#been thinking about this a lot

[selfshipping-haven]

Maybe you have a cold distant f/o, or maybe one who was traumatized, forced to be strong due to their circumstances for whatever reason. Now, imagine allowing them to be soft. Letting them show their emotions, treating them delicately, giving them some gentle affection, and just spoiling them. It takes them a while to get used to it, but they love it so much. They love that they can feel vulnerable and sensitive around you, and that it won't be punished. Sometimes they don't always want to be strong, and they feel safer around you for treating them so preciously.

[the-home-of-innovation]

Canon dsmp sweaterduo is so fucked up cause the whole time Schlatt is trying to banter and make jabs at someone he thinks he knows really well and has an extensive history with while Wilbur is wondering why this stranger looks at him with such yearning

[teatitty]

Lot of HalBarry potential in post-back to life Barry still being the age he was when he died but everyone else around him is almost a whole decade older and he's a man stuck out of time with no direction to follow. Explaining the return of The Flash is one thing, but trying to explain the return of regular working guy Barry Allen? Impossible.

So what do you do when you're still in your early 30's [closer to Wally's age than everyone else's and isn't that fucking bizarre to think?] and having a crisis with no direction to go and feeling utterly lost and disconnected? Why you let your closest bestest totally-hetero best friend take you on spaceventures with him and live on Oa for a while, because every single Lantern out there knows how it feels to be 'away from home too long' and to come back to said home being irreversibly different from how you remember it

And when you're Hal Jordan, and your bestest friend in the whole wide universe has just come back from the dead and he's telling you he shouldn't have come back at all and he can't see why anyone would need (let alone want) him around anymore and you've been an absolute fucking wreck since he died, what do you do about all that?

You get really really protective. Possibly possessive even. You get clingy and attached and just a little jumpy and anxious whenever he isn't directly in your sights. Because you don't want to risk losing him again. You weren't there to save him that first time. You won't make that mistake again

[transfaguette]

prefacing by saying: every situation is unique. this is not a blanket statement

so I have dealt with the suicide of a friend, and it really seemed like it was just something he had made his mind about. he had lots of friends, a good home, loving parents with a close relationship. and he still died. and in response some people who knew him said they felt guilt, like they should have done more. and this is natural, this is just grief. but at the same time, I think its worth mentioning, that people don’t respect the decisions of the suicidal. its a reaction that is ultimately selfish (in a morally neutral sense of the word, not a character judgement). But people don’t see it that way! they see it as selfless martyrdom, they center themselves in the projected feelings of the deceased, thinking of all the ways they could have been a hero.

Maybe it just isn’t about you, or what you could have done. maybe he just didn’t like being alive, and you can be glad to know you were at least a bit of light in his life anyway.

[medium-sized-snack-portion]

Pred: *isn't feeling well*

Prey: *Offers to be a snack to make them feel better*

Pred: *noms*

Prey: *arrives in belly, only to realize that the reason Pred wasn't feeling well is because they haven't eaten anything the entire day*

*Scene cuts to Pred feeling embarassed while Prey is scolding them from inside their belly about a healthy diet and the importance of regular meals*

[tidesreach]

kim's "you have more to give than you think anyone can take" is so interesting actually. because like, surface level it's like "huh. does eddie think that?" because yeah, he's a romantic. he has so much love caged inside of his chest. but in each of his relationships the issue has been that he wasn't able to give enough. not because they couldn't handle it but because he couldn't. like, there is a very distinct pattern in all of eddie's romantic relationships that he wasn't able to give enough. even with shannon, especially with shannon actually. she didn't cause the pattern, she was the first in the pattern. so it stands to reason that eddie's more to give than he thinks anyone could take is something else entirely, then. it stands to reason that it's more than anyone could take (including himself, in fact probably he is at the top of that list of anyone) because what he has to give is not something he has ever allowed himself to name because it's too big, too much. which, well. it's queer, right? it makes the most sense. eddie's more to give is queer love. like, season seven firmly established that eddie has all of this catholic guilt tangled up inside of him, and it's also been established in the past that from a very young age there was this expectation (from his father, particularly) to be a man. which obviously he has internalised. it's not simply that he has so much love to give that he thinks nobody can handle it. it's that on some subconscious level (at least at the moment) he knows that it's WHO THAT LOVE IS FOR i.e. not a woman, i.e. BUCK, that he thinks no one (himself, his family, the catholic church) can handle.

[elliot-ayy]

Learning to shoot after losing the anchor is a slow process

[ribombeee]

[licnheartedd]

“All pieces must come to an end, but that does not mean anything for the love they encompass. Regulus’ bow works overtime as he spirals down to the final few pitches, soft but just as passionate as the climax. Regulus ends, not on a terminal cadence, but a progressive one. A promise of more.”

— into the stars, by @theicarusconstellation

[the-knit-orious]

I need musical theater autistics and train autistics to join forces for a sec and tell me what kind of train you think they have in Hades Town.

[remcyclee]

assuring my love that im here no matter what. that im never leaving them and that they'll never lose me no matter what happens btw. holding their face and running my fingers through their hair if u even care

(proship + variants dni. this is NAWT for u)

[catnipaddictt]

dear universe, please let me experience a getting a blowjob. Just once. I need a dick for a day 😭🙏

[crowtoed]

There's something about the animation in Scavenger's Reign that makes the body horror elements simultaneously more horrific and more palatable.

[homicidalbrunette]

Trixie:

Also Trixie:

And Katya:

[bee-can-art]

"You'd be just fine, I promise." vs. "Fionna, it's gonna be fine."

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[shopwitchvamp]

might as well start warning ya'll now...