#corporal punishment

[cpnut23]

[spankthegirl]

her friends don't seem to be enjoying the view!

[newyorkspanker]

Ribbon12 is Spanked for Lying Part 1

It was hot downstairs, so Tiler volunteered to get a fan that she claimed she saw upstairs. While I was waiting downstairs for her I noticed she was taking a long time to come back down. So in the end I found out that she was using that time as an opportunity to hide my implements and there was not any fan in the house. So I punished her for lying to me. In part 1 I use my hand only.

[fantasy-anatomy-analyst]

So, with the elves again...Mine have thin, hollow bones (which is the reason for their gracile statures) and only adults have wings (which are partially magical and a secondary sexual characteristic, with males having long narrow ones for speed and endurance, female round and slightly concave ones for power lifting and maneuverability with more androgynous individuals having something in between. Their fleshy areas tend to be, in adults, slightly stronger than in humans.) How would corporal punishment work in such cultures, when they don't want handicap the person. Also, the shoulder blade area is a universal taboo to harm (kind of how all human cultures have some form of music ). I think of martinet on the laps and irritants applied to non-sensory essential but pain-sensitive areas.

Hmmmm okay so. If we are talking about corporal punishment on a law enforcement and military type of level, I'm not so sure they would be concerned about preventing disabling injuries or avoiding a body part that's usually off limits.

Corporal punishment is not an effective behavioral correction tool. Its only purpose is causing harm and inducing fear, and often times "making an example" out of someone to frighten everyone else.

Historically, you might see such punishments as cutting off a thief's fingers, whippings, various forms of torture. These are not punishments done with the intention of letting the victim heal up and continue living a normal life with a few scars.

In the case of having a "taboo" against hurting a specific body part, I can actually see that becoming a high level form of corporal punishment. If someone is intentionally seriously injured in the one place you're never supposed to hurt, isn't that a great way to mark them as particularly terrible criminal? Or a great way to show your power by doing it to your enemies? I would think any authority that uses corporal punishment would actually cause disabling injuries on purpose to make an example out of the people they hate the most. Even to the point of cutting off whole wings, or at least enough of the wing to ground someone without fully killing them, leaving them horribly maimed so anyone who sees them will be terrified of ending up with the same punishment. Death sentences are also a form of corporal punishment.

The less disabling punishments like the ones you mentioned above would likely be used for smaller offenses, or torture tactics.

If you're writing a society where corporal punishment exists at all, you should really think about why the people in charge of ordering and executing those punishments would only want to cause mild harm. And if the answer is that you as the writer are uncomfortable making a society that allows harsher corporal punishment, then perhaps you need to rework the worldbuilding and avoid writing any corporal punishments.

I would recommend researching how criminal rehabilitation works, the psychology around positive reinforcement, and which countries have the lowest crime rates and how they manage it. That will give you an idea of some better alternatives to corporal punishment if it's something you're not so comfortable keeping in your worldbuilding.

And if you are comfortable keeping it in your worldbuilding, then don't hold back so much. It's a method of punishment that intentionally causes harm, so write it that way. It can be used to show what the political climate is like in your world, how the societal hierarchies work, and what sorts of crimes are considered the worst in this culture based on how horrible the punishments are.

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[fuckyeahbriefs-blog]

Van Spanking's Shorts 2

Joe gets the cane

Joe looked miserably out of his bedroom window, waiting for his Dad to get home and deal with him after the ’phone-call from school. He knew he was in for a severe spanking, for which he’d be laid over Dad’s knee, and he’d been naughty enough that he’d probably get smacked on his underpants! He felt his black Calvin Klein briefs tighten unpleasantly at the front at the thought. Unlike your average fourteen-year-old boy, Joe didn’t find erections pleasurable. The only times his cock stood on end was when he was laid over the knee getting his bottom smacked, so erections for him were always associated with spankings!

Suddenly, the door flew open and there was his dad, unbelievably flexing a clearly very supple rattan cane that he’d sent for a couple of weeks ago! Joe hadn’t known about this and he looked at the cane in horror!

“Right, my lad, I’ve just had it with you!” barked Dad. “No arguments – you’re going to be punished! Hard!”

He strode over to Joe’s desk. “Here, young man!” he roared and began removing the things on the desk-top.

“My old headmaster used to clear his desk when I got the cane! D’you know why?”  “Why?” asked Joe, though he’d heard enough about old-style school corporal punishment to know the answer!

“I had to bend over it!” answered Dad. He indicated the desk-top with the cane. “Now you, boy! Bend over the desk!”

Joe obeyed, his face reddening with mortification! Dad noted with approval from the outline of the boy’s underpants through the legs of his short grey school shorts that his son had briefs on – the best kind of ‘punishment underpants’!

Dad tapped the cane against Joe’s backside twice before bringing it down with a terrific THWACK!

Joe screamed with the pain that seared across his bottom!

Dad had been caned by an expert as a schoolboy and knew how long to let the pain build up before delivering another resounding THWACK!

Joe burst into tears! The pain across his buttocks was unbelievable! Surely, however naughty he’d been, he didn’t deserve to be punished like this!

WHACK! “OW!” WHACK! “OW!” WHACK! “AAH!”

Joe wished his Mum hadn’t gone out that afternoon. She was fine with him and his siblings being spanked -even smacked them herself - but he was sure she’d draw the line at this kind of a thrashing!

WHACK!”AAARGH!”

“Get up, young man!”

It was over! Joe straightened up off the desk, shaking and sobbing uncontrollably, in a state of mild shock!

“Right, my boy, go and stand in the corner! Hands on your head and think about your behaviour! I don’t want to see you downstairs till tea-time!” So saying, he strode from the room and slammed the door!

Joe limped into the corner where he stood with tears coursing down his cheeks. “You wouldn’t see me then if I could avoid it, you bastard!” he ground out through clenched teeth! And at that point, he meant it! He just hated his father for inflicting this kind of pain on him!

[spankthegirl]

[theconcealedweapon]

There's a tip line to report "divisive ideologies and indoctrination" in schools.

Please do not flood them with reports of corporal punishment in schools or other actual harmful practices.

[incognitopolls]

Psychiatric help could include medication, therapy, institutionalization, etc.

Hitting or hurting could include spanking, yanking arms or hair, etc.

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[audhdnight]

Spanking is to parenting what prisons are to criminal justice. Allow me to elaborate:

What does spanking do? “It teaches kids to behave!” Actually, no. It teaches kids to fear their caregiver(s). But say we go with that line. How does spanking teach kids to behave? “It shows them the consequences of bad actions!” Actually, no. It shows kids that when the caregiver is displeased, the kid gets hurt. In the mind of the child, the sequence of events is not [misbehave:consequence]. It is [caregiver unhappy:pain]. And maybe you’ll say “But my kid stopped mouthing off after I started spanking them for it”. Okay, sure. Maybe they stopped responding when you argue, but only because the learned to fear what their response would bring. They’re not holding their tongue because they realized it’s disrespectful or rude or whatever else you believe it is. They’re holding their tongue because they know it won’t do any good and will only make the situation worse for them. I can guarantee they are still thinking all those rebellious naughty talk-backy thoughts. They just aren’t saying them out loud. Spanking did not teach your child to behave, it taught them to walk on eggshells.

Similarly, prisons do absolutely nothing to enforce laws. Prisons do nothing to fix the real crimes that do get committed. A shooter or rapist or embezzler being incarcerated does not bring their victim back to life, un-traumatize them, or make reparations for any damages. Additionally, it makes life a living hell for the innocent people who end up in jail (OF WHICH THERE ARE A HELL OF A LOT). And maybe you might say that the point of prison is to encourage good behavior, because no one wants to go to jail. I would ask, then, why there are so many prisons, of which so many are full or overcrowded. Clearly, the threat of incarceration is not keeping people out of jail. Additionally, much like a child who was spanked being afraid to do normal things in their own home for fear of displeasing their caregiver, regular non-criminal people are afraid of prison, even though they have done nothing wrong. They know they could be incarcerated because of falsified evidence, biased testimonies, unfair trial, or simply bigotry. Especially people of color. Even though they haven’t done anything wrong, they are scared of what could happen to them if the person in power (police) was unhappy with them.

Negative consequences unrelated to the actual incident do not discourage “bad behavior”. Just like a child who is spanked will simply learn to be sneakier, a thief who goes to jail will simply cover their tracks better next time.

Stop spanking your kids, and abolish prisons. Have a nice day.

[the-heaminator]

It would be greatly appreciated if you tools me the culture you're from and the age they started/stopped doing it to you.

[lowcountry-gothic]

Evidence has shown spanking to be connected to how we relate to success and failure even in adulthood. One study found that kids that were spanked in childhood, by adolescence showed an increased reaction in the brain when errors were made. The same study found that in these same adolescents who were spanked in childhood, their brains didn’t respond as strongly to success. This means that you’re more upset when you make an error, making it harder to deal with failure, or simply making a mistake — but when you do it correctly, you don’t get the same good feelings that others do.  We commonly see these outcomes in people with Complex PTSD, including chronic hopelessness (‘I’m always going to mess things up’), shame ('there’s something wrong with me,’) as well as difficulty appreciating when you are successful and life is going smoothly. The study seems to indicate that due to spanking, the brain becomes preoccupied on making mistakes at the expense of appreciating when things go well. It would make sense that this could create some patterns of thinking that focus on what goes wrong, but difficulty focusing on what goes well — setting people up for mental health challenges.

D.L. Mayfield and Krispin Mayfield, STRONGWILLED, Chapter 10: “Spare the Rod, Spoil the Child”

[guildofpriapus]

Corrections Supervisor Danielle Stratford-Wells

On hearing that you have been refusing your medication.