#do I move to Europe

[bloggingboutburgers]

Tbh I feel like going to the US while the Nazis are in power is suicidal. So of course I don't understand your choice of going instead of your SO coming to Europe. But while I don't understand, I wish and pray for you to be safe. Whatever you choose, I hope you guys will be okay

You might be right. I have no idea what the future has in store or if I'll come to regret it. But I've already stated my reasons. As it stands, with the year-long process we've already started and that we can't just flip on a dime overnight, my partner can't come and stay in Europe legally just like that. Legal immigration is not that easy in one way or the other. Also... Yeah, I've stated that before, but one shouldn't underestimate how shitty things have been getting in Europe for the past few years as well, and how the influence of the US (which is huge) is likely to make things worse. So again I'm not 100% sure whether that'd have been better anyway.

Also also... Ima be real, I've shared that before, but the time where I was separated from my partner due to the travel ban was the only time in my life where I had actual suicidal ideation. I don't want this to happen again. That's why I'm making moves so it doesn't, first and foremost.

[iniziare]

Activity update. This is a bit of a messy notice, but it's still worth noting. Let's sum it up with— my most recent housing situation that I thought would give me relative peace for roughly a year, has been a mess in recent weeks, and has come to a conclusion that involved an illegal eviction, and now a pending complaint from my end to the police. Now, this has me yet again temporarily bunking with family, which means that my activity can be anywhere from very active in the evenings, to very sparse for days on end.

Another thing that adds to this, is that I am also in the process of doing a bit of a career swap due to rational necessity, which has already had me quite busy in terms of applications. And depending on how things go— as wild as this may sound (and yet if you've known me for years, you know this isn't truly as insane as it sounds), one of my options may include a fully paid for relocation to Greece with quite a bit of on-site security through a known international recruiting company, but it all depends on how talks and subsequent interviews go. But, as I slowly do preemptive research, it's something I'm growing very fond and curious about, since France has done nothing but stab me in the back and front since I got here. But either way, if you could, cross those fingers and toes for me.

But having said all of this, I can't promise proper nor consistent activity, but I will try to be around at times because I will need to unwind, which is why I'll be on Discord (and even there, might be slow). I ask, once more, for patience, and I apologize that this seems to be a recurring request— but I'm determined to put an end to it being one. And if that means moving one more time abroad, potentially, then I'll happily do it. After all, neither traveling or moving abroad has ever frightened me.

[greaseonmymouth]

the number of Americans who think they can just move to somewhere else - my social media feeds everywhere (except tumblr, but I’ve seen it here too) is flooded with Americans asking whether they qualify as citizens bc their great great grandpa was from [insert European country] or which area in Scotland has best weather or which southern European country has cheapest rent or how to get a marriage visa to a Nordic country

my dudes. you can’t. there’s no “I���ll just move elsewhere” about this. Europe generally speaking is hostile to immigrants even from within Europe. unfortunately for you, you will have to stay and keep voting and keep working to make your country a better place. I’m sorry it’s hard. it is what it is.

[some-stars]

i'm tired, y'all

[thedawningofthehour]

In retrospect, I'm really sleeping on the morbid hilarity of Draxum's people leaving the Faroes for New York. Considering they left due to humans fucking up their shit and trying to drive them off their land, and considering the time and place these humans were likely a mixture of Norse settlers and people from the British Isles. So they travel across the fucking ocean to settle in a new land where the local humans are more accepting, more willing to work with them, and maybe they aren't all best friends but they leave each other alone and are willing to work/trade with each other if necessity demands it. For a few centuries, everything was relatively chill.

And then who fucking shows up?

[falsehound]

i like it when dogs are a little blonde like this who did your highlights little man

[probayern]

damn i missed you guys this has to be the first time in weeks that i've posted more than like 5 things in a day. i can't waaait for actual bayern tomorrow

[st5lker]

this is so entirely random but one thing i thing i wonder abt every once in a while is if there are any indigenous american emigrants like ones that have left the americas entirely. like indigenous americans in the uk or whatever. i dont even know of any hispanic mestizo british people…. i mean statistically im sure there has to be at least some of them right. however small the number. but ive like never seen or heard from them if they do exist… so i always wonder what that must be like. like how comparible is that to cultural diaspora in america. how much of your cultural identity do you keep with a community that small? and like the way that the majority of countries have at least some amount of black & east+south+west asian immigrants for the people to have exposure to even if not everywhere is as culturally diverse as america. but if youre british have you met all of those but just never met an indigenous american. or like any latin american. thats crazy to me

[dickpuncher420]

bro there is smth abt the food in north america that fucks w my guts SO bad like there is literal nuclear warfare happening in my large intestine rn. like i be in the trenches rn chokin on my own damn gas

[bonemeal12]

Dick and Tim playing Ticket to Ride… in my Mind Palace… my special inner world…

[mwagneto]

i think what's really been getting to me the past few months is the realisation that i dont relate to literally any of the mental health stuff i see anywhere. like whenever there's some affirmation or motivation or just relatable-sounding posts in general they all seem like such common problems and it's like, damn i literally dont experience any of that. and yet im still crumpling. something uniquely wrong with me

[waugh-bao]

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[sangsaracycling]

i hate depending on my family financially lol. they’ve changed their minds and decided they actually want me to stay here (fair enough eu is way more expensive but like. i’m sick of being in this isolated city. and everything taking forever to get to.

[gregmarriage]

mutuals to move in with

[theskyexists]

Ok looked at all the vampire f/f books listed on sappfic.com or whatever and. Thats not a lot comparatively and also I had an idea! Who wants to read the one scene i already wrote for it

[locamotivednp]

Not to be dramatic but I think that video killed me.