. Artfully matching the scenes to classical and/or maybe music from his childhood...
I always think of how Hannibal would encourage Will to take up an artistic outlet other than carving and serving people, and I think this would be so perfect to him.
#hannigram#and at the end of the day Will gets stuffed as a thank you from his loving husband#a 50/50 relationship#stuffed means both with food and cock thank you#i actually headcanon him becoming a stay at home botanist but this idea is fun too#also fitting with Will's need to give care to someone/something while also getting pampered in return#he'd get a workshop and do all kinds of stuff from scratch
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wow i think I’ve somehow wound up in a low key sugar mommy situation with the dude i’ve been seeing. Lol. Which is funny because he’s objectively a rich person
#Yeah I make $110k/yr but I’m also paying 100% of the expenses for a $525k acreage#And I have to bust my ass to break even every month#I somehow end up paying for dinner every time we go out#I asked him if he wanted to come on a hiking trip with me this weekend and I ended up paying for all of the gas and the hotel and 50%+#Of the food. And drove 5 hours each way#Meanwhile this dude lives rent free with his disgustingly rich parents#I think I need to set firmer boundaries going forward because this guy doesn’t get relationship norms
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my ex gf suggested we go bouldering as a date and then like three weeks later broke up with me. john irving and his climbing exercises: causing gay divorce since 1845.
#we didn’t end up going bouldering but i guess even thinking about climbing exercises. or heaven forbid watercolors#is enough to cause psychic damage to any gay relationship within a 50 meter radius#(circus music starts)
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genuinely so devastating to finish my flcl rewatch and pull up the tumblr tag confident that everyone else is also down cataclysmic for haruko and posting abt it but *crickets*
#I THOUGHT IT WAS REALLY POPULAR ON HERE.... WHAT THE HELL GUYS#appreciate all the artbook stuff and the handful of fanartists but other than that its so dead its so over 😭😭😭😭#and most of the posts abt her are like 'shes such a terrible person but fun character other than that!' STFU. POSER#her selfishness and apathy and singleminded drive is literallt what makes her so fucking hot whats so hard to understand#a woman is headstrong n decisive n doesnt care abt ending the world for her ambitions n suddenly ur like ohhh devotion is baaaad#move aside gayboy im gonna get it id let use me in whatever scheme she needs thr fact shed only pretend to care abt me is even better 🥴#i love physically violent women i love being smacked with bass guitars hi hello im right here 😚😚😚😚😚😚😚😚😚#wheres that post thats like i dont even have mommy issues i just think its hot to be a womans pet LITERALLLYYYY#god i need to draw her 5 million times but i wont have any free time until at least tues.....so sad#wait for me babygirl...... i wont forget abt u#we would have the most toxic relationship ever it would be awful for everyone in a 50 mile radius people would die#fake manic pixie dream girl fans when a girl with real mania comes at them:#ANYWAY RANT OVER i need to get my shit together for work tmr#also my chocolate orange cake turned out sooooo good i need to use this recipe again sometime#feeling way better plus i didnt even fully crash i just had like an hour or two of turbulence. but i do need to start winding down for bed#soooo goodnight everyone... and haruko especially.......#.diaries#flcl
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#Very random‚ impromptu rant:#I just spent the last one and half hour converting to text the five pages of Asagiri / anime directors interview–#at the end of the season 4/5 guidebook#(I've been wanting to read it for forever but only got around doing it now because of research for Akutagawa's birthday. Long story.)#Fast forward to one and half hour later‚ it's 3am‚ I need to study‚ I need to sleep.#I ctrl+f Akutagawa's name. And it appears??? Three times????? For a total of two paragraphs only???????#I'm severely disappointed. I expected at least some talk about the ss/kk Fukuchi fight.#I go to the first paragraph. It's a paragraph talking about the Sigma / Atsushi / Oda parallels–#where Akutagawa is just tangentially mentioned. At this point I'm like. Okay. Probably should have picked a better way to spend the night#I go read the other passage‚ which is also the very last passage of the whole interview. Akutagawa's name is mentioned twice. It goes:#(Director Igarashi) “That's why I needed to show that Akutagawa had returned from being a vampire.#No matter how dramatic the battle between Fukuchi and Fukuzawa was‚ no matter how successful Dazai and Chuuya were‚#I wanted the story to end with Atsushi and Akutagawa. That's because they are the center of this world.#So‚ naturally‚ I thought it should be them who had to conclude the story.”#Which is. Well. Something extremely heartwarming and emotional to read if you're a ss/kk fan. Kinda made up for the initial disappointment#And I'm rambling‚ because I feel like this thing I went through really exemplifies what it's like to be a ss/kk fan...#Igarashi-san sir if you acknowledge Atsushi and Akutagawa “are the center of this world” (your words)‚ why not bring them up sooner.#This is **precisely** like that one time Asagiri was like “omg ss/kk are soooo important their relationship is ever changing they're soooo–#pivotal to the b/sd storyline and central themes. That's why I cant write any novel on them or include them in any of the extra content 😛”#Like. Man 😭😭😭😭#Point is you WILL get your ss/kk paragraph you just have to sit through 2558 words about other characters beforehand.#You WILL get your ss/kk moment you just have to sit through 50 chapters before finally reaching the moment where they magnificently defeat–#the main villain together with the power of gay love.#......... And you'll just be made to read a lot of Dazai discourse while you wait. It's the story of my life in the b/sd franchise 😪#random rambles#(Posting this some hours after I wrote it)
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