#def-sowl

[taehyungfirst]

I think it's funny (not) that whenever some unknown person that doesn't even know him tries to do an statement on taehyung's identity ( which is a super immature and entitled behavior) some demographics choose to cling onto that like it means something while acting like taehyung's own right to state his own truth shouldn't matter (then again if this isn't proof of the dehumization these men experience idk what it is)

like obviously he can't say stuff outrightly, I mean billions of dollars of different groups and ppl are dependant on the image of these 7 dudes so it's not like they have much freedom to be themselves if that puts as risk investment but even so taehyung tries to be as blatant to state his truth as he can and I think that's proportional to the amount of ppl who are desperate enough to cling onto anyone's words before taehyung's own intentionality, the most taehyung tries to shows us who he is, the most some ppl get desperate to find something to give them solace to deny it no matter how ridiculous it is.

I'm thinking about Holland's meltdown the other day, the entitlement and dehumanization you have to have over someone to do that as a public figure, to spark conversation on someone's sexuality and intimacy in such industry with your huge platform and how the next day u have the entire remaining BTS members posting those sweet really loud tk pictures and later taehyung himself posting too with that song with those lyrics about going against the rest of the world with your lover. Idk if them posting those pictures was coincidental or if it was all of them choosing to show support after seeing the shitshow ( if they saw it) bc i know that I would be pissed seeing such an entitlement of speaking over someone that I know and who can't speak directly and whose struggles as closeted ppl I have seen for years and sparking debate of their intimacy and bringing hate on them, idk but I think either way the timing was great.

Hi! That demographic rejoice every time Taehyung interacts with a woman because it means he’s straight and Jkk can get married, while coping extra hard trying to ignore things like D*eun, they push narratives over narratives because they fear, they’re terrified by the idea of Tae actually being queer.

Public figures allowing their platform to speculate (in Holland case, with a platform of 2M people) is letting people speculate with you in an industry that types articles for every single thing (T*ennie rumors ended up on national television), articles that could gain traction and force people to take measures. The fact that both cases (the stylist and Holland) come from queer people just make it worse because you should KNOW how terrifying is the idea of being outed.

This being said, I think Taehyung is an extremely smart person, I don’t think he wanna send a message every single time he posts but I do think he tried to communicate through art multiple times, I always pray he doesn’t see this stuff happening online, but at the end of the day he keeps being his authentic self and I couldn’t be happier.

[dearweirdme]

I feel strongly that jikookers must be really young or adults who are really lacking in the common sense and observational department because there's no way there's no way 😭

Imagine fighting tooth and nails and even going as far as visiting cc's anonymously of ppl who don't think the same as you to try to convince them ( more like convince yourself ) that two dudes in the kpop industry who have content after content of very common and usual fanservice, I mean almost kisses with cameras on every angel and on their faces, lots of narratives that come straight out of a company, they even be expecting eagerly their annual compilation of fanservice, the memories ( any rational adult with any idea of how the world works knows that that isn't the way a closeted gay couple would be treated when there's millions of investment in a group), also the body language (jikookers really can't read the most basic body language or they are pretending), the honest clear attraction between two other members etc, are in a relationship

They also be acting like reality is dependant on what ppl's opinion a private relationship is.....it doesn't matter what any of us think, who you try to convince or how much you try to convince yourself, reality won't change, facts won't change, our opinions don't have any influence in these people's feelings and lives, I need ppl to stop thinking with their desires and wishes and really start using their brains.....and I'm not saying this for the need to win any ship war, but bc i see how these delusions serve to harm real queer people and make their lives harder ( kpop and in this case their company has everything to do with this)

Hi @def-sowl!

Yes, absolutely! Going to rant a bit on your ask here.

What I have learned from the Jkkrs visiting my blog and from what I encounter when I look through tags... Jkkrs have a very strong focus on the 'romantic' parts of life. They allow for very little aside that. Everything Jk and Jimin do has a double meaning or they do it with the other in mind. You could so clearly see that when Jk released Seven... his clothes, his pictures, his jewelry, his lives... everything was connected to Jimin. That is not how real lives work. Jkkrs rarely think about reasons for Jk and Jimin's behavior outside the realm of romance. Jimin was unsure about his appearance so he sent Jk a selfie to show why... Jkkrs make it a naked selfie. JImin went to NY... Jkk date. Jimin doesn't talk about Jk on his lives... Jimin isn't ready/holds the ropes/whatever it was. The way they see Jk and Jimin is entirely built around the idea of them together. You can even see huge discrepansies in that, because at the moment they dont know whether to stick with the "Jkk is bold" or the "Jkk is laying low".

When thinking about the members, there's so much to take into account. They do not live normal lives for instance. I had this Jkk go on about Tae not knowing Jk's hotelroom number and how that meant they couldn't possibly be boyfriends. They do not take into account that those guys go from hotelroom to hotelroom at times, with only time to sleep at some days. It's nothing like schoolcamp or going on holiday. We as fans, cannot compare their situation to ours in the practical way. They have jobs that none of us experience, they have more money than us, they always have to be aware of 'image', they are 'being lived' at times... it's just.. we cannot relate. That doesn't mean we cannot incorporate those things when we think about how their lives might be though, and I feel Jkkrs absolutely lack in that regard.

That anon came back and showed me many tiktoks and tweets about how I am wrong and how Jkk is real (though stating they do not mean to try and convince me, they just like pointing out that I am wrong). But those vids, where all either fanservice or plain friendship. And you are right, they do not understand the subtlety of reading bodylanguage at all.

and I'm not saying this for the need to win any ship war, but bc i see how these delusions serve to harm real queer people and make their lives harder ( kpop and in this case their company has everything to do with this)

That is a very strong point you made, and yes I agree.

[everlastingdaisy]

2023 favorites 💌

I've seen very few movies and read very little this year but:

Movies:

1. I'm thinking of ending things

2. Let me out

3. Donde caben dos

4. An asian film I watched during a flight that I can't remember the name of rn and I can't find it on the airline's website wtf

5. Barbie

Books:

1. Conversations with friends by Sally Rooney

2. I'm glad my mom died by Jennette McCurdy

3. Normal people by Sally Rooney

4. My body by Emily Ratajkowski

5. A good girl's guide to murder by Holly Jackson

Music:

1. Automáticamente by Luis Brea

2. fumas? by shego

3. L.S.D by Skegss

4. Te sigo soñando by Depedro ft Luz Casal

5. Bipolaridad by Señor Mostaza

thank you @thedouble2013 for tagging me 🫶🏼

I tag @womanifested @hembrista @softestrosey @springflowers-autumnleaves. @bloomfish and @def-sowl if u want :)

[alottamoney]

@def-sowl 👍🏻

I never know what to make of these dot connections, so it's a good thing I never thought there was much to that ship anyways lol.

[spongebob-autisticquestions]

Is it common in autitisc people to avoid looking at people faces or just not being interested in looking bc there is like too much information in them or idk... i have noticed this, that after awhile ( even with people whom i am confortable enough) it tires or overwhelms me to keep looking at their faces. Do any other autistic person experience this?

I think this relates to avoiding eye contact, nevertheless, this is indeed an autism thing

[mitosan]

thank u @miir4ge for tagging me !

rules: name 10 favorite characters from 10 different things and then tag 10 people

(In no particualr order)

1. Gon (hxh)

2. Tajima (oofuri)

3. Asuka (nge)

4. Sakura (cardcaptor sakura)

5. Catra (she ra)

6. Keroppi (sanrio)

7. Mafuyu (given)

8. Link (loz)

9. Wolf (Kipo)

10. Sheeta (castle in the sky)

my mind decided to forget half my interests while thinking of characters for this u__u

uhmm most of my mutuals probably got tagged already buttt @welfin @mongalia @pulpdjuice @porkuns @genmukai @giratinace @alainaavocado @mewpuddin @fiitochip @def-sowl (if u guys want to!)

[unohana-bankai]

Thanks @def-sowl for tagging me ❣️

rules: name 10 favorite characters from 10 different things and then tag 10 people

(In no particular order)

1. Sesshomaru (Inuyasha)

2. Sabin Figaro (FF6)

3. Setsuna Meioh (Sailor Moon)

4. Felix (Golden Sun TLA)

5. Gohan (Dragon Ball Z)

6. Ruiko Saten (To Aru Kagaku no Railgun)

7. Alluka (hxh)

8. Minamoto Kou (Jibaku Shonen Hanako kun)

9. Harley Queen (DC Character)

10. Yennefer of Vengerberg (The Witcher)

@nevynervine @immortalink @euforia @classical-dyke @blossomandglow @meidalene @capri-stellium @kitnivalis @leofthestorm @schmaniel (If u guys want!)

[rougeskyy]

rules: answer 20 questions, then tag 20 people you’d like to get to know better

ty @leonhaardt-s for tagging me!

1. name: catherine

2. nickname: cat

3. zodiac sign: gemini

4. height: 5’5

5. languages: just english :( I learned spanish in school but i’m a little rusty

6. nationality: american

7. favorite season: autumn

8. favorite flower: rose

9. favorite scent: vanilla cupcake

10. favorite color: pink

11. favorite animal: fox

12. favorite fictional character: this is hard but probably ash lynx from banana fish i’ll never get over him or that anime lol

13. coffee, tea or hot chocolate: hot chocolate

14. average amount of sleep: 7-8 hrs

15. dogs or cats: dogs

16. number of blankets you sleep with: three

17. dream trip: ireland, france or anywhere tropical

18. blog established: 2015

19. followers: tumblr is only site where that’s private and i like it that way lol

20. random fact: i used to go to cosmetology school and worked in a salon briefly (realized I didn’t wanna pursue it lol)

20 is a lot lol I’ll tag a few <3 @seasaltnishi @klahvier @def-sowl @sweetstarryknight if u wanna!

[toastjy]

it’s here!!!!! hi i know i suck because this follow forever is long overdue and i never really talk or reach out to anyone and i suck at answering my messages but trust me when i say i see you all and i really appreciate you guys!!!!! thank you all so much for following me, it really means a lot to me that you guys like me enough to keep me on your dash even though i won’t tag my text posts lol. in all seriousness, thank you thank you thank you!!!! i’ve gotten to know some wonderful people since i’ve started my tumblr (like two years ago!!!!! wow) and that’s like the coolest thing that has ever happened to me

first off, i want to thank everyone for always keeping my dash a positive space. and not only has it been a positive space, it’s also been a learning space! i seriously admire some of the work you guys do and in one way or another you’ve all encouraged me to challenge myself! and because of that, i’ve made some things that i feel really proud of and i’ll admit feeling proud of myself is not a feeling that happens to me often. and even if you don’t create any content, i really do love seeing everyone of you on here. some of you are honestly the most amazing people i’ve ever met and you make me a better person just by existing!

ok i wrote too much and no one is gonna read it now but tldr i love u all u make me so happy 💓💘💕💗💖✨💘💓💖

i don’t have many fancy symbols to add to your names but if you’re on here it automatically means i love u 

and a 🌸means i got something to say to your face!!!!! but it’s good don’t worry

#-f

@07lullaby | @09shine | @1en | @97yuggie​ 🌸| @ahgasemutual | @ahgaseposts | @all4yug | @babydaddypcy | @baobeijackson | @blackp7nk | @cutieseunie 🌸| @defsbeom | @defskookie | @def-ars | @defslut | @def-sowl | @demongyeom 🌸| @floaty-glasses

g-l

@gayshinas | @genzgay | @got7-markjinson | @gyeomdrop | @gyeomsluna | @gyeoms6 | @imjaebumaf | @intojennie 🌸| @jealousbytvxq​ | @jingyeomlove 🌸| @jinyoungloveblog​ | @jinyoungslover | @jjaebeom | @kissmyars | @k-dirty-pop 🌸| @lattegyeom | @lisassgf | @lullabyjaes 

m-r

@marksbeom | @markiemon | @marksseunie | @minyoongilovebot | @mochabam 🌸| @mochimork | @morkjin | @ohlehky | @peachyyugy | @pinkhoodiemark | @poutybeom | @prdsverse 

s-z

@shelovesmingyu | @shootfortheestrella | @softforjackson | @softstancyj | @starparkssi | @sunnpils | @sunrisepalettes | @sunshinejae | @tuanpumpkins | @tuanspice | @ulttuan | @verse2era 🌸| @versed2 | @wangangaji | @writingsfromtheseaside | @yougjae 🌸| @yghateblog | @yugyyeoms 

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97yuggie: hi hi gaëtan! i know we’re (relatively) new mutuals but i just want to say you’re so so funny and i love seeing you on my dash!!! i can’t say how many times i’ve laughed at your tags/posts so hey! i hope you’re doing well always because i think you’re so so great

cutieseunie: em em em emmmmmmm!!!!!!!!! ldkfdjkfgh ok this is gonna seem unfairly biased towards you because i’m trying to keep my messages short and sweet but how am i supposed to keep it short when i love you sooooo much!?? thank you so much for reaching out to me and continuing to reach out to me everyday. you’ve made tumblr 1000000x more fun to be on and you make my day 100000000x brighter just by messaging me and even when we’re not dming each other i feel happy just seeing you on my dash and knowing you’re in my life. i appreciate the heck out of you and i get so overwhelmed thinking about how wonderful it is to have someone so sweet and kind and caring to talk to about everything. please know i’m always rooting for you!!! whenever you say that your tags are your contribution to the fandom i just want to shake you and tell you that no!!!! you being you is more than enough and the fact that you take all that time and energy to show your love and positivity is above and beyond!!!!!! thank you so much for being someone i can go to and i hope that i’m someone like that for you too!!!!! also thank u for being a good sport when i tease you ksljdflks sorry this is so short compare to yours but you’re the one out of the two of us that’s good with words!!! i’m bad at putting feelings into words but please know every time i keysmash it’s code for i love u. chrem forever indeed!!!!! (1 billion heart emojis) 

demongyeom: hi cat!!! i wanted to give you a shout out because you make amazing content and i can tell that you’re just all around a really awesome person! seriously love seeing you on my dash and i just wanted to say thank you for all the work that you do!!!

intojennie: HEY jackie!!!!!!! you!!! i’m so happy we got to meet and hang out!!!!! you know it’s real when we’re texting and we have convos open across like three different platforms kjdfglkfdg. seriously i feel so lucky to have met someone as cool and funny as you and someone who i share so much in common with! i look forward to hanging out more and getting to know u better and going TO A CONCERT TOGETHER!!!!! ok ilu see u tuesday lmao

jingyeomlove: hi dreamy! i know we’ve never properly talked but i think you’re so cool and sweet and the stuff you make is just so so so amazing!!!! i really admire you as a creator and as a person so thank you for everything that you do!

k-dirty-pop: hi lennie!!! i can’t remember when we became mutuals but i know you are one of my first mutuals and definitely one of my favorite mutuals!!!! you are so so smart and beautiful and funny so thank you for gracing me with your presence!!! idk what else to say except that i really like you and i hope we can continue talking bc you’re easily top 1 coolest mutual

mochabam: hi jem!!!! wowowow where do i even start with you?! i think you’re seriously //////the sweetest////// person ever and you’re so so so special! there is a good reason why you’re one of my favorite people/blogs on here and why people always have great things to say about you! thank you for injecting warmth, love, and positivity into everything you do because i know it can’t always be easy! i think you make amazing content so please don’t doubt yourself because i’m rooting for you! thank you for being you!!!!

verse2era: hey emma!! ksjlksjfd so we haven’t actually talked but i think you’re really cool and i just get excited seeing you on my dash bc you always reblog really interesting content. sometimes idk what it’s even about but i’m like yeah emma reblogged it so it must be cool

yougjae: hi hi cherry! we haven’t talked properly but i still feel really fond of you and i love seeing you on my dash! you’re easily one of my favorites on here?? like sometimes if i don’t see your posts, i wonder to myself hmmm how is cherry doing? i think you’re really funny and sweet and you deserve great things!!!! and thank you for liking my text posts all the time it really means a lot ksljfksf 

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also rachel if ur being nosy and u see this i love u too but if u don’t see this i’m gonna be hurt so what’s it gonna be

[jaybleep]

baby jackbum flirting for @def-sowl

[unohana-bankai]

@def-sowl 🌞

reblog with your sign and your godly parent

[taehyungfirst]

you dig a bit and turns that all those army accounts who hated on him today are literally just this

I just really need him to be freed from the group, and hybe narratives atp

ofc and if you look closely most of the people in that thread were jkkers usarmys, like it’s just obvious atp they make me sick i need them gone

[dearweirdme]

about the gh thing I don't think bh was just passively letting it happen and waiting for it to go away, I think that maybe they weren't directly in it at the beginning but the timing was too advantageous for them, it happened just around the same time that the Kim garam mess and other things that had a negative impact in the company investments were going on and it would serve the purpose of giving Tae and by extension (a bit) jk a straight facade, tae was also being too bold and confident in regards of who he is and his relationship which idt it's something good for a company that has too much to lose, I think bh decided to partner in a way with yg in the scheme if only passively by prohibiting tae from saying anything and letting it happen without them stopping it and that's also why Tae posted this just after the first may pics if I recall correctly

Hi @def-sowl !

I do think it possible the company just let it go on to profit from it. It didn’t hurt their business and as you mentioned it does work as a cover for Tae. I suspect they monitored everything well.

[everlastingdaisy]

@def-sowl tagged me to do this, thank you!! <3

rules: name 10 favorite characters from 10 different things and then tag 10 people. I tag @afireflywithoutalight @morpheuse and @softestrosey :)

(In no particular order)

1. Alexandra Udinov (Nikita) 

2. Matt Murdock (Daredevil) 

3. Octavia Blake (The 100) 

4. Madison Montgomery (AHS)

5. Phoebe Halliwell (Charmed) 

6. Sally Owens (Practical Magic)

7. Katherine Pierce (The Vampire Diaries) 

8. Alan Grant (Jurassic Park) 

9. William Thatcher (A Knight’s Tale)

10. The priest from Fleabag lol

[unohana-bankai]

@def-sowl 💌 :)

In case you needed it tonight: here’s a hug. It’s a cozy hug. There is no awkwardness, just the feeling of comfort, acceptance, and lent strength. It’s a calming, soothing hug. Just for you. I love you. Sleep well.

[rougeskyy]

ty @def-sowl for tagging me!

rules: name 10 favorite characters from 10 different things and then tag 10 people

1. ash lynx (banana fish)

2. killua zoldyck (hxh)

3. victor nikiforov (yuri on ice)

4. gilbert nightray (pandora hearts)

5. mitsuba sousuke (hanako-kun)

6. kazunari miyoshi (a3!)

7. vanitas (vanitas no carte)

8. jyushi aimono (hypmic)

9. xie lian (tgcf)

10. wei wuxian (mdzs)

i’ll tag a few ppl: @extraterrestrialsprobably @leonhaardt-s @seasaltnishi @snowkil27 if u wanna ! <3