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flashhwing · 4 months
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hey y’all what are your favorite indie coffee companies. don’t say bones or death wish, but companies similar to them would be good. trying to branch out with coffee consumption. bags of ground coffee you can order online
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moghedien · 3 months
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my one like "american cringing at europeans" thing is the amount of europeans I've seen who think that we drink americanos when we're drinking coffee
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kashmirichaiwithmehr · 10 months
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hasellia · 10 months
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First thing to do in the morning.
Gotta drink that geologic gay juice.
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parasolids · 2 months
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headed to the post office today to mail out letters i wrote and never sent. didn’t mean to color match them all since i wrote them over several months
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pikslasrce · 11 months
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i grew up in america and yea actually in a lot of areas, the major chains priced out the local businesses until they all shut down. there might be a local small business alternative to walmart for some things, for example a hardware supply store, but it’ll cost more and some people can’t afford to spend more even if they want to.
there are places called food deserts where there aren’t even grocery stores in a reasonable radius, but there is maybe a dollar general and it might have a very limited selection of unhealthy foods, and very rarely maybe even actual produce.
thats genuinely sad but i meant like .. starbucks/subway/fast food alternatives like.. yall dont have those?? again the question is rhetorical ik that your economy is built on franchise monocultures 😭
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bandzboy · 5 months
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felix is literally best boy and i hate that idols have to be caught up in this. even all of the idols suddenly showing starbucks out in the open like that when before they would have generic coffee brands or the logo blurred out like they're just using these artists that have very little choice to push these brands and then they're the ones that get dragged for it
i mean in a way i get that they don't have much say but truly i do wish some idols would listen to their fans and change not to use these brands (starbucks being one of them) but it's indeed odd how all of a sudden they started to show their drinks like they literally being paid for publicity that will never not be insidious to me 😭
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dawnofus · 8 months
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one thing about my new job is that they’re making me do anything and everything they can on the pretense that “it’s a small company and everyone does a bit of everything sometimes” as if my actual job isn’t already a lot most times
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koishua · 2 years
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my mom sitting there nodding along to my very emotional retelling of how i was chased by my classmate (actually my crush but she doesn't have to know that) who kept shoving a dead lizard in my face in ninth grade
#tp#might sound silly now but i genuinely felt like i was about to die from the stress of it#i hated him after that#he deliberately did that because i told them i was scared of lizards#had the gulls to laugh at me losing my absolute shit too that bastard#laugh as i shove the stick higher up your ass then how bout it#i could have grabbed a chair and given him a high five with it on his face#but being the bigger person i am i just cried in the bathroom afterwards bye 🚶🚶#and then i realized i was being bullied 😭😭 took me a while to clock that#i cant believe i used to like him im so done actually#comparing him and the guy im now very much enamoured by ... the difference is in the actions#god he bought me overpriced coffee at ten in the night outside bc he thought i could need company#and he was RIGHT goddamn it that guy#'i didnt know if you liked it with sugar or not so i brought two just in case' are you shitting me you're an angel#walked me around and talked me out of feeling like utter shit for two whole hours god im falling for my quote unquote therapist friend#i havent seen him for four five months im going through withdrawal#and then when we were back at the hotel and i stayed up reading a book at the lobby he came down and said he would sit with me#and he would stay awake just in case because he noticed a creep at our floor im going to fucking SOB#and obviously i couldnt make him stay up for me so i said okay i would go back to my room so he wouldnt have to worry#AND YOU KNOW WHAT HE DID???#he made sure i entered my room and closed the door safe and sound before going back down the hallway to his ⁉️⁉️#DO YOU NOT SEE HOW PERFECT HE IS
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shivtomdivorce · 10 months
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i cant be pro fully working from home because i love going to the office twice a week spending the entire day chatting and not doing any work
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mildmayfoxe · 2 years
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hi hello are there any hashtag tea freaks that follow me on here and if so what is your favorite loose-leaf chai? MUST be nice and spicy
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faytelumos · 8 months
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Oh, hey, if anyone ever has questions about how a (corporate) coffee shop operates, feel free to ask me.
I worked in coffee for a few years.
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jcmarchi · 11 months
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Are Gen Z Really Afraid of Printers and What Is "Tech Shame"? - Technology Org
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Are Gen Z Really Afraid of Printers and What Is "Tech Shame"? - Technology Org
Zoomers, often referred to as “digital natives,” were born into a world where technology was already woven into the fabric of daily life. Some of them started using mobile devices before they even learned how to walk and talk. Able to edit a video on their mobile phone faster than you can decide what kind of coffee you want, their lives often seem to revolve around an online presence.
However, paradoxically, when these digital natives step into the workplace, they often have a surprisingly tough time using basic office equipment like a printer or scanner. As it turns out, Gen Z is plagued by technological issues much more than their older peers. 
Printer producing a photo – illustrative image. Credit: Joshua Fuller via Unsplash, free license
A recent report by LaSalle Network revealed that nearly half of all the 2022 graduates who entered the workforce that year admitted to feeling technologically unprepared and inadequate in their new work environments. These individuals, who seem to master technology effortlessly in their personal lives, now found themselves struggling to adapt to job-related tech demands.
Adding to the dilemma, an HP survey found that 20% of Gen Z workers feel judged by their older colleagues every time they encounter a technical problem. This issue has become so prevalent that it has earned a special term: tech shame. This feeling of inadequacy and embarrassment when grappling with technical challenges has emerged as a significant concern among the young workforce.
Now, a question arises: what lies at the core of this paradox? As I see it, this hydra has multiple heads, but to start with, let’s look into what tech shame actually is and what kind of problems it poses for businesses.
What Is Tech Shame? 
Tech shame has become a workplace buzzword very recently, mainly thanks to this article from The Guardian and the HP survey referenced above. The term itself has been coined by the computer giant HP to define the difficulties faced by the younger generation in using basic office tools. 
However, this doesn’t make it a new phenomenon. Tech shame has been around for as long as people have used technology at work, has many faces, and is not specific to young workers. In a general sense, it’s a feeling of personal inadequacy that people get when facing technical issues in a new challenging situation. Everyone has likely experienced it at least once when trying to use new technology in an unfamiliar environment. 
Is Tech Shame a Big Deal? 
Due to the fact that tech shame in the workplace has only become a subject of public scrutiny quite recently, there’s not yet much actual data on how it impacts employee performance and companies in general. However, judging by what Gen Z’s have been saying in multiple interviews and the few surveys that have been conducted, tech shaming is posing a serious problem for businesses, and here’s why. 
For starters, it creates a toxic environment for younger workers, and this should be cause for alarm for any company. It’s no secret that a hostile environment hampers employee productivity, creativity, and retention. 
Additionally, it has been observed that tech shame is preventing younger workers from speaking their minds or, as this article puts it, is keeping them silent at meetings. This is contrary to what any experienced manager would hope for from their employees. When employees are reluctant to share their ideas, a team’s potential remains untapped. 
As a manager, the priority should be to create a nurturing environment where everyone feels comfortable asking questions, expressing themselves, and seeking solutions collaboratively. A team can thrive only if ideas flow freely and mutual respect abounds, which is unlikely to happen when some members of the team are being ridiculed (however innocent the jokes might seem to those who make them). 
The key takeaway here is that tech shame is a real problem that requires the attention of company management if they are hoping to tap into their team’s full potential and keep their young employees long enough for that magical moment to happen. This much is clear. What’s puzzling, though, is if tech shame has been around forever, why is it so much harder on younger workers?  
Why Is Tech Shame Harder on Young Workers?
Unjustified Expectations 
There’s a common misconception among the older generation that Gen Z is extremely tech-savvy and has an innate understanding of how technology works. Therefore, they’re more often than not expected to navigate any kind of technology without much support. This misconception has two fundamental flaws. 
First of all, it’s not the best idea to assume that just because someone’s in their twenties they know how every type of technology works. It’s generally a bad idea to assume anything about a person based on their age, race, or gender, for that matter. However, despite the fact that equality has become the new norm in the workplace, Gen Z seems to get a different treatment. 
Second of all, there seems to be a misunderstanding of the term digital natives. Yes,Gen Z is very comfortable with technology and learns on the fly. However, it’s crucial to understand that they’re fluent with the technology that they grew up with, meaning smartphones, mobile apps, and internet services. With technology they’ve never been exposed to and are encountering for the first time, Gen Z will be just as confused and clueless as the average Joe. 
The assumption that Gen Z’s should know how to work any device and the heightened expectations put pressure on them and make it even harder for them to settle in in the new workplace. As a result, as that same HP survey shows, Gen Z’s are ten(!) times more likely to feel embarrassed and inadequate when facing tech issues at work compared to any other generation.
1.1) There Is a Difference Between Being Tech Savvy and Being Dependent on Technology
As this article explains with a wealth of detail, merely doing everything with the help of technology or, in some cases, being unable to do something without it doesn’t make one technologically savvy. 
Gen Z might be very savvy with certain types of tech. For instance, when it comes to mobile apps, Gen Z is definitely a cut above the rest. What they’re not particularly good at is dinosaur technology like old photocopiers, scanners, printers, and (for heaven’s sake) fax machines. And seriously, who can blame them? 
Do you recall your emotions when you first saw that beige monstrosity? Did you find it intuitive and easy to operate? Probably not. Because as far as printer and scanner machines go (especially true of those on the enterprise and corporate level), user-friendliness becomes nothing less than user-intimidation. 
TV has contributed to the normalization of tech shaming 
Over the years, tech shaming has become something of a recreational activity, with TV shows contributing to its normalization. Take, for example, “The Ellen DeGeneres Show,” which featured a special segment. In this segment, a young person, typically a teenager, was invited on stage. Ellen would present them with an obsolete object, like a paper map or a mechanical alarm clock, and challenge them to perform a task using the outdated item while racing against a timer. The audience erupted in laughter as they watched the unfortunate youngster struggling with the unfamiliar technology.
Although this segment may seem harmless fun, it might not be as innocent if you think about what it does exactly. And what it does is literally encourage one group of people to ridicule another group of people for differences they have by birth. Sounds like a slippery slope if you ask me.
The Ellen DeGeneres Show wasn’t alone in thinking it was fair game to make fun of young people for being clueless about outdated technology. Thus, tech shaming has become something of a meme with the older generation and a bit of a sore spot with the younger one. 
Entry-level Jobs Have Changed 
Another reason tech shame might be harder on young workers is that entry-level jobs are generally much harder now than they were some 30–40 years ago. Many tasks that used to be entry-level responsibilities like certain types of data entry, presentations, scheduling meetings, organizing physical documents, etc. have been fully automated. 
Plus, companies are increasingly taking advantage of the wider spread of internships (where they underpay or exploit privileged students who can afford to do unpaid work in exchange for relevant experience which leaves less privileged students lagging behind—a huge problem in itself but a topic for another article). 
As a result, the roles that remain at the entry level are often those requiring higher-level responsibilities, interpersonal communication, and consumer-facing skills. So, compared to boomers or Gen X, Gen Z is having it much harder when entering the workforce and is experiencing more stress and pressure. 
The Global Pandemic 
It’s also important to keep in mind that a lot of Gen Z’s started work during the lockdown. Their student-to-worker transition phase, which is extremely confusing and unsettling in and of itself, happened during times of turmoil that were extremely challenging for the workforce in general. Normal work processes were disrupted, and companies were too busy trying to pull themselves together to spare much thought for the onboarding of the newcomers. 
What’s more, those young workers, who joined the workforce in 2020–2021 and were forced to start their professional lives from a home office, didn’t have the opportunity to learn from exposure and observation and didn’t have face-to-face time with their colleagues which provides much more opportunities to ask questions and learn.   
First-Job Jitters and Imposter Syndrome 
To better understand why the problem is harder on younger workers it’s worth reminding ourselves that navigating a new work environment is always stressful. A thousand things can make us nervous and insecure. Will I fit in with the new colleagues? Am I qualified enough to do well? What if I make a mistake because I don’t know all the company policies and procedures? Questions like that can badger new employees for weeks and cause severe anxiety. However, this feeling can be ten times worse if this is your first-ever job. 
For those who joined the workforce so long ago that they have a hard time remembering what it feels like, here’s a useful mental exercise that might help recreate the mindset of a first-time jobber.
Imagine you’ve finally made a decision to get into shape and so got yourself a gym membership. Good for you! However, you’ve never been to a gym before, and you’re unsure of what to expect. To add to your nervousness, you’ve gained a few pounds, which doesn’t exactly boost your confidence. Nevertheless, you’ve packed your gym bag and bravely headed off for your first-ever gym session.
As you walk through the gym doors, the knot in your stomach tightens as you see that the place is packed with people who look like they could easily grace the cover of a fitness magazine. They all seem to know each other and are sharing inside jokes, making you feel like you’re in high school again.
Undeterred, you change into your gym clothes and try to put on an I know what I’m doing face as you approach the nearest machine that you think you know how to use. However, you can’t help the feeling that everyone’s watching your every move. You catch a glimpse of someone whispering to their friend, and they burst into laughter, making you wonder if it’s you they’re laughing at.
Just when you start to feel overwhelmed, a gym instructor shows up. Relieved, you think, “Here’s my safety net!” The instructor gives you a reassuring smile and says, “Looks like you’re doing great. I knew you’d be a natural!” and disappears into thin air, leaving you to navigate the gym on your own.
This is roughly how young workers might feel on the first day of their first-ever job except unlike them you’re free to leave the gym whenever you feel like it. On top of that, they might feel that their entire future and financial security hinge on how well they perform. Now, if you can mentally put yourself in their shoes, how does it make you feel? Would you feel comfortable enough to ask one of the locals for help with the machines? How would you feel if they made a joke about your inability to use them and everyone else laughed in your face?
But Is It Just Gen Z’s Who Face Tech Shame at Work?
Although Gen Z is more susceptible to tech shaming and takes it personally, this is by no means a younger workers’ problem exclusively. People of all generations sometimes feel inadequate when facing tech issues, especially when others are keen to have fun at their expense. 
Funnily enough, a survey of 1,000 young working Americans shows that 25% feel like they can’t get their work done because they’ve become something of an unofficial tech-support representative for their older colleagues. This shows that all age groups could do with some training on tech their companies use and maybe with a friendlier, more accessible tech-support department. According to Salesforce, 76% of people currently in the workforce report that their job doesn’t provide any kind of training that would allow them to improve their technical skills. 
What Can We Do to Fix the Problem? 
Gen Z’s, Bring the Game to Your Own Turf!
If you feel like a square peg in a round hole when using old office machines, we strongly recommend two things. First off, let’s get one thing straight—you have no reason whatsoever to be embarrassed. It’s crucial that you realize that no one was born knowing how to work fax and scanner machines or any kind of machines for that matter. We all had to learn and ask for help at some point, and that’s just how it goes. 
If this realization doesn’t come easily to you, talk to the oldest member of your IT department. Anyone who’s worked at an IT department of a big company long enough will tell you that it’s not exclusively Gen Z’s who can’t work printers—all generations can’t work printers. Old printer-scanner machines might be the worst pieces of equipment on God’s green Earth and being inept with this kind of equipment is much more common than you might think. 
Next, consider this—is it your fault that your company clings to technology older than your parents? In all likelihood, they’re just reluctant to shell out big bucks for upgrades of their dated systems. You know the drill—if it ain’t broken, why fix it? If your colleagues absolutely insist on tech-shaming someone, they might find somebody (not to point fingers at anyone, companies with fax machines) who actually deserves it.  
On a more practical note, in a lot of cases, you don’t have to use office machines if you don’t want to because there are alternatives. Play the game by your own rules and play to your strengths! If there’s one area you’re head and shoulders above older generations, it’s mobile apps and they make a very simple alternative to clunky scanner, fax, and printer machines. In addition to being user-friendly, they offer a more sustainable workflow. You can easily process paperwork and send faxes worldwide from your phone with a simple fax and scanner app without harming the environment. You could even teach your older colleagues a few tricks on how to work around the limitations of office machines.  
If you’re managing Gen Z professionals
First of all, congrats. As someone who has lots of Gen Z’s on the team, I know from experience that this lot has a great deal to bring to the table and is fun to work with. Furthermore, whether older colleagues and managers like it or not, Gen Z is the future of the workforce. There are roughly seventy million Gen Z’s in the US and the oldest of the bunch have already joined the workforce. In fact, by 2030, Gen Z will constitute one-third of the working population. The sooner management and older colleagues learn how to gel with them the better. 
Sophie Wade, who has a well-deserved reputation for being a workforce visionaire and whose Embracing Progress: Next Steps for the Future of Work became an executive MBA Program textbook, says that the new generation entering the workforce has changed it forever, and only those companies can succeed that acknowledge the changes and adapt to them. At the core of this change lies the focus on people through empathy, be that employees or clients. 
Managers should keep a close eye on the dynamics in cross-generational teams, especially those where any age group of workers is outnumbered. It’s crucial to recognize tech shaming for what it is—nothing less than a type of harassment, and there has been enough said about why it should be discouraged. Jokes that seem lighthearted and innocent to someone can damage someone else’s confidence and self-worth, and you definitely don’t want that in your team.
Trying to assess the digital skill gap in your company might also be a very good idea. This could be done through surveys or interviews, and there are a lot of ways to leverage technology in this pursuit. Consistent communication is the key to understanding areas where your employees might be struggling and lacking knowledge. Regular check-ins, open-door policies, and providing a safe space for employees to ask questions are essential if you want them to be fully engaged and performing at the peak of their abilities. 
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Arw you really the author John Green? The same person who wrote The Fault in Our Stars and Looking for Alaska?
Yes, but I published one of those books 19 (?!?!?!) years ago and the other 12 (!?!?!?!?) years ago. What have I been up to since then?
My brother Hank and I started Good.store, which delivers high-quality socks, coffee, and soap to your home and donates 100% of its profit to charity. Through good store, we've raised over $7,500,000 to support efforts to radically reduce maternal mortality in Sierra Leone, where as recently as 2019, one in seventeen women could expect to die in pregnancy or childbirth.
(In fact, technically I am here on tumblr as an unpaid intern for the awesome coffee club, which you should really sign up for if you like ethically sourced coffee that tastes delicious and doesn't enrich billionaires.)
I wrote the novel Turtles All the Way Down and then had a little existential crisis and wrote a nonfiction book called The Anthropocene Reviewed, the latter of which is my first book for adults and my first attempt to write as myself.
I helped produce made a movie adaptation (streaming now on Max!) of Turtles all the Way Down.
I helped raise my kids and supported my spouse as she wrote her book You Are An Artist and created a PBS show about art called The Art Assignment.
I ran the educational media company Complexly and the merch company dftba.com while my brother had cancer.
I bought around 2% of a fourth-tier English football team called AFC Wimbledon. Wimbledon are different from most football clubs because they are owned by their fans, each of whom gets one vote in the club's leadership regardless of how much money they put into the club.
I became obsessed with tuberculosis, the world's deadliest infectious disease (it will kill over a million people this year despite being curable), and how TB both exemplifies and reinforces human-built structures of injustice, which is the subject of a book I'm writing that will come out next year.
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potassiumprincess · 5 months
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when adrien and marinette eventually move in together, i can see adrien trying really hard to enjoy sleeping in on the weekends. it's his chance to do nothing but snuggle up next to his favourite person in the world, and it's not like he ever liked waking up at the crack of dawn for photoshoots or other obligations
but...he's just not wired for it. he'll toss and turn. sometimes he gets up and tries to do something, often making marinette breakfast. but then she's still sleeping, and he doesn't want to wake her, and soon the coffee's cold and he still doesn't know what to do
he tries different ways to pass the time. he doesn't hate any of them, but god, he just doesn't like spending his mornings alone
so when they have kids eventually he loves hearing their little feet race into the room at 6am, loves the way marinette groans every time and he just laughs and kisses her forehead and lets tiny hands pull him down the stairs
and he knows this won't last forever. that one day they'll grow up and move out and he'll be back to lonely mornings that always bother him just a little more than he thinks they should
but there will always be that splatter on the ceiling from when the kids got a little too excited with the crepe batter that one day. or the coffee stain on the curtains that he and marinette kept forgetting to replace until eventually they gave up
and maybe the memory of a space filled with laughter is enough to keep him company after all
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satoruxx · 9 months
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pairing: toji fushiguro x reader | 1.6k words summary: boyfriend!toji headcanons, fluff, soft!toji, grumpy x sunshine, he’s a simp but he’ll never admit it !! rheya's note: grumpy man being soft for the person he really loves? i’m here for it. mamaguro is literal proof that he can and will love !!
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bf!toji who is silent with his care for you. he's not one to be open or dramatic about his feelings, but you bet he'll show them in actions. small, mundane things that could only be picked out under critical eyes—like quietly placing an extra mug of coffee next to you as you work, or being the one to walk closest to the street, fingers firmly clasped around your palm. if you point it out he'll just grunt, shaking his head with a quiet "keep walking" all while pretending to ignore your silly little grin.
bf!toji who isn't really the type to be big on words of affirmation, but huge on physical touch. you tell him you did well on a project at school or work and he just hums, giving you a little nod. he doesn't say anything else—doesn't really have to because the soft lingering pat on your head is enough to tell you that he's proud.
bf!toji who is an aggressive yet affectionate lover. if you're doing something and he's not receiving your attention he will come up behind you and put you in a headlock. he thinks it's an appropriate response considering how much he craves your attention and company—why on earth are you focused on something that isn't him anyway? so be prepared to have his heavy bicep playfully curling around your throat or slinging you over his shoulders at random times—it's his way of telling you he misses you. and if anything, he'll do it to hear you whine and attempt to shove him off.
bf!toji who will absolutely take your phone and change your lockscreen to pictures of him. every so often, you'll turn your phone on and see an entirely different picture—sometimes a picture of him at the gym, other times a picture of him blocking out his face—but it's always him.
bf!toji whose own lockscreen is always something that's related to you. he's sneaky with it, always stealing pictures of you when you're not looking. he's got a separate album with them—probably hidden behind a password because it's something only he should be allowed to see. but whether it's a snapshot of his hand intertwined with yours or a blurry image of you fast asleep in his bed, it's always you. because of course you’re the first thing he should be able to see when he turns his phone on.
bf!toji who, as cliché as it sounds, is exactly the type to go feral if someone's made you upset. and he's freakishly observant, noticing even a slight pinch of your nose or wobble in your lips—he's caught them all. whether you're just down or outright sobbing, he's there, standing in front of you with pure anger weighing heavy on his brows. and yet for all his rage he's nothing but gentle as he firmly takes your face in his calloused hands, muttering a strained "what the fuck happened?" as he forces you to make eye contact with him. his own eyes will dart over your features, searching for discomfort or any other emotion as you explain, barely holding back his own emotions because there's no reason on the fucking planet that you should be upset at all.
bf!toji who rarely says the words "i love you" not because he doesn't but because the words themselves don't hold all that much meaning to him. no he'd rather spend his time proving it to you than just saying it for the sake of saying it. but, sometimes if you pretend to be asleep long enough, you'll catch him quietly whisper the words into your hair, almost like he doesn't want anyone to hear it. don't even bother trying to call him out for it—he'll deny deny deny.
bf!toji whose eyes flutter when he lets you trace over his scars. not just the one cutting over his lips but the ones that litter his back and torso—battle remnants that he doesn't remember much of. he's always hated the look of them, indifferent to old memories of a much more chaotic time in his life. but when your gentle fingers graze over the raised skin he'll sigh, oddly quiet but yet so comfortable.
bf!toji who will drop everything if you need him. don't ever hesitate to ask him for things because you're scared of being a burden—he will yell at you (affectionately). you drank too much with your friends and can't get a ride? call him and he'll pick you up even if it's 4 am. you're feeling nervous about walking home from the convenience store even though it's only ten minutes away from home? stay put and he'll come get you so that you can walk back together. shut up about all that "it's an inconvenience for you" bullshit—he'll do it and that's that.
bf!toji who asks if you've eaten today, and when you answer with a sheepish smile he'll click his tongue, crossing his bulky arms over his chest and giving you a pointed glare. then he'll say "get your ass to the kitchen. c'mon, up." while hoisting you to your feet—most of the time he'll just pick you up and plop you on the counter himself.
bf!toji who wordlessly makes you something to eat, whether it's a quick snack put together with leftovers or an actual full meal. then he'll stand in front of you with the plate and demand you eat. even a slight word of protest and he's scowling, already holding up a spoonful while grumbling a low "don't wanna hear it. open up, kid."
bf!toji who hates when you fall asleep on the couch waiting for him to get home. his job doesn't allow for the comfort of a strict schedule, and he's told you this many times. but you're nothing if not stubborn, and he can only sigh heavily as he sees you dozing against the armrest when he pushes the door open late at night. he'll click his tongue quietly, hooking both arms under your back and knees to cradle you against his chest before walking to the bedroom. though some part of him is pleased, knowing that you seem to care about him enough to make sure he's coming home every night.
bf!toji who glares at anyone who even breathes in your direction the wrong way. some guy eyeing you while you're walking on the street? toji looks like he's ready to rip his head off. some "friend" of yours asking too many questions about why you're dating a man like him? well…if looks could kill.
bf!toji who pulls you into his lap when he kisses you, because he likes the way you fit into his space so perfectly. he won't ever admit how it makes him swoon when you giggle against his lips, instead choosing to tighten his grip on your hips and pull you closer to his chest.
bf!toji who enjoys watching you sit on the kitchen counter and swing your legs back and forth—finding it so unbelievably endearing that he ends up just standing in between your legs and burying his face into your neck. his lips will map chaste kisses across your skin, and he'll hide a wry smile as your quiet giggles wash over him.
bf!toji who will notice when you eye something at a store, whether it's a pretty piece of jewelry or a new sweater or whatever—he keeps note. and then weeks later, once you've forgotten all about it, he'll come home and drop a bag into your lap before shoving his hands into his pockets. when you open it and start gushing about how much you wanted it and how pleased you are, he'll huff and turn away, muttering a low "whatever, kid. 's not a big deal."
bf!toji who sees you upset about something, and loops his bicep around your neck and tucks you under his chin. to an outsider it doesn't look like the most comforting form of a hug, but it's toji, and he's secure and he's safe and he's all the comfort you need—a tight squeeze that grounds you in a way that you can't quite describe.
bf!toji who will never admit how interested he is in your gossip. his ideal way to destress after he comes home is to sit on the couch with you in his lap, your arms looped around his waist as you press yourself against his torso and tuck your head under his chin. and even though his eyes are trained on the tv, he has no clue what's going on—he's more focused on the drama you're spilling or whoever you're ranting about. and he makes it known too, occasionally asking "then what happened, baby?" and adding in a few sounds of disbelief. by the end of your rant, he'll be saying something along the lines of "what a fucking bitch," or "honestly he deserved that," and then asks for updates on the situation over the next few days.
bf!toji who silently watches you trace your fingers over the lines on his palms. you're blabbering about something, tucked against his chest as his other arm remains wrapped around you securely, but he's just focused on your hands. it scares him a little bit—the difference between you and him. his palms are calloused, rough with battle and death, while yours are soft, clean of the horrors he's determined to keep away from you. and a small part of him tells him he shouldn't taint you with all his faults, that you deserve someone more capable of loving than he is. but then he feels you brush your lips over his scarred fingers and he sucks in a breath, tightening his grip imperceptibly. even as he hides a half smile against your brow, he knows he isn't going anywhere.
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