#catholic sexuality

[puppyeared]

renaissance dogys

characters belong to @canisalbus

[stagefoureddiediaz]

The Helena diaz of it all has me fascinated. I’ve said for a long while that Eddie’s real issues are his mommy issues and this episode just cemented for me that we’re gonna explore that and deal with it.

Because it’s Helena who forced Eddie to grow up to fast - because her husband wasn’t around much - so she pushed Eddie into de facto parent and husband role ls - selfishly filling her needs and ignoring the damage it was doing to her son (it is a form of abuse in my book).

Eddie then had the audacity to fall in love with and marry Shannon and get her pregnant. It’s why Helena was always so off with Shannon - she was punishing her. She is also punishing Eddie for all of this and his refusal to return to El Paso only cemented further her bitterness and resentment.

Now she does have Ramon back she doesn’t need Eddie any longer to fill that role so she is still punishing him and part of that is tied into her glee over now getting to parent Christopher - something she has always been intent on doing the doppelgänger just gave her the opportunity- as well as allowing her to further punish her son and his love of Shannon.

Her barbed comments about building a pool were all about showing what she can provide Christopher - how she is parenting him better than Eddie - it’s part of her mind games - making Eddie feel like more of a failure as a parent to his son.

The reality of course is that the reverse is true - Helena’s parenting is all superficial, flash and showy - it isn’t the hard day to day parenting when things get tough and you have to be the bad guy. While Eddie has made mistakes, there is nothing superficial, flash, or showy about his parenting. It’s why bucks comments about Eddie being a great dad are so important.

Eddie feel like a failure right now and that he is entirely to blame for everything. But in reality, while he does bear a bit of the responsibility, the truth of the matter is that he needs to learn and deal with the fact that all of it actually stems from Helena and her abuse of her young son - Shannon never stood a chance just like Eddie never has.

[thefabelmans2022]

i've been thinking about this all day so here's my thoughts on @sillylotrpolls 's "which member of the fellowship fucks":

frodo: too busy Brooding and perhaps even Yearning. maybe once or twice in his youth but to me just doesn't seem like the type of person to have casual sex.

sam: also too busy Yearning, but also just doesn't seem the type. he has a job, he's busy, he's in love with his boss AND the girl at the pub, it's a whole thing.

pippin: for all intents and purposes is like. 17. so again maybe once or twice but in very awkward, fumbling ways that made everyone involved think "wait, did that count?"

merry: fucks severely. confident, kind, intelligent, always there to lend a helping hand (😏). of course he pulls hobbits of all genders constantly. the only potential wrench in the works is the fact that he at the very least is already acquainted with his future wife, so maybe they've got something going on in which case he is probably not out romancing other hobbits.

gandalf: be so serious. who is he fucking? hobbits? saruman? shame those big naturals are going to waste but he does not fuck.

boromir: next after merry, imo. has been around, fighting battles and in taverns and such, and is prone to temptation so has definitely fucked at some point, probably multiple times. however he does hate himself for it.

aragorn: lives in the woods singing about his one true elven love. no way.

legolas: is not married, and therefore has not had sex. elf marriage is the one time tolkien wrote about sex and you're all ignoring it.

gimli: sure. why not? gimli fucks. good for him.

[orriculum]

sorry to inform yall im still on my bullshit. new book soon.

[catholicsapphic]

I know I’m posting about the issue two days late, but I do have two (2) serious thoughts about this honestly ridiculous situation. One of them is that my heart truly goes out for actual gay people inside seminars. It’s funny to us, but I can’t imagine how they feel right now.

These are people who have faith, not only in God but in the institution of the Church. These are people who truly trust it and want to take part in helping strengthen and spread the catholic faith. Maybe they’re even people who have found solace in side-b beliefs, who decided that their gayness was a calling to abstinence and priesthood.

How betrayed and desolate they must feel now. What a bucket of cold water to the head to realize you can change yourself however you want, dedicate your whole life to Christ, to the Church, and they still won’t see you any differently.

You cannot try to be ‘one of the good queers’. There is no such a thing to them

[sforzesco]

the personal drama involved in a late republic trial is a delight

this is a very unserious comic talking around All Of That involving Lucullus and Clodius, but what also happened was I was almost done lettering the first chapter of Trikaranos when I realized the font I was using didn’t have a crossbar I, so this was one of. several. font tests I did over the past week trying to find a new one that I wanted to use lmao

Lucullus, A Life, Arthur Keaveney

bsky ⭐ pixiv ⭐ pillowfort ⭐ cohost

[lesbianchemicalplant]

I love how many communists (and I mean organized communists not just people online) are socially conservative on the family, gay people, trans people, sex and sexuality, abortion, etc. I hope you die I hope we both die

[the-trans-advice-blog]

Sex is not evil

Sex is not dirty

Sex is not shameful

Sex is not disgusting

Sex does not have to be talked about in secret

Anyone who wants to should be able to love sex outwardly without being criticized

Everyone should have sex education even if they aren’t having it, it’s still important to know.

No one should have to feel ashamed about their body or their sexuality, ever.

Talk about sex and don’t feel bad about it!!

[orriculum]

meet shawn and elise, about to ruin someone else's wedding.

(pre-order MATED TO MY EX)

[lets-all-calm-down-a-bit]

Guys... infighting is never the answer. Guys are you listening? Infighting is what our oppressors want. No fuck- don't go after the lesboys and the neopronoun users and the bi women who have boyfriends- fuck no guys no- you're letting them divide and conquer! Guys PLEASE!!

[wooyoungbites]

all jokes aside though, if you feel the need to make a call out google doc about people for sexual comments they made in a PRIVATE 18+ SERVER MADE SPECIFICALLY FOR SAID SEXUAL COMMENTS (not even on their public blog!!!), perhaps you should sit with yourself and consider if you really were trying to shield your precious idols (adult men), or if you just wanted to feel superior. just something to chew on.

[possamble]

Its so funny to see the devastating little creature update and then immediately after that seeing a classic possamble horny farcille WIP. You're the best dude 😂

All of my work is just "Putting Marcille in agony" and there's a dial that swings between "emotionally" and "sexually" depending on the hour

[rottengurlz]

Noelle Andrews (She/Her) ★

She grew up with both her parents in her life, but they were extremely strict and catholic. They controlled every aspect of her life even to what she wore, she wasn’t allowed to wear skirts or dresses. She was only allowed to wear pants or shirts that were “modest”. She still talks to her parents regularly and they call multiple times a day to check up on her, especially since she’s moved out now. 

She’s a closeted lesbian but absolutely no one knows that in her life besides Avery 

One of the first thing she did when she moved out was buy a crop top it was her first act of “rebellion” 

She considers herself agnostic but still pretends around her family and goes to church with her parents every Sunday

She’s trying to convince Avery to be roommates in her apartment together

Her parents are very wealthy and insisted on trying to pay her rent for her, but she refused because she knows it’s just another way, they can control her and her life

She loves to bake her own bread and will make extra loaves to give to her coworkers

She loves baking in general but still hasn’t perfected macarons yet

She dealt with acne A LOT as a teenager but now has her skincare routine perfected. She is constantly trying to introduce Avery to serums but Avery tells her it’s a scam

When she moved out is when he she got her very first job at the bar, she’s currently working at. It absolutely terrified her but she is constantly trying to push herself out of her comfort zone since she’s no longer living under her parent's thumb (as much anyways) and has the ability to actually do things she never could before

She lied and told her parents she’s working as a receptionist somewhere (the vaguer the better) 

She smells like honey and soap 

Her favorite color is burnt orange and pastel pink

She absolutely loves horror movies the first one she ever saw was when she moved out which was the original Friday The 13th

She’s 5’7

She has 2 younger sisters named Dani and Florence

She broke her nose playing volleyball in highschool and it’s permanently crooked now

[slutdge]

dad bod appreciation post

[badolmen]

People love ragging on Catholics on this site (fast free and easy like river water socks) but I think it’s extra funny y’all seem to think Catholics are some sort of sex prudes. Like, if a Catholic man does not give his wife an orgasm he is failing his sworn duties as a husband. I did not endure polite insinuations that my parents fucked often and well to have as many kids as they have for you to act like any self respecting Catholic is a celibate virgin. Laypeople have sex in this denomination Kaitleign. What are we, Calvinists? Jansenism is soooo 17th century Protestant Reformation-informed heresy.