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there's a video on instagram of a man kicking his partner's door in. the top comment is (with over 4 thousand likes): "how about you tell us what you did to make him that angry?"
barring emergency, nobody should be kicking anybody's door in. many of us lived in houses where it was always, somehow, an emergency. there is a strange, almost hysterical calm that comes over you in that moment - everything feels muted, and you almost feel, however incongruently, like you should be laughing. you are living inside of "the emergency." oh my god, you think. i am now a fucking statistic.
there is another comment with 2.8 thousand likes: "if this was a woman doing it to a man, nobody would give a shit."
do people give a shit now, though?
barring emergency, the door should remain standing. the emergency should be panicked, desperate - "i'm coming in there to protect you." many of us know what it feels like when the emergency is instead "i'm coming in there to get you."
1.5k likes: "and yet you post this for notes. glad to see being the victim has become your whole personality."
hysteria is a word connected to womb, from greek. what you're experiencing is so senseless and inhumane that you (a rational creature) try to find any ground within what is irrational and cannot be explained. one of the most frustrating things about staying in bad situations is that we also lie to ourselves. we also ask ourselves - wow. what did i do?
women can be, and often are, also abusers. abuse is not gendered. abuse is not just a "straight person" problem. abuse does not have a face or figure or sexuality. you cannot pick an abuser out of a crowd. an abuser could be actually anybody.
and then so many people rally behind the man kicking the door in. here is something nobody should be doing, right? you want to ask every person that liked that first comment: do you ask this because you side with him? do you ask this because it helps you feel safe from this ever happening?
in some ways, you're weirdly sympathetic to the top comment, because it is the same logic you see frequently. the idea is that the average, normal, sane person doesn't just break down a door. doesn't just shoot up a school. doesn't stalk and kill women. doesn't threaten sexual assault. doesn't run over protesters. doesn't shoot an unarmed black person. doesn't scream at underpaid walmart employees. doesn't just "lose it". something had to have happened, right? because the default (white. straight. cis.) - that is someone who is always, you know. "sane."
(right?)
on a podcast, you hear a sane, normal, rational person. "if you piss me off, i'm going to need to hit something. sorry but i'm not apologizing. that's just who i am that's how it is." his voice almost sounds like he's laughing.
you think of the door, and how you were almost laughing behind it, too. ironically, every real emergency in your life has almost felt peaceful in comparison. fire, car accident, flash flooding - these felt quiet, covenant to you. you'd stood in all of them, feeling them pass over and up to your chin, never actually overwhelming.
but when the door was coming down, you had felt - is there a word for that? there has to be, a word, right.
surely one of us has figured out the word for that, i mean. it's such a large fucking statistic.
#spilled ink#writeblr#warm up#this is so disorganized#i just saw that video and the comments made me want to vomit#it's actually like. in the way it's funny that you got into a car crash and got the flu within the same 24 hours#it's like.#it's funny#because certain people will blame everything on mental illness#even being transgender.#they will not#however#at any point - even vaguely suggest that a man should maybe get therapy.#like. a guy busting down a door isn't a danger-to-himself-and-others#(you just pushed him too far).#but a young adult looking for top surgery should be institutionalized for even wanting to change their body.
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#guys i cant believe this is real this is everything ive ever wanted#WILLE ABDICATION??? WILMON ENDGAME??? wille is free he's free they're both free#look at simon's face oh my GOD#ive never seen him this happy euphoric and liberated#that's CINEMA!#i have so many things to say about this ending#“are you sure you're over me” “what the hell do you think”#when wille says “can you open the door?” as he leaves the car and leaves the cage that is the monarchy#the door is open!!!! there is sunshine on his skin!!!! he is free oh my god#i know i havent been making gifs im sorry i promise they are coming#good god that is Television to me#young royals#yr season 3#yr s3 spoilers#young royals s3#young royals season 3#wilmon#prince wilhelm#simon eriksson#omar rudberg#edvin ryding#wilhelm x simon#wille x simon
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*dusting off another drawing found in my old folders* Oh waw early 2020 connverse. And I drew in 97 dpi RIP
#I remember redrawing the first one but I couldn't remember if I ever posted these outside Facebook.#Man I drew Steven a lil weird lol#I don't think I can draw in this drawing style anymore. 🤔 I switched from android phone+finger to a laptop+drawing tab and my style shifted#I was so sure there was a different one where Steven is running towards Connie with open arms as she was just closing the door of her#dad's car#connverse#Connie Maheswaran#steven quartz universe#steven universe#my shiz#old drawing#OH RIGHT! I DID post the first image! It's just the second one that wasn't posted outside FB.#The one where Steven is running to Connie disappeared completely tho#SU#Guys. I am having flashbacks to when the people in the SU FB group I'm in were getting more and more agitated the more SUf episo#des came out without Connie. 😭#Now that I think about it. I might have drawn this in late 2019 after the movie went out.
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reflection
#*drives a car thru the convenience store doors* hi guys#i wanted to draw his new fit without actually drawing the fit. do u see my vision. do u get it#i think its rly interesting to see how different lilia is in the past vs rn...its so inch resting to think abt how he must feel#how he must look at his past. im sure lilias the type to continue forward and take pride in the growth but WOW he was so staunchly dif#lilia “world peace” vanrouge vs lilia “fuck humans they suck” vanrouge#twst#twisted wonderland#lilia vanrouge#suntails#i want him. i dont care which. i want him
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i saw a tiktok about how men usually get their first flowers at their funerals and… it made me think…
imagine its race day, lightnings on the track, sallys in the pits, and she just. randomly gets the idea to get him flowers. its sudden, an abrupt urge to just go get them Right Then, so she tells the crew she’ll be right back and slips out of the pit and infield, and finds the nearest flower shop.
lightning likes flowers because she does, he’ll listen to any of her botany rambles any day, even if they dont make much sense - but hes gotten her flowers hundreds of times and shes never returned the favour. she picks the ones with the most meaning, the ones that mean i love you in every way no matter what, the ones that remind her of him. when shes successfully created a bouquet of flowers that is him in any way you can think, she buys a card. and she writes him a love letter. she names every flower she put in the bouquet and what they mean. and she tells him how much she loves and adores him, and how she’ll always love him more than anything. she adds a couple cheesy compliments in there too, seals it up, and makes it back to the track just in time to watch him take the checkered flag; he wins the race.
they meet in victory lane, and she hands him the flowers first (keeping the note safely in her bag until she can give it to him when its quieter) and. just imagine him standing on top of his car, hands thrown in up in the air in celebration, with the flowers clutched in one hand and the bottle of champagne in the other and and. god i love them
she gives him the card later that night when everythings quieted down — docs outside the motorhome drinking a beer with strip, and the crew is working on the car and getting the garage cleaned up — so its just them. with the flowers safely in a cup on the kitchen counter, she pulls it out of her bag, hands it to him, and gently prods for him to read it then.
hes not the emotional type, its been drilled into his head by a couple different people that hes not really supposed to cry, but its a great improvement when he tears up a little bit while reading it. she cant help but smile because god. isnt she lucky?
when he finishes reading it, he wipes his eyes with the back of his hands and ushers for her to come closer and they end up cuddling on the couch (doc finds them about an hour later, curled up together, sound asleep. he throws a blanket over them and leaves them be)
#cars 2006#cars fandom#lightning mcqueen#pixar cars#cars headcanons#memory’s headcanons#doc hudson#sally carrera#salqueen#salqueen save me…#save me salqueen…..#like can they get any cuter guys??????#i think it becomes a little routine for her to buy him flowers on occasion#he never expects it because she picks random days#especially in the off season#she’ll randomly show up and docs door one day with a bouquet of flowers like hey is stickers here :3#and hes like yeah im sure hes around here somewhere
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As is tradition on my blog, Torra must carry someone like a precious little cub and unfortunately, that someone was Nigel.
Help him
#torras art#codename kids next door#knd#torra oc#nigel uno#numbuh one#with a wally cameo lol#I quite like doing sketches like this (grey bg white fill) I think I will keep it#I can't be in a fandom without my weird fursona carrying her favorite little guys like a sack of rice#or shoe-horning her into the story in general lmao#bc it's just fun to think 'but what if there was a giant 8ft sentient tiger that could talk to everyone'#though seeing how I passed an episode with sharks driving a car somehow I feel like she's not too far out of place
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happy valentine's day! 🧸💐👩❤️💋👩
#i closed my finger in my car door this morning how are u guys doing#l&o#luna#ona batlle#lucy bronze#fcb femení#holi
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so high school is shuake actually because of the fact that goro never had the chance to just to be a normal hs student with a frivolous classroom romance so when he’s with akira he finally feels like he’s getting some of that stolen youth returned to him
#GUYS !!!#weugh ill sob#‘get my car door isn’t that sweet?/then pull me to the backseat/no one’s ever had me not like you’#finally being at a state where he can have true peace and overwhelming sweetness + domesticity with someone OH !!!#sorry for being emo about shuake it will happen again#shuake#persona 5#so high school
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Spinner: Sako-san, I have bad news.
Sako: There is no good news or bad news, only news.
Spinner: Dabi got arrested.
Sako: …that is bad news.
#proud to say i now know that this quote is from kung fu panda as opposed to the two years ago when i wrote it down#sako: ...if you do not believe that he's already broken out and is on his way back#dabi (opening the door): hey guys whatd i miss#spinner: ...where are the police cars#dabi: highway to hell baby anyway lets play hades#bnha spinner#shuichi iguchi#mr compress#sako atsuhiro#dabi
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getting into a car accident while listening to it gets worse by msi was NOT on my 2024 bingo card. oh the irony.
#shitpost#irl stories#i’m ok#car got hit on drivers side so everything on that side in front of the door got damaged#mirror is broken#me and another guy got into the same lane at the same time turning#msi#mindless self indulgence#car accident#minor car accident#it gets worse by msi
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I've been thinking a lot about aki who would do anything to protect you. aki who stands in front of you at the smallest sign of trouble, who sticks his arm out in front of you just on instinct. who will hold you close and shield you with his own body so you won't get hurt, covering your eyes with his palm so you don't see anything scary.
#aki who walks you to your door every time he drops you off......#the kind of man who walks with you on the inside part of the sidewalk#very side tangent but#whenever a guy drops me off at my house and then speeds off in their car without checking to see if I got inside#I get genuinely annoyed lol#YOU KNOW WHO WOULD NEVER DO THAT. AKI
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praying for my neighbors to either die or stop slamming their car doors~
#they've banged every door on that motherfucker at least ten times in the last hour and it's driving our stupid dog nuts#she won't shut the hell up#and i get that it's not their fault the dumbest dog in america is in my house but why on EARTH do you feel the need to play musical car doo#every single blooming day?! i mean seriously!!! what the fuck#also hi guys. my ear is burning.#(has red ear syndrome like a freak TwT kyaaaa)#ahem#back to working : )#diaerie
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i just got the nicest chair ever from the street i'm so happy 🤩🤩
#dw guys i live in an old ppl neighborhood and i actually rang the doorbell (so scary) partially to make sure the chair was good to take#and partially bc i wanted to see what kinda household it was (and how clean they are) and apart from a few dog hairs (he was very cute)#it's completely spotless#i shit my pants though bc ringing the doorbell was already so scary i need like 5 mins to even bring up the courage but then i declined when#the woman offered to help me with it the first time and then it didn't fit in my car by a millimeter so i had to ring AGAIN#bc she had a huge ass car in the driveway and luckily she drove the chair to my front door 💖💖💖#but she was so nice like women support women realness right there#but ringing a second time was so embarrassing i said sorry like 294829 times and thank you another 29372948 times#anyway when i finally got the chair in my apartment i also noticed that i don't really have the space for it so 🤡#yeah#i also saw the chair on my way back from work (on my bicycle) then went to get my car and failed the get the chair in and then drove back#with the woman and the chair in her car 🤡🤡🤡#most embarrassing thing i did this week#gonna have to figure out how to solve my space problem tho#i also have to clean the chair bc the thought of getting bed bugs or smth is too scary i need it CLEAN#000
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She's a star
I had to drop my car off for repairs and my town has an average public transportation system for the US (i.e. practically nonexistent and only there so no one tries to start one) so I figured I'd walk back and take Nova with me. We passed through several different urban environments from industrial areas with no sidewalks, to shopping centers, to parks, to residential areas, to empty lots, etc. She handles it all so well. She kept a heel when I asked her to, she ran around on her long line when freed in a field, she was the perfect picture of attention when asked to sit while I was debating when to cross busy roads, and she didn't even complain when we had to walk through a flooded sidewalk.
I know puppies are adaptable, but it still impresses me how far this dog has come from the puppy that had never lived in a house and tried to flee every time she heard a noise.
#for those that don't follow main: a guy merged into me on Halloween#everyone was fine & both cars were drivable#but dents; scratches; and my door makes a horrible noise every time I open it#I passed 1 bus stop and 0 busses btw#I speak#my critters
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I have nothing against Sasuke, but even his biggest simp cant deny how funny it was when Sakura was watching his fight with Lee like "Sasuke will be able to use his sharingon to see through this guys jutsu. He's such a genius there is no possible way he can lose" and then it immediately cut to Lee kicking Sasuke in the face. My man deserves to win just for that. That and the fact that the first time Gaara had experperienced physical pain was because a kid with a jump suit and a silly outfit showed up and said fuck your magic sand and beat his ass. Iconic. He lived in a world full of people with insane super powers and said "but can your magic eyes stop my fists?" King shit.
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#sorry i missed posting propaganda in time 😭#gonna post it all now#but to be fair ☝️ i did tell you guys i would not be hovering this blog anymore#asks#man-door-hand-hook-car-doorsblog#propaganda
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I have a distress tolerance level of -12/100 rn and am about 0.5 seconds from engaging in incredible violence against people who cause me even the slightest irritation but I just got a finish this fucking sandwich and hope that eating something makes things better
#anecdotes by peachdoxie#just about rammed my car into the car of a guy who left the door open while he was doing fuck knows what in the lot#and was BLARING music with heavy bass#fuckhead asshole dickhead asswipe with zero consideration for other people fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you fu
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