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zolu is maybe one of the easiest ships i've ever liked. they're dating, except when they're not, they're best friends even when they're kissing and they're still captain and first mate when they aren't. they hold hands, they hug. they have sex. they don't.
Luffy can hold Zoro's katanas and Zoro can hold Luffy's strawhat and no one bats an eye. one says "You're so cool!" and the other says "You're strong" and it's just another way to say "I see you, this is why I follow you/this is why I trust you". it's not seeing each other for a long time and still knowing how the other's steps sound like against wood and sand. the captain runs and the first mate follows. it's always "Zoro and the others" and "Where's Luffy?"
if they're just friends, if they're something more, if they don't have a label for it, at its core, it's just about how they get each other. they understand how the other's mind works. however you view them, it doesn't erase they fact that they love each other in a way they don't love other people.
#zolu#on why i love zolu#seeing the hate its gotten on its own tag#i figured i'd put it on my two cents#i am aroace and i do hc Luffy as aroace#the same for Zoro if i'm honest#but the thing about this hc is that not only it isn't canon#but is an actual spectrum#what really made me pause was that the argument was that zolu was an “icky” ship bc of how they viewed Luffy as aroace#i would have prefered they just said they hate the ship#it makes sense as i do too hate ships without reason sometimes#but it was how they seemed to view aromatic/asexual people that fucked me up#both orientations are spectrums#the way i see it and experience it isn't the same other people do#giving this label and then saying it only woks on one way is disrespectful to the many people that fall under this umbrella#it isn't as simple as saying “aromantic folks can't experience love” and “yeah ace folks all find sex disgusting”#everyone is different everyone has different views and it's about finding what fits *you* personally!#sorry for the rant on tags i just wanted to get it off my chest#i've seen more people explain it better and break it down more coherently#and i'm so so glad to see so many big brained people ready to communicate on why that take just wasn't it#one piece
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you don't need morals, you need someone like you who can understand
#kingdom hearts#namine#vanitas#vaninami#?#there is no context for this drawing. its simply just an image#Veeeeeery loosely based off some concepts for an RP server (friend group) (same friend group as the sonic roleplays a year ago LOOOL)#... me and my boyfriend both roleplay some characters including these two#a reformed vanitas is so important to me but the scars are never going to heal as long as he's himself#I don't think he needs people to forgive him and justify what he did under xehanort's abuse#I think hee just needs people to love him anyways even with what he's done#i think vanitas and namine are more similar than they come on. Just on opposite ends of the spectrum.#the forever damaged and angry abuse victim and the digestible helpless victim#i kind of want to draw more and elaborate my thoughts but honeestlyyy. another time LOL
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Don’t think I ever quite said what my LGBTQ+ headcanons are for the boys, so these are my current thoughts! Always changing of course but this is what I feel most strongly right now.
#rottmnt#rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles#rottmnt headcanons#rise donnie#rise leo#rise mikey#rise raph#donnie and leo’s sexualities being practically swapped was unintentional but it works way too well#same with mikey and raph tbh it was a happy accident#anyway I kinda hc raph as the type who doesn’t care about physical appearance just if you fight lol#Mikey’s more than happy with friends and family#Donnie is a BIG romantic but he needs time to sus a person out fully before he gets the hots for them#leo meanwhile isn’t keen on romance unless it’s with someone he grows to really really REALLY trust#I could go on and probably will later (knowing me) but it is late and I am tired haha#turtle art tag#curious as to what everyone else headcanons#the only one of these I’ll defend forever is Bi (female-leaning) donnie and trans leo#all the others can change over time but I really like where they’re sitting right now#I hope these are the right flags too because it was kinda hard to find them#went looking for transmasc flag in particular but I couldn’t find a solid agreed upon version 😭#ngl a big part of why I hc mikey as aro is because of a pun#my phone often misspells aromantic as aromatic and- and you get it- because aromatic herbs and- and Mikey is a chef do YOU GET IT#note that while I hc leo as bisexual (male-leaning) I still think he’s prob closer to demi in that as well just not as far into the spectrum#if that makes sense#headcanons are fun and hard to narrow down at the same time alas#I made this in like an hour can you tell djjdjd#I drew them all from memory so if there’s anything wrong…shhh#and if you’re wondering for April and Splinter#Both are Bisexual (female-leaning) but April is also Panromantic#I almost wanna make Splinter demiromantic too so Big Mama’s betrayal hits just a bit harder
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I saw this post on twitter and I alr had these basically drawn out so I knew I had to do it.
(Also I'm in love with the way they draw the strawhats I love their art sm)
#zosan#fem!sanji#fem!zosan#butch!zoro#one piece sanji#sanji#roronoa zoro#one piece#one piece zoro#Idc im tickled by the way I obsess so differently with these two#i actually believe in both looks for sanji as I am a genderqueer sanji truther#She can flawlessly accomplish any look on the gender spectrum and I will die on that hill#zoro could do the same but she doesn't rly are that much
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Canon lore about first generation IDW Transformers that lives rent free in my head:
Ratchet and Drift are around the same age Megatron and Rodimus are around the same age
#maccadam#IDW#Transformers IDW#Ratchet#IDW Ratchet#Drift#IDW Drift#Megatron#IDW Megatron#Rodimus#IDW Rodimus#ever since I learned that#Ratchet and Drift were the same age#and that Megatron and Rodimus are the same age#its been a brain worm ever since#its like both sets are different sides of a generation spectrum#Ratchet and Drift are on opposite sides of the boomer spectrum#surly grump and “enlightened” hippy#while Megatron and Rodimus are on opposite sides of the millennials spectrum#burnt out/jaded and trying to be of the youth (but secretly in need of therapy)
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if you don’t love jan in his adidas era you don’t deserve him in his mesh shirt era 💅
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Danny Ocean adding more complications to a heist to try and win his ex wife back because he misses her <3 and his sister Debbie Ocean adding complications to her heist to frame her ex because HE SUCKS are both great and valid
#they really are siblings#same energy but in opposite spectrums#who wouldn’t want to try and win back Julia Roberts#both their friends begged them not to do this because it could mess up the heist and they went no <3#oceans eight#oceans 8#heist movie#danny ocean#debbie ocean#mine#oceans eleven#oceans 11
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Sako: Okay, why don’t we all share something about ourselves? Tomura, you first.
Tomura: I regret a lot of things.
Dabi: I have more bags under my eyes than I do personal belongings.
Geten: I still don’t know whose skull I found.
Skeptic: I will one day erase my enemies with science.
Sako: Great bonding, everyone! We'll do this again tomorrow.
#incorrect lov#hell is realizing gojo and geten are both white haired pretty boys with power complexes and long eyelashes that have unprocessed trauma#and realizing i was obsessed with both of them#the way khoi dao called geten an ice princess and ive seen at least 2 fics calling gojo the same thing#and also geten's name being one letter off from getou#wait geten as stsg lovechild confirmed#megumi is on one end of the stsg lovechild spectrum and geten is on the other#sorry im stsgpilled#anyway#sako atsuhiro#shigaraki tomura#dabi#geten#bnha skeptic
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I LOVED YOUR GENERAL HEADCANNONS FOR PAVIA IT WAS SO IN DEPTH !! I WAS WONDERING IF YOU CAN PLZZZZ MAKE RELATIONSHIP HC FOR HIM IF HE EVER DECIDED TO GET IN ONE PLZZZ 😔🙏🏼🙏🏼
;R1999 PAVIA - Relationship Headcanons
Compilation of headcanons about Pavia in a romantic relationship.
sure thing! glad you liked the previous pavia posts <3
I already wrote like, a couple thousand words analyzing Pavia and romance, how he expresses his love and how he likes to receive affection, so apologies if I end up?? repeating myself?? I feel like I'm running out of general romance stuff to discuss when it comes to him LMFAO I did try to branch out a lil here
Pavia despises labels and refuses to "name" his relationship.
Yes, I just said I'd try to branch out and avoid repeating myself - but I feel like this point is important to put here as well, since it's pretty much Pavia's one and only "rule".
In a previous post, I talked about how the one thing that would make Pavia feel truly betrayed, even going as far as to cut you out of his life entirely, is something as simple as insisting on putting a name or label to your relationship with him.
Once become part of the pack and part of his life, you get free reign to do anything you want, your dynamic with him can be as complex or as simple as you make it out to be, and he'll follow you to hell and back - as long as you don't ever try to categorize the special bond you and Pavia share.
He's not your boyfriend, he's not your husband, he's not your fuck buddy. Nor your best friend, nor your soulmate, nor your coworker or neighbour. Don't expect him to live up to any of these titles.
He's just Pavia, and he's yours. The same way you're just yourself, and you're his. Period.
This all stems from Pavia's deep seated hatred for everything that's "proper" in society - he rejects everything they stand for, including these small boxes, these stupid names they have that could never even begin to describe the depths of his feelings and relationship with you. They can't apply to what you two have. Why even bother trying to get the world to understand by telling them he's "your boyfriend"? He's so much more than that, and you're so much more than just his "partner" - it's almost an insult to him.
As far as Pavia is concerned, the world consists of him and his partner and the pack. He's not someone who'd bother trying to justify, let alone explain, his existence and experiences to others. Why start now?
You're also shit out of luck if you think you can drag him to the altar, get him to propose or do whatever "proper" partners do. Instead, he prefers things that are unique to this relationship and that are privy only to the two of you. To find and create little traditions with you that feel just right, whatever they may be.
This also applies on reverse, too. There is never any pressure from Pavia for you to live up to some stupid, nonsensical and unspoken standard for couples - such as doing something special for anniversaries, holidays like Valentine's Day, remember his birthday or whatever else. You two get to decide which days are important, thank you very much! And if he wants something, he'll simply ask for it, it's as easy as that.
Being in a relationship with Pavia can be quite intense at times because of the way he's wired, but at the same time it's a breeze of fresh air because he quite literally frees you from all the extra baggage of typical relationships.
On the subject of Pavia and possessiveness.
Because of how territorial he is with his material possessions, people expect Pavia to be the exact same with you. I'd say it depends on the day?
Overall, Pavia is extremely confident, both in himself and in this relationship. You're the only person he sees as a true equal, so his trust in you is unwavering. And because of the unorthodox nature of this relationship, it's established pretty early on that he doesn't care what you do with other people - as long as it doesn't affect your dynamic with him, he really couldn't care less.
He's had his own share of flings and one-night stands prior to meeting you, all of them devoid of any meaning, importance or emotional weight. So he gets it, sometimes you wanna fuck around. Doesn't mean you care about him any less. If you allowed some small fry to get between the two of you, you wouldn't have lasted as his partner. Easy. And he trusts that you'll seek him out if you ever have any trouble dealing with suitors and whatnot. Pavia is always down to bury a body with you, it builds character!
If you ever see Pavia act possessive in public, trying to throw hands with anyone who looks at you and making a point of showing that you're both taken, it's because he knows you're into it. He knows you like the back of his hand, if you're into the scary dog privileges that come along with being with him, he'll know. Ohhh, he'll know and he'll be so obnoxious about it.
There's not a single person in this world that could ever make him feel threatened enough to do all of this on impulse. It's a little act, he loves to show off for you and do things with you in mind.
On the other hand, that could also just be Pavia being his casually affectionate self, not caring at all about his surroundings. If he feels like having you sit on his lap, he'll just pull you there. If he feels like sitting on your lap, he'll just do that.
Who cares who's watching? If people wanna take it as him being possessive, that's their issue. He just wants to be near you. If anyone has any problem, the complaint box is right there. They can die mad about it, seethe, etc.
The pack will start obeying and listening to you. They live in your shadow, as much as they live in Pavia's.
Because the wolves come from his arcane skills, they're attuned to Pavia. And because Pavia is so attuned to you and vice versa, the wolves will inevitably start treating you the same way they treat him.
I like to think this is the closest thing to Pavia "imprinting" on you, to draw more parallels to his animalistic side - no matter where you are, there's a part of him with you: the pack. They'll jump out should you feel in danger or lonely whenever he's not around, and also serve as a way for him to keep track of where you are, just in case. If he ever gets too injured to crawl home back to you, one of the wolves will drag you to his location instead, though this is extremely rare.
If you travel too far away from Pavia, this whole thing will stop working. And you'll know it because it'll feel like a part of you is suddenly gone - just a very small part, enough to make you feel suddenly weird, like you put on your shoes on the wrong feet in the morning.
I don't think anyone could ever reach the same level of connection Pavia has with the pack, that's a whole different can of worms. Yet another inexplicable dynamic. The furthest you could go is understanding how Pavia can tell them all apart, which is when they'll start to properly obey you.
Biting as a show of affection.
I did talk about this in a different post, but then I remembered this one post about how Pavia would get your bite marks tattooed and I started losing my mind over it again.
Instead of kisses, Pavia has the tendency to bite and nibble on you. Your shoulder, your neck, your ears, your nose... Anything he can get his teeth on. If he's particularly playful, he just takes a big bite of your cheek or straight up licks your cheek to piss you off.
I like to think Pavia is the type of person who leads with his mouth first and foremost - he's loud when he speaks, he's all bark and all bite, he has no problem baring his teeth at the world, he points at things with his lips, sticks his tongue out when focusing on something, he chews on lollypop sticks until they end up soggy and fucked up, he gets so riled up when you kiss him and your tongue brushes or traces his teeth.
And he can't get enough of having you fill his thoughts, heart and mouth. The guy has so much aggressive affection for you, it's almost unbearable. If he could, he would eat you up on the spot. You're his personal chew toy, his silly rabbit, the one person that drives him up the wall.
Sometimes, he gets distracted and goes too far, it's pretty easy for his sharp canines to draw blood - he'll apologize and make up for it by lapping it up and kissing you better all over. And by reminding you that you're free to bite him as hard as you can, anytime you want, as payback! Though you suspect it's more of a reward than a punishment for him.
If you give him the chance, Pavia would love to get your bite marks tattooed anywhere you want - pick a spot and start biting, don't be shy! Any scars you leave on his body for whatever reason, he'd love to make them permanent and visible.
#reverse 1999#reverse: 1999#re1999#reverse 1999 x reader#r1999 headcanons#reverse 1999 pavia#headcanons#see this is awesome bc this just became a pavia and FMN blog#and theyre both on exact opposite sides of every single spectrum ever#so i get to write abt my two awful boyfriends and never feel like im writing the same things
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Wolfwood and Vash are just. so girl failures. They’re soggy. They’re the kind of toxic only lesbians could manage. anyone who thinks either of them are suave, cool, and sexy are lying to themselves
#how do they manage to be toxic yuri and yaoi at the same time#both sides of the spectrum#toxic yuri#and#toxic yaoi#(both sides of the spectrum apply to autism too)#Vash is hyper emotional#Wolfwood is hypo emotional#im gonna put them in a particle accelerator and see what happens#trigun#trimax#trigun stampede#vash the stampede#trigun maximum#nicholas d. wolfwood#vashwood#vash
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I redesigned shock
Also he know has electricity powers. Nothing too special, basically he can manipulate electricity but he has to be near something that runs on it. So if he’s near a light he can use it but he can’t use it in the forest.
I didn’t change too much. Mainly just the shoes and quills. He still has Sonics speed although he’s a little slower due to his age. He’s also 10 now (violets 12) he’s still a brat but less so than when he was a younger. Everything else is the same. Just think of this as a grown up versions with powers lol.
I’ll make a violet redesign next :)
#sonic the hedgehog#shadow the hedgehog#sonadow#sonadow fankid#they aren’t the worst parents but they aren’t the best lol#mainly just really shit at teaching their kids to express their emotions#especially since both shadow and violet are autistic (though on the same part of the spectrum as me bc I don’t wanna misrepresent lol)#and sonic has adhd (just like me frfr)#that doesn’t necessarily make them bad parents it just means there’s more challenges to overcome and they aren’t the greatest at doing that#still workshopping what that would look like by putting myself in that position lol#sth#my art#sth fanart
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oh and while im thinking abt them. i do think mai is a lot more like azula than anyone generally points out
#they're opposite ends of the spectrum but of the exact same life#situation wise. i mean#not. yknow. in reality#similiar mother issues similiar abandonment issues. brother issues. fear of being forgotten/alone#i like to think they see themselves in each other a lot and that very thought makes them both want kill each other#anyway that one art of azula having a breakdown while on top of mai. yea. yea#i could talk for hours about them honestly. their relationship is concerning. for feminism perhaps. but#anyway
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"adhd x autism!!" NO, i want autistic girlfriend x autistic boyfriend RIGHT NOW
i want a french autistic man x his canadian autistic girlfriend and they fell in love because they both had on garfield shirts when they first met
but the boy loves garfield to draw in the funkiest fun colorful outfits ever and the girl loves garfield because of the comics from idk when garfield was made HELP
#i love adhd x autism dynamics btw#thwyre so fun to look at#but i yearn for the most unhinged autistic couples#who are on conplete opposite sides of the spectrum but r both equally crazy#and madly inlove#bonus points if one of them is in the queer community#honestly i love all dynamics#almost all#you give me polar opposite dynamics i will eat those up#you give me “theyre the same and thats why theyre in love”#consider it eaten#i love haha funny romancr#serious romance will always have a place in my heart#but you give me fun loving silly “just havin fun” romance#i will give you my life
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Its so funny that Makoto gets such an awful rep (usually bc of her treatment of Futaba), but going through the game again, Makoto is the one who leads the conversation into getting her to open up for the palace door. She immediately offers up the idea of just being honest with Futaba; no lies or soft words, just straight facts in a calm voice. She knew Futaba wanted the change of heart, badly enough that shed listen without having to be convinced by force. And when Futaba panics about having to open up, Makoto makes sure she has no chance of backing out (‘give me time to open the door’ ‘ten seconds’ ‘WHAT???!’). Its for her own good!!
I think it can come across as mean and overbearing and even insensitive, especially if you are someone who is sees themself IN Futaba, but Makoto is both incredibly caring, sisterly, and understanding during the entirety of her arc. Like most characters, fandom seems to completely warp and exaggerate very specific moments and traits and sum up entire personalities bc of it. Ryuji and him being stupid; Ann and her being loud and mean; Yusuke being dumb as shit and singleminded for NO discernible reason, etc etc. People took the snooping and her one vaguely insensitive comment (about futaba and her whole Thing) and decided that she was a cunt and a bitch that couldnt be reasoned with.
Its so bizarre. Im aware that every piece of media w vaguely assertive girls has this issue (Sakura, Katara, Aqua, etc etc) but its still crazy that this is prevalent. Shes like the direct mirror of Goro and he does not get this specific kind of hate (usually its ‘he backstabbed and blackmailed us so i hate him’). Sorry. I need to be a Makoto Apologist to protect her from the rest of the world. My girl did nothing wrong shes just weird. She thought she could fight a mafia boss and she was RIGHT! She WON!!!!
#chattin#makoto girl i love yuuuuuuu#makoto doesnt really treat as a younger sister#but she is protective of futaba and i think thats a little sweet. no one else really gets that attention#and she tries to be understanding w some futabas quirks but it confuses and frustrates her#its like two autistic teens on opposite ends of the spectrum trying to interact#‘girl who follows social rules bc her sister and adults told her to’#and#‘girl who follows NONE of those social rules bc shes an outcast and never learned them’#u know makoto has scripts for sooo many things#and she talks extra slow when shes trying to think of something new on the spot for a difficult interaction 😭#BOTH of them have not been socialized in the best way#and are now dealing w having people who care about them and their thoughts and feelings#and theyre BOTH opening up and getting to be more expressive#they do not hate each other they are FRIENDS !!!! SISTERS EVEN…MAYBE!!#AND ANOTHER THING#no way we are calling her a cop when the game was made by ATLUS. certified Boot Lickers 😭😭😭😭😭#same company that made a cop character that said ‘i cant stand the injustice of the police and i hate perpetuating it’#and then made the cop stay a cop. like what.
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kind of don’t want to put this in the tag but also. kind of wanna say acespec folks can kiss! and even experience attraction! and still be on the ace spectrum ✌🏻
#sorry but the fact that crowley kissed him full of all the passion in the universe doesn’t in any way take away their capacity to be aspec#aces who aren’t sex repulsed exist#aces who enjoy physicality exist#this angel and demon can fuck nasty and still be ace#and like. idk. i’m just seeing this weird dichotomy where like if they’re still ace they have to be entirely sexless and that’s just. like#not true to life?#and on top of all that. maybe i’m just a weird flavor of ace but i’m at this point in life where. what physicality MEANS is most important#the spectrum of experience is broad and varied#no two people wear the same identity the same way#because. they can be as ace as you want. i repeat they can be as ace as you want#let’s not erase aceness from the narrative just because they both desperately wanted to kiss each other is all i’m saying#they can be gray-a all day
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donna "it was never that far from the surface mate" noble not having a worry in the world leaving 14 and yaz alone in the living room at night to finish their movie while she goes to bed entirely unaware of the tragic lesbian romance of the century that those two concluded about an hour before donna re-met the doctor
#rose having pried into the situation and gotten like a hundred 'it's Complicated's from yaz looking at them like..................#donna meanwhile 'that boy is gay and that girl is a lesbian it's just two homos being homos you know'#rose 'i dont think those are the words you want to use mum'#'what is it offensive?'#'well yeah but thats not what i meant'#in the end donna is right of course she neednt worry#in the end rose is ALSO right of course theres gay drama going down 100%#i just think it's interesting that like. youve got all these different interpretations of the doctor right?#theyre like this whole spectrum of things. theyre the light and every colour is a different doctor but they all exist next to each other#simultaneously#and in this specific setup the way that donna is both right and not#and the way that 14 exists and 13 exists and theyre not the same person but also they are#its very holding two things at once#wait does donna know abt yaz bc of the metacrisis thing? i dont really understand the memory sharing#however if she 'cant remember' bc it's like 'looking into a furnace' im just gonna take that at face value bc it fits my purposes better
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