#but goddamn fuckin terfs man

[telanana]

Me: *reblogs cute duck getting pink drink*

Someone I follow who reblogged the same video: *gets an anon pointing out the Tumblr user who uploaded the video is a terf*

Me: oh shit fr??? *checks OPs blog* son of a-

[toytulini]

i feel like the makeup standards are not necessarily going to get Worse, just. stay the Same. "raised by sephora and ulta" christ alive yall act like this shit is new. as if this hasnt been the standard to blast young girls with makeup ads and shit via magazine and tv and imposed beauty standards anyway. the only real difference is like, idk, accessibility of tutorials for how to apply it well

[antivivziepopparade]

just wanted to share an opinion regarding you reblogging terf rhetoric info and comparing it to the shit viv has said (nothing against you dw!!)

man i get not wanting certain drama or media on your posts, but that person literally didn't give a shit about you calling out a huge content creator on the exact trans(andro)phobic rhetoric op shared. like i said i get not wanting drama on your blog but just calling it "weird ass hazbin shit" and bascially saying that "yeah that may be transphobic but you shouldnt just label ppl terfs"??? holy shit. just say that you dont want drama on your blog but dont be a fucking dick about it?? or dismiss transandrophobia/blatant terf/radfem rhetoric that YOU/OP called out originally?? did that persons brain turn off just because it was hazbin related??? and being that fucking rude about it??? all you did was make a callout, providing examples and comparing it to op's points- you weren't even rude or agressive?? there are better ways to tell ppl you dont want drama on your posts. i feel like some ppl hear "hazbin" related stuff and their brains shut off for real. i hope this person is still young cause otherwise thats... sad. you/op dont have to get THAT worked up about shit like this. just say "hey i dont want this on my post" and call it day. dont throw a fuckin hissy fit because its hazbin related??? 💀 goddamn.

sorry for invading your inbox but like. that response from op was incredibly weird??

Yeah. it was a strange response.

I hope that they're doing alright otherwise, maybe they have some trauma relating to the fandom. Wouldnt blame them for that if that was the case. They were still rude tho. Tbh.

(PS: Anyone reading this- do NOT harass the person im talking about. Im sure that they had good intentions but just worded things wrong.)

[soymikki]

Yall need to fuckin pay attention to what you reblog especially if it's all man hatey bc 90% of the goddamn time it's a terf

[trekfaerie]

Sorry--trans man here. HOW were either of things transphobic? Answer: they weren't.

The fandom DOES have a problem with the way they perceive Stede and Stede's masculinity. Stede is NOT rugged, he's not bearded, and Ed loves him exactly the way he is. It is MORE transphobic for people like you (and the rest of the fandom that insists Stede needs some sort of pirate "glow up" in season 2 to be worthy of Ed) to decide that NOT wanting Stede to be bearded or suddenly an expert pirate is somehow bad (and then to fucking label it transphobic--child, my people are having laws written about us to make our existence illegal. My people are being raped and brainwashed and beaten and murdered. Tweets about how Stede and Ed should be allowed to be queer men without a bunch of women deciding Stede needs to be a completely different fucking character first are not) . Stede is a feminine man and that's OKAY. That's GOOD. Queer men need to see characters like Stede. They don't need to see ANOTHER story where the soft queer man has to change everything about himself to be accepted and loved. And THAT is the message you and other people pushing for rugged/bearded Stede sends.

Don't fuckin throw the word transphobia around for your fandom bullshit. You clearly don't know what it means, and you YOURSELF are clearly homophobic, since you have a big fucking problem with two queer men who don't fit into cisnormative roles having a relationship.

just fyi those things were "transphobic" because a literal, actual, real life trans-exclusive radical feminist said them. so. maybe should've checked up on that before you vomited on my shoes, bud.

also, so, like. I don't know if you know this, but. different levels of bigotry are allowed to exist. like, for example, the absolutely wild shit you have dropped before me like I'm supposed to care. "a bunch of women." you and terf-anne over there inventing entirely new brands of misogyny at this ungodly hour of the morning.

personally I think bearded stede is likely because the dude is going to be on a fucking dinghy for, like. maybe weeks. and how exactly is he going to shave during this time. just stede out in the middle of the ocean trying to hold the blade steady as he shaves using the reflection on black pete's bald-ass head. like every single one of you weirdos having heart palpitations over people thinking the man who absolutely does not have access to shaving equipment may grow some facial hair is like... deranged, honestly. like it's not happening out of some sinister plot to butch up stede. that's not a thing a normal person is concerned about.

-- also where are these "other" stories about femmes having to butch up to be loved I cannot name a single goddamn example and you're acting like it's a plague. where is the gay media ending like grease.

[nihilisme]

As someone who suffers from BPD, which is really discriminated against and incredibly misunderstood, I understand why the trans community would feel seething rage towards Dave Chappelle right now. Such a divisive, hot button issue does not deserve to be used as a toy by famous people who are just trying to get clout. Trans people still get hurt and killed by bigots and Netflix allowing someone to put out a show where someone literally says they're "team TERF" is disgusting.

The term "gender is a fact" is JK Rowling's (and in turn Chappelle's) incredibly ingenious way of rebranding transphobia. If any of y'all have read Rowling's treatise, it's basically, in my opinion, a deeply misandrist (obviously on top of being transphobic), thinly veiled guise of her trying to get over her own traumas.

In her own words, "The more of their accounts of gender dysphoria I’ve read, with their insightful descriptions of anxiety, dissociation, eating disorders, self-harm and self-hatred, the more I’ve wondered whether, if I’d been born 30 years later, I too might have tried to transition."

Really? You THOUGHT about possibly transitioning? Maybe you're just in denial about your possible trans-ness Joanne? Or maybe this is your way of coping that's so maladaptive that it's burgeoned into very eloquently worded bigotry? Better yet, just DABBLING in the thought of being trans would've completely turned you trans?

Look, I get that Chappelle just did this for what is equivalent to gold in today's currency - controversy and attention. So for anyone who might say, "he's doing this to get a reaction out of you. He wants you to discuss this and to get mad about it." I fucking get it. I get it and I don't appreciate it. It's lazy, demoralizing, and worst of all, harmful. He put WAY too much faith in people to think that HIS words don't affirm THEIR OWN individual bigotry.

Someone like JK Rowling, as harmful as her words are, don't want to physically harm trans people, as she says so herself in her treatise. BUT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT THERE WHO DO. And Chappelle, a ridiculously legendary, famous, influential, formerly funny comedian had the platform to just SAY WHAT HE WANTED TO SAY WITHOUT INVOLVING TRANS PEOPLE. Just say that cancel culture is bad Dave! Just say that social media, in its attempts to pivot and manipulate all of our primal, tribal warfare-oriented ape brains, are ruining all of us! Because it is! But guess what Dave? YOU'RE JUST PARTICIPATING AND PERPETUATING THE ENDLESS WATER WHEEL OF GENERATING CONTROVERSY WHILE ALSO JEOPARDIZING TRANS LIVES AT THE SAME TIME.

Dave Chappelle is a fucking hypocrite. Just open the show and tell us you want some money man. We would've given it to you regardless of how funny or unfunny it was. At least it would've been more direct and honest, than all this bullshit "Gender is a fact" nomenclature.

The gender is a fact argument is dishonest in how it's presented by the way. Comparing it to another movement - Black Lives Matter - we know that it means to protect black lives and that they don't deserve to be brutally murdered by cops because of racism. Gender is a fact is trying to emulate BLM by stating a very simple statement that is WAY more nuanced than it presents itself to be. But it just doesn't work on the same level at all. It's demeaning to state this shit thinking trans people don't understand their own plight or what they're going through. And as someone who has BPD - who gets told that all my feelings are just IN MY HEAD all the time from people who have no idea what it's like - trans people are trans for a reason and it's not just in their goddamn fuckin heads or them being "dramatic children". Why don't people who argue about trans rights argue in good faith instead of throwing around bullshit nomenclature that doesn't amount to anything? Because they don't understand what the fuck they're actually saying.

People who side with Chappelle and Rowling can easily say gender is a fact without batting an eye because they don't understand what it actually means to be trans. It's demeaning to trans people - do people REALLY think trans people, people who deal with their gender identity on a constant basis, really not know what the fuck gender means? What the fuck sex means? It's more nuanced than just saying "gender is a fact". You don't get to shut down somebody's entire gender identity and/or their trans-ness just by saying something that is deceptively simple, when in reality it's just a convenient dog whistle for transphobia. JK Rowling desperately tries to assert that her transphobia does not equate to her hating trans people - but what does it matter when you coined an entirely new hashtag EXACTLY DESIGNED to hate on a minority, and you don't even understand, at all, what they're going through? Joanne, on top of all of this, you are a misandrist without wanting to say you are. The fact that feminists only care about trans men because "they were originally born women" leaves a GLARING implied hole of not caring about men. Of how patriarchy HARMS MEN TOO. Yes, feminism still has a fucking long way to go. Yes, women still need to fight for rights and you hoped to have had a better future for your daughters at this point. But you're pointing the gun at the wrong enemy. Saying trans women wearing female clothing is equivalent to them wearing a "costume" is dehumanizing an entire group of people and their identities; implying that they are just "men" playing dress up is incredibly belittling for people who struggle with their identities. It's pretty equivalent to how homosexual people used to be belittled for their "lifestyles".

Back to Dave... It's ultimately just disappointing. If I ever talk to you as a person, Mr. Chappelle, I KNOW that you wouldn't want trans people harmed. Obviously you are still mourning your friend's death. I KNOW that the point of your special was so that "cancel culture" can stop being a thing and you're trying to open discussions on that. But at what cost? At what fucking cost? When you could've approached it in a different way and still would've gotten engagement. You still had a chance to change our poisonous internet culture without participating in discourse you barely fucking understand. You could've snowballed a movement that could have eventually dismantled Twitter, YouTube, Facebook, Tumblr, Reddit, and Instagram - poisonous social media culture in general - in literally any other way.

In your own words, you said you can become famous, but you can't become unfamous. You can become infamous, but you can't become unfamous. Why would you choose the latter path?

[lazywitchling]

You know what’s scary? I came to tumblr in the height of fandom blog vs hipster blog, when superwholock was first getting started, before Disney had a choke hold on the entertainment industry, back when it was fun to get really really into tv shows and base our whole personality on what media we consumed. Looking back on it, it was... not a great way to be, but goddamn did it save me.

Not like in a dramatic “saved my life” way, but I mean.

I could go back on my main blog and find my pro-republican posts. I could find my anti-trans posts and my “well okay, gay people can be gay at home, but I don’t want them out where I can see them.” I could find those. They’re back there, years ago in my archive. Because that’s all I knew. That’s all I heard. My community - I mean my real life one, my local area, my friends, my church group, everything around me - is very... monoculture. There aren’t a lot of people around here who don’t look like me, have the same economic background as me, raised in the same beliefs I was... it’s just a whole lot of carbon copies of me. So I thought... “ew, how can someone be gay? That’s gross. They’re going to go to hell.” Because what the hell else would I think? That’s all I knew! And I thought “that boy wants to be a girl? What’s wrong with him? He should see a doctor.” And I thought “why do some people not go to work and the government just pays for them to eat? That’s not right. They shouldn’t be lazy like that.”

And then fuckin’ fandom. It wasn’t fandom directly, but when I got really into a show, I’d follow so many blogs that posted about it. Fan art, discussions, gifs, episode recaps, ask blogs... and inevitably, some of those blogs would drop the occasional political post. Mostly about how we needed marriage equality in the USA. And I thought “well. I don’t agree with that, but their fandom content is good, so I won’t unfollow them.”

It’s how I got exposed to more and more people. People who didn’t think like me. People who didn’t think like my parents. And they weren’t just political posts, sometimes it was just blogging. An artist I like would post about finally getting started on T. He was so happy that he was finally getting T. And I started to think things like “well, she— I mean, he sounds happy. So I’m happy for... him.”

More people. More stories. And I slowly stopped thinking about other people as political issues or religious problems, but as just... people who were trying to live their lives.

It was slow, and it was rocky. I still participated in church discussions that involved phrases like “hate the sin but love the sinner”. It made sense... until college, when I was face to face with people who weren’t like me. Looking at the man in my theatre troupe who was talking about his partner, I couldn’t make the “hate the sin, love the sinner” mentality work. I just couldn’t. I knew I was supposed to, but I just knew that trying to say “he’s a good person, but he just needs to stop being gay” didn’t work at all. I couldn’t hate what he was without hating who he was. And I just couldn’t, because he was my friend, dammit!

Marriage equality passed. My Facebook feed turned into the proverbial wailing and clothes-tearing from my church friends. And I very slowly... very quietly... started to post the “let’s remember that we shouldn’t hate other people” stuff. The very subtle nudging, still Christian-focused stuff that was juuuuust starting to lean left. Not too over the top, not overtly in support, because I was supposed to be one of them, a member of the church, I had to play along with the mentality.

Playing along got exhausting. Someone would deadname Caitlyn Jenner, and I’d consider for a moment that I should just let it go, that I should just pretend that it was fine. But... what about my artist friend? Would I be okay with someone deadnaming him? No, I would not. And if I was pretending I was onboard with deadnaming Caitlyn, would I have played along with deadnaming my friend? Just so I could fit in and be comfortable? So I corrected them. Her name is Caitlyn.

I learned to listen to more people. I learned why “I don’t see color” wasn’t as good a mentality to have as I thought. I learned that “feminist” wasn’t a dirty word, and it also didn’t mean what I thought it meant. I slowly learned that I was one. I slowly learned, and still learn, how to further expand all the things that covers. I learned about intersectional feminism. I learned about white privilege. I learned about so much and so many people because I was actively listening to them, I was hearing their stories, and I cared about them, wanted them to have good lives, wanted them to be able to make choices about their own lives without people like me saying “I know better.”

I learned about myself, too. At twenty-six years old, I figured out exactly why I was always so baffled when my friends talked about sex like it was this big important thing. Surprise: asexual. A second surprise a few years later: somewhere on the aromantic spectrum as well. (Where? Idk. I’ll tell you when I figure it out myself.)

The point is... it was less than a decade ago that I was exactly the type of bigot that gets chased off everyone’s blogs. I was the everything-phobe, the one who would specifically vote against any type of aid, because bootstraps, amiright? I was a whole-ass bigot. Bitch, I owned a confederate flag ring, and I’ve never lived in the south. (It’s in a landfill somewhere now.) I only learned because I first heard from people not like me, and then I learned to listen. I participated in communities that were diverse, not because I wanted the diversity, but because I wanted the content. The diversity was a side effect. And it’s what saved me.

And it fucking terrifies me how close I could have been to being some alt-right and/or terf radical new-nazi or whatever. Because if I had got on this site about two years later than I did, I’d have been caught right in that echo chamber of radfems and nazis preying on anyone they can get their talons in. I was so close. And now I see these radfems pop up in my notes, and it’s like... that could have been me. That was me at one point. I had the ideology, I just missed the identity of it all by a few years.

I don’t have a “byf” list on my blog for a reason. I don’t go through my followers and weed out the terfs and the nazis and the bigots. If they’re in there, fine. I want them to see my words. I want them to hear from someone who doesn’t think like them. I want them to hear from someone who used to be like them, but then learned (and is always learning) to be better.

And yet when I see them in my notes, I’m obliged to weed them out. I feel guilty when it’s a young girl who has clearly been targeted by the radfems on this site, teaching her that she’ll be stronger if she hates everyone they tell her to. Of all the people on this site, she’s the one who I most want to keep out of the echo chamber. But I also have a responsibility to make sure the people who follow me, the people who I follow and reblog from, don’t get caught by the shrapnel. A radfem liking my post just means I have to pay closer attention to what I say and make sure I don’t fall back on old mentalities. It keeps me accountable. But a radfem in my notes means she’s in the notes of my friends, in my reblog chains. And it is my responsibility not to turn a blind eye when people around me can get hurt.

But goddamn, if ever there was someone who needed a community outside of that circle of bigotry, it’s that fourteen year old girl who proudly calls herself a terf. And I really hope she finds one. I really do.

[svtskneecaps]

Rules: answer questions and tag blogs you are contractually obligated to know better!

so @kwonthefire tagged me thank u for giving me an excuse to talk about myself you KNOW i will jump on that shit with absolutely no hesitation you’re incredible

Name/nickname: vic

Gender: woman babey

Star sign: cancer

Height : HAHA TALLER THAN MY OLDER SIBLING S H O R T  L M A O

Time: 5:50 am don’t tell my friends i’m going to bed when i post this i swear

Birthday: july

Favourite bands: seventeen, and i vibe to like, panic!, twice, does the cast of newsies count as a band?

Favourite soloists: listen i’ll vibe to anybody with solid lyrics or a good melody so like, halsey, carrie underwood, taylor swift has been a big one recently, anna nalik, miranda lambert, yknow. all the shit i listened to like six years ago has returned to my playlist cause i’m Stressed tm (ngl the house that built me came on and i actually started crying in the middle of making enchiladas w my entire family like i went straight from DOUBLE BUBBLE DISCO QUEEN to sobbing in the sauce)

i mean not actually the sauce you know what i mean

Last movie: ah shit probably like. pollyanna or something. NO WAIT IT WAS THAT FUCKIN SECOND BORN ROYALS MOVIE ON DISNEY+ THAT MY FAMILY WATCHED WHILE SORTING ALL THE OLD CLOTHES WE DON’T FIT ANYMORE

Last show: shit uhh i think it was like. the three caballeros yknow that animated series with donald duck it’s on disney+. unless we count my mom’s episodes of criminal minds that she watches in the room next to me

Song stuck in my head: an absolutely bizarre combination of that “she’s a wh*re” song clip from tik tok, “the world will know” from newsies, the rock violin cover of the phantom of the opera from the umbrella academy, and like. the twelve days of christmas as sung by straight no chaser, specifically the section where they start doing africa. i don’t know what’s going on either.

When I created this blog: idk a while ago. like three years? four years?

Last thing I googled: ah shit. probably something for premiere pro, adobe software sucks it’s the least intuitive shit i have ever used literally the program i used to write in java worked easier than fucking premiere pro

Other blogs: @ismyreadinglistgoodenoughforyou and i have a couple more but those are classified by order of [redacted]. i can reblog onto @tctwriters but that’s not technically mine it’s OURS anyway follow tctwriters

Do I get asks: nah dude which sux cause my favorite thing to talk about is me l m a o

Why I chose my url: dude i don’t remember i wanted to rebrand from the god awful ‘ismycapsloudenoughforyou’ so i think we went, ok, so seventeen. svt. and my discord status was probably “stop bullying jeonghan’s knee >:(” so they were like, ok knees. and i went ah SHIT, KNEECAPS and then i just. did that.

Following : my guy do you think i know

Followers : like a graduating class worth

Lucky numbers: idk like 12 and 7 and maybe 32

Avg hours of sleep: o jesus well uh. anywhere between 4 and 12 it depends on if i have something to do the next day

Instruments: i can play viola and some flute, i’ve briefly dabbled in piano, ukulele, harmonica, and accordion

What I’m wearing right now: haha state football merch and socks that clash very drastically bc it’s goddamn cold in my house fuck

Dream trip: honestly any trip is my dream trip as long as a couple specific people come. like literally a trip to the grocery store could be my dream trip as long as these specific people are there yknow. people make the trip more than the actual places, for me

Favourite food: o i forgot to answer this one uhhh dr pepper isn’t a food but i don’t eat and my veins run with the stuff

Nationality: american ahaha

Favourite song: ah shit dude it depends on my mood i can’t answer this rn i literally just got “WILL WE LET EM STUFF THIS CROCK O’ GARBAGE DOWN OUR THROATS” stuck in my head and now i can’t actually remember any other songs anyway it’s Home Run stream Home Run by Seventeen guys stream Home Run it’s a fucking bop and the music video is absolute quality i literally didn’t listen to another song for a week and a half after it dropped and i’m not kidding in the slightest stream Home Run by Seventeen guys.

Top three Fictional Universe: it has been so long since i’ve experienced anything that’s original fiction i mean like, jowling kowling rowling is a fucking terf and we hate her LMAO so the only harry potter universe i can vibe with is one that’s thoroughly headcanoned to squeeze all the bullshit out of it, but i vibe with those kinds (i’ve written those kinds, or tried anyway lmao).

also i couldn’t actually read the Lord of the Rings series bc Tolkien’s prose was just way too dense for me to enjoy without it feeling like i was reading a textbook, but i read the Hobbit and i talk to my dad about it sometimes cause he listens to a podcast where they analyze it, and literally the absolute care and time he put into making every section of that world feel alive is absolutely buck fuckin wild to me i mean fuck it up Tolkien that’s fucking incredible. that is batshit insane you incredible man, godspeed.

and doctor who is lit as fuck, tbh i vibe hard with the rtd era shit, they kind of lost me at eleven and also took that shit off amazon prime before i was done watching shitheads but like you have to admit that’s a giant fictional universe and it feels Alive as hell and i vibe with that hard like i vibed so hard i fuckin started writing my own goddamn season just bc i wanted to play around in that lovely lovely sandbox so kudos to them i guess

not in that order

anyway idk who to tag so if you’re seeing this from tctwriters and actually have notifs on for that blog, you’re up dummy i love you. i’d say anyone who wants to take it but nobody ever does so this is for the tctwriters i’m calling you out SPECIFICALLY.

[foxtophat]

this is a private irritation of mine but since tumblr is a dying medium i think it’s safe for me to express it here.... but since i’m ranting abt jk and her whole deal i will readmore it because y’all don’t need to be subjected to my views willy-nilly like (tldr: trans rights, trans men are men, trans women are women, jk is dumb)

the whole jk thing wasn’t about trans women at all. yes, jk sure made it seem like it was, and yeah evvvvvvvvvvvvvveryone sure seems to agree that it was an anti-woman sentiment.  but honestly??? the whole thing is about trans men.  the article she got so fucked up over was literally trying to include trans men in the menstrual health discussion. but instead of realizing that “people who menustruate” literally meant “non-women who menstruate” fucking terfling had to be like “THIS IS AN ATTACK ON WOMEN!!!!”

nah bitch. you are attacking men. you can pretend that you’re not, but we can all tell that you’ve completely forgotten and disregarded trans men in your longwinded essay that boiled down to the kevin spacey defense - protip “i was abused, so i get to say abusive things” isn’t a real rule, it’s a fake rule made up by people who are desperate not to realize that they have to work through their trauma, not just live with it like a fucking asshole

and the worst part is that literally every conversation about this fucking thing online has devolved into “defining biological sex vs socially constructed gender” and i’m just so tired of it. i mean obviously my irritation can’t hold a candle to actual trans people who have to wade through these waters every day im just like GODDAMN man. at the end of the day the people on reddit debating the validity of a trans person’s identity don’t even CARE so i don’t know why they make such a big goddamn deal about it.

but yeah idk. on r/menslib there was a discussion about how invisible trans men are in our conversations about lgbtq stuff in general, and trans rights specifically.  someone pointed out that trans women suffer from more stranger-based attacks, while trans men are more likely to suffer from partner-based attacks, and also at the same time mentioned how we... don’t have actual stats about trans men and the violence they face. almost everything has been redirected to talk about trans women.  who do deserve to be talked about, don’t get me wrong! i just wish there was more open and sincere sentiment towards trans men. like, cool of radcliffe and watson to both go “trans women are women” but it’s like nobody really read what was going on???  usually terfs attack women so i get it but this time is clearly a case of “trans men are basically women that’s why we say WOMEN who menstruate lol” bullshit and i fuckin UGHHHH hate it

yeah i don’t really have a thesis or a point, i’ve just been frustrated by every single feminist subreddit yelling about trans rights while simultaneously pretending trans men aren’t a thing. i see what you’re doing. knock it the fuck off.

[nix-that-rad-lass]

literally how ignorant can y’all get. it’s like a hive mind.

no female is male, no matter how masculine she is- why? because looking a certain way and acting a certain fuckin way doesn’t change your fucking biology.

biological essentialism isn’t fucking colonialist. if it were, then PoC in history wouldn’t have known how to reproduce very effectively and the world would be mostly white- which would fucking SUCK.

not to mention, if it’s so colonialist to acknowledge biology- how did the chinese know whose feet to bind? how did some africans know whose labia and clitoris to slice off? whose breasts to iron? how did white men know who to rape, and indigenous people know who to make stay in camp? how did indigenous people know who was barred from being an authority figure? if not for biology, then what?

you people are so stuck in this little world you don’t ducking open your eyes and see the most basic of things.

also, why do i use terf tags? because a whole lot more people go thru them and if i can help one person see a different side, then that’s one good thing i’ve done. radfem tags are pretty obscure, mostly clogged with hate and drama. terf at least has actual radfems in it.

trans cult- that’s a tag because it’s a thing. y’all have a damn hive mind, it’s creepy. i bought into that bullshit for a good 5 years of my life and let me tell you- worst five years of my life, getting trampled over and abused and raped, no matter how i identified, because at the end of the day i’m a goddamn female and i am sick and tired of being shamed for it.

i’m a fucking woman. and i am fucking proud.

i am proud to have escaped from a cult mindset, a toxic environment, and i am very fucking proud that i have helped other people-mostly women- also escape it.

no radfem says trans people don’t deserve human rights- many strongly encourage protections, respect, and kindness for them- but you fucking genderists push and push and push, putting men in wigs in female spaces, letting men without dysphasia compete with women, letting biological males assault and rape and murder women because some days he likes to jack off wearing a dress.

enough is enough.

educate your goddamn selves, i am sick and fucking tired of your bullshit. if you have even one fucking brain cell apiece, you can look through the tags, read the fucking books, talk to the fucking women, and learn for your goddamn selves.

you people are so ignorant that it’s disgusting.

i get death threats and hate mail nearly daily. people telling me to kill myself, to get raped, to have all these horrible things happen.

move never once done that to someone. not even the guy who raped me, or the man who groomed me. i have never wished death or rape or any of the other horrible threats i have received unto anyone else.

it’s basic human decency.

you people are barely people at this point, thinking that death threats and rape threats and fantasies of bloodbaths for women who disagree with you puts you on the right side of history.

i’d never known a radfem that wished death upon someone, or rape, or other terrible things- nada.

i’ve known, i’ve been friends with in the past, i’ve experiences the people like you scum that send me and my sisters death threats and hopes of rape.

you people are evil. all this for what? so you can fucking kiss the boots of a man who stole your rights because of his fetish?

it is pathetic and i have had enough of it.

[hhemeraa-a]

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Be Honest

1. What would prevent you from following someone?

         If I don’t like their writing / I don’t think our muses or writing styles would mesh. If they have waaaay too many ooc posts. Any sort of whining or complaining about followers/lack of interaction/no one likes me, etc. If I see them only RP with one other person. I don’t like the FC of the muse… it’s petty I know, but there are just some art styles/FCs that I cannot stand to see on a regular basis. If you don’t have you age in your rules/mun page. Your last post was over one month ago but you’re still some how following blogs…???idk, I usually follow most people that follow me. 

3. What current rp trend do you hate?

        uhhhhhhhhh idk, trends can be fun. I really like the dollmaker things going around right now because I like seeing people’s OCs outside of icons. My icons look nothing like Myles but I work with what I have okay.          I guess a trend?? idk if this is even a trend but I’ve seen a lot of them??? I’ve started to dislike are using muses as a way to push acceptance?  Like, making a muse just absolutely extra and then aggressively forcing it down people’s throats. It’s okay to have a trans muse, it’s totally fine to have a muse that goes by they/them, it’s totally fine to have an ace muse – it’s not okay to blow up when someone has no interest in interacting with them. Sometimes a muse just doesn’t work with someone and that’s fine, but that doesn’t make them a terf or a homophobe or whatever else terrible name.  DONT GET ME WRONG.  Some people are that, but some times you constantly posting about it gets old and I didn’t come online to fight the man with my half elf trans twink son. 

15. How has rp changed you personally?

        It’s made me a much better writer I think, but it also made me get off my fucking high horse.  When I first came into RP, I was already a pretty decent writer (if I say so myself ohoho) but I had a chip on my shoulder about what I was willing to write and how ‘no one was stepping outside of the box’. The fandom I was in only wanted to write like two things and I was hella mad because there was so much more to explore in the world. I had zero interest in doing coffee shop AUs or PwP or all these trope/generic threads that all had the same fucking plot just to make two people kiss in the long run so I came off a bit “”selective”” when really I just wanted “”deeper plots””.          Looking back on it, I was just going against the status quo which was how Myles was even created (yeah he was created out of spite and now look at us). Friends at the time would even aggressively complain to me about other’s threads and how they were just too simple or predictable or cliche and frankly I give a fuck now.          Cliches and tropes are there for a reason and sometimes it’s nice to have a cookie cutter easy eat plot in between the in depth murder chaos out there. I still feel the same in that I don’t really care for them and I’m always striving for really thick in depth plots, but some times I just want two people to kiss and if I have to walk through a goddamn flower shop to do it, then so fucking be it.         You wanna just write smut? idc because whatever the fuck makes you happy because RP isn’t some academic award, you literally get nothing out of this except fun times. Taking this shit too seriously makes you look fuckin bananas. 

20. Have you ever felt pressured to write something you weren’t comfortable with?

Yes.

And I did write it and I was not happy. Don’t do that kids. It’s a bad time for everyone. 

[stimmyvillainarchive]

WHY does the android app gotta suck so much, when i click the faq link it just like refreshes the page,,,, this happens with all links in bios on the andoird app :[

NNNN lovin this broke ass app.

I’mma go ahead and paste the FAQ just under the cut, hopefully you should be able to read it now :’))

(FAQ is written by Mod Joker)

“Are requests open?”

We get this ask a lot. And while I don’t mind answering, it does get a lilll annoying sometimes since we’re essentially repeating ourselves constantly. Before you ask, please check our ask box! It will ALWAYS give our request status!

From now on if we receive requests when they’re closed, we’re going to delete the message entirely. You’re free to ask again when they’re open, but we need breaks!

“Can allistic/neurotypical people follow?”

Yes! So long as you’re respectful of stimming and understand it’s not an aesthetic or something to make fun of.

“It says there’s two mods, but I only really see Mod Joker post.”

There is! But Mod Boo is rather, well, shy. We both are, tbh. I’ve just gotten used to talking a lot on this blog. And to tell ya the truth I invited her to mod this with me because she considered making a blog but wasn’t sure how she’d do it, and was worried she’d be too awkward/quiet. But she actually tends to see your messages a lot! She just tends to let me handle things. But if you ever wanna talk to her, just say the message is specifically for her and I’m sure she’ll get back to you. She’s very friendly and tbh one of the best people to talk to!!

“How do you make gifs?”

I use the same method stimmybby uses! His tutorial’s right here!

“How do you make banners?”

I use photoshop and for backgrounds (depending on what type of background), I use paint tool SAI. I made a tutorial on how I do it here!

“Can we use your banners for posts that aren’t stim related?”

Absolutely! So long as credit is given and you’re not in our dni, then use it as you like! Discourse posts, art, vent posts, promo posts, whatever floats your boat!

“Can I use your gif/s?”

As long as there’s credit to us for the gif/s and you don’t apply to our dni, you’re free to!

“How can I credit you?”

There’s a few ways! Such as

- Including the credit in the post and/or under the cut (this is the best way people can access the original post and see the credit!

- Include the credit in the post’s captions

- Include the credit in the tags

- Include a link in the post to another post that has the credits in it

- Saying you got the gif/s from us in the post

“What are bad/wrong ways to ”“credit”“ you?”

- Saying “I don’t own these gifs”

- Saying “credit to the original owner(s)/gifmaker(s)

- Straight up not saying you took these gifs from people/including in no credits

- Claiming the gif/s are yours/you made them

If I see any of these I WILL publicly call you out on it and you WILL be blocked immediately thereafter. That block will not be lifted.

“What does REG mean?”

Reactionary Exclusionary Gatekeeper. Meaning people who try to exclude certain queer people from queer spaces. Such a biphobes, transphobes, aphobes, panphobes, and so on.

“What does TERF mean?”

Trans/Transgender Exclusionary Radical Feminist. Meaning radfems who are transphobic and are violent towards trans people (especially trans women).

“What does SWERF mean?”

Sex Worker Exclusionary Radical Feminist. They’re radfems who try to exclude sex worker from their feminism and often treat women attracted to men as less worthy.

“What’s the ADT community?”

ADT stands for “Actually Dysphoric Trans/Transgender” and was created by transmedicalists/truscum to break off from the trans community. It’s an insult to the trans community, an insult to the creator of the transgender pride flag (it’s removed the white that was there for people who ID as non-binary/outside the gender binary), and is there purely to start drama and create rifts in a community that’s already got enough enemies for simply existing in a transphobic world

“He/Him lesbians don’t exist/they’re transphobic towards trans men”

As a trans man who doesn’t think the world revolves around me and who understands that what lesbians decide to do it literally none of my goddamn business: get the fuck over yourself you whiny pissbaby

“What do you mean by people in the true crime community?”

People who sexualize, romanticize, excuse, and/or support serial killers and their actions/crimes. This doesn’t include people who are INTERESTED in the topic of crimes, serial killers, etc but acknowledging how these people are disgusting and their actions are unforgivable.

“Why are you anti-cgl?”

Cause we hate pedophiles and are decent human beings.

“You’re bigoted to kinksters just like homophobes are bigoted to gay people!”

I hate to break it to ya bud but I’m proudly kinkphobic and you’re a giant homophobe!!

“I’m a SFW cgl(re)/littlespace blog so I’m following/interacting uwu”

No the fuck you aren’t!! You’re a kink blog, there’s no such thing as a “sfw kink” even if you’re remaining two braincells are too busy fighting over the last pacifier to tell you some fuckin common sense. Your ass is getting blocked and I’ll also be using your blog to take a look at the people you interact and block them too just for safe measure! Eat a cactus, fuck nugget

“You hate lesbians if you hate TERFs”

You owe every lesbian an apology for assuming they’re all mysogynistic, LGBT+phobic pieces of horseshit like you are. Eat a dick.

“aces/aros aren’t LGBT uwu”

Wow… that’s so wrong Alexa play Fuck You by Lily Allen

“Me/Someone I know/(insert user/s) has been blocked. Why?”

There can be a number of reasons why you’re blocked, and I’m not afraid to block people as I want this place comfortable and safe for the mods and followers. So there’s several reasons as to why.

- You apply to our DNI (see BYF)

- You’re a (insert harmless children’s cartoon) critical blog (I tend to block those due to them saying LGBT+phobic things)

- You get into kin drama

- You’re an ace discourse, pan discourse, bi discourse, and/or overall REG discourse blog (this does not mean I block inherently block discourse blogs! I block the shitty ones)

- You’re a spam/porn/etc bot (if I’ve gotten this wrong, lemme know! I tend to block shady and empty blogs for this reason unless their desc/url/etc says it’s empty/weird for a reason)

- You’re a blog that frequently posts/centers around one or more of my triggers

- You’re an aesthetic blog (though I tend to soft block for them. But this is NOT an aesthetic blog and stimmy is NOT an aesthetic)

- You’re an “anyone can interact” stim blog

- You’re a stim blog that steals/doesn’t credit the gifs they use

- I feel you and I are going to argue and I’m just saving us the trouble of future unpleasant encounter/s

- You’ve been shitty to my friends or just been shitty to people in general and I’ve noticed it

HOWEVER I’ve made slip ups in the past! If you feel you don’t apply to any of these, you can contact me through my main and ask why. Sometimes I don’t always remember why I blocked somebody (sadly there’s a lot of shitheads on this site I’ve needed to block) or I’ve confused one blog for another person’s blog. Or maybe the person was more chill than I thought. Please contact me yourself rather than ask somebody else to do it though so I can get all the details! Even if I don’t lift the block, I won’t report you for block evading or anything.

“You used to be kidheart friendly and now you’re not, why’s that?”

Sadly, Raven (the creator of Kidhearts) has proven to be a bully sympathizer and feels it’s okay to compare agere to kinks/cgl and sides with regressionuncensored. She condones bullying/harassment/the sexualization of minors and I am not nor will ever be okay with that.

“But Raven sai-”

I don’t care what she says. She made it abundantly clear that she supports regressionuncensored and I don’t care that it came back to bite her in the ass. Bullies deserve no support, no sympathy, no nothing. And if you side with her than don’t come near this blog. This is agere safe and I will not allow people who support sexualizing it to interact. Kidhearts WILL be blocked on the spot, no questions asked.

“I’ve left a community on the dni list, can I follow/interact?”

Yes!

“Why are you anti-(insert thing on blacklist here)?”

Camp Camp: It’s racist + antisemitic

Dragon Maid: It’s pedophilic

Killing Stalking: It’s homophobic, ableist, sexist, perpetuates rape culture, and fetishizes abuse

Your Lie in April: It romanticizes child abuse and it literally starts off with a gross pedo joke when we meet the love interest in episode one

Split: It’s ableist

Hetalia: It’s antisemitic

Harry Potter/J.K. Rowling’s works: Actually there’s nothing inherently bad about the story. I just don’t like it. HOWEVER: I can’t stand J.K. Rowling as she’s a TERF/overall LGBT+phobe, and racist. So none of her creations will be featured here.

Sonic Boom: Nothing inherently problematic. I just can’t stand the show because it just fuckin sucks

13 Reasons Why: It romanticizes suicide and the creators refused to listen to actual mental health experts and have made the show potentially dangerous to anyone who even slightly deals with suicidal thoughts/urges

Detroit Become Human: It’s racist + antisemitic

Voltron: Legendary Defender: It queerbaits/it’s LGBT+phobic

“REG is a transphobic term”

I, Mod Joker, am trans. Try again.

“A-specs aren’t LG-”

*buzzer sound* wrong. So sad for you

“You’re not LGBT+ because you DARED disagree with me because you actually acknowledged that tumblr didn’t credit the community sweaty uwu”

We get this shit because a lot of you assume I’m ace or at the very least a-spec. And… Ya couldn’t be far from it. I’m a pan, genderfluid trans man. Even with all your gatekeeper (sorry, BULLSHIT) logic; I’d still be attracted to multiple genders and not be cis. I’m p queer. So no matter which way you slice it, I’m part of LGBT+. Die mad about it.

“You’re comparing aphobes to TERFs and SWERFs you fucking transphobe!”

Wow I didn’t realize setting boundaries meant that I viewed y'all in the EXACT same light. I’m so glad I have the lovely aphobes that have told my friends that they should kill themselves to set me straight.

Asking people not to interact doesn’t inherently mean I think they’re the EXACT same thing.

“Mod Joker is a gif-thief and reposts people’s content without properly crediting them!”

I have made this entire post explaining that’s wrong. Idrc if the post is too lengthy for you. Don’t talk shit if you don’t even have all the details.

Additionally, if you send me somethin about this in a negative light I’m IP blocking you. One strike and you’re out. If you want to believe people with false info and false accusations then that’s your baggage. Not mine.

HOWEVER if I’ve accidentally mis-credited, forgot to/messed up on crediting a person for their gif/video, or so on let me know! I’ll make mistakes, but I never do it intentionally.

[minato-arisato]

I don't trust any fuckin exclusionist under any goddamn circumstances anymore y'all been spitting out terf and biphobic rhetoric this whole damn time and I'm fuckin Done man, none of y'all have ever made me as a trans bi woman feel safe in my own fuckin community which is arguably the entire supposed point of your movement, y'all have just become a safe haven for hateful bigots to peddle their garbage in relative safety bc y'all will simply NOT critically examine your arguments, yourselves, or anyone who claims to align with you until the very last possible moment.

[bax16]

I just saw a terf try to camouflage herself (badly) as a decent person by appropriatin the word terf and usin it to insult a transwoman while callin her a man in the same Goddamn breath and never have I felt so violently gaslighted (gaslit???) in my wholeass life I fuckin hate terfs so much

[mag200]

here u go

1. Do you ever doubt the existence of others than you?

uh i tend to either doubt the existence of everyone including myself, or doubt my own existence but not everyone else’s

2. On a scale of 1-5, how afraid of the dark are you?

like 1 or 2 i live for the night bicth

3. The person you would never want to meet?

this is hard because even people i truly hate i would want to meet so i can fight them. so maybe jrr tolkien bc my expectations are probably too high and meeting him would be like “oh right ur a just a real and regular person that existed righto”

4. What is your favorite word?

probably “fuck” lets be real it’s just so flexible

5. If you were a type of tree, what would you be?

i have been asking myself this question my entire life and i cannot yet answer with certainty but i rlly relate to swamp maples

6. When you looked in the mirror this morning what was the first thing you thought?

“damn im good at cutting my hair” (i chopped my bangs last night)

7. What shirt are you wearing?

a feminist tee shirt my cousin’s girlfriend made

8. What do you label yourself as?

a goth bitch. a gay motherfucker. a sleepy boi.

9. Bright room or dark room?

uhh i like a lot of natural light, i don’t have blinds on my windows so it can get bright but the best is early morning or evening when its pretty dark out and i have my string lights turned on. so i guess low-to-neutral lighting.

10. What were you doing at midnight last night?

sleeping lol.

11. Favorite age you’ve been so far?

18 was reeeaal good but i’m gonna be 21 next and i am looking forward to that i think it will be a fun time

12. Who told you they loved you last?

my dad or my stepmom like yesterday probably

13. Your worst enemy?

not to be an edgelord but. my own brain probably.

14. What is your current desktop picture?

usually a pretty nature picture bc im a basic bitch, rn its this

15. Do you like someone?

um i like taylor swift

16. The last song you listened to?

the 10 hour version of “weightless” by marconi union (its my background music for nanowrimo)

17. You can press a button that will make any one person explode. Who would you blow up?

hahah um idk if i can say this without the fbi showing up

18. Who would you really like to just punch in the face?

no one in particular in this exact moment but. if a nazi shows up.

19. If anyone could be your slave for a day, who would it be and what would they have to do?

im uh not comfortable with this concept

20. What is your best physical attribute? (showing said attribute is optional)

idk maybe my eyes i like my face a lot but i also like my arms a lot but also my hairy legs? beautiful.

21. If you were the opposite sex for one day, what would you look like and what would you do?

first of all it would be pretty lit bc i’m genderfluid and i’d have a great time looking physically masc. so ideally i’d have long hair and a beard and i would just go for a hike and write and be beautiful.

22. Do you have a secret talent? If yes, what is it?

i dont have anything thats a secret to everyone but like most people dont know that i used to snowboard all the time and was real fuckin good at it

23. What is one unique thing you’re afraid of?

that theres a monster in the toilet thats going to reach up and grab me while im peeing

24. You can only have one kind of sandwich. Every sandwich ingredient known to humankind is at your disposal.

alfalfa sprouts, sharp cheddar cheese, hummus, cucumbers, spicy mustard, turkey, and figs on rye bread

25. You just found $100! How are you going to spend it?

tattoo definitely

26. You just got a free plane ticket to anywhere in the world, but you have to leave immediately. Where are you going to go?

ICELAND

27. An angel appears out of Heaven and offers you a lifetime supply of the alcoholic beverage of your choice. “Be brand-specific” it says. Man! What are you gonna say about that? Even if you don’t drink booze there’s something you can figure out… so what’s it gonna be?

i literally have no idea what i like so. i would pass the offer on to my dad he is much wiser in the lore of alcoholic beverages than i am.

28. You discover a beautiful island upon which you may build your own society. You make the rules. What is the first rule you put into place?

no TERFs.

29. What is your favorite expletive?

mother of fuck.

30. Your house is on fire, holy shit! You have just enough time to run in there and grab ONE inanimate object. Don’t worry, your loved ones and pets have already made it out safely. So what’s the one thing you’re going to save from that blazing inferno?

uh my journals

31. You can erase any horrible experience from your past. What will it be?

jesus christ. um. no im not getting into this shit here tbh i didnt read all these questions before reblogging this thing sorry.

32. You got kicked out of the country for being a time-traveling heathen who sleeps with celebrities and has super-powers. But check out this cool shit… you can move to anywhere else in the world!

iceland here i come.

33. The Celestial Gates Of Beyond have opened, much to your surprise because you didn’t think such a thing existed. Death appears. As it turns out, Death is actually a pretty cool entity, and happens to be in a fantastic mood. Death offers to return the friend/family-member/person/etc. of your choice to the living world. Who will you bring back?

of course Death is a cool entity you dont have to tell me that. anyway i have not yet lost someone in my family to death that i was super close to so. i’d bring back carrie fisher.

34. What was your last dream about?

i was in a deep crater trying to climb out to look beyond the rocks... i knew the ocean was supposed to be there and i was supposed to be able to see japan from there if i could climb up?? but when i got to the top and looked out, the ocean was gone and a barren landscape lay before me, images sliding into place like a powerpoint presentation superimposed on the sky of the apocalypse that had struck during my exile, the art and culture that was lost, the demise of the world. i climbed back down to chill in the bottom of my crater.

35. Are you a good….[insert anything you’d like here]?

yes i am a good.

36. Have you ever been admitted to the hospital?

yeah only three times i think but all within the same year.

37. Have you ever built a snowman?

hell yeah

38. What is the color of your socks?

not wearing any right now but the last pair i was wearing are orange, brown, and tan

39. What type of music do you like?

uhh lots of kinds but my top 3 are taylor swift, my chemical romance, and hayley kiyoko

40. Do you prefer sunrises or sunsets?

sunrises but if i lived on the west coast and could watch the sunset on the water i might prefer that

41. What is your favorite milkshake flavor?

chocolate

42. What football team do you support? (I will answer in terms of American football as well as soccer)

i dont care about sports teams buddy

43. Do you have any scars?

yeah i have a bunch from just playing and doing weird shit in the woods and a lot from picking at bug bites for too long, but i also have a couple self-harm scars from a while back

44. What do you want to be when you graduate?

idk exactly but im going back to school soon for environmental science and i’d love to do anything that lets me be outside and work with plants or animals

45. If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?

i’d either be born DMAB or have a brain that isn’t so goddamn forgetful

46. Are you reliable?

u mm idk i try to be but i am not for everyone

47. If you could ask your future self one question, what would it be?

what do u regret not doing

48. Do you hold grudges?

i do but very selectively, only for like one or two people

49. If you could breed two animals together to defy the laws of nature, what new animal would you create?

um idk maybe i could combine goats and turkey vultures into some kind of goat/dragon/bird of prey. think of the mayhem.

50. What is the most unusual conversation you’ve ever had?

i genuinely cannot remember sorry. but it was probably in an online forum in 2007 during the height of random humor.

51. Are you a good liar?

uhhh doubtful but i used to think i was good lol

52. How long could you go without talking?

i’ve gone a couple days without talking before and im sure i could go much longer, maybe months or years even altho it would not be healthy for me.

53. What has been you worst haircut/style?

junior year when i thought i knew how to cut my own hair (but i really didn’t) and i wanted to look like a knockoff brand Skins character (and i really did). that wasn’t rlly good but it was fun and i dont regret it.

54. Have you ever baked your own cake?

nah im not really a cake person

55. Can you do any accents other than your own?

i can sometimes do a british accent which i’ve been told is convincing to american ears but is probably very overdone. i can’t speak other accents but my brain gets stuck thinking in scottish or like a cowboy accent from old westerns a lot of the time.

56. What do you like on your toast?

lots of stuff depending on my mood but my fav is a runny egg where the bread can soak up all the yolk.

57. What is the last thing you drew a picture of?

eleven from stranger things

58. What would be you dream car?

i rlly rlly miss my old car that had to be junked almost a year ago. i don’t remember what kind it actually was but it was from the 80s and was a faded baby blue and small and boxy and the seats still smelled like cigars. any car from that time period but with a modern stereo + aux cord is the dream. or a big lesbian pickup truck like what bella has in twilight but with decent gas mileage. the dream.

59. Do you sing in the shower? Or do anything unusual in the shower? Explain.

yes but only if im home alone. what i do most in the shower is have imaginary conversations or pretend that i’ve been trekking through middle earth for four months without bathing and this is the first opportunity i’ve had to clean myself and i enjoy the shit out of it. or i pretend i’m a dragon.

60. Do you believe in aliens?

yeah dude definitely

61. Do you often read your horoscope?

no ive done that like maybe twice ever

62. What is your favorite letter of the alphabet?

R its just so good

63. Which is cooler: dinosaurs or dragons?

dragons but i fuckgin love dinosaurs dude

64. What do you think about babies?

i’m a little awkward/insecure around them but i feel deeply protective when i hold one and in general i think theyre pretty awesome

65. Freebie! Ask anything interesting you can think of.

hah motherfucker u forgot to ask me one

[thegoblinchild]

The possibly incel friend(?) is at it again, this time with terf rhetoric. Welp. Do I drop him yet? His 1% of stupid opinions is becoming more and more frequent. 

And another fuckin’ thing, sexuality is such a goddamn, deeply personal thing. I’m a cisgender lesbian dating a transgender man. This does not negate my fuckin’ sexuality in anyway. And I want some bastard to tell me otherwise. 

Sick of this shit.