#because like. it’s an extension of his he tries to conform to people’s beliefs thoughts on who he should be

[average-transdalorian]

Y’know I think all of Char’s divorces could be explained by him being aroallo and trying his best to be alloallo because he doesn’t realize he’s aroallo. But also I’m not sure the world is ready for rep like that

[punkeropercyjackson]

Alr i'm gonna assume the best of newer and younger Pjo fans spreading misinfo on punk!Percy and by extension irl punk history and culture by guessing you guys aren't doing it on purpose and were just lied to about us so here's a bunch of debunks and clear ups on punk and why Percy is which also works as a sort of list of tips on how to write punk characters,canon and headcanon and completely original

So the obvious one out of the way first:Percy is actually not canonically a skater boy!There have been exactly two lines of this context in the entire franchise and one was in Som when he mentioned skateboarding once and then never again and the second was in Moa when Piper said he and i quote 'looked like a skater'.Sorry to past cishet Pipes but that's not a thing and Avril Lavigne making a cisheteronormative lyric that's extremely underservingly stuck around for forever dosen't mean she was right that he is one,it means she had internalized homophobia and gender stereotypes and no actual knowledge on alt subcultures because again,'looking like a skater' isn't a thing,it's a sport and not an aesthetic

With that,here's what actually makes Percy a punk:He was a bully beater from a young age and it escalates into full blown direct action for the whole saga,hates authority figures not for the sake of it but because he knows from experience that they're almost universally awful,is anti-corruption including his own by fighting against his intrusive thoughts to turn evil,does activism by helping fix the greco-roman mythos world system whenever he gets the chance to no matter how small,advocates for the rights of less fortunate people both mythical and human,hates rich people,fits entierly out of the box conformity in all aspects simply from the way he is even disregarding his demigohood,respects all minorities and is extremely kind to kids to the point that he adopted Nico and Hazel as his younger siblings and pseudo-kids because they don't really have parents(Hades/Pluto is abusive + Maria and Marie are dead).He fills out every punk requirement to a T,including being part of a marginalized group since he's poor and mentally disabled(audhd with dyslexia,bpd and ptsd)

He was a hero and Luke was a villain because they both hated the gods for traumatizing them and had nonpretty trauma responses from it but Percy still tried his best to stay kind not for his own sake but for his mom and the innocents in the world he knew didn't deserve cruelty and he provided and still does a safe and loving space for children specifically because he was a troubled but good kid once too and wants to be the positive adult figure for them he didn't get to have except Sally.Luke choose nihilism and that grew into turning a serial child abuser with bigoted ideals(his biggest targets being women and poc and in Kelli's case both)and fascist tactics.They weren't 'two sides of the same coin' and they're not even the same currency-Percy's a punk,Luke's a pig

Romantic attraction to someone based off them being 'ideal' by society's standards goes against punk beliefs!Our whole thing is nonconformity and that changing your true self to fit in makes you a sellout so this is why Perachel was canon and honestly i'd go as far as to call the 'outcast punk dude x perfect prep girl' a myth made up by normies who don't wanna date us for our actual personalities and just think we look hot so they objectify us.Related,it's ooc for Percy to be written to use kinds of flirting and dating treatments purely because 'it's what guys are like' since it's canon they hate traditional masculinity and consider it a burden they only force on themselves as a defense mechanism from trauma of being mocked for being 'not normal'

Ascention to godhood or into a titan inherently disquilify being punk and is an insult to irl punks.You literally can't be punk AND in control of a corrupted system,it's our lifestyle to fight them,not perpetuate them.This also applies to him dating deities,being rich in any way or an abuser.Dark Percy is Bootlicker Percy

Sorry to y'all who still think Hot Topic is a funny joke in 2024 of all years but they sold out to capitalism and conformity a loooooong time ago so Percy wouldn't be caught undead near that place and couldn't afford anything anyway because they've upped everything to rich people prices.He'd be going to thrift stores,family bussiness and small shops.Knowing how much free time he has probably knows how to DIY things that don't even exist and he buys all his games/consoles and legos secondhand

No Taylor Swift for him,her music's too corny and fabricated for him to not hate it but there's also how she's a huge bigot,a major bully and a whole ass poluter so🤷🏽‍♀️His favorite band is definitely My Chemical Romance but All Time Low,The Cure and Ramones are up there too

Please draw him with an actual battle jacket and proper piercings-By which i mean give it patches and a hoard of pins and draw it like a BATTLE JACKET,not a LEATHER jacket and actually google kinds of piercings instead of just slapping metal wherever onto him

He is NOT masc or an 'i'm too cool and edgy to like cutesy and kiddy things' type.Every single trans woman i've met in the Pjo fandom have said Percy's an egg and super femme and she does too much actual punk shit instead of trying to look the part to be a poser to care about her image anymore.She loves Polly Pocket,Warrior Cats,Animal Crossing,Foster's Home For Imaginary Friends,Bluey,Blues Clues,MLP,makeup,glitter,yk2/90s/80s toys,cats,Lo-Fi Beats,Cookie Monster and her second favorite color is pink,she loves naturally acting like a momdad and her gender fuckery includes a neopronouns hoard

Would most definitely have radicalized Nico and Hazel into goth punk and pastel goth punk if Rick let them be a proper trio and speaking from experience,it's entierly possible she does it completely on accident by making them want to be like her because of how nice and protective she is to them and what cool things she does

Few last points:She's definitely a heavy energy drinks consumer,a socialist,does vandalism,did actually super heavy research to go full punk once she realized she is and would never be friends with Harry Potter and in fact would probably kill him if they met since ACAB

[wisdomrays]

TAFAKKUR: Part 158

Standing against Radicalism: The Example of Abu Hanifa

Radicalism is a destructive force that threatens bonds within a society. It violates social order, for those who adopt radicalism assume their views as the norm and dictate that all must follow their lifestyle. Radicalism has a potential to reveal itself even more violently when aligned with some religious beliefs, which often serve as a great source of motivation for their adherents, especially when the religion itself is misinterpreted.

Abu Hanifa (d. 767 CE) is considered a leading scholar of Islamic law and his thoughts led to the formation of the Hanafi school of Islam, which has the greatest following among schools. Abu Hanifa's time was an era of intense political and social mobility. While new conquests brought in new cultural and religious components, the political authority aspired to disseminate an official form of Islam; at the same time, new groups and formations emerged to respond to changing conditions. Unfortunately, these conditions led to some groups being radicalized. Abu Hanifa's stance against radicalism was exemplary and his arguments are still worthwhile today.

His political attitude

Abu Hanifa represents the prototype of an independent scholar. He was wary of state power, believing that it corrupted intellectual honesty in the interest of preserving power; thus, he did not hold an official political position. This was a brave stance, as he was seriously persecuted for it. Yet his independence allowed him to see radicalism - on both sides of the political spectrum - for the danger that it was.

Understanding of Islamic jurisprudence

Abu Hanifa is considered the pioneer of the school of sound opinion (ray), which advocates seeking solutions to social-judicial problems by using reason together with religious essentials and scholarly comparison (qiyas). Deductive reasoning (ijtihad), juristic preference for the better (istihsan), and acceptable custom (urf) have an important place in his understanding of Islamic jurisprudence. We can infer that he also believed in the necessity of taking social and psychological realities into account when making religious judgments; this was what he did in practice.

Abu Hanifa did not choose a reductionist approach by restricting himself to the frame of religious essentials, but produced solutions to the questions he faced—or could possibly face—by benefiting from the sources mentioned along with the Qur'an and Sunnah. It is possible to define his approach to jurisprudence as an understanding that places humanity in the center; his views expanded the domain of legitimacy and accepted components of historical and cultural heritage that do not contradict the spirit of religion and belief of Divine oneness, such as local customs and practices. This broad perspective ran contrary to radical beliefs. Because the Hanafi school of Islamic jurisprudence does not disregard real problems in life, it is more capable of solving them.

Abu Hanifa viewed education and debate as essential to his jurisprudence. He would bring a certain problem - some of them contemporary, and some hypothetical - to the attention of his students, each of whom was an expert on an Islamic discipline such as tafsir, hadith, and fiqh; he would let them discuss that matter in detail, follow the discussions with patience, and come to a conclusive judgment according to the strength of the arguments. But he would still tolerate the opposing thoughts of his disciples, such as Imam Muhammad and Abu Yusuf, and let those thoughts come to life. All of their opposing thoughts were recorded, and people acted upon most of them.

We can accept Abu Hanifa's educational method as a pluralist and democratic one, which also teaches how to forbear different opinions with patience. It shows the value of viewing an issue from different points of view. Despite its value, there were some groups that did not support Abu Hanifa's methods.

His understanding of belief

Some groups had formed prior to Abu Hanifa as extensions of the extremist Kharijites. They not only directly declared believing Muslims who sinned were apostates, but they also attacked them and tried to exterminate them in the name of religion. The Kharijites even declared Caliph Ali - and many other devout believers - apostates. Though the Kharijites were the most violent, other groups - including the Mutazilites - also persecuted certain religious groups when they came to political power. Unfortunately, this act of dividing society into groups inevitably led to more violence.

According to one definition, it is possible for religion to be a dividing or uniting factor within a society. It can be a great force for good when it is kept separate from the political machinations of power. In his work Fiqh al-Akbar, Abu Hanifa defined the concept of religion (din) in terms of its contents by saying, "Religion is the title given to the entirety of religion, faith, submission, and religious judgments." Abu'l Muntaha, the scholar who annotated this definition, states that the word religion has different uses, sometimes meaning belief, sometimes submission, and sometimes as the Divine judgments conveyed by a certain Prophet. However, at his answer to the question directed to him about the difference between religion and religious law, Abu Hanifa he expressed that he saw a difference between them. He did not only acknowledge this difference, but also gave a religious and rational explanation for it.

According to Abu Hanifa, religion (din) and religious law (shariah) are separate concepts. He accepted religion as the principles to be believed in - namely, the belief of Divine unity, and faith in the existence and unity of God. Religious law, however, is a body of judgments related to different aspects of human life such as worship, interpersonal relations, and the like. Abu Hanifa interpreted the Qur'anic verse meaning, "I have not created the jinn and humankind but to worship Me (exclusively)" (Dhariyat 56), in the sense of, "So that they know Me and acknowledge my Oneness."

He believed the origin of religion is the belief in the unity of God. Obviously, this definition is based on the distinction between the essence of religion and what it necessitates. Here, belief is the absolute condition of religion, because a person belonging to a certain religion is a matter of accepting the essential teachings of that religion, rather than observing the acts of worship commanded by that religion.

Abu Hanifa came to this conclusion about religion by considering the fact that the essentials of belief brought by the Prophets are the same, but there are certain differences on other issues, such as worship. The Prophets of God did not belong to different religions. None of them commanded their people to forsake the religion of the previous Prophets, since their faith is the same. On the other hand, every Prophet invited their people to follow the law they conveyed, as decreed by God Almighty for that specific people, not necessarily following the exact law conveyed by the previous Prophets. There were many different codes for different peoples. It is for this reason that God Almighty states, "(For each community) ...We have appointed a clear way of life and a comprehensive system (containing the principles of that way and how to follow it). And if God had so willed, He would surely have made you a single community (following the same way of life and system surrounded by the same conditions throughout all history)" (Maedah 48).

The faith of Divine oneness is always the same and religion does not change from one Prophet to another in this sense; it is the systems and their rules that change. If "religion" were fulfilling everything God commands and avoiding everything He forbids, then a person who fails to observe only one command or commits one forbidden act would be an apostate. As such, the legal judgments between fellow believers such as marriage, receiving an inheritance, attending a funeral, and the like would be invalid. However, it is having belief that makes them lawful between fellow believers. Other commands come after having accepted religion. If the commanded acts were faith itself, then God would not call His servants believers until they fulfilled the acts He commanded.

In order to support the point stated above, Abu Hanifa asserted the fact that when believers are excused from certain acts at certain times, they are still considered to have faith: a menstruating woman who abandons the daily prayers, a man who has a valid excuse abandons the Ramadan fasting, or a poor man who cannot give the alms of zakat are still considered believers. If such observances were identical to having faith, failing to observe them for some excuse would have the same meaning. However, it is impossible to make such a claim. According to Abu Hanifa, there is no complete relation between faith and deeds, since they are separate things.

Abu Hanifa stated that the following verses and others of similar meaning also point to the same fact:

"Tell those of My servants who believe that they must establish the Prayer in conformity with its conditions..." (Ibrahim 31); "O you who believe! Prescribed for you is retaliation in cases of (deliberate, unjust) killing..." (Baqarah 178); "O you who believe! Remember and mention God much" (Ahzab 41).

If the commanded acts were identical with belief or faith (iman), then God would not address people as believers until they fulfilled those acts. In addition, God Almighty separates having faith and good deeds in other verses as well:

"Except those who believe and do good righteous deeds..." (Asr 3); "No! Rather, whoever submits his whole being to God (and does so) as one devoted to doing good, aware that God is seeing him, his reward is with his Lord, and all such will have no fear, (for they will always find My help and support with them), nor will they grieve" (Baqarah 112); "But whoever wishes for the Hereafter and strives for it as it should be striven for, being a believer..." (Isra 19).

This distinction proves that faith is not the same as deeds. Believers observe the prayers, fasting, zakat, Hajj, and they make remembrance of God owing to their faith - but they are not considered to have faith for having observed these. This proves that they do good deeds after having faith (iman) already.

In his letter to Uthman al-Batti, a scholar from Basra, Abu Hanifa stated this view with reference to different proofs. He used the following example: an indebted man firstly acknowledges his debt and pays it afterwards, but not vice versa. His acknowledgement of the debt is not for having paid the debt, but his paying is for having acknowledged the debt.

Abu Hanifa did not believe that a person who sins is out of the sphere of faith; nor are they an apostate. He expressed this point, saying, "Those who have acknowledged the direction to turn for worship are believers. I cannot count them as having forsaken faith owing to some command they do not observe. As for one who abandons some obligatory acts in spite of having faith, that person is a believer, but a sinful one (he is not a disbeliever)."

Abu Hanifa argued that what would make one an unbeliever is not committing a forbidden act, but considering it lawful; not abandoning an obligatory command, but considering it unnecessary.

Abu Hanifa also pointed out that real believers commit sins not by considering them lawful, but by giving in to their carnal soul. When asked, "If God is dearer for a believer than everything, why does a believer rebel Him? Is it possible for a person to rebel while having sincere love for God?" the great imam replied, "Yes, a child loves his father, but sometimes disobeys him. The situation of a believer is the same...He commits sins not owing to a lack of love for God, but for giving in to the feeling of lust or something similar."

Some claimed that this stance aligned Abu Hanifa with the school of Murjia, whose adherents believed that sins would not nullify one's faith, but Abu Hanifa soundly argued that it is not possible to guarantee anything in matters of faith:

"We cannot say that sins do not harm a believer at all. Similarly, we cannot say that a person who commits sins will not enter Hell. Neither can we say our good deeds are accepted and our evil deeds are forgiven... However, who commits good deeds in conformity with all of the conditions of validity...and dies as a believer without nullifying those deeds, then God does not let those deeds be in vain, but rewards them." We need to clarify at this point that by this definition Abu Hanifa did not refer to an argument as if religion was a matter of conscience only; religion for him is a comprehensive system of life that concerns all aspects of believers' existence.

While founding the most developed school of Islamic jurisprudence, Abu Hanifa defined religion with reference to its essence, pinpointing the difference between religion and other factors related to religion. His definition of religion as the faith of Divine oneness is very important in terms of maintaining social unity. Such a definition does not lessen the importance of religion's other requirements. Moreover, the political and social conditions of his time called for such a definition. For this reason, Abu Hanifa made a definition that referred to the essence of religion and aimed to maintain unity in society by counteracting the tendency to easily condemn those with different opinions.

This is valuable even today, as taking belief in Divine unity as the basis of religion allows followers of different monotheistic religions to meet on common grounds. In the Qur'an, God Almighty addresses Muslims in the person of the Prophet and demands them to call People of the Book to a common word between them: "O People of the Book, come to a word common between us and you, that we worship none but God, and associate none as partner with Him, and that none of us take others for Lords, apart from God" (Al Imran 3: 64).

Conclusion

When Abu Hanifa's world of thought and understanding of life are studied, it's clear that his viewpoint valued differences and did not permit persecution. This perspective still bears significance in terms of peaceful coexistence in today's societies. Such a magnanimous attitude can help to combat radical attitudes and inclinations for violence.

[joannalannister]

Let's say Tyrion hadn't married Tysha, but kept her as a mistress. Do you think Tywin would have reacted differently?

This got long and went far afield from your original question, the short answer to which is a simple, “No.” 

I think a lot of Tywin’s reaction toward Tyrion and Tysha’s marriage was rooted in ableism. If Jaime had married Tysha, I don’t think Jaime would have been forced to participate in Tysha’s gang rape. Tywin repeatedly punishes and humiliates Tyrion in a sexual manner throughout the books, using girls like Shae, Alayaya, and Sansa, as well as Tysha, to do so. 

I think this relates to the very ableist idea that Tyrion, as a disabled man in Westeros, is (ironically) viewed as both a sexual “deviant” and a desexualized / sexless child. For example, Tywin complains that Tyrion spreads his seed “In the gutters and the ditches” while also forgetting that Tyrion has “a man’s baser needs” because he sees Tyrion as a child who stands “no taller than a boy”. 

While what happened to Tyrion and Tysha was arguably the most egregious “sharp lesson��� that Tywin ever “taught” Tyrion, I would say that Tyrion’s whole life has been a long series of “lessons” from Tywin. These “lessons” were meant to reinforce Tywin’s teachings that Tyrion is “the last and least” of the Lannisters, someone who was only saved from infanticide by the grace of a good family name. A name, Tywin would argue, that has been besmirched simply because Tyrion has every right to bear it proudly and flaunt the fact that he is Tywin’s trueborn son. 

(istg those “Tyrion is a bastard Targ” theories miss the point of everything. istg George, if you vindicate Tywin from beyond the grave with a “See! Tyrion wasn’t my trueborn son after all, the golden genes of Tywin Lannister are perfect!” I will burn these books.) 

It also ties into the idea of Tyrion as “halfman,” a name GRRM bestows on Tyrion because it is so loaded with meaning and so symbolic of Tyrion’s oppression. People in Westeros obviously name Tyrion Halfman because they think of him as half the height of a “regular” man, but it continues to reinforce Tywin’s ableist (and fascist!) beliefs that Tyrion is subhuman, that the group-identity of “Lannister” is valuable while the individual identity of “Tyrion” is worthless. “House Lannister” is the “whole,” while “Tyrion” is merely an individual “part” in the steel Lannister war machine, and a “defective” part at that. That’s what makes this line so very, very heartbreaking, because Tysha loved Tyrion The Individual, not Tyrion The Lannister*:

“I love to say your name. Tyrion Lannister. It goes with mine. Not the Lannister, t'other part. Tyrion and Tysha. Tysha and Tyrion. Tyrion. My lord Tyrion…”

The value of the individual is a theme that GRRM stresses over and over again in all of his stories, across his whole career as a writer, and it’s part of his strong anti-fascist, anti-authoritarian themes.** What is one life worth, against the fate of the whole world? GRRM’s answer is everything. 

Here lies Stannis’s great tragedy in TWOW, because for all his good intentions, he does not understand this. 

And this is Tywin’s tragedy as well, because he cannot see worth in Tyrion as an individual. The Lannister part is valuable to Tywin, “t’other part” is not!!

Seriously!!! Look at how Tywin associates Tyrion with the whole, as an extension of Tywin himself, when assigning Tyrion an important task at the end of AGOT, telling him “You are my son.” 

Contrast this against Tywin’s final words to his son, after Tyrion shoots him with the crossbow!!! “You … you are no … no son of mine.”*** Some people believe this to be an admission of Tyrion’s secret Targ paternity, but they’re wrong. Tywin disowning Tyrion is how Tywin tries to hurt Tyrion, to deprive Tyrion of his humanity one final time, by depriving him of the Lannister name, cutting the individual off from the more “valuable” whole. If the Lannister name is what makes Tyrion human, it’s Tywin’s final act of dehumanization to revoke that name, thereby revoking Tyrion’s humanity. 

But Tyrion says, “Now that’s where you’re wrong, Father. Why, I believe I’m you writ small.”

No, Father, I’m you. Just on a smaller scale. 

AND THIS IS THE TRAGEDY OF TYRION’S ARC IN A DANCE WITH DRAGONS!!! 

Because who is Tywin, really? He is a villainous monster who robs so many of their lives and their humanity. 

By the end of ASOS, the scales have dropped from Tyrion’s eyes and he realizes that his father is a monster who had an innocent girl gang raped for loving the individual and (in Tywin’s eyes) threatening the whole of House Lannister, as a replay of what happened to Tytos and his mistress. Tywin feared this one little girl would mean House Lannister would fall back into the ~dark times~ and be seen as weak. (How strong is House Lannister, really, if Tywin feared it could be broken by one little girl?) 

No, Father, you’re a monster. And I’m monster too. Just on a smaller scale.

“Give me the cup, he told the Stranger, for I shall drink deep. And if it tastes of gold and lion’s blood, so much the better. As I cannot be the hero, let me be the monster, and lesson them in fear in place of love.”

Tyrion murdered Shae, he feels tremendous guilt over Tysha, and he does horrible things in ADWD - Tyrion’s playing the monster. Tyrion is extremely depressed and suffering from PTSD in ADWD, but I would argue that Tyrion feels very deprived of his humanity in ADWD. (If you’ve ever been depressed, it’s like … “I don’t feel so human today.”) 

Tywin did deprive Tyrion of his humanity at the end of ASOS, as the capstone of his efforts to deprive Tyrion of his humanity for his entire life. I see Tyrion’s narrative in the remaining books as a long and hard journey to 

get out from under Tywin’s long black shadow

to escape from Tywin’s ableist and dehumanizing ways of thinking

to realize that Tyrion as an individual is valuable and so very human, something that will be made evident to him when he helps save the world

SO!! BACK TO YOUR QUESTION!! No, I do not think that Tywin would have reacted differently if Tyrion had only taken Tysha as a mistress instead of marrying her. For Tyrion’s whole life, Tywin has been trying to dehumanize Tyrion, and I do not think he would miss this opportunity. Tyrion’s forced participation in the gang rape telegraphs the message that Tyrion as an individual is worthless to Tywin, as worthless as Tysha, and the lie about Tysha being a prostitute sends the message that no one could love Tyrion as a person, which is what Tywin believes. He wants to make that explicitly clear to Tyrion, which is why Tywin made Tyrion “go last” “with no trace of love or tenderness remaining.” Tysha acting as Tyrion’s mistress might even be taken as more of a threat than what happened in the original timeline, because there is a stronger similarity between what happened between Tytos and his mistress. 

Of course, if we asked Tywin, I don’t think he would say or think, “Oh goody!! This is an opportunity to dehumanize Tyrion!! YAY!!” Tywin’s ableist thinking is a lot more insidious than that. If we asked Tywin, he would think, “This is for Tyrion’s own good, and for the good of House Lannister” because he believes his own bullshit. He thinks he’s teaching Tyrion a “lesson” and ~helping~ him and hammering the “love or tenderness” out of Tyrion as if Tyrion is a piece of steel (or gold) that Tywin can forge into the masculine ideal of Westeros. (Look at Randyll Tarly, who is neither loving nor tender.)

Tywin believes that Tyrion needs to be ~put in his place~ because Tyrion’s very existence as someone who cannot (and will not! Tyrion’s choices matter!) conform and uphold fascist masculinity is a threat to House Lannister and everything the Lannisters stand for. As I’ve been saying elsewhere, Tyrion and other prominent ASOIAF protagonists are the Resistance, fighting against dehumanizing regimes. (Tyrion, more than any other protagonist imo, stumbles in his mission, but he is the Resistance.) 

So, NOPE, I think the Tysha incident would be just as horrible, even if Tyrion ~committed a lesser offense~ and only took Tysha as a mistress. 

~~~~~

*This is part of how I think Tywin became “a different man after [Joanna] died”. While I think Tywin has always believed in Lannister superiority, I think he did build individual, valuable relationships with prominent people in his life, like Kevan and Joanna and Genna, who was once Tywin’s “precious princess.” It’s after Joanna’s death that we see Tywin expressing ideas like “love is worthless” to bb!Jaime and we see him become the Perfect Poster Boy of Fascist Masculinity “with no trace of love or tenderness remaining”. I have lots of thoughts on this and perhaps I will expand on this another time, but it deserves its own post.

**In Theweleit’s studies of fascist aesthetics, he found that fascist aesthetics place great value on the whole, while individuals, uncontrolled masses of individuals were to be feared. Analyzing ASOIAF through an anti-fascist lens opened up A WHOLE NEW WORLD for me, especially when it comes to Tyrion and Tywin’s relationship, it’s WONDERFUL. (Horrible, but wonderful.)

***Tywin disowns Jaime as well when he refuses to leave the Kingsguard to marry Margaery and take up his duties as heir to Casterly Rock. “You are not my son,” Tywin tells Jaime, to hurt Jaime and pay him back in kind for the pain Jaime has caused him with his refusal. There is a distancing and excision here as well, but it’s different from what’s going on with Tyrion, because Jaime has simply chosen one organization (one “whole”) over another, the Kingsguard over House Lannister. For the rest of ASOS, Tywin is eager to win Jaime back. In AFFC and ADWD, Jaime’s loyalties are divided between Kingsguard knight and Lannister heir, between true knighthood and false, between Brienne and Cersei, between honor and “glory”. “The question is, who are you?” “We all must choose.” It is similar but also different from what’s happening with Tyrion, because Jaime was not born with a disability.