#but um yeah not really haha

[wyllzel]

just remembered,, i think,, ?? u can get orin's armor now........... LOL! 😂😃💁🏻‍♀️👉👈👀🥂💃🏻

[inkskinned]

she says he won't let her get a dog, which is fine, because they're in an apartment, and that's the kind of thing people say about their partners. he won't let me get a dog. and you're at a dinner party and you tilt your head a little to the side just like that dog he won't let her get, because is this the thing that's going to upset you? you don't know every corner of their relationship, she could be joking, they could have had so many healthy conversations about the dog, right, and maybe she's not letting herself get the dog because of money and time and whatever. but, like, she did say let

and she wants to move away from his hometown and he wants to stay and then he tells you with a wink and a conspiratorial stage whisper don't worry i'll convince her and she laughs about it - so clearly this is something they laugh about. but you do just stand there and stare at him like what the fuck, man. you can't say what you want to say which is why do you get the final say on everything because they're both obviously aware of the other person's stance on this and have obviously had private conversations about it and what are you going to do about it except make a scene and then he'll be mad at you and call you one of those bitches behind your back and she'll cut you off, which is a loss that doesn't feel worth it just because he makes you a little skeeved out every 3rd comment

and they both agree he just isn't the type to get flowers which is fine because everyone shows love differently, and are you really gonna judge someone based on their sense of individual relationship responsibility? maybe he's constantly cleaning her car and writing her poems and making her furniture or something. maybe she doesn't even like flowers and this is perfect, actually. and no you couldn't date him, obviously, ew; but like, she tells you she's happy. you almost send her a tiktok that says don't be 25 and the cool girl that doesn't need anything, you'll hate not getting flowers at 30, but that's like, starting drama & you shouldn't start drama needlessly.

and you're a little older than her but not so much older you can pull the whole trust me on this one babe thing and besides that wouldn't have worked anyway (when does it ever) and besides you have trauma so you and your therapist both agree that you're always looking for a problem even when there isn't one. and you tell yourself that just because you see them for 15 minutes every month does not mean you can identify every single red flag based on a single shitty half-joking(?) comment

and besides, what are you going to do? she says i actually wanted another stand mixer but thankfully he stops me when i'm about to spend too much money and you're standing there like are you okay? is this normal? is this just something people say? and again - what are you going to do?

to your therapist you try to language it - it's not, like, any of my business. but sometimes, doesn't it feel like - you should do something. there's got to be something, right? you've tried dropping little hints but they sail right through and you've tried having a single serious conversation and she got upset because why does it matter to you, yes it's different but we're happy, it doesn't need to make sense to you and you're like. really unwilling to push a boundary about it anymore; because the truth is that you know logically it shouldn't matter to you, as long as both parties are happy.

and besides, you've been wrong before. it's just... like, every time you see them both, something else happens, some kind of shiver down your spine like do you even hear each other when you talk. it's their strange, bickering orbit. just the way he's on his phone through dinner or watching sports instead of helping in the kitchen or, fuck, another one of these little throwaway comments he makes about we'll see about that, babe. she laughs when he calls her passions stupid shit and meanwhile she gets him tickets to see the knicks and he tells you well at least she's smart about something and still! it's none of your business.

you say get the dog anyway and she laughs. like, this is is you being funny. and not you saying - no really. get the dog. get the dog and get out of here. pack up and start running.

[triangular-static]

noticed their parallels and it spiraled from there. did you know there's an early design of .GIFfany with bill cipher eye accessories, because i only found out halfway into drawing this and it fueled my vision more. also i would have kept her hair pink but there's a version of her with blonde hair (website gif) so there's precedent (it works for the palette. palette being. different shades of yellow)

anyway i'm so normal. what's a concise caption

[selleprotection]

TW sh (self harm) !!

i have came across @hmusunoo recent post regarding @/jaeyunsonlyy, and i reached out to them sharing an encounter i’ve had with her during the times we would talk. please go and check rain’s post to get better understating/context for the next pictures. i won’t get into the details of how we started talking because it was the most simple shit ever but as days went by we were talking occasionally/on a daily basis almost, and then she joked about not doing sh (self harm) after something that has happened between her and kaia (once again, check rain’s post for all the context and better understanding), and i personally do NOT take these kind of jokes in a funny manner - no matter how close i am with that person, i just don’t find that shit funny or something to be joking about, i have never done it or went through it but still. now i understand maybe joking is a coping mechanism, it is for me in manny cases, but im not the right person to be joking about stuff like this with.

as you can see by my message i was really weirded out by her statement.

and regarding whatever this is… is an insane thing to be saying.. rain has mentioned a similar statement from her about chinese and korean stans. me saying “what the fuck bruh” was kinda more targeted at her but i guess she took it as me agreeing with her. after she sent that i just kinda ignored her for a bit (you can look at the time stamps)

i really didn’t know what to do anymore because i felt bad but at the same time it’s like something in my brain quite literally switched in an instant right after she made that joke.

[kinokoshoujoart]

oh one of the funny romeo traits is how bamboozled he is by his own odd behaviors. unlike rock who just goes “people’s emotions sure are complex huh” and sighs when others wordlessly run away from him, resigned to the impenetrable species barrier keeping him from understanding human behavior

natsume translated the DS line as “This is terrible. I’ve just gotta act casual.” which itself is really funny (as though he’s trying to maneuver through a crowd of people without letting them notice he spilled spaghetti everywhere or something) but

ダメダメ…。女の子にはふつうに接しなきゃ。

No, that was no good… I need to be normal around girls.

you don’t say

[unionizedwizard]

every day i listen to some obscure 70's rock ripped straight from a super rare vinyl by a 68 years old guy with a youtube channel who's from greece or germany or serbia and Every Single Time, it's got a Very Obviously Baroque Pattern going on during one of the 12 minutes long songs, at which point my ears perk up like a dog who just heard the word "walk" or perhaps "treat"

[girlwiththegreenhat]

you know what? at least he got his wedding. i guess ,

[averlym]

Im sorry but can you do 45 angst for parrlyn? U don't have to tho!

45- "leave" (very quick doodle for you!)

[self-spaghettification]

anyone else have a playlist of just a few songs that in the context of the dragon prince emotionally wrench them like a lot or just me 😃

[silverselfshippingchaos]

i... i'm not saying this scene was attractive. however comma........ okay yeah

[villainsidestep]

'stop updating us on ur random thoughts every night' no

[vulpinesaint]

man. that anxious attachment style can preoccupied

[certifiedmaidenlessblog]

Tagged by: @vampyretaemin tyy <3

[fappellmoan]

so guys um. really fun update as a result of me once again being really good at understanding and responding to social situations. im pretty sure the friend im seeing is convinced we r like in a relationship or About to be and im just now realizing the extent of that and how quickly im slamming the brakes/going to attempt for smth more casual. um.. girl help

[our-celia]

when ur peotector finally documents some of his worst trauma memories and youre just sitting there reading it like

[hellonoblesky]

The freedom to simply not talk to my ex and know she can’t “ur mad at me aren’t you” bc the convo was in a public server were both in is so refreshing. Like haha yeah no sorry I can’t handle talking to you rn even if it is about a topic we both love bc it’s deeply distressing for my very tired post-competition brain. lol!