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Posing in Paradise

The details… Title: Posing in Paradise Authors: T.B. Markinson & Miranda MacLeod Publisher: I Heart SapphFic Press Publication date: July 11, 2024 Available formats: ebook, paperback, audiobook Ebook file size:‎ 1901 KB Paperback length: 289 pages Audio length: 8 hours and 51 minutes (narrated by Lori Prince) Genre: contemporary romance Themes: women loving women relationships, family,…

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A's in Indian women fashion

Dating back centuries, Indian Women’s fashion has a rich history. Be it the intricate designs, vibrant prints, or magnificent weaves, Indian women’s fashion is still evolving and offers a diversified range of styles and trends.Beginning with A, I decided to pick out two styles and two weaves to discuss Indian Women’s fashion. Anarkali and Angrakha Being around for centuries, Anarkalis and…

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Wedding Car Rentals in London | Luxury Wedding Cars by We Universal

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Unveiling Elegance: Embracing the Surge of Designer Pure Saree Trends for Women

Introduction:

For numerous women, possessing a designer saree signifies the pinnacle of ethnic fashion, offering a distinctive way to stand out. The allure of a designer saree collection lies in its versatility, spanning from intricate traditional pieces to chic, ultra-modern designs. Catering to diverse age groups and fashion tastes, these unique, stylish Sarees are not only cherished by Indian women but also sought after by global clientele. India remains the unrivaled hub for authentic and trendsetting Pure Designer Sarees, captivating the imagination of artists and designers worldwide.

What are we going to learn from this blog?

In Indian culture, adorning oneself in a saree is deeply imbued with reverence for elders and cherished family values. Embracing the saree is embraced as a practice that bestows dignity and poise upon a woman’s demeanor. Furthermore, it symbolizes modesty and femininity, fostering a sense of confidence and empowerment within women.

The signature Indian dress comes in a variety of options in different colors. And patterns and one of the most stunning looking is Latest designer Sarees. These exquisite pieces are crafted by top fashion designers and houses according to the latest trends.

Why does this saree so much popular now a days?

For every Indian woman, owning a designer saree Silk is a cherished dream. The sheer elegance of a Stylish designer saree ensures that one truly shines amidst the crowd. What’s truly remarkable about a designer saree collection is its vast diversity, offering a plethora of options ranging from embellished to sophisticated, traditional to contemporary. Rest assured, there’s a designer saree to match every unique style.

“Indian designers continuously experiment with international designs and tastes, yet India remains at the forefront for authentic and trendy designer Sarees. These iconic garments not only elevate one’s style but also showcase the rich cultural heritage of India.”

“Let’s dive into the diverse range of Designer Sarees available at Samyakk!”

Are you ready to immerse yourself in the world of designer Sarees? At Samyakk.com, we pride ourselves on offering a wide range of exquisite Sarees crafted to perfection. From pure designer embroidery Sarees to organza designer Sarees, tissue organza Sarees, pure Tussar embroidery Sarees, and an array of designer printed Sarees including georgette, crepe, Tussar, silk, Mysore silk, and drape Sarees, we have something to suit every taste and occasion.

Next up, we have the organza designer Sarees. Known for their lightweight and sheer texture, organza sarees are perfect for special occasions. Our range of Pure organza Sarees features exquisite designs and vibrant colors that add a touch of glamour to your ensemble.

If you’re looking for something truly regal, then our tissue organza Sarees are the perfect choice for you. Made from high-quality tissue fabric, these Sarees have a subtle sheen that gives them a luxurious appeal. With delicate embroidery work and intricate detailing, they are sure to make you feel like royalty.

For those who appreciate the beauty of handcrafted Sarees, our pure Tussar embroidery Sarees are a must-have. Made from the finest quality Tussar silk, these Sarees feature intricate embroidery work that reflects the rich heritage of Indian craftsmanship. Each saree is a work of art, meticulously crafted to perfection.

Last but not least, we have our drape Sarees. These Sarees are perfect for those who love the convenience of pre-stitched Sarees. With their effortless drape and flattering silhouette, Designer drape Sarees are a popular choice among modern women. Whether you’re a busy professional or a busy mom, our drape Sarees are sure to make dressing up a breeze.

What to look for while buying Indian Designer Sarees??

When Buying Indian Designer Sarees, several crucial factors demand attention to ensure a satisfying choice. Firstly, scrutinize the fabric meticulously. Fabrics like silk, chiffon, georgette, and organza offer luxurious draping and elegance, each boasting distinct textures and characteristics.

Color, design, and occasion should also heavily influence your decision. Opt for hues and patterns that complement your skin tone, body shape, and personal style. Consider the event at hand, selecting heavy silk Sarees with intricate embellishments for weddings and festive occasions, while reserving lightweight options with minimal detailing or printed designs for casual gatherings.

Lastly, establish a budget and adhere to it, prioritizing quality and craftsmanship over price. Remember, a well-chosen designer saree is an investment in timeless elegance and cultural heritage, capable of enhancing your beauty and confidence for years to come.

Distinguishing Between Fancy Sarees and Pure Sarees

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

What sets designer Sarees apart from regular Sarees? A: Designer Sarees are meticulously crafted by skilled artisans and fashion designers, featuring unique designs, intricate embellishments, and superior quality fabrics. They often incorporate the latest trends and innovative techniques, making them stand out in terms of style and craftsmanship compared to regular Sarees.

How can I ensure the authenticity of a designer saree? A: Authentic designer Sarees usually come with branded tags, labels, or certificates of authenticity. They also feature high-quality materials, impeccable stitching, and finely executed embellishments. Purchasing from reputable stores or directly from designer boutiques can further ensure authenticity.

Are designer Sarees suitable for all body types? A: Yes, designer Sarees are available in various styles and cuts to suit different body types. Whether you’re petite, curvy, or have a straight body shape, there are designer Sarees tailored to enhance your silhouette and accentuate your best features.

What occasions are appropriate for wearing designer Sarees? A: Designer Sarees are versatile and can be worn for a wide range of occasions, including weddings, receptions, parties, festivals, and formal gatherings. The level of embellishment and fabric choice may vary based on the event’s formality and ambiance.

How should I care for and store my designer Sarees to maintain their quality? A: To preserve the beauty and longevity of your designer Sarees, it’s essential to follow proper care instructions. This may include dry cleaning or gentle hand washing, avoiding direct sunlight exposure, and storing the Sarees in a cool, dry place. Additionally, folding them neatly or hanging them on padded hangers can help prevent wrinkles and creases.

Conclusion

The wide variety of designer Sarees available at Samyakk caters to every taste and occasion. Whether you prefer traditional embroidery work or contemporary prints, we have something for everyone. So why wait? Explore our collection today at our website www.samyakk.com and visit are store at Bangalore City. Add a touch of elegance to your wardrobe with our Elegant Sarees.

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Dining Room Enclosed in San Francisco

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Qipao/Cheongsam Taobao Shop Recs

A while ago I received a direct message asking for recs on where to buy qipao/cheongsam, and I figured I’d make a post for others who’d also be interested. 

First of all - I think qipao should be tried on and bought in-person if at all possible, since having the right fit is important - especially if it’s for a formal occasion like a wedding. However, since that’s often not possible, I’ve compiled a list of online shop recs, mainly for more casual occasions.

Since English-language online qipao shops are plentiful and easy to find, I’ll be focusing this list on Taobao shops only. Please note that these are my personal recs, based on my own aesthetic preferences. Thus most of the recs are for shops focused on retro-inspired, minguo-style qipao made using the traditional 平裁/pingcai (flat tailoring) method. Also, I have not actually purchased qipao from any of these shops (all my qipao were bought in person) - this is based mainly on how appealing I find the designs.

1. 嬉姷/Xi You - Elegant qipao modelled closely on historical designs, mainly from the Republican era/minguo. Careful attention paid to historical details. My favorite qipao shop to browse for fun:

2. 海上芳时/Shanghai Fancy - Specializes in chic minguo-style designs of the 1920s-1940s. Recently came out with a neat art deco-inspired collection:

3. 唐之语/Tang Zhi Yu - Retro-style qipao in a variety of bold prints, with a focus on the form-fitting designs of the 1950s-1960s, including those from the film “In the Mood for Love”:

4. 繁莳/Fancy Dream - Dreamy, delicate retro-inspired qipao and modified qipao. Also has a nice selection of winter majia (vests):

5. Top Ulara - A large selection of classic, retro-style qipao with a hint of glamour. Offers lots of long/thick/layered qipao suitable for colder weather:

6. 梦回故里/Menghui Guli - Nostalgic, conservative retro-style qipao for all seasons. Old-fashioned in a good way:

7. 晴山制衣/Qingshan Zhiyi - Retro-style qipao in fresh, vivid colors and an interesting variety of designs and patterns:

8. 限时赏味/Xianshi Shangwei - Streamlined, retro-style qipao in subtle colors and prints that exemplify understated elegance: 

9. 茉茉/Momo - Tons of options for simple, cute, and casual retro-style qipao suitable for daily wear. Designs tend towards monochromes and all-over prints. Another review/rec here:

10. 如及/Yu Gallery - Simple yet elegant retro-style and contemporary qipao. I love the shop’s use of sheer fabrics & layering in its designs:

11. 向南飞FLY - Offers a selection of casually stylish retro-style qipao and modified qipao for daily chic:

12. 川黛/Chuan Dai - Soft, feminine, pastel-infused qipao & modified qipao in retro-inspired and contemporary styles:

13. 四斤自制/Sijin Studio - Creative, avant-garde takes on (modified) qipao & qipao-inspired outfits:

14. 密扇/Mukzin - Colorful, playful, and irreverent modified qipao and qipao-inspired outfits. There’s also an English website here:

If you like the above qipao but still want an English website, there are several Taobao resellers that carry similar designs - for example, Beth and Brian Qipao. The hanfu shop Nuwa Hanfu also offers a carefully curated array of qipao, including plus-size qipao.

Finally, when it comes to in-person shops, I want to highlight Xiangjiang Silk Co., a relatively new boutique in New York City specializing in actual vintage 1950s-1960s qipao. There’s an article here on the boutique and its founder Heather Guo (who was featured in Vogue). Store visits are appointment-only, so you’ll have to reach out to Heather via her social media if you want to drop by.

If anyone has reviews of the above shops and/or more qipao shop recs, please share! ^^

Bonus: I also have online shop recs for hanfu (1, 2), modified hanfu/hanyuansu (1, 2), hanfu accessories, weimao, and hair accessories. 

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As a Kakyoin fan and artist, I'm doing my part in giving him a part 4 design 🫡 (OG ask) Throwing my headcanons at you and hitting you square in the face

Ramble under the cut

Noriaki is a successful gallery artist living with his "roommate" on Florida's Gulf Coast (I think the Tampa Bay area, specifically Bradenton, FL). They have a small bungalow near the water, Perfect for them, their office/studios, Jotaro's fish tanks, and Jolyne when she comes from her mother's during the holidays or for summer break. Jotaro is definitely a boat guy they have theirs parked on the side of the house and take it for a spin over at least once a month (or once a week when Jolyne is with them over the summer)

He still does missions for the SWF with Jotaro, but his day job is his art. He works in an abstract/contemporary style and his pieces are large and textural. Jotaro doesn't really get it but still supports his partner, Jolyne loves them though.

Also, he and Jotaro have matching wedding rings: platinum bands with emerald Inserts.

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THE ARNOLFINI PORTRAIT /1434/ JAN VAN EYCK

Van Eyck uses a unique orthogonal perspective, rich colors, and enlivens the piece with many rich details. Notice the convex mirror painted in the background that reflects the back of the couple, as well as several other people witnessing the wedding. Also, take note of the dog in the foreground, the bed in the rear right, and the chandelier overhead.

This is thought to be a dual portrait of the affluent Italian trader, Giovanni di Nicolao Arnolfini, alongside his spouse. The youthful pair are shown within their residence in Bruges, Belgium, which was part of Flanders at the time. Van Eyck had recently relocated to Bruges in 1429 and would reside and work there for the remainder of his life.

While numerous contemporary observers have suggested that the bride appears to be expectant, scholars have noted that this style of gown was fashionable then, as it symbolized virtue and fertility. The gown, combined with the hand resting on the stomach, might be misleading to those interpreting it through a modern perspective.

Art historians consider this one of the earliest paintings of ordinary people in a domestic setting. Van Eyck inscribed “Johannes de eyck fuit hic 1434 (Jan van Eyck was here. 1434)” above the mirror. This signature, on the back wall, suggests the artwork may document a marriage contract with a witness present. Van Eyck was also among the first to sign his work.

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Digging into Romancing Mister Bridgerton part 2 - Jealousy

Ok I'm back to talk about jealousy...not Pen being Jealous of Colin with women or Colin Jealous of Pen with suitors. I'm talking Colin and his jealousy of Whistledown.

As we head into Part 2, I believe this will be a theme we see post Colin's finding out about Pen's secret. Because Colin finding out that Pen is Lady Whistledown WILL be a blow to him, Colin will forgive her, because he loves Pen. That's not even in question and not even something I'm discussing today. That's the EASY part.

The difficult part is that Colin has found love, he's found Pen. But Colin and Pen had that lovely discussion in S2 about Pen finding her purpose and now Colin is faced with the fact that Pen found that. Her success as Whistledown is something he has to face. And he still has not found his, just as Pen was starting to show him he may have one with his own writing. So let's dig in to how this played out in Romancing Mister Bridgerton because it was a big theme and I think this is coming to our boy!

In the book, even after the wedding, Colin struggles to deal with the revelation that Pen was Whistledown. Her success somehow tears at him and he is unable to deal with how if affects his own abilities and chances at being a writer himself. In true style, he was unable to communicate this jealousy and Pen mistook this as shame, that Colin was ashamed of her for being Whistledown.

See excerpts from RMB below:

Except, perhaps, for Colin and Penelope, neither of whom were especially comfortable when talk turned to Lady Whistledown.

But Colin was still so upset and angry over her secret life that she’d grown uncomfortable herself. She’d tried to broach the subject with him a few times, but he’d become tight-lipped and told her (in a very un-Colin-like tone) that he didn’t want to talk about it.

She could only deduce that he was ashamed of her. Or if not of her, precisely, then of her work as Lady Whistledown. Which was like a blow to her heart, because her writing was the one segment in her life that she could point to with a great sense of pride and accomplishment. She had done something. She had, even if she could not put her own name on her work, become a wild success. How many of her contemporaries, male or female, could claim the same?

She might be ready to leave Lady Whistledown behind and live her new life as Mrs. Colin Bridgerton, wife and mother, but that in no way meant that she was ashamed of what she had done.

When finally confronted with this, Colin told her he was not ashamed of her, but was unable to tell her he was jealous. he was ashamed of himself for being jealous of her. He struggled with his jealous for a while in the book. For not being able to find his true purpose.

“I’m not ashamed of you,” he said again, mostly because he couldn’t bring himself to tell her the truth—that he was jealous. Jealous of her achievements, jealous of her.

It was such a distasteful feeling, such an unpleasant emotion. It ate at him, creating a vague sense of shame every time someone mentioned Lady Whistledown, which, given the tenor of London’s current gossip, was about ten times each day. And he wasn’t quite certain what to do about it.

He was a man who had always felt supremely comfortable in his own skin. He didn’t know why he was so blessed—perhaps it was good parents, maybe simple luck. But now he felt awkward and uncomfortable and it was spilling into every corner of his life. He snapped at Penelope, he barely spoke at parties.

And it was all due to this detestable jealousy, and its attendant shame.

Or was it?

Would he be jealous of Penelope if he hadn’t already sensed a lack in his own life?

Of course because they still were not communicating, Pen continued to know something was troubling her husband. Colin continued to be protective of her and very loving, but any talk of Whistledown immediately seemed to turn the mood in their home. It began to make her become disappointed in her husband, but not because she was angry at him but because Pen was proud of herself. She was proud of everything she did as Whistledown and she wanted her husband to be proud of her.

He said he wasn’t ashamed of her, and maybe he even thought that was true, but she couldn’t quite bring herself to believe him. She’d seen his face when he swore that all he wanted was to protect her. But protectiveness was a fierce, burning feeling, and when Colin was talking about Lady Whistledown, his eyes were shuttered and flat.

She tried not to feel so disappointed. She tried to tell herself that she had no right to expect Colin to live up to her dreams, that her vision of him had been unfairly idealized, but…

But she still wanted him to be the man she’d dreamed of.

And she felt so guilty for every pang of disappointment. This was Colin! Colin, for heaven’s sake. Colin, who was as close to perfect as any human being could ever hope to be. She had no right to find fault with him, and yet…

And yet she did.

She wanted him to be proud of her. She wanted it more than anything in the world, more even than she’d wanted him all those years when she’d watched him from afar.

This continued until they finally spoke, until Pen finally confronted him with why he was so distant. With the fact that he had read everything she had ever written because it was out there, published for the world to see and his words remained hidden, words on a page that perhaps no one would ever see and even if they did, never want to read. And finally in unburdening to his wife, she reached out to him to help him, to tell him to publish and he allowed her help, and he asked her to edit and together it was the two of them, doing it together.

And the worst part was that he knew she didn’t understand. She thought he was ashamed of her. He’d told her that he wasn’t, but since he’d not been able to bring himself to tell her the truth—that he was jealous—he couldn’t imagine that she’d believed him.

Hell, he wouldn’t have believed him, either. He’d clearly looked like he was lying, because in a way, he was lying. Or at least withholding a truth that made him uncomfortable.

But the minute she’d reminded him that he’d read everything she’d written, something had turned ugly and black inside of him.

He’d read everything she’d written because she’d published everything she’d written. Whereas his scribblings sat dull and lifeless in his journals, tucked away where no one would see them.

Colin wanted, more than anything, to be his own man, to be known for his accomplishments, not for his name or position, or even his smile or charm.

“Why, then,” she asked him, her words slow and carefully measured, “do you grow so distant and cold every time I bring it up?”

When he spoke, his words were close to a mumble. “It’s difficult to explain.”

“I’m a good listener,” she said softly.

His hand, which had been cradling her face so lovingly, dropped to his lap. And he said the one thing she never would have expected.

“I’m jealous.” He shrugged helplessly. “I’m so sorry.”

“—I need something I can point to,” he said, right on top of her soft sentence. “I need a purpose. Anthony has one, and Benedict has one, but I’m at odds and ends.”

But she knew that those weren’t the sorts of milestones he was talking about. She knew what he needed: a purpose, a calling.

Something to show the world that he was more than they thought he was.

“Publish your travel memoirs,” she said.

“I’m not—”

“Publish them,” she said again. “Take a chance and see if you soar.”

His eyes met hers for a moment, then they slid back down to his journal, still clutched in her hands. “They need editing,” he mumbled.

Penelope laughed, because she knew she had won. And he had won, too. He didn’t know it yet, but he had.

But it wasn't until the end, when Colin realized that Pen didn't want him to let the world know about Whistledown because she was willing to let her success, her name go away for the sake of his success with his journals, his dream to survive, that he finally understood his wife. That she was willing to do so much for him. Give up her success for his. And he knew that his purpose WAS her. His dream was possible BECAUSE of Penelope.

“Colin,” she whispered. “If you tell the world I’m Lady Whistledown, and they react the way we think they will, you’ll never see your journals published.”

His heart stood still.

Because that was when he finally understood her.

She had told him before that she loved him, and she had shown her love as well, in all the ways he’d taught her. But never before had it been so clear, so frank, so raw.

All this time she’d been begging him not to make the announcement—it had all been for him.

He swallowed against the lump that was forming in his throat, fought for words, fought even for breath.

She reached out and touched his hand, her eyes pleading, her cheeks still wet with tears. “I could never forgive myself,” she said. “I don’t want to destroy your dreams.”

“They were never my dreams until I met you,” he whispered.

With all the jealousy behind them, their love the most important aspect of their lives, Colin lets her know that he is very proud of his wife. and he let the world know that he was very proud of her as well. I don't think we will get this in the show this season, because I think they will hold on to the secret of Whistledown for a while longer but i just love the end of the book and Colin showing his wife that he was proud of her. Proud of Penelope and Whistledown. Because she is both.

“The truth is,” Colin said, tugging on her hand and pulling her close, “I’m rather proud of you.”

She felt herself smiling, and it was so strange, because just a few moments earlier, she couldn’t imagine ever smiling again.

He leaned down until his nose touched hers. “I want everyone to know how proud I am of you. By the time I’m through, there won’t be a single person in London who doesn’t recognize how clever you are.”

Thanks for coming to my Ted talk. How I think RMB plays heavily into the show and how I see BookColin coming to live in ShowColin for the back half of 7&8.

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I read Anna Biller's (director, writer, set designer, and basically everything-er of The Love Witch) new novel Bluebeard's Castle. And I really found it to be quite the addictive and enchanting read, though all of the criticisms of the book that you'll see on Goodreads and Amazon are completely legitimate.

The book very much does read like a screenplay -- there are long descriptions of interior design and costumes, sometimes positioned in the middle of a scene in ways that break up the emotional momentum, to a hilarious effect. For example, in one sequence the protagonist is considering a gruesome vision of suicide, and then looks in the mirror to admire her hobble skirt and reflect that she's looking very sexy.

Some of The Love Witch's less charitable viewers didn't understand the way Biller's work sweeps from the grand and romantic to the self-involved and frivolous, but it's clearly intentional, and it works on the page for me just as well as it did on the screen. You just have to have the irreverent, glamorous toxic girl sensibility for it. If you love the way Lana Del Rey mixes the high and low brows, the tragic with the prosaic, you'll lap it up here too.

In some cases, Biller's descriptions do feel like placeholders, or are so generically written that it would make perfect sense in a script (because there is an entire team working on the film that can bring a "sexy" dress or a "lovely" piece of furniture to life), but which falls flat here. Because I know Biller's aesthetic style so well, when she tells me that room is sumptuous or well-appointed, I can picture precisely what she means, and most of the time she is so specific with her descriptions of outfits and accessories that you can easily conjure what she's going for. At some random moments, though, things are underwritten and demand that you as the reader fill in the details she normally provides.

Bluebeard's Castle is the story of a contemporary romance novelist and converted Catholic virgin, Judith, who falls under the seductive spell of an aloof, gruff, emotionally volatile Baron's-son, Gavin, who sweeps her off her feet following a fated encounter at a wedding. After a whirlwind romance and a hasty wedding, Biller's protagonist moves into a remodeled castle with her brooding lover, and the cracks in his shining armor begin to show. The charm of the love interest is something of an informed attribute; you have to believe the narrator that he is handsome and dracula-like (or believe that she believes it) in order to allow the story to move along. Since this is a tragedy rather than a romance novel, I think that buy-in is relatively easy to provide. The sex scenes are largely left to the margins as well; this book isn't meant to titilate but rather pull you into Judith's rich, sad, delusional inner world.

Some of the most positive reviews of Bluebeard's Castle describe this as a novel about how and why women find themselves entrapped within abusive relationships. As someone who has been in abusive relationships, I think this truly is where Biller's writing excels -- and she truly gets what it's like to become romantically and sexually addicted to someone who is bad for you to a degree that is almost embarrassing to see oneself reflected in. She truly gets it -- the way you excuse small violations, blot out any consideration of your own consent, justify unexpected outbursts from your partner and then take steps to prevent them, the way you must romanticize every single tender moment, rewrite the gradual conditioning of your own behavior as yourself becoming a canny, subtle manipulator of the situation, and color in between the lines of a truly unfulfilling existence with grand narratives and self-serving lies.

It's not a pretty portrait -- Bluebeard's Judith has a fanciful, inconsistent mind, constantly swapping between admitting to herself that her husband has mistreated her, and seeking refuge in religion, fantasy, alcohol, sex, and self-negation in order to convince herself that such abuses did not really happen, or don't really matter. She also uses other people -- leaning on her sister and a former romantic interest, the respectful, reliable doctor Tony -- extracting as much attention and support from them as she possibly can when she and Gavin are in a rough patch, then abandoning them entirely the moment he returns to her. I think a reader who hasn't been in an extended abusive relationship will probably find Judith infuriating and unsympathetic. But as someone who has done and been all of these things, I feel incredibly exposed by Biller's narrative, in a bracing way. It's like a shot of cold water to the face.

Many people will justifiably write this book off as melodramatic and arch, but I think it perfectly nails the alluring drama of being wrapped up within a terrible relationship dynamic. When you're being abused and you deeply love your abuser, you are absolutely fascinated by their unpredictable emotions and your own love -- you think constantly about how you might elicit the treatment from them that your heart longs for, you're reading into their every gesture and expression all the time, and you're inventing satisfying explanations for your situation in your head all the time. It's an isolated, deluded life, but it's pleasurably intense too sometimes, and those of us who fall prey to it often have some deeper longing for connection and passion that makes us easier to prey on. Biller really understands that.

If you adored The Love Witch, you'll probably have a lot of patience for this book's flaws and feel appropriately targeted by its strengths. Sad girls, Virgin Suicides fans, BPD baddies, Jane Eyre lovers, grown up former Twilight readers, and all kinds of other pitiful glamorous freaks will enjoy it.

[simmillercc]

SIMS 4 - PRE-STRUNG TREE OF LIGHTS - HOLIDAY CELEBRATION PACK

With this set of recolours of the Pre-Strung Tree of Lights from the FREE Holiday Celebration Pack, you now get 6 tree/branch colours, with the 5 originals made more distinguishable, and an added black version.

You also now get 19 lighting combinations for each tree/branch colour! The packages are separated by tree/branch colour.

The trees are found in a few different locations, and can be used indoors or outdoors, and resized using [ and ] on your keyboard.

COST: 25

LOCATIONS: BUY Decor>Miscellaneous, Lighting>Floor and >Outdoors, BUILD Landscaping>Trees

STYLES: Basics, Boho, Contemporary, Cute, Events, Farmhouse, French Country, Garden, Holidays, Industrial, Island, Luxe, Mid Century, Mission, Modern, Patio, Shabby, Shotgun, Storybook, Suburban Contemporary

ENVIRONMENT SCORE POSITIVE 2

Talk to objects (Insane)

Can be struck by lightning

You may also see them at the occasional new retail or wedding venue.

TREE COLOURS:

Black Brown Light Brown Grey Blue Pink

LIGHTING COLOURS:

Blue Blue/White Green Green/White Pink Pink/White Pink/Light Blue Light Blue Light Blue/White Purple Purple/White Red Red/White Orange Orange/White Yellow Yellow/White Multicolour Red, Green, Yellow, Blue White

DOWNLOAD FREE HERE https://legacy.curseforge.com/sims4/build-buy/pre-strung-tree-of-lights

I couldn't find a download link for EA or TheSims4.com, but here are some alternate links for downloading the FREE Holiday Celebration Pack:

STEAM https://store.steampowered.com/app/1235764/The_Sims_4_Holiday_Celebration_Pack/

EPIC GAMES https://store.epicgames.com/en-US/p/the-sims-4--holiday-celebration-pack

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LADY GAGA AS NATALI'S MAID OF HONOR IN TOPO STUDIO NY & VERSACE

Lady Gaga graced her sister Natali Germanotta and Alex Dolan’s wedding as a maiden of honor at the Viewpoint hotel in York, Maine a couple days ago!

Before we get to the actual event, let's take a look at the LBD Gaga chose for the wedding rehearsal first.

The sculptural black crêpe dress with padded shoulders, V-neckline, nipped-in waist and mini hem ($1,645) hails from Versace's 60s-inspired Spring/Summer 2024 runway.

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Versace Mini Dress ($1,645.00)

For the ceremony, Gaga turning heads and warming hearts in a stunning dress crafted by the bride herself under her label, Topo Studio NY. She embodied a vision of romantic sophistication, adorned in a Grecian peach-colored pleated chiffon dress that epitomized both grace and modernity.

The gown, a testament to Natali’s design prowess, featured a draped V-neckline that beautifully framed Gaga's décolletage, adding an element of timeless allure. The buttoned front added a touch of classic refinement, while the asymmetrical scalloped layered hem infused a contemporary twist, flowing with ethereal elegance and enhancing Gaga's every step.

Gaga’s accessories were a perfect blend of whimsical and elegant. She adorned her hair with real flowers, adding a touch of natural beauty and romance to her look. In a creative twist, she also wore a flower as an earring, enhancing the unique, ethereal vibe of her ensemble.

Completing her sophisticated appearance, she donned custom Garo Sparo nude mesh opera-length gloves. These exquisite gloves added a layer of timeless elegance, perfectly complementing her dress and highlighting her distinctive style.

As a lover of a good platform shoe, my eye happily went to this pair of Giuseppe Zanotti heels. She opted to complete her maid of honor look with his Yana white patent leather platform pumps with ankle straps ($537).

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Giuseppe Zanotti "Yana" Pumps ($537.00)

[mia-studyhaus]

Studyhaus' Summer 2024 in Books

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It was truly a hot girl summer because look at these absolute gems that I got to enjoy from a variety of genres and styles:

Anon Pls. by Deuxmoi [Fiction, Contemporary, Pop Culture]

The Fairytale Life of Dorothy Gale by Virginia Kantra [Fiction, Contemporary, Romance]

Practice Makes Perfect by Sarah Adams [Fiction, Contemporary, Romance]

Storm: Dawn of a Goddess by Tiffany D. Jackson [Fantasy, Young Adult, Marvel]

Just Some Stupid Love Story by Katelyn Doyle [Fiction, Contemporary, Romance]

Goddess Crown by Shade Lapite [Fantasy, Young Adult, Romance]

Ageing: A Very Short Introduction by Nancy A. Pachana [Non-fiction, Science, Health]

Ready or Not by Cara Bastone [Fiction, Contemporary, Romance]

The Fastest Man Alive: The True Story of Usain Bolt by Usain Bolt [Non-fiction, Sports, Biography]

Araña and Spider-Man 2099: Dark Tomorrow by Alex Segura [Fantasy, Young Adult, Marvel]

Inspiration and Motivation for Runners by Ali Clarke [Non-fiction, Fitness, Self-help]

Healthy Menopause: How to best manage your symptoms and feel better than ever by Liz Earle [Non-fiction, Health, Women]

Excellent Advice for Living: Wisdom I Wish I'd Known Earlier by Kevin Kelly [Non-fiction, Philosophy, Self-help]

Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones by James Clear [Non-fiction, Psychology, Self-help]

My Big, Fat Desi Wedding by multiple authors (Edited by Prerna Pickett [Young Adult, Contemporary, Romance]

All these books are worth a read but my top pick would be Atomic Habits. Let me know if you have read any of these below or if you read any books this summer that you recommend me to try out!

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Follow @mia-studyhaus for more book magic!!!! YAYYYY!!!!!!!!