#effortless connections

[spinnrblog]

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[underground-hip-hop-affiliated]

the connection is effortless when y’all vibrate on the same frequency. as if we knew each other since time immemorial.

[euphorictruths]

"To be trusted is a greater compliment than being loved." –Leo Tolstoy

[suave1foru]

IYKYK

[3416]

1634 GOAL IN REAL LIFE.... HOW ARE U FEELING

i literally..... was yelling SO loud, i KNOW the cbj fans in front of me wanted to deck me but HOLY FUCK is it something else to be able to watch them with each other in person. like those two goals but also just. their passing to each other and relentlessness to keep it in the zone and get it to each other even in desperate moments like. they literally do know where each other are going to be at every moment its so FUCKFJFNDN INSANE AND JSUFKDK. being able to see them in the flesh is such a treat... i wish everyone the opportunity but God THANK U FOR THINKING OF ME ANS CARING AND ASKIGNKDKD I WAS LOSJNG MY MIND. truly one of the best days ever 😭🫶🫶🫶🫶

[doctorweebmd]

so there's this post floating around about like, feeling like an outsider even in a group of outsiders and i almost reblogged it being like

'aha i do that'

except. like. i know exactly why that happens, and its 100% my fault

i just have trouble maintaining relationships because i'm a poor communicator. that's been the case since high school. i dont really initiate conversations or remember to text or call people. its not from a place of indifference or anything like that - i'm sincerely an 'out of sight out of mind' kind of person.

i can not talk to and not see someone for months or years but my feelings for them don't change. it doesn't bother me if people dont check in on me or don't hang out with me or don't text me. i still like them. unfortunately that is not how 99% of the population communicates. people (rightfully) assume that when someone doesn't initiate conversation or hang-outs or doesn't check in on you, that they don't care about you. for me, thats not the case at all. like if i like you and consider you my friend, you are ALWAYS my friend. i would do anything for you and would be more than happy to talk/see each other/support you/etc. its just the day-to-day communication that i really struggle with. but thats how most relationships form - regular, consistent communication.

i've gone through periods of extreme guilt for this where i sincerely try, and make new friends, and re-connect with texting and phone calls and hanging out more often but inevitably something happens, i get busy or i forget and suddenly all this time passes and people think i dont care anymore. unfortunately that's not the case whatsoever - time is kind of abstract to me and i dont understand that while my feelings don't change, others feel more distant or abandoned.

and i've really hurt people in my life like that. friends that i've known for many years from high school/college are a LITTLE more forgiving because they know i'm just 'like that' but still. it does hurt people. like i haven't spoken to my dad in probably at least a year - not because i dont love him, but because of that same reason. he doesn't reach out and i forget and it just steamrolls because he gets hurt, doesn't reach out because he thinks i'm intentionally 'ignoring' him, and i continue to forget, and its just this viscous cycle. i haven't talked to my grandparents in months. my mom knows better and texts me every week or so, but it still hurts her that she has to reach out so regularly. she also plays these games where she sees how 'long' it takes for me to remember to reach out. a lot of people in my life have done that. its like i'm being tested on something without ever being told its a standard test, ya know? i'm always destined to fail it because i dont know how long is too long. at which point will the time and distance be unacceptable? i still dont know the answer.

and i think it makes me come off as a really heartless and callous person. its made me kind of keep people at arms-length because i know i'm not capable of being a part of most people's lives. i have perfectly normal and pleasant relationships with my coworkers and all that, but i'm generally not close with them. and i can see the confusion, because we hang out and i'm pretty normal or whatever and we have fun and then they don't hear from me for months and they're like 'uhhhh.... okay? so i guess you don't like me?'

i do. i just have different relationship maintenance standards than others i guess. so i just overall avoid being around others just because i know i'll disappoint them. it is what it is but it really is sad, in a way.

[whitedahlia13]

she found an easy comfort with him for the way he soothed her mind. effortless communication was her weakness and whether he knew it or not, her thoughts pondered and then drifted away with his words in a cerebral dance. they were poetic and made love to her before his hands ever touched her. - JmStorm

[strawberrysweater]

saimatsu they are so soft....... i always think about postgame and them being kinda clingy with each other for a while, like their romantic relationship evolves very naturally out of a close friendship and they're not clingy in an annoying way just like. they are Always holding hands always sitting shoulder to shoulder and they can't sleep unless they're at least in the same room if not fully just holding each other. maybe it's not the healthiest thing but it's what they need at first and that's okay :'(

[livvyofthelake]

hey why was that fanfiction the most insane thing i’ve ever read in my life actually. what was all that about huh

[tacobellebandit]

Hate the take that Neuvillette is like some babysitter of Furina and is thus annoyed with her or something, like we know that Neuvillette doesn't express himself well so idk how we can possibly get his feelings on Furina from that. He's 1. humored her when she wanted to impress the Traveler and 2. kept her from getting carried away when it comes to accusations (because that's his job), but imo it's nothing more than how he's acted towards Navia when she kept interrupting the cases, but he obviously respects her and cares about her and her late father. The way he's spoken about Furina has been rather neutral, and maybe you can say him being like "look and acknowledge her, now we can ignore her for the rest of the show" is a sign of annoyance but I don't think so. I think it's something about Furina that he doesn't understand but will humor anyway.

Like Furina obviously has a very eccentric personality but I'm sick of the infantilizing people do towards her. Personally I think her reputation among the people combined with the trust that people have in Neuvillette's (and the Oratrice's) judgements are vital, which is why she's so performative. The people's belief in justice is their main energy system, imagine what happens if that is broken?

and imo I think Neuvillette understands the sort of pressure she is under and respects her. He's aware of the "puzzle" that the previous Hydro Archon left to Furina and how much stress she has because of that. They might not have the most compatible personalities, but Neuvillette isn't a "babysitter" for her and imo he doesn't find her annoying. Furina doesn't even come off as childish to me. She's a boisterous and very performative young adult, and performance is a huge thing in Fontaine.

anyway, this is all just incoherent but I'm very annoyed about the way-too-common fanon infantilizing Furina and characterizing Neuvillette as her babysitter or some shit.

[alma-artts]

I just realized how much I relate to mastermind by taylor swift help.

[icedhockey]

oh they’re INSANE !!!!

[neothesatisfactory]

Discovered a new kind of love last night. No clue what it's called, but it's not platonic nor romantic, and it is strong, all encompassing, and unconditional.

[suave1foru]

Find this

[bookwyrminspiration]

I'm a rather solitary person in real life, but today I had a brief conversation with the pretty girl behind me about queerness and how queer is such a lovely, non-specific label than can encompass so much. and I am realizing it's very nice to talk to people like you

[90sbee]

so so tired of trying to be more to be liked. to be loved. so so done.