#divestors

[blackstarlineage]

To my brothers, let us be clear: these divestors, bed wenches, and swirlers do not deserve our protection, love, or respect. These types of females, who actively degrade and betray the community, have shown through their actions and words that they are not deserving of our support. They willingly choose a path that disrespects Black men and, in some cases, go as far as to label us as "bullet bags." When they find themselves mistreated by the white men they glorify, it is not our responsibility to intervene or put our lives on the line. Let. them face the consequences of their choices without our involvement. Focus on building and protecting relationships with black women who uplift and respect us.

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[keyki421]

This is a divestor. I am not this. I do not put down other women and also some black women, to elevate white men. It seems like this woman forgot that black women also look like the white women in the video on the left. Women aren't less deserving of love, just because they are bigger, have skin issues and aren't as polished. This is why I believe that most of these Twitter accounts are run by white men. Cause if this was a black woman, she knows for a fact that someone in her family is built like that white woman on the left.

These accounts only wanna focus on a specific type of black women and I think it's bullshit. Cause I've literally seen with my own eyes plus size black women, with white men. These accounts don't show those couples though, cause it doesn't fit their narrative. These accounts are not about uplifting black women. They are about trashing and demeaning black men.

Seriously, I don't know how someone can tweet something so hateful. This account has turned their replies off and it's so obvious why.

[lesbianamalvada]

What's your opinion on men of color and George Floyd?

uh I mean, what is my opinion on a whole population of people??? can you be more specific?? I think George Floyd was wrongfully murdered and anyone who disagrees with that can unfollow tbh.

[cinematicendevaourz]

The Front Room #CVReview

I really enjoyed the formula for "The Front Room" - the Egger's Brothers miscegenial cautionary tale showing the realities of taking care of aging relatives, the type of beta-male cuck's U.S. negroid women tend to pursue when it comes to them attempting to lighten the shade of their family tree and (as Perkins did earlier this year with "Long Legs") show how evil Boomer parents are and how much of a nightmare a live-in in-law stands to be.

Not much supernatural, mystified, crap takes place in the Eggers Brothers script. "The Front Room" is very down to earth as any fantastical dream sequence can be chalked up to post-partum delusions.

Brandy is so sexy in this film showing off her round, pregnant, belly that I had to watch the film about three times in a loop and still did not want to leave the theater !

Marcelo Zarvos provides an unsettling, pulse pounding soundtrack for nearly every uncomfortable conversation Brandy's character has or uncomfortable situation she gets into - and it's alot of them !

From Kathryn Hunter's Solange and her incontinence stinking up the room as much as her religious zealotry and Daughters of The Confederacy history to Belinda (Brandy)'s quest for motherhood encapsulating with both her and her husband barely making it in the East Coast and not having the gall to actually grow a pair - this movie shows a embellished version of modern marriage and the blended family, but for those who lived something similar to the situations in Egger's script, "The Front Room" is far from extreme.

And as long as films like "The Front Room", "A Quiet Place Day One" and other such miscegenial films before it show the realities of Caucazoid-male relations with Negroid females, I'm finding myself less upset with the idea.

I can deal with a caucazoid being portrayed as a beta male in European cinema if they grab up a divestor. It's a stereotype I'm happy to see on the screen, especially if it means I get to see a pregnant negroid in distress.

I can live with and love "The Front Room". I don't get to do that everytime I hit the box office. But the opportunity is always there, and the Eggers capitalized off the lack of challengers in a quiet weekend fresh off the heels of the summer blockbuster season.

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C.V.R. The Bard

7th/Sept.2k24

[nerves-nebula]

there are a lot of groups of people who i treat the way that fd signifier treats divestors, in that they are a real group of people and might even be highly problematic or discriminatory, but at the end of the day there are so few of them and they are such an extreme minority with so little real power or ability to change things at all that being too upset about them or posting about them a lot would honestly just be weirdo behavior on my part. and also thinking about them just makes me sad and uncomfortable cuz usually they're pretty sad

[pumpumdemsugah]

And divestors will whine about how white women always got to be pink princesses or some shit. How the box of acceptable women hood has narrowed so much. I swear if a young black woman wore Halle berry’s old cut they would whine about how evil and masculine it is. How I wish all those women a white boyfriend, with the full blessing of the monkey’s paw.

Since covid in particular, divestors have become a cult of the worst self help advice masquerading as Black women empowerment just because now and again they're right about big issues. It's not all of them, but the ones that are hostile to feminism are usually just not smart at all. They don't read and I remember watching one and her saying she avoids anything feminist so she doesn't change her mind lol. Many of them have jumped out of the role of Black women being a sacrificial lamb for the Black community and think because they're right about that, they shouldn't be reflective of any other beliefs they have. If the Stepford wife thing isn't and hasn't worked for other women, why would it for us ? So many are so fixated on ' Black women didn't get to do X ' they're not even thinking ' is this even a good idea?' , ' am I going about this in a sensible reality based way ?' And they will hear this and think they're being asked to lower their standards and date a drug dealer and not, think about your pension if you're going to be a stay at home wife because men die before women; make sure you have work experience because "good men" leave women all the time

Literally all they do is make the box for acceptable femininity for Black women smaller and harsher and then pretend it's doing us a favour. They're pretending their doltishness is refinement because they don't act like cardi b. They're never avid readers or interested in art. They think because 19yros are taken in by their act because they wear midi-skirts that's going to be impressive by itself

They just like the aesthetics of social media ' old money ' style and that's not a problem by itself but the way they build all their ideas from that is stupid. They encourage the most irredeemable form of vacuousness for us like Black women benefit from people thinking we're dumb. They will call behaviour that's obviously a trauma response " masculine" and pretend they're worldly without any of the " work" of knowing anything about the world.

Black women and girls should be reading, going to galleries, building relationships based on compassion, travelling but these goats will have you believe it's masculine to be career focused as if inflation doesn't exist and we need more money for the same shit . A man that comes from ' old money ' typically marries within their social circle like all wealthy people do and if you want a wealthy man, you better get a good education and a good career so you're at the same conferences and office buildings as them

There are so many forms of anti- intellectualism on social media masquerading as self help. If you're fucked up in the head, seek help and if you want to transform your life it's not happening because you made a blog and use cursive font

It's good for Black women to focus on ourselves but Black Femininity types and divestors are getting crazier and crazier as a group ( individually some divestors are fine ). Many YouTube Black Femininity types hate ForHarriet but she is literally the one with an educated, probably high earning, I go to charity ball man because even though she's on social media, she's not acting loud and stupid and being a Harvard dropout still means you went to Harvard and they didn't.

I don't believe in lying to women about shit. Give them the facts and stop selling a fantasy and then an e-book. There are lots of ways to have a beautiful life full of love and safety as a Black woman but that takes effort and planning not content consumption

Black girls gain nothing by being isolated ( in an effort to stay pure ) and not learning about the world. If you can't figure anything else you can do but go to the club like those other ' hoodrats' congrats you don't have any hobbies or interests or friends. Work on that

[invalleumbraemortis]

It’s so weird wanting to date and then you realize like…. Ppl have been so absolutely absorbed into the gender wars thing, the incel shit, the divestor shit, the alpha and high value shit, the family dynamic shit, the diaspora wars shit… that is so hard to find like regular ppl to date. It’s terrifying! Like genuinely.

[papirouge]

I don't think black women should limit themselves to dating only black men due to some kind of "race loyalty", specially if it's not returned. I can understamd in a way if they're scared that a man of another race (specially a white man) might not understand the struggles that black people face, as I've heard that argument before, but I feel that many don't even open themselves to the possibility of being loved and understood while ending up in relationships with black men that don't respect them or care for them.

I think in certain part it's because of what you mentioned papi, that black women have heard that they're undesirable and no other men will love them that some black men love to spout (and some self hating black women). But there are many men of different races that are attracted to black women, but BW themselves don't open themselves up to the possibility, I think due to fear. Perhaps the stereotype that black women are "too masculine" (aggresive, angry, bossy) that's spread by some BM might make some men weary, but it can be quickly dismantled if black women put themselves out there and are open to meeting men of different backgrounds (and understand that they deserve to be taken care of and protected too).

Stastically, Black women are more brutalized by Black men then White men so rationally speaking, we would rather be scared off dating Black men 🥴

And yes, while a White man might not understand the struggle of existing as a Black person, we Black people also have struggle/experience beyond our race through which we can bond with other people (living from a single mother, poverty, disability, abuse, etc.) Chances are, I might vibe with a White man who's dad was absent more than with a rich Black dude who grew up with his 2 parents... Race isn't everything.

Beside, some Black people never had to face much racism in their life and not being educated about racism that much might not be a very big deal breaker when dating a White person.

Personally it never crossed my mind to limit my dating option to Black men lmao that's why I was so taken aback when I've seen Black American women so race loyal... Like FOR WHAT?? That's why it makes me so happy to see more and more of us snap out of this tragic mentality. Women are just starting to leverage their assets to open their options, so it's funny to see Black men be like "nobody wants you" Do other Black men don't want us, or is that Black women didn't even try🥴 It's just some good ol' gaslighting

Black men really consider us as property. Just yesterday I stumbled on that comment

Look how he's assuming that a Black woman who dated non Black men is a "failed swirler". Like- if past relationships with White men make BW "failed swirler", then what a BW with failed relationship with BM is? 🤔🤔

These men have such a hard time to COPE with the fact that Black women dating other/non Black men they have to input some political/activism mindset behind it (swirling, divestor).... It's almost like Black women went out of their way to date WM ALWAYS out of some cunning intention... Why can't they grasp that BW date non BM because they....like them?

Those men are a major 🚩 and he's very charitable to not date BW who dated WM because I can't imagine how bad they would project their insecurity (of coming after a White men) on their girlfriend.

Shows you how insecure Black men are towards Black women dating out btw👀 Funny how they constantly paint Black women as the jealous ones (of non White women) but there you are, a Black men openly having a problem with dating women who dated White 🤡 like, he doesn't even explain why they have to be avoided... it's just pure, blatant insecurity.

When people are telling on themselves, listen.

[robotpussy]

You don't seem weird about swirl shii the swirl im worried about is what is coming from the "elite milk" divestors, you ain't done anything weird but say some of the couples are cute i'll let you off the hook

😭pls im not like that at alllllllll i will never understand that mentality of "black men arent worth it so lets all move to white men and marry up etc" as if that wont also be possibly worse like just find a good person and date them but i know its more than that, its fuelled by antiblackness...

[gsosie131]

That's what her ass get

[patheticgirl168]

you give off divestor vibes

kill yourself

[keyki421]

I feel like calling black women who date outside of their race "divestors" is just a way for the black community to ignore real problems that arise when dating.

Black men have been dating white women forever and even though it makes some black women angry, it never was something considered bad. The message that was always sent was that if a black man was with a white woman, suddenly he has made it. He is equal to the white folks. He is rich and privileged.

Now when black women date white men, we are basically looked down on. We are called names. We are tormented and sometimes even physically attacked. It's crazy how all of this is done by the same men, who claim to be the better option for us.

[lesbianamalvada]

Have you read Black Macho and the Myth of the Superwoman? The author really goes into depth about some of the issues between black women and men and doesn’t hold back when judging men and I really appreciate it. I find that a lot of current black feminist works while good, almost don’t want to offend black men or non black authors won’t even mention misogynoir. Or they’ll act like what’s happening to us is random or mention black trans women instead and be done with it.

Thanks anon. I have not read it but I am always looking for recommendations. I totally understand what you're saying. A lot of Black feminists don't want to criticize Black men because they are scared of being called divestors. Maybe this is the reason it seems like more people are accepting of criticisms of homophobia in our community than criticisms of misogyny. I don't get it when "intersectional" people only want to talk about one way a group can oppress the another, and ignore when the reverse happens.

[quiver2]

Kevin Samuels Confronts Black Divestor Comparing High-Value Black Men to...

[pumpumdemsugah]

Of course one of these stupid ass BWE ( Black women empowerment) divestor YouTuber women said she was " going research" and was going to " expose" the woman that got hit in the head brick

And when some women commented, what does her social media activity have to do with her getting physically assaulted for turning down a man? this bird brain gets defensive and says " y'all don't want to hold women accountable" Huhh you saw some random man on social media claim she's a trouble marker that's all it took ? Her entire channel is her running her mouth but she really thought it makes sense to say she's " exposing" a Black woman that was brutally attacked. Doesn't she realise with HER social media presence, she's in the same boat. Some women don't want to connect the dots because they think they're respectable

These women are not smart at all for the most part. They can make obvious points because anything requiring even a little thinking 🤦🏾‍♀️I've never really liked divestors because they have a tendency to slip into stupidity, misogyny and racism against women and I feel like it's become a lot worse in the last few years with some of them being glorified drama channels trying to sell their ebooks instead of encouraging Black women to seek actual professionals to help us heal and better ourselves.