#but I find this to be gender affirming
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You are not a puppy girl. Youer a human thinking that your a dog is a sign of serious mental illness get a fucking therapist and stop exposing us to your psychosis
My therapist is sending me a puppygirl care package. It’s got human teeth safe dog toys, and treats in it! I’m actually very excited!
#ask pirateprincessjess#arf arf#living my best puppygirl life has been great for my mental health#and my therapist loves it#like obviously I’m a human#but I find this to be gender affirming#and it helps with anxiety and stress#(and it’s not a kink thing)#I specify that because I get asked about that a lot#but yeah it’s totally normal and healthy actually
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#yes i think im funny#inspired by that one post which i can't find for the life of meeeeee#Ironically enough#you know the one#crozier's drunk and tells the officers he can't find it but fitzjames is transfem#something something strangely very gender affirming#shitpost#francis crozier#the terror#i would have put it in the reblogs of that post but i cannot fiiind ittt
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Don't get me wrong, I think it's perfectly acceptable that trans people don't always have certain surgeries and procedures, but I think something is to be said about the amount of trans people I have seen bash a certain gender-affirming procedure.
It's totally fine to not want some or any surgeries, but it's still transphobic to say "I think the results are ugly/look mutilated" or that trans surgery is "rudimentary" or "experimental" - even if you're also trans.
The idea that certain gender-affirming surgeries are mutilation or experimental is a classic form of transphobia, so it really does hurt seeing other trans people propelling those same talking points.
#trans#transgender#lgbt#lgbtq#ftm#mtf#nonbinary#i dunno i just want to find resources for gender-affirming care without hearing how my body is mutilated and gross#transphobia#transphobia tw#cis people can look but don't touch please#gender-affirming care is very much not experimental
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hi rook sorrgy I'm back but I've been thinking about your akeshu as girls genderfuckery tweet for 20 million years. idk if you can share anything in good faith here on the Tumblr corner of the internet (if not then by all means ignore this) but if you did I'd owe you perhaps my entire soul!! thank you very much either way :3
i would LOVE to talk about this thank you so much for asking
[under the cut in case anyone would not like to see genderfuckery stuff]
okay so first of all.
on the topic of boobs
this is important to lead with do you understand. most of the akeshu as girls stuff ive seen around has akc as flat-chested and ren as boobed. and that's valid i support that. but personally. personally to me. i think it's the opposite. tbe reason (well one reason) i think it's the opposite is because i think girlren is a little rat of a creature and akechi who is prim and feminine and perfect is so FUCKING angry about her crush on ren like she's barely surviving it and then this is the nail in the coffin. she's like why can't i stop thinking about that messy unassuming thing. she doesn't even have boobs
my other reasons for tihs are that i think joker is more androgynous charm while akechi is more feminine/masculine duality i think this makes sense to nobody else. i think ren regardless of agab is riding the rail of the gender spectrum 🛹 while akc is collecting extremes of gender presentation like they're pokemon do you understand. are we on the same page here. ren being into drag is important to me for this reason (again regardless of agab). meanwhile akechi having very clear feminine secondary sex characteristics but presenting gradually more and more masculine in terms of clothing/hair/personal style etc. is also extremely important to me. and that includes being biog of tity while her style veers more and more into masc as time goes on
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the detective prince
i think girl akechi (at 17-18) presents very femininely because it's what's effective for her. i would call her style................... kawaii corporate chic. does that make sense for everyone. it's like schoolgirl girlboss. she has a bow instead of a tie but it's a very classy one not a kitschy one. smart blazer, uniform pleated skirt, patent leather shoes, u know the drill BUT. people still call her the detective prince. this is VERY IMPORTANT to me. no detective princess. only detective prince. do you understand the importance of the genderfuckery of a super feminine girl being called by masculine terms. to me. we're continuing the legacy set by my hero naoto shirogane bigender queeng. bigender kin. bigender genderneutral non-monarchical ruler
i think by third sem girl akechi is starting to dress more androgynously/masculinely. more pants. i think her third sem outfit is unchanged from canon. just a smart coat, sweater, buttondown, slacks. postcanon she gets a haircut.
just trying to live an honest student life
ren is like so fundamentallyuncomfortable with the fact of his existence at the beginning of canon so to me girlren is like... she dresses like she's trying to hide in her clothes. messy hair. i have no strong feelings about whetehr her hair should be long or short, or whether it's loose or pulled into a tail, but i know it's messsy. untamed curls. and she uses it to hide her face. none of her clothes fit. she's in oversized everything. i have a very clear image in my head of a ren idle animation where she leans down to pull up her leggings because they keep falling down. she also has terrible posture. she's androgynous at this stage not on purpose but because she's too self conscious to like... exist... and present... in any notable way at all
i think as she gets more confident and as the year progresses she starts to dress more distinctively. i like the idea of her getting more comfortable prettying up. maybe working at crossroads helps her with this 🤔 i dont know how to explain this but i think she's still feminine in a gentlemanly chivalrous way rather than a girly cute way. girlren has that same steady calming vibe that guy ren does
joker & crow
crow has a magical girl skirt. i have a drawing of this but im too self conscious about my own lack of drawing skill to show it off so i cropped out the key part and put it into an ms paint void in the distance as my visual aid
there. i hope this is illustrative
i think given girl akechi's use of her feminine charms to gain popularity, her hero complex would be similarly gendered given we have confirmation that robin hood represents not (only) heroics for altruistic reasons but also the theatre of being seen doing good. there's a real drama element to the idea of a magical girl transformation that i honestly wish we got for male crow too. i always am depressed that we don't get to see much theatre for akechi's initial appearance as crow and summoning of robin hood, anyway, girlcrow has ribbons and a capelet that flap in non-existent wind.
black mask's outfit is unchanged from canon. i'd like it to look a little less stupid but that has nothing to do with gender i just want it to look a little less stupid.
joker's outfit is also unchanged from canon. listen. im back on my bullshit. in the metaverse her behaviour gets more feminine and more sly and confident than in reality. she's got that femme fatale shit going on. however, she is still a gentleman thief. she has the long coat. she has the poofy trousers. she has the waistcoat. she's still smirking and fixing her gloves and flipping her knife and doing that thing that canon ren does where he lifts his chin and does the little "come on" thing with her fingers. do you understand? do you understand me
#rookposting#if only i could draw. all i can do is word vomit about my vision.#bumper sticker that says please ask me about the akeshugirlies who live in my brain#please take care and don't peek if you're not into genderbendy type stuff! i know it's not for everyone#for me personally as a nonbinary/bigender person it's very affirming. but i understand for other nonbinary and trans people#that may not be the case and it may not be your thing so pls scroll accordingly!#much love. we all experience gender differently#i dont want to put all my wordvomit in the p5 tag but im also conscious of how many personal tags im making now#but i still need to be able to. find things on my own blog#what can a gal do...#rookthots
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In the words of the bard: Oops, I Did It* Again**
*befriended a street cat
**we already have four cats
#my coworkers have told me they enjoyed my cat soothing commentary. so I feel less worried about sharing it#he has made big progress since this moment… he’s eating brekky with me now!#our cats#I think I will call him Bimbo. He is a big idiot tomcat. so friendly!!#once we befriend him adequately he will go off to the vet for a gender affirmation procedure and then we will find him an owner
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tbh any doll can come into my dms and threaten/completely objectify me and ill be thrilled meanwhile any cis man who slides up with "hey bro😏" is getting shot on sight
#i do find that cis male tboy chasers use a lot of gender affirming language#which is fine if ur not using it to get into somebodys pants right#like bro ik u wanna be balls deep in my pussy dont call me bro#i wont be your 'good boy' either my wife will kill u#cis women are on thin ice too btw but like. ill tolerate them#t4t nsft#trans nsft#ftm nsft#st4t nsft#ftm sub#ftm bottom#ftm breeding#ftm cnc#ftm puppy
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#monolith mumbles#discourse#let me rant in the notes for a min#any queer discourse by ppl who are very rigid with labels always ends up dissolving into terf rhetoric its so#like watching the argument dissolve. truly a process#like im realizing my gender may be a little too queer for alot of ppl#i will find ppl who support me anyway hashtag affirm#ppl get so genuinely hateful about it like.😟#literally saw someone call someone else a dirty f*ggot like . WHAT‼️WHA T!!! you are WEIRD#i dont think my gender is even that fucky but like with how. Certain ppl online talk its very :(
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Absolutely wonderful pride, capped off the month by sucking the soul out of some tdick
#its so fun to find ways to go down on/fuck ppl that are expressly gender affirming#also love that ive really come back into my butch confidence#i can make magic w my head and my hands#started off dyke pride day w eating someone to completion in <30 seconds too#not to talk myself up too much but im aimin to be yhe best there is at what i do#wolverine status
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As a binder wearer myself I'm curious how the rest of you do it.
#binder#chest binder#trans#gender affirmation#trans masc#nonbinary#gynomastia#personally I like wearing my binder over an undershirt#but I wear lots of dress shirts and button downs#I find a tanktop under a binder controls the amount I sweat better?#but that may just be me
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Ok so I've not seen anyone else comment on it, so maybe I'm missing something obvious. But.
The Doctor Who special last night.... were me and my friend the only two trying to work out how Donna had a teenage child (old enough to be played by a 20 year old, so presumably 16+)...
In the episode the "accident" where Donna forgets everything is 15 years ago. We know Donna wasn't married then. We know for later plot reasons Donna had to have been The Doctor Donna before having Rose.
And yet. I am expected to believe this daughter of hers is a (very generous with timelines) 15 years old?
#like don't get me wrong it was a good performance and good actress#but very hard to suspend my disbelief enough that the actress was an (at the oldest) 15 year old#(I liked the thought that they'd succeeded finding gender affirming care for her though. I really liked that part.)#realistically Rose would be what... 13-14? timeline wise? Assuming Donna got pregnant pretty much as soon as the dust finished settled?#doctor who#doctor who 60th anniversary#doctor who spoilers#doctor who the star beast
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truly detest how pcos tags/forums/etc are absolutely crawling with terfs
#(okay to rb but stay in your lane)#maybe i just want to look and see if anyone else has experienced what i went through today without seeing someone going like#'you'll never be a REAL woman because you DON'T HAVE OVARIES#and will NEVER understand the TRUE WOMANLY EXPERIENCE of having A VERY DISRUPTIVE AND COMPLEX ENDOCRINE AND METABOLIC DISORDER'#like i think there are more important (read: actual) targets to direct our frustration at here than#[checks notes] getting mad at a trans woman for saying she relates to some of the problems caused/faced by having pcos#like. idk. the fucking medical system and lack of research/treatment options#(also. christ. reducing every person w pcos into the 'woman' category automatically bc 'ovary'.#even though it's literally an intersex condition. yikes.)#also i don't know about y'all but i don't wish this on anyone? regardless of gender??#i actually don't want trans women to have to experience this in order to be considered a True Woman#because i don't want ANYBODY to have to experience this. it sucks! it's not fucking fun!#i just wanted to try and see if other people have gone through the same thing i have. not expand my blocklist by half a mile tonight.#i wanna talk about me#even though i didn't exactly find what i was looking for (😔) and i had to play fucking whack-a-terf while searching#if there's any bright side to be found it's the number of posts/people affirming pcos as an intersex condition/identity#i saw someone say 'if you don't want the [intersex] umbrella for yourself you don't have to take it#but it's nice to have in the closet for a rainy day'#and. man. yeah.
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why don't clothes fit me the way they do on a skinny cis guy (<- isn't a skinny cis guy)
#being trans masc is so frustrating because i forget i got the level 1000 gyatt#go forth and find a beautiful trans woman bodily curves of mine#i have so many cool pants that would give away im kweer if i wore them not because they're from alt fashion subcultures#but because my ass and thighs and hips are too femme apparently?!?!?#when will people stop associating allat with women or something#my cis male friends have the biggest fucking asses for some reason AND THEY KEEP ON TWERKING INFRONT OF ME WHEN IM MINDING MY BUSINESS#no but *im* the female and a girl apparently#i wanna go out in tight fitting clothes until i realise i actually have a female body like whatttt#ain't that crazy#im not saying those bodily attributes are inherently femme or indicators of being a girl or a female cause just. no#im just saying that many people think that way#and it's hard trying to be perceived as masc while trying to dress the way i want to#'why do you care about how others perceive you?' because being perceived as a girl makes me feel bad like what#its different from your personality being perceived differently#im aware my gender is something i define but i can also want others to perceive me as a guy too#i cant change the minds of everybody but in the end i still am a masc identifying person and i want people to easily identify me as one#transphobes and people who blatantly refuse to perceive me as one is something else entirely#and if adhering to the binary gender norms is how i can be validated in my gender then so be it#because gender is a social construct and mine is affirmed and solidified through social interaction#other trans people wont do what i do. others do. that's fine. gnc trans people are fucking sick /pos#but unfortunately i do not have it in me to NOT care about how others perceive my gender#because it matters a lot to me and being perceived as a girl hurts
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Okay, if I had to simplify my gender into one song, it would absolutely have to be Libiamo ne' lieti calici. Like, I am going absolute feral right now. Do you see this vision of mine.
#trans#transgender#lgbt#lgbtq#ftm#mtf#nonbinary#i somewhat flip flop between my favourite pieces of opera but i LOVE how this song can be done#when it's done well i think you should feel almost seduced by BOTH violetta and alfredo's points of view#it is a VERY well-done argument alongside the chorus who affirm and almost seem to whisper alongside you...#...and (at least for me) i feel like i'm almost invited in a circle of people gossiping#i usually listen to pieces in isolation from the rest of the performance which does take the song out of context in a way#i think i just really like music (especially when i cannot understand it due to the language)#i find that people who listen to songs not in any language they speak they will enjoy it in a COMPLETELY different way#when you start understanding the song though you have your own interpretation of it that is often seperate from a natuve speakers#and frankly i LOVE that i am obsessed with it and i think we all need to find songs we don't understand and just LIVE with them#anyway feel free to recommend non-english songs and/or expand with your own song that you would say is gender idk!!!!
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Transgirl with a voice kink in desperate need of gender affirmation 🤝 dom who sends audio clips telling her to play with herself like a good little girl, using her name and
#transfemme#trans lesbian#puppy's ramblethoughts#nsft#transfem#i wish for the day i find a girl that loves sending audio clips that are both hot AND gender affirming all in one
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HAPPY ANNIVERSARY to the day my brain was literally rewired and my gender was being changed by the second SO HERES A GAS STATION SPECIAL before this joint was even a gas station in the FIRST PLACE !!!!
FUCKING FREAK
#kommento#// theres a whole love letter in here dont open these tags it's a readmore equivalent#p4#⛽️🌫#moel gas station attendant#tohru adachi#boot.tingting#arttag#// sneak peak before the manager became a manager and only put the uniform on to see how well it would fit and hasnt taken it off since.#// im tearing up because i hate how it's been three years and also i cant find the other notebook so i went through gphotos instead#// also that i miss blorbo so much i miss my old self so much she was so sweet and genuine and the passion and love and everything#// STUPID SEQUENCE OF PHOTOS the way my brain was so fucking rearranged i had to get up and make memes and take screenshots and then#// draw then COME BACK AGAIN to watch the thing that changed my life forever. AGAIN#// sorry was having technical difficluties in yokohama im back istok im normal (affirmation )#// this is literally all me before i started thinking about myself and wondering about my gender then the dysphoria came rushing in like#// some freshwater spring about to make a waterfall and i had to let it settle and get used to the ecosystem with two more years#// took a month where p4gsteam was booted up and i made my own save at some point and finished it on july 8#// clasped my hands and had a honeymoon period over. mimi <3 then the day after rolled around and i watched the .chair car adventure#// literally my first p4 doodles were mimi and adachi theres no fucking denying it theyre the og. theyve been with me from the start#// theyre so important to me theyre so personal they made me who i am thats why im so mad with the community i have to share them with#// because theyre all so different from me and i took that personally#// IT'S KOKAY !! look at how far ive gone. this is the biggest archival effort ive ever done my entire life ive grown branches#// farther than ive done before ive put such a variety of skills to use just to make myself food and manage this damn station#// and keep some sort of love alive which was all from me and is still from ME !!!#// crying while writing these tags now sorry okyakusan i'll clean it up soon#// these doodles really explaining my mindset from the start and how the grindset has never really changed at all#// it was all friendship for three years and still will be i love adachi i love gas station attendant so much THERE I'M SAYING IT#// cherry on top friend just dm'd me to get an actual job at a gas station IM SHITTING MYSELF#// happy anniversary to my genderest best friend and the most problematic uncle ive ever had#// we're all holding hands and theyre treating me to topsicles because it's all i could ever shamelessly want
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How many things am I gonna try thinking "oh this will finally reveal to me whether I'm trans" before one of them actually *works*. I'm tired of this grandpa.
#vent tag: i never let them see the worst of me#'lily doesnt the fact that youre doing this mean youre trans' I DONT KNOWWWW THATS WHY IM UPSET#ive bought multiple different gender-affirming items thinking 'ill put this on and ill Know'#both times? nothing.#i mean i do like wearing chest binders now i guess. i like how i look in them.#but does that mean i want to completely eschew womanhood??? to be a man???#i dont know#but i want to. i want it to just click#instead of me playing around in the mirror and realizing im trying to find the posture that makes me look more masculine#instead of me increasingly preferring male terms being applied to me#instead of me tiptoeing my way into gender and waiting to be thrown out#instead of convincing myself over and over that im just tired or havent eaten or am about to start my period or just hate my body normally#instead of friends telling me 'hey i think u might just be trans' and that somehow still not feeling RIGHT#i dont want to be a guy i just want to have all the qualities of men that i find attractive or aspirational#i dont want to be a guy i just want to have the experiences guys have#i dont want to be a guy i just want to not be expected to be a woman#who am i? what am i? and how much longer can i bear to not be SURE?#god!!#(if you read these notes and reply 'egg moment' im egging your fucking house btw)
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