#dont kinkshame me now .

[kamisatoayato]

listen babe u dont understand....the intrusive thoughts won i HAD to lick the dead rotting spider okay..

[todayisafridaynight]

three months later and i still think it wouldve been the funniest thing in the universe if daigo and masato were A Thing at any point in time

[runaeveena]

Your dashboard if you were in a d&d fantasy world still involved in fictional erotica discourse part 2

⛰️ berenicesblade Follow

now that the new Mountain Angel volume has come out can we please tag spoilers, some of us are still waiting for our pigeon mail

🦚 faeynadaughter Follow

you can access the volume in full on TomePlane!

🎭 bardcampistrash Follow

until TomePlane acknowledges that its interplanar storage is made possible by binding aboleths to the plane and killing them then we are going to continue not using that platform, thanks

🦚 faeynadaughter Follow

aboleths killed my cousin who was a royal cleric. ill never understand why theres a whole movement to protect abyssal creatures when theyve caused so much damage to our kingdoms. and disliking a pocket dimension which provides thousands of people access to books? your attitude reeks of anti literaturism and mal-aligned virtue signaling and im not sure which is worse

🫒 tenthday237 Follow

Aliizya gets pregnant on page 62

⛰️ berenicesblade Follow

banished

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��� finchtruther Follow

okay but the way that faelor finch writes every song that perfectly fits pennbiel liiike its giving closet fangirl

🧭 waywardwarlock

seriouslyy!! like what else is "give me your unmarked hand / in the shadowfell we won't be a secret" supposed to be about if not pennipher and corabiel

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🌫️ cloudgiant-snailboy Follow

yall please dont fill up the unseen servant tag with your super fucking weird smut posts im just looking for tips on how to find my unseen servant

🪡 scç-writer

the search function on tomeblr does need to be updated but we dont have to kinkshame :)

🌫️ cloudgiant-snailboy Follow

the site is being overrun by virgin degenerates

🍯 treebarkhookhandwagondoor

sounds like you need Wilam the Wizard with Wandering Hands to help you summon the unseen stick in your ass

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🗝️ crypt-princess Follow

so whose going to be the first to commission a painting of that scene with Aliizya and the beholder 👀

🍎 bloodmaledickening Follow

i already asked my local artisan he said he's gotten two other commissions for the same scene lmao

🐁 softbarbarian

girl i commissioned a tapestry

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🕯️ andersfirelight Follow

friendly reminder that devil deals are a real thing that a lot of people fall victim too and that demons are malicious and do destroy peoples lives if theyre not careful so please be careful when consuming works like Hellionfinity which romanticizes devil deals and fiendish soul contracts

🌾entangled-farmer Follow

imo any work of fiction that involves a romance between any type of fiend is not just problematic but harmful

🕯️ andersfirelight Follow

i used to be indifferent to books that had devil romance interests because like thats their whole thing theyre seducing people to get their souls and the mc overcomes it, but reading through the replies i see that Hellionfinity actually ends with the devil character as the main romantic lead which is super problematic in terms of power imbalance and the fact that he has a redemption arc is so out of touch especially since our military is finally recovering from the azgurian assault

🧚🏻‍♂️arms-of-faelor

helliofinity also has a scene where the main character uses a soul coin that an imprisoned mortal gave him and he uses it to bring the devil out of avernus so he doesnt fully die and no one in the book mentions it or talks about how messed up it is to use soul coins and we never see the now bound to hell prisoner ever again

🕯️ andersfirelight Follow

hellionfinity officially cancelled on my end!

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☘️ celest-ial Follow

moment of silence for all the customers waiting on drink orders while the tavern wench gets her back blown out by a new guy every night ✊😔

🦁 king-killa Follow

the gods work hard but Girthy Gladys gets worked harder

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🎲 beholdersbeholdingme

paladin and warlock romances are OUT! cleric and necromancer romances are IN!

🪭 royalcoinpurse Follow

the only thing a cleric should do to a necromancer is beat him to death so she can revive him and kill him again

🎲 beholdersbeholdingme

❇️ arch-dryad Follow

i think we need to analyze why we're so quick to place women in categories of devious seductress or healer in romance novels as if that hasnt been the pervasive trope that holds magic-touched women back in our actual society

🍯 treebarkhookhandwagondoor

why do you assume these fictional tropes are mf couples only? can a gay cleric not beat his gay necromancer boyfriend to death?

🎲 beholdersbeholdingme

and off! beat him off cmon guys

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🧀 weremouse Follow

yall ever be talking or whatnot and feel like no one understands you

🪨 sebrenenogdon Follow

ᛄᚠ ᛡᚢ ᚳᚪᚾ ᚱᛁᛞ ᚦᛄᛋ ᛡᚢ ᚺᚪᚠ ᛏᚢ ᚱᛁᛒᛚᚪᚷ ᚦᛄᛋ

🧀 weremouse Follow

say that shit fr (<- looking around clueless)

🪨 sebrenenogdon Follow

ᛋᛁᚱᛁᚪᛋᛚᛁ

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🌠 crownofstars

remember when that person made a call out post for the author of ilairepeler for using a ghost writer and it turned out the author was an actual ghost. writing. like a literal ghost writer. like.

🍄gnomestool Follow

arent you the dwarf that fucked a slaad

🌠 crownofstars

how would you like to become a ghost so you can write more witty comments like this for eternity

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[yaknowlikenyah]

how would you go about telling your partner youre into something that youve seen them kinkshaming

cuz like its not a relationship i want to leave nor do i want to keep secrets from them but i also dont want them to a. take it as a joke or b. do that thing where people just stop listening to you and start reacting based off of their bias

thanks big bro 👍

So this is one of those things where the longer you leave it to rot, the more it's going to fester until it becomes a major problem. The last thing you want is to become resentful. Ya know? And the reason that shit happens is because it hurts.

Going into a communication like this there's a couple things you're going to have to keep in mind.

1. Set expectations for reactions.

Set the tone. You don't want them to make fun of you or call you gross or anything, obviously, but you have to communicate what is/isn't expected. Set the discussion up for compassion and make it clear that being teased or ridiculed would make you uncomfortable.

2. State how the thing influences you.

This is the devil. Absolutely the fucking devil, but you have to express what the action in question is doing to you. Yes it hurts you, but "hurt" is abstract and makes it hard for the other person to understand exactly how their actions are influencing you. Does it lower your self esteem? Is what they're doing influencing your thought patterns or making obsessive thoughts worse? Giving you body image issues? If you specify the cause and effect rather than just stating the feeling, communication will be clearer.

3. State a reasonable outcome for resolution

You know the thing and how it hurts you, and now you have to give a suggestion for how you want to fix it. It keeps your S/O (or whoever else) jumping to conclusions on what you want and helps to assuage any rejection sensitive dysphoria or guilt they may have.

So your ending communication will look something like:

"Hey babe, can we talk about something seriously for a second? I want you to hear me out about something that's been making me feel uncomfortable and I'd like if you wouldn't make fun of me for it, but I have that [insert here] kink you've been making fun of. You don't have to like it yourself or do it with me, but I'd appreciate it if you could stop making fun of it around me because it's making me feel gross about kinks I can't control."

The not fun bit of this is that if they react badly, if they make fun of you and double down, you have to think about if you want to be with someone who would make fun of other people like that in the first place and who would double down instead of reacting with compassion. It doesn't have to be a deal breaker, but don't tolerate making yourself more and more palatable just to keep what you think is a good relationship. That's the high speed train to waking up one day and realizing you're miserable trying to be someone else.

[onlyjaeyun]

What are 7 kink warnings you hate reading and 5 you love (putting myself out there, I love somnophilia and toxic sex so no kinkshaming here 🤕)

Btw call me Tori/baby/angel/sweet/love/anycutenicknamesbecauseilovefeelingnoticed

you're so cute 😭😭

i don't ever kink shame it's just thag i personally feel a little uncomfortable with certain kinks and THATS OKAY !!!!!! i dont read what i feel uncomfy with and that's it, bc there's 163829 other pieces of fiction i can find which actually cater to my preferences so pls dont feel offended by this if my listed kinks are some of yours!!.🤕🤍

incest/pseudo incest

cnc/non-con

piss 🙂‍↕️

gore tbh

that's it tbh 😭 for now thi i cant think of anything else so 😭🤕

y'all know your girl DD/LG

spit 🫨😮‍💨

this one's a little bit of a secret but heavy degradation/mocking 🙂‍↕️

neglect play LMAO

oral (f.receiving) I ❤️ MUNCHES

somno is also such a good one tho i dont go out of my way to read it yk??

[jordie-gvf]

might be weird one but i cant get it out of my mind. yn has a clogged duct and baby is out at her grandmas house, she brings it up to danny and danny says he can try to fix it. when he does get it fixed, he doesnt want to stop and ends up getting turned on because of it

there is no such thing as weird. no kinkshaming here! 🫶

hungry baby, danny

word count : less than 1k

this is not for everyone, and if you dont like it, simply scroll on.

warnings : breastfeeding kink, oral f rec, handjob/masturbation, fingering f rec, mommy kink, language

just a reminder that this is a safe place for everyone. do not be embarrassed in the slightest to send me an ask. i will protect you and your anonymity!

enjoy ❤️‍🔥

your boobs had been killing you. you had a clogged duct because Noa hadn’t been latching properly. she was with your mom for the day and wouldn’t be back until later. 

danny had noticed your pain and discomfort as soon as he walked into the room. he asked, "what’s wrong mama?" and can over to you immediately. you told him, "your child hasn’t been feeding. she won’t latch and now i’ve got a clogged duct. it fucking hurts."

his eyes widened and he said, "well i read somewhere that i can help you with that. if you need help. i don’t want to make you uncomfortable." you smiled and asked him, "and how would you be helping me?" he looked at you and sat in the bed. "i can do her job. latch and suck" 

you had gotten wet at the thought. you told him to come closer and he got real excited. he lifted your shirt off your body and undid your bra. he rubbed your tit first before latching. 

ecstasy. that is what he felt. euphoric. high. he loved every second of it. you grabbed his other hand and slid it under your leggings. he immediately knew what to do and started rubbing away. 

after a few minutes, your tits felt a lot better. he unlatched and said, "i got it out but i really didn’t want to stop." you looked at him with all seriousness and said, "then don’t." he looked at you with dark eyes and instantaneously put his mouth on you. he was in heaven with the taste and that he got to please his girl at the same time. 

you weren’t expecting him to take his mouth off but he only did for a second. "please touch me mommy. i need you to touch me" , pulled down his sweats and flashed his doe eyes before putting his mouth back on. 

wasting no time, you wrapped your hand around him. slowly stroking, starting at the base and making sure to rub his pretty pink tip with your thumb. he opened his eyes and you said, "are you all hard for mommy? you like mommy’s milk?" he nods his head at the speed of light and continues suckling. 

you continued to rub him slowly and you can tell he’s getting needy because he moved your hand and stroked himself. watching his movements, you can tell he’s about to cum. he cums all over your bare thigh and moans around your nipple. 

he moves his hand in between your legs and shoves two fingers inside you and curls his fingers to hit your g-spot. you moaned loudly and removed his lips to say, "yeah that spot right there? that feel good mommy? just want to make my mommy happy." he starts kissing down your body and stops right above your clit. he looks up at you and said, "please mommy can i taste you pretty please?" you respond to him "you’re such a good boy. always making mommy happy. yes baby." and he wastes no time going in. 

the noises coming from your mouth and the noises he makes while he’s absolutely fucking destroying you are obscene. he’s moaning, you’re moaning. he can tell your at the edge when your legs start to shake around his head. you grab onto his head and grind up against his face. he grabs onto your thighs and sticks his tongue out, letting you ride his tongue. he shakes his head a little, reaching every spot. he moved to suck on your clit while you cum. he spits on your pussy before sucking you dry. 

he moves back up your body and latches onto your other boob. after a few minutes of him doing so, the movement stops, you look over and see your precious boy asleep. you move his bangs out of his face and kiss his forehead, you truly loved your boy.

[katsune-nya]

~♡~ Rules and Blog Info ~♡~

Masterlist

100 Followers Celebration (Open).

Requests: OPEN!

Paypal.

♡ Me (Everything about me.)

Kat/Kiya.

It/Its + She/Her + They/Them.

Greyace.

Greyaro.

White+native Latinx.

Spanish/English.

Comfort characters: Mammon, Diavolo, Luke, Julian, Tetta (i know, something's deeply wrong with me), Yuzuha, Draken, Akkun...

♡ Fandoms:

- Obey me.

- Tokyo Revengers.

- Naruto (Shippuden).

- The Arcana

- Harry Potter (Fuck JKR)

♡ I will write:

- Tokyo Revengers for now but i'm gonna take other fandom requests into consideration.

- Chats, Tweets, One Shots, Drabbles, Multi-Chapter, Incorrect Quotes.

- Most timelines, just give it a try.

- Canon past, present and future.

- Fem! + GN! + Male! Reader (forgive me if i write men wrong, im just a pretty lil thing uno).

- Different body types.

- LGBTQ+.

- Fluff, Smut and Angst.

- SFW: All characters.

- NSFW: All except Mana, Luna, Mochi, Mucho, Osanai (hate that bitch).

- Kinks: All of em except like SCAT i guess, but like, ask for something and i'll think about it, no judgement, i love you, Freaks ♡.

- Monogamous and Poly.

- Generally problematic content, like Ran and Rin double teaming you or full CNC or Dub-Con hehe ♡.

- Some drugs, haven't tried enough to make most accurate tho.

♡ I wont write:

- Anything regarding race/ethnicity (except latinx cause i am) unless its something superficial, since i dont believe i would do a good job portraying experiences i haven't had.

♡ DNF if:

- You are a bigot.

- You are under 18 years old or dont have your age on your bio.

- You kinkshame (Unless kink shaming is your kink u know).

♡ How to interact:

-Be respectful towards yourself, me, and the others.

-On or Off anon, both are fine!

-Same for requests, yoo don't need to follow me but it's apreciated.

-Send all the asks you want! I love talking to people but i might not answer right away due to my mental health.

-Feel free to request! I reserve to myself the right to write or not any work, but i will not judge for anything you ask, so feel safe to go ahead, and always ask politely.

♡ Meanings:

-SFW: Safe For Work, pg content.

-NSFW: Not Safe For Work, mature content.

-Dub-Con: Dubious consent.

-CNC: Consensual Non-Consent. The Kink of roleplaying a Non-Consensual scene.

-NonCon: Non-Consensual.

[heavenlyvision]

Hi i am sorry , but i didnt see your list of do and donts for requesting, may i know if you have boundaries or certain thing that should not be asked in the inbox? I don't want to make you uncomfortable but i really love the way you write ans was wondering if you do request and headcanonz and if you have some specifiv taboo stuff that should not be included.

No need to be sorry!! I haven't really specified my boundaries other than pregnancy and that was in response to a request, if you're curious about my thoughts on that, the ask and my answer is here

Thank you for your ask and for enjoying my writing!!! I have never done headcanons but my brain is filled with thoughts on fictional characters, so I am more than happy to do some. I am also open to answering drabbles and such :))

In regards to boundaries, I haven't said much on it because I wasn't sure where to put it or even how to begin specifying it. I have a hard time saying no without a clear idea of what the request would be and while I don't feel I have many hard no's, I will try to list out a few off the top of my head under the cut. I've also included some clarifying information.

CW for noncon, dubcon, cnc, self harm, etc, below

Noncon (No consent) or rape is a hard no for me, I am unwilling to write it and I do not see that changing.

Sexual assault is a no but attempted sexual assault is up in the air, I would never write it about a character I like but I might do something along the lines of, some random flirting, touching, grabbing you against your consent and how certain characters would react in response.

Dubcon (Dubious consent) is a bit iffy for me, I do have a sex pollen ask in my requests and I'd tag that dubcon but I am okay with it and I will be writing it. Mostly in regards to dubcon, I'm on the fence, if it gets too close to noncon, I will not write it but it's a bit of a case by case basis.

Cnc (Consensual non consent) is a bit of a fine line for me too, depending on what it is, I might be interested in it, but I probably won't write it of my own accord.

Self harm fics, like; your partner finding out about your self harm is also a no for me, just because I have gone through something like that and tbh, not the vibes.

I'd write about being self-conscious and your partner helping you by something sexual occurring or being kind and reassuring but I won't write about anything too self deprecating. This is for a number of reasons but mostly because I wouldn't personally want to read about something like that.

In relation to that, I enjoy degradation just as much as the next girl but I won't write anything where a character would actively think poorly of you or say something cruel because it's too mean for me :(( I want to imagine that the character thinks you hung the stars and the moon but again, case by case basis.

I will not write underage reader, I will write age gap because I am in my 20s and hot for characters older than me but I will never write a fic where the reader is underage, very icky vibes to me.

These are off the top of my head, I think I will make a more streamlined post with both do's and don'ts regarding what I write and link it to my bio but I think for now I have covered most of my bases.

I will add, I will not ever kinkshame someone and if you do send me a request I won't write for I may reply to it clarifying a boundary but please don't ever take it as me judging you! I write because I love reading and there are just some things I wouldn't read myself or be able to do justice for.

I am new to writing and so these are things I hadn't really considered previously. I appreciate you asking me for clarification and I hope I have answered appropriately and thoroughly.

Lastly, never be hesitant to ask me questions, again, I will never be unnecessarily cruel or judgy!!! I am just some weirdo on the internet who loves writing for hot characters <333

[lutawolf]

hi luta, i just want so slide by and say thank you

for bringing kind metas (posts) on lita/prapaisky , and mame's a bit too. i am forever grateful.

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im a tumblr user for bl stuff in 2020, followed some huge blogs & learned a lot about bl cuz im fairly new. i had forgotten about it until i rejoined a couple months ago for prapaisky' lita -- expecting to share the same excitement / reading wonderful metas / learning things again

i ... im pretty perplexed to read the blogs i used to read for info / metas im looking forward to ... expressed mean, mean, things.

i felt nauseous. i didnt realize the people whose metas i used to love can be so. cruel. i had hoped i can find some articulation of what I felt, as a shared feelings, but not only i didnt find it, i, felt ashamed to even had my feelings from the first place. i had to dived in the tag rabbit hole and finally found blogs that expressed the opposites, and thank god i did. thank god i did.

(followed them right away, n unfollow thw prev blogs that i now, see, as ... no)

this tho, had me actually ignored the whole tag whlist it airs, and put notif on for the ones i now value, yours included. it got me thru the whole journey of ep11-13, especially, Especially, 12. the special ep tho, the special ep got me branched out again towards the tag and see people bashing it again undermining it as the sex ep. and kinkshaming rain. is it so bad to have a happy, mutual, consent sexual relationship? i thought we dont kinkshame now

i . i dont know what to think. i am sorry to barging in like this. i just. all these upsetting experience piled up and i just. had to. express my gratitude that u at least shown me the kind side of this perspective.

i apologize for the incoherency, english is not my first language, i wish this isnt too rude..

no need to answer this if u dont want to, i just, had to say it to you. all the love, anon.

Hey Hey lil 🐇,

First, let me say welcome back to Tumblr! I'm actually pretty new. I reached a year anniversary this month. Though I am not new to bl at all. I'm OG there.

Negative reviews are a part of life. However, there is a difference between being hateful and writing a neg review. There is a difference between cancel culture and I don't watch this or participate in this type of art. I think that people are failing to see the differences. Life is not white and black.

There will always be kink shaming. It's not from men though. It's from women. These same women that are talking shit, reading romance on their kindle when no one is looking and wouldn't think twice about their boyfriend asking them to wear a French maid costume. As an amazing friend once told me, this is your room and you cultivate it the way you need to. He blocks people left and right, creating the atmosphere that he wants on Tumblr. I've learned to do the same. I may end up in a bubble but it's a tiny community of people I truly enjoy and love.

Never apologize for English being your second language. Being bilingual is an accomplishment that should only get love not judgement. You guys will never and I mean NEVER see me criticize the way someone writes, from spelling to commas, to anything. I'll never do it. I might ask for clarification but there will never be criticism. We are all here to learn and better ourselves and that is not accomplished by sitting in judgement.

I really appreciate that you read my blog and enjoy it. It means the world to me that you guys reach out to me. All the love. Wishing you the best. Thank you, 💜💜💜

[quivm]

check if you are !!

homophobic, racist, pro-ana, anti chubby readers, any 'ic' or 'ist', terf, anti neo pronouns, participate in usless discourse, -13 if you are please do not interact (dming, following ect) with me and i will block you !

25+ can interact but i have boundaries but please dont dm me and try to have normal conversations i have boundaries

yes i am 17, so be mindful of that and yes i write nsfw ( and sfw ) so dont dm me putting me down for it. teens have hormones too, oh no !!

this page is mostly for teens like me to have pages which they can interact with that like the same stuff because most are 'minor dni' ( understandable ) but all ages are allowed

i am dyslexic so please help me in finding spelling and gammar mistakes just dont put me down for it (´▽ʃ♡ƪ)

kinkshaming is not entertained here but i have boundaries please

i allow prompts + thrists but not requests

please dont message me constantly about add a second part or finishing a one part/project it will make me not want to and feel pressured one message is enough

i only give other socials to close mutuals !!

discourse around anything i write please dm me about it if it serious so i can amend or take it down

i mostly write fem reader but gn reader is possibly. female genital will be present most always unless specified in nsfw

edit!! i do write male reader now as well but it will be explicitly said in the beginning

i write sfw and nsfw. all minor characters while only get sfw pieces (i dont do aged up)

i dont do request unless i say do but there will be a time limit. if you still send some i will ignore them till next time ( ;´꒳`;)

switch, dom, sub reader will be written!

i write all characters sexualities (eg. maki x fem!reader)

do not repost my blogs onto wattpad or ao3 i will find out and be pissed if you want to share it give the link! you can ss and share that but have my @ and link next to it or in the comments

i write drabbles, short stories , long and headcannons but long stories are more rare

i write bc i want to this isnt that serious

fandoms might i write for : blue lock, death note, akama ga kill, mha, mob psycho, aot, tokyo revengers, jjk, genshin ( only childe ), pjsk, tokyo ghoul, csm, ohshc, manhwas ( not listing them ), dune, spiderverse, marvel, venom. dm me if you want me to write a fandoms thats not on here i might be into it !

again i will write nsfw / dark content here!

the specific topics in each nsfw post will be the post at the top!

dark content i write: stalking, obsession, kidnapping/entrapment, legal age gaps, yandere

things i will not write ! feet kink, feces/vomit, necrophilia, pedophilia, grooming, aging up, raceplay, beastiality, ddlg, abuse, mentions of race or weight, incest, puedo-incest/stepcest, selfcest, noncon/dubcon, torture

i will not write for:

genshin - anyone but childe

akame ga kill - anyone but esdeath

bungo stray dogs - dazai, kyoka

mha - anyone outside the mainish cast

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[transsexualism]

"were you a kpop blog" ANON MOST OF MY URLS IS A REFERENCE TO 140503새벽에 BY MIN SUGA FROM HIS FIRST SOLO MIXTAPE "AGUST D" RELEASED ON SOUNDCLOUD ON AUGUST 15 2016. you come to my blog. and you ask me if i was a kpop blog. but you do not treat me with respect

PS by stan twt i mean the kpop fandom. ive been on stan twt ever since hannibal premiered. now you know 👍

YOU WERE A KPOP BLOG?

brother for how long have you been following me. i was on stan twt for 3 ish years until i got permabanned for "death threats" (saying, and i do quote it directly, that i am going to kill mnet (tv company) in real life. none of the ppl who dogpiled me (iirc summer 2018 when after the nicki minaj stuff came to light tae was seen vibing to her music and i said it's bad optics) and qrted my selfies to mock me and we're transphobic etc got permabanned but EYE lost all but one of my accts including my main which i created in 2012 or so. "were you a kpop blog" anon i was in the trenches

[schakira]

from the very depths of my core, i truly have had enough of men. i'm going to speak honestly here, and i really don't care if it seems excessive — i'm allowed to speak my mind on my blog. being a gay man is currently my most humiliating experience. to think that men would abuse of my kindness, manipulate me, lie to me, cheat on their boyfriends just to treat me like a weird fucking side piece, damn near sexually assault me, blackmail me, humiliate me... there was a time where a man touching me would make me feeling butterflies in my stomach but now a single touch feels like fucking needles on my skin.

to think i'd go through the humiliating experience of being in the closet, keeping myself from living my life freely, all to be insulted by my family, lose friends, and for men to absolutely treat me like shit? like a fucking object? do you guys only think with your dicks? and actually while i'm at it, that shit fucking annoys me. do you all just talk about dick and fucking and sucking 24/7? i get the sexual liberation but why is it that when i try to have a normal conversation, some guy tries to make it sexual. can't we speak earnestly? do you truly only desire sex from me? how is that treating me with the respect i deserve; i don't WANT you to see me sexually i want you to love me. when have we started confusing the two? you think i came out just for me to treat me like a fucking piece of meat? risked losing my family just for dick?

and while i'm on the fucking kinkshaming train, how is it normal to have such desires for weird relationships of power? raceplay? fucking raceplay? do you guys have to paint racist caricatures for your sexual desires is that something you oughta be proud of? the amount of guys that either want me to the be their big black daddy dick (DIE), or submissive black slave n*gger bottom (some words that were actually said to me...) and how you lot picture muslim men as fucking barbaric like some macho fantasy...? and then you TALK like you're proud of having those weird ideals? and how men would pursue me for being small and looking younger than my age? the amount of old men hitting on me when i looked fucking 15 at 19 years of age. the amount of nudes i received from random old men on the internet — how is that fucking fair? do i have to just sit down and act like that's normal, like we don't have to do better as a community? "blah blah no i dont wanna be a puritan blah blah" — i'm talking about establishing a baseline for respect? something that will make people treat me like a human being worthy of respect? and not a fucking sexual object? hello? does my consent mean nothing anymore?

to think i had to sit a man down, tell him "you damn near sexually assaulted me" and then he had the gall the fucking audacity to say "you're crazy you must be thinking of somebody else you were into it" i think you have to physically restrain me from not beating his ass to a fucking pulp. and now i have to what? live with that fucking nauseating feeling for the rest of my fucking life. and that's not even the worst thing that has happened to me but i don't wanna talk about it. there are men ON HERE that have truly destroyed my fucking self-esteem and i won't find any peace of mind unless i have a proper fucking apology

[drizzileiscool]

this is a vent post

oh damn my life is pretty empty actually

I have like almost no irl friends and I'm online all the time

and besides I dont really like most of the people I've met irl, they either just treat me like a child or act like I dont exist, so it's not like I could just go up to someone at school and go like "you are now my friend we must go talk about this thing I like"

and like 90% of the people at my school are transphobes, and I also almost never get to interact with any people who aren't

the only non-transphobic people I've been friends with at school are a bisexual girl who most people dislike and a guy who I've heard is in a poly relationship. there's also another nb person but I barely interact with them. closest I've ever been to talking to them was during a project in the 8th grade where we worked on a play and I was in a group with the nb person

slightly unrelated, but still part of the vent: I hate my brothers. all they ever do is fight over literally everything. just yesterday I tried to turn on the AC because it was hot as hell and this bitch fucking punched me in the arm because it didn't let him hear the tv. im probably never gonna be able to move out, but if I could, I would do it as soon as possible. I'm not even gonna invite them to my wedding assuming I have one. they aren't even invited to my funeral.

and about that luka person who I hate, here's why I hate them:

i first met luka not long after getting my first phone. I posted something funny in the replies of the squid game twitter account, he liked the reply and i checked out his account and decided "yeah sure, I'll follow". we then became friends. after a few months, someone claiming to be an ex friend of luka dmed my and explained "hey. luka is actually a shitty person." and told me about what they actually did.

this is your warning to stop reading any further.

//tw suicide baiting, hornyness, gore, castration

luka was a suicide baiter, an extremely horny minor, a gore fetishizer (normally i wouldn't kinkshame, but fucking GORE??? THAT IS LITERALLY DEAD PEOPLE), and he's into castration. this shocked me a lot, since he was the person who got me into higurashi, which is a very gory anime. that day, I felt extremely betrayed, and this is also the reason why I stopped watching higurashi. he's also done lots of other things that I'm not even gonna acknowledge. this is why I dont interact with people named luka.

anyways vent over now look at these pictures of piplups because this is getting too dark for me

[onlyjaeyun]

I feel what that last anon said, it's ridiculous, like I had to block two of my favorite authors since all they write now is inc*st and noncon, and I just can't with it. Like it's so hard to find anything that isn't either of those, it's like some of these people took calling your bf daddy and literally made him the mc literal dad, like I don't support kink shaming, but I do for that.

NOTE: this is in no way directed at anybody in particular and i'm really sorry if this may offend you, yet thdse are just my thoughts. i genuinely understand the whole using kinks as coping mechanisms thing, i promise. sending everyone love 🩷

honestly i've always been the last person to ever kink shame bc you do you boo but when they take over the whole tag it's just a big fat sigh bc ik this sounds like i AM kinkshaming but those heavy kinks should NOT be normalised, especially in fandoms which include actual people bc...they're actual living human beings to start off and ik this will not make sense to some of you but there are so many minors wandering around here and they'll get the completely wrong picture of those people AND sex and can barely tell fiction apart from reality anyway yk? like yeah, they shouldn't be on here reading smut but they are and we all know it and URGH this topic gets me so heated bc again, do whatever feels right to you but like :/ am i the bad guy for not wanting incest, cnc and straight up rape fics to be associated with a group i find comfort in?

i've always been so torn about this topic which is why i dont really talk about it and dont geg me wrong i'd NEVER hate on a creator for that, seriously, i get it. thats why i usually stay away from writers who write that stuff OR i don't associate/interact with that side of their content and usually just block the tags they use but its deffo a bummer knowing it's taking overhand in this fandom as well bc incest kinks were the reason i left the anime fandom and why i got hate for being too "vanilla" like sorry?😭😭😭😭

[niyabiblioteca]

RULES

first off, no goddamn kinkshaming people’s requests. quite frankly, i dont give a fuck how you get off so why would you? if its not for you, move on.

racists, homophobes, transphobes, and any other piece of shit people are not allowed. unkindly, fuck off.

my boundaries are my boundaries. respect mine and ill respect yours. also don’t demand shit from me. my time is important to me so don’t feel entitled to it. if your request seems rude i aint fuckin answering it.

things i WONT write about (no negotiations)

rape or nonconsensual things of any kind

anything involving bodily waste/fluids except for cum. i will only consider blood if its like a vampire au or something

i am not comfortable doing male reader or member x member so don’t ask

dubcon is a bit iffy for me so for now its a no

theres not much else to say really just respect my rules plz ok thank you mwah

[petrichor-reminiscence]

Hello!

you may call me Rem :) it's a pleasure to meet you!

I do the writesy-write, so if you do the readsy-read then consider checking out my work :D

I write things based on my various interests, which will obviously change with time

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here's a list of my boundaries and rules:

☆ I usually write for she/her or fem aligned readers, that's just what I know and what I relate to. if you'd like to request any other gender, please do! but as a general rule, most of my work will be with a fem aligned reader in mind.

☆ I do not write stories intended for children or minors! that's not my target audience. I cannot control where my posts end up, but know that my work is not intended to be child-friendly.

☆ if you're a minor, please keep interactions with my writing to a minimum! I cannot physically stop you, of course, but I am an adult and it's not safe for anyone because none of us know each other. just stay on your side of the fence, and I'll stay on mine.

☆ try to keep requests civil! you're welcome to request whatever you wish, but I have the right to refuse a request for any reason - but don't worry, I won't be unfair.

☆ this is a judgement-free hate-free zone, and I will be trying my damndest to keep it that way! if I stray from my intentions, if I say something hateful or out of line, please feel free to call me out on that! we're all learning, and it's easier to do it together <3

☆ if you don't like or agree with anything I say/post, you're welcome to talk to me about it; send me a message or ask or whatever you'd like, I'm open to new vantage points and opinions! but at the end of the day if I'm just passing you off, feel free to block me.

☆ be specific with requests! I dont care if your ask is 1000 words long or something, if you have a lot of ideas and want me to do something with em then send it all my way! the more details the better! you're also welcome to be as vague as you want, but details are always welcome.

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now, a list of what I will/won't write:

WILL:

☆ curse words, obviously

☆ NSFW or explicit content, whether that be graphic violence or sexual content, and everything will come with trigger warnings of course

☆ heavy topics, of course with trigger warnings. I don't want to avoid the dark stuff, it's a part of life, and some people enjoy reading about situations they relate to when they're going through a tough time

WONT:

☆ slurs that I have no right to reclaim

☆ pedophilia or uncomfortable age-gaps

☆ non-con. I'm fine with some dub-con, but I'm not comfy with writing straight-up assault like that

☆ piss/shit kinks or anything that's kinda gross like that. not kinkshaming though! all power to you kinky bastards. it's just not my cup of tea and is out of my comfort zone

☆ hurt no comfort or straight up agnst. I've suffered enough and I'm a sucker for happy endings. I love angst, don't get me wrong, but there will always be a happy ending with my work

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I'm friendly as far as I'm aware, so don't be afraid, I won't bite ya! I look forward to seeing you around here :)