#dua in islam to get married to the man i love

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day 1/60

okay so for this challenge i was too lazy and didn’t do anything to change my lifestyle SO HERES DAY 1:

academics: i did some tutoring then my ipad died so i couldn’t do anymore work

love life: i made a little jingle about the man i wanna marry (scroll down if you wanna see)

islam: made duas/prayers for laylatul qadr

the jingle~

imagine the tune of perfect by ed sheeran

i found a man

for me

darling he’s at my door

waiting for me

he is arab

and he’s on one knee

oh he’s waiting for the day

we get married

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Salam sis,

Do you have some advice for me pls. You don’t have to answer this if you don’t want to, it’s totally fine <3

I’ve been talking with a guy for marriage purposes. We’ve kept everything as halal as possible. We have right know been going out 7 times. He tics all the basics and boxes I’ve asked him about (children, future, job, economics etc) but one thing that makes me still not feel attracted to him is his looks. Like mashAllah he is tall with good beard good character, well spoken, smart but I don’t feel any connection towards him grow. I’ve prayed istikhara for a long time now and I still don’t find any attraction. I’m more on the side to cut the ties then to move on with him, but at the same time I don’t want to loose a good opportunity like this. I have told him that my feelings are not there yet and it could maybe take a long time. Which he replied very kindly and said it’s fine that I shouldn’t worry about it. I even told him about my health conditions which he accepted with no problem. Such a good guy, but why don’t I feel attracted :((((?? Idk am I to picy?

Every time I got back home after our meetings it doesn’t sit right with me. I don’t feel butterflies when I meet him. It’s very formel. They are very formel even within his family and I don’t like that.

The thing is in Islam we don’t take the same steps as non Muslims, we have to do it in a specific way to keep things halal, which also can make it sometimes “harder” do develop feelings for someone. I know that most of it comes after marriage but shouldn’t I feel something for him before? Is it stupid to cancel him when he has all the good boxes but I don’t feel attracted to him? And if a give it more time and time and time, but for how long? I don’t want to end up wasting mine his and his families time to see if I develop more feelings, but later only to end up canceling it after a long period when I could had done it earlier.

Im also afraid of not finding a potential again and I’m not getting younger. Me and my family don’t have many ties either so it’s harder to find someone to get married to. I’m 28 yo and this was my first time going out and getting to know a man in this way sooo….

Salam <3

wa alaykumsalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh <3

first i’m glad about your efforts to keep things halal, this is where the barakah comes from and makes your path easier inshAllah. no matter how rational you have to be in a matter of marriage, emotionality is significant. you have to feel a level of attraction towards your partner, else becoming happy with him will not work, no matter how good of a person he is. and yes, there is a chance to fall in love with him with time, but no one can guarantee you that and a marriage just to get married is not something for the long run. not for you, nor for him. i am the type who has to fall in love with a person to marry him, some people can rely on logic only… it depends on how you are built.

i like the thought of Allah swt giving us messages through our intuition and it barely fails. i‘m not sure if seven meetings are enough to make a decision like this, but then again, you entrusted me with this because you came to a point. maybe it’s time to take a moment and really dive into your emotions and ask the right questions. do you really want him or a marriage? does he still have the potential for you to fall in love with him or is there no chance from your pov? will his good characteristics convince you or is what you are searching for something else? being good is not enough. you have to be on the same page on a deeper level.

and believe me, recovering from a failed marriage will take longer than waiting for the right man. never hasten in sharing a whole life with someone. no matter what your decision will be, i hope from the bottom of my heart that it will be the right one for you. keep making dua and listen to what your heart has to say, be genuine to yourself and don’t be afraid to reject when you have to. you do this for you and no one else.

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Best Islamic Dua for Marriage Success

Welcome, my dear brothers and sisters, who are looking for Islamic dua for marriage Islam to make their marriage happy and successful. As we all know and understand, marriage is significant in everyone’s life and every religion. It has various aspects that make this relationship sacred and important.

Those people who are married and are here today. We hope Allah will bless you and make your marriage happy and full of blessings. May Allah protect you and your marriage with an offspring. Allah has taken you all here because he knows that you need help or guidance for the right path of marriage. We have given all your answers and will be there to assist you on your path.

Today you will learn about a lot of things related to the importance of dua in Islam for marriage and which is the best dua for getting married soon. You will also learn various things about how marriage works and how it connects people into a sacred thread. Also, understand the relation of love and care. Let’s raise our hands in Allah’s prayer and ask him to be with us for the rest of our lives.

Significance of Marriage

According to the Quran, marriage is a means to promote mutual love, support and mercy for the two people who love each other. The Qur’an says: “And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them, and He placed between you affection and mercy.” (Qur’an 30:21)

Marriage is not only about the physical interaction of two opposite genders. But also a spiritual bond, affection and understanding for each other. Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said, “Marriage is part of my sunnah, and whoever does not follow my sunnah has nothing to do with me” (Ibn Majah). Hadiths have highlighted the part of marriage as a natural and a symbol of faith.

But most of the time the journey of getting the right spouse is filled with various difficult challenges and uncertainties. In these times dua is the best and the most powerful way to remember Allah and trust his process of fulfilling our needs and desires. In Islam, it is believed that Allah has all the control over things. He can help us with sincere supplications like Islamic dua for marriage.

Best Islamic Dua for Marriage

Dua for Marriage in Islam

رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا

Transliteration: Rabbana hab lana min azwajina wadhurriyatina qurrata a’yunin wa-jalna lil-muttaqina imama.

Translation: Our Lord, grant us from among our spouses and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.

Best Dua for getting married soon

“اللهم اجعلني من الطيبين وارزقني الطيبات أَنْتَ الْمُعْطي وَأَنَا السّآئِلُ وَهَلْ يَرْحَمُ السّآئِلَ إِلّا الْمُعْطي بِرَحْمَتِكَ يا اَرْحَمَ الرّاحِمينَ” Translation: “Ya Allah make me from amongst the pure men and grant me from the pure women. You are the Bestower and I am the beggar, and who else can be merciful to the beggar except the Bestower? By your Mercy, O the most Merciful of the Merciful”

Major Role of Marriage in Our Life

Marriage plays a major role in our lives in various aspects. It is important for not only giving birth to a new offspring but also for men and women to live together with love and peace. Marriage is a relationship made with some sacred rituals performed in the presence of our loved ones. Here are the three important roles of marriage:

First and foremost importance of marriage in Islam is to bring offspring in this life. This will take our religion and our presence forward. Married couples must educate and take care of the upbringing of the child. This is an important aspect of society as well as Islamic religion.

Secondly, a marriage gives the right to a man and woman to share and live their life together with love and prosperity. This will help you experience love and care for each other and also support us in the difficult times. Islamic dua for marriage Islam makes the rest of our lives a lot easier and loving.

Last but not the least. Marriage helps us safeguard the rules and regulations of our society. With this, we can maintain the ethical practices of our religion and society. We can’t neglect our society because if we have to live here we have to follow its terms and marriage is one of its practices and fulfil our basic needs.

Some Prohibitions of Marriage in Islam

When it comes to marriage various things are completely prohibited in Islam. So you all must know and understand these and should practice this in times of your marriage.

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Dua For Marriage With a Loved One

Dua For Marriage With a Loved One

Love is something that everyone should experience. Some of us are just lucky to have found that special someone worth spending the rest of our life with. However, to sustain a healthy relationship and move in the direction of ultimate marriage, just love is not enough. It also takes effort on the parts of both parties as well as some luck too. One of those efforts comes in the form of Powerful…

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Dua For Love Marriage To Agree Parents

Dua For Love Marriage To Agree Parents

Dua For Love Marriage To Agree Parents As a child, you should never disobey your parents, even if they are against your marriage. So, if your parents are against the idea of your love marriage but you still want to marry him/her, then you shouldn’t pick any random step rather make dua for love marriage to agree parents. The dua will melt the heart of your parents and bring them in the favor of…

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Dua In Islam To Get Married To The Man I Love, Your religion has given you solutions for all the problems that come in your life. You can face all the challenges and difficult situations with the help of Islamic teachings.

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I’m writing you bc I haven’t talked with anyone about this. I had a 6y relationship with a non-Muslim (literally nobody knows, not even my friends. Only his and his family) & even though I knew it’s a sin, I couldn’t let go. I broke up with him almost 1,5y ago due to finding out that he’s been doing drugs almost the whole relationship & also bc he admitted that he doesn’t think that islam is the right religion for him (he used to insure me that he’d convert and that he doesn’t drink, one of many lies). I know that our breakup is a relief since I’m not sinning anymore but I’m in so much pain. I still love him the same way and I feel like I won’t be able to love s/o after him again. I don’t even feel attracted to the middle eastern men at all. What if I never get over him & end up alone? I’m already 25. Even if I learn someone, what if they leave after finding about my sinful relationship? I’ve been crying myself to sleep almost every Day since I broke up. The only reason why I haven’t killed my self yet is because I know I’d end up in hell.

Salam alikum sister. Sorry for the delayed response. I hope inShaAllah this answer finds you in the best of iman and health.

Allah is the one who mends the broken hearts. He can mend your broken heart and make you fall in love again with the right man. Allah can fix you. But you need to turn to Him first fully, heart, mind and soul.

The waswaas of never getting over your ex, never falling in love again, never being able to find someone like him, these are all from shaitan so that you return to a sinful practice.

You're not already 25; rather, you are only 25! You have a life ahead of you. There are soo many sisters that are older than you yet still single. Dont let your fear of getting old without a partner by your side make you revert to a sinful act or choose the wrong partner.

Marriage is a lifelong commitment. You will find the right one when Allah has written for you to find him. Be at peace knowing that the name of your spouse was written next to yours more than 10,000 years before you were born! Things will fall into place when its best for you so don't worry about these things for now.

Try to move on from what has passed. Make lots of istighfar. InShaAllah Allah will forgive you for your mistakes of the past and grant you peace of heart (Ameen).

Also, please do not ever reveal this sin to any of your friends, family or future/potential spouse. It is only between you and Allah. He has chosen to hide your sin. So do not reveal it to anyone. This practice of telling a potential spouse (or even your spouse once your married to them) about your past relationships or sins is NOT ISLAMIC! Allah does not want us to reveal our sins to anyone. He only wants us to ask for forgiveness so that He grants it to us..

Just focus on healing yourself for now. Cry it out if you need to; its ok to cry if it makes you feel better.

Some tips to make yourself feel better:

Do not keep any pictures, chats or memories of your ex. Discard and dispose them permanently. Do not look at his social media accounts. Block if required

Try to take on a new hobby: example workout a few days a week, try to learn a new language, invest in some good islamic books and start reading, cooking, writing, join a class (possibly online) (could be religious knowledge), go back to school to study further.. whatever you are interested in. Keep yourself busy!

Do alot of istighfar and always always keep your tongue moist with remembrance of Allah. Pick your favourite zikr and hold on to it in such a manner tha you will never let go for the rest of your life. My favourite is sending salawat upon the Prophet ﷺ :)

If you feel sad and miss your ex before going to sleep, play quran recitation or ayat-e-sakina before going to sleep. InShaAllah they will help you sleep better. Play it through out the day as well. It will give your heart coolness and peace.

Add tahajjud to your routine. Start with 10 minutes before fajr and a short 2 rakah and gradually build up. It makes a world of a difference. Speaking from experience: nothing in this world brings the peace that Tahajjud brings

Remember that suicide is a sin. If you need, speak to a counsellor; there's no harm in it. It is a waswasa from shaitan. So each time you have this thought, seek refuge from shaitan.

Lastly, my duas are with you. It will take time to heal. The damage has been done. Now is the time to fix it. Do istighfar and give yourself time.

And trust that Allah can fix you and your broken heart. Turn to Him with sincerity, He is waiting.. Maybe, He will open doors for you that you never imagined walking through. Use this time to reflect, repent and grow.

And please do speak to a counsellor or someone you trust. It will make you feel alot better inShaAllah. If you do not find someone to speak to, pour your heart out in Tahajjud and speak to Allah. He is the Wali (Protective Friend) of those who believe. He will turn the darkness in your life to light. But please take the first step. You have to want and try to move on (and you're already doing it). Just be patient with the process.

May Allah make ease for you. AMEEN.

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Assalmualaikum wa rahmatullahi wabarakatuhu. I pray you are in the best of health and iman. My parents are forcing me to marry a cousin back home against my will and although I suggested someone I'd like to marry from here, they refused to accept it as he isn't a family member and it breaks their cultural traditions. I've said no so many times but they won't stop and they've told me it will happen whether I like it or not. I'm feeling so down, depressed and even suicidal at times and there's just no escape. I've told them everything Islam states about forced marriage but they seem to think as parents they know best and I shouldn't disobey them. They say I should trust their decision as they wouldn't give me away to someone who wasn't good for me. I have so many valid reasons as to why I don't want to go through with it but I have no voice and I'm not heard. They have been persisting and I have just given up because I can't go a day longer with this weight on my shoulders, it's slowly bend destroying me. I told them to do what they want with me because I know I've been fighting a losing battle. Now that I've said it, I'm terribly afraid. I don't know how to be married to someone when my heart was always somewhere else. Will I get sin for this even though I never really had a choice? I'm so broken and I don't know how I'm gonna go through with it when it's everything I don't believe in. They said if I ever left and got married to someone of my own choice, I would never have their blessing and I have no wali who is on my side so they've made it impossible for me. I've done so much dua, I even prayed isthikara yet my feelings never changed. I'm at such a loss and I would genuinely rather die than go through with it but they're still making my life hell. I used to have a good relationship with everyone and now due to this, all those relationships have broken and it kills me. They're my parents, I don't love them any less but it hurts so much that they've treated me this way. I've recently been diagnosed with depression because of all this and if I told them they'd just laugh because they don't take it seriously. I know they will never change. Sorry for the long ask, may Allah reward you for all the good you're doing.

Wa alaykum assalamu wa rahmatu Allahi wa barakatuhu dear sister 🤍

La hawla wa la quwata illa billah ! I am so sorry that this is happening to you! * Sigh * my poor sister this must be tearing you apart ! Ya Allah ! The amount of suffering that the patriarchy and the culture put Muslim girls through is outrageous! AstaghfiruAllah alaadhim wa atubu ilayhi!

As you stated, forced marriages without the girl's consent are against the laws and the essence of Islam, so we are not going to get into that, it is established. I will cut short to the possible solutions I could think of:

1) Is there a relative/ uncle/ family friend/ neighbor who is open-minded and god-fearing enough that you can talk to and ask for help? Let him or her talk to your parents and make them understand that this is wrong?

2) If your father goes to the local Masjid, try to find the Imam and tell him about this catastrophe, and in shaa Allah the Imam will know what to do (whether to speak to your father directly and privately or to speak about the issue in general in a lecture, I am sure he would have seen this a lot of times and he would have in shaa Allah effective solutions)

3) worst case scenario: get in touch with the guy, the potential husband back home and be honest with him, tell him that you have no intention or desire of marrying him and that they are forcing you to do so and that this is unfair. Okay, if you can't do that, get a friend or a cousin or a sister do that? I am sure you have people in common, someone could e-mail him or text him on WhatsApp. I don't think that any decent god-fearing man would still marry a girl after knowing she is rejecting him and she is being forced.

And I know you have said that you have been praying and making duāa, my poor sister, I really feel for you and I am so sorry that you are getting super desperate that your duaas are not being answered. But you have to believe in Allah's timing. He swt is the most merciful! He can't see you in such pain and leave you like that, eventually Allah's mercy and relief will come! Maybe He swt is trying to teach your parents a lesson, maybe this test is not over yet, maybe it hasn't served its purpose yet! I want you to hold on a little tighter, I want you to be just a bit more patient. I know it hurts my dear, I promise I know, I understand your pain! And I am so sorry :( but Allah swt says " do not despair of the mercy of Allah " and we have to trust His sacred words.

I don't know how long your pain will last, I am so sorry for not having good answers, I wish I knew how this would end, but one thing I am sure of is that Allah swt would never allow or approve of oppression upon a faithful slave. So please make Him your refuge and your shelter. I know you said you prayed Istikhara but please try to pray Tahajjud, it works miracles! Wake up in the late third of the night and cry it out to al-samiī, try to trust Him harder, try to have Him on your side, because the ones who have Allah swt on their side, can never lose or go astray.

My heart and full support goes out to you my dear, I will - and I urge every sister who sees this to make duāa for you, may Allah swt save you from this situation and shield you from injustice, and heartbreak. Allah swt is capable of solving this impossible matter in unimaginable ways, I promise. Have faith in Allah. Kheir in shaa Allah my dear.

- A. Z. 🍃

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I know that Allah is how we think of Him, but with every passing year my fear that I'll spend the rest of my life alone grows more. I dont talk to guys and I dont use social media. Im an outcast even in my own family. Im so different that I fear no one will choose me, or want me. Idk how to place unwavering trust in Allah, that He will indeed send me someone. Im afraid that by the time a man comes I'll have gotten used to my loneliness and will feel uncomfortable with him. I'm so scared.

It's natural to have the desire to be loved and it will remain even if you get used to loneliness.

“Alot of single people think that marriage is the solution of loneliness. It’s not. The solution is on the inside. Filling your heart with something meaningful. Prophet Yusuf/Joseph (as) was single but contented. He went through a lot of trials but he didn’t give up. Sometimes in life, people may not value us but God values us. People cannot see the qualities in us but God sees the qualities He has placed inside each and everyone of us. If you’re still single, invest this time to develop your qualities. Ask Allah to show you the signs. Be open to the signs. Ask God to direct your heart.”

— Ust. Mizi Wahid

When you get anxious and have fear of future then recite this

“Hasbunallahu wa Ni’mal Wakeel” “Allah (Alone) is Sufficient for us, and He is the Best Disposer of affairs (for us).” (3:173).

Marriage is something that will happen when Allah Subhanahuwa ta’ala wills. So keep trying to find a righteous spouse and leave the rest to Allah Subhanahu wa ta’ala. Ask your friends and family. Don’t get depressed and don’t lose hope. Always remember Allah Subhanahu wa ta’ala plans are better than our wishes. Marriage is not the purpose of life; it’s a mean to get closer to Allah Subhanahu wa ta’ala. This is the best time to work on your relationship with Allah Subhanahu wa ta’ala. As you get married your responsibilities will also get increased. So prepare yourself for that responsibility, gain Islamic knowledge, and read about the rights of husband, wife and children because when you say yes for the marriage, you have agreed that you are ready to take the responsibility.  Remember this life is a test and we are all tested through different trials. It’s also a test that you have to abstain yourself from haram and be patient.

Make lots of dua and while asking Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala always say “if it’s good for me” because we don’t know what’s good for us only Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala knows. Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala loves us more than our mother so His decisions are always for our own good and we have to trust Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala.

“But perhaps you hate a thing and it is good for you; and perhaps you love a thing and it is bad for you. And Allah Knows, while you know not.” (Quran 2:216)

Always remember this:

“No amount of guilt can change the past and no amount of worrying can change the future. Go easy on yourself for the outcome of all affairs is determined by the decree of Allah. If something is meant to go elsewhere, it will never come on your way, but if it is yours by destiny, from you it cannot flee.”

Umar ibn al Khattab (Radi Allahu Ta’ala Anhu)

Recite Astaghfirullah as much you can. He will open door for you in shaa Allah

Following are some dua for marriage

1.“Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.“ (Quran 25:74)

2.”Rabbana aatina fi’d dunya hasana wa fi’l aakhirati hasana wa qina `adhab an-nar.” [O Lord! Grant us good in this life, and good in the next, and save us from the torment of the Fire] (Qur’an, 2: 200). Recite this dua’ with the intention of marriage as it is included in the phrase “fi’d dunya hasana” (good in this life).

3.My Lord, do not leave me alone and You are the best of inheritors. (Surah al-Anbiya` 21:89)

4.  Rabbi inni lima anzalta ilayya min khairin faqir (Quran 28:24)

I hope it will be helpful. May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala grant you a righteous spouse who will be the coolness of your eyes.

Allahumma Ameen

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Dua To Make Someone Agree For Marriage

If you want to marry your lover and convince everyone for your love marriage, then don’t worry and recite dua to make someone agree to the marriage. Not every parent agrees to love marriage, and you still want to marry your lover despite all the neglections, then make dua for love marriage and you will have married carried out smoothly. If you have full trust in your lover and think that you can live happily with him, then it is very important to practice dua in Islam to get married to the man I love. For more information visit our website @ https://lovemarriagedua.com/dua-to-make-someone-agree-for-marriage

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Best Islamic Dua for Marriage Success

Welcome, my dear brothers and sisters, who are looking for Islamic dua for marriage Islam to make their marriage happy and successful. As we all know and understand, marriage is significant in everyone’s life and every religion. It has various aspects that make this relationship sacred and important.

Those people who are married and are here today. We hope Allah will bless you and make your marriage happy and full of blessings. May Allah protect you and your marriage with an offspring. Allah has taken you all here because he knows that you need help or guidance for the right path of marriage. We have given all your answers and will be there to assist you on your path.

Today you will learn about a lot of things related to the importance of dua in Islam for marriage and which is the best dua for getting married soon. You will also learn various things about how marriage works and how it connects people into a sacred thread. Also, understand the relation of love and care. Let’s raise our hands in Allah’s prayer and ask him to be with us for the rest of our lives.

Significance of Marriage

According to the Quran, marriage is a means to promote mutual love, support and mercy for the two people who love each other. The Qur’an says: “And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them, and He placed between you affection and mercy.” (Qur’an 30:21)

Marriage is not only about the physical interaction of two opposite genders. But also a spiritual bond, affection and understanding for each other. Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said, “Marriage is part of my sunnah, and whoever does not follow my sunnah has nothing to do with me” (Ibn Majah). Hadiths have highlighted the part of marriage as a natural and a symbol of faith.

But most of the time the journey of getting the right spouse is filled with various difficult challenges and uncertainties. In these times dua is the best and the most powerful way to remember Allah and trust his process of fulfilling our needs and desires. In Islam, it is believed that Allah has all the control over things. He can help us with sincere supplications like Islamic dua for marriage.

Best Islamic Dua for Marriage

Dua for Marriage in Islam

رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا

Transliteration: Rabbana hab lana min azwajina wadhurriyatina qurrata a’yunin wa-jalna lil-muttaqina imama.

Translation: Our Lord, grant us from among our spouses and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.

Best Dua for getting married soon

“اللهم اجعلني من الطيبين وارزقني الطيبات أَنْتَ الْمُعْطي وَأَنَا السّآئِلُ وَهَلْ يَرْحَمُ السّآئِلَ إِلّا الْمُعْطي بِرَحْمَتِكَ يا اَرْحَمَ الرّاحِمينَ” Translation: “Ya Allah make me from amongst the pure men and grant me from the pure women. You are the Bestower and I am the beggar, and who else can be merciful to the beggar except the Bestower? By your Mercy, O the most Merciful of the Merciful”

Major Role of Marriage in Our Life

Marriage plays a major role in our lives in various aspects. It is important for not only giving birth to a new offspring but also for men and women to live together with love and peace. Marriage is a relationship made with some sacred rituals performed in the presence of our loved ones. Here are the three important roles of marriage:

First and foremost importance of marriage in Islam is to bring offspring in this life. This will take our religion and our presence forward. Married couples must educate and take care of the upbringing of the child. This is an important aspect of society as well as Islamic religion.

Secondly, a marriage gives the right to a man and woman to share and live their life together with love and prosperity. This will help you experience love and care for each other and also support us in the difficult times. Islamic dua for marriage Islam makes the rest of our lives a lot easier and loving.

Last but not the least. Marriage helps us safeguard the rules and regulations of our society. With this, we can maintain the ethical practices of our religion and society. We can’t neglect our society because if we have to live here we have to follow its terms and marriage is one of its practices and fulfil our basic needs.

Some Prohibitions of Marriage in Islam

When it comes to marriage various things are completely prohibited in Islam. So you all must know and understand these and should practice this in times of your marriage.

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Wazifa To Get Married With Your Lover

Wazifa To Get Married With Your Love or to marry someone of your choice can be used to make him marry you. We will provide you dua in Islam to get married to the man I love. Love someone and finally marry him. It is a dream come true moment. It gives you your life goals. Your other life gets sorted this way. But there also come obstacles with this way. Like your family may not agree with him or…

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I just watched the documentary on Netflix about the trending case of Chris Watts who murdered his wife and his children. I HAVE TWO POINTS HERE.

FIRST POINT

If not because of social medias I will not know yet before watching the documentary that the husband was the murderer and I would have hope that it wasn't him.

Why? Because before the revelation of the husband's confession, the documentary first showed videos of the wife telling to the world how HAPPY she is about her MARRIAGE, how BLESSED she is to have a great FAMILY, BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN, how proud she is to have her HUSBAND, a GOOD MAN, a GREAT HUSBAND and a GREAT FATHER. She seemed to have a PERFECT LIFE that most people wants to have.

They seemed so happy and blessed. She showed that to the world by posting pictures and videos and streaming every happy moment of her and her family and even successful businesses JUST LIKE WHAT MOST OF US is doing.

In ISLAM, we are ALWAYS REMINDED to not post pictures or videos of our achievements or success to AVOID EVIL EYE. Yes, it might be because of EVIL EYE. Wallaahu a'lam.

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EVIL EYE is dangerous than black magic!

Prophet Muhammad peace and blessings be upon him said, "Most of those who die among my Ummah died because of the will and decree of Allaah, and then because of EVIL EYE."

May Allaah jalla wa 'alaa protect us.

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Read these simple reminders (ctto) 👇🏻

1. Don't advertise your happy marriage on social media.

2. Do not advertise pregnancy on social media.

3. Don't advertise your kids achievements on social media.

4. Don't advertise your expensive buys on social media.

UNDERSTAND THIS ABOUT LIFE

1. Not everyone is going to be happy for you.

2. Most of the "nice" comments you get are just fake.

3. You just attracting the evil eye on you and your family.

4. You just attracting jealous people into your life.

5. You don't know who's saving your pictures & checking your updates.

6. You really need to stop this as because it may ruin your life, family, marriage and career.

BELIEVE ME - Social media sometimes is the devils eyes, ears and mouth, don't fall into the devils trap. Let a part of your life remain private.

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SECOND POINT

At the end of the documentary, it is said in the video that "IN AMERICA THREE WOMEN ARE KILLED BY THEIR CURRENT OR EX PARTNERS EVERY DAY. PARENTS WHO MURDERED THEIR CHILDREN AND PARTNERS ARE MOSTLY MEN."

It is known to many that the main reason Chris killed his wife and children is because of his mistress.

This is the FITNAH of WOMEN to MEN. This is HOW FAR Men would go to FOLLOW their DESIRES.

That is why in Islam, POLYGAMY is allowed. Marrying 2 to 4 is allowed to make it HALAL. To avoid greater harm like in Chris' case. Because Men are WEAK when it comes to women. They easily fall on Shaytan's traps. Polygamy in Islam ofcourse have proper conditions that should be followed. A man can marry up to four women as long as he can be JUST to all his wives. (Long discussion)

And ofcourse MEN in Islam is ADVISED to avoid glancing at women especially mingling with Non-Mahram.

Please read this below (ctto)👇🏻👇🏻

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Question:

Assalamualaikum wrm.wbt.,

Is it true that women are the greatest fitnah for men?

Answer:

Waalaikumussalam wrm. wbt.,

Alhamdulillah, praise and thanks to Allah for the countless blessings He has blessed us all with. Blessings and salutations to the Prophet Muhammad PBUH, his wives, his family, companions and all those that follow his teachings to the day of judgement.

Allah SWT created every creation in pairs such as man and woman, day and night, the skies and the earth and others. However, Allah SWT has chosen humans as the most honoured of all creations for they are blessed with the ability to think.

Furthermore, among the purposes Allah SWT created mankind is to test them with trials and tribulations so that Allah SWT will determine who amongst them who has the best of deeds. At the same time, Allah SWT created women as a trial or fitnah for men. This is explained by Allah SWT in the Quran:

Allah SWT states:

زُيِّنَ لِلنَّاسِ حُبُّ الشَّهَوَاتِ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ

“Beautified for people is the love of that which they desire - of women…”

Surah Ali Imran (104)

According to the above question, there is a hadith which clearly states that woman is a fitnah for men. The hadith is narrated by Imam al-Bukhari, Muslim, Ahmad and many others:

From Usamah bin Zaid RA, the Prophet PBUH said:

مَا تَرَكْتُ بَعْدِي فِتْنَةً أَضَرَّ عَلَى الرِّجَالِ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ

“I have not left after me any (chance) of turmoil more injurious to men than the harm done to the men because of women.”

Sahih al-Bukhari (5096) Sahih Muslim (2740)

According to Syeikh Abdullah al-Talidi, this hadith means that after the death of the Prophet PBUH, the greatest fitnah left by the Messenger PBUH is the fitnah of women which means Allah SWT created women as a creation that incites the desires of men and they are easily seduced by them. Thus, the fitnah of women is the greatest fitnah for all of her is a source of fitnah, such as her voice, looks, actions and others.

Likewise, it is stated in a hadith from Abu Sa’id al-Khudri RA, the Prophet PBUH said:

فَات��َقُوا الدُّنْيَا وَاتَّقُوا النِّسَاءَ فَإِنَّ أَوَّلَ فِتْنَةِ بَنِي إِسْرَائِيلَ كَانَتْ فِي النِّسَاءِ

“So, avoid the allurement of women: verily, the first trial for the people of Isra'il was caused by women.”

Sahih Muslim (2742)

The above hadith also stated that a Muslim should be conscientious around women which means he should be on his guard when he is socializing with a woman to avoid getting lured into fitnah.

Imam al-Nawawi Rahimahullah when commenting on this hadith said:

“Distance yourself from the fitnah of this world and women.” (See al-Minhaj Syarah Sahih Muslim, Al-Nawawi, 17/213)

The Honour of Women

When discussing the issue of the fitnah of women, it does not mean that women are viewed negatively according to syarak. Consequently, syarak honour and dignify the status of women. There are numerous advantages of women stated in sahih syarak evidences. Among them is a hadith narrated by Abdullah bin ‘Amr RA, where the Prophet PBUH said:

‏ الدُّنْيَا مَتَاعٌ وَخَيْرُ مَتَاعِ الدُّنْيَا الْمَرْأَةُ الصَّالِحَةُ

"The world is but a (quick passing) enjoyment; and the best enjoyment of the world is a pious and virtuous woman."

Sahih Muslim (715)

Imam al-Qurthubi when explaining the meaning of pious and virtuous woman stated in the above hadith as:

“She (woman) is someone who makes her husband happy when he sees her, when he instructed or ask for anything she would comply and when her husband is absent, she would protect (her husband’s dignity and honour) him and his property.”

This refers to the statement of the Prophet PBUH:

أَلاَ أُخْبِرُكَ بِخَيْرِ مَا يَكْنِزُ الْمَرْءُ الْمَرْأَةُ الصَّالِحَةُ إِذَا نَظَرَ إِلَيْهَا سَرَّتْهُ وَإِذَا أَمَرَهَا أَطَاعَتْهُ وَإِذَا غَابَ عَنْهَا حَفِظَتْهُ

“Let me inform you about the best a man hoards; it is a virtuous woman who pleases him when he looks at her, obeys him when he gives her a command, and guards his interests when he is away from her.”

Sunan Abu Daud (1664)

The same for a virtuous woman are those who are wives and also act as the main strength to their husbands. This is shown by Umm al-Mu’minin Khadijah binti Khuwailid R.Anha, when the Prophet PBUH is confused and scared after receiving the first revelation, Khadijah calmed the Prophet PBUH saying:

كَلاَّ وَاللَّهِ مَا يُخْزِيكَ اللَّهُ أَبَدًا، إِنَّكَ لَتَصِلُ الرَّحِمَ، وَتَحْمِلُ الْكَلَّ، وَتَكْسِبُ الْمَعْدُومَ، وَتَقْرِي الضَّيْفَ، وَتُعِينُ عَلَى نَوَائِبِ الْحَقِّ‏

"Never! By Allah, Allah will never disgrace you. You keep good relations with your kith and kin, help the poor and the destitute, serve your guests generously and assist the deserving calamity-afflicted ones."

Sahih al-Bukhari (3)

Conclusion

To conclude, every individual or human being is able to control his desires and saved from this fitnah. Hence, Islam has taught and placed guidelines for men when they are interacting with women and vice versa. Lastly, may Allah SWT protect us from fitnah of women and make our Muslim women as righteous and virtuous women. Amin.

Wallahua’lam

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May Allaah guide us all.

Please see photos in the end to learn DUA to avoid evil eye and have Allaah's protection from it.

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