#being trans sucks

[chrissy-kaos]

"Having to get up every morning and go live a life that you no longer want to live, that is hell." Ivan Sotelo.

[oxymoronicdumbass]

I was stealth at my school, but i just got outed!!! i love life!!! i love living!!! living is a fun thing that i definitely want to do!!!

[pimeboi]

I wish I was cool but unfortunately I am a closeted transmasc so I am only allowed to suffer

[kairithemang0]

call me as many slurs as you want and it’ll barely phase me but if you call me penis lacker (derogatory) I will beat the shit out of you and then cry for hours

[eldrai]

PMDD + me being out of my medication until the 4th + the general election on the 4th + transphobia front and centre in the news constantly

Not looking forwards to the inevitable depression spiral :))))

[ghostickle]

I haven’t done my t shot in two weeks now cause last time I did it it bled so much and real dark and I already hate doing my shot but the effects of me skipping my shot is showing and this is hell

[drheartstealer]

I want Atsushi's hairstyle ;-;

[transmechanicus]

I know some people have unfathomable beef with the term but i really don’t see the issue with transmascs describing their specific experiences with societal mistreatment and persecution as “transandrophobia”, like i think it’s good to be able to discuss specific experiences and articulate the problems you’re facing actually.

[dosthoeyevsky]

in light of recent news, one of my favourite tiktokers is here to slap some sense into every american with progressive leanings and a pulse.

[chrissy-kaos]

“Le pire dans l'enfer, ce n'est pas les flammes, c'est le désespoir

Et je pense que c'est la partie de l'enfer

Qu'une personne en dépression goûte vraiment

Le désespoir, le terrible désespoir qui survient”

[pimeboi]

Do I want to be a transfem as an afab because I am nonbinary or do I want to be a transfem because I wish I could celebrate my own femininity like they do

[kairithemang0]

chat i transed too hard and now im sad

[calcium-supplement]

trans people are goddamn amazing and beautiful and i love you all, i hope you have a nice day and a good life full of respect and love and safety, you deserve it

transphobes, get the fuck away from my art and my family and my friends and my community. i hope for the sake of both yourself and the people you hurt, you privately figure your bullshit out and change and repent

everyone else, hi i love you. god. trans people kick so much ass. love you so much. take care. get some water, stretch, get something to eat, shower if you can, and i hope you sleep cozy tonight

[die-tenebris]

don't wanna derail the post I saw this discussion on- it was all in the notes anyway, so it certainly isn't op's problem. I'm gonna say this with so much love:

Calling somebody a 'theyfab' is not punching up. If someone's being transmisogynistic, say that, or call them a bigot. Naming the tangible harm done to you will always be the most effective thing to do.

The cis people who created that term made it with the explicit intent to mock and insult people's identities. No matter what you mean when you say it, this is its origin and to most people, its only meaning. It describes nothing about the discrimination you face.

People afab are marginalized, especially if they're queer. You cannot "punch up" on a fellow oppressed group. I understand the specific vitriol that they inflict on you hurts.

You don't need a word to call somebody, you need and deserve adequate justice for the tangible harm done to you; and my heart aches that nobody queer- especially trans women- ever seems to receive that.

I'm aware I can't make anybody do anything, so I'm not gonna try to tell you not to use that word. I just want to say it can't ever address, undo, or heal any harm done to you. It can only redirect it.

[scramratz]

NOW I HAVE THE OPPOSITE PROBLEM BINDERS TOO BIG AGGHHH

[themostdesperatehoney]

Hey y’all…… some fucking asshole reported me and got my blog terminated. Trying to get back all my moots but I have a shit memory. So if you remember desperatehoney pleaaaase follow that’s me. Feel free to spread the word about this blog:( I want y’all back

Sorry for the crime of being a horny trans person I guess. But I refuse to let this keep me down. You Cannot Kill Me In A Way That Matters.