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one of the things about being an educator is that you hear what parents want their kids to be able to do a lot. they want their kid to be an astronaut or a ballerina or a politician. they want them to get off that damn phone. be better about socializing. stop spending so much time indoors. learn to control their own temper. to just "fucking listen", which means to be obedient.
one of the things i learned in my pedagogy classes is that it's almost always easier to roleplay how you want someone to act. it's almost always easier to explain why a rule exists, rather than simply setting the rule and demanding adherence.
i want my kids to be kind. i want them to ask me what book they should read next, and i want to read that book with them so we can discuss it. i want my kid to be able to tell me hey that hurt my feelings without worrying i'll punish them. i want my kid to be proud of small things and come running up to me to tell me about them. i want them to say "nah, i get why this rule exists, but i get to hate it" and know that i don't need them to be grateful-for-the-roof-overhead while washing the dishes. i want them to teach me things. i want them to say - this isn't safe. i'm calling my mom and getting out of this. i want them to hear me apologize when i do fuck up; and i want them to want to come home.
the other day a parent was telling me she didn't understand why her kid "just got so angry." this woman had flown off the handle at me.
my dad - traditional catholic that he is - resents my sentiment of "gentle parenting". he says they'll grow up spoiled, horrible, pretentious. granola, he spits.
i am going to be kind to them. i am going to set the example, i think. and whatever they choose become in the meantime - i'm going to love them for it.
#writeblr#i was doing a lot with high school students. over and over again#other teachers kept asking me what i was doing differently - why the kids listened to me. i am not particularly foreboding#and i have a pretty firm personal policy of never reacting in anger#godhelpme.#i was always kind of taken aback#because in general the kids were pretty easy. i explained i needed to keep everything “PG-13” because this was my workplace#and it was kind of their workplace#too. besides#i love swearing#and since i couldn't swear#neither could they - so if they were going to say “fuck” or become violent#they needed to choose a really specific time#because we only get “the one”.. sure enough - nobody wanted to waste the one very specific “fuck” utterance. kids listened.#i think just because - that rule makes sense. the kids understand that i don't want to be unfair to them#that censorship is stupid#but that i'm under these rules too so like let's ride it out together#also i look young and tbh between me and u nobody wants to make the nice english teacher cry#the way these kids defended me to their friends was really genuinely so heartwarming bc the Grouchy Frat Boy#would be like MISS RAQUEL DOESN'T DESERVE THAT KIND OF AN ATTITUDE BRO DON'T TALK BACK TO HER
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A bit tired of people complaining about Sanji's principle of "not hitting women" being misogynistic when it has been clearly stated multiple times that he does not choose it and it's heavily tied to his trauma and admiration for his dad and respect for women and definitely not from seeing women as somehow weaker than him
#like okay i get where you're coming from and i understand that from a simpler perspective it's weird#if meet a guy irl who refuses to fight against women no matter how evil they are for no reason other than being women i'd consider it odd#but.... we have watched sanji's backstory and we have seen him actively feeling bad for not being able to hit female enemies#like what do you not understand#you can say the practice itself is based on misogynistic views too but the reasons why sanji doesn't hit women are more complex than that#a lot of people might disagree with me but like#i'm not saying the act itself is awesome and solemn and correct but you can't go and call sanji a misogynistic character just bc of that#like saying he views women as weaker than him is just. wrong. and i've seen people say it#and yes this behavior adds to his gentleman personality and it's also for the writing to show how polite and nice he is to women#but it's not exaggerated. he genuinely has issues viewing women as equals bc he romanticizes them#and that's bad! he knows that's bad!#let the character grow?????? i swear people can't read 😭#i'm not making any sense i just woke up but yeah#one piece#black leg sanji
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Every note on this post is a get fucked to that bee
#my fanart#no i swear when I'm done obsessing over sketching x files scenes on this poor sketchbook#i will take some nice pictures of them and compile them in one post#instead of just posting low quality pics from my phone#I'm just too lazy to do that rn#also if anyone wants to send me pretty shots/scenes from txf#i might save the images and paint them when I'm in the mood#make 0 promises please do not rely on my word#txf#fanart#txf fanart#x files fanart#sculder
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Whenever I'm having a weird time I always end up drawing Aradias looking at the viewer. I'm sure that means nothing
#I like where MS Paint is right now. The slider for brush sizes feels good for me and the layers are nice.#anyway. I swear I'm gonna do more for artfight I'm just. havin a weird time as previously stated#aradia megido#hs#homestuck#my art#ms paint
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userdramas event 13: team spirit — choco milk shake (2022) ♡
#userdramas#usergif#asianlgbtqdrama#bldramaedit#asiandramasource#kdramaedit#choco milk shake#kdrama#it was so nice to revisit this#i missed them!!!#now that we live in a pitbabe world i swear it's not as weird as it seems ok so please go watch if you haven't#also this set is sooo out of my element and it didn't turn out exactly as i envisioned BUT i'm happy
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Sub Bucky and a breeding kink 💀 dead unlived it's one of my favourite things 😌
This is pretty high up there on my list of dream fantasies 🥵 these are two of my biggest weaknesses, don't even look at me rn
One of life's greatest joys is cuddling with the other person's head resting on your chest so you can play with their hair and rub their shoulders. I love that shit, having someone else's body weight on you is so comforting.
I imagine that's something Bucky would really enjoy too. It's so soft and sweet and tender and getting to feel cared for would really appeal to him.
But that's up until his hands work their way under your top, up over your bare skin so he's able to cup your breasts and bury his face between them while he's getting his hair played with. Life's pleasures don't get much simpler than that.
After a few moments he shifts slightly, tugging the neckline of your shirt out of the way to give himself space to kiss and nip your skin. All of a sudden he's desperate and it's beautiful to watch.
"Please." He whispers between frantic kisses, flicking his tongue over the stiff peak of your nipple before engulfing it with his warm, eager mouth.
"Please, what?" You tease, tugging on his hair just a little for emphasis.
He groans, frustrated by his own lack of coherence, pulling his mouth from your nipple. "Please let me put a baby in you."
That's not what you were expecting but fuck, he makes it sound pretty appealing.
"Bucky-" You begin but he cuts you off, giving your other nipple the same attention as he gave the first. God, that's distracting.
"You'd make. Such. A pretty. Mommy." He whispers, kissing his way down your body until he reaches the bottom seam of your top. From there, he pulls it off, letting it fall to the floor before removing the rest of your clothes.
"You'd look so pretty with a little baby bump." His huge hand rests on your bare tummy, imaging how your body would change.
"I want it, Buck." You mean it too. It doesn't sound like such a bad idea when he's taking his clothes off.
"I know you want it." He groans, rubbing the tip of his dick against your soaked core. "Y-you're so wet."
He presses his hips forward, sliding inside you and you can't explain it but you swear it feels different this time.
"Don't even think about pulling out." You cup his face in your hands, keeping his eyes on you and you almost worry he's going to fuck himself senseless into you. "I want you to make me a mommy. You're going to give me every single drop of cum and when it starts to drip out of me, you're going to fuck it back in."
His head falls onto your shoulder, sobbing a pathetic moan against your already hot skin. The pace of his thrusts matches his need, his hips slamming into yours and when he finally gives in, he cums inside you with your legs clamped around his waist, making sure he couldn't pull out even if he wanted to.
#asks answered <3#becca writes spice#anon#sub!bucky#subby bucky#this is one of those fantasies that's nice in my head#I think I'd like to be at that point in my life but it's absolutely not where I'm at rn#maybe some day tho#I started writing a new series yesterday#making a lil moodboard#excited to post the concept#can't decide if I want each chapter to feel like a continuation of the one before#or if I want the chapters to be more detached from each other with time passing in between#might actually space it out over a weekend?#I took my lil granny out for lunch today and she's just the cutest#she usually comes up to ours for Sunday lunch but my parents were out this weekend#so I made her dinner last night and took it down to her and I asked if she wanted to go out for Sunday lunch for a change#she made me book the table right there in front of her so she'd be able to look forward to it 🥺#I sat with her for over an hour yesterday evening and she smiled nearly the whole time#she's too cute I swear
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david coulthard they could never make me like you . i swear to god this man finds every opportunity to hate on logan , even coming up with absolute bull claims just to humiliate him on live tv . like how this past weekend he showed a white car , claimed it to be logan's , and said he's still "making contact without even being on track" and then laughing about it . and guess what ? that car wasn't even logan's !! it was his teammate's , alex albon's car !!!!!!!
this guy genuinely seems to hold so much hatred in his heart for logan considering how often he says shit about him and it absolutely infuriates me . and the fact he went so far as to humiliate him on live tv by saying something like that with the car is so messed up in my eyes ? i swear he pulls what he says about logan out of his ass and it's getting on my nerves .
i know and understand that its commentators' job to , well , commentate -- but they often say things about some drivers that exerts such hatred towards them . and in my opinion , that is not a sign of good commentating: it shows lack of morals , insecurity , and indicates a person who is unable to come up with comments about an athlete that criticize them fairly yet kindly . david coulthard has not done any of the sort to logan . he has consistently showed him hate , saying he doesn't belong in f1 , humiliating him on live tv with clips like this , amongst other things .
as a commentator and former formula 1 driver with a lot of influence , he should use his experience and prominence in motorsport to provide logan with constructive criticism . he should give him advice about what he thinks logan could do to improve even if he's in a bad car rather than consistently spread hate and talk crap about him . david coulthard is meant to be a role model figure in motorsports . instead , he acts like a bully towards a driver who is clearly struggling and needs to be shown a helping , guiding hand to learn about what he can do to improve his odds .
it's frustrating how often people in positions of power and who are highly respected in motorsports because of their career use their popularity and position of power to spread hate . i understand , this is a sport ! there will always be individuals who are assholes towards athletes , whether they are former athletes themselves or people sitting behind a screen who have nothing better to do and are upset about the trajectory of their own lives . the difference here , however , is that people who sit behind the screen often do not hold much power , while someone like david coulthard has hundreds of thousands , if not millions , of people listening to what he says and agreeing with him .
the car parking debacle may not seem like a huge problem , but when it is used as ammunition by haters to be rude to logan because a respected individual in motorsports spat on him too , then it is a problem . hate in general is a problem . it may have seemed like a simple joke , something to laugh at and giggle about . when you take into consideration how logan has been treated since he joined f1 , though , it's not a funny thing . it's just sad .
and the thing is that even though we now know it wasn't logan's car , people will still use it to hate on him . they'll ignore that fact . they'll pretend like it's still his car that was parked that way and they'll continue to joke and laugh and taunt logan . because that's just how haters are . it's a "harmless joke" in the moment , but in the long run it can be insanely damaging in numerous ways . that goes not just for jokes about logan , but about all the drivers , about all motorsports athletes , and about all people .
here's a video confirming it was NOT logan's car that was parked in a way that it was hitting the pole !
via kym illman on youtube
#venus defends logan 𖦹*ੈ‧ 𓇼 ₊˚𓆝#logan sargeant rants#logan sargeant#williams racing#formula one#formula 1#f1#logie bear#i swear i hate old f1 drivers hating on logan#like ik ur a commentator but is there not a way to do ur job without being a proper asshat ???#wishing that people were nicer to logan#and the fact the car wasn't even logan's but david automatically assumed it was .....#actually tearing my hair out i'm so pissed off#pitchforks at the ready#no but if u have nothing nice to say just don't say it tf ???#LIKE WHAT WAS THE NEED TO BRING UP THE DAMN CAR#AND IT WASN'T EVEN LOGAN'S !!!!!!!!!!!#sorry i'm fuming
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#dimension 20#dungeons and drag queens#brennan lee mulligan#dropout#like yes of course the intrepid heroes one is exagerating but lol watching d&dq you can see such a difference#he's so nice and helping them in their first quest and explaining everything and accepting all their suggestions#but with the intrepid heroes it's “you better pray” and “explain yourself hilda hilda” and “real life take a test in the middle of a battle#🤣#my posts#also if someone has made this before i'm sorry i swear i haven't seen any posts like this#but it seemed like an obvious meme lol
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(braincell activated)
#arknights#鲸鲨#I swear she reveals more and more each years#this also fit nice with pink casual baller Skadi for summer date dress#i'm just not in a state of proper drawing#maybe next time
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#alan wake 2#alan wake#alex casey#ilkka villi#sam lake#i am not immune to beautiful finnish men#my adventures with photo mode#virtual photography#THE GODDAMN COLORING#i am. going. insane.#i feel personally attacked by the color yellow#i swear both of these shots looked good at one point#just...don't look at them for too long#originally i didn't even try to color correct these but y'all were so nice on the other post so i gave it another try :3#i kinda gave up on the alan shot though#i tried#but it's not getting any better#i'm over it honestly#enjoy
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Week 3! But WHAT'S THIS?? WHO ARE THESE HANDSOME FELLAS???
Why, they're none other than some of my beloved mutuals versions of Sun! Or at the very least, attempts at them!
Yapping and links to the mutuals and their aus below the cut :)
**also you should click for better quality**
Something important that I remembered recently was what advice I got from watching Bob Ross paint (yes I do bob ross paintings in my free time, moving on) which is that when you're following someone else's process, you're not trying to copy them, but rather emulate them and learn the fundamentals while do so.
It's how I'm now able to do paintings in 'bob ross style' without following a tutorial bc i learned the basics first and foremost. And besides being my moots (who I think are so cool and amazing) I chose these 4 designs specifically because of how distinct their styles are and how each ends up with very pretty end results regardless.
So that's how we ended up with the last three drawings of the week, which are me trying to figure out a more lax sketch/doodle style (Day 20), a very detailed style for more 'finished' pieces (Day 21), and lastly somewhere in between (Day 19).
I've seen a lot of growth in myself while going through this challenge, both in my art and in my confidence towards it, and I'm excited to finish out this next week. Who knows, might see a few other familar faces mixed in :)
As for my lovely moots, if you haven't already you should go check them out! They all make very great content. Hope I did y'all justice with these! Stared at your art for hours and simultaneously had a TON of fun drawing your versions of the boy ^-^
In Order of Appearence:
Eclipsed By You (EBY) Sun - @ping-ski
All Bark No Bite Sun - @cazbats
Fashion/Model Au Sun - @luckyyyduckyyy
Solar Takeoff/Ride Operator Au Sun - @fishm0ther
#Hehehe#this is revenge on all of you for being so nice to me#and the next chapter of CS#that has some revenge in it too <3#shout out to everyone that's been encourgaing thus far#it's been motivating me to continue and finish it out :)#I have a couple fun ideas for the last week#excited to see how i end up#think those last three are the closet I've ever gotten to CS Sun in drawn form#like day 21 IS him#maybe that makes no sense and I'm delusional but i swear#fnaf dca#fnaf daycare attendant#dca fandom#fnaf sun#dca fanart#midnightmusings
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Gift for @/pistachikou I went with the fantasy prompt, hope you like it!! Thanks @/stlweek for hosting!!✨ . . I was debating what role I should give them, but Mitsumi is perfect as a knight Shima could have been an archer but the staff suits the compostion better so i went with this i wonder what roles the others would have
#skip and loafer#skip to loafer#fanart#gift exchange#illustration#dnd#fantasy au#mitsumi iwakura#shima sousuke#love gift exchange it's always so nice to see and receive nice art#Fumi is healer for sure#Makoto archer#Mukai rogue#i'm here with my fantasy prompts on valentines day i swear it's not my fault it's bc of dungeon meshi
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my ACEN tip gimmick has been fulfilled, aaand i got a little carried away with it. I haven't had time to draw for myself (or at all, really??) in like two weeks, i needed to Doodle and Have Fun. ... also, i did not think he would get so many donuts. people understand the value of giving treats to fictional characters :) its what he deserves
also shoutout to snazzyskeletons who had the same Tip Theme i did. we took pictures with our tip jars together. they are adorable v
i'm glad their vash got some donut money too :) 🍩 please check them out if you want some cute trigun stuff
#trigun#trigun 98#art#doodles#trigun fanart#fanart#acen 2024#vash#vash the stampede#meryl stryfe#i get paid and vash gets um. tummy hurty i guess. look donuts are like strawberries you gotta eat that shit IMMEDIATELY ok#i love you people who gave vash donut money. i love you people who gave me little trinkets. i especially love you#vash cosplayer with a giant prop gun full of teenie tiny clay donuts. thank you for the donut i put it by my mini vash funko pop#i met so many nice trigun fans. all of you are so NICE ; - ; LOVELY fandom over here. and so many good cosplays#i saw wolfwood. i dont mean i saw a wolfwood cosplayer i mean i Saw Wolfwood It Was Him In Real Life I Swear#i dont think vash ever actually wears his glasses up on his head like that but i think it looks nice so i will keep doing it#he has cool glasses. they should be seen. cool glasses and eyelashes. mwah#i have a somewhat cool wolfwood illustration idea in my head but i just haven't had time to work on it at all#and i want to draw the insurance girls !!!!!! AAAA. MILLY. MILLY I LOVE YOU !!!!!!!! MILLYYYY#GOD i have so much art to work on. they need to invent a days with more hours in it#yeah i'm making steady and good progress through my to do-list but I Need To Get Through It Faster#anyway its 6am i need to schedule this and go to bed already#one more thank you to everyone who stopped by and said hello!!! ACEN was such a blast i hope i get in the AA again next year
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the tradwife-ication of jason todd is so bad literally bruce didn't even need to pyschic lobotomy him and try to send him to metropolis. the fandom has already done that
#tradwife-ication referring to the only hobbies fanon jason is allowed to have being kitchen and reading#also no arguments with bruce :) happy family :) let's ignore the entire cause he fights for and why he's like that#dc#jason todd#batman#bruce wayne#credits to the bad fanon headcanons post about jason on reddit for the term “tradwife-ication”#I swear I'm not that negative#Just feel frustrated about the amount of “jason should just let go of his issues and be nonmurdery and nice :)))”#you can totally disagree by the way#my opinion is that his character is flattened by this#if you see this as something that develops it or something it's not a fault of yours#engage with media how you wish#but please understand the character
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Rob James-Collier ACT ON THIS June 27th, 2023 pt.2
#rob james-collier#robert james-collier#rob james collier#robert james collier#mine#these are all different than the last ones i swear#i'm excessive ✨✨#📢 arms ✨✨#i giffed this motherfucker just breathing someone take my photoshop away#is it weird to say he's got nice eyebrows#i think i've already surpassed weird so what's it matter#he deserves to be crumpled like a capri sun pouch
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sillyguys :3
#the kingmaker histories#eisen iyer#colette geise#telesphore winterlich#my art#mayhaps i should draw more serious things. but this was fun and they are cute :3#a mix of style experimentation and just doing what i always do... i didn't intend to shade this but then it kind of just happened LOL#eisen is wearing those lil glasses on a chain because my partner asked nicely <3 this one's for you danny#obligatory they-would-never-wear-this-i'm-just-having-fun#it looking a little like telsie is tripping colette was an accident i swear. but it's funny so i did keep it
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