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veilguard spoilers regarding a josie romance. but can we talk about the letter josie sends to a romanced inquisitor because. i’m sorry. fucking losing my mind at the fact that the inquisitor and josephine are close enough friends with the guy the inquisitor duels in her romance to be invited to meet his third child. implying they’ve been invited to the other two. at a baby shower and getting introduced as the one who dueled the baby’s father because he was trying to steal your girl. antivan romances insane.
NO LITERALLLYYYYY. AND HE’S AN IN LAW. ITS TOO FUNNY. i cannot imagine how they met and how yvette probably was like “teehee…. the man that my sister spurned…. has fallen in love with ME!” and the best/worst part is that ortranto really has. i like to think of them running around with each other and secretly meeting as though their families actually hate each other (they really don’t lol) . the ortrantos would probably be delighted to have their son actually marry a montilyet like they wanted, even better that they’re actually in love and it’s not arranged!
i have this image of josie going like “you can’t marry him. is this a joke, because it’s not funny. i almost embarrassed him! the only reason the ortrantos do not hate us is because he is a very kind man who saw that i was in love with the inquisitor! ….yes i suppose a very kind man like that could love you…….. yes of course i want you to be happy…… yvette gabrielle montilyet, i fear you are not hearing what i’m saying— DON’T SAY YOU ARE ALREADY AN ORTRANTO. DID YOU ELOPE? ah okay. don’t do that. i said don’t do that. yvette come back and listen to me” etc etc
of course i must believe that there was a big scene caused (once again) by a montilyet and ortranto that ends with lord ortranto making a speech where the publicly declares his love for yvette in front of all of antiva city to see and hear. so there’s no backing out from this one. in my mind there’s a rehash of the big “BECAUSE I LOVE HER!” (ortranto, desperate but genuine), “you do?” (completely aghast josie who has somehow missed the fact her sister has been giggling even more than usual), plus an “OF COURSE HE DOES!” (a thrilled yvette) that reminds josie so fondly of her own love story that she's immediately relaxed (and suddenly accepting) about this whole thing <3
#josie to me also feels more awkward than she lets on because she's quite good at being graceful and kind#but he is kind of. you know. the guy she rejected in front of val royeaux#i think the most out of character thing is that josie doesnt notice her sister and ortranto meeting up and falling in love etc#but i also think she can be busy enough being an ambassador/running the family business/eldest daughter#that she somehow misses it. for the sake of this beautiful idea i have. and also it would be cute and funny <3#also like the image of yvette saying ‘i’m getting married to adorno!’ and inq is like yeah ok :] congrats!#later asks josie like ‘oh yeah. who was the guy ur sister is marrying’ and josie pauses thinking abt how to say this LOL#this is also how trev finds out ortranto’s first name is adorno. nearly dies laughing over the whole situation i think#he really is like a footnote in her mind where she's like ':/ guy who almost married my beautiful wife' and then almost#without any issue she's able to go like 'GUY WHO IS MY IN LAW. AND WAS REALLY GRACIOUS ABOUT THE WHOLE ARRANGED MARRIAGE THING.#HE'S QUTE COOL ACTUALLY!' <- and has no issue about ortranto after this#much to josie's amusement and exasperation <3#josephine montilyet#adorno ortranto#yvette montilyet#not to mention josie's unseen brothers. they do intrigue me#the idea of either of them kind of finding out their youngest sister is running around with ortranto they probably sighed in relief like#yeah we can distract josephine with this. that will get her off my back about marriage for about a year.#even more if theyre planning the wedding!#evelyn trevelyan#<- mentioned briefly. i guess#veilguard spoilers#for a codex entry but when i saw it i did melt. everyone deserves to experience this firsthand#long post
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does Sukuna take strap 🤔?
yes he does 😪☝️
#✰ミ݁ ׅ ࣪ asks.#he's a brat at heart#he also has the meanest arch#i know because well …. i saw it firsthand 🙂↕️
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(CW: Abuse) The fact that people have such narrow, prescribed ideas about what abuse is and what kinds of people can or cannot be abused is the reason why abuse of all different topographies (verbal, physical, emotional, sexual, etc.) is not believed, not taken seriously, and not reported. There is no one gender, one age group, one socioeconomic bracket that abuse belongs to--it can and does exist anywhere, and acting like this is not the case and pretending that it "can't happen" to someone only causes more harm to victims everywhere.
To all of my followers, please know that I am holding space for you. I am not here to judge, to gatekeep, or to tell anyone what to think. It is okay to feel the way you feel, and I want you to know you are not alone.
#abuse#cw: abuse#i am just so tired of all the terrible takes i have seen today#this is a huge part of the work that i do as an autism sexuality advocate#and i've seen firsthand what happens when people believe that someone can't be abused#because they are famous or a man or whatever it may be#some people are certainly at greater risk than others#but there is no one thing that guarantees it won't happen to someone#i don't know why this is so difficult to understand#and it hurts my heart#thoughts#discourse
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maybe i am the remote worker that executives and corporate real estate investors fear monger about. i saw a comment on the remote work subreddit that said something like “they think we all just roll out of bed at 10am, pretend to be online while we’re really at the gym, log off at 4, and stay in our sweats all day”
smash cut to me reading said comment while on the treadmill at the gym during work hours
#like. how did you know my whole itinerary#for legal reasons this is a joke and i’ve never done anything like that ever in my life#but hypothetically if you actually were more productive in a remote work environment#and you generally work efficiently#you might be able to get the same amount or more work done in 30 hours at home than you would with 40 in an office#so one could. THEORETICALLY. produce more while working less.#causing no meaningful harm or loss to anyone because the output is still meeting or exceeding the requirements#food for thought#again obviously i have NEVER experienced any of this firsthand. we’re just chatting right now
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Okay confession time I guess, but...I like Frank.
I know we're not supposed to like him. I know he represents everything reprehensible about the war and America and blind fervid patriotism. I know at worst we're supposed to hate him, and at best we're supposed to feel sorry for him (and I do), but like...I actually like him?
I can't help it. He's just so deeply vulnerable and broken and lonely and I just...
I want to help him. I want to fix him. I want to take him by the hand and gently show him that he doesn't have to be this way, that his parents are never going to love him no matter how much he tries to parrot the toxic ideals they drilled into him, and he would be so much better off just leaving all of that behind and following his own path.
Frank Burns had so much potential, and I'm sad we never got to see it realized.
#frank burns#mash#m*a*s*h#i can fix him#no really i can#i grew up in a very conservative small town#and although i can't say i ever knew any ONE person as awful as frank#the ideology he espoused was very prevalent in the deep south#and i personally understand isolation and loneliness and parroting your parents views because it's all you have to cling to#i just...i wish frank had been given the chance to grow from that#and change and learn and become a better person#it IS possible...i know it's possible because i've seen it firsthand#and to a degree i've lived it#though as i've said i was never that bad#but i still GET IT y'know?
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Anne remembered that Miss Cornelia had given her a very different impression of Leslie’s mother. But had not love the truer vision?
NO, Anne, for heaven’s sake, no. Even taking into account Miss Cornelia’s bias, there is no way Rose West comes out of this story as anything but the villain of the piece. Even in other versions of this story as told in short stories (i.e, Only a Common Fellow, Four Winds), it’s never a mother who sells her daughter into sexual slavery so she can stay in her house. There’s no way to paint that as anything less than horrific.
Still, it *was* selfish of Rose West to make her daughter marry Dick Moore.
I’m glad you can at least admit that much, Anne! I do love your desire to think the best of people (as shown even in your younger years in your attempt to defend the women who raised you prior to Green Gables as meaning to be kind), but there are limits.
It’s amazing to me how I could read Anne’s House of Dreams as a kid and recognize the inherent tragedy of Leslie’s story without in the least understanding its implications, and then read it as an adult and realize that Rose West made her daughter marry an abusive r@pist so that she wouldn’t have to get kicked out of her house—granted Leslie claims that Rose never knew how bad Dick was, it’s still appalling.
(As a kid it was the bit about Kenneth that hit me the hardest, especially Leslie having seen his face as he was killed and never being able to forget it. I wonder if naming her own son Kenneth was an attempt to replace the old horror of that with new memories?)
#anne’s house of dreams#anne of green gables#lm montgomery#reading this as an adult you also realize just how lucky gilbert was that he had the power of the narrator behind him#because if he has condemned leslie to life with her husband’s memory and sense of self restored#even his sense of duty and devotion to truth wouldn’t have been enough to save him from crushing guilt#as he would have to witness dick’s cruelty and infidelity firsthand#and know that he had done that to leslie#so yeah he’s darn lucky lmm was trying to make a point about truth#anne’s house of dreams spoilers#I guess
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ummm. my fic is done.
#I mean it still needs a bit of editing but like after almost four months#the hell (writing) is finally over#it's clocking in at around 61k words rn and im tired#time to relax ((cry))#actually you know what. fuck it I'm gonna overshare about this a bit.#I've never written fic before#and besides that - this is the first thing I've sat down to write seriously in about ten years#and ten years ago I was just writing poetry and papers for college#(I don't mean 'just' in a bad way - I only mean that it's been a very different experience for me personally)#very protective over this fic in that it's been sitting in my lap and in my brain for a few months and I don't want to give too much away#so I've deliberately been vague with the marketing of it. because I want people to read and be surprised and experience it firsthand.#and I know it's supposed to be self-indulgent and writing should be about the process and not the results but#I hope people read it??? I've poured my soul into this thing. a bit. a lot. and I'm a simple creature who craves validation.#it's very personal yet at the same time I feel like I haven't done anything new or groundbreaking which. okay it's self-doubt saturday so.#I should ignore that feeling. anyyyyyyyyway.#I hope to post the first chapter in two weeks. crossing my fingers that I don't abort mission before then aaaaaahahaha#also comparison is the thief of joy etc etc etc#danny.xls#danny writes
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#darumaka#since this is a gen 5 'mon (and‚ as we all know‚ i skipped gen 5 as a kid) i actually ended up playing gen 8 BEFORE gen 5#and so i thought the galarian form was the only form. and i saw this fire version and i was like oh cool a fakemon form#it took me quite a bit to realize that the fire version was the original and that the ice-type form was the galarian form. because like#the games don't differentiate in the names between forms. they don't call galarian zigzagoon “galarian zigzagoon‚” they call it zigzagoon#so if someone's first game was gen 8 they'd have no way of telling that that's actually a regional version of a gen 3 pokémon#and i experienced that firsthand with galarian darumaka
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headcanon that as sophie ages, she gets more and more off-put by how she still looks twenty at some age past 40. the only wrinkles she has are smile lines and a barely-there crease between her eyebrows that never leaves. no gray hairs. it doesn’t feel like there’s any physical evidence of how much stress aged her too fast.
(maybe she dyes more grays into her hair to feel better about her reflection, the more time passes by. maybe, on bad days, she contours wrinkles into her skin with makeup. maybe the bad days get more frequent as she ages outside the human lifespan. maybe.)
#i feel like fitz and dex are the only friends of hers that really get it#since fitz understands more surrounding human cultures than most elves thanks to his firsthand experience in the search#and dex grew up with his mom’s romcoms#which would probably show some human perspectives on aging#and his mom explaining some things that didn’t quite make sense to Smol Dex#but i’ve always imagined sophie turning up on fitz’s doorstep in the middle of the night#with tears running down her face and saying she didn’t know who else to talk to about almost-immortality feeling so so so wrong as she#gets older. not necessarily just because he knows more about humanity than most of her group#but also because like. there’s some part of her that says ‘if he can help you through learning to be an elf at 12 maybe he can help you at#42 too’. and they’re cognates. and they’ve gotten old enough to set aside teenage grievances with one another#and i like the idea of them sitting on a couch together by lamplight and trying to navigate the cultural and personal differences#in how the two of them and humanity and the lost cities view mortality#and not really reaching a concrete conclusion. but rather. a conclusion that keeps the two of them sane until they reach triple digits.#and then they have the conversation again. and come up with a plan to stay sane in their triple digits. and the same thing pops up in their#thousands. idk man the whole thing screams trust down to the bone and that’s what they should have when the war is over#is there anything more Cognate than talking through wildly different fears surrounding the same thing that make both parties#super vulnerable??? down to how your minds work in the face - or lack of - death?#maybe so but i can’t think of them off top of my head#kotlc#sophie foster#kotlc headcanons#keeper of the lost cities
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Gggahh… It’s still so sweet seeing characters support Dizzy like this and seeing more of Testaments soft side ;v;
#Dizzy has such a good support system built up and it’s all characters who I can absolutely see Why they want to be there for her#Testament is protective of her both as a gear and an ex soldier. they know firsthand how humanity sees gears#Potemkin is similar. not as a gear but as someone who’s been treated as a weapon and wielded by the corrupt#the jellyfish pirates are all people on the fridges of society in a war torn world#who were taken in when they had no where else to go#they all definitely see themselves in Dizzy and all want to keep her safe because of it#… it sucks that all of Dizzys support systems hate each other. but what can you do-#they know when to put their differences aside for her and that’s what counts#id day this calls for another I’m a fool I know nothing I may sound like a silly clown disclaimer-#a lot of this is my readings of the characters#yappin’
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I have most of Lightning Pin planned (to give you an idea, the final chapter has a draft and a name even if there are more than 25 chapters left) and STILL I have no idea what Jay's reaction will be when he finds out that he is adopted or how he will find out. Nya accidentally tells him this while she's giving him a recap of the events of Skybound/Prime Empire? like:
Jay interrupting her completely confused: "... wait, what do you mean by 'bio parents'?"
Nya panicking at the realization: "...uh, yeah, about that-"
I just think. in the irony and the awkward silence, and in Jay processing it without saying anything while Kaida blinks open-mouthed in his direction.
#I mean#I guess unlike canon he doesn't have to go through the arc of realizing that his real parents were the ones who raised him#or that he doesn't have to feel guilty even if there is no “reason” because he himself knows these things firsthand with Kaida#so good for him (?)#jay ninjago#kaida walker#dad jay au#ninjago fanfic#ninjago oc#Ninjago AU#Ninjago fanfic#Ninjago Nya
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hey man. i'm just saying. why would we put inexperienced teenagers with over-inflated egos and obvious emotional issues into combat classes and make them claw their way to the top of their dorms and expect things to just run smoothly. who actually thought this
#the reason rsa doesn't have overblots is because they understand the joy and whimsy of life and friendship btw#LIKE. why is there no school counselor?? do you know how much time & resources & effort & TRAUMA we could have saved the students &#school from if ANYONE had reached out to riddle and was like 'hey are you alright i heard xyz and i wanted to let you know...' ESPECIALLY#since TREY LITERALLY TELLS US 'oh well here's the lowdown on her trauma this is Probably what is causing this'#or if someone sat down to tell leona 'hey! i'm rooting for you in ur magift(?) game! you're my fav player!!' AND LET HIM FEEL NOTICED#or if someone approached azul as an Equal to try to stop his plans. as a friend even. BEYOND A BUSINESS TRANSACTION#or if ANYBODY BUT ESPECIALLY KALIM was like 'jamil i think you should follow your passions and do something you enjoy today!!' or AT LEAST#let him know he was appreciated as a person NOT JUST FOR HIS WORK#'i know you're doing a lot today but i just wanted to thank you for how much Effort you put into this and..' etc etc etc#ERM.. IF ANYONE TREATED VIL LIKE A HUMAN BEING AND NOT A CELEBRITY??? or even 'hey i loved you in this film i was wondering if we could#do a play together or something..!!' AND LET HER TRY A TYPE OF CHARACTER SHE NEVER GOT THE OPPORTUNITY TO BE. and sing her praises.#if anyone reached out to idia beyond a 'hey the teacher said to come to class'/'get out of your bed and come to our housewarden meeting'#or even. IF ORTHO HIMSELF was like. 'you know it's not your fault... you didn't cause all of this. not really' OR SOMETHING#or if malleus ever got to experience a small firsthand loss AND WAS COMFORTED THROUGH IT. not just quick fix via magic. not replacing. just#GRIEVING SOMETHING??????? and wasn't feared by literally everyone#um. maybe the real twisted part is that all of this tragedy was easily preventable if we had a support system in place.#but idk. twst is a highschool. there's no support in real high school either. i'd probably overblot too if i could ajdjrjfinfdndjd#twst#chatter#LONG RAMBLE SORRY#yes overblots are essential to the plot. but also. do you know how frustrating it is watching the blot build up and sitting in silence.#I'M SORRY IK IF SOMETHING LIKE THIS WAS HAPPENING TO A GUY I JUST MET I WOULD PROBABLY NOT NOTICE.. but of it was my Friend or Housewarden..#I'D ASK BRO.... I'D ASK ... UGHHHHHUUUHHHH#not that anyone would notice if *I* was about to lose it tbh#speaks volumes about our society o think#OKAY NOW I'M DONE FOR REAL
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how i feel when people still, after playing this game, think bringing down the veil should have been an option and would have been the right thing to do
#i’m not fucking around.#if there’s one thesis of this game it is that in all of varric and solas’ arguments in dai varric was correct.#you need to learn to move on from your regrets or you will fall to ruin and bring others down with you. Varric knows this firsthand.#in the end the spirit of wisdom twisted to pride with a god’s hubris would have destroyed so so many lives - and did#if the events of veilguard are to he set at his feet which i think they can be#the wisdom of the dwarf - the child of dreamless titans - shut off from what magic his people had - the simple storyteller#and Liver of a Full Life in this World!!! HE is the wiser in the end#because while he lives with his share of regret and even responsibility for the disasters befallen the world#he can forgive himself. He has to.#varric tethras#dragon age#da4#datv#dragon age the veilguard#dai#solas#the dread wolf
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So, my family is rewatching Rings of Power, and since I’m the one in the family that read The Silmarillion (like a masochist), I’m the one who keeps getting asked all the questions.
#‘did this happen?’ well broadly speaking yes but Tolkien never fleshed this part of middle-earth’s history out in much detail#but I know exactly where they got the idea for whatever it is most of the time#‘is Galadriel’s husband really dead’ of course not#‘did Sauron ever go by the name Halbrand?’ well not really but also how much time do you have because this is going to take some explaining#‘is that Gandalf?’ almost definitely but they’re doing the blue wizard thing with him by taking him to Rhun#also I think they’re making him the basis for the hobbit’s ’man in the moon’ song so I’m honestly okay with it#‘is the Queen lady’s nightmare significant’ Yes three times over but how am I supposed to say anything about it#without giving away what’s probably a season finale#‘what’s with the mithril?’ Hell if I know I’m as confused as you are about that#actually the Galadriel’s husband one was funny#because of course Celeborn shows up in the movies#but my mom wasn’t sure that was actually her husband#or some random blorbo#or a second husband#which then opened up the whole conversation#to how the elves are painfully monogamous even when their spouse dies#because they way they die is weird and also#they all still have generational and firsthand trauma from the fallout of that one elf guy who did get remarried#rings of power spoilers
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the way i have no one to grieve with and it’s fucking killing me slowly.
#ooc. o kaptain.#[everything is so secretive and so private and I’m not supposed to tell people about xyz but also… doing this alone is agony? looking at#my aunt’s and my grandparents’ old jewelry sent me into a sobbing fit the entire time. I’ve inherited three generations of shit and I’m the#only one left with any memory or firsthand account of who these things belonged to. do you know how lonely it is to carry all the fucking#ghosts of your entire family. your mom your aunt your grandfather your grandmother. and it’s all you. and you have no one to share these#things with… because everyone who knew them is gone. but I’m also not SUPPOSED to share most of this for 10000 legal reasons (don’t worry#it’s not shit I can’t mention or something) and I just… can’t fucking do this alone. I just had a breakdown screaming in my house about#how bad I miss… everyone. but this whole process is just legal bullshit lawyer this protect this so my shithead father can’t get it since#he’s my ‘next of kin’ when in reality the only thing I’d like to leave him in my will is a fucking gps with directions set to a very long#walk off a very short pier. I just… my aunt just fucking died? everyone in my immediate family is gone??? when the fuck do I get to just… be#sad?? to grieve?? to fucking hurt??????]#negativity /
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I took my kid to an indoor amusement park thingy the other day with some of his buddies. One of his friends brought his sister, who is eight. All the kids are off doing their thing and the sister comes back to where the adults are, upset because someone bullied her. I was like “Hey, I know it sucks, but just know it’s a problem they have with themselves; you’re fine. They just don’t like something about themselves and are putting that on you. It’s not right, it sucks, but don’t listen to them”
One of the kids grandmas was like “Was it a boy or girl bullying you?” It was a boy. Grandma goes “Oh, he only did that because he likes you!”
Y’ALL.
I damn near flipped the fucking table.
I was like “NOPE. AbsoLUTELY not. If a boy is ever mean to you, it is NOT because he likes you. That is NOT how we show affection. If a boy likes you, he can TELL you. If he’s mean to you, don’t give him the time of day and go tell an adult.” The girl was like “Yeah!” And ran back off to play. I turned on the grandma and was like “I’m sorry, but what the actual FUCK was that? That shit went out of style thirty years ago!! You wanna tell a little girl that ABUSE is a sign of affection?? How do you think that’s going to translate when she starts dating?”
HOOOOO BOY, I had to take some deep breaths after that! What the fuuuuuuuuuck?? We do NOT tell little girls that bullshit!! That’s how I ended up in my abusive relationships. “Oh he’s choking me out because he’s so jealous, this is so passionate!”
Fucks sake, I wonder about people sometimes. Do they literally not THINK before they open their mouths??
#and the thing that REALLY gets me#is that this woman should know better than anyone how telling girls abuse = love can turn out poorly#her freaking daughter was held prisoner in another country by a man who impregnated her and convinced her he loved her#tw: animal death#aside from keeping her a literal prisoner he murdered her favorite puppy in front of her by smashing it into a wall#and when their kid was born he would abuse the kid and her#and he also kept several other women locked up and impregnated around his town#she managed to escape and get asylum#and they’re safe now#but the AUDACITY of this woman to say that to a young girl#when she has SEEN FIRSTHAND the effects of telling girls that abuse = love#she literally has a whole ass grandkid because of the lie she convinced her daughter to believe#lordt#feminism#stop telling little girls stupid shit
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