Something something Jason feeling like he doesn't quite fit as "Greek" or "Roman" as a metaphor for bisexuality, particularly the semi-canonical bi-coding in his half of experiences during the Cupid scene and how Favonius and Cupid speak to him in parallel to the scenes confirming Nico is gay.
Something something the camps as metaphors for traditionally acceptable forms of relationships and Nico living as a rogue outside of them, rejecting expectation (ergo in himself representing a metaphor of queer identity and living outside of boxes and defined/usually hetero-allonormative/binary ideas of what love/relationships should look like) versus Jason struggling with the expectation to conform to a label and even discussing with Nico both of them remaining at CHB together.
Something something the inverse of Jason shifting away from the camps after he breaks up with Piper, feeling lost and unable to find a place between the camps as he begins to explore his queer identity properly for the first time versus Nico only remaining at CHB because he has entered a relationship. In this essay I will-
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"we cant have bi women calling themselves lesbians, thatll just make predatory men think they can get with lesbians!"
predatory men* already think that regardless of any information out there and have for a very long time. because theyre predatory and dont care about boundaries.
predatory men are also assuming they can get with women who identify as bi or both bi and lesbian. those women will still have the same assumptions thrown at them when they tell predatory guys theyre lesbians. just because they like some men** doesnt mean they like all, they are not any safer than you.
why are you blaming it on bi people and not the predators? you realize youre outright saying associating with bi people is putting you in more danger? dont you realize how fucked up that is?
bi people always have and always will call themselves lesbians. lesbian has always included them, and it was the common perception that lesbian included both mono- and bisexual people until lesbian separatists (aka radfems) used this exact rhetoric to make it seem like bisexual people are a danger to "real TRUE" lesbians for daring to associate with men. they labeled (and continue to label) bi people as traitors that cant be trusted.
tldr; you are being biphobic as hell, spreading radfem rhetoric, and you can kiss my fat bi lesbian ass.
*obviously by "predatory men" i mean men who are predators. im not saying all men are predatory because thats dumb bullshit.
**of course some people also use bi without being attracted to men, but for somewhat-brevitys sake im focusing just on the ones who are here.
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i still think it's funny that one of the only instances of late seasons dean sleeping with a woman is a situation in which he cannot remember it at all and, more importantly, he rides larry. likeeee. the writers knew what they were doing and they were doing it on purpose.
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for what it's worth, japanese stereotypes about masculinity are very different from western ones. in japan, being more masculine is equated with being attracted to masculinity. big buff hairy guys are more "gay" than the more "feminine" type. for example, "bara" manga (the type of BL with huge beefy dudes). that's why nekomaru is often interpreted as gay; he's the japanese equivalent of a walking talking gay stereotype. and his relationship with akane is sort of portrayed like "haha look at this guy who never demonstrates sexual attraction towards Big Boobie Lady." :3 thought you might find this interesting re: your post abt fuyuhiko
I do think that for Fuyuhiko specifically it's a bit more complex; he does, despite being Yakuza, embody a lot of Italian mafia elements, so I imagine his background might be rather multicultural. He's not bishie handsome enough to be a classic Japanese boy love interest, but he's too small and feminine to be a more European boy darling.
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at themlemever wanted someone to draw sammy w this shirt so here he is
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heres my Bisexual Ethan Headcanon of the Whatever:
Hopkins Guy actually was a man in both routes, Ethan just tells a f!mc that he was a woman bc hes had some experience with women hes dated- even bisexual women- be weird about his bisexuality and claim its a red flag
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