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blorbo.... smol bean...... it has the same energy. i won't be expanding
#this isnt hate in the slightest cringe culture is dead do what makes u happy#but i personally cannot abide#the og post was funny but man...... man. that's all i gotta say#i'm not even trying to be a hater i'm glad ppl r having fun but it's like#sometimes i'll see a post i want to rb and then it's like 'your blorbo' and im like god fucking dammit.
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I want all your unpopular opinions haha have fun
I think Finnick and Johanna do act very sexually forward, to a degree that it can make people very uncomfortable, and it seems like the fandom agrees on that but the why of it really gets lost. Trafficking survivors and survivors of sexual abuse sometimes do act extremely provocatively, especially when they want something or are in a situation where they feel unsafe, but also they’ll do that to get a reaction or redirect a difficult conversation. it’s a trauma response. it’s a defense mechanism and a way they’ve learned to navigate the world. it’s not some deep intrinsic part of their personalities and we see that both Finnick and Johanna will not and do not act like that if they don’t feel the need to. so seeing fics (in particular modern aus) where their experience of being trafficked is erased but they still act extremely seductive really rubs me the wrong way. it’s at that point such a deep misinterpretation of their characters that i won’t engage with it. if what you’re taking away from everything is that Finnick’s a womanizer and Johanna’s stripping in the elevator is meant to be sexy, i honestly don’t want to see whatever else you have to say.
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#ask and you shall receive#lovely anon#hope you like thg anon lol#thg#finnick odair#johanna mason#I am saying these things bc I have seen it happen SO many times. and I simply cannot abide people thinking that this is a deep intrinsic#part of these characters’ personalities and not a trauma response. can’t do it.#also this is just one opinion but I’m just going to randomly start posting other unpopular opinions I have. anon you have inspired me#also also. there’s a reason I have so many people blocked. don’t come at me and be like oh just block more people!! I do and will continue#to do so. don’t you worry
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“He’s not a rapist” is a REALLY low bar for consent, just as an fyi. Coercion, harassment, and intimidation are absolutely not things that anyone in their right mind consents to. Please think before you post brain dead takes 🙃
#From a narrative stand point I accept the man is probably a fae trickster god archetype and doesn’t abide by human standards#So I will give him some slight wiggle room (and I enjoy him as an element of the story and all of that)#But you CANNOT tell me Charles “I would risk my entire existence for you in hell” R. is a worse person/match like come on now#Holy microagressions batman#She speaks#angry words I guess
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On the rare occasions when we talk about the spectre of veganism you can probably physically tell the amount of psychic damage that we take from seeing people throw out any part of a carcass.
#we speak#hey man you can use that for stuff. there is a use for that. you can use that for things that aren't just letting it rot. sir.#this is maybe part of why we have so many fur scraps but like. you can use that stuff. please use that stuff. we are begging you.#did you know that sinew is useful and can be used for cordage? it's true! you should use it!#do you think that a given part is Useless? you're probably wrong! give it to us. please. we are begging you. please.#we are a very specific type of person and that very specific type of person is the type of guy where improper corpse handling harms us#personally and physically. every time. at least put it in the freezer or something if youre killing it you better be ready to process it#we have very strong and extraordinarily specific opinions on things that have been known to make us disagree with people#the animal will die at some point regardless of whether or not you were the one to kill it#and because you have a big brain and the luxury of most likely not needing to do this to survive#you can grant that animal a relatively swift and painless death and then bring its body to as much use as possible#USE IT. FOR THINGS. PLEASE. WE ARE DYING.#we understand viscerally why failing to field dress an animal in assassins creed kicks you out of the simulation as Out Of Character#we are the same way and every time a piece of media has the protagonists kill a bear or whatever and just Leave The Body There#we are taking large amounts of psychic damage from every single frame#you cannot imagine how much hatred we hold for the existence of prion diseases and the fact that you can't eat meat from CWD deer#killing an animal does not have to be animal cruelty if you're not an idiot#we think that wasting parts of the body SHOULD count as animal cruelty though#not legally for obvious “that would open a legal can of worms that should stay closed” reasons but like. in terms of avoiding it#animals kill and eat each other all the time. its natural. you are an animal and you can kill and eat other animals and they will be tasty#however for the love of whatever god you worship PLEASE put the effort in to actually put the whole carcass to use#it will not make the animal suffer less to refuse to partake in its remains. it only means that those things will go to waste.#a body is not a sacred thing. it should not be treated as specialer than anything else but we think it's disrespectful to not make use of i#for related reasons we have a deep and abiding hatred for the laws that mean we can't choose what to do with our own body after our death
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i think more people should lean into the fact anders has eaten human flesh and likened the taste of blood to honeyed wine
#idk i just think it would be neat#OUT with uwu anders meow mewowuw mage rights or mage fights **long assrip**#IN with anders absolutely losing his mind because there are certain horrors the human psyche cannot abide#and to think strength of personal character or ideal could tame it is just classic mortal folly#this fandom is so boring. the most in-universe controversy it'll accept is whether isabela could say dyke or not#and even that's probably too spicy for some#cannibalism cw
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Like for a starter (length will vary)! Specify who you want or I'll choose for you!
#feeling better today so I'll put this out and get into it over the next while#.more of a joker than the ace ; ooc.#.it is not in the stars to hold our destiny but in ourselves ; ju.lian ba.shir.#.safety's off; it's a cruel world out there ; sol.dier 76.#.everything flows and nothing abides ; everything gives way and nothing stays fixed ; pasiphos.#.beware the calmest person in the room ; arlynn.#.i never make plans that far ahead ; leon k.ennedy.#.full of well-trained feelings and abilities and all of them grafted onto me ; gurne.y hallec.k.#.in ways we can't always fathom the consequences come back to us ; da.ud.#.our fate cannot be taken from us ; it is a gift ; vit.torio.#starter call#.queue.#if you're fine getting one from my problem child pas pls do let me know i miss them
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Every time one of Those Men™️ finds out about my BoB podcast i am 🤏🏻 thaaaatt much closer to jumping off a fucking building, it simply Cannot Be
#like!!! its NOT FOR YOU!!!!!!!#its for the girilies ONLY!!!!!!#this post brought to you by: sh*ne t*yl*r finding out about it and i stg of he listens that it thats fuckin it#i cannot abide it#personal#band of brothers#my podcast
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Hey there 25 year old queer folks.
You’re not a queer elder. You’re a queer adult. But you do have elders. They’re all around you! I recommend seeking them out! It sounds like you probably don’t know of very many, but I can assure you. You’re not a queer elder. At this point in time, it’s beginning to seriously erase the living people with lived experiences from the picture, and these are the elder queers we seriously need to listen to and learn from. Not only do their contributions go unheard, but we’re also sending a message to others and to them that they don’t even exist, that they all died. We cannot allow our queer elders to fade into nonexistence. It will kill us and it will kill them if we refuse to acknowledge and refuse to hear and learn from them.
Stop positioning yourself as a queer elder. Please. And go listen to the actual queer elders. We have so so many.
#queer#queer elders#queers#queer adults#idk y’all I just can’t abide by this. it’s okay if you genuinely did not realize this or something. you can reevaluate#and make different decisions. you would not have been a bad person to have not known.#but upon knowing#you must make your next decisions mindfully#ultimately I cant stop you!#and maybe you have reasons other than the ones that I’ve encountered#but please at least consider what message calling 20somethings queer elders sends#to those who don’t know our histories or who only know AIDS as something to which we ‘lost’ an entire generation#which is a common phrase that leads to the erasure of a whole living and traumatized generation#not only do young queer folks need to be able to see that queer joy and queer love and queer ELDERS exist#but older queer folks will need us younger ones to carry their banner and to share their stories and to even physically care for them#they will need us to advocate for their rights to dignity and autonomy in old age#hell they need us to do these things NOW#you cannot speak of queerness as having always existed and then treat modern queerness as though this ancient line had broken at some point#just before you happened to be born
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saw people on the dash talking about this and man i just have so many problems with fic rec lists. I really do. they always end up becoming a popularity thing, if you like reading anything other than [insert extremely popular premise here] you won’t get anything out of it, and most importantly if you repeatedly don’t get rec’d (and this is coming from someone who afaik has never once been on a rec list) you end up feeling kind of meh about your writing sometimes!
it’s disheartening when it’s the same fics getting rec’d over and over and over because at the end of the day what it means is that the fandom is going to just read those things over and over and over and never explore the other fics out there and give love to the authors that aren’t BNFs (because a lot of the time surprise surprise, the authors getting rec’d are also BNFs) and in a pool of fic that is as relatively small as the stuff for odesta, I’m really not surprised that people feel nervous or intimidated to start writing. because the popular premises have been done a thousand times and the “gold standard” stuff was written 10+ years ago and it requires a big mindset shift to even feel like your work is worth posting. I speak from experience on this lmao
but all that to say it is worth posting, there’s reasons people read the same premises over and over and it’s because they’re interesting, and it won’t be the same anyway because it’s unique! it’s yours! it’ll be something new and exciting and that’s what fandom always needs.
#.txt#god that got long. I just cannot ABIDE fic rec lists unless they are specific. which I could talk about later but I want to see a fic rec#list where it’s like here are all the fics for this pairing in which they get drunk together. here are all the fics where someone burns a#house down as an act of being a lover scorned. THAT would fucking slap#update: I have evolved as a person. I’m now going to start making highly specific fic rec lists. these are all the fics I’ve read where#geese play a prominent role. here’s all the fics where someone gets blisters from walking too far. I really see potential here
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in love with your novels in the tags, they're so much fun to read - @softvikings
thank you!!! i have so much fun writing them and i love hearing that they bring other people joy as well, these are Our Tag Novels now 🥹💕🥰
#you GUYS cannot keep getting away with this. you’re gonna make my heart explode 💗💗💗#keyboard WHEN can i have a butterfly hearts emoji. please!!! 🦋🫧💖✨#i am gonna wax poetic a little bit about community and joy and also this is your standard personal update in the tags so skip if ur want#but i have been in the process of a really big change in my life!! kinda struggling!! feeling a little scared and lonely!!!#and then i get to come here and hang out with all of you who left me such lovely messages and i get to share in the collaborative joy#of creation and interaction in so many ways#(case in point!! you reblogged a post i rambled about with something that just set me off in a WHOLE new fun direction [that post is on its#way lol] and it’s just so fun to see everyone build off of each other and share and make such beautiful work. as always i love you gifmakers#i love you writers I love you artists I love you archivists I love you video transcribers and article translators and readers & commenters#& all the infinite ways that you can share and be creative with each other!! I love you human connection and love.) anyway. sappy as all#get out and i AM about to put my ass to bed and wake up and answer everything else and post everything else tomorrow but i had to get it#out into the world hanif abdurraqib style that i love you and i love y’all#liv in the replies#softvikings#do NOT let me forget to come here tomorrow. i have a post that’s been waiting a week because i missed wip Wednesday i can’t do it again 😭😭#dear nosy anon i did not forget you i promise i just wanted to abide by the tumblr days of the week schedule 😭😭 i see you i love you bestie#anyway again good night sleep tight i will be tucked up snug as a bug and cozy replaying all the messages in my head.#if you have a favorite Novel tell me!!! i want to know and odds are so good i want to daydream about it with you!! that’s how i met laura 💕#& also how i started talking to c &songs&swords &tofumilanesa &alexandra &everyone lol. as mentioned i will Yap &I love listening to u too
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I just watched "In the Pale Moonlight" a few days ago so my brain is primed to make this connection but I was watching Operation Petticoat and
Lt. Cmdr. Matt T. Sherman: The unfortunate thing about command, though, Mr. Holden, is that the responsibilities outweigh the privileges! Now if it were just myself I was concerned with, I'd tell you what to do with that list. But my responsibility is this boat! And to get her out of here, I'd even make a pact with the devil! Lt. Nicholas Holden: That's where I come in. Lt. Cmdr. Matt T. Sherman: That's right.
It's the same story, just a comedy.
#my star trek (re)watch#fandom apophenia#Sherman spends the whole movie ragging on Holden for his methods which just made me think of Sisko *more*.#He's all like i Cannot Abide this dude but his methods get results and right now results are all that matter.#i thought it was interesting that Sherman doesn't eat any of the pork at the New Year party. he has an repeated gag where he declines#food bc of stomach issues but. *specifically* it is stated he will Not partake of Holden's ill-gotten gains. like. He stands up for#Holden in front of the MPs. initially offers to pay for the whole mess to go away (though then he does fully and gleefully assist#the island man in exacting payment from Holden). and he praises what Holden did for morale. But He specifically Will Not Partake and#through partaking Condone. the methods get results (and Sherman isn't going to lose sleep over this i don't think unlike Sisko)#but Sherman is NOT going to personally benefit from the methods in any way or give the impression that he approves.#well i'm having a lot of thoughts so i'm going to tag this#operation petticoat#so that i can find it later if i want to.#deep space nine in the pale moonlight
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At long last: either an alternate explanation for or continuation of my prior comic regarding how Bill was ABSOLUTELY naked in Ford's karaoke night drawing. (Because errors in art do not exist. Artists do not make mistakes. So if you see any in this comic, No You Do Not.)
I am so normal about these old dorks.
I'm not really clear on exactly when Bill started throwing his desperation book at Ford just like a needy ex do, but I find it extremely funny to imagine it happening literally the day of or after the makeshift funeral. Bill just gets this weird sense of 'Ford is taking steps to move on' and CANNOT FUCKING ABIDE.
I hope you enjoy all the goofy things I added to each page of Bill's sad spieling. (Everything SHOULD be readable so long as you view the full size, but I have added basically this whole little fanfic in the image descriptions, LMAO, which lays out all the little written notes and such.) Also don't ask how Bill managed to sneak that vampire pen in there. I have no idea, and honestly? I don't wanna know.
Oh, and a little bonus comic:
Of course Bill would take it as flirting. Because between the two of them, Bill is the bigger masochist By Far. :)
Also I have continued applying The Good Place logic to any of Bill's attempts to swear. Case in point, one last bonus image, this time with a motivational line from my slapdash Theraprism OC, EV-01:
Yes, its name is just 'love' backwards. No, I will not be taking any feedback on this. Yes, EV-01 was only ever assigned to Bill's case due to the Theraprism being desperate to make some progress in rehabilitating him. No, it did not work anywhere close to staff's expectations - Bill didn't even appreciate EV-01's matching fondness for bowties! (He claimed the fondness to be "cultural appropriation" and insisted he'd been traumatized by it.)
Anyway, if you like my stuff, reblogs are very much appreciated, and if you really really like it, perhaps consider my commissions or yeeting a teeny tiny tip my way? I am trying to recoup over 500 dollars in vet bills, ahaha... 🙃
In other news, I loved all the fun tags people added to the prior naked-karaoke comic (such as 'the hat and bow-tie stay ON during sex' and the classic '[insert keysmash here]', as well as the many amused/bewildered remarks about how I either made the bricks a piece of clothing or just straight up peeled Bill's skin off). However, I think my favorite thing by far was the several people losing their shit over the fact that I gave Bill toes. Like, excuse me? The magical talking triangle can have fingers but not toes??? Since when was that a rule????? 🤣 (Also the one person who reblogged with the cropped panel where Bill's fishnets pants are falling off to ask why Bill peed himself. Dude, I want to examine your brain...?)
Okie-dokie, I'm sick of looking at all of this stuff now and I'm off to go to work, after which I will either scribble some more goofy "Billford" comics or perhaps draw my lame human!Bill in Situations, idk yet. Maybe I'll even finally draw more than just a single other person's human!Bill...? Who knows, but I sure hope I can mix it up a little and not turn whatever I draw into a month-long fukken project. >:\
#fanart#gravity falls#billford#bill cipher#stanford pines#the book of bill#comics#i can't believe gravity falls and billford keep on trending almost three full months after the book of bill's release#this is incredible#maybe i will add more tags later idk#i have to go to WORK now blehhhhhh#oh right: Do Not Repost (good luck anyway lol. this is So Many images and all of them are Big XD)
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another perspective that I have fallen into in the past is the ignorant and lack of emotional and mental intelligence side.
an argument ive seen is that "i struggle enough with my monog relationship, how can someone have one with multiple?"
when the actual problem is the general publics utter lack of being able to communicate and express. There are so many social stigmas and rules that stop people from communicating and to instead assume. There is a even more lack of constructiv communicaton and especially emotional intellience being taught.
'how can they have a happy and fulfiling life with multiple, when i struggle to have content relations with my singular partner? with my friends? with my parents?'
and it is a good thing to question, but it should lead to figuring out how to better your own relations, discover and explore boundries, learn how to communicate your own thoughts and feelings and in general learn how you feel and experience thoughts and emotions. But the easier route tends to always be to blame others, or its at least been the thing taught in society to NOT self reflect.
Anyone else feel like they missed a significant youth socialization thing that would make sense of the visceral hate for polys? Why does it incite actual anger? This is obviously more than meeting an annoying ex-theater kid poly dom once
#yeah this does relate a lot to the sacrifice of desires thing too#people sacrifice a lot of happiness to abide by societial rules#and it can be very frustrating to then see someone forego them and find more happiness than you#but its again an emotional intelligence thing- that you then not take that anger out on others#and instead figure out how you can change to be happier#i used to get really confused about poly#but honestly the more i understood it and read about it#it feels like it should be more common#you simply cannot have every need met by a singular other person- its why peopleare such social being id say#and i dunno it also sounds lovely to be cared and loved romantically by multiple people#or to be able to dote and be romantic towards multiple people
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What we’re witnessing online during and in the aftermath of these hurricanes is a group of people desperate to protect the dark, fictitious world they’ve built. Rather than deal with the realities of a warming planet hurling once-in-a-generation storms at them every few weeks, they’d rather malign and threaten meteorologists, who, in their minds, are “nothing but a trained subversive liar programmed to spew stupid shit to support the global warming bullshit,” as one X user put it. It is a strategy designed to silence voices of reason, because those voices threaten to expose the cracks in their current worldview. But their efforts are doomed, futile. As one dispirited meteorologist wrote on X this week, “Murdering meteorologists won’t stop hurricanes.” She followed with: “I can’t believe I just had to type that.” What is clear is that a new framework is needed to describe this fracturing. Misinformation is too technical, too freighted, and, after almost a decade of Trump, too political. Nor does it explain what is really happening, which is nothing less than a cultural assault on any person or institution that operates in reality. If you are a weatherperson, you’re a target. The same goes for journalists, election workers, scientists, doctors, and first responders. These jobs are different, but the thing they share is that they all must attend to and describe the world as it is. This makes them dangerous to people who cannot abide by the agonizing constraints of reality, as well as those who have financial and political interests in keeping up the charade.
I’m Running Out of Ways to Explain How Bad This Is - The Atlantic
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i love having like the one non-incest/adult and child ship I’ve ever hated blacklisted bc it makes half of character tags just evaporate into thin air
(this was meant to be a joke post but then I started a fucking analysis in the tags that no one will read. my bad.)
#octopondering#to the kaveh liners I’ve come around on him a little after the event but I still really. Really don’t like him#*likers#I tried. I really did. but I HATE how he talks about faruzan and collei#and I hate it even more than his best friend that clearly cares still gets used like a punching bag#to be fair said friend punches right back#but still. I dunno. their dynamic makes me so uncomfortable for some reason#I admire kaveh wanting to take care of others but if he self destructs he can’t help anyone#and if anyone points that out he explodes#and while alhaitham for sure pokes at him it’s mostly poking. the things that come out of kaveh’s mouth are Ugly#dude is emotionally unstable and makes his own misery and then makes it everyone else’s problem#and I just CANNOT abide that#so. long story short I really tried to like kaveh and did come around a little#but I would still punch him square in the nose if I talked to him for more than two seconds#I also tried to get candace cons and got two of him in one ten pull instead so it’s now personal
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look this site really is awful for ppl with OCD so i just wanna reassure anyone that you are not Tainted Forever for consuming a piece of media with questionable content. the fact that youre able to recognize it speaks to your critical thinking skills, which is good, certain depictions should be critiqued. but you dont need to ruminate on it to the point where you begin to feel guilty for simply witnessing gross or creepy writing choices. you dont have to vindicate yourself to the fictional tumblr discourser inside your head, saying that youre now a bad person bc you watched the wrong anime. your actual response to it still matters of course, but thats that and this is this. just seeing it is neutral, you didnt commit a thought crime. its literally fine.
IF YOU ARE USING THIS POST TO ONLY FURTHER YOUR STUPID PEDANTIC BLACK-AND-WHITE DISCOURSE TO GET A "GOCHA" OVER THE OTHER SIDE YOU ARE THE PROBLEM. DON'T USE OUR DISORDER TO VINDICATE YOUR BEHAVIOR. THOUGHT CRIMES ARENT REAL BUT ACTIONS STILL MATTER. PEOPLE WITH OCD ARE CAPABLE OF THINKING CRITICALLY ABOUT OUR ACTIONS AND RESPONSES, EVEN WITH INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS AND RUMINATIONS. TREATING US AS IF WE CANNOT, ONLY TO FORCE US TO USE YOUR STRINGENT UNNUANCED DISCOURSE OPINIONS ABOUT "PURITY CULTURE" (TRIGGERING TO THOSE WITH OCD) AS THE ONLY REASONABLE GUIDE DOES MORE TO EXACERBATE OUR OBSESSIONS THAN HELP US. YOU ARE THE ISSUE AS WELL. YOU ARE ALSO THE TUMBLR DISCOURSER INSIDE OUR HEADS. DO NOT USE US FOR YOUR DISCOURSE. WE ARE PEOPLE, NOT HYPOTHETICALS TO USE TO EXPLAIN IF YOUR FROZEN INCEST FANFICTION IS OKAY OR NOT. TREATING US AS IF WE CANNOT AUTONOMOUSLY HAVE OUR OWN OPINIONS ON WHEN MEDIA IS TANGIBLY HARMFUL IS ABLEIST. FORCING US TO ABIDE BY YOUR IN-GROUP'S SET OF UNEQUIVOCAL MORALS IS ABLEIST. ACTING AS THOUGH THE ONLY SOLUTION FOR US IS MINDLESS MEDIA CONSUMPTION IN WHICH "EVERY DEPICTION OF XYZ, NO MATTER HOW POORLY DONE OR EXPLOITATIVE, IS ALWAYS OKAY AND IF YOU DISAGREE YOURE ACTUALLY AN EVIL 'ANTI'" IS ABLEIST. THOSE ARE THE SAME BLACK-AND-WHITE MORALS THAT SEND US INTO OBSESSIVE SPIKES, BUT FLIPPED. A SET OF MORALS IN WHICH QUESTIONING THE IMPACT OF A PIECE OF WORK MAKES YOU AN "EVIL CONSERVATIVE PURITAN "ANTI"" DOES NOT HELP MORAL OCD.
YOU ARE THE DAMN TUMBLR DISCOUERSERS MAKING THIS SHIT WORSE FOR US! YOURE THE EXACT SAME BUT WITH FLIPPED BUZZWORDS! YOU'RE MISSING THE WHOLE DAMN POINT!
#the fictional tumblr discourser inside your head is like the opposite of critical thinking its just extremes#blocking that helps you form better thoughts and come to a better understanding of why said content can be harmful in said depiction etc et#and to be clear shutting off all critical thoughts is not the solution either bc then you end up with.... Those People#the ones who jack off to lolicon on ao3 and think its the same artistically as lolita x_x#this post is not a vindication for that sort of thing. or say like actively supporting an openly bigoted series or author#those are different things because they are actual choices and actions. you chose to respond that way#thats what i mean when i say your actual response still matters. as in your actions surrounding it
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