#but PLEASE don't send this person hate

[backpackingspace]

I am once again thinking about how odysseus who witnessed the horrors that the captured women went through (one of his main duties in the iliad was taking the women back home and making sure they were as comfortable as possible and safe because he was the only one trusted not to violate them further due to his devotion to penelope. And in the odyssey part of the reason circe sent him to the underworld was so that he'd have to listen to all these women's stories (before he could talk to the prophet) ). Who was one of the few that saw women as people and respected their space and opinions. And was then put in those exact same situations. I don't have the motivation right now to do a full literary analysis of this (I'll site the sources too) but oh man one day I'm going to write a full essay on this.

[lee-hakhyun]

i see people thinking that the side story is the bad ending for kim dokja. and don't get me wrong, he doesn't come back after the door opens, but that is because kimcom CHOSE that.

they had the option to open a door where kim dokja woke up, but they chose to go through the door where he doesn't wake up because they know that first door is a trap (like 49/51), and they want all of kim dokja. and when they go through, kim dokja is gone, but he's left a note. he is STILL OUT THERE (and part of him is with lhh right now. it's complicated)

anyway this is just to say KIM DOKJA IS BACK IN THE SIDE STORY. he is just not with kimcom *yet*. i need to make this clear because i keep seeing people saying things that sound like people think he's gone for real in the side story.

[kakusu-shipping]

Wait I almost completely forgot I had a dream the other night that I got an Anon Hate message that claimed to be Koro-Sensei saying he would never love me due to the Proshipping thing and I just remember replying with a 20 bullet point list of How to Spot a Fake Koro-Sensei, as reviewed by Koro-Sensei.

Was a little sad to wake up and find the ask wasn't real.

[tangramkey]

I don't usually make posts like this, but please don't send death threats to ANYONE. It doesn't matter if they ship or headcanon something you don't, there's NEVER a situation where this is okay. If you don't like the ship or headcanon, just ignore, block, and move on. There is no reason to act this way towards someone. If you harass people, especially over matters like these, unfollow and block me.

[wildpeachfarm]

i feel like i have to intervene here and say ( no hate to neuro here because i think they're cool ). this is rpf. you absolutely cannot "don't like don't read" your way out of being inappropriate about real people

it was inappropriate even if it was good. it was inappropriate even if it wasn't done with bad intentions. you cannot "don't like don't read" your way out of being disrespectful towards real people about a real topic they went through. this is not how anti-censorship terms work

weaseling yourself out of the responsibility of being respectful towards the real part of the real people fiction by using terms that are used in only fiction will not end well. no matter how much you like a fic or how important a topic is for you, you're still using real people to write it. the context of the fic was off, particularly on the way it was promoted. if you really want the fic to exist so badly, use a pseudonym on ao3 and just be normal about mentioning it in public

rpf and fiction have opposing rules. fiction is don't like don't read. rpf is you can't be respectful don't write it

fair enough tbh

I get the concern and everything and maybe it would've been better to use different names or something or maybe not promote on twitter or stuff like that 🤷‍♀️ I know when it's people's first rpf fandom (or one that's just much more strict about things) it can be lots of "you live and you learn" moments about where to tread and when to change things up to avoid people getting upset

*also last ask on this because I don't want a friendly convo about this to turn into people being rude to those in my inbox because none of these people I want to see getting bashed :(*

[anti-ao3]

as someone with BPD, seeing this gave me emotional damage and I deserve financial reparation

(apparently the creator of this video actually has BPD, but that is such a fucking misleading thumbnail and title)

[ID: A Youtube video thumbnail entitled, "Does T/AYLOR SWIFT have BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER??". The thumbnail itself is a picture of T/aylor and the text next to her reads, "Is T/aylor Swift unstable??" /End ID]

[wanderingmind867]

Sometimes I get so stressed and agitated that I just want to rip the head off of anything and anyone who comes in contact with me. I'm feeling that anger skyrocket again (probably because of stress in my personal life), and I'm half tempted to take it out on a bunch of random targets. Mostly things that I have no actual clear understanding of, but which I have convinced myself to hate anyways. I'm an impulsive person, and I'm a person of great anger and stress. So don't be shocked if I just start making some rude posts bad-mouthing things to try and distract my brain from my real life stress. It's probably not a good coping mechanism, but it's the one i'm letting myself get away with today.

[warlordess]

LMAO

Was trying to think of a low-stakes Steddie fic I could write to nudge myself into the fandom better and came up with this idea for the kids playing MASH with Steve as their victim and adding Eddie as one of his potential marriage partners. I was like, "This is perfect! I don't really care about this idea so if I write and share it and everyone hates it, I won't cry myself to sleep after! I haven't spent weeks with the summary stored in my notes, coming up with little fun or interesting details and embellishments to characterization like I have some of my other ideas, this is fine!"

AND THEN

I was showering and thinking about the idea and some lil interesting details and characterization embellishments floated into my head and by the time my shower was finished about ten minutes later, I was just like: "Oh NO. I CARE NOW."

@ataliagold, please save me from myself.

[the-way-astray]

i can confirm it to everyone that keefe wouldnt like you cause im actually him irl yes sorry shannon actually put me in the book by accident instead of creating a new character and i do nawt like you slash no offence i just rlly rlly dont

credit

[sherlock-is-ace]

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[amandarayyy]

I need Advice

Ok, so I need a sounding ear and some advice that's why I'm turning here. I've been struggling with staying motivated to write lately because I've been so stressed out with life and it's making me extremely upset because I love to write so 1, to my fellow writers: how do you continue to stay motivated when you have a crap load of stuff going on in your personal life? But 2, My car broke down completely and I don't have the money to fix it so I sold it to a junkyard trying to make some extra cash but my day job required me to have a car so now I've been applying to hundreds of random jobs (probably not that many but a lot) trying to find something that works with my schedule and have not heard anything. I'm getting stressed because BILLS and FOOD obviously but I'm trying to figure out what to do! I've never been in a situation like this and since I have no support I'm so distraught as to what to do so I need advice! I keep seeing random GoFundMe's going around, like should I make one since I'm desperate? But I don't want to put that on people, I know there are so many people struggling out there. Anyone know any remote jobs hiring or similar? Gah, I can't even think of what else to do besides constantly applying for jobs and just waiting but then I'm nervous with no money coming in that everything will get turned off and whatnot. WHY DOES THIS YEAR SUCK SO HARD RIGHT NOW. *takes deep breath* I know it's going to work out in the end, I have faith, I'm just....meh

[shirajellyfish]

Your music taste sounds great. Any recommendations?

Warning you now that my taste in music is in fact terrible. You asked for it though, so here are some musics:

Anything on the Floraverse Bandcamp page, by user Glitched Puppet. Some favorite albums are the Lunar Depot OST, She Wants You To Listen, Broken Radio. Also, Send me In, Coach! from the this means war demo.

Unfortunately, some of my very favorite songs from this artist are no longer available, which is a darn shame. Cat Frontier, Down Here, I Don't Remember, and Welcome To Hellside are some of my favorite weird songs of all time. I don't think any of these are available anywhere anymore :(

Other musics, chosen at random: Jack Campbell's Absenteee and What it Takes, Wolf's Rain soundtrack, Well Dressed by Hop Along, Chonny's Charming Chaos Compendium (I have been OBSESSED with this album lately), the S1 Centaurwold soundtrock and the elk tour songs from S2, Charming Disaster's Love Crime and Other Troubles (and also their single What Remains), Twinsomnia soundtrack, and the Recently album from Liana Flores (that's where Rises the Moon comes from! There are other great songs on there too though.)

I fully expect people to listen to exactly one of these and go "Oh no, Shira's music is in fact cutting down my circus tent"

[missanthropicprinciple]

🔥Succession?

I truly don't know if this is a controversial opinion or not but I have absolutely no sympathy for Logan. I understand that he suffered so much as a child, I mean, it was beyond horrendous, but the way he treated people in his life, not even just his children (who he effectively created with built in planned obsolescence as do most malignant narcissists), is pure evil. I've grown up with people like him in my life so I am, you could say, biased, but I think "experienced" is a better word. I've known people who have gone through emotional torture as children who did not turn out to be monsters, myself included. As adults we have a responsibility not to take out our trauma on other people. Annnnnyway.

[albonium]

imagine spending time sending dumb as fuck anon asks to several blogs every couple of days, couldn't be me!

[bahoreal]

i keep "based on your likes" on out of like, morbid curiosity about tumblrs shitass algorithm (i think it goes, i [tumblr user J] like a post by tumblr user A. tumblr user A likes posts by tumblr user B, tumblr user C, tumblr user D. tumblr user J gets shown all of tumblr user As likes. i must have liked a post by someone who only likes posts about religion because i am getting a steady stream of almost harrowingly (derogatory) christian posts.

[deadrlngers]

the gang meets the friend that dumped us 6 months ago bc he got a gf and said gf. 2 deads found in the southern italian countryside