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17yearslatewithlattes · 1 year ago
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Ah man, I hate asylum episodes.
Human cruelty gets to me way more than monsters. And asylums have uh. No shortage of the former!
Plus you rarely escape without horrifying dehumanizing depictions of mental illness so. Good fun all round
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botanicalsword · 2 months ago
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Mercury in Houses & Signs - How does Mercury govern their languages, tones, thoughts?
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❥ Mercury in Houses
Mercury in the 1st House - Enhances intellect and self-awareness, often prone to overthinking
Mercury in the 2nd House - Skilled in negotiation, places importance on financial matters
Mercury in the 3rd House - Excellent communication skills, enjoys traveling
Mercury in the 4th House - Values family and home life
Mercury in the 5th House - Proficient in intellectual games, enjoys performing
Mercury in the 6th House - Emphasizes health and well-being
Mercury in the 7th House - Values and admires an intelligent partner
Mercury in the 8th House - Enjoys studying mysticism and has the ability to uncover secrets
Mercury in the 9th House - Likes to enrich oneself through reading
Mercury in the 10th House - Mostly engaged in intellectual and research-oriented work
Mercury in the 11th House - Has a larger circle of friends
Mercury in the 12th House - Prefers to keep their thoughts and ideas hidden
❥ Mercury in signs
Mercury in Aries - they tend to speak directly and lack patience and sometimes are stubborn with their words.
Mercury in Taurus - they are shrewd and conservative in their speech. They carefully choose their words. They are good at leaving themselves room to maneuver.
Mercury in Gemini - they are skilled at communication and may use a mix of truth and fiction in their speech.
Mercury in Cancer - they are are sensitive and empathetic communicators, they avoid using harsh words when they genuinely like someone. They prioritize maintaining emotional connections in their communication.
Mercury in Leo - They have a strong desire to be seen as right and may express themselves boldly and confidently, sometimes even exaggerating their points to prove themselves correct.
Mercury in Virgo - They are known for their precise and clear communication style. They express themselves with clarity and attention to detail, ensuring that what they say aligns with what they think. They value accuracy and practicality in their speech.
Mercury in Libra - They are skilled at sweet-talking and using tactful language. However, their ability to follow through on their words may vary, as they prioritize maintaining harmony and balance in their relationships.
Mercury in Scorpio - they are sarcastic and may disregard others' feelings. They have a sharp and sarcastic communication style. They may disregard the feelings of others unless they have a deep emotional connection. They are often straightforward and unafraid to speak their minds, even if it may come across as harsh.
Mercury in Sagittarius - they tend to speak impulsively and without much filter. They may say things without fully considering the consequences and often forget their words quickly.
Mercury in Capricorn - they take responsibility for their words and have a serious and practical approach to communication. They prefer to speak with purpose and avoid engaging in meaningless conversations. They value clarity and reliability in their speech.
Mercury in Aquarius - they hold strong opinions and are often resistant to changing their views. They can be persuasive communicators and have the ability to influence and even brainwash others. They are independent thinkers who value intellectual stimulation.
Mercury in Pisces - People with Mercury in Pisces speak based on imagination and intuition. They are easily influenced or misled, but they can also be manipulative and deceptive.
It is advisable to approach astrology as a tool for self-reflection and guidance rather than relying solely on it for making major life decisions.
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sherlockedfannibal23 · 9 days ago
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The complete dynamic between Al Haitham and Kaveh (an overthinker's analysis)
So this has been bouncing around in my head for the past few months and I'm going to try and condense it into this post to get it out of my system. Basically these are the parallel themes or principles that I've seen between Al Haitham and Kaveh since they released. Now with some pictures.
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1. Subjective versus objective
Kaveh is one to value the subjective, hence favoring art which is the expression of the individual even if it's the expression of his client's wishes, and will often overextend his empathy to inanimate objects like Merahk, animals, etc. Al Haitham on the other hand is more focused on objective fact that isn't malleable or sympathetic to subjective whims, he takes comfort in the stability of knowledge and that all it takes is more learning to solve problems, and considers a lot of subjective things like emotions to be 'noisy'.
2. External vs Internal perspective
Kaveh prioritizes the perspectives of others over his own as the roots from which his understanding grows, while Al Haitham prioritizes his own perspective over others'. This is why Kaveh comes off as empathetic and sentimental and maybe even naive on the surface even if he's highly intelligent, he chooses to take the more alturistic route on purpose, just like Al Haitham chooses the individualistic route even if it makes him more outwardly selfish and callous, has the potential to isolate him and has made him more difficult to understand, the important part here is that they're exercising the method that they concluded was best to realize their interests. For Al Haitham society begins with the individual (himself), while for Kaveh it begins with the collective, and so their respective truths align accordingly. While Kaveh prioritizes responsibility, Al Haitham prioritizes his personal boundaries. Also, while Al Haitham perceives external perspectives as 'noise', Kaveh uses them to actively shape his understanding.
3. Done versus perfect
Kaveh approaches the world as he'd like it to be, based on its potential, while Al Haitham approaches the world as it is. So Kaveh tends to lean into perfectionism and ideals while Al Haitham leans into efficiency and solutions. This is why Kaveh tends to overextend himself, not only does he think that his projects should be the best they could possibly be, but he also thinks the same about himself, holding himself to perfectionist standards. Meanwhile Al Haitham comes off as doing the bare minimum, sometimes even less, because he believes that as long as something meets the 'done' requirements, any extra effort wastes precious energy, time and resources.
4. Different kinds of evolution (adapting/growing versus navigating/surviving)
I think this is where the most contention happens between them, both Al Haitham and Kaveh were faced with circumstances that forced them to adapt (no family and barely any support at a young age, being unique thinkers who are difficult to understand by the average person).
They also both, early on, chose to carve out unique paths for themselves, with belonging being the trade-off. However, while Al Haitham leaned into maintaining himself as he was, finding a niche in which he was comfortable, Kaveh tried to adapt and conform as much as he could while maintaining his core. Think of it like compromising as much as you can to fit in versus refusing to change in exchange for fitting in.
Al Haitham thus sees Kaveh giving away something precious in return for acceptance from people who don't even understand or value him, while Kaveh sees Al Haitham as simply refusing to try to reach an understanding and so find the support and connection he needs. Neither of them is completely correct about the other, and this is what created the circumstances for their fallout. Because they were shaped mainly by their circumstances and did what they had to do to make it out of their difficult circumstances with their 'selves' intact. They evolved differently and thus have very different interpretations of resilience and growth.
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5. Openness vs reservedness
This is a small section that ties into the previous one, but basically Kaveh wears his heart on his sleeve, often having a hard time keeping secrets, while Al Haitham is more protective of his, even going so far as avoiding vulnerability by deflecting when people try to frame the conversation in a way that he needs to be forthcoming with personal details. Don't get me wrong, they both struggle with vulnerability, but Kaveh wants to be understood, almost desperately, while Al Haitham wants to be as invisible as possible and would rather not be percieved.
6. Study vs Mastery
This is kind of a minor one but the way they process information is interesting, with Kaveh leaning more into practice and mastery of a craft while Al Haitham seems to lean more into the accumulation in knowledge and closing any gaps in his database.
7. Structural thinking vs dynamic thinking
This is a little difficult to explain and gets into headcanon territory but basically Al Haitham prefers to break things down into components and then work through the pieces systematically while Kaveh likes jumping from point to point, like traversing a flexible web of ideas or connecting stray dots. It's why Al Haitham is better at fact checking, prefers consistency and is resistant to wild ideas, while Kaveh is more creative and prone to unique and far reaching ideas. It's also why their conversations usually involve Kaveh coming off as an overthinker while Al Haitham grounds his train of thought. Imo they're both overthinkers Al Haitham is just systematic and quiet about it.
8. The past vs the future
This is an overarching theme in Sumeru but dreams, memories, and the connections between them as well as how shared experiences reinforce them are big themes even with these two. Kaveh wants to be very future oriented based on his dialogue but you can also see the past weighing him down, heavily influencing his decisions, while Al Haitham is very pragmatic and averse to thinking too big about the future, wanting a peaceful and free life, but even this was sparked by his grandmother's wish, who in a way set him free from carrying through on a dream tied to external expectations or his family's legacy. Too add, he is close to Kaveh and the gang whether he likes it or not precisely because of their shared past, Kaveh is his memory, and he ends up living in their 'dream house', he is still affected by those thread like connections that come with interacting with others and living in community.
9. Risk vs certainty
Another small one but Kaveh is more likely to make a decision based on the potential outcome than what is right in front of him like Al Haitham. This also ties back into seeing things for their potential versus how they are, with Kaveh preferring to work based on the ideal potential of something versus the factual outcome that Al Haitham prefers.
10. Hope(dreams) vs evidence(memory)
This one is speculation and might also be another reason why Kaveh leans into more speculative territory while Al Haitham prefers fact. Kaveh probably only had his dream to hold onto at his lowest point while for Al Haitham structure and evidence have always been available to him (his grandmother was a steady presence who reassured him on being himself while Kaveh was abandoned with little beyond the guilt-laced memories of his father). So for example Kaveh's projects rely on him having and holding onto a vision that he eventually fulfills, while Al Haitham documents what's already been done and established as the Scribe. This ties into Kaveh seeing himself and the world based on potential while Al Haitham prefers seeing things as they are. However Al Haitham ends up respecting Kaveh because he always follows through on his dreams while Kaveh begrudgingly accepts that Al Haitham is far more consistent due to working within realistic boundaries.
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My Conclusions
1. They're both self contradictory
The reason people find the two to be confusing is because their characterization is intentionally misleading, in line with the theme of Sumeru where characters turn out to be more than their tropes once you dig a little deeper. And this is exemplified by how they also misunderstand each other when they were younger and inexperienced, hence their fallout.
A really good example is how Al Haitham believes that it's better for people to be individuals (find their own path to belonging with their sense of self intact) rather than conform or force themselves into systems that won't accomodate or appreciate them, however he just happens to fit neatly into the structures of the Akademiya, he's very compatible with how the Akademiya works, something that's not only rare but inaccessible to most people of Sumeru.
Kaveh on the other hand believes that systems should change to accommodate everyone, and that people should try to meet their potential despite the obstacles, and yet is in the one nation where his dream, his ideal, becomes an impossible task, materially but also systemically. His talents aren't appreciated by the institution that's in charge, even after proving it (and above and beyond that), and after years of putting in the extra effort to appeal to the Akademiya and pull his Darshan out of the dark.
The point of their dynamic is not that either one or both are right, it's that they grow even more through their connection and understanding the other's perspective, which is why Al Haitham takes Kaveh in and indulges his whims somewhat, or in the archon quest when he offers himself up as hostage, even if he knows it'll add more 'noise' to his life, something he explicitly avoided as part of his purpose, and why Kaveh didn't accept to continue the utopian-esque research of Sachin even if it would give him a chance to continue chasing his ideals. They were mirroring each other in action.
2. How they mirror each other
Basically they are both unique to the world, and neglected by the world (in different ways but especially in terms of understanding), and as such needed an equally unique person to help them further deepen their understanding of themselves and their world (inner and external), they also both share many core experiences and thus perspectives on a lot because of their time together at the Akademiya, and as such, their relationship is the thing with the most potential for them to both grow/evolve further. They not only understand each others quirks, routines, and flaws, but also gaps in knowledge and experiences, which is invaluable for a scholar.
So with Al Haitham, Kaveh is probably the only person who is truly empathetic towards him, who can correctly deduce on the roots of his behavior, and also anticipate his needs, and thus Kaveh is the only one who can, for example, give meaningful support and company, as well as a controlled environment to learn about others without conventional and tedious socializing. Kaveh is the reason Al Haitham got leftovers even though he forgot there was a meetup, and the reason Al Haitham now has friends to get drinks and play cards with.
With Kaveh, Al Haitham's self reliance and individualism gives him no room to empathize beyond what's necessary, and so Kaveh is forced to just exist and look inward to his own wants and needs, and then voice them, instead of distracting himself with the needs and wants of the people and institutions around him. He's also a stable anchor for Kaveh, both as a consistent and stable presence in his life, as well as the grounded voice to balance out his dreaming. Al Haitham makes space in their shared home for Kaveh to rest and be himself beyond his burdens.
3. Why Nahida prefers Kaveh's perspective but Al Haitham becomes Grand Sage
Honestly I don't know for sure. My speculation is that Nahida and Kaveh both have great potential for growth as well as the desire to fulfill their dreams, they also share the desire to understand the perspectives of others, exercise empathy that is. However this doesn't apply to when the Akademiya needed a new Grand Sage, a period of instability that needed discernment, efficiency and results, after which it can go back to dreaming about the future.
If you made it this far thank you for reading!
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skyenish · 1 year ago
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I have a question about your reverse Personality au. What are the first year gang's relationships with their dorm leaders and vice dorm leaders like is that au?
Hi! Sorry for taking so long, I kinda forgot to check my inbox 🫡
Well, it’s…. Complicated. Their personalities are the same, but every dorm’s dynamic is thrown on its head-
In Heartslabyul, nobody fears or respects Riddle, they fear Trey. They think Riddle desperately needs to grow a spine and not be such a pushover to his own Vice, Ace especially doesn’t appreciate his seniors. Deuce feels empathetic towards Riddle, wondering how he and Trey got the way they are now.
In Savanaclaw, Jack has a weaker initial impression of Leona, but grows to respect his Housewarden as he gets to know him more. Ruggie however? Absolutely shameful, always sleeps, sherks responsibilities, is rude and kinda mean- you get the point. Though of course, a flawed character only means room for character development (and angst).
Epel didn’t want to get put in Pomefiore. At all. He heard that the Housewarden there was an absolute weirdo, and he ain’t some dainty pretty boy! He is weirded out by Vil initially, but Vil’s soft approach is surprisingly effective on Epel. Rook on the other hand thinks their little country bumpkin should be treated with strictness and pressure, which Epel does not like the prospect of either. He actually grows pretty fond of Vil over time.
In Diasomnia Sebek is still impressed by Malleus, because of his strict, intimidating aura and regal manners, but when his princely seriousness just… evaporates, and a cheeky, warm and playful guy breaks through, Sebek tends to have a hard time adjusting his own behavior. He obviously respects Lilia too, but he’s honestly a bit scared of the man.
I will probably elaborate on this further when I have more time, but this is the basic gist of things. Character dynamics are some of my favorite things to write, so thanks for the question!
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bigskydreaming · 2 years ago
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Last reblog had a lot of fascinating takes on the Batfam’s stances towards killing across the board. I particularly loved the bits about Cassandra’s perfectionism playing into her own stance against killing....the distinction where she’s like ‘I can understand someone else killing in self-defense, but I don’t know how not to hold myself to a standard that insists I could have found another way.’ 
I also really like the bit about juxtaposing Dick’s anti-killing vehemence in NTT versus his more varied approach to it in later years...especially when paired with Tim’s early convictions around killing. 
I think particularly with really old, long-established characters, we have a tendency to pick and choose with a lot of history in terms of being like.....this story contradicts this one which makes this character’s take here OOC or inconsistent with prior characterization....which is often true! BUT if we fall back on that all the time, we run the risk of not letting long-existing characters have room to actually evolve and grow.
And I actually think the link between Dick in NTT versus his views later in life can be perfectly in character, especially using Tim as a comparison point like in that post. Because we tend to overlook the basic fact that Dick was young in NTT comparative to later Nightwing solo runs. His views on killing are inevitably going to be a large part of breaking away from Bruce and defining his own worldviews for himself. Its the difference between parroting learned dogma and learning what does and doesn’t work for yourself.
Personally, I lean towards the take that Dick raises the issue of ‘is killing right or wrong, discuss’ as little as he does in later runs pre-Flashpoint, because I like to interpret that as he’s not inconsistent there so much as he’s figured out by that point that he just flat out doesn’t have the answers there. He’s still working it out for himself. It doesn’t mean that he’s not going to have opinions about it, and even hypocritical ones at times, but that’s also due to the fact that many times this only comes up in highly charged emotional situations where no one’s taking the time to step back a beat and go wait, what do I really THINK about this versus what am I currently FEELING about this.
And as I’ve said many times before, I think the Blockbuster issue AND the Joker one are massively complicated by the fact that one of the bigger ways I think Dick is comparable to Cass and where they overlap and have a lot of untapped potential to bond over or y’know, recognition of the self through the other, lol - is that Dick, like Cass, has never mastered how NOT to hold himself to impossible standards. It would have been totally different if it had been someone else killing the Joker or someone killing Blockbuster for their own reasons unrelated to him....but with he himself being central to all that, he doesn’t know how to separate himself and the expectations instilled in him FOR himself....enough to view those situations through the same lens he views the morality of killing as an ideological question if he’s not part of the equation. (Cass and Dick as regularly described as among the most empathetic characters in the Bat franchise, but both equally unwilling to ever extend that same empathy to THEMSELVES: Discuss!)
And I think its an interesting angle to pursue, that for Bruce a lot of the issue is just hard-wired trauma reactions. I think so much of Bruce’s personal morality crystallized around set moments in time, that he doesn’t even recognize how often his views on certain situations go hand in hand with having knee-jerk reactions to those situations unfolding right in front of him, period. Its always funny to me (not hahaha, just, y’know, funny) how as much as his kids are among the first to criticize Bruce as not being all-knowing or perfect, they’re also among the first to fall into the trap of not realizing when they DO have Bruce on a pedestal in their mind. 
It could definitely be argued that there’s a dissonance involved, where many of his kids push back against certain ideas he instilled in them or things he taught them that they disagree with later in life.....where their innate assumption is that Bruce himself was operating from like....an emotionally objective plateau when he taught them or passed down these ideas in the first place. As opposed to recognizing that some of them aren’t Bruce being hypocritical so much as just being....irrational. Not in a pejorative way, but just in terms of acknowledging how much of an unreliable narrator he can be due to his own trauma, his own rigid and impossible self-expectations for himself, etc.
But of course this overlooks that a basic staple of Bruce’s interactions with others is he over-compensates and covers up his own insecurities or doubts or anywhere he second-guesses himself, by like, doubling down on his convictions or at least the parts he DOES feel sure about. So the very fact that Bruce seemed so unwavering in his stance about something when instilling an idea or take on something in various of his kids.....doesn’t actually guarantee that Bruce WAS as sure about that thing as he seemed at the time, just convinced he was the Adult, the Teacher, the one who was SUPPOSED to have the answers, so he had to present himself as such WHILE passing down this perspective.
And yet....its not going to look that way to his kids, so....enter their own conviction that Bruce could never understand or empathize with them changing their minds about these particular things or having their own doubts....thus leading them to not come to him with their doubts or questions about the rigidity of this particular idea or perspective....at least not UNTIL they’ve already firmly made up their own minds about their new perspective on that thing, at which point Bruce is like wait where is this coming from, when they hit him with a complete 180 about something he THOUGHT they were on the same page about, as far as he knew the last time it came up. 
And thus: conflict.
Idk idk idk, my thoughts are all over the place with all of this and the other kids as well, but the thoughts, they definitely are percolating.
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lemm-moxx · 11 months ago
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fuck it, im posting my own aus
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❄ Descriptions for the fellows
down below! ❄
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The T.U.A
The company both of these guys work at! Run by a slightly eccentric cryptid of a British man, their main goal is to archive a usable log of multiverse and general map of everyone and everything! Though the owner does tend of offer people "deals" in order to gain more power in the multiverse. As his presence could be considered quite "limited". from loans, to sending his men out on some kind of epic journey to acquire a magical artifact they do it all!
Sable (the spikey one ye-haw)
He's a certified cool guy wannabe, only sometimes actually delivering on this desire. of course only to immediately ruin the moment. ( From either being too nice to seem "badass" freaking out over how cool he looked. ) besides all of this sable remains one of the more sensible of his fellow employees
Impressions of this man are split into the dependence of whether or not he's working. Sable tends to develop a serious and focused front. This mainly being from the fact that sables precious attempts at a casual attitude to his work the employee accompanying him horrifically died! (Probably why he's afraid of the actual dark :D )
Sables been working at the T.U.A for approximately 5 years at this point. He's mainly sent out for things like item/debt collection, he also normally finds himself paired with clay. Which works quite well with Clay's current job of field data collector.
Clay (sans)
Clay could be considered quite a recent person, having the mental age of someone in their mid 20s but only really gaining sentience 5 years ago. As in every way he could be considered an enchanted statue.
Clay's creator actually gave him away to the company he currently works at, in order to settle a large debt they had amassed. The owner of the T.UA (who has a very strong investment in his treatment of employees and workers) hated the fact that he was basically a servant and immediately gave him the option to leave. (he did not, but now he gets dental care!)
Overall clay is described as a very chipper, empathetic and tone deaf. constantly possessing an unwavering peppy approach to the most inappropriate of situations. clay tends to take on tasks or any kind of favor from his coworkers as possible to feel a sense of usefulness. ( i guess somethings left over from before he started working here.)
(i was so nervous to post them, god (toby fox) help me)
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frostfall-matches · 6 months ago
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[ matchmaking... ]
@mxchislvt : [ match report ready ]
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your match is…
✦ Bokuto Kotaro
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-> [ The most enthusiastic partner. ] He’s an upbeat, cheerful person more often than not, so his interactions with you are often very affectionate and eager. And of course he’s going to be eager when talking to you! Bokuto cares a lot about those close to him and he’s naturally very excitable, so he really can’t help it. Compliments, excited greetings, and empathetic comments are never in short supply with him. This aspect even shows when it comes to texting; his responses are always full of emotion. Responses may be sporadic during the day because of school and practice, which you’re quick to understand considering your own schedule and hobbies, but he’s quick to respond in the evenings and on weekends. And on the occasion that his responses feel lackluster? It’s a clear indication to you that something’s off with him, and he’s very likely feeling down about something.
-> [ While friendly and kind himself, your sweetness absolutely melts him. ] Bokuto is very bombastic and could often be described as being “too much” - because he can definitely be a bit (or even VERY) overwhelming for some. And his chipper demeanor isn’t always “soft and sweet” like yours is, and this is something that even he can pick up on. But he loves it! He loves how genuinely sweet and feminine you are on the inside, and your personality compliments his own very well. His teammates grumble about how sickly sweet and cute you two are. As a side note, perhaps unsurprisingly, Bokuto really had no qualms about approaching you. He paid absolutely no heed to your RBF, probably hadn’t listened much to the opinions of people who didn’t know you well and assumed you were on the meaner side.
-> [ He would have an absolute blast roller skating with you. ] It does take him a bit to get the hang of it, but he’s athletic, eager to learn, and quick to learn to boot. When he learned that roller skating was a big interest of yours, he practically begged you to take him with you the next time you went skating and show him the ropes. Teaching him how to roller skate was quite fun for you - he’s really goofy and funny, with big reactions any time he slips up or succeeds in one of the basics. And then, once he gets the hang of things, he loves pushing himself and trying to keep up with you. Bokuto is more likely to get hurt than you are in those first few weeks when he starts learning, but in the event that you do get a bit bruised or scraped up, he is determined to tend to your injuries.
-> [ Bokuto thinks you’d be great at teaching! ] Building off the previous point - he first realizes you have a talent for teaching when you were helping him learn how to roller skate. You’re patient, smart, able to explain things in different ways if someone doesn’t quite understand. He probably made an offhand comment when you were helping him (“you’d be a good teacher, you know?”) and if you mentioned that being a teacher has always been your dream job, he would immediately light up. Though he can be a bit dense or simple-minded at times, he really can be a good judge of character. On a side note, study dates are probably pretty common for you two. Bokuto can have a really hard time with academics, especially the act of just sitting down and actually studying, so you two are able to hold each other accountable and help each other out.
-> [ Totally jams out to your music. ] Bokuto seems like the type to like a lot of different genres - so long as he can bop his head along or dance to it, he’ll probably like it. So if you ever want to listen to music with him, play it out loud, or give him recommendations - go for it! He likes getting a good idea of your taste in music so he can make recommendations in return. One of his favorite things to do is to put some music on and dance around and just be silly with you. It’s fun, you can show off some of your moves, and it’s a good way to release a bit of energy (considering Bokuto has more than enough of that as it is). Of course, singing along while you dance around to some pop song only makes sense, too. You can hold a tune just fine, but Bokuto might not be the prettiest singer (and you two have so much fun regardless).
-> [ Sometimes get a little bit chaotic between you two. ] You each have your high-energy moments, short attention spans, and a tendency towards moodiness… so this relationship is not without its ups and downs! You both give the other a bit of grace when it comes to these shared traits of yours, understanding when the other seems to be struggling a bit - and you both offer your own forms of comfort, able to keep the other grounded when needed. It’s likely that you two will end up feeding off of each other’s energy, so there’s potential for one of you to drag the other down… but there’s also potential for one of you to lift the other up. It keeps the relationship interesting, in a way, but as long as communication remains a priority for both of you, it shouldn’t be too rough of a ride.
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misericors · 6 months ago
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[ he/him, cis man ] greetings to all of our listeners! we start today’s potterwatch with a long-awaited update on harry james potter who was finally spotted alive just last night, wandering the streets of london. for those of you who haven’t tuned in before, they are a 51 year old half-blood wizard who is oddly reminiscent of a past that haunts you, atlas holding the weight of the world, an old pair of glasses, snow falling on the ground, and holding onto the light, which makes sense considering their resilient, selfless, protective, stubborn, solitary, and wrathful nature. you might know of them as the biological child of lily evans and james potter, and we’re sure that their family will be relieved to hear they’re safe and sound — or at least as much as you can be, in times like this. to all our listeners, if you catch a glimpse of someone who looks a bit like that muggle matthew goode, that’s them. before approaching, please be aware that they’re rumored to be affiliated with the order of the phoenix so best proceed with caution. these are dangerous times we’re living in. well, thanks for tuning in, folks. we’ll play ourselves out with nightcall by london grammar. [ jess, 27, she/her, aest ]
BASICS
Full Name: Harry James Potter Date of Birth: 30 July 1980 Place of Birth: Godric’s Hollow, West Country, England Parents: James Potter, Lily (Evans) Potter Siblings: None Other Family: Ginny Weasley (wife); Teddy Lupin (godson/adopted son); James, Albus and Lily Potter (children); Weasley family (in-laws); Petunia, Vernon and Dudley Dursley (estranged relatives); Sirius Black (deceased godfather) Gender: Cismale Sexual Orientation: Bisexual
MAGICAL RELEVANCE
Blood Status: Half-blood Hogwarts House: Gryffindor Wand: As he never got the Elder Wand from Voldemort at the Battle of Hogwarts, Harry was unable to repair his old beloved holly and phoenix feather wand. He had a new one made out of mahogany and dragon heartstring.  Patronus: Stag Boggart: The bodies of his children, reflecting his fear that they will be the next to die for him, because of him Strengths: Defensive magic, duelling, charms, flying Alliance: formerly Dumbledore’s Army / currently the Order of the Phoenix, leader
PERSONAL
Style: Casual and thoughtless, it’s not a priority for Harry. Used to wearing Dudley’s second-hand clothes while growing up, Harry still tends to dress Muggle. Plain t-shirts and jeans, usually paired with flannels or jumpers, dull and faded colours - he generally wears his clothes out. Nor does he take very good care of his glasses, often forgetting to clean them and leaving them fingerprint stained, much as his wand usually is. Habits: He rubs his forehead when thinking, a habit formed from when his scar pains him, though due to his practice and mastery of Occlumency (necessary to protect the Order from Voldemort), his scar does not do so often anymore. Avoids most physical touch with other people. Turns away when people stare at his scar. Often kicks inanimate objects when angered or frustrated. Keeps his wand on him at all times, always wary and never fully relaxes; those close to him generally notice the tenseness in his shoulders. Scars: Famous lightning scar on forehead. Oval shaped burn mark on his chest from the locket. Lingering remnants of ‘I must not tell lies’ on his wrist, faded scarring. Traits:  +resilient, selfless, quick-witted, intuitive, noble, brave, forgiving, empathetic, protective, fair-minded -stubborn, solitary, condemnatory, quick-tempered, obsessive, defiant, partisan, wrathful, reckless, uncommunicative, violent 
BIOGRAPHY 
At the failed Battle of Hogwarts, Harry begged his friends and allies to stand down.  Blaming himself for their losses, he couldn’t stand to see anyone else fall and organized the retreat to safehouses. Utterly devasted by the loss of Hagrid in particular, he felt entirely responsible for the deaths of some of his dearest friends, Professor McGonagall and Mr and Mrs Weasley especially. Having found the bodies of Remus and Tonks he was also desperate to find Teddy Lupin and ensure his safety.
Having retreated to the Order’s first safehouse, Harry remained there for some time, regrouping with Ron and Hermione and looking after Teddy. He was now truly an outcast, but what was worse was feeling responsible for all the deaths, for seeing Voldemort grow stronger and stronger, casting the world into darkness - and knowing it was all because he had failed. He had let down Dumbledore. Sirius. His parents. Everyone who had given their lives for him.
At first the horcux hunt remained his main goal, but soon the horcruxes had to take a lower priority. At that point in the war, they weren’t even keeping even with Voldemort; Death Eater control was total and the Order could no longer play the offensive and go after horcruxes when they were so desperately needed to  try and stop the slaughter. Though Harry was deeply torn, he found it impossible to prioritse some abstract ideal of “the greater good” when there were so many people being murdered.  He decided to ignore Dumbledore’s voice in his head, and the Order switched into prioritising getting Muggles and Muggle-borns out of danger and the horcruxes fell somewhat to the wayside. Harry still doesn't know that he himself is a horcrux, tethering Voldemort to life.
In time, Harry and Ginny would also grow back into their relationship and have children of their own: James, Albus and Lily. Having a family to protect was the source of Harry’s greatest happiness and the very worst of his terror. Every night he struggled to sleep, haunted by the fear that his failures would destroy them and that he would lose his children in this fight, as he has lost almost every person he has ever loved. Not just lost them, had to live with the fact that they died for him. There was a part of him that wanted nothing more than to send them far away from him, where they would be safe from the damage Harry wreaks across the lives of all those he touches. He has always attempted to keep them out of the fight as much as possible. 
Harry’s first kill was on a rescue mission, when he came up against John Dawlish, an Auror that Harry had long disagreed with and despised for his blind loyalty to the Ministry and its worse policies. Harry’d had no other choices in the moment but to send a Killing Curse at Dawlish in order to save the lives of a Muggle family. Knowing Dawlish had turned made it easier - or it would have, except that Harry couldn’t be sure Dawlish hadn’t been placed under the Imperius Curse and now, he would never know. He was also haunted by the Confundus Charm placed on Dawlish by the Order to protect Harry’s escape from Privet Drive, which may have made Dawlish more susceptible to the Imperius. He can never be sure that what he did was the right thing, but it was done, and couldn’t be undone. The family was saved, and if Harry had blood on his hands, had torn apart his soul in the act, it was only going to get worse from here. He accepted that going forwards, there would be no other choice. 
After the first kill, it became easier. At first Harry’s stipulation to the order was to kill only when necessary, when there was no other choice, a rule that also applied to general use of the Unforgivable curses (excepting the Cruciatus), but as the war went on and things became darker, there became less and less choice. They were fighting a war, a war in which Voldemort had total control, and the only way to truly fight back was to kill. It was a burden that Harry would prefer to carry himself, or at least for the older members of the Order. Current orders are that they are to attempt to keep the younger members from having to kill unless absolutely necessary. He usually sends those younger members on defensive rescue missions or to steal supplies, though it’s not always possible.
 Harry is committed full-time to leading the Order, primarily in rescue missions, but the horcrux quest remains on the backburner when possible. He has never given up on the hope of destroying Voldemort once and for all, but there has always been very little chance of doing so when it’s a struggle to even just keep their own people alive.
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elijahfalvey · 6 months ago
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𝐓𝐀𝐒𝐊 𝟎𝟎𝟏 — 𝑷𝑬𝑹𝑺𝑶𝑵𝑨𝑳𝑰𝑻𝒀.
❛❛ An ordinary hand, just lonely for something to touch that touches back.
MEYER'S BRIGGS — ENFT-P, THE CAMPAIGNER.
78% EXTRAVERTED, 66% INTUITIVE, 61% FEELING, 75% TURBULENT, 56% PROSPECTING.
People with the ENFP personality type are true free spirits – outgoing, openhearted, and open-minded. With their lively, upbeat approach to life, ENFPs stand out in any crowd. But even though they can be the life of the party, they don’t just care about having a good time. These personalities have profound depths that are fueled by their intense desire for meaningful, emotional connections with others.
ENFP personalities carry an interesting blend of carefree sociability, sparkling imagination, and deep, contemplative introspection. They regularly use their natural curiosity and expansive creativity to try to better understand themselves and the complex dynamics of human relationships. And they are truly devoted to nurturing their relationships with and their understanding of the world at large.
ENFPs need to be careful, however. Their intuition may lead them to read far too much into other people’s actions and behaviors. Instead of simply asking for an explanation, they may end up puzzling over someone else’s desires or intentions. This kind of social stress is what keeps harmony-focused ENFP personalities awake at night.
MORAL ALIGNMENT — NEUTRAL GOOD.
A neutral good character does the best that a good person can do, devoted to helping others, works with kings and magistrates but does not feel beholden to them. Neutral good is the best alignment you can be because it means doing what is good without bias for or against order. However, neutral good can be a dangerous alignment when it advances mediocrity by limiting the actions of the truly capable.
ENNEAGRAM — TYPE TWO, THE HELPER.
BASIC FEAR: OF BEING UNWANTED, UNWORTHY.
BASIC DESIRE: TO BE LOVED.
Twos are empathetic, sincere, and warm-hearted. They are friendly, generous, and self-sacrificing, but can also be sentimental, flattering, and people-pleasing. They are well-meaning and driven to be close to others, but can slip into doing things for others in order to be needed. They typically have problems with possessiveness and with acknowledging their own needs.
THE FOUR TEMPERAMENTS — SANGUINE.
17 SANGUINE, 12 MELANCHOLIC, 10 PHLEGMATIC, 9 CHOLERIC.
The sanguine personality is characterized by a cheerful disposition, lively energy, and a generally positive and optimistic outlook on life. Sanguine individuals tend to be highly social, extroverted, and enthusiastic, often possessing a contagious sense of humor that makes them the life of the party. They are usually creative, imaginative, and tend to be very entertaining. Sanguine individuals are also spontaneous and can be seen as impulsive at times. They have a tendency to live in the moment, which often leads to them being adaptable and flexible in different situations. They tend to be more interested in the present than in future plans or consequences. This trait, however, can also lead to difficulty in maintaining focus, staying organized, and following through on tasks. Moreover, sanguine people are often charismatic and are able to influence and inspire others with their vibrant energy and contagious enthusiasm. Their natural ability to create and maintain relationships often leads to a large network of friends and acquaintances. On the flip side, the sanguine temperament may lack depth in the analysis of situations and can sometimes take things too lightly, even when seriousness is required. This can lead to a tendency towards forgetfulness and disorganization. Their desire for social acceptance and fear of rejection can also make them overly sensitive to criticism.
LOVE LANGUAGE — PHYSICAL TOUCH.
33% PHYSICAL TOUCH, 30% WORDS OF AFFIRMATION, 27% QUALITY TIME, 7% RECEIVING GIFTS, 3% ACTS OF SERVICE.
His Love Tank overflows with Physical Touch. He longs for hand-holding and hugs. A warm embrace or a simple pat on the back helps him feel connected and cherished. Touch creates a bond of connectedness. And, for him, it communicates love and affection more than words ever could.
ZODIAC — SCORPIO SUN, CAPRICORN MOON.
The Scorpio Sun Capricorn Moon person is likely to be on their precocious and intelligent side. They have a calm demeanor which makes them approachable. Although they seem serious, reserved, and hard-working, they really don't take themselves too seriously and often have a great and unusual sense of humor. They love to tell entertaining stories, some of which may seem so absurd that others may wonder how much of it is being made up.
Sun in Scorpio, Moon in Capricorn is mostly a private person who does not require an excessive amount of attention from other people. They do low-key things but when the spotlight is put on them, they can be remarkably charming and likable. This Sun Moon conjunction suggests a personality that is responsible, patient, and humble.
Their needs are simple and although they work hard to succeed in their careers, they are not particularly motivated by material wealth. They want stability and want to be able to support their family and friends. At their best, they are charming and fun to be around, although they can sometimes feel the need to withdraw. They are lonely at heart but their heart is full of love, honesty, and passion.
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shytastemakerthing · 1 year ago
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Hello dear! By a stroke of luck I saw you were doing matchups and I'd love to join <33 I'd like a matchup for Ikemen Prince please, if that's okay!!
My pronouns are She/Her and I'd like it to be romantic please <3.
For some positive personality traits: I'm overall very friendly and easy to approach. I'm very patient and slow to anger. I'm very empathetic and sympathetic, I have a very easy time putting myself in others' shoes and rarely judge others. I'm a good listener and very attentive to others' needs. I tend to remember little things about the people I love and if I'm passionate about something I will always put my 110% in.
For some negative traits: I have a bad habit of being a people pleaser and have an overall hard time saying no unless I'm asked something blatantly dangerous. I'm a big daydreamer so I often have my head in the clouds which can make me less attentive to my surroundings and may lead the to zone out every now and then. I'm a BIG procrastinator and when I don't really like something I'll leave it until the very last moment to do. And lastly I tend to beat around the bush when I have to say something negative to someone or about someone to them or at least take a while to at least get to it because I try to sugarcoat it as much as possible. So... Basically not very straightforward.
Zodiac signs:
Sun: Taurus Moon: Pisces Rising: Cancer Venus: Pisces
Mbti and enneagram: INFP-T 9w1
Love languages: All of them tbh but primarily Words of affirmation and Physical touch.
My hobbies include:
-Ballet
-Cooking/Baking
-Playing Piano and Bass guitar
-Writing (poetry/songs/books)
-Reading
-Listening to music
For other details:
I like animals, I like to go on unnecessarily long walks, another unsung love language of mine is just feeding people? It ties in with my hobby for sure but with me you'll never go hungry, I like dressing up, my favorite season is winter, I'm very affectionate both verbally and physically and will tone it down depending on the person, I can be very talkative with the right person, other than ballet I'm quite proficient in a viennese waltz too and... That's all I can think of at the moment.
I hope that's enough!
Thank you so so much dear <3
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Hello! Thank you so much for your request! I'm sorry that this took forever to get out but I do hope that you enjoy it!
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I match you with...........
Yves Kloss
Just the reason that you are such a friendly and easy going person alone was enough to actually get this friendship started to begin with. Look, the man absolutely cares about anyone and everyone, but showing that love on the outside is a whole different story. He just needs a little help.
What really got this going, to where you two officially became a pair was when he walked in on you baking. It was later in the evening, you had music playing and he couldn't help but to watch as you danced your way through the kitchen throughout the baking process. It was something that he wanted to see more of.
This then starts baking dates, cause he quite likes baking as well. So the both of you are always making something for one another that you both either sit there in the kitchen and eat, or pack it up for each other if it's a more busy day. Absolutely no one touches the little box of sweets that you made for him. He will hold onto that like a vice.
Please read to him. He finds your voice just so soothing and it can be rather crazy around as we have all seen. Bonus points if he gets a cuddle out of you. He will never refuse. But the chances are, between your voice reading to him, him cuddled next to you enough to hear your heartbeat, there is the possibility he will fall asleep. It's just too comfortable.
He does not mind at all if you space out and begin daydreaming again. It's a sign of a creative mind, at least, he thinks so. During one of these times, he actually brought a journal with him. It's a gift just for you. Perhaps you would like a place to write down whatever it is that you day dream about. Your own little dream journal.
Overall, his favorite way to be able to spend his time with you, is when you both are just able to enjoy the company of one another. You don't always have to be doing something. He will gladly join you for your walks or time in the kitchen. Just so long as he gets to be with you, he is happy.
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Thank you for your reply. My ask was kind of all over the place. (I've done some dbt before with a previous therapist and it helped! But that therapist was not a good fit I'm at a new one now tho).
Random thing, you mentioned bpd I heard in my abnormal psychology class that a lot of therapists won't treat someone diagnosed with bpd??? It was the teacher who is a grad student studying to be a therapist who said it. And like. I don't understand. They sound like a very in need population who was often abused and there's a whole huge book of treatment resources written by someone with bpd. I've heard they're "hard to treat" and talked about like they're hopeless. but like why be a mental health professional if you don't like mentally ill/different people?
This is also the same professor who insisted trauma is only the few things listed under dsm ptsd definition as traumatic events.. like she said parents getting divorced isn't a traumatic event because you aren't physically in danger... that class really scared me about the mental health field because of all the awful people in it aspiring to be therapists including the teacher.
Sorry for all the asks I love the work you do on this blog
Ahahaha, what IS it about undergrad abnormal psych professors? Mine said he wouldn't touch clinical practice with a ten-foot pole, and told a story about how once a student told him she had schizophrenia, and he knew that she was lying because obviously nobody with schizophrenia could actually manage to attend university.
(It's seriously untrue. I've had both friends and clients with psychotic disorders who succeeded in university. He was being an ableist bastard. Like, I know psych students can tend to over-identify with a disorder they're studying without actually having it, but that doesn't mean no psych student is ever entirely correct about their deal.)
Okay so, BPD. The thing about BPD is that it requires a special skillset that does not come standard in most clinical training. If a therapist who doesn't have that skillset tries to treat someone with BPD, the therapy will not be very effective and the process will be very frustrating for both them and their client. To be very frank, it's just as true that ordinary therapists are bad at treating BPD and don't like feeling stupid, as it is that people with BPD are hard to treat.
(And training to deal with people with BPD clinically is often not included in grad school education. DBT training is expensive and they won't accept you unless you have an adequate clinical placement.)
Also, part of dealing with BPD in particular is... people with BPD often have trouble seeing authority figures with anything more nuanced than "adoration and compliance" or "fear and loathing". As a therapist, you're signing up as an authority figure. Part of the work means letting your client express all their feelings about you, and helping them work to something more nuanced and sustainable, like, "I am furious and enraged that I'm in pain and I wish my therapist could take that pain away, but I realize that's not within her power. I have to admit that she's not being an evil villain here, so I can feel my resentment but let it go."
Which can be stressful to deal with, as a therapist. You have to live with a lot of hurt and anger and rage headed your way, and keep your perspective. Be empathetic without getting carried away in those emotions. You have to be able to face that pain and say, "I can't take that away. I can only help you learn to bear it."
Basically everyone I know in grad school had a nervous breakdown somewhere along the line because we go to therapist school because we're smart and capable and feel good about helping people, so when we encounter a person we can't help, or are put in situations where we have to stop helping, we tend to have existential crises and end up sobbing in the student lounge about What Am I Even Good For Now. I was lucky because I had a version of that breakdown before I entered grad school, and my therapist warned me to get a new shrink when I moved for my Master's, "Because if you don't need one at the beginning, you'll definitely need one by the end." So I was more equipped to help classmates for whom this was a wholly new experience.
In my opinion, the healthy way to approach the problem of A Person You're Not Good At Helping is to practice humility, set reasonable boundaries, recognize the limits of your competence, and see where you can learn and grow. But many therapists and helping professionals use what I consider to be an unhealthy approach, labelling such clients as "defensive" and "resistant" and "hard to treat" and blaming them for the difficulty.
Which like, I get that "practicing humility" is like "doing exercise", sometimes you're tired and cranky and don't want to go for a run. Sometimes you just want to blame the other person for not accepting your magnanimous help.
Anyway, within the field of mental health psychotherapy, complex trauma is a unique sub-speciality that many therapists don't want to touch at all. I had many classmates say, "Woof, you're into complex trauma? You must be so tough, I could never." 🙄
(Technically I have the ethical obligation to represent my profession in the best possible light to encourage public confidence in the field of psychotherapy. But I think it's not undermining the profession to admit what everyone already knows, which is that some therapists are oblivious assholes who do bad work. I've seen it, I've met them, I want them to piss off forever. Jordan Peterson is a blight to our names and Phil McGraw can go choke.)
So people who are on your wavelength about BPD and trauma and What Therapists Are For are out there. They're just a little rarer than the usual run of therapists. For what it's worth, I've found they cluster more in areas like complex trauma, DBT, Narrative Therapy, and the Hearing Voices Movement. Next year (knock on wood) I'l be going to a conference on the treatment of complex trauma with a friend, and this sounds weird given that it's a weekend all about child maltreatment, but I expect it to be a blast, because I'll get to be among My People, talking about the work that fills our souls.
I really wish that as an undergrad, I'd spent more time hanging out with Social Work students, and going to conferences and trainings. Those are where I met some of the coolest people I really clicked with. And in grad school, I had the extreme pleasure of meeting other people who were a lot like me. Those friendships were especially rewarding because as skilled helpers, we ended up playing a game of Needs Chicken, where each tries hide their own needs and caretake for the other, which finally ended up in a standoff where we had to agree to put down our caretaking skills and just be honest about what we wanted, even if that felt new and scary and raw.
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samthesimpssss · 2 years ago
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Hello love! I got a notification and saw you were doing matchups and I'd like to join 😈 (I hope I didn't misread and it's already open)
The Fandom I'd like a match-up for is Tokyo Revengers. My pronouns are She/Her and my gender preference is male and I'd like it to be romantic please <3.
Some positive traits: I'm overall very friendly and easy to approach. I'm very patient and slow to anger. I'm very empathetic and sympathetic, I have a very easy time putting myself in others' shoes and rarely judge others. I'm a good listener and very attentive to others' needs. I tend to remember little things about the people I love and if I'm passionate about something I will always put my 110% in. I'm a very not judgemental person and I think it's fair to say I'm quite mature as well. I can be spontaneous and go along with spontaneous ideas very well but I'm not impulsive. I'm also overall polite and will be very talkative with the right people.
Some negative traits: I have a bad habit of being a people pleaser and have an overall hard time saying no unless I'm asked something blatantly dangerous. I'm a big daydreamer so I often have my head in the clouds which can make me less attentive to my surroundings and may lead the to zone out every now and then. I'm a procrastinator and when I don't really like something I'll leave it until the very last moment to do. And lastly I tend to beat around the bush when I have to say something negative to someone or about someone to them or at least take a while to at least get to it because I try to sugarcoat it as much as possible. So... Basically not very straightforward.
My mbti and enneagram: INFP-T 9w1
And I don't know if you also wanted zodiac signs but I'll add it in anyway:
Sun: Taurus Moon: Pisces Rising: Cancer Venus: Pisces
Some of my hobbies:
-Ballet
-Playing piano and bass guitar
-Writing both books, poetry and songs
-Reading books
-Listening to music
-Visiting museums (I like both art and history)
-Swimming
-Sewing
-Cooking and baking
-Watching both Vintage movies and classic Disney movies
-Going around petting stray cats
-Recently I've been learning how to knit
Other random things about me:
I like animals. I like to go on unnecessarily long walks. Mind of embarrassing but sometimes when I'm nervous to go somewhere for whatever reason I have this little plushie I take with me in my bag. I collect pink snack packages?? It might've not been delicious but at least the packaging is cute 😪. I like pink in general. An unsung love language of mine is just feeding people? It ties in with my hobby for sure but with me you'll never go hungry. I like dressing up and doing my makeup. My favorite season is winter and I love love ice skating. I'm very affectionate both verbally and physically and will tone it down depending on what the person I'm with is comfortable with. Sometimes when I laugh too hard I snort a little :/, I can dance a Viennese waltz My favorite Disney princesses are Cinderella and Aurora and both are actually quite similar to me. One night when I was younger I decided to teach myself 1800s etiquette and now old ladies love me. When I'm excited about something I bounce on my toes a little, I'm adept at flower language and every summer I get up early to pick some pretty ones and press them, only one of each though. I can sing a little but don't expect a power ballad out of me :(. I knit my neighbours cat a little hat. I like exploring local markets for trinkets. I cry pretty easily. I think that's everything I can think of at the moment.
I hope that's enough!
Thank you so much <3
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I have match you up with…
Manjiro Sano!
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- his carefree nature + You = a relationship full of adventures. Y’all will just never be bored with each other
- Expect him to tease you when you snort but he does it lovingly and think it’s cute, he thinks everything that you do is cute—
- he would love to go ice skating with you in the winter, just because he has an excuse to hold your hand when skating :)
- he finds you feeding him very enjoyable. What can I say he likes to be taken care of :)
- he will gladly help you knit a hat for your neighbour’s cat, just so he can spend more time with you :D
- but when you do end up crying for whatever reason, he will always be there for you to comfort you with open arms
“There there my princess, is everything all right? Oh just a bad day? Well… would you like to go for a walk with me? It will help you feel better hmm?”
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vaultboyenthusiast · 2 years ago
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🌹🌻🌲 for any OC(s) of your choosing! + I love your writing!
dude this absolutely made my day <3 I have been extremely unmotivated and seeing this slapped me in the face and said “bitch get ur shit done” (in a good way lol don’t worry)
I’m gonna do these for Dusty because he’s the only one I’ve talked about a whole lot!
🌹 Where in the world does your OC feel most at home? Is there any reason why? If it’s not the place they were born, where were they born? Is there a certain somebody that makes them feel at home where ever they may be? What does home mean to them?
Dusty has four different places that he could really consider a “home” - Goodsprings, Freeside, Red Rock with the Khans, and the Nellis Air Force Base. However, I doubt he would even think about settling down somewhere, as the boy is, at his core, a wanderer. He’s very well-liked in all of those places because he has a very helpful nature. Also people tend to see him and instantly decide that he needs a family, so in all four areas, he’s basically got an army of adoptive parents and grandparents. As for where he was born, the would be some generic city in New Mexico that I do not have a name for because. Yeah. Dusty does not consider that to be a home at all, seeing as it’s still where his shitty rich dad who he hasn’t seen in years lives. Actually, he does travel back there at some point in his story (which I will be writing. soon. i’m working on it.) but not for fun ahaha. When it comes to people who make him feel at home, Dusty has no romantic interests, but friend-wise, he has Benny and Arcade. At this point, they’re basically his dads. And yes Benny adopted the kid he shot because I said so. Dusty isn’t quite sure what home means to him, but if he had to put his finger on it, he’d say it’s somewhere he doesn’t feel like he has to run from. Most of his story is about leaving things behind, so finding somewhere he’d want to return to is a good feeling.
🌻 What little things do they notice about people or the world around them that make them happy? What tiny little treasures do they find in the normal every day that makes the world seem a little brighter for them?
Dusty is a very perceptive person. Very little gets past him. This mostly applies to bad things, such as someone about to attack him or a trap hanging right above his head, but it can also apply to good things. He loves seeing that plants still grow in the wasteland, especially flowers, and he has a tendency to point them out wherever he sees them. Flowers were also very important to his mother, so they remind him of her. The idea that good things can still happen and life can still flourish in the Mojave always brings him a bit of hope when he remembers it.
🌲 How deeply does your OC feel? Are they typically empathetic or do they have a hard time connecting with others in this way? What are they like when offering support and comfort to someone they care for?
Dusty does feel very deeply, but he is also very emotionally constipated. His thoughts and feelings are kept private for the most part, and he tends to bottle up any kind of strong emotion. Because of that, he struggles a lot with empathizing with people and prefers to take a more logical approach, which isn’t always appreciated. He’ll always be the first to offer support, though, whether that just means sitting there and listening to you or helping you out with things you need done. Dusty also can and will murder anyone who hurts someone he cares about. You said some guy was harassing you? Not anymore.
:DDDD this was very fun to write thank you!!
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ABOUT ARCHIE 🦉
Basic Information
Name: Dr. Archimedes Feathursby
Nicknames: Archie
Age: 63
Date of Birth: July 9th
Hometown: Redwood Hollow
Current Location: Redwood Hollow
Ethnicity: Caucasian
Nationality: American
Gender: Cis man
Pronouns: He/him
Orientation: Gay
Relationship Status: Divorced Single
Religion: Atheist
Political Affiliation: Independent
Occupation: Dean at Redwood College
Living Arrangements: Lives on his own in the suburbs
Language(s) Spoken: English, knows Latin
Accent: N/A
Physical Appearance
Face Claim: Mark Hamill
Hair Color: Greying blonde
Eye Color: Blue
Height: 5′9″
Weight: 213lb
Build: Pudgy dad bod
Tattoos: When asked, he won’t deny it but he will never, ever tell you
Piercings: Had piercings which he has since let close up
Clothing Style: Tends to dress professionally in public, favoring blues and browns. Likes to wear a long, brown coat as he gets cold easily
Usual Expression: Grumpy and cynical
Distinguishing Characteristics: Long hair and iconic beard
Health
Physical Ailments: Body is starting to break down with age, often gets sore, especially in the back and knees
Neurological Conditions: Suffers from depression and suicidal ideation, but is medicated for it
Allergies: Seasonal, pollen
Sleeping Habits: Even when he gets a full night sleep, Archie is NOT a morning person. Don’t even talk to him until he’s had his coffee
Eating Habits: Coffee for breakfast, no lunch break due to busy work schedule, tends to put all of his focus into dinner, which he tries to make a hearty and healthy meal
Exercise Habits: In between his busy job, he doesn’t get a lot of free time and what he does he does not want to spend exercising. Along with his age, he is starting to slow down
Emotional Stability: For once in his life, Archie feels relatively stable. His life used to be a whirlwind of emotion and addiction but he has since grown, learned to process things, and takes a much healthier approach to life
Sociability: Archie loves humanity but hates people. If he could have his way, he’d never have to interact with anyone again, maybe a handful at most. Despite this, his position requires constant socialization, which is always a strain for him
Addictions: Although he hasn’t acted on his addiction in many years, he still considers himself a recovering alcoholic
Drug Use: Has tried a lot of things in his life, though never enjoyed anything as much as drinking
Alcohol Use: Was a heavy alcoholic throughout his life. He went sober nearly two decades ago and hasn’t touched the stuff since. Still has cravings sometimes, even all these years later, but hasn’t come close to relapsing in a very long time
Personality
Positive Traits: Empathetic, Intuitive, Astute
Negative Traits: Cantankerous, Flustered, Addictive
Goals/Desires: To help others in achieving their potential and living full lives
Fears: That his past will come back to haunt him, Madam Mim, snakes or other wild animals, just animal bites in general
Hobbies: Reading, writing, birdwatching
Habits: Crossing his arms, huffing, “hmph”, lip twitching, straightening his coat, eyebrow raising
Favorites
Weather: Overcast but not raining
Color: Brown or orange
Music: Finds almost all music obnoxious
Movies: Artsy and indie movies
Sport: What’s a sport?
Beverage: Coffee with exactly 3 creamers and one sugar
Food:
Animal: Owl
Family
Father: Greg Feathursby was a quiet, insular man who spent more time working in the Hill Family Factory than he did raising his kids. One day he left to get cigarettes and never returned. He has not been seen in Redwood Hollow since.
Mother: Nora Feathursby was a bright and curious individual who moved to Redwood Hollow for the free education, hoping to get a degree in Ancient History. Unfortunately, her chronic illness meant she could not finish her degree and settled down with Greg for his financial support. She named all of her children after Greek scientists/philosophers, on the condition that they could have “normal” nicknames. While she was a loving mother, her time was cut short due to her illness and she passed many decades ago.
Sibling(s): Archie is the second of five siblings. His oldest brother is Galileo “Leo”, his first younger sister is Hypatia “Pat”, his next sister is Theano “Thea”, and the youngest is Philon “Loni”. None of them are living in Redwood Hollow and Archie has not spoken to any of them in many years.
Children: None
Extended: None
Family’s Financial Status: The Feathursby family grew up lower class. In his current position, Archie lives comfortably.
Pet(s): None
Extra
Zodiac Sign: Cancer
MBTI: INFJ
Enneagram: The Reformer
Temperament: Melancholic
Hogwarts House: Ravenclaw
Moral Alignment: True Neutral
Primary Vice: Lust
Primary Virtue: Charity
Element: Water
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hysteriapilled · 3 years ago
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- 𝙰 𝚁𝙴𝙰𝙳𝙸𝙽𝙶 𝙾𝙽 𝙴𝚁𝙴𝙽 𝙹𝙰𝙴𝙶𝙴𝚁'𝚂 𝙲𝙷𝙰𝚁𝚃 𝙱𝙴𝙲𝙰𝚄𝚂𝙴 𝙸 𝙷𝙰𝚅𝙴 𝙽𝙾𝚃𝙷𝙸𝙽𝙶 𝙴𝙻𝚂𝙴 𝚃𝙾 𝙳𝙾
Keep in mind that this might be inaccurate considering the information given is not canon, but from google. There will be no house readings since I can't even get a hold of his actual birth time so there is no rising sign (This is Eren's chart and how he would be if he were real, so don't take everything as factual)
𝐅𝐈𝐑𝐒𝐓 𝐎𝐅𝐅
Big 5 Analysis
- SUN IN ARIES. Your sun defines your ego, core identity, your authentic self and in my personal opinion it's not really an important placement in the chart, and more of a title basically. People born into Aries are usually perceived as loud, impulsive, raging and aggressive by others— but they're very caring and protective to the ones they love, though sometimes they sure can have bursts of anger. Eren is stubborn, he can't be chained down and refuses to sit back and watch the people he cares about get tossed around. He is a firm person, quick on his feet and rather very rushing, he's like a puppy excited to get his owner running laps around him, he's hyper and motivating; a natural leader. - MOON IN PISCES. Your moon is your emotional side, how you feel, how you perceive feelings and how you process them. Eren with moon in Pisces is definitely not surprising to me— He is dreamy, intuitive, compassionate and he's either too dependable on others or just an overthinker. Though he may not seem like it Eren is very vulnerable and even prone to getting addicted to substances (alcohol, drugs, bad habits etc.) It's not the best placement in my standpoint, as he can get very affected by his surroundings and others. He can't turn a blind eye and NOT take shit to heart and rather stores it inside and holds onto it. He's very empathetic, he feels people's emotions and feels them well, to the point that he himself experiences what they are going through. - MERCURY IN PISCES. Eren has a LOT of Pisces placements so prepare to see a ton of empathy and psychic abilities in his aspects. Your Mercury is how you think, speak and learn. I sense that Eren has really great vulnerability which might not be a good thing, he trusts people too much and rather relies on them for heaps of things, he can be easily manipulated which is why he should refrain from letting everyone in. On the other hand, he is a very dreamy person and gets lost in his imagination at times. He sees the world in another, imaginative lens, and often could find himself daydreaming randomly. I can see that Eren has a hard time letting go of the past and he can even be linked to people in his life he hadn't seen in years. In terms of rational thinking he isn't the best, as he can't distinguish the logical from the emotional which is definitely something he should work on, he gets often blinded by the illusion of his overwhelming emotions toward others. He can also definitely have an eye to art since his imagination is extravagantly wide.
- VENUS IN TAURUS. Your mercury is your idea of love and how you give it and prefer to receive it— Eren's idea of romance is full of sensuality and gifts, he'll spoil you with his utter loyalty and generally with things too. Devotion is daily, he's extremely honest and would rather die than lie to you. Emphasis on sensuality, Eren craves touch and I could sense that his love language is physical touch, he will shower you with affection and fulfill your needs any time of the day. Taurus in Venus are all about comfort and coziness with their lover, so I can see that Eren loves cuddling, massages, food, sleepovers, intimate little things like that strike a chord in his heart. He can be possessive and jealous of times, he hates change specifically big ones in relationships—He can also take a long time to get to know you and prefers taking things slow and steady rather than rushing into it. I can also feel that he loves hard-workers, people who are dedicated and responsible (that's definitely his type). - MARS IN CAPRICORN. Two words. Goal driven. Your Mars is your approach towards anger and impulses as well as your sexuality aspects. Eren is self-controlled and refuses to take orders from others, he can't be chained down not because he's stubborn, but simply because he can't allow himself to stop. He has a tendency to shut out the world to pursue his objective— he moves forward (not a pun) and is willing to fight against everything and everyone to reach his goal, he isn't petty as he considers little quarrels a waste of time and energy. He likes to focus on the big problem at hand, not how to fight and win the battle but how to prepare for conquering the war once and for all. Eren with this placement knows that he is entitled to earn what he works hard for and will not let anything stop him. Mars signs can also affect appearance so I sense that Eren has very prominent and broad cheekbones, a serious face, and a very stiff, steady voice like he's about to command something. It can also be an intimate, velvety and cold voice and on the topic of intimacy— He usually prefers seeing you face to face and rather dislikes social media flings. He comes with a natural inclination to assume a dominant role in bed and he does what doesn't bother him (kink-wise) His temper is so icy, and he could definitely be on the sadomasochism spectrum. He's very soft in nature so if something was bothering you he'd instantly be turned off. Eren can be aggressive and intense but he may not specifically get off on pain (or he may) more like he finds the idea of being in control a very satisfying idea.
𝐒𝐄𝐂𝐎𝐍𝐃 𝐎𝐅𝐅
2. Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune & Pluto Analysis
- JUPITER IN AQUARIUS. Your Jupiter is where you can receive the most luck and love, without you really doing much. It’s where you can catapult to happiness and success through quickest routes possible, within reason. I can tell from previous placements that Eren is a firm believer in standing for what you think is right. He is very opinionated and sometimes a bit too much— Some of his beliefs or theories can be brilliant and genius and others quite nonsensical and implausible, he rushes into throwing the first opinion just for the sake of throwing it first. Any analytical work about objective themes would come easily to him. Passion and enthusiasm will come astonishingly fast too as he can actually stun society with his innate knowledge with complicated subjects. Any scientific, technological, or perhaps just general abstract topics will benefit Eren greatly in subtle and/or unsubtle ways. He takes leaps of faith and believes what his eyes cannot see or what his mind cannot grasp. Simply what makes everything work out so well for him is the open minded love he puts into his theories. Sometimes though, he fears judgement people give to his methods as they are sometimes out of the box and peculiar. Eren would have to let go of his attachment to what other people think about his ways on solving or analyzing. - SATURN IN LIBRA. Your Saturn sign is your life’s obstacles and challenges, the rewards that come with time, and the discipline you need to achieve your goals. To start off with friendships, Eren cares about others and is tireless in serving others—he's also prone to putting others before him (others as in the people he cares about) And supporting his moon and mercury Pisces, he is very artistic and helps civilize those who need the lessons. The companionship he seeks can often give him solace and security, with his comrades support he feels a lot more powerful and in self-control. In relationships though Eren may tend to have a bit of an inferiority complex when it comes to relationships and is afraid of rejection & may try to shut himself away or run if the going gets tough. He is very drawn to mentor types, and may often be with someone older and wiser. Despite that he still finds a way to assume the dominant role in the relationship due to his cold nature. Eren commits to artful projects, making it possible to live his dreams by seeing them to completion, he finds it very gratifying and has mental discipline when he finds activities that matches his high ideals. His sense of social justice is heightened, that could get him into law, politics and activism—His firm belief in himself also plays a big role in this, his bravery allows himself to sacrifice whatever he has to, to get the job done. Chaos, crassness, and ugliness can cause him a lot of anxiety and fear, and with his persistence to right the wrong he gets really frustrated when people don't have an outlook to life the same as his. I sense that it may be hard for Eren to accept that only he is able to control himself, and it's a hard pill for him to swallow.
- URANUS IN PISCES. As I mentioned before Eren's chart is dominated with Pisces placements, his intuition works at another wavelength than that of the common people, and for this reason, he is in a much deeper connection to the spirit world. He can sense the occult and this acts as a form of guidance for him, an anchor to support his meanderings through life’s challenges. Pair that up with his splendid imagination and innovative spirit, and you get someone who’s afraid of failure even when he’s not doing anything out of the ordinary, the worst thing that could happen to Eren is failing and losing his sense of validation. He’s a negativist ( I can see Eren as a cynical person later on in life, a realist would fit his philosophical belief) but, he should let his intuition and connection to the spirit world heal this part of his, instead of allowing everything to work against him. He won’t let himself be fooled by naïve ideals, even though he likes believing in them. He can be quite realistic and logical when the situation calls for it and that's quite ironic considering he's indulged in his imagination most of the time. - NEPTUNE IN SAGITTARIUS. This is one hell of a placement. Experimentation with different beliefs, spiritual strands, and esoteric-based teachings are all things Eren finds interest in. He cannot deny the divine existence truly and indefinitely to himself- even if he does so to others, there is always the gnawing sense that ‘there is something more,’ and one day he may regret not finding out what that is. His gift is bringing the joy of shared faith and spirituality together, making the sect he resonates with part of his life’s philosophy. We can tell by now that Eren's purpose is seeking truth, absorbing information and looking at the world in a different lens. - PLUTO IN PISCES. Shawty Bae here can also can be more passive aggressive when trying to get what he wants. This means he can be manipulative at times. This is the only time he ever makes a power play. When he is struggling to achieve something for the greater good. (THIS ACTUALLY RESONATES WITH HIS PLAN) But this desire for control is never executed maliciously. He wants things to go his way so he doesn't disappoint those who are counting on him. Eren can be very sensitive, and it’s important to him that he doesn't let anyone down. He so desperately want to help people that he sometimes sacrifices his health and well being, and even somtimes the well being of others just for the outcome to turn out best.
𝐋𝐀𝐒𝐓𝐋𝐘
3. Chiron (Scar)
- CHIRON IN PISCES. Your Chiron sign in astrology shows where you sustained your deepest wound, your scar— It can never be completely healed, but they can be worked with and transmuted. Eren with Chiron in Pisces, we've already talked about many Pisces qualities in him (empathy, psychic abilities, imagination etc.) But the Chiron has a lot more depth into it, Eren might have a deep fear of being hurt by the universe or the forces at play. He might feel that the world is unfair or merciless and doesn't have his back almost every time. He has a sense of betrayal, and that leads him into cynicism (mentioned before in his Uranus placement) He felt that nobody was there for him when he needed it the most and he also feels a sense of victimization. This placement has a lot to do with the idea of FATE. Even subconsciously Eren feels he was dealt an unfair life, I can also feel that his way of coping is feeling someones grief right alongside them. Sympathyzing is definitely his way of forgetting about his own problems. Even though Eren doesn't exactly victimize himself he still can't understand why the universe is set up this way— he feels that the world isn't fair to him and his loved ones. Although all this scarring shows when he indulges himself in an immense shell of cynicism, then he hops between two places; Not feeling empathy for others since nobody offered empathy to him - or sympathyzing greatly and putting others' needs before his. It is easy for him to shut his feelings out but only with the help of substances which makes him more prone to getting addicted. This placement was created at some point in the past when Eren needed something badly and didn’t get it (sometimes the wound stems from a past life, but this stemmed from his childhood) Maybe it's because he felt insignificant to someone he felt was an idol to him, maybe this figure or idol was never there to nurture him and the probability of him having a lost close one in early childhood days is a very probable cause in how this Chiron stemmed.
BONUS:
- I get massive ISFP vibes from early Eren and INTJ from late him.
- His Venus Taurus makes him very romantic, so I feel like this would be his favorite song to dance to
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♚ //  Face Claim Full name Face Claim: Hwang Hyunjin Group/Band/Occupation: Stray Kids Nationality: Korean Faceclaim age: 22
♚ // Character ;  Basic information Quote: "I pray this winter be gentle and kind—a season of rest from the wheel of the mind.“
Full name character: Alieos Vassos Nickname: Lieo Realm of birth(if earth, nationality): Light / Fairy Realm Age: 178 Date of Birth: December 17th, 1843 Gender: Cis Male Preferred Pronouns: He/Him Race: Weather Pixie (Winter) Sexual Orientation: Demiromantic Bisexual What languages does your character speak?: Elvish, English and bits of Korean What is the level of Korean and how did they learn to speak it: Intermediate. Was taught it at home and knows most of the language, but struggles on common phrases and slang. Often sounds extremely formal when speaking
♚ // Character ; Appearance Skin Color: Pale Ivory Eye color: Sapphire during the winter season, silver the rest of the year Scars: N/A Piercings: Two in the right ear, three in the left Tattoos: None Hair color: Platinum blonde during the winter season, chestnut brown the rest of the year Abnormalities: N/A Horns/ wings/ etc.: A set of silvery white translucent wings that resemble a butterflies Transformed form: When in his pixie form he shrinks considerably, coming at roughly four inches. His body still resembles much of how his human form does, however his eyes are more translucent and his skin is a light baby blue.
♚ // Character ; Personality Six personality traits:
Observant, Perceptive, Compassionate, Passive, Withdrawn, Indulgent
Likes: The snow / wintertime, silky fabrics, shiny jewelry, humans, classical music Dislikes: Ignorance, the heat / summertime, meat / meat byproducts iron, restlessness Manias: None Phobias: Thunderstorms, Somniphobia Animal: Owl Religion: Pagan Favorite song: https://youtu.be/BBaaXquu_8A — All Around Me by Flyleaf Vice: Gluttony Virtue: Kindness
Personality description:
From his exterior, Alieos seems distant, if not a bit cold. His expression doesn’t change often, leaning more towards stoic or even impassive at any given time. He tends to be more observant of his surroundings and quiet in most situations, only giving input when necessary or when questioned. While he seems hard to approach it’s actually quite the opposite and he has no problem holding a conversation if someone starts it or manages to ask enough questions to keep the flow going.
Contradicting his almost never changing exterior, within he is very tenderhearted, kind, and empathetic to a fault. He is very good at reading peoples moods and, while he is unable to visually express the feelings he has, he is very good at forming the words needed to bring comfort. It could be said he is soothing, much like a comfort person one would turn to when they are feeling down or scared. He tends to put others first and take in everything around him, leaving little for himself but giving all to someone else who asks of him. He is hard to anger (typically defaulting to sadness, first) but when triggered he shuts down mentally and will have no recollection of his actions once he comes back to.
Digging deeper, Alieos is severely self-deprecating and anxious, tending to worry about little things that most people would not linger on for very long. Sleeplessness comes to him more times then not, especially if he’s previously aided in helping someone else rest, and will go days without sleep as he is finding something else to inwardly fret over. He tends to distract himself with music, art or his favorite pastime, astronomy, laying down to observe the stars and the moon during the more restless nights.
♚ // Character ; Powers
Magical Powers:
Weather Change. Limited to the area he’s currently in, depending on his mood the weather can shift slightly within a two mile radius. Stronger in the winter months. Sleep Inducement. Limited to a single person per night, can help ease a individual to sleep or get them back to sleep after a nightmare. Can cause him insomnia and/or sleeplessness as a result. Freezing / Icing. Can freeze smaller objects solid in ice or cause frost to coat a small area with his finger tips. Causes his arm to be covered in frost and be ice cold to the touch for a few hours after doing so.
Flight. Like all other pixies, Alieos possesses the power of flight, both in his human form or transformed state. His pixie dust, which is naturally produced, helps aid in longer flight times.
Size transformation. Able to change his size down to it’s original state and back at will.
Stealth. Can easily navigate around silently without being detected, especially when transformed.
Non-magical Powers:
Astronomy Singing Dancing
Weaknesses:
Iron. Iron can harm and even burn his skin. If accidentally ingested, if it’s not extracted / repelled quickly it can cause serious harm to him internally.
The Heat. Excessive heat can cause his body to weaken, making it hard to move. He tends to avoid going out for long periods of time during the hotter months, and if he does, he tries to be fully covered.
Sleeplessness / Insomnia. Alieos has a hard time sleeping due to his affinity for aiding people to sleep and the paranoia of them not waking up again. He tends to be in a slight daze often times then not, and if he has been awake for longer than twenty-four hours he can be easily be taken advantage of as he is in a dazed, sleepy state.
♚ // Character ; The Student Study Style: Alieos is typically seen as studious, always working on assignments early and even completing extra credit when offered. He does, however, have a habit of dozing off in class because he spends the time he should be sleeping doing said extra work thanks to his insomnia, so his grades tend to fluctuate between very good to average, at best. Favorite class: Astronomy Least favorite class: Chemistry
classes (5-8) :
Botany Self defense for Fae and other light beings Korean II Earth customs & Human social protocols Chemistry Astronomy Music appreciation Horseback Riding ♚ // Character ; The Past Date of Birth: December 17th, 1843 Date of Death: - Crime Record: Record is considered clean, though he has mistakenly gotten close to a few humans in the past and have accidentally eased them to sleep… permanently Has your character attended Insolitus Academy in the past? No
Background:
Born in the snow a frigid December eve, Alieos was bred as the second child to a loving mother and father, and would be the second oldest of eight children. His home was chilly but it was loving, a place where he often felt safe but still, like many, he longed to see more past their home—further past the stones and greenery that would occasionally change colors as the seasons moved past.
Being the second oldest meant that he had more freedom, but still enough responsibility that he couldn’t truly be himself. A curious and playful, if not mischievous child, Alieos often ventured out on his own or with his siblings play with other children while the elders tended to the forest. While he was still very young when the borders were harder to cross and things within the realms were closed off or withering away, Alieos remembers vaguely that they would gather the eve of the first chill and bring forth wind and frost, creating flurries and snowfall that they would spend extensive amount of time in during the evenings.
While his family and many of the other pixies he lived among had the ability to ease those suffering from sleeplessness, Alieos had garnered a reputation for getting just about anyone to sleep. Nicknamed ‘the one who catches nightmares’, it became a weekly task for the youth to flit from home to home to help young children or the elderly rest once their nightly rituals were over. It put an increased amount of stress upon him, so much so that it eventually messed with his mental stability, unable to sleep for longer then a few hours at a time.
He slowly became withdrawn, quieter even in nightly celebrations under the moon. While his eyes would still sparkle with that same light he couldn’t bring himself to smile past a barely there upturn of the mouth. The change in him made his mother concerned, unsure what to do now that her child was less outgoing and sociable, the gauntness in his face putting her worries at the forefront.
She thought bringing him to meet the humans would help, and it did… for a while. Alieos easily took to them, much like many of their kind did, balancing his unofficial duties back home and time spent among the humans that fascinated him. However, after a period of time it actually worsened his restlessness, with Alieos becoming attached to multiple humans and used his powers, while secretly, to aide them, as well. The stress behind it took a toll as he kept such things to himself. It took him finally snapping and freezing half of his younger sisters body in a blackout rage for his mother to finally seek a true solution.
Once she was sure that he had a safe location to go to while also having access to come back home when necessary, she offered him a chance to leave home to be somewhere that could help him be himself again. For the first time in over a century she saw a spark of life in his eyes, his curious nature taking hold to help him finalize his decision to attend the school in the human realm, a place he already felt comfortable enough being in.
This brought him to Insolitus with the hope that it would help him hone his powers and allow him room to grow while also sating his curiosity for something more. Something that hopefully would return him back to the person he once was.
♚ // Roleplayer Time zone: EST
OOC! Triggers: spiders, trypophobia, eating disorders, domestic violence
Themes/genres you like writing the most?: i am a sucker for angst, found family and tight bonds, but i will write just about anything with a interesting plot! just ask and i’ll probably say yes
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