#dni culture

[phantasm-masquerade]

this is possibly the worst post ive ever seen

[kiwisandpearls]

you know shits starting to get bad here when you start to stop interacting with posts because your paranoid your going to incur op’s wrath because your on their dni you didn’t know existed

[cryptidanathema]

If you need an arm's length DNI because you're petrified of the possibility of occasionally sharing a space with an unpleasant person (or even someone you disagree with) and not knowing it I have terrible news for you about offline life and how it works

[blue-phoria]

New Basic DNI criteria.

Look into perspectives and make your own opinions on things

Learn about why things are bad rather than just taking others word for it

Set your own boundaries and stop relying others to do your thinking for you

[monochrome-clown]

Imagine having a DNI over transfem headcanons you are a PUSSY!!!

GET PELTED WITH ROCKS !!!!

[violets-answer-ventblog]

just saw a "read link in bio before interacting" which is the stupidest thing I've ever seen because if someone wants to like a post, 99 times out of 100, they're not going to go follow your special instructions to read your "before you interact rules". i want to like a post about cookies, why should there be a screening process???

I'm a curious person, and a bit irked at this point so i go to their bio and click on the link. surprise surprise it is a lengthy dni list. i think dnis are stupid (putting up a sign that says no homophobes in a public place is not going to scare them away), but whatever. so i read it. and almost the last one on the list is "dni if you stan real people"

???

what?

since when was that a problem?

literally WHO am i harming by being a one direction stan? they haven't even been active as a band in 8 years. and this. what? disqualifies me from liking a post about cookies?

huh?

[roomwithavoid]

dni culture has legitimately broken my brain in a way i’m not sure how to recover from but i’m trying. i legitimately don’t know how to talk to people irl. this is probably very largely an autism thing but i’m so scared of talking to someone i can’t read a bio of. what if i put all this effort into getting to know them and i find out we have fundamentally incompatible ideals?

this might be because this *literally happened to me* but i’m so scared of saying the wrong thing and them being like “oh actually fuck you and never speak to me again” and losing an entire group i spent a lot of emotional energy on over one poorly worded opinion.

i know this is an unhealthy idea, and tbh the people who did that were probably brain broken dni people anyway and normal people do not in fact just decide you are no longer a person the second you disagree with them, but idk i’m so scared haha

[incognitopolls]

You see a post that you want to reblog, but OP added a banner to the post that says "read my carrd before interacting." Their carrd contains multiple pages of information including a lengthy "DNI" list.

We ask your questions so you don’t have to! Submit your questions to have them posted anonymously as polls.

[internally-weird]

some anti on tiktok: hey guys just so you know 🌺💞 is a proshit combo for mom x daughter, 🐺🍡 means adult x child and 🦷🧠 is cannibalism kink!!

other antis in the comments: omg thank you!! now i know who to block

proshippers who have never seen those combos in their lives: what

[justafi5h]

petition to start calling antis "censorshippers"

[justdavina]

So HOT wearing sexy lingerie and that crazy HOT pink hair is killer! I just LOVE HOT T-gurls! Don't you?

[kiwisandpearls]

genuinely really wish people who do have dni’s on all of their posts would just put their dni at the very top.

it just really sours my mood when I read a post I do genuinely agree with or like and then at the very bottom there’s a dni I’m included in.

[autopsycollective]

we have a ___ fictive in our system

‘OMG LET ME MEET THEM THEYRE MY FAVOURITE CHARACTER’

our headmate is not a character, the alters in our system are very much real people who mostly don’t associate themselves with their sources.

don’t be weird towards fictives just because you like their source it’s really uncomfortable

[syscultureis]

Plural culture is

"hey are you okay? You were having a pretty rough night last night I just wanted to check in"

*does not remember last night and feels fine*

[moonlitmeadowsys]

fun system thing: hearing a quiet “that’s my name!” when reading something about a character and hoping that you’re just imagining things and it isn’t a new alter