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watch what happens when one ruthless tiny alien meets one huge soft drow.
#tav#lae'zel#astarion#baldur's gate 3#all my tavs will be besties with astarion#its about the gay/lesbian solidarity you understand
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omg i reached the tag limit theres so much MORE!!!! i think about this fic all the time:((((
everyone has that one specific fic idea that lives in their head that they will never get around to writing but are completely & unreasonably & unfathomably obsessed with right
#lesbian wolfstar:(((((((#trans butch dyke remus lupin#femme dyke sirius#lesbian jegulus and reg still struggling with her families traditional values#past lesbian jily that wanted to fit in with the heterosexuals#they wanted to be āāāāgoodāāāā gays and have a āāāānormal lifeāāāāā#lesbian lilyrosekiller#reg evan and barty live together and james stays over one night and lily stumbles out of evs and bartys bedroom#in like a blanket and sex hair and cigarette hanging from her lips#hickies all over her throat#james reaction: :0#they ended things on good terms but havent really talked#they will talk abt their past relationship and their identities and bla bla bla#reg is the dyke with massive religious guilt#sirius is the dyke that is so determined to live such an opposite life to what their parents wanted#sirius is trying to be the dykiest dyke that ever was#rem thinks its very endearing#rem works in a book shop#she doesnt really pass and struggles with āmale priveligeā which makes her want to die#but she also has to like. be aware#anyway. sirius or james will help rem getting on estrogen#not bc they want anything and itll be a struggle bc rem is proud#but its all about lesbian solidarity#that was a thing back then:)) lesbian who had āāreal jobsāā or money would give some away every month for less fortunate lesbians#there will be so much feminist and lesbian theory in this fic#and lesbian history#rem and sirius dont get along at first but are obsessed with ech other#barty is a nonbinary dyke#barty n evan sleep w other women together but after lily they fall in luvvvvvv#lily wanted to be a āgood gayā bc of her family
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its pride month so im thinking about like headcanoning LMK characters with specific sexualities and genders and stuff and like.
with me im bi so i'm biased to assigning other characters as bi just automatically if i relate to them an all that. most of the time though i do like. fairly deep thought on it. does this actually seem to fit the character and all that.
and the thing. about Sun Wukong. is that. i cannot get a read on him. nothing fits. and you know what?? honestly??? i think not being able to get a read on him fits way better than slapping any kind of label on him
i shouldn't be able to get a read on what his deal is. he's a centuries old being with powers beyond imagination. in some ways he's borderline eldritch. it makes complete and utter sense that i don't understand what the fuck is going on here
he just has his entire own thing going on. i love this for him.
#Monkie Kid#lego monkie kid#you could call him anythign and he's totally chill with it so long as you're not being derogatory#all i need to know about this man is that he's ok with he/him pronouns#and that he has a weird thing going on with Macaque#as a side note though its very funny to imagine him answering the question of ''whats your sexuality''#with the sexuality of whoever is with him at that moment#just like. as solidarity of who he's hanging out with#if he's with Macaque he says he's bi. if he's hanging out with Mei he says he's an aroace lesbian#this leads to EXTREMELY conflicting reports and major arguments on the lmk-verse's twitter#Wukong is completely unaware of all that though he's just vibing#shows up to Pride with ALL the flags on him
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i have to protect trans fems with my life im so fucking serious
#i know a lot of queer people and im alwayssss trying to get them to unlean their holier than thou bullshit#the fuckin 'never doing anything wrong is better than starting to do things right' mindset#u know the one. the goddamn yaoi is bad and bi lesbians are bad and if u like xyz cartoon u obviously condone everything in it#as a trans masc i see this shit repeated by other trans mascs alllllll the fucking time and it makes me CRAZY AND RABID#obviously its not exclusive to this group and not everyone whos trans masc is like that#but i see it all the time and im BEGGING people to shut the fuck up#anyway. what the hell was i talking about#make safe spaces actually safe fr#u dont have to understand other peoples labels ok identity policing doesnt help ANYBODY#people HAVE to learn solidarity for fucking real u dont have to like people but u have to fight for their right to exost#be mortal enemies for all i care but dont fucking spread hate campaigns founded in label policing#subjugating our queer peers serves oppressors.#talkin
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man i need to actually start talking to some of the gay + trans folks in my area
#I've seen some pretty cool & friendly people but im so exhausted most of the time </3#I'd really love to have new people to hang out with and talk to#having a little friend group brings me so much joy#especially if it's all people that i trust and just really enjoy being around#hearing from and spending time with my friends is like the highlight of my day#and it's always nice to have more people to love#thats part of why i still use lex... it's not bad when it comes to just chatting with people#absolute garbage for hookups. but just trying to talk to people? its great#and pretty chill#and even if I don't talk as much as I'd like to bcuz of burnout + chronic illness flareups it still warms my heart to see the same ppl-#-interacting with me#like. ah yes i remember u. its good to see u again#and people are usually so sweet and helpful#esp if its people you already know are kind and compassionate people. warms my heart to have support no matter how subtle#getting to interact with my local community has been really healing#its good to have a reminder that there's still lgbt ppl who actually care about each other and want solidarity#and are vocal about their support#including for the people who need it most. it just makes me all that much more proud to be a trans lesbian#with every lgbt person i meet even if we don't wind up being like long-term friends or anything-#-i usually remember all of these folks fondly#don't doubt the impact of your presence even to someone you barely know#a lot of people will remember and care about you even if its in a distant kinda way#being perceived and existing in the minds and lives of other people doesn't have to be a scary thing
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#its so fucking annoying#kon being gay makes more sense to me than anything else#primarily BECAUSE he seems to suffer from comphet#and seems specifically NOT really attracted to women and just acting out the idea that he's supposed to be#heres a tip!!! if he was bi and into women he wouldnt have that fucking problem!!!#because hed be attracted to them!!!#the idea that hes GAY adds a lot of depth to his early (predatory) dating history and the followup comphet relationships#he dated some of the worst women alive bc they groomed him and he didnt have anyone protecting him#and then proceeded to flirt with only lesbians and Extremely Safe Teammate Women who put him on a pedestal (sorry cassie)#(i mean i also think cassie likes girls and might be a lesbian but shes more borderline than obviously-lesbian-cass-cain) and nat...#like im sorry but its really obvious to read that as comphet and a gay csa victim trying to stay safe and struggling to accept himself#especially since he also wrestles with the masculinity expected of him#you can be gay and masculine and its so goddamn annoying that fandom cant grasp that#but i AM interested in kon truly trying to grasp that#i think if anything he might be overcompensating with masculinity in his comphet era specifically because#he was more frequently in vulnerable positions with t*na and kn*ckout.#and therefore wouldnt really want to be vulnerable in relationships after that. and so put on the strong stoic masculine aspect#even though thats never really been who he is#(kon has always cried easily; kon has always liked to be silly and goofy; kon has always had a deep emotional well and empathy for others)#hes just literally always had shit going on in his life preventing him from coming to grips with who he is and who he could trust/love#grooming. friends dying. homelessness. new family. dying. coming back. lost in space. new universe.#when was he supposed to learn how to learn how to be vulnerable to love again? :(#also VERY importantly in the post above:#tim at least has some compelling female love interests that were healthy#what the fuck do people care about kon's relationships with women for???#what are you trying to defend? jesus christ#his relationship with cassie was the longest and healthiest but there was zero chemistry and work better as friends#like are you defending casskon? tana and kon? (ew) KNOCKOUT and kon??? (even bigger ew)#what is the point of being upset that he might be gay and not bi?? what are you trying to defend and leave him open to????#just let him realize he's gay and only likes boys. jesus. (via @comphetkoncass)
YOU GET IT.
tbh i do think regularly abt how funny (read: infuriating) it is that fandom loves both homophobia and biphobia (ft. misogyny) so much. like people diminishing tim's female love interests bc clearly the male one is more important/more real, but then turning around to be SO averse to the idea of kon being gay and not bi. what's up with that. is it that you all think only twinky guys can be gay and that only gay men are twinks or something? (like tim isnt even a twink lmao that man has been working out daily since he was 13 but. you know.) like every time ive posted abt the idea of kon being gay ive gotten people being SO fucking annoying in my notes. is it that you guys can't handle the idea of a superman-shaped guy being gay because clearly all gay men have to be dainty and effeminate? hmm. and therefore he HAS to be bi as a default option to keep him shippable? (as if thats not also like. such a shitty way to treat bisexuality.) hmmm... fascinating.
#kon/cassie is the biggest gay/lesbian solidarity of ''the feeling was friendship but they were both a lil confused'' to me#he's LITERALLY the boy from the posters on her bedroom wall. and we Know he projected his feelings of protectiveness and helplessness#after tana's death (and the awful way he was blamed for it??) onto her bc they Talked about it.#also their breakup was incredibly gay for both of them. they broke up and cassie was Immediately all over kiran#and kon was all. ''haha tim i missed you being the man with the plan'' ok gayass#but yeah. the thing about kon is that he has simply Never had a compelling relationship with a woman#its a grooming 2x combo followed by safe comp het and interspersed with like. a couple of dates with lesbians (cass and nat).#he is NOT beating the allegations (of fabricating attraction to women because he assumes he has to)#kon
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I didn't realise I liked Mona so much until I managed to find a place for her in this fanfic too
she's not gonna be as important in this one as she was in ddatsib but like, she's there!
#maybe its cause all my fics so far are set in Mondstadt and like#who else am i gonna write about#razor and mika? i think not#ayato and mona gay and lesbian solidarity
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the eternal temptation to pull a āmen dniā on main (i.e. here) even though that makes literally 0 sense
#sorry. read some discourse shit. individual lesbians defining Their Own god damn sexuality as being exclusive against some measure of āmenā#and placing boundaries thusly on their stupid fucking web blogs isnāt youāre or miāne fucking buisi ness#much less a demonstration of bigotry against men who You think should be compatible fringe cases or lesbians themselves#*cough* hypocricy over ability to define our own labels#and Yet i do see the issue with gating community solidarity and positivity posts etc etc interactivity behind what labels we percieve as#āvalidā by either any internal Or external measurement#but guess what buttercup just whinging about lesbians putting āmen dont interactā on anything doesnāt do dick all to specify that!#what if i wrote like a fucking clickbait celebrity gossip article. men dni. like what does that even MEAN IN THAT CONTEXT SHRJKHNB#<- the intended humor of the initial post. kinda lost in the tags rant so i figured iād reframe it#anyways iām lightheaded and slightly deperson-y and i slammed out the entire Glad My Mom Died memoir in like a day and a half after like a y#year of having read the first 15%#and GOD its sweaty in here and
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also this post reminded me of when i saw someone complaining about the concept of antimasculism because it implied that butch women and men have similar experiences and issues and That's Bad, because everything butch women go through must be 100% misogyny.
and like. putting aside that i am and have lived most of my life as a butch woman, and that literally one of the first people who helped me shape the term was a butch specifically talking about how this impacted butch lesbians... why is that such a bad thing? like its pretty well established (in the spaces im in, at least) that butches very often are pressured to be unemotional and strong and act as bodyguards/protectors for others and be dominant/tops. those are all experiences that many men go through, and its very clearly related to the expectations we associate with masculinity. if you are gonna throw a fit about being grouped in with men yknow. okay. but i think me and plenty other butches are gonna find solidarity with men on this instead of continuing this fucking "lesbians are a different species than men and can never relate to them in any way" routine terfs have tricked you all into thinking is helpful in any way
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Twig's GL Recs for March-July 2024
[Hereās my rec list for GLs through to Feb 2024Ā ]
Fake Buddies Korean, YouTube, 7 episodes (one ep BL, one ep GL, one ep crossover, and then 2 more BL prequel eps and two more GL prequel episodes), approx 45 minutes when compiled, Apr 27-Jun 28 2024
At first this was a little three-part series in which it turns out both members of the couple are secretly in a homosexual relationship with their best friends and using the other as a beard. Lots of comedy of errors and puns (āI like lilies better than rosesā) as the characters try to make each other understand the situation theyāre in. The backstory prequels were really cute friends to lovers, and it was really nice to see these couples land in solidarity! This series is short and cute and pure fluff.Ā Ā
To the X Who Hated Me: YunO x Jane Korean, YouTube, 3 episodes ~6 mins each, aired May 22-29 [microseries complete, X who hated me series may be ongoing]
When the previous 2-ep miniseries under this umbrella landed (which I wrote about here: ), I had no idea it was going to be a series of microseries! These are all short but good second chance romances. This one has a ārealityā-show-within-a-show format, with a frustrating misunderstanding, and a good kiss. Be sure to always watch past the credits for this series!Ā
You Are My Star, Thai, YouTube, 1ep 37 mins (aired as 3 12-min eps and then they compiled into this one short film), May 18 [complete]
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This was a cute Thai GL that I enjoyed mostly because of the very clear cribbing of specific scenes from recent BLs. It was mostly trope-y (both cuteness and drama), with good kissing. See if you can spot the BL references.
Xiao Xiang Yi Jiu, Chinese, YouTube, 7 episodes 2 mins each, May 20-June 3 [complete]
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This little microseries is about a girl becoming an intern for her crush/idol. Happy ending, and they do become explicitly girlfriends! No kiss because censorship.
Lonely Girls Korean, YouTube, 4 episodes 8 minutes each (32 mins compiled) May 14 [complete]
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This is about a couple that struggles with the closet, lack of communication, and how to make their relationship last in the face of uncertainty. Also thereās good kisses. SukFilm have done other series before and since, but this is my fave GL of theirs so far.Ā
The Two of Us Deep Night spinoff, Thai, YouTube, 6 episodes, 15 mins each, airing May 30-July 4 [complete]
I was so confused at first, because I didnāt realize this was supposed to be their story during the events of Deep Night that we didnāt get to see. I was excited about this one but bummed that we started the miniseries with a health scare and then a threat by Meiji to marry some guy just to make Freya jealous? I found it a little frustrating that two women in their 40s could not be honest with each other. The couple is so cute, but the storytelling is not, so take this rec with a grain of salt. Still, itās so nice to see women in their 40s being super cute and in love in between the drama so Iām keeping it on this list! I am very glad to have gotten the dance sequence and the bath sequence.Ā
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And of course currently airing right now so take with a grain of salt because i donāt yet know how they end, butĀ
Ayaka is in Love with Hiroko Japanese, 8 episodes, 25 mins, airing July 4- August 22 [ongoing]
This is a laugh-out-loud funny office comedy in which Akaya flirts desperately with her senior colleague at work, Hiorko, who then spends her evenings complaining to her friends at the lesbian bar about oblivious straights who donāt understand the meaning of what they say. I've written a little more about this show here. It is my favourite GL of the year so far and if it stays this good is on its way to being one of my favourites of all time!
The Secret of Us Thai, 8 episodes, 50 mins each, airing June 24-August 15 [ongoing]
This series starts with the cutest episode of all time and then devolves quickly into serious drama lol but it did a good job avoiding pure ānoble idiocyā so Iām hopeful it will continue to hold up. As of ep3 things are happening that I did not expect, so Iām really curious how this one will go. In the meantime, it is also worth noting that these actresses are excellent kissers.
[UPDATE: Of these two that were airing, I ended up thinking I was going to have to retract for The Secret of Us but instead retracted for Ayaka Is In Love With Hiroko. I had way more fun with Ayaka week to week but the ending was really disappointing; The Secret of Us in contrast nailed the ending. I wrote about it a bit here. ]
#gl series#media recs#sapphic media#typed so that i can stop thinking it#gl meta#fake buddies the series#to the x who hated me#you are my star the series#Xiao Xiang Yi Jiu#lonely girls the series#the two of us the series#ayaka is in love with hiroko#ayaka chan wa hiroko senpai ni koishiteru#the secret of us the series#Youtube
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So, I'm not really in the weeds of Transgender Discourse on the internet (I have a life and also care about my mental health) but I've seen something discussed here about trans masculinity and I wanna talk about it.
I'm very masculine. I'm butch, I'm trans masc, I've always wanted to be masculine and I feel most comfortable when I'm presenting as such. Without much effort or any intention on my part I am read as a cis man day to day. Because I don't present more fem, in queer spaces I am read and recieved as a man, maybe trans, probably into other men. People do not even consider if I'm a butch lesbian unless there's Significant context indicating it. Because of this I'm viewed through 'Man Lens'; It feels a different if I say 'bitch', if I talk about my attraction to women. I don't get smiled at, people put physical distance between me and them as much as possible.
This is familiar for a lot of trans masculine people and trans men that aren't androgynous/fem leaning in their style, and it is an upsetting change to happen. It makes us feel judged or misunderstood to suddenly be causing this wariness in others; it feels prejudiced. I've seen people putting words to this like transmisandry. This is something they want to lessen in their communities, so they don't have to experience this anymore.
Now, here's my opinion part: That's not going to happen. You cannot tackle the "problem" of people responding to your masculinity with wariness. They aren't controlling the wariness, they can't. More importantly, their wariness toward masculinity and what registers in their brain as "man-like" is well founded. It's based in lifetimes of experiences and trauma that has told them men can be very unsafe to be around, and that is true. Most men are cis, and cis men are the most threatening thing in this world to non-cis men. They are usually* socially privileged above others, more likely to inflict violence, more likely to abuse and murder others, are typically physically more powerful than others. Everyone thats not a cis man DEEPLY internalises a very rational wariness of men, and masculine presentation as an extension. Especially men that are strangers. (*This is of course different when we consider intersections of race, colonialism, classism, ect. But globally this generalisation is still pretty accurate.)
Honestly, I don't think this wariness towards masculine presentation is something thats useful or realistic to challenge. Like many internalised processes it's probably a good idea to examine it and consider its usefulness, but I think it'd be easy to conclude that it is a useful wariness for people to have. Women have lots of reasons to be wary around men, including the unique threats of transmisogyny. Queer and gender deviant men have lots of reasons to be wary around men. This is The Reality of patriarchy.
Personally, the place I've come to with how women and queer people react to my masculinity (which is not entirely negative btw, the wariness is just one aspect) is that... I understand their wariness. I have it too, toward those my brain assumes are cis men. I cannot control how they feel or what they think about me. I can only be respectful to others and to myself and live my life. I flag my butchness where I can, I make my gender clear to those it matters to, and the rest I accept as largely beyond my influence. All of us have to do this in some places in our lives.
Even though my masculinity makes other queers wary, I have lots of friends! I've had no real trouble dating or finding intimacy. Initial wariness is just that. Once you understand each other, break the barrier, its usually settled. For anyone who finds my masculinity so offputting that we can't break the barrier, I'm glad neither of us put each other through that discomfort. I understand where a fear like that comes from. I will still hold community with them because that's what solidarity entails.
Anyway thats my ramble about masculinity in queer community, good bye until another. who knows how long
#back on the tumblr diary#personal#edited the section about women having reasons to fear men and transmisogyny; poorly phrased lol.
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I think you may have deleted the post, but I wanted to talk about that insta story Amir posted with the lesbian flag fan and the ā#king of the lesbiansā comment.
I want to start by saying I donāt know Amirs gender identity or sexuality. Everything I could find stated that Amirās pronouns are he/him, but there are he/him lesbians, and there are also trans lesbians who arenāt out yet, and still pass publicly as male. I donāt know if Amir identifies this way, and donāt really want to say anything super critical that would pressure him into coming out if this is the case.
I know a lot of helluva criticals are also a bit critical of his online presence, but he does seem to have acted as a pretty good ally, and talked about how **requiring** pronoun disclosure for work can accidentally have the side-effect of forcing people to out or mis-gender themselves, which is a good point.
Despite knowing all of this, as a nonbinary lesbian, seeing that post did make me anxious. I think itās mainly because, even if Amir IS a lesbian (and I know some people may even laugh at that thought, or act like that could never happen, but the truth is we DO NOT KNOW Amir, and do not know anything about his inner life or identity that he has not explicitly shared) but even if he is a lesbian, seeing *anyone* proclaim themselves āKing of the Lesbiansā just sets off alarm bells in my head.
I think its most likely because since I donāt know if heās part of the community or an ally, it feels very much like someone claiming to speak for us or be representative of lesbians.
And Iām VERY sensitive of celebrities or people with influence claiming to speak for us or have clout with usāespecially since JKR started using lesbians as a shield against all criticism of her transphobia.
I know Iām probably overthinking all of thisāover something Iām pretty sure was posted as a joke (and I donāt even know if the āking of the lesbiansā caption was made by Amir himself, or a social media manager).
But. Idk. Regardless something about that post just gave me a real big ick. My initial reaction when I saw that post was āno, youāre fucking not. If anyone is king of the lesbians itās Tracy Chapman, not you.ā
Itās something minor, and I know Iām making a mountain out of a molehill, but I canāt help but get frustrated by it. I want to say, āokay, what the hell have you done for us then?ā You donāt just announce that youāre a gay or lesbian icon. Itās something that is earned and given to you by the community. Even if you are a part of the community I still think itās something that has to be earned.
I know Iām just rambling now, but I wanted to let you know that yeah, that post was not okay with me either. I think I would have even liked the post if it had said something that was more supportive of lesbians like āletās go lesbians!ā Or āshout out to the lesbian fans!ā Or something.
Anyway. Thanks for letting me vent. I know this is probably ridiculous to vent about but I wanted to get these feelings out, and didnāt feel safe talking about it on my own blog.
Nah, it's an entirely valid frustration. There are ways to show solidarity and that wasn't it, and also high five for recognizing Tracy Chapman as the queen of the lesbians she is.
(For the record, I deleted that post because apparently it's not yet common knowledge just how incredibly fucking creepy Amir is. Someday.)
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It makes 0 sense to me why anyone is buying this "trans mascs have privilege" like we're just straight up denying reality to what, cosplay terfs? The hostility and rhetoric used parallels exactly what terfs say about trans fems. The parallels compound too with how people use trans masc "invisibility" with the false (and rightfully scorned) assertion that lesbians have privilege over gay men because "their identity is less visible" and they "don't see them getting the same harrassment"??? Because fetishization, corrective rape, infantilization, misogyny, being dismissed as if this is just a phase, etc, is a privilege now? Really?
Its a belief that cannot exist in reality when trans existence is so vehemently hated to a genocidal extent and that society doesn't see us as our gender unless we pass for cis and even then its conditional.
Trans fems are called misogynistic monsters and suddenly its okay for feminists to say that about trans mascs? I just find that so deeply unserious and especially white supremacist because if masculinity can never be marginalized than a white woman doesn't have power over moc because she's a woman which just isn't true. So many identities, experiences and intersections of oppression need to be erased for "trans mascs have privilge" to hold any water.
Venting but anyway I love and appreciate your blog so much <3 it brings genuine tears to my eyes because I find our solidarity as queers so precious especially in intracommunity issues.
All of this! Youāre so appreciated, thank you.
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historical revisionism of second-wave feminism
I'm wondering where this idea that "second-wave feminism" didn't bring up race came from. It seems to be conflating liberal feminism, starting with Betty Friedan's "The Feminist Mystique", for the entire movement. But "second-wave feminism" refers to an entire era of feminist organizing, including lesbian feminism, socialist feminism, radical feminist, and numerous Black feminist works with multiple intersections. Why should Friedan and NOW's 'liberal feminism' be the representative of an entire era of feminist writing? What do we have to gain from pretending that there were no Black feminist writers during the second wave?
The US women's movement has always had ties to anti-racist movements like abolitionism and the civil rights movement, as well as the New Left and socialist/anti-war movements. White feminists tried to include racial analysis in their books - to mixed effect, e.g. Susan Brownmiller's book "Against Our Will" proved to be contentious for its treatment of interracial rape of Black men against white women (example).
It feels like there's been a wave of historical revisionism to make the second-wave seem more limited and single-issue focused than it really was, in order to make "third-wave" feminism seem novel, exciting, and necessary. It's resulted in a whole generation of feminist writers and cultural critics who don't read or quote or engage with the feminist works of the second wave. They are dismissed out of hand as irrelevant or limited. It feels like another way to say "stop paying attention to women's history, just believe me when I say the first and second waves were irrevocably damaged and that the third wave is the only way to go."
I think this article does a good job of capturing one of the reasons why an interracial feminism failed to form, which is that white women assumed Black women also wanted an interracial feminism, when many Black women, especially at the start of the movement, were not interested in solidarity with white women. The fantasy of a racially integrated society was often much more important to white organizers than to Black organizers, who may have instead wanted Black self-determination. I disagree with some of the points of the article (can elaborate if anyone is interested) but I recommend reading it anyway for a retrospective on why white attempts to reach out to Black women failed - white feminists did attempt to reach out, but failed to focus on issues that were relevant to Black women, failed or were offensive in their racial analysis, and failed to understand the importance of racial solidarity for Black women.
Correcting the record on the racism and failures of white feminists in the second-wave is necessary work to building a strong movement. But there's a difference between correcting the record and pretending that white feminists didn't try to talk about race at all. They did! They were participants of anti-racist movements! But they failed to understand their own racism. They failed to understand the complex dynamics between white men, white women, Black men, and Black women. They failed to focus on issues that resonated with Black women. They were failures of bad attempts, not that no attempt was ever made... and that's the part I find weird.
The idea that there was no racial analysis made during the second wave, by white women or Black women, flattens a complex history. Like fun fact - the Combahee River Collective Statement which is the foundation of intersectional feminism and third wave identity politics? Is a second wave text! It was published in 1977, in the late era of second wave activism in the US!
I have more to say later, but for the moment, I'd like to present you with some examples of second-wave feminist texts written by Black women. Read them, and avail yourself of another myth - that there is One Black Feminism. Black Feminists have always had internal disagreements, which frightens white feminists, because white feminists want to know The Correct Answer On Race. I highly recommend reading these (and modern Black feminist texts too!) to understand the situation Black feminists faced in the 60s and 70s. All of these texts were published between 1960 and 1980. They are all essays or excerpts - links provided where possible.
Black Womenās Liberation group of Mt. Vernon, New York - Statement on Birth Control
Mary Ann Weathers - An argument for Black Womenās Liberation as Revolutionary Force (https://caringlabor.wordpress.com/2010/07/29/mary-ann-weathers-an-argument-for-black-womens-liberation-as-a-revolutionary-force/)
Frances M. Beal - Double Jeopardy: to be Black and Female
Doris Wright - Angry Notes from a Black Feminist (https://yu.instructure.com/courses/49421/files/1918241/download?wrap=1)
Margaret Sloan: Black and Blacklesbian
Alice Walker - In Search of Our Mothersā Gardens
Angela Davis: Joan Little: The Dialectics of Rape (https://overthrowpalacehome.files.wordpress.com/2019/02/ms.-magazine-from-the-archives.pdf)
Michele Wallace: A Black Feministās Search for Sisterhood (https://www.amistadresource.org/documents/document_09_03_010_wallace.pdf)
The Combahee River Collective (https://www.blackpast.org/african-american-history/combahee-river-collective-statement-1977/)
Barbara Smith - Racism and Womenās Studies (https://hamtramckfreeschool.files.wordpress.com/2014/03/smith-barbara-racism-and-womens-studies.pdf)
#feminism#second wave feminism#feminist history#women's history#mypost#radical feminism#feedback welcome
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Mighty Med Headcanons
Gus
Gus is secretly a Perry. They have a lot in common: weird side character that shows up at the most (in)opportune moments, has an unrealistic variety of skills and resources, a past that's WAY too storied to be true yet somehow it is??, and obsessive behavior over their romantic interests (Perry with Douglas & Gus with Jordan). If they're not related, they'd 100% get along like a house on fire if they did meet.
Gus and Oliver are childhood friends of the "our parents forced us to hang out" variety. Oliver is GOBSMACKED that both his parents like Gus better than Kaz. Like. How??
Jordan
Jordan!! I <3 her. Thereās a post going around on here that says she should've been in Elite Force instead of AJ & I 100% agree. She does seem like the type that'd be a surprisingly good hacker... and honestly I just really miss her :(
Her & Daniel(le) would get along. I have no proof I just know it. Troublemakers Inc(TM)
Kaz(imieras)
Pansexual & polyamorous. As long as everyone's having fun he's down for whatever
Transfem genderfluid, he/she/it. Starts by calling itself a woman/girl casually until Oliver's like. Kaz is there anything you want to tell me. & Kaz is like pfffft what no that's ridiculous ha ha Oliver I think I'd know if I was transgender. Then Kaz thinks about it & it's like. Damn it.
It/its pronouns also happen via jokes, she's just like. I'm like if a girl were a bug :) or perhaps a small mammal. Until someone calls her 'it' and she's like. Hm. Kinda slaps.
Doesn't even realize she has dysphoria, just starts acting & dressing more feminine when it suits her & 2 years later she's like. Huh. I haven't been avoiding mirrors lately. Wonder what that's about?
Combined-type ADHD
Dyslexic & dysgraphic. Only got through English by the Grace of God (Oliver). But I headcanon that other than spelling & syntax errors he's actually a great writer when he puts the effort in. He'd kill in public speaking but he'd never do that lol.
If she had a Normo job, it'd be firefighter
Oliver
Trans guy, he/him. He & Kaz are transmasc/transfem solidarity. His mom is more supportive than his dad.
OCD, anxiety, autistic. Gets all 3 from his parents which is part of the reason it took so long to get a diagnosis (both of them just thought getting crippling bouts of anxiety was normal).
Aroallo, specifically cupioromantic bisexual... this is so important to me you don't understand. Oliver is a very codependent character and I think learning to live on his own & not be jealous of his friends would be a great character arc for him.
He & Kaz r so fucking queerplatonic don't even get me started. Do Not Seperate Them.
Skylar Storm
Ace lesbian
She's an alien so I don't think she prescribes to human gender roles like. At all. So she's not really "trans" or "cis", but she does use she/xhe pronouns & mostly describe herself as a woman.
Futch Skylar... futch Skylar supremacy!! Has a sort of complicated relationship with presentation and whatnot, human femininity is sort of the norm for Skylarkind as a fashion trend. Xhe and Experion actually were both ostracized for their presentation (butch/trans Experion my beloved <3). I think xhe prefers more masculine dress but in fun styles and colors because, in her words, "practicality doesn't have to be boring".
Skylar Storm is essentially just a stage name, it started as anickname based on a very loose translation of xyr actual name.
Alan Diaz
Trans guy, any pronouns. Mostly because they're confused by language as a concept.
You know how its a running gag in MM that Horace never taught him how to count past eighty? That, but with language. Horace speaks Arabic, Old Castilian, & Mexican Spanish interchangeably so Alan grew up thinking that's just how people talk. Mix that with random alien languages &, well, they're incomprehensible on the best of days.
Doesn't know they're trans. Like they're trans obviously but if you told her that she wouldn't really understand.
Oliver: so you were, uh, born a girl but you're a boy now?
Alan: no, I'm a boy.
Oliver: yeah, obviously, but like, physically--
Alan: What Normo nonsense are you on about.
And it continues like that.
Polysexual, and if xe were married xe'd be a Wife Guy (positive).
#mighty med#lref#lrefmm#lab rats#lab rats disney xd#lab rats elite force#oliver mm#kaz mm#kazimieras mm
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Sword gays showdown, round 1 of bracket one
Propaganda:
For Dirk:
he literally fuckint cut off his own head so his crush would kiss him. also he made a robot that fights with a sword to terrorize said crush. also another version of him (,homestuck. complex timeline shit) keeps swords.in the fucking fridge?
Bi and gay sibling solidarityĀ
For Zoro:
Literally training to be the greatest swordsman in the world. Has a special three swords technique (one blade in each hand plus one with the handle held in his teeth). I haven't read the manga or watched the anime but the live action adaptation gives me extremely gay vibes and based on the fandom things I've seen I'm not the only one
bro uses three swords. has one in his mouth. dont ask how the HELL he manages that. one day he will be the worlds greatest swordsman....after he beats the current greatest for both the titles of greatest swordsman and fruitiest swordsman. he's dramatic as FUUUCK like bro what the hell. has homoerotic fights with the local twink like everyday. directionally challenged, can and will get lost in a paper bag, doesnt know left from right...he probably cant read, too. hes too silly ngl
First of all, im in like episode 250 and so far he hasnt been shown attracted to any woman at all during the whole show so far, not even when one changed clothes in the same room as him and this is anime so you know there were other characters with bloody noses and shit. With that out of the way he wields three swords at once [two in his hands, one is his goddamn mouth dude. Its cool af trust me.] When he was little he made a promise to his best friend that he'd be the best swordsman in the world. Later she died in a tragic accident and left her sword which he still uses today. He also carries a cursed sword but he overpowers the curse with a combination of skill and sheer luck. He got stuck in a chimney. While his crewmates sail their ship he takes naps. He learned how to cut through metal by fighting a guy who could turn his body into metal blades. That's metal. He refuses to fight this liberal marine officer because she looks like his childhood best friend and its just understandably really awkward for him. He's autistic. He's a he/him bisexual lesbian. He's a gay man. He's ace/aro. He's whatever you want him to be babey!!
he has 3 swords, wields one in his mouth sometimes, his dream is to be the greatest swordsman in the world
three swords and big aroace-spec gay vibes
He not only has a sword he has *three* swords. He's absolutely gay there's no way to see this man as straight. Also one time he licked his sword for no reason and that was really funny to me so I had to mention it
Look, this man thinks about three things: Swords, His Captain, and Booze. Heās on a quest to be the worlds greatest swordsman. The Live action has a scene where he declares his undying, unwavering loyalty to his captain WHILE reaffirming his promise to be the worlds greatest swordsman. At this point His dream and his Captain are so intertwined itās crazy. Man is so sword-y heās got three of them. When one of his swords broke he carried its empty scabbard until he was able to give it a SWORD FUNERAL. He hears a sword is cursed and takes that as a challenge. He will literally tell his swords off for ābad behaviorā when they āact upā due to being straight up cursed. He tests one by throwing it in the air and sticking his arm out to see if it is so blood thirsty and ill tempered that it will cut him. Even though heās literally the first mate if you ask him what his role is heās going to answer Swordsman.
He's dedicated his life to two things: becoming the greatest swordsman in the world and his captain, Luffy.Ā
He mastered the three sword style. Its his style. It would've been more swords but he could only fit one sword in each hand and one in his mouth. He wants to be the world's greatest swordsman, a deal he made with his childhood best frenemy (before she died falling down the stairs). He thought he was All That at the start and was almost completely decimated by the actual Worlds Greatest Swordsman. Now, after two years forced training with that guy, he's probably in the top tier no-doubt, and honestly could already be the best but we just don't know for sure yet. Also, did I mention: he's got the whole demon/devil imagery going on at times. And he has absolutely no sense of direction! plus is a total softie when it comes to Chopper and all the children who somehow gravitate towards him. And he loves naps!
One of the guy's main goals in life is to be the best sword fighter and he fights with three swords which I think is telling enough of his skill.
#(using live action Zoro as the image cause i love Mackenyu)#one piece#homestuck#dirk strider#roronoa zoro#sword gays showdown#one piece live action
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