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my friend cancelled on going to a concert w me last minute when i paid for HIS ticket do i kms
#he called me and said he couldnt make it bc its his moms bday and theyre going out...mf we made these plans a month ago#u didnt remember ur moms bday????#i feel like hes lying or hes genuinely stupid#i made him send me the money bc i was mad but now i dont even wanna go like#and now its too late to sell it for anything close to what i got it for#i also dont have any other friends who like metal so im stuck here#i dont think im gonna talk to him bc its always me inviting him out and not the other way and he STILL cancels#like hes going to a babymetal concert in 2 weeks and did he offer me to come along?? NO!!! but for this i reached out and asked before +#before i bought the tickets#its not fair#idk i dont mind going to concerts alone ive gone to a couple alone this year im just mad bc i thought i was gonna have fun today
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pretty much constant state of feeling alone when will the pain end guys
#i even cancelled plans for my sisters bday but all she wants to do is play roblox w her friends. umm. okay so now what..#I FEEL SAD.
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best friend prolly mad as hell cause i wont be able to attend her bday party but i got her the gift of all time so if she keeps giving me the silent treatment im taking that goddamn lava lamp for myself
#its not like she hasnt cancelled multiple times at literally last minute like the very day of the plans we've made#admittedly never my bday party. but thats just cause i havent had a true bday party since i was in grade school#(sans my 18th bday which was insaaaaane im so grateful i got to have it. literally one month before the pandemic hit. it was beautiful)#like girl. please. im sorry but can we like. be adults.
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#meg talks#it’s my birthday and i can’t sleep because my nerve pain is flaring up#and now my hands hurt too just bc i played a game on my switch for a while in lieu of all my bday plans getting canceled#and also our car got possibly totaled#ik ot’s whiny and there are more important things but god it’s getting hard to cope w even little things#when the physical pain just keeps getting worse and worse#well watever… happy birthday to me ill spend the day working more on my research project for palestine#and then have a friend over for dinner in the evening#it’ll be a good day <- pleading
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cellbit back on wednesday (coping) 💥💥💥💥 surprise bday stream for ME!!!!!
#this would actually be terrible bc i would miss all of it lmfaoooo#cancelling bday plans#sorrey guys my streamer is back everyone go home
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Happy birthday 🥳🥳🥳🥳
Thank you!!!
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i’m late to the game but i just started papa & daddy. already i’m having LOTS of feelings.
domesticity + conflicts that arises from an already established couples is my weakness. how can you *not* expect me to freak out over this? look at them??
#papa and daddy#was bummed over canceling my bday plans cause i’m sick#but this little bite size drama is cheering me up#do this have a sad ending? i mean s2#cause i heard s1 ends on a cliffhanger or something?#kay watches bl#papa & daddy#papa and daddy the series
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well im just gonna get high today ig 😕
#friend cancelled and their suggestion was i just go by myself instead of planning another day#idk i have 2.5 friends here and they literally never ask me to go anywhere now lmao#unless its like last minute afterthought shit#its fine#its not fine no one here remembered my bday until i mentioned it#idk like idk whatever
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louis announcing hes single the day before my birthday...thank u king <3
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#i hate having a birthday close to Christmas#I've had three people cancel on my bday plans just today#and pretty sure more will before Tuesday#I always feel like the second choice friend and it sucks#:///#text
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Oh my god we had to reschedule the gas bc they did not follow my husbands request to call when they're here bc we cannot hear the door knocking downstairs
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Not me having watched Helene nearly head towards grandpa’s house on his birthday just to watch Milton creep towards me for my birthday
#sometimes I talk#I’m by the keys and the cone is everywhere rn so I don’t know what I should plan for yet#but I always get supplies at the beginning of the season anyway so it’s not like I’m unprepared#more like ‘do I tell the fam to stay away and cancel the bday stuff or not#my grandpa is heading to my aunt’s place in SC but#if I try to go they won’t let me take my cats so I’m not leaving
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God, it's such a nightmare to celebrate a birthday in this family. All I want for my birthday is some fucking peace and quiet and I never get it.
#if i don't plan anything with friends i'm antisocial. if i do i'm not accounting for my family#if i have a preference for lunch or dinner i'm ungrateful. how about I cancel and no one gets cake??? HMM???#this is all because my bday is on sunday. nightmare day for plans tbf#twilit personal
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My birthday is two months away and I'm already making myself sad about it.
#thing speaks#i have an “uncomfortable” birth date so when i was a kid we just stopped having parties for me after my 8th bday party was cancelled#i understood why my 8th was cancelled#but from then on my parents were too uncomfortable setting up a party for that day and told me id have to plan it if i wanted it to happen#i think they thought i wouldnt follow through and got mad about how much pressure it was to host when i did#so most of my childhood bdays were me planning my own while my parents reminded me how much of a burden it was#then i got into college and all my friemds would be gone by the time by birthday came around bc my college started later than others#then i became an adult and had a bunch of great birthdays by and for myself#but now im an adultier adult and idk#ive planned so many bdays for other people#i just kinda assumed id someday have friends and partners who would want to do that with me#but all three times ive asked a partner to plan for me#theyve either taken me to see their favorite band in my least favorite city (fuck that ex)#or they e come to me a week before my birthday and asked what i want to do#then the last two times i planned my own party my friends dipped halfway through because of their own drama#idk man#ive come close to just not doing anything but that makes me even sadder#i have several friends with a history of birthday trauma who ive helped to significantly heal that trauma#including my partner who went from dreading their extremely depressing bday to looking forward to a nice day i plan for us#so it stings that none of them actually want to plan or even fully attend my own birthday#pity party
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my cousin told me how my uncle and aunt asked her if we'd be down to go to the water park that my little cousin's soccer tournament was being held at and i agreed and im having doubts abt it now
#she seemed excited about it and it made me excited and i said yes but now the thoughts arent being very nice to me#i dont wanna cancel though... i dont feel so dysphoric as i did when my parents told me about my nieces bday plans so i kinda wanna try to#enjoy it (still need to lose as much as i can by then 🏌🏽♂️🏌🏽♂️)#des rambles
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if I can be honest lol I feel like shit and lowkey like everyone hates me because I'm so annoying:/
#i literally havent told anyone except my therapist about exactly why the past few months have been so bad#and i had plans Wednesday with friends i havent seen since November#and i was going to tell them#i finally felt ready to#and they both canceled#and another friend hasnt responded to messages grom earlier#and i know theyre busy but with the cancelation its just making me feel like i suck and i should just never try to be vulnerable ever again#plus Another gc is where some friends were planning out 30th bday trip and onr of the friends#changed the gamr plan to us 4 girls to ... 3 couples and me#and im... actually really hurt? l#that shed think an acceptable alternative to a girls trip (that we havent done since 2016) is 3 girls with their husbands.. and me#and i know things have been terrible for months and the complete burnout and emotional turmoil isnt helping my reaction#but i just feel like all my friends hate me and i have no purpose in their life and they dont wanna see me or care about me at all#i know thats dramatic and juvenile but i am too tired to be emotionally mature#i cant believe i didnt tell anyone for months#and i was finally ready to#and both friends canceled dinner because they double booked even though we made these plans 4 weeks ago#idk i just realized this morning that ive isolated a lot the past few months#and it's almost all because of what's been going in and to have friends bail just when i was resdy to confide in them...#obviously they have no way of knowing this dinner Meant something to me but i vant help the regressive takeaway that i was right and i#should never be vulnerable because my friends don't care#anf i don't deserve (?) to have have that support system#me
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