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Was forced to watch a truly incredible (derogatory) thing recently.
A young person on twitter, adamant that transandrophobia doesn't exist on the grounds that 'no one is killing/raping/assaulting trans men'.
Several people responded, including some linking articles about murders and assaults on trans men and a couple op-ed style pieces of trans men talking about their own experiences.
Said young person responded with "I'm not reading those its triggering and I'm a minor"
So let me see if I've got this correct, you are knowingly refuse to acknowledge reality because it's upsetting to you and then you're going to turn around and deny that very reality because you refuse to acknowledge it because it's upsetting?
#like I'm sorry but willful ignorance is not a winning argument?#transandrophobia#its things like this that really have me convinced that we're never actually going to fix this shit#i was talking to the woman who runs the lgbt center i was going to#shes been running it in some capacity for about 30 years now#and she was saying that ever since they reopened after covid they have a problem getting people to keep coming#and its mostly because young people will come a few times and then something makes them uncomfortable and they never come back#but the things that make them uncomfortable are things like 'a homeless kid came to get a shower and a meal'#or 'the donated instruments in the music room arent good enough quality and they dont want to use poor people instruments'#those are both real examples btw#i hate to be the one to say it#but you cannot form community if you refuse to be uncomfortable sometimes#op
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Gai saw a man burn alive and longed to be engulfed in the same flames. His idea of heroism was tainted from the start, a sacrifice of self to power, so much power you die. Anything less is not good enough. He has never valued his life as anything other than his status and name. He wanted nothing more than to burn after he released the 8th gate. He was kept alive as punishment for his ego, Maito Gai needed to learn how to live life as a human being.
#maito gai#might guy#I see a lot of people shame kishi for not killing him#like that’s cowardice#or disrespectful to gai#it is disrespectful to what gai wants that’s true#but what gai wanted was a reflection of everything wrong with him#the man that cried seeing what he did to Lee in the Chunin exams#before immediately letting him risk his life to be put back in an arena#gai learned no lessons in his life#he perverted the idea of power from the start#he only saw what self destruction looked like when it seeped out onto Lee#and that was not enough#because he is consumed by ego#and life refused him a hero’s end#gai cannot win. it would be a disgrace to his character. all we have seen him do is win until this point
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in light of recent discourse
#doctor who#you cannot perfectly map real life politics onto doctor who#yes the optics of this episode are flawed#yes unit has serious issues#but like#this isnt real life#and because it isnt real life we know that unit are the 'good guys' more or less#within the world of doctor who think tank ARE wrong and ARE putting people in danger and DO need shutting down#and seeing unit#the FICTIONAL ORGANISATION which has no proper real world comparison because aliens arent real#as the bad guys here is massively overly simplistic#i do think the messaging is messy#and tbh this episode should have been different if rtd and mctighe wanted to criticise disinfo campaigns like this#but i will defend unit because they have characters i like and they protect the earth and most importantly theyre NOT REAL#and cannot be a complete parallel to any real world org because aliens are also NOT REAL (or at least not on earth)#i think it relates to a fundamental problem in the fandom#where people see the doctor and kate and the brigadier as Bad because they can be morally grey#like no actually people who mean well dont suddenly become bad and awful and unlikeable when they arent perfect#its nuance its always nuance the lack of nuance is killing fandoms and leftism in general#and its killing me that its happening!#we cannot win if we refuse to see beyond a simple binary good and evil#im digressing but god the discourse on this is hitting all the right notes to drive me mad#ive blocked so many people and im not sorry#yeah anyway tldr i will block you for defending space info wars. grow a brain
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today my professor was talking about gender and the way kids are raised in society and he brought up kingdom hearts as an example of an unusual piece of media for its time that was seemingly meant to be appealing to both boys & girls and to both adults & kids (presumably cuz like it’s got the anime stuff and the disney stuff and you go through all sorts of different genres and it’s both whimsical and serious) i was like totally zoning out but i snapped awake when he mentioned that lol
#i genuinely cannot stand this man but he wins a few points for that#peach rambles#i was like KINGDOM HEARTS MENTIONED💪💥👀😳😫💪💥💪💥💥💥💯#also had to hold myself back from trying to correct or clarify things he wasn’t quite right on#wasn’t about to put myself as a fan in front of my peers#also like i said i cannot stand that dude i refuse to participate in class unless necessary#kingdom hearts
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the real reason we need playable daigo is so that we finally get daigo karaoke. i NEED daigo karaoke so badly you dont you literally Dont understand
#that being said as long as they refuse to give it to us i can continue to envision him as Guy Who Cannot Hold A Tune For The Life Of Him#^and in this project more of my sufferings onto the man. so i guess we win something regardless
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I think what frustrates me about Natalie's statement is the sheer cynicism of it. She, of course, is entitled to feel cynical and doomed about the political situation and circumstances she exists under, but I feel like that's actively clouding her judgment.
Just because a cause may seem doomed does not mean we do nothing against it. We know that protests only do so much, but they do more than nothing, and far more than the harm she posits they impose. Speaking up and noting that genocide is wrong, and that it is wrong to support those wishing to perpetuate it, is important. Will that alone shift the stances of the United States government? Of course not. But in her cynicism she fails to see that people caring is one of the steps towards shifting that stance.
I, like her, am tired of moral victories and would like actual victories - like the one we got in Zohran winning the primary. But that does not mean we need to discredit the work being done to try and do something to make the world we live in better even if it's through mechanisms that she doesn't like. Even if it only helps one person at a time.
#contrapoints#I think it's also disingenuous to say that Gaza was the sole focus of the left leading up to the US election in 2024#it was one of the focuses yes. but the main one was really that Biden was too old.#and that Kamala did nothing to distance herself from Biden in any of her policies#and that it was her proximity to him and her failure to run a strong campaign that was the nail in the coffin#not to mention her inherent disadvantage at coming in so late#I personally voted for Harris because I knew what would happen to this country if she didn't win.#and my vote mattered in a swing state#but I don't feel like i personally can blame people for not voting when that is the default state of the American public#and while i in general I'm weary of gofundmes that I don't know the origin of#I know people on here did support them and that funds did make it to Palestinians.#and that people on here and on other places on the internet have also shown support through sending esims or through donations#or hell through the daily click#are any of those actions going to meaningfully change the political situation between Palestine and Israel? no.#but it will meaningfully change the lives of at least one person#and we cannot let cynicism get in the way of that#thats my two cents. I haven't watched Natalie in over 3 years of this point. and part of that is because of the cynicism#I refuse to give up hope
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if you as a fic reader ever become possessed by the urge to do a popularity bracket with the fics other people wrote and shared for fun and for free, consider:
don't ❤️
#just!!!! make a rec list!!!!!!!!!#popularity contests do nothing but drive writers out of fandoms by pitting people against their friends#and invariably result in people being assholes in the comments as if the people who wrote the fic can't see it#like ''oh clearly fic x is better than fic y''#or ''why is fic c even in this poll?''#nobody gains anything by you doing a bracket to see which fic is the ''most popular''#a stat which could be found more easily & less cruelly by simply hitting the sort by bookmarks/kudos button on ao3#anyway ugh. i saw that one of my fics was being pitted against one of my friend's fics in this bracket that's going around#and i have no idea who is ''winning'' because i refuse to look. but either way it's gonna feel bad!!!#because i want my friend to get his flowers so i want him to win!!! but i also would like to know that people like my fic!!!!#so it's just a lose/lose situation even though i generally don't give a shit about numbers#but this turns it into a schoolyard popularity thing#and the emotional response to having people *vote* on if your work is *better or worse* than other fic is hard to ignore#cannot reiterate enough JUST MAKE A REC LIST#or if you absolutely must do a bracket like this do it in a private chat server or something#don't create a public forum for people to pass value judgements where the authors can see it#and feel bad if they get told their fic is ''worse'' than someone elses#but also feel bad if they get told theirs is ''better'' because it came at the cost of telling another author they weren't good enough#ANYWAY i still feel sick with a super sore throat and a headache & am probably extra cranky because of it#(still testing negative thankfully so it's probably just weather/allergen related)#gonna go make some tea and prep the fic updates i want to post today#cass says things#fandom problems#wank adjacent
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Aghhh i wanna watch the series I want but I keep getting distracted for no reason!!! I'm literally having to force myself to not pause the show to like. Walk around my room for no reason. Someone get me out of here!!!!
#someone get me to a fucking neurologist STAT#this CANNOT be something normal people struggle with. i REFUSE to believe it#also I ended up pausing the show to write this anyway!! i cant win!!!
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If I let them win I won't be able to give you my love anymore. And I don't want that.
#j talks#i refuse to let them win. they cannot make me admit defeat.#i want to feel proud this pride.#i want to love. with my whole heart.#it is hard feeling like a bird in a cage.#it is scary knowing that the future feels grim.#but i refuse to let them win.
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Don’t get me wrong I dislike how Mercedes manages their drivers and think Toto sucks. Like the upper management of the team is terrible, and I am not ignoring the strategic blunders that they have made over the years. Also I do know why people are upset with the outcome of the race. But seeing as how in the last 5 races Lewis has been on the podium 4 times, and at the beginning of the season Mercedes were in the trenches with low point scoring finishes, I’m happy about the progress that they have made. Because it benefits Lewis first and foremost. Now I will not be surprised if he puts himself first and foremost and doesn’t relent with strategies. As in, he’s gonna be calling his own shots instead of just listening to the pitfall.
#f1#formula 1#lewis hamilton#belgian gp 2024#I am a Lewis fan first and everything else comes second#I’m thinking about the wins and podiums for the future because we cannot change what has just happened#and I refuse to let f1 ruin my mood in any circumstance
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so like is casual gallifreyan wear also massive robes or are those just for special occasions
#cannot tell u how much i am captivated by the idea of casual clothing on gallifrey#all the doctor does is wear earth style stuff. i Refuse to believe they have blue jeans on gallifrey. what are they wearing over there#i mean they’re touch telepaths right so culturally would that lead to more restrictive clothing being the norm or less because you’re either#expected to have strong enough telepathic defenses to not mess people up with a handshake (a la star trek vulcans) or maybe more something#more surveillance state. ‘why are you all dressed up so much what do you have to hide’#i mean the robes and the doctor’s predilection for layers and coats suggests the former#but do we really trust the doctor to reflect cultural norms. little freak of a man.#maybe wearing that much clothing is the gallifreyan equivalent of being a slut. i mean why would you be covering up so much skin if you#didnt have some thoughts to hide from people’s casual touch right.#slutty doctor wins again….#but seriously though give me the casual gallifrey robes i want to see them
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Reminder to all my American mutuals that if shit goes south I will help you in any way I can. ANY way I can. I will live my life unerringly on the right side of history if it fucking kills me.
Don't give in to despair, and don't just roll over and accept it if they tell you to die. Fight for your lives. Don't just hand them the win, after all you've fought through. Please.
#inspired by an earlier convo with a certain someone. applies to many others as well.#especially if it's to prevent your death or preserve your freedom I will fight tooth and nail for you. never hesitate to ask for anything.#be strong. hold on. these men sit atop very rickety unstable thrones#they cannot win if enough good people refuse to give in and instead say “no”#please. if it comes down to it. live out of spite. don't make their jobs easy for them. rage against the dying of the light.#I love you all
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@childoflegend replied: NO because when Shinoa was like “lol I can body you” to Shi I was like ?????? HE’S ONE OF THE STRONGEST ANGELS IN CREATION, wdym this 16 year old girl can defeat him just cuz she was one of his experiments 😭
NO SERIOUSLY-! like you mean to tell me the FIRST PROGENITOR. GODS FAVORED ANGEL. LITERALLY LUCIFER IN ALL BUT NAME- is losing to this???? they don't give us a reason for Shinoa being as strong as she is other than 'experiments' like how the fuck?? and why the hell would shi make a girl strong enough to repel HIMSELF- mUCH LESS HOW???? and legit he has not had a single victory since he first tried to take yu and mika and the manga expects us to still think of him as a threat????? how??? what happened to my sassy and teasing first progenitor that blew everyones shit when he first appeared and was named???
#and what the hell is with him constantly being drawn in only the greek robes now???#even in the furthest flashback????? like. WH Y???? a#and you cannot tell me his actual name is fucking SIKA MADU#like. WHA T???? WHAT ANGEL FIRST OF ALL AS A LAST NAME#AND SECOND WOULD HAVE A JAPANESE ONE???#the manga is a coward for not taking their christian themes and rolling with it#they literally have made shi lucifer but refuse to give him the name#OR MAYBE THEY SHOULDVE STUCK WITH HIM BEING THE FALLEN ANGEL OF MICHAEL AND MAKE A STORY ABOUT THAT#he's just not threatening anymore because the manga never gives him a chance to win nor to show why he is strong#he is constantly getting beaten down and its stupid#they ruined his and crowley's character and these are legit both of my babies#like i have so much work into them and this is how the manga treats them??#nah#naaaahhh i am captain now#manga is mine now i control the canon
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lacey.
#i am so tired.#i cannot beat the alcremie galarian slowbro combination#i can’t do it#this is absolutely busted and they’re countering everything i have and living every hit#but i refuse to use my overleveled mons#i can win with this team i can find a way#the sv dlc experience#sv dlc spoilers#i guess
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i recommend. Personally. watching international court cases and being in a removed part of your brain fucking terrified and horrified while you try and remain focused on the facts in the front of your mind so that you can know what the fuck is going on. and then letting that stew to make a list of things you find suspicious or dubious. also recommend then watching a bunch of philosophy all night and going hm fair point and well no i don't think that's true. and then doing the writing three pages thing your good friend suggested to you. and knowing your own naivete intimately. and then i recommend grabbing the a3 newsprint block so that you may make some inconsequential art. which inevitably will help you think. and then i recommend writing again to find out what you think. happy monday guys
#i hope this doesnt sound flippant i truly mean this in the most sincere way possible. i think if we refuse to think or observe we cannot get#the justice sorely needed. and also someone mentioned that they think sa's case is a part of the anc (governing sa party) trying to win back#their credibility as arbiters of justice after being in power for thirty years without delivering on various promises. WILDLY CYNICAL!! but#i don't think that it is unlikely that at least some in the anc are swayed into support of palestine by that logic. election this year#they have to restore an image of their core and founding values somehow. still though i do think those in the legal team at least and probab#ly many outside of it genuinely believe in this cause. and i think that's very important obviously#but ultimately i do think this idea is so cynical as to be functionally useless. did you all see that court footage though. jesus christ#all we can hope is for this to delegitimise israel's stance on the world stage and bring forth the truth. even if they don't achieve their#aims i think this can only be a step in the right e#direction. so. that's good.
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i love lewis more than merc ever could btw
#just in case you needed to know !#i have more love in my heart for that man than his entire team ever could have#i still have the race recorded but i truly cannot bear to watch it bc i can’t see that podium i don’t wanna see lewis celebrating alone#i will end up burning brackley down if i do#like i’m sorry george crashed and i’m glad he’s okay but if lewis was third and crashed out and george had lucked into a podium merc would#treat it like he’s the second coming of christ i’m so sick of it#after everything lewis has done for this team and the last two years when they’ve refused to make a competitive car podiums/poles/wins are#not a guarantee anymore and it just makes me MAD that they didn’t show up for him i’ll never forget it lmfao#whatever merc have been showing their true colours recently and i’m not here for it#if i keep going i’m going to cry btw so im stopping before i do#he is SO graceful and grateful for everybody around him and i’m SICK OF IT#they know that lewis will never turn on them and i’m just !!!!!!! i can’t do this
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