#but the men i write about LMFAO

[osaemu]

so uh funny story guys. i lost interest in anime men

[hella1975]

it's been pointed out on here before that a lot of terf arguments are actually rooted in sexist idealology that feminists fought and died to unnormalise decades ago and that's its own kettle of fish but one thing i also find very frustrating about this so called 'radical' feminism is that it's so... defeatist? like the moment you categorically label an entire section of society as Bad and Inherently Evil then there's also the implication that nothing can be done about it, and it completely takes all accountability away. saying all men are evil is just another way of saying boys will be boys. he raped her because he's a man. he hit her because he's a man. he didn't listen because he's a man - it's almost offensively oversimplified. there's no point trying to fix this issue in society because men are just Like That, okay! so now what? it's not like they're going anywhere, so you just accept that 50% of the population are evil and will forever treat you terribly and there's nothing to be done about it bc they're biologically predisposed to it? like is that fr the argument here? you're soooo radical for that

[princessefemmelesbian]

My friend said that Harry Shitter would be a transandrophobia truther and I am literally SCREAMING CRYING THROWING UP AT HOW ACCURATE THAT IS 😭 HE WOULD THO

[spacelesscowboy]

through gritted teeth fall out boy save me

[vampire-catboy]

I wonder if people with preg and birth fetishes/kinks like… have any inkling of the science and inner workings of it. There are so many things that could go wrong, especially with at-home or natural births, and if specifically labor goes on for too long (as with any long time of unusual/irregulated feedback from the body and brain) it has major health risks, even death. Not to mention the tearing, deadly bleeding, bodily/organ trauma, all the internal stuff, plus all the many things that could go wrong with the baby itself.

But like… not saying you can’t be into it, but like… y’know, have that knowledge. Like how kniveplay can lead to infected cuts, but it’s still fun to imagine and read about being stabbed or threatened with some bloody knife. Just y’know… keep that in mind….

💀 lmfao

[shinesurge]

"ugh you women and your romance novels" "ughh why do women read ya so much read a book for adults" idk is it maybe because half of what's going on in the Respectable Adult Writing World at any given moment is books written about men having manly problems where women are either some kind of romance item trembling in the wake of his trauma or mothers in the way of the man's development or women are missing entirely. is it perhaps because so many people are writing the same exact same three female characters to the point you could swap them between their stories and see no changes anywhere. i am so fucking tired lol. stop writing about periods Also holy shit

(obligatory footnote that I'm Trans since we're on the website where you can't talk about this shit without getting dragged into the clown vortex)

[sqtorux]

why was i so angry writing this lol. found this silly draft i wrote months ago it was collecting dust and cobwebs on my over flooded docs. very generic clan arranged marriage trope how genius

[compacflt]

wip wednesday: slider is 95% not a wip anymore! coming saturday hopefully! wednesday if all hope fails

[galpalaven]

doesn't it bother u that as someone who has the means to provide a certain level of representation (through ur art or writing) for other lesbians or queer women, u always choose to write/do art of mostly m/f couples...?

its probably all the comphet that got beat into me as a child my good dude lmao

nah realistically i have noticed it myself but like. male characters in games with romance are typically more well written or interesting than the female characters which is just. you know. the unfortunate way things line up

that being said, i have a list about 20+ characters long of my favorite Interactive Fiction characters and ships and they are all. like. nonbinary characters lol. the main couple of my novel i'm working on is also a woman and a nonbinary person so. ya know.

unless nonbinary people dont count for you?

in which case. sucks to be u i guess but most of my ships outside of AAA games are f/nb lmao

also i don't owe anyone anything and bi women who date men exist and also deserve representation just as much as the rest of us~

[br1ghtestlight]

i lived in the worst neighborhood in my city growing up surrounded by homeless ppl and drug addicts and MY MOM did not lock our apartment door bcuz she lost the key and we lived like this for over five years. she'd leave for hours in the middle of the night to do her Activities and the door would be fully unlocked and open. everybody in our neighbourhood knew the door was unlocked. it's genuinely a miracle we were never robbed?? nobody broke into our house for some reason? They wouldnt even NEED to break in the doors were unlocked bro

but robberies and breaking and enterings were not common where i lived. never heard of one happening in the area. our biggest problem was my dad breaking into our house when my mom wasnt home and uhh don't feel like explaining it but basically shouting and being violent and breaking shit. and my mom didnt WANT him there but he kept coming back for us kids. it was a whole ass mess before he went to jail and got a restraining order (for unrelated reasons nothing to do w/ mom)

[loomiskiller]

saw a gif of billy biting his lip as he watches sidney take off her shirt, but, yeah, sure, this man isn't also attracted to women.

[lightningfilledsaber]

sigh I’m not doing yaoi discourse in 2023. takes three seconds to look up how it originated versus other gay genres/subgenres like yuri, shounen-ai, bara, or BL. I seriously don’t give a fuck if people create/engage with yaoi but ignoring its origins is not helping anyone especially if you’re trying to reclaim the genre.

[orcelito]

Being asked to choose between akeshu and vashwood in that tumblr post is really quite mean of them

I chose vashwood by basis of tragedy bc. Oof ouch ow. I haven't even seen it all yet and yet it hurts. Stampede only fans wouldn't understand.

At least akechi has the potential of being alive lol. Can't say that with vashwood

[peaceeandcoolestvibes]

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[fire-gift]

I've been trying to watch s6 of c*bra kai but it's so bad now 😭

[stinkbeck]

still can’t believe one of my profs tried to catch me in a lie that one of my protags had going on lol. i feel like there was 1 person in that program who knew me lmfao.