#desi girls friendships>>

[aahanna]

We don't need therapy, we have each other.

[cherries-in-wine]

Homoerotic friendships are my favourite part of girlhood- even though there aren't any romantic feelings involved, I'm convinced I'll never share the same kind of love and intimacy I have with my best friend with anyone else- it's like our souls fucked or something

[futuretherapoo]

When you know that you're slowly drifting away from your best friend but you can't do anything about it because you know it's your fault so you just cry to yourself everyday.

[greektragedybitch]

reaching that stage in the friendship where my bestie's maa is telling me about how she's worried cuz her kaamwali bai isn't coming lol ahahahha

[shotsyfeather]

Me with my जान-ए-जिगर, जान-ए-मन @sunflowerwhimsy 😌💖🌺

[hosh-rubaa]

Living my life the way I want ♡ ✨🌸🪐

28.08.2024

[thatstolenpayal]

"kab tak chalega aise, ab bade ho rahe hai hum, aur yeh sab bachpana, band karna padega"

dear aditi from yjhd,

i understand and feel you completely today. you have always been my favourite among everyone. you knew it all, you accepted it and told bunny to not give up on his dreams, yet felt everything deep down. i sense something, today, the end.

this separation, from people i've known since childhood, my room, my neighbourhood, the air that surrounds me, seems to be fading away, every moment. my shoulders feel lighter, detached of something i don't want to let go. it's not like everyone is leaving today, but the realization that stabs me in the back drive these sudden waves of sadness through me.

they say this feeling is beautiful, you let go of things only to keep sweet memories to cherish forever. but is it okay that i feel terror in my heart, a fear of losing myself, this place, and an unwillingness to face what's next?

i have not had enough of it yet, there is so much more left, so many memories left to make, songs to be sung together, and late night conversations. i miss everything already.

i am so scared. growing up isn't beautiful after all.

i wish it could stay a little longer. just a little.

ban liya apna paighambar, tar liya tu saat samandar, phir bhi sukha man ke andar kyun reh gaya?

kabira, yeh jawani hai deewani

[beacaused]

but just sometimes i see a meme i like and remember i have no one to send it to. i no longer have a friend i can send edits to, no longer have someone to send philosophical articles to and slowly i lose parts of myself, i can't listen to my favourite music because i think about starlet nights, i don't pull all nighters because remember the night before the first social preboard?, i don't use emojis while saving contacts because honeydew mushrooms and sunshine had enough.

and the hardest fucking part of it all is having to come to conclusion that these were all different people i let go because circumstances had their way and now i have a list of blocked numbers i contemplate everyday whether or not to unblock.

an excerpt from tumblr notes (2023) by anvita bhogadi

[50shadesofloveanddukh]

One sided friendships

Our friendship is different,

It’s like oil and water,

They never mix in together,

And I know the good ol’ saying

“Opposites attract”

But ours is different ,

I take effort,

You don’t,

You break me,

I heal you,

I cannot force you to love me,

Because I know you won’t ,

You never will,

It has always been you,

But never me,

And I cannot remove you out of my life,

Despite knowing the harsh truth that my heart refuses to accept,

I still love you,

And I always will.

(Y’all I am writing after a v long time pls don’t judge) 😭🎀

[ik-kudi-da-khwab]

I've never been the one to be in relationships.

I have never been in one nor i chased anyone

so being hurt from relationships is something that I didn't experience

but being hurt from friendships that i thought would go on forever is something that gives me a lot of pain. one would think that every time it happens it eases the pain but it doesn't

every time it happens the pain becomes stronger and stronger because I trust people not to leave and they leave anyway

[daughterofchaosstuff]

Princess treatment starts with your friends. I know love because I know my friends and how they treat me and how I want to treat them.

Your friends really raise your standards in the smallest ways. don't ever settle for mediocrity.

I only have like 3 or 4 people i genuinely love and he just made my day🥹

[aahanna]

"Instead of settling for a relationship where you feel like you're begging for scraps of attention, surround yourself with friends who will uplift and celebrate you, making you feel like the incredible, deserving woman you are!"

[letterstoyourlove]

[futuretherapoo]

fucking up my friendships by being blunt and regretting it later is my favorite hobby these days 💀

[kabhi-kabhi-aditii]

missing online friends be like:

i feel homesick for arms that never held me i feel homesick for laughter i have never heard i feel homesick for someone i have never met, in 'real life'

[evyonagray]

I've been recently obsessed with this, and i just needed to share this with all of you...

Summary

"Echoes in the Valley"  is a tale of healing, resilience, and the transformative power of human connection, reminding us that even in our darkest moments, love has the power to illuminate our path forward.

Echoes in the Valley by bonsaiwrites.

Our protagonist, Sakhi, in a chance of faith, finds herself on a solo journey to the snowy mountains of Kashmir, on her way to meet her online friend, Pihu, for the first time in person.

Her journey is filled with both wonderment at the view around her and the sense of kinship she feels with the people she meets on this journey, including the handsome stranger she met on the train a few days ago.

This is a story about a chance encounter that lead to a once in a lifetime kind of friendship, and friends that, with time, eventually become like family.

Its about finding yourself in a completely new place, surrounded by strangers. looking around and realizing your not alone because these people who you hadn't even known the name of a few days ago have provided you with their friendship, their understanding, and the sense of belonging you had been searching for.