#bitter sam girl

[buncoreclown]

I try not to be angry about people's spn opinions but god I just saw a post saying that Sam doesn't understand Dean and the person that understands him the most is Cas and I'm just like... Did we watch the same show? I mean they also said that s1-2 Sam was way too whiny so opinion discarded completely

[writinginthesecrettrees]

Something that kinda pisses me off is how the writers reframed the trauma of Mystery Spot to be Dean's, when he doesn't even have any memory of it.

From Changing Channels:

Dean: Good. I've wanted to gank that mother since Mystery Spot. Sam: You sure? Dean: Yeah I'm sure. Sam: No, I mean are you sure you wanna kill him? Dean: Son of a bitch didn't think twice about icing me a thousand times.

And like. People just went with it.

Mystery Spot changed Sam on a fairly fundamental level. Like. He was always unhinged about Dean and Dean's deal, but watching Dean die? Over and over, so many times he lost count, and knowing that no matter what he did he was failing to save Dean. And the last death, when he lost Dean for six months.

I really think that is what pushed Sam from "I don't care if someone else dies so Dean can live" to "I will personally rip the heart out of anyone if it gives me the slightest chance of saving Dean."

And then Changing Channels comes along, and Sam's the one thinking "hey, maybe the Trickster (because remember, they didn't know Trickster=Gabriel) could help prevent the Apocalypse" and Dean is the one with a vendetta? Over something he doesn't even remember?

My GOD this show loves to erase Sam's trauma.

[peanutbutterandbananasandwichs]

Sam girls will be like: "oh my poor Sam I just want to wrap him up in a blanket and give him a hug" whilst literally writing fic/headcanons darker and more distressing than anything the spn writers could ever even dare to image.

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[fakemonalisa28]

Y’all don’t deserve Sam smh

[samwinchesterfaith]

Sometimes I instinctively try to add Sam Winchester to my posts talking about Hated Female Characters, forgetting he's a man, because that's just how the fandom has always treated him

[arguablyaccurate]

watching s5 e1 and one thing that gets me is that not one person has said it wasn’t all Sam’s fault. like. Demon Bobby said "lose my number" and Dean just stood off to the side like 👁️👁️. And then Dean’s speech at the end???? Excuse me???? This boy broke a seal, too, mind you, but no. And they BOTH wanted Lilith dead. I cannot with this.

[ziggykatzfan]

i can't spend too long on tumblr because i become irritated and vengeful. dean girls will say something about their blorbo that isn't true and describes sam instead and i will literally begin clawing at my walls trying to bite somebody through the bars of their ip address

[lukesfrag]

Seriously, I can't understand how there are people who can like Lucifer (or any other villain) and think he's a sweet person while thinking that Sam is the source of all evil on earth.

Seriously, if you're like this I wish you all kinds of h4rm, fuck you 🖕🖕🖕🖕

[thebrightmillenial]

No I don't hate Dean. But ffs obsessive Dean Stans, stop making everything about Dean. Dean's pain deserves to be talked about sure, but what about Sam's. Poor guy went through so much shit as well and people blame Sam for it. So like, kindly fuck off <33

To the healthy Dean stans - ily <33 / gen

[caranfindel]

Haters: buT SaM wAS SpoILeD aND coDDLed!!11!!

Me:

I was kind of a lonely kid, Dean.

[buncoreclown]

Please get me out of the clutches of Sam haters I BEG. Oh he was snarky in one scene and now because Dean feels bad it's all his fault. Forget all the times he called Sam a monster or punched him for no reason and just like... Neither of them are perfect Sam fucked up a lot but so much of the blame is put on Sam and that's why I'm such a fucking bitter Sam kindagirl like fuck I just wanted Sam edits ugh

(also can you tell I'm Supernatural spiraling? It's fun/s)

[writinginthesecrettrees]

Oh fuck that one moment in particular.

You know the one.

The one where Sam is talking to Charlie, and telling her about how he almost died to close Hell but Dean wasn't okay with that, and he um--

And Charlie fills in the blank with "he saved you."

And Sam just agrees. "Yeah. He saved me."

Except he didn't feel saved.

How could he explain to her, this girl who only sees the love and devotion of Dean that he was violated? Especially after she filled in the words for him.

Dean saved him.

Just like Dean saved the world from Lucifer.

He's just Sam, just the abomination, just the boy with the demon blood, just "bad luck with the ladies" Sam (don't think about jess on the ceiling madison turning to a wolf ruby and sarah and amy and amelia don't think don't thinkdontdontdont) and Dean's ungrateful brat of a brother.

Charlie says "He saved you" with a voice full of worship and aren't you grateful eyes.

Sam agrees "yeah. he saved me," and he means damnation.

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[caranfindel]

I love Bobby because he’s a surly, competent asshole. But the fact that Sam accepts him as a father figure just shows how low the bar is. “At least he never told my brother he might have to kill me!”

I just remembered a post I saw sometime ago about how john gets more hate from the fandom for things he supposedly did to dean (that have no real basis in canon) than for things he canonically did to sam and yeah, I agree 100%, but it also made me think about something else: the way the fandom views bobby

the majority of the fandom glorifies bobby as this Perfect Parental Figure, who’s so much better than john and deserves the boys much more than john and would punch john for the way he treated the boys. even tho…

- in 4x20 and 4x21, he helps dean trick sam and force him into an awful torture-detox, acknowledges that they were killing him and yet does nothing to actively stop it and when sam was escaping, he even tries to take him back inside

- in 5x20, he tells sam that he’s not strong enough to beat lucifer and that he can’t control himself (where tf did that even come from. literally in that exact same episode, he stopped himself from killing his almost-fiancée’s murderer, but sure, he can’t control himself)

- in 5x21, he says to dean that sam is full of character defects and has a ~~darkness~~ in him or whatever (like WHERE is this darkness he’s supposed to have???)

- again in 5x21, he suddenly decides than sam can beat the devil and says that to dean. why on earth couldn’t he say that to sam (preferably leaving out the character defects and darkness bullshit) who spent two seasons getting beaten down by everyone and their mom and probably needed a little appreciation and encouragement???

- in 6x06, he tells dean that he’s his favourite

- in 7x02, sam tell him and dean that he’s full-on hallucinating lucifer, that he can’t tell what’s real and what’s not and that he thinks he’s still in the cage and bobby basically goes “yikes! anyway I’m done with shit lol I’m going back to work” and then proceeds to ask dean how dean is dealing with sam’s trauma like wtf

- in 8x19, sam rescues his ungrateful ass from hell and he thanks him by berating him for following his agreement with dean (an agreement he taught them) and not looking for him when he was in purgatory and settling down, even tho that’s exactly what he wanted for dean in 6x01

- this isn’t something he did to sam per se, but I think it says a lot about how he views him: in 5x21, he acts all ~~surprised~~ when he sees sam rushing in and out of the warehouse saving people, as if it’s something new for sam and not something he does literally everyday. as if just one season ago, sam’s primary motivation for drinking demon blood wasn’t to SAVE PEOPLE by exorcising demons without harming the host AND by trying to stop the apocalypse

I’m sure there’s more but these are the first things that come to mind (side note: I’ve seen people say that bobby’s bias against sam is understandable because soulless!sam tried to kill him, but that doesn’t really hold since only two of the things I’ve mentioned happened after 6x11)

in conclusion, bobby is fucking awful to sam and barely tolerates him and yet… since none of these actions are directed towards dean, then who care! he’s the best dad the boys could’ve asked for!!!!!!!!! even tho I’m willing to bet that if he did to dean any of the shit he did to sam, he’d be hated by the entire fandom

my point is: john getting more hate for invented things he supposedly did to dean than for things he canonically did to sam and bobby being glorified despite being awful to sam and despite his blatant favouritism towards dean are two sides of the same coin

[fakemonalisa28]

Some of you guys need to take a quiz before you can speak about Sam Winchester