#blameher

[n1ghtwarden]

" in menzoberranzan, we would leave the bodies of thieves hanging out for weeks as a warning; visible from the lower sections of the city to the high peaks of qu'ellarz'orl. i would enjoy seeing you try to do the same to me, astarion. " the night warden snorts - squinting into the fogged glass in the weak light; still strong enough that it pains her, but not so bright as to obscure her vision entirely. her hair, paler than the dawn sky, streams down her back - well cared for even now; hands raking a comb through the strands, hairpins perched precariously in her lap. it is a vulnerable position; one she did not anticipate @thepalelfe finding her in. " you have no use for it. it is not as if you can see your appearance - i am merely making sure that it does not go to waste here. "

from here.

[only-one-brain-cell]

“You know your really very attractive” IS MY HEADCANNON ABOUT TO BE CANON? Oh no Ethan is hitting on their server.

[todomemolesta18]

I'm the only one who think katara bismuth and hama these character are allowed to be angry at their oppressor or what they went through i don't blame them infact i supported their plan to take revenge

Okay, they were right to do it, honestly. But Hama was attacking innocent people. Katara did have the right, she confronted the one who killed her mom.

And Bismuth, if I remember right, she did want to destroy the Diamonds, which I dont blameher for, but I think she also wanted to destroy the other gems, the ones who work for Pink Diamon. But I may be wrong.

[mattattridge-smith]

We all know who’s to blame for the current situation 🐅 👑 #carolefuckingbaskin #tigerking #carolebaskin #blameher #blamegame #monthlyteeclub @monthlyteeclub (at Manchester, United Kingdom) https://www.instagram.com/p/CAcWpPqlGlC/?igshid=nfyzkblxg4p1

[kiradical]

My mom is really good at dad jokes. #dadjokes #butreallymomjokes #thisiswhyiamthewayiam #blameher

[mountains-moving-91]

It's Not Always Rainbows and Fireflies

Remember how I told you all about my best friend? The bird box girl/boy version that has tats all over his face? And remember how I told you that when we are together, I sit back and watch the way others look down on him? Well, it seems like it doesn’t bother him…and idk, maybe it doesn’t…or maybe he just hides it deep within….OR MAYBE he has just experienced the dirty looks and mistreated fronts for so long that he came to accept others for WHO THEY ARE. Look I’ve been in his shoes. And because of my past - I still live in his shoes - just not as much, and in different ways. Personally speaking, it still really bugs me when I experience it and I am working towards not letting it bother me…but it still does -> BECAUSE HOW FUCKING RUDE? And we all wonder why society is falling apart... - or maybe it’s just me and I really am Sneaker Ella > gone Wonder Woman > living on a planet that is slowly burning to the fucking ground...

Anyways, Ima back it up here because I have shit to share - at least for those in the back that are trying to deceive your degrading fucking eyes. Take a trip to my past with me - to my very, very, bad days - you know the ones where I was shooting up heroin in da hood…slowly going from the walking-junkie to the walking-dead-junkie. Oh and if you haven’t ever over-dosed on opiates via junkie-lifestyle, you may not get that expression. Basically, there is a fine_and_very_thin line between being a junkie and being dead. And right before the dead part, there is an even thinner line of time, where you know you are close as fuck to dying, and you even look dead, but you are very much kicking and breathing. Slow it down now...

Using drugs typically starts off as fun & games…and it is fun until you realize that you are playing Russian Roulette with the Devil and you accidentally end up getting addicted. From there, it continues to be a choice, BUT (big but, literally) once you are addicted, the game changes. The fun is gone, the devil is 10 hands up, and you are 10 ft underwater, barley breathing through an empty straw. And sweet babes, from there - the choices you start making, start coming with higher-paying consequences - and you technically don’t even realize it at the exact moment you probably should/or/need to…and that’s because you on another fucking level, in a not-so-hot way. 

Branch out and mind-map this with me. We goin different ways now. Once you hit the point of using needles as a way to main-line drugs straight into your veins, basically like you're some sort of fucking doctor, the aftermath you have been causing starts to turn into different levels of ROCK-BOTTOM…and that little da-weeb devil is just sitting back and watching to see which bottom will be the rock that takes your ass out. See, eventually, good people will stop putting up with the bad people, aka the ones that choose to do bad things to good people, and your life-float will being to sink. 

Here is something that some of those people in the back don’t know…the road you are currently on can always get darker. And there is always a chance that you can become something or someone that you are currently judging. What I mean, is that back before I was living as a homeless junkie, with a bunch of other homeless junkies, in a house without food or fucking hot water, I never thought that was a possible bottom for me. I was seriously a frequent flyer at the closest rehab and somehow I honestly still didn’t think I would_or_could ever end up there. Whatever is more than impossible, that is what it was. It couldn’t and wouldn’t happen to me. You all know the sayings we all use too fucking often…well jokes on your fucking ass because It always can…and if it does, you should feel much lower than your new “friends”.

Here’s the deal-li-o - while people sit there and judge - aka sit there with those sideways lookin faces - other people are getting hurt. FEELINGS GET PASSED ON FROM OTHER PEOPLE'S THOUGHTS AND/OR LOOKS. And yes, some people have the super-human ability to let that shit slide, but most people are just putting on a front for the time being. 

End game - for this post at least - is kinda a plot twist in itself. Sometimes, in order to feel something for others, you have to have gone through it yourself. And if you haven’t, maybe you aren’t needed on scene. And if you find yourself sitting in the back with your head down - maybe this ain’t your rodeo. All you do is pass hate when you judge. And if you haven’t lived it, you don’t deserve a seat, cause you falling short yourself. Stand back and let the good ones out to play. Because if we bring enough of the right-kind-of-good-teams together, the bad doesn’t stand a chance. 

Kind Hearts win. Every. Damn. Day.  

[jeonqquk]

BITCH IDFK SHIT-

ILL BUNK IDK-

WELL ASK FOR REV AGAIN

LIKE MUGHALS

Yo did u start ✨s t u d y i n g✨ and also- do we have a sst test tom? Mehek keeps asking me that and now I'm not sure h a

studying? never heard of it

whAT SST TEST-

[firebirdsdaughter]

So…

… Someone pointed out… Aruto should have Feelings about HumaGear made to be dads. I don’t think they put much of a reaction when him learned this fact about Horobi in the ep itself, but I’m more inclined to blamehe that on it being a recap ep than anything else… I would hope to see some sort of reaction to that from him in the future, though.

[tiffa-dylan]

#mood #blameitonme #blameher #whennothinggoesright #sameshitdifferentday #pourmeadrink #hanginginthere #itcantrainallthetime #itsgoingtobeokay #dyinginside

[fema1etroub1e]

This Gorgeous creature birthed me. From watching her with her beautiful heart I learned how to treat ppl. Not at all saying I succeed many times, but I was blessed to have access to such a beautiful heart and mind from the start to watch and learn from. I love my Momma. You are appreciated 💐❤🤗👼💃 #blameher #shemademe #DearMama

[dodadamdang18]

Daamm shame some y'all wear horse all year. All year, all fuckin year, no breaks... Stables hurting. In other petty news told my BM since I ont gotta deal with u directly, stress down hair grows back. And u see grass ain't greener, dat imma capicorn only way I'm coming back is in a Delorean to fuck up the events that lead me to meeting you. #PettyLife #SheMadeItBadForYall #BlameHer #AimingLow #KickHerInDaCooch #SwirveOnYaPassenger #DiamondsOutAfica #MissMbJp

[thepunkykitten-blog]

Mila declared a cheat day and forced me to hold it so she won’t get blamed. #blameher

[archer3-13]

I mean, yeah that is definitely funny but the oghma mountains doesnt just refer to the location of garreg mach/the red canyon it refers to the entire mountain range separating fodlan into 3 main chunks. So hes likely not referencing how the red canyon looks when the 'sun rises', rather hes referencing how the mountain range itself looks when the sun rises.

but then, i'll note that im a lot more leniant on nemesis in general, I feel he tends to be an easy punching bag/blamehate sink/ironic reference to edelgards own actions that he loses any actual narrative identity of his own [made worse by the flippant and underdeveloped nature in which zombie nemesis is handled]. But then I say this because i feel theres a lot of interesting potential there in general, the songs lyrics for instance if we take it in a literal sense of these concepts being nemesis's actual motivations then you can extrapolate that hes not all edelgard but actually has a hefty portion of dimitri in him as well.

hes got edelgards self grandiose for instance proclaiming himself to be a liberator, but he also has dimitris hangups over the burdens of the dead and taking up their regrets. edelgards power is everything mindset, dimitris sentimentality for the people and world around him. hes an 'edelgard dimitri hybrid' as it were, atleast as the lyrics of god shattering star seem to illustrate, and i find that very interesting as an undeveloped concept.

We should feel no obligation to respect traditions purely for their age. Especially if those traditions are wicked.

Old traditions :

I swear that upon this throne, I shall use my reign to lead Fódlan to a new dawn and achieve peace for all.

—

I tried to type a reply to a post about Edel cutting her path with Dimitri’s knife but then I forgot and it became old and all, but -

Edel’s story is in part the story of someone who doesn’t want the responsibilities vested upon her shoulders because she is a member of House Hresvelg.

The path that was supposed to be hers is the one depicted in this “old tradition” tidbit from the coronation scene - save maybe for the fodlan part but instead with adrestia - “lead adrestia to a new dawn” and ensure the well-being of its people.

And then, Uncle presents her with a new path, the Agarthan one “Destroy lizards, start a continental war and kill Rhea/Seiros”.

In all routes but CF, Edel, even with her knife, follows the path Thales created for her. Yes, she might huff and puff about this or that, but she follows their orders and help them reach their goal.

In CF…

Ah… All is in accordance with this carefully crafted script of ours…

Wait, kill the 4Kids version

そう……それが…… あんたの書いた、筋書きってわけ……

Despite the lolcalisation’s best efforts, Cornelia isn’t saying “just as planned”, but actually congratulating Edel on her move, saying, more or less, how she just backstabbed them - them being Uncle and pals.

So in CF, Edel effectively severs her bond with Agartha and creates her own path… or so we are supposed to think.

Even if she eventually (I mean Hubert) destroys Shambala in the post game credits, Uncle’s path was followed to its end - Fodlan is bereft of its Goddess and her Children. The Agarthans are not above sacrificing themselves to reach their goal - so even if they die, as long as their goal is fulfilled, they won.

Rhea dies in CF. For plot mandated reasons, it means Sothis, as the Goddess, leaves Fodlan (or at least her powers, because she still marry her UI).

Ultimately, even in her own route, Edel cannot create her own path.

Why ? 

Is it because Edel is convinced she is following her own path, unaware that she is dancing on Uncle’s strings?

Or because the point has never been about “severing” or “creating a new” path - but what she, as someone in her position, has to do, or worse, wants to do?

Or is it a nod to the cyclic path of ignorance - by refusing to learn about Fodlan, and about herself, choosing instead to remain ignorant - Edel cannot break the road or wheel Uncle created for her.

Even for its Lord, CF is a “bad” ending.

[throughtheeyesofms]

#BlameHer #Framily #StuddedKiss

[mountains-moving-91]

Pay It Backwards

We’ve all heard the saying - Pay it forward. We all understand what that saying means, even though I personally feel less and less of it happens every single day. And maybe that’s the problem - as a whole. Rhetorical pop quiz…and go! 

1. What happened to paying it forward?  2. Why is there more evil than good these days?Answers - Z) Maybe we should start paying it backwards first…and then forward. 

New sayings need new definitions so lets do that together... 

I am a giver, by default. It literally makes me happy to see other people happy. And giving tends to do that - basically it's a bittersweet kind of asset because I end up forgetting to make myself happy. Look - our world obviously needs to be flipped upside down right quick and shaken like the globe it is, so they can rearrange our marbles just a tad. We have too many bad people doing gruesome things to other humans and too many GOOD KIND PEOPLE sitting on separate teams. Why? Personally, I think it’s judgement. I think we are paying for things in the wrong way and they are coming out with bad choices.  

Alright…break it down. What happens when we start judging others? And how do you think it feels to the person who can see the judgement written all over your face? I used to get bothered by the judgement passed to me by others…JUST KIDDING - I still totally do…just not as much. See, it wasn’t that long ago that I GAVE others the power to control MY LIFE strictly by their thoughts of me…SAY WHAT?! I know. Don’t get me started. But it’s true. And after my recent quarter-life-crisis, I seriously almost want to put my house up for sale just because I feel my neighbors saw too much of who I am at my weakest moments. But isn’t that what they are for? Isn’t HOME where YOUR HEART should be worn on your sleeve? 

Last month - I made 1…just ONE, goal. And it was to make myself feel better by getting all dolled up…every single fucking day. It was fun for awhile…and putting on my fake face made it easier to hide my other fake face…but how fucking exhausting. Side note - I am not a makeup and bows type of chick. I am more the tom-boy who doesn’t wear much make up, if any,  and sweats/pony-tales are more my thing. I literally dressed myself up in makeup and cute clothes, walking around smiling like I was Sneaker Ella, the Disney princess. In reality I was/am still in DON’T FUCKING CRASH & BURN mode, and those that saw me in public (and didn’t know my story) would have never guessed that I was hurting so badly inside.

That’s my point though. To really all of this. If the judgement would just stop, some of the hate would follow with it. We teach kids to be afraid of strangers, not situations. We teach kids to be scared of a “crazy” person that is suffering with mental illness. And then we instill all of these actions/behaviors into our children by modeling the behavior ourselves. And then kids grow up and go on thinking that it's just how the world turns. Oh - and here comes hate following the fear and then all of a sudden kids are killing kids, kids are killing themselves, and the aftermath is spreading like wild-fire, from all angles.

It’s almost like in order to change the future, we have to change the past. And because that is literally impossible, we have to change the way we live. And to do that, we have to individually change the way we think. By changing the way you think, you allow others to see you changing - and when others see you changing, it gives them the opportunity to rise up as well. Sometimes, people can’t see the good in the world. And we shouldn’t be judging that or thinking less than. We should realize that some people are smile-breaking and some people are down right breaking for the world to witness. We should intend to pass along kindness - not things. We should intend to be humble and imagine others might be experiencing battles that one cannot actually see on the outside. If someone is sad, maybe they have a solid reason. And if they are mad - maybe you should give them a fucking minute to calm their own body down. Feelings are normal. People have psychotic breaks. People go through things that some cannot even pronounce. Medications are available and prescribed by licensed doctors to help make things more manageable. Resources are out there, and with technology these days, they are available at your fingertips.

It starts with you. And if you aren’t willing to start over, to change yourself first, those that follow your path won’t stand a chance. Don’t be one of those people that hurt the already hurting. Be there for all, even the ones that “look” like you think they aren’t worth it. They are, because we all are. Even the crazy. Because who isn’t a little fucking crazy? And be honest with yourself…no matter how well you have mastered the “I’m Perfect” Karen look-n-like mentality.  

[socialsurgery-blog]

#TBT to mi madre when she was my age ♥ #ShewasShoppin #Igetitfrommymomma #blameher #checkbonesfordays