#chloroblast-master

[braham-is-bi]

@chloroblast-master replied to your post “chloroblast-master replied to your post “If your argument against...”

Buddy I Am ace (and can you like actually @ tag me next time)

chloroblast-master replied to your post “chloroblast-master replied to your post “If your argument against...”

Like 90% of what I see inclusionists saying is shit like "aces are weird and against the norm and so are all the lgbt freaks so that's why cishets belong with them)

chloroblast-master replied to your post “chloroblast-master replied to your post “If your argument against...”

But fuck right off with tagging that aphobia and not lgbtphobia or anything like that even though that's what I Was actually describing

I mean I literally tagged it aphobia cause you called ace people and all other lgbt people broken but like...go off I guess

[aceventuradiscourse]

chloroblast-master replied to your post “Am I an exclusionist or an inclusionist?  My emotions are kind of...”

I think fundamentally you're an inclusionist, you just have caveats of wanting ventura to be respectful, which is fair enough to ask of anyone.

True, but I think the issue of whether Ace Ventura belongs in the LGBT community is a complex one that can’t necessarily be defined just with ex or inclusion

[mahunkel]

chloroblast-master replied to your post: Ace and Aro Kids

Are you meaning by self hating ace, an exclusionist who is also ace?

I don’t pretend to know their innermost thoughts. I just know I just saw someone be like “Hey you posted an anti-ace thing” and their response was “yes, we’re anti-ace despite being ace” so...yeah.

Also, ace-exclusionsim is just a fancy-schmancy word for “hate”, for future reference. Ma don’t truck with people who feel otherwise.

[helianthian]

chloroblast-master reblogged your post:“that’s a…..tasteful nude of skeletor”

Any nude of skeletor is a tasteful nude of skeletor

elaborate

[rihanna-discourse]

What's,,, what's the Rihanna discourse

no i mean like im a rihanna themed discourse blog, not that there is discourse about rihanna on this blog

oh my g-d i HOPE there isnt any rihanna discourse

[actualaster]

@chloroblast-master replied to your post: the tiny moth is on the ceiling chilling nice moth...

Moths are the babies of satan and you are their co conspirator

my moth minion is still chillin with me :D

[amongie]

Your thing about he/him lesbians and she/her gay men, are you just forgetting nonbinary people exist or are you specifically trying to say that like trans people don't exist or what? Because a nonbinary afab lesbian can totally use he/him pronouns (and vice versa for amab), and if it's the transphobic thing then it's just fucked and you know why

i got chlamydia reading this

[ahp-discourse]

I’ve deleted a post that I made calling @deepseacutie a trash heap, because I now realize that I read that one specific post incorrectly.  I apologize for that one.

Thank you @chloroblast-master for point it out.

[the-ace-of-weasels]

chloroblast-master replied to your post: “chloroblast-master replied to your post:“me:  you know, the...”:

Buddy I Am ace (also sorry for not seeing this for ages, I don’t track my thing or anything and I wasn’t tagged so,,) 

 I didn’t mean to imply that anythibg was about not working parts, and tbh i dont see where I did

I don't remember exactly what the original post said or if I was responding to something in particular or if I'd misunderstood something (which I'm v. prone to doing just cause of issues with understanding things quickly), but of course any person gets to define their own relationship with sex or romance, and it's just really confusing how to link what I said to what your response is

@chloroblast-master my original post you replied to was about people, especially those on the exclusionist side, not listening when I say that desexualizing aces is an issue they need to address. it’s about how they outright deny, mock, or ignore me and others when we bring that issue up. and how some then go on to perpetuate the problem. it also linked to two recent examples of the problem.

your response of “well asexuality is about sex...” came off as either dismissive of the issue or as an excuse as to why desexualizing aces is okay. it came very close to the same kind of dismissive responses I’ve gotten when bringing up the issue before. 

it seemed like you were excusing the dismissal of the issue brought up in that post, not an agreement that it’s wrong and needs to be addressed. it’s an issue I get defensive about, because I’m tired of seeing BS, especially from the exclusionist side, about how supposedly aces are unable to truly consent or that asexuals are people who unlike normal people never grew into a sexuality and therefore can’t be sexual and all sorts of similar things. I’m tired of being told if it is an issue it’s an issue that asexuals are to blame for. I’m tired of seeing people saying things that desexualize aces getting away with it, either completely or mostly. it gets me mad sometimes, and it gets me defensive.

and I really want to say more to explain things but right now there’s offline bullshit that came up today and I’m still kind of wavering between wanting to cry and wanting to vent my frustration/anger and I don’t want to risk the fact the second could blow over into this as well.

[maghrebim]

@chloroblast-master ha respondido a tu publicación: the oldest living twink in history

I wanted to find a link to dinosaurs being gay but it’s all Christians arguing and it sucks :(

yeah xtians are like that but its ok we all know dinos are inherently gay anyway

[braham-is-bi]

chloroblast-master replied to your post “If your argument against asexuality belonging in the lgbt community in...”

Tbf most of the arguments For including all aces in the lgbt community is along the lines of claiming that aces are broken and so are all lgbt people

[mahunkel]

@chloroblast-master replied to your post “chloroblast-master replied to your post: ...”

That's part of the issue tho, is the assumption that non-sam identities are using the sam when they're not. Like heterosexual not using the sam means any exclusively opposite gender attraction, whether it's only romantic, only sexual, or both. Heterosexual when using the sam does mean just opposite gender sexual attraction, but that's not what is being meant when cishet is used. Cisgender heteromantic asexuals and cisgender aromantic heterosexuals are cishet because they Only feel opposite gender attraction

OOOOHHHH, I see what’s going on here. Okay, this is a tricky one to untie, but trust me that at the end of this knot is a single rope, just one that’s been hopelessly fucked up for you, I am assuming by others and not by your own “sittin down and thinkin” time.

So, first of all, and this is actually the most important step to unraveling this Gordian jumble: you don’t get to tell other people how to identify, or what their identities refer to.

I know, that’s a lot of power to take away from a person in one sentence, but trust me, you never had it to begin with, and you’re much better off knowing that fact. When an Ace person says “I am not heterosexual because I do not experience opposite-gender attraction”, then your place is to accept that, not question it, just like when somebody tells you their gender, name, height, or any other fact about themselves. This really is information you need in life, as you go through queer spaces and discourse, as it’s a basic tenet that’s been accepted by, well, everybody (except, it would seem, in discourse on this particular blogging site). The few-and-far-between people who don’t “agree” with this one? We call them “TERFs”, “phobes”, “self-haters”, or more usually just “assholes”, and nobody invites them to events.

Still with me? I genuinely hope so, cause that was just step one.

Secondly, any time in life, as a general rule, when you must play a game of definitions to achieve your desired outcome, you’re just prevaricating, and what you’re saying is nonsense. Again, I am giving you every benefit of the doubt. I highly doubt you came up with any of what you said on your own, chances are somebody you like who seemed authoritative said those things and other people whom you trust agreed with them, and so the formal sort of logic to it allowed you to believe it. Maybe you even feel comfortable identifying as cishet yourself, I don’t pretend to know, but such things are common amongst those who hold self-defeating ideas.

Third, let’s look at the consequences, as if this all weren’t long-settled business irl, of barring any specific queer* identity from queer spaces. Suddenly, you have intracommunity gatekeeping. This makes said spaces unsafe, not just for those being kept out, but for those being kept in as well. It allows any person to have suspicions cast upon them, for fear of being the “wrong kind” of queer. It sets the precedent that one person might have power over another within the community, when they only way it can exist is in total equality. It causes demonstrable and documented harm to those kept out, as they suddenly lack the community that was built to protect and shelter them. It lends credence to those long-discredited theories on the “validity” (or rather, the lack thereof) of other identities in the community (every single letter in the alphabet soup has had this same shit shoveled at it. I remember when it was the L. It’s still the T from a lot of places. The B is periodically buried in it. Nobody even acknowledges the I ever.). The point here is, it would be Very Bad to have as policy.

Fourth, and finally, it’s not about oppression. I know it’s hard to believe, because everybody on this site wants it to be about the specific ways in which people are oppressed, but it really has very little, if anything, to do with oppression. Our community, I mean. Queer identity is not based around the way we are treated by others. That’s looking at it all wrong. Even in a world where there were no homophobia, I would still be gay. In a world without misogyny, I would still be a woman. In a world without oppression, we would still need community, and those communities would still be based around identity, sexual, gender, and otherwise. To imagine that queerness is somehow tied up in the way the outside world treats the queer is to imagine oneself as lacking innate identity, and that just...doesn’t...work. I don’t know how to explain to you that you exist separate from others’ perceptions of you.

So there you go. I sincerely hope you now see that, rather than a mess of separate strands held together by a tangle, we’re all the same rope, winding about itself in myriad ways.

Or maybe not, I dunno, I been talkin about this for way too long now.

*I don’t know if you’re one of those “q-slur” people, but if you are, know there is no other widely-accepted term in English which adequately describes non-cisgender and/or non-heterosexual people without being exclusionary. There just isn’t (despite many valiant efforts, all of which I have been behind wholeheartedly). I get that some people prefer not to ID as queer, and that is their individual right, but the general term applies to the general population.

[alexahasaguardianangel]

@chloroblast-master tumblr doesn't let me delete tags for some reason, it glitches out a lot tbh XD

[helianthian]

chloroblast-master replied to your post: chloroblast-master someone:...

It looks like wolverine cosplaying as antman

what if i told u his body parts swapped to be different animals

[realcleverscience]

RE:OBGYN

@chloroblast-master

@realcleverscience have you never seen a childbirth? That shits stressful for everyone in a 10 mile vicinity and it can go on for literal days           

@lolashketchum

@realcleverscience rape victims, teen pregnancies, abortions, difficult pregnancies, & clients miscarrying are all things that can cause burnout in an ObGyn. Miscarriages especially are fairly common & can be devastating for couples.

@boredscinerd

Working Hours, decreasing pay, many midwifes are substituting OB?GYN's, so the call schedule is horrible. Malpractice Insurance is one of the highest and OB?GYN get sued for many things

Damn, all good points and I’m a bit ashamed that many of these didn’t immediately occur to me. Thanks!

[sqruitwart]

tagged by @spraakentusiast , thank you!! i havent done one of these in a Long While i feel

RULES: ANSWER THE FOLLOWING QUESTIONS THEN TAG OTHER PEOPLE YOU’D LIKE TO GET TO KNOW BETTER.

how tall are you? 178cm

what color are your eyes? brown with a green circle

do you wear contacts and/or glasses? contacts

do you wear braces? nope

what is your fashion style? varies? i like being casual and homey (so hoodies and sweatpants) and on other days i can dress like an edgy highschooler. other than that, ripped jeans, sneakers and a hoodie is what youll most likely see me in

when were you born? january 3rd '97

how old are you? 21

do you have any siblings? two younger demons

what are your favorite subjects? it was definitely various art classes in hs and chemistry in middle school

what are your favorite movies? the shape of water, any ghibli movie (castle in the sky and howls moving castle are on the top of the list), devil wears prada, mean girls

what are your favorite pastimes? hanging out with people!! i live with six others and work a lot + i am depression so i dont get to do a lot of fun things nor do i have the space but i Love hanging with my friends and also exercising!!! id love to help animals and take care of plants and paint a whole lot more

do you have any regrets? not really. sure theres stuff id do differently but i think im where i want to be

what is your dream job? ohhhh writer!!! and having a small farm along with that, maybe even tourism (i have a lot of fun hosting people and cooking)

would you like to get married? hhhhhh yea put that ring on me make me yrs

do you want kids? how many? idk!!!

how many countries have you visited? bosnia, greece, macedonia, germany, ireland, norway, sweden, austria uhhh montenegro? wanna do the czech republic and the netherlands next

what was your scariest dream? i really dont recall

do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend/significant other? yea!!! im in love with my boyfriend

put your playlist on shuffle and without skipping list the first 15 songs 🎶

1. thousand eyes - monsters and men

2. punk ass bitch - wheatus

3. i will survive - jazz version, postmodern jukebox

4. dancing in circles - lady gaga (its the boots masturbation song..)

5. business man - mother mother

6. still - daughter

7. mamma mia - ABBA

8. tvilling - kaizers orchestra

9. rut - the killers

10. the state of dreaming - marina and the diamonds

11. lemonade - wheatus

12. move your body - sia

13. bulleproof - la roux

14. ich brech aus - tokio hotel

15. funky at heart - studio killers

i tag @kinokochouchou @kvetchling (gotta do it my love) @the-onion-slut @twinksonic @antipronela @chloroblast-master