#create your own happy

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

At rest, your lungs wish to deflate, and your ribcage expands outwards.

[dumblr]

Solitude over toxicity.

[god-i-hope-so]

You know anon who replied to my post about Buck. I'm a proud biracial person so you certainly won't see me, a BT shipper, be against an interracial couple. I see racism, even when it's subtle, I see when people are vague posting about race being a problem. And I've never seen a BuckTommy fan make a racist post about Eddie being Latino, not even make an allusion to it. Never. I'm not saying there's not a single BT racist fan, you'll find trash anywhere, but here on Tumblr, I have yet to see it.

Eddie is not a problem for BuckTommy shippers, he's not a menace to the ship, he's not in the way of anything. And him being Latino has been used by BoBs themselves since the beginning as an excuse to hate on Tommy, the ship, and us. We don't fucking care about Eddie being Latino, it's a non thing for BT shippers. We're not white supremacists with an agenda. Meanwhile, the moment we dared to like Buck being with Tommy, we were under Buddies/BoBs constant harassment. Because they didn't get their ship canon. And the hate and violence has been insane. The homophobia/queerphobia. The misogyny. The ageism. The racism against actual people in the fandom. And it created tensions we never asked for.

We never asked for anything except maybe to see a queer arc for Buck. We never ask for Buddie to not be canon. We never asked for Tommy to come back. We only hoped they'd give the fans queer Buck. Then we just went with what the show gave us, some liked it, some not. No one except the show runners and the writers knew what would happen and had the power to make it happen. None of us, whatever we ship, will change what people are PAID to do on a TV show.

All the rest? It's your interpretation, just like we all have. It's valid but not canon. Tommy acting like Taylor and being dismissive of Buck's feelings? Your interpretation but it's not canon. I'm currently rewatching the show for the first time and I see so many moments when Eddie is not a good friend to Buck. Not a bad friend, just not a good one. And I don't need theories about him being a supposedly closeted gay to just accept that those characters are written to be realistic, so they're not perfect. Eddie using his friendship with Buck to hit exactly where it hurts and tell him he's exhausting? Oh it was bad, but Eddie was pissed. So you know, it was a realistic and emotional response. It doesn't mean I started a hate campaign against him and his fan. First because it's a fucking TV show, but most of all, it's not important. It's part of the story and that's it. Sit back and enjoy, then join the fandom to make your ship thrive in fanon. No need to hate anything or anyone.

(oh and yes, BuckTommy has many names! Not always practical but it's not like it affects your life, isn't it?)

[stuckinapril]

I’m happy for the little life I built for myself

[watcherintheweyr]

desperately need people to understand that alicent is a victim but she’s also an abuser and a perpetrator

that she actively makes choices to harm other women because of jealousy and envy and the greed deep in her bones because submitting to suffering didn’t get her what those women fight to grasp for themselves.

she is absolutely a victim, in show.

that doesn’t change that she abused rhaenyra and her children, her own son, most likely helaena given how she flinches every time her mother touches her, and is actively weaponizing the patriarchy of westeros against other women- rhaenyra primarily, but also mysaria and dyana.

she isn’t the moral, righteous force of good that even she thinks she is, she’s a wounded woman directing all of the rot, pain, and fury inside her at the wrong people and forces.

[fryday]

i think the most important thing i've realised about running a fandom blog is that whatever you make should literally all be for yourself. nobody is going to consume this same media and process it the way you do, or be inspired by it the same way you will, or, therefore, create the same things for it like you will. so the chances are high that the only way you're gonna see the stuff you wanna see out there in your fandom space - is to make it yourself. you're manifesting your vision for yourself, and by that, other people can either enjoy it or not, but it's really secondary to the point of it all

[ocean-waters]

Happy birthday 💙🌊🐬

To my most beloved anime protagonist. It's been an absolute pleasure watching his story throughout the years. He means a lot to me, and I've found myself relating to him a bunch. Seeing him grow, open up, and chase his dreams has made brought me endless joy, and I will forever cherish him and free! As a whole.

[shepscapades]

How do you feel about fan content for your au? I want to make something, but I don't want to push your bounderies

totally okay with it!! :D I try to like or reblog dbhc fan content with the relative tags: dbhc fanart and dbhc fanfic!

[crownedwille]

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[a-vampire-moth]

"...the culture we have does not make people feel good about themselves.

We're teaching the wrong things.

And you have to be strong enough to say if the culture doesn't work, don't buy it.

Create your own.

Most people can't do it." -Morrie Schwartz, tuesdays with Morrie

[soulinkpoetry]

I hope everyone’s day is going amazingly well! ☀️

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[f-imaginings]

I have finally FINALLY got up to the dream scene at the start of the last mabelcorn in kmky and everything is flowing nicely finally, and the scenes and characterisation all are smooth and make sense and I am no longer going over the same establishing scenes like a pedant trying to make them perfect. SUCCESS!

Just have to knock out these next few bits then it's onto unicorn beatdowns, funny hats, pizza parties and loophole heists!

[yet-happy]

Guess what??? Someone recreated Roblox Studio in a Roblox game and it's mobile accessible!! I'm making my own map!!!

Already changed the lightning and set map limits, decorating this will be so much fun!!

that's why I need YOUR help!! give me ideas to work on the map would ya?🐙🐙

[hanakihan]

man AB! AU is kinda cracked because just when everything enters relevant part of plot about Rulers and Monarchs mess, those idiots’ (affectionate??) attention focuses on Jinchul because it’s the creator they all mutually kinda hate so there’s that great hunt on who can kill god again (and this time monarchs probably really want to get a score) and it’s literally jinchul trying not to die long enough for jinwoo to arrive and help him because who the fuck those creatures and why they want him so fucking dead

and insane part is when jinwoo arrives only to see jinchul straight up skewered barely alive like AB was and boy does it awaken Ashborn’s trauma so badly it becomes even bigger mess (and no one realizes they also triggered AB’s trauma about his own death)

[basofy]

i feel a little bad remembering how in my mother days there was this rly common perception of thinking 'well lucas would be so pessimistic after what happened and he would hate flint cuz he sucks and he would hate everything!!' and i would believe it just cuz i was still relearning a lot of things i didnt know if that was what i was supposed to think but it always felt like people who saw things this way wanted to force others to do too