#eddie aspec diaz

[a-walking-fandom-reference]

sorry i’m gonna be even MORE obnoxious about ace eddie it’s my right and my duty

[a-walking-fandom-reference]

[ID: An image from 9-1-1 episode 6x14 of Eddie Diaz in his uniform saying, “I just hate being forced to date. Feels like I have to perform.” END ID]

The amatonormativity in this 911 episode was physically painful for me to watch. Dear god please leave Eddie alone. He doesn't have to date. He doesn't need a romantic partner to be happy. He isn't alone! He has his family, he has Christopher, he has the 118! He is not alone! Not having a romantic partner is not a sign of unhappiness or failure and I'm so sick of tv shows doing this. If Eddie doesn't want to date, HE DOESN'T HAVE TO! LEAVE HIM ALONE!

Sidenote I am now fully on the arospec/demi Eddie Diaz train. That right there is a man on the aro spectrum.

[screaming-universe]

demisexual AND demiromantic Eddie my absolutely beloved

[sunflower-eddiediaz]

As much as I love fwb fics that starts with a variation of "I miss [insert something usually reserved for romantic relationships]",

imagine Buck saying "I miss sex" and Eddie responding with "I've never missed sex".

I don't have the brain power to verbalize all the ways this conversation could go right now, but yeah I'm having Thoughts.

[rel312]

Had a Thought TM and now I can’t get it out of my head: aspec Eddie in a qpr with Buck, who’s boyfriends with Tommy

[a-walking-fandom-reference]

[ID: Three versions of the “I believe in (blank) supremacy” meme. The meme shows a silhouetted figure against a light pink background kneeling on their hands and knees in front of Eddie Diaz from 9-1-1. Next to Eddie in each post is a different aspec pride flag. The versions of the memes are as follows: 1. “I believe in acespec Eddie supremacy.” with the asexual and acespec flags next to Eddie. 2. “I believe in aroace Eddie supremacy.” with the aroace flag next to Eddie. 3. “I believe in aromantic Eddie supremacy.” with the aromantic flag next to Eddie. END ID]

Honestly, acespec/arospec Eddie Diaz just makes perfect sense in my head!

Kinda need him to embrace being a single dad at the moment and realise he doesn't need to force himself to date anyone and just be his silly self <3

[herbirdglitter]

I am not delusional enough to suppose they’d do something aspec with this Eddie Diaz plot line-

BUT WHAT IF THEY DID SOMETHING ASPEC WITH THIS EDDIE DIAZ PLOTLINE

[true-bluesargent]

demisexual/romantic edmundo diaz is real. to ME

[aspecbuddie]

yes I got into 911 because of romantic buddie

but it was equally about platonic buddie, because I'd seen the 5x13 scene online somewhere, and knew that Buck was chris' legal guardian in the will despite not being blood related or romantically related to eddie

maybe this is why I'd be okay with them not going canon, because I went into it for what was already canon

(but omg I need the show to stop giving them rushed romantic relationships when each of them is right there!!!)

[a-walking-fandom-reference]

Asexual! Eddie Diaz

[ID: A 3x3 moodboard, themed around asexual Eddie Diaz from 9-1-1. Images are as follows: 1. white caps text, “Make yourself a priority.” on a bright purple background; 2. a greyscale of someone shown from the shoulders up with their head in their hands with their hands wrapped up; 3. purple caps text that says, “I’m enough.” four times with the fourth being much brighter than the others on a black background; 4. a desaturated closeup of a person holding a playstation controller against their lap; 5. an enamel pin of two ace of hearts cards in the colors of the asexual flag, against a black background; 6. a desaturated photo of a firefighter climbing up a ladder on the side of a building; 7. a white neon sign that says, “I would prefer not to.” on a black background; 8. a greyscale photo of a person from the neck down and hips up wearing a black tank top and crossing their muscular arms in front of them; 9: small black caps text that says, “I need to let you go.” on a bright purple background. END ID]

[god-i-hope-so]

I'm not interested in taking part in this ridiculous ship war. And I just want to celebrate the beautiful fatherhood that Eddie embodies. He's not perfect but he's damn good with his son. The way Eddie looks genuinely happy at the ceremony, and they show him being there with Chris while everyone else has a romantic partner, it means a lot as a general message. He's happy where he's at right now, happy for his friends/family, maybe also happy for himself because he's also slowly figuring out his own situation.

[eddiediazpriestfucker]

I genuinely don’t think Buck would blab about Eddie’s business to the rest of the 118 but maybe if he were drunk one night and someone else brought it up he might say something like, “Can you imagine blowing up your life like that and not even getting an orgasm out if it?”

And Chim is probably like “Whoa, too much information. How do you even know that?”

Buck ignores the question, but continues, “I mean it's weird right? An affair with no kissing- no sex, Eddie said he didn’t even want to!”

And Hen gives us another one of these

[sunflower-eddiediaz]

Post Scriptum comment: I don't even know what this is; rambling, thinking at loud about acespec Eddie Diaz. Yesterday was international asexuality day and I went to sleep thinking Does Eddie know about asexuality? Then, put myself to sleep trying to answer that question. So I guess this is a transcript of my half asleep thoughts.

What if Eddie knows about asexuality. He's a 30 something man living in LA. He has a teenage son. He has queer friends. He knows stuff. He's heard a lot of words, a lot he only vaguely understands, but he's heard, he knows. He knows he's not asexual. He was a teenage dad, he had a wife, they had a lot of sex, and he loved it and wanted it. Yeah. The sex was good, great. Not so much when their mariage was falling apart, but that's to be expected in this situation. When they tried to rebuild a relationship together, sex seemed to be the only thing they were good at. Also he's had girlfriends, multiple, since he's wife died. They had sex, too. It was nice. So, definitely not asexual.

But then he meets someone who's asexual. Maybe a patient. Maybe they're stuck together. No immediate danger, but he needs to keep her calm and monitor her cognitive functions, until his team can get to them. So they talk. He asks if she works? hobbies? partner? How did you two meet? They talk and talk and he thinks they probably could have become friends in other circumstances. Eventually, she mentions being asexual; and he's confused. Earlier she talked about painting and mentioned how her partner likes to distract her; and his confusion probably showed on his face. Later, he'll wonder what really prompt her to explain it to him, if she was indulging him or just glad to share more of her life, maybe both, but he's forever grateful she decided to.

She tells him about thinking something was wrong with her for not wanting sex, about thinking she wasn't normal. She tells him about learning what asexuality is, about finding community, understanding and acceptance. She tells him about the joy of finding a partner that understood her, and a partner that felt like her; about the relief that she could love someone and not love sex. And then she tells him about falling in love with her best friend; or more accurately realizing she had fallen, was fallen, will probably keep falling in love with them forever. How she wanted to be close to them, always closer, wanted in a way she never did. How she eventually thought; if I had to have sex with someone, I wouldn't mind doing it with them. And how that neutral acceptance turned into active desires. She tells him that she's still asexual; some people never ever want sex, some are neutral, some very positive about it, some people's answer changes throughout their life. And he has so many questions, questions he'll never get to ask, maybe for the better given how personal most of them are.

They get interrupted by a sound, a sound he knows means his team is close, right before his radio comes to life. So he focuses on doing his job, on helping his team rescue them, on making sure she gets to contact her partner before she goes to the hospital. But that conversation sticks with him. It sticks with him for days, in a way only really bad calls and really good ones can. So he tries to answer some of his questions himself, for himself. He's heard a lot of words, but it's the first time he feels the urge to put it up to the light and examine it for himself.

He thinks about Shannon. They knew each other but they weren't best friends. When they got together it felt like magic, they fell hard and fast, it was amazing until it wasn't. He was never neutral about sex with her, lots of active desires; nothing about their relationship has ever been neutral. He can't say the same about Ana and Marisol. He just followed their lead. He had months long relationships with two beautiful women and for both, he would have been fine if they didn't include sex. He doesn't know what to think about that; about any of that. Does he really need answers, it's not like it's gonna change anything, anyway. So he stops thinking about it, actively that is, but it's still there, in the back of his mind.

aaaaand that's probably when I started to actually fall asleep because the thoughts gets blurry and incoherent

[stardustsea]

demi eddie has never felt more real tbh 💜

[spicyrottingbrains]

Been thinking thoughts about this for hours because my brain has fixated on eddie diaz today.

Demi eddie diaz.

Demisexual+Demiromantic eddie diaz.

I repeat. Demi eddie diaz.

[Is he gay?bi?pan?(in reference to genders he could potentially be attracted to) i dont know which hc I prefer. all I can say i believe for sure is that that man is demi)

[unnecessarilygrandiose]

have i ever mentioned about ravi being aroace? yeah the thing is ravi is aroace. you see, the showrunners have started planning the seventh season, and in that process they came to me, and we had an in depth discussion about the episode 7x04, ravi begins, and they revealed that i was right, the reason why ravi has never been shown to be interested in dating is because he's aroace. yeah no this actually happened and this isn't even a little bit made up. no, no, i'm serious, this isn't a bit, no guys you have to understand,