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Elon Musk is an Aspie Supremacist
Elon Musk is an aspie supremacist, in addition to — or, as part of — being a neo-nazi fascist. Aspie supremacy is an “ideology is based upon the belief that people with Asperger’s are superior to other autistics as well as to non-autistics”.
I’ll explain why this is so important and highly relevant — and why the majority of the Autistic community does not identify with Musk’s hateful, bigoted views. Autism is not an excuse for hate or bigotry, and people like Musk give all Autistics a dangerously bad name.
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#why is aspie bad#aspie supremacy#white supremacist#white supremacists#white supremacist manifesto#aspie#aspies#aspie bad#why is aspergers not a diagnosis#elon musk racist#hasanabi elon musk#white supremacy#elon musk interview#buffalo ny massacre#racist#elon musk#hasanabi reacts#racist shooting#elon musk twitter#racism#twitter is dying#hasanabi productions#live streamed at bufalo supermarket#project veritas action#projectveritasaction
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Stan and Ford and the Different Flavors of Autistic-ness
Ford has that Former Gifted Child thing where his inflated arrogance comes from a place of having to prove himself, but also yeas hes neurodivergent.
(Bugs under a rock. They are so so squishy.)
The way Ford thinks reminds me of Aspie Supremacy in a way.
[Aspie supremacy describes a phenomenon where people who were dx/still identify with the term "aspergers" see themselves as being superior to non-autistics (as well as "other" autistics) where people who have (visibly) lower support needs are "acceptable" enough vs other autistic people who need more support. Of course this is complicated!]
(More thoughts under this cut)
In a less extreme way, you could compare Ford-whose autism doesnt give him the learning disabilities his brother probably does. Autism can be comorbid with many learning disabilities.
They are both autistic but when it comes to school one of them needs more than the other.
Even as Ford doesn't have academic struggles, he clearly struggles socially. He struggles caring for himself, doing basic self care, etc.
Theres a reason we are moving away from "aspergers" and "low and high functioning" because the reality of being autistic is theres lots of areas where someone can need little or no support whereas in another they may have Very high support needs.
Being a nerd might have actually saved him socially in that way since when you are dismissed as a nerdy type, you are kind of expected to be "weird or eccentric" because Thats Just How Smart People Are, and it saved him from having to mask so hard. His natural way of being jibed with a stereotype.
But Stan didnt have that so he had to mask a lot more heavily. A likely reason he was actually less popular than Ford was among their peers. Because Ford met stereotypes and he didnt.
That specific terminology didnt exist yet but I think it could apply to him.
He would see traits he has and think they are Abilities and ways of thinking and that might make him feel a sense of superiority over others. Because thats how he built up his Worth after being ostracized.
They likely didnt have the words for these things: first of all special education didnt exist, awareness about autism and disabilities wasnt so common.
Ford and stan 100% have no idea they are autistic but they feel the experience without the words to describe it.
But i think like. You know, labels like "aspie supremacy" and "former gifted kid syndrome" and also "autism" in general exist they describe the phenomenon that was already There. We just have a term describing it now.
Even now there is a divide between autistic experiences where some autistic people are praised and seen as "gifted" and "good" autistics (Ford in this case) while others are the "bad" autistics (Stan in this example) who are seen as "defiant" and are punished. And also you can be in both situations at different times (I was.)
#gravity falls#ford pines#stan pines#gravity falls meta#this is more complicated of course but id say a really good example of aspie supremacy i have people argue to me that autism is not#a disability and you see this more commonly with autistics who were labeled as the “smart autistic”#but ive been the “bad” autistic before and ive felt my autism visibly make it harder for me ex) having a meltdown#cw ableism#actually autistic
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I could've put any disorder but people seem to really hate people with down syndrome
Like I don't know how the autism community who fights autism speaks for trying to perform eugenics can ignore this- as soon as the disorder is downs or some intellectual/cognitive issue or has a physical look.
I'm so done.
#down syndrome#eugenics#ableism#You guys keep hating on people who use the term Asperger's but not understanding why#I swear to God#Aspie supremacists are bad not just because the label may or may not be anti semetic (all the resources seem contradictory)#It's also bad because we threw people who had intellectual disabilities under the bus#amongst other things#Honestly when we talk about disability we tend to focus on mental illness or ADHD/autism with a few aesthetic physical disabilities throwni#Physical disabilities that aren't aesthetic and learning/intellectual disabilities get ignored#Which is bad because our disabilities overlap more than people think and I'm not just talking comorbidities#I'm talking symptoms and the bullshit we get served#But if we mention that we are similar in any capacity then our community freaks out and gets insulted/thinks it will drag our progress back#As if failing to stand up for people similar to us doesn't fail our community in the long run#It just hurts the group we othered and those within our community that are similar#Also if you think someone should take an IQ test so they can vote then go get fucked#If you aren't ready to have a kid with down syndrome then your not ready for children- maybe one day you but if you fear having a disabilit#You can't test for autism or dyslexia or whatever plus your kid might get disabled later on in life
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Okay so you're allowed to say eugenics towards allistic people is just satire XD and I shouldn't call that out, but as soon as I say nazis should die, I'm the one kicked out. Okay, I guess there is one type of person here in that space, and it's people who are all down for fascism towards people they don't like.
You guys need to unlearn your toxic and shitty mindsets and realize that just because you put fascism in a progressive and fancy autistic hat, doesn't make it any less fascism, even as a joke. And defending nazis in any way shape or form, while also refusing to acknowledge those jokes about eugenics, because its just silly ol' satire, makes you tolerant of the same people willing to kill us and eradicate us, just because we're autistic.
The autistic community is a fucking nightmare because of people like this. Stop joking about killing allistics or neurotypicals, it's not a joke. It's not funny. It's not the slam dunk you think it is. There are horrible people out there and it's okay to vent about it, but making a whole space dedicated to this ideology, regardless of whatever label of satire you throw on top, is bad. It's just bad.
I wanted to find comfort in a disorder that I found out I had, but talking to people who clearly still identify with aspie supremacy, is actually so fucked up. No one dictates who gets to have rights, and we shouldn't dehumanize other people just because they're (group).
#babey posts#babey rants#aspie supremacy#actually autistic#the people on r/evilautism are actually so far up their own ass and can't see that supremacist ideologies are FUCKING DANGEROUS#i hate that subreddit so bad#maybe autistic people shouldn't be the only ones dictating whether someone lives or dies#just because its a joke doesn't mean saying that stuff isn't rotting your brain#you aren't immune to propaganda#and fascism still happens no matter if you say its haha silly lil satire XD#this sort of shit should be held accountable#most people are really just going with the crowd on there and it scares me
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I can speak for myself. As an autistic person I am more than capable of deciding on my own what offends me in terms of representation. I do not need allistics to come to my defense on matters I don't even care about.
It infuriates me to no end everytime I see the thousandth video by an allistic person insisting a specific character is autism coded and talking about how they're a harmful stereotype when I myself don't even see what makes that character seem autistic. Perhaps the one with stereotypical views on aspies isn't any of the people working on that show methinks.
Like honestly, I don't really have any problems with Sheldon from Big Bang Theory. Honestly I sorta like him. For one that show runners have denied time and time again that he's meant to be autistic to the point of making it canon in the show that he was tested for it and isn't but, if we're looking at him that way...
He's a PhD holding scientist with a high paying job. He's got a circle of friends who while they may at times find him irritating ultimately are willing to give him the space he needs and understand his differences from their behavior wise and that sometimes they need to be a little more careful with him, friends who share and are willing to indulge him on his special interests. By the end of the show he has a wife that loves and respects him not in spite of his behaviors, but in large part because of how they're part of who he is. This is bad? Fuck this is aspirational. I'd love this. But the show makes some jokes at his expense so the creators are ableist I guess.
Now I haven't seen every single episode of Big Bang so maybe they go all autism speaks at some point, who knows, but my point is maybe let us talk about this? The people who actually are autistic and would love a platform to be seen talking about it.
The one that pisses me off the most is when people assert that Arthur from the Joker movie is autistic (what?) and the movie depicts that as the primary reason he's violent. For one I never got that sense from the movie, I got the sense that a multitude of things in his life lead to his decline and to his eventual turn to violence and public outbursts aside from just his mental conditions, societal pressures, constant abuse from everyone in his life and complete strangers alike, a lifetime of being lied to by his mother, ect. But ig you need some way to feel morally superior to people with media literacy so have your tangents about how the movie is ableist I guess.
And it was mostly nuerotypicals making that point, which is even more annoying to me. Videos like that got so fucking big and most of the time were made by people who honestly, I don't even think saw the movie, and were white knighting on behalf of a group of people who at least in my circles, fucking love Joker.
Let autistic people speak for themselves. By speaking over us when we don't have a platform to be heard and insisting you know what we're thinking when we're capable of doing communicating that ourselves you are no different than the con artists at Autism Speaks or the ableists who think we're all non verbal and incapable of interacting with other human beings. You are doing just as much harm as any of them, if not even more because you're tricking people into believing you actually care what we think.
I'm certain plenty of autistic and neurodivergent disagree with my opinions on Joker and Big Bang Theory and thats great. But I want to hear THEIR takes on why, not yours.
That's why the rallying cry for us will always be important, because we have the constant experience of being denied a platform to speak about our own issues, even by our alleged allies. So it is now and forever shall be, Nothing about us, without us.
#autism#neurodivergent#nothing about us without us#Joker#big bang#big bang theory#sheldon cooper#Sheldon#platform#autism speaks#ableism#ableist#don't talk over us#we can speak for ourselves#as a side note i honestly don't generally care about characters not confirmed to be autistic being poor representation#i care much more when a character is stated to be autistic and is presented poorly#i fucking hate that predator reboot#and what it did to broader discussions of autism in mainstream media#it is not a super power#and for many people (not myself nor most aspies mind you) its debilitating#that's why im not entirely against the idea of a cure#of ones possible and not harmful i think it should be an option#yes for certain i understand the reasons many of us are against the idea#not all of us would take one given the chance (myself included) but neurotypicals would still try and force it on us#but lets not forget there are those of us who do genuinely suffer from our condition in its more extreme cases#but propaganda insisting that experience is so common its interchangeably with any other aspies experience has scared is so bad#many autistic people who are verbal and feel they suffer from autism are shamed out of speaking up about it#and while that reaction os understandable it's also toxic#we should let everyone share their experiences#may they be positive neutral or negative
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me unironically twice a month
me: hi I'm autistic! I struggle with alot of things, even though I can talk quite normally and make eye contact. I am still disabled! and still face systemic oppression from my government and the school system!
some random ass aspie: those stupid bitch level 2's and 3's.
me: why are you saying this to me
some random aspie: autism is not a disability your just fucking stupid
me: again.. why are you saying that
aspie: ...
me: ...
aspie: bc your autistic the bad kind, the should be locked up kind.
me: what the fuck man.
#-pop#is it because I'm comorbid with a surprising amount of other neurodivergenices? or is the aspie supremacy just that fucking bad?#who knows I'm honestly sick of being treated like shit#lol#autism#actually autistic#autistic things#fuck aspies#I will always side with the losers and ppl with learning and developmental disabilities#stop siding with the ableists please guys I can't deal with the repackaged eugenics shit. it's fucking annoying!
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I already hate the term aspergers but what I hate even more is when people who still use the term for themselves act like they’re better than me just bcs I need more support and all that jazz… still using the term despite its origins is weird enough but you’re definitely not better than me
#I might never be able to live alone due to several disabilities which is bad enough#at the very least can self proclaimed aspies shut the fuck up
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KHOC WEEK 2024 Day 2 - Past
the things for my OCs are now the only ones I do, so, off with the annual @khoc-week appointment.😂
The protagonist of this post should have been Aspis, my little Anguis kid, but since Aspis is deeply connected to another character, it's probably better that I start with some headcanons I have about the Foretellers. Between those and the designs, at this point they feel a bit like OCs too. even tried to do a Nomura-esque version for the occasion.
The assumption is that the Foretellers were one of the many attempts on the chessboard of the Master of Masters to face the Darkness. He gathered under his protection a group of lonely and desperate kids, with a tormented past, acting in the grey area more than out of affection. He bet on them. He sought out children who possessed specific flaws of distinct deadly sins, trained them, and made them his apprentices on a journey designed to make them overcome their "sin" and use it as a virtue that will be essential to their future "roles." For example…
Gula, who lived on the streets as a feral child, has known hunger, and food is also how MoM attracted him. Gula suffered from bulimia and nervous hunger for years, before managing to direct his anxiety towards logic and study, becoming an analytical boy "hungry" for knowledge.
Ava, sold away by her once rich family fell in disgrace, wanted EVERYTHING back. everything she had lost, or that she wanted but could no longer afford. Mom was the one who has bought her, she's too young to understand the extent of the family tragedy. that's why she later was the perfect one for the task of choosing any wielder she desires or attracts her eye, without limits, collecting the Dandelion.
Aced has always used his muscles to win easily, alone, without effort and without ever really try to improving himself, until carelessness cost him his tribe and an eye… he is now a loyal follower and uses his strength to defend the group, the arm of the law under Ira.
Ira, balances strength in combat and intelligence, which are also the qualities of his union. stubborn and rebellious, as an angry teenager he ran away from home, losing his path. He was the first one found by Mom, and he owes him his life. He learned to control his anger because of him, obtaining determination, willpower and the courage that made him choose as Leader.
Luxu carried the burden of being an unwanted child, the result of an affair, from an early age he felt cursed by that because of a big birthmark on one eye that vaguely resembles an X. shy, insecure and reserved, people pleaser, until life with his apprentice companions brought out his mischievous and creative personality. His being a people pleaser made him incredibly attentive to the behavior of the people around him and the ideal candidate to infiltrate among people and live their lives, one after the other.
Finally, Invi.
like all the other foretellers, her name is more of a title. Her real name is Nivea, and she was isolated from her village because white hair was considered a bad omen. The resentment of having to survive alone, with a little brother to support, he too with lighter hair than was welcome, soon turned into Envy, gnawing at her insides every time Nivea stopped to observe the normality of other families, lurking and hating everyone but her brother Aspis.
MoM saved both, proposing a deal to Nivea: he would take care of them, they would have a roof over their heads, education, a future, as long as she studied under him.
With no other real choice, the children accept out of desperation.
Nivea and Aspis initially lived together, but as they grow older she is forced to uphold her end of the bargain, spending more and more time at the clocktower. Aspis and Nivea's relationship is ruined irreparably, as Invi begins to enjoy her studies and the company of her peers, spending less and less time with her brother "for a higher purpose".
On the other hand, Aspis, who has always remained silent about a subtle hostility from the inhabitants of Daybreak Town due to his bad temper and sharp tongue, is left almost alone. His only wish was not to be a burden to his sister, who therefore always believed everything was fine and let him go without regrets. Aspis is full of resentment towards Mom, blaming him for brainwashing his sister, now obsessed by Light and darkness, when she clearly only wanted a better life for them.
Aspis and Invi do not hate each other, but the lack of communication makes it difficult to make peace, they will miss their chance before the War.
Aspis eventually made some friends along the way, that made his loneliness bearable. he is in a sort of trio with Lupe and Leonna, and a little girl who for some reason adores him like a big brother, Velcia (she's @alchemist-of-thebes 's oc). he'll never admit it, but he would die for her.😂
concluding this post with some old foretellers art dump xD
#khocweek#khocweek2024#foretellers#foreteller invi#keykids#aspis#foreteller gula#foreteller ava#foreteller aced#foreteller ira#luxu#MoM
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low functioning means you are incapable of basic activities of daily living (bADLs) such as:
bathing or showering, dressing, getting in and out of bed or a chair, walking, using the toilet, continence (which sometimes gets excluded) and eating.
I understand that people feel like high functioning hand waves away their struggles with employment or depression or burn out or sensory processing or learning disabilities but high functioning as a label wasn't meant to address that. It was meant to address what's listed above. If you are mostly capable of a good portion of these tasks then you are probably high functioning. I know it's not exactly comforting to hear but no matter how many times you change the labels to 'low support' or 'level one' and idk what else we will come up with people will still erase our struggles but I'd rather have someone assume 'high functioning means that girl doesn't need help' than have people like my uncle not have a label like low functioning that tells people he needs help.
Quick side note: Also notice on that list of basic ADLs things like verbality aren't listed? Nonverbal doesn't automatically mean incapable of bADLs it means non speaking! Many nonverbal are very capable of independence and deserve to use swear words on their AAC devices if they express the desire to!
But yeah you might think high functioning erases your issues but the labels aren't focused on things like employment or driving skills or grocery shopping. They're focused on your ability to dress yourself without wearing your clothes the wrong way because you were confused or because you can't figure out how to put on an outfit or find your clothes.
If anyone here honestly holds the belief low functioning people have it easier then you need to wake the fuck up
my fellow low support needs/"high functioning"/level 1 autistics, please stop treating support needs labels like a personal attack on your struggles.
low support needs doesn't mean no support needs. low support needs doesn't mean you don't struggle. low support needs doesn't mean you can't be disabled by your autism. low support needs doesn't mean you can't have speech difficulties or severe sensory issues or bad symptom days.
all that low support needs/level 1 means is that you can usually complete activities of daily living with minimal assistance. [pt: on average, you have relatively lower support needs than some other autistic people.]
i know sometimes it may seem like these labels are erasing your struggles, i used to feel the same way. but the reality is that medium and high support needs autistics feel a lot worse when we keep calling these labels "unnecessary" but excluding the people who most need them from the conversation entirely.
#actually autistic#autism#high functioning autism#level 1 autism#lsn autism#low support needs autism#aspie#late diagnosed autistic#aspergers#(i don't like functioning labels or aspergers/aspie but i'm using them to reach my target audience)#This tag and the tags underneath are Phantombunker's not asters#Low functioning autism exists#Maybe the labels should be changed but low support needs/level one still ends up making it sound like we don't struggle#But getting rid of the labels is a bad idea!#Some people really need them!#Functioning labels aren't meant to capture all the struggles a disabled person might face#They're meant to gauge who will need the most attention inorder to survive#They don't capture being incapable of holding down a job or having no friends#But at the same time#Most high functioning people (emphasis on most not all) when given proper help can indeed do most things#Meanwhile low functioning people even with a ton of help might very well still need 24/7 care or more extreme assistance#And that's okay! But they're absolutely has to a be a label#Autism is sometimes a guy with dyslexia and sensory issues who still lives with his parents but won't die if expected to take care of --#--himself for a week#But autism can also be a man who can't bathe alone because he'll either drown himself or boil himself alive because he doesn't know any--#--better and he can't be left alone for too long because he won't eat or use the bathroom or dress himself without help#So we need a label to differentiate the levels of struggle
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I want to write an essay on how the Book of Bill expertly subverts the "villain with a tragic backstory/antisocial protagonist" narrative by portraying its main character as evil, trying really hard to look cool, and failing pathetically. The book is making fun of him, and that is actually kind of revolutionary, because most stories with evil, pathetic main characters tend to take themselves, and by extension, their protagonist, way too seriously, with way too much dignity, which leads to people misinterpreting them as heroes or idealize them in some way, and then replicating these harmful attitudes. They follow life coaches that will teach them how to be "alpha males."
Bill presents himself as one of these "life coaches," he will teach you the secrets of the universe, he will help you to game the system in your favor, to manipulate people to get what you want, he will free you from the shackles of society and reality itself-- but he is lying. The success rate of Bill's evil schemes is laughably small. He's a manipulator, to be sure, an incompetent one. His dimension rejected him, his friends don't actually like him, throughout the ages humans have found him insufferable, and to top it all off he ruins the relationship with the only being in the history of the universe he has ever truly felt understood by.
And instead of going "gee, maybe there *is* something wrong with me, after all" he doubles down on his harmful ideas. He doesn't have a problem, everyone else is the problem. Nobody gets his vision. They are all small-minded creatures of no value. His failures are always somebody else's fault. He didn't want to hurt anyone, he was forced to. It's not that bad, he's just being silly, he's having a laugh.
And we, as readers, we are horrified at all the bad things he does, but we also laugh. Not with him, but *at him.* He is being constantly ridiculed by himself, and the funniest part is that he doesn't even realize. He thinks he is absolutely acing this.
He isn't.
Eventually, it is revealed that Bill has no idea what he is talking about. That he has been defeated, rendered powerless, stuck forever in interdimensional therapy. The book tells us, "This is what happens to people like Bill if they don't change. They end up with nothing. No riches, no fame, no loved ones. They will be unhappy forever unless they realize there is something about them worth changing and decide to act on it."
This is in contrast to Stanford, someone who, just like Bill, was deeply hurt and rejected by society, struggled to feel understood, and took refuge in a narcissistic (bear with me-) view of the world. Diagnostic labels aside, Ford genuinely thinks he is better than everyone else for being smarter. He is a textbook Aspie Supremacist that swears by IQ tests because it's the only thing that has ever validated him. That's why he gets along with Bill, I think, they really *have* compatible mindsets. Ford really thought Rudolph should've killed the other reindeer. He constantly dismisses Fiddleford in what feels a very classist way (even if he grew up working class himself). Ford isn't manipulative and malicious in the same way Bill is, and I don't want anyone coming at me for saying Ford is evil. He isn't. He might be a bit of an ass, but he has a moral code, he knows that what Bill wants to do is A BAD THING and dedicates his life to trying to stop him. Stanford's biggest flaw is not appreciating the people around him more for their inherent value (not that he doesn't love them! he does!), but he learns, and he changes. He is more considerate of other people's needs and their perspectives.
And by the end, he is happy. He is free from Bill, he has his family, people who will support him unconditionally and will put up with his nonsense because they love him.
Stanford will never find someone who is as smart as him, who has been ostracized the same way he has. But that's okay. He has an inherent value as a person that has nothing to do with how smart he is in comparison to other people. He doesn't need other people's approval to be happy.
That is, I think, what the book wants you to take away. Don't be like Bill. Don't fall for the Alpha Male scam, or eugenics, some new age cult or multilevel marketing scheme, reject the ideas at the base. Talk to your family and friends, touch grass, find a group that shares your interests, but don't dwell endlessly on resentment, and don't follow people that tell you that the only way to be valuable is to be "superior" in some abstract metric, and that they can teach you how.
(As a kid, I almost fell down the alt-right pipeline-- and I am Mexican, transgender, and autistic. I fantasized about blowing up the school every day. I know what the fuck I am talking about when I tell you this.)
They are lying. You don't want to be like them.
You don't want to be like Bill.
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Keep your aspie supremacy away from me! Keep it out of your discord servers. I hate it I hate it. Stop it. Just because you don’t struggle as much doesn’t mean low support needs autism needs to be a separate disorder. Doesn’t mean it needs to be separate from ASD. That’s bad. Stop it!
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the only autistic people ive ever seen wanting the disorder part of asd to be removed either have lv 1 low support needs autism and/or alot of internalised (and often externalise) ableism. autism IS a disorder by definition and a disability by definition. if you dont think ur autism is a disorder/disability thats fine but saying it isnt excludes higher level and support needs autistic people. just because something is a disorder it doesn't mean it should be cured it means either it causes clinically significant distress or limits one or more aspects of a person life (ie social, work etc.) being autistic is a very inaccessible and ableist world does both of thoss things. yes Autism should be seen as a disorder because of ableism and inaccessibility not because it is inherently bad but having a disorder/disability is not a bad thing.
call yourself what you like but no, we are not going to pretend autism is not a disorder because some low support needs autistic have internalised ableism.
Do you ever think about how autistic people pushed for us just to be called autistic, but alistics/medicalists/Autism Moms/psych industry insisted their disgust at us had to include Disorder.
I don’t have ASD. I’m autistic. And we need to destroy the pathologisation & medicalisation of autism.
#im tired of low support needs autistics telling me its “not a disability”#i cant go to school#i can't take care of myself#i might never be able to live alone#i am disabled and its not a bad thing#autism#autistic#low support needs#medium support needs#low med support needs#high support needs#non verbal#non speaking#speech loss#level 1 autism#level 2 autism#level 3 autism#asd#mental disabilities#mentally disabled#disabled and proud#auti punk#nuero punk#nueropunk#aspie#auti#aspie supremacy#tw aspie supremacy#ableism#autipunk
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today, april 11th, is the anniversary of Mel Baggs' death. Mel Baggs was one of the early founders of the neurodiversity movement and believed that no one was too disabled for human rights, something that modern nd movements fail to understand to this day. sie was so instrumental to my understanding of literally everything. sie died from medical ableism and neglect during the beginning of the pandemic. we would be nowhere fucking near where we are now without hir. i've decided to make a masterlist of some of my favorite posts of hirs, organized into different categories.
(some of these are listed in more than one category because they overlap so much)
here are some of the "essentials" (what you might have already read by hir/should read first):
hir memorial site hosted by ASAN:
In My Language
the oak manifesto
There is ableism at the heart of your oppression, no matter what your oppression might be
Getting The Truth Out (many pages, parody of bad autism awareness campaign called "getting the word out")
the meaning of self-advocacy
what makes institutions bad
aspie supremacy can kill
here are some of hir beautiful writings on perceiving/communicating with hir environment as an autistic person, and on communication in general:
up in the clouds and down in the valley: my richness and yours
distance underthought
the naked mechanisms of echolalia
empty mirrors and redwoods
the fireworks are interesting
hir tumblr tag #sensing (@withasmoothroundstone)
on personhood and who has the authority to take it away:
being an unperson
what it means to be real
empty mirrors and redwoods
on institutions and the I/DD service system:
caregiver abuse takes many forms
"i don't know that person's program"
what my home means to me
dd service system tag
god help the critic of the dawn: glamour and its fallout
what makes institutions bad
post on the JRC
outposts in our heads
on online social justice communities/their inaccessibility:
Your politics have a problem when they contradict the real-life experiences of the people they're supposed to be about.
politics, ethics and mental widgets
hir tumblr tags #outside the wall and #little packages (@withasmoothroundstone)
misc:
The Bones My Family Gave Me
Please violate only one stereotype at a time
My sort of people, just as real as theirs.
Reviving the concept of cousins
gender tag
this is hir poems and creative works:
this is hir writing on autistics.org:
may hir memory be a blessing/revolution.
#mel baggs#z”l#autism#actually autistic#autism acceptance month#autism awareness#disability#disability rights#disability justice#mushroom.txt#actuallydd#autism acceptance#actuallyautistic#tagging this in All The Tags so people see it#autism awareness month#autistic#autistic spectrum#autistic things#asd#neurodivergent#neurodiversity#i/dd
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really really not everywhere as advanced as US & some other well known western countries with autism awareness autism acceptance. yes so many thing suck about US autism stuff but really need people know that. compare to birth country, US autism progress is heavenly.
just use birth country here as example. “cure” & “recovery” still very commonly believed & used, “my child diagnosed autism age whatever nonverbal severe but now recovered talking smiling make eye contact etc” “how can my child recover from autism” literally out of three post when look up autism, two or more like this.
intervention very much still on need “teach” (force) eye contact, that all repetitive behaviors bad, that child avoid parents because of their 24/7 nonstop “intervention” not seen as warning of maybe should rethink this but instead seen as another symptom of doomed severe autism. focus of intervention for nonverbal people is teach talk how teach talk here magic method teach talk ultimate goal teach talk “look my child was nonverbal but now talk fluent” achievement
goal is “normal” child.
“cured” “recovered” is “normal” looking “normal” behaving child. have not seen single person talk about emotions & feelings & inner stuff
old old school ABA. gold standard. but “even” that “luxury.” spend entire life savings for these interventions. thirty thousand spent on intervention, prefaced by “only.” “only thirty thousand”
there’s little to no neurodiversity positivity.
“thought about/almost did killing myself/family when child diagnosed/when raising autistic child” seen countless comments n posts like this maybe hundreds in 20 minutes desperate scrolling &. maybe three basic talk about AAC. badly
gather 100 family with nonverbal child. would consider it miracle & statistic anomaly if even one family heard of AAC. not even think positively of it. not even use it or want use it. just heard of it
someone nonverbal nonspeaking using AAC communicate fluently. unheard of. doubt even thought of as possible
if am make post about how am nonverbal & level 2/3 autistic - would 100% be called fake n not real. would be told real nonverbal autistic people all can’t understand basic concepts, not to mention able communicate & use social media like this (don’t even dare call it predominant view because feel like that imply there small group that not believe. where that small group, not sure exist here). don’t even dare mention autistic catatonia & associated late regression that in my medical records confirmed by one of top autism place in US.
talk about “mild autism” “high functioning autism” “asperger’s” as if end of world as if death sentence, one post find out husband may actually be on spectrum “mild/high functioning/aspergers” n talk about it as if end of world as if marriage shattered fall apart as if rest of own life ruined. n have that validated by EVERYONE in comments.
n then just imagine that double triple quadruple when talk about child adult who nonverbal who diagnosed severe who have behavioral problems scream cry repetitive behaviors
videos of severe nonverbal child and adult be treated not as human. n comments full of hugging parents n feeling bad for family for misfortune of having child like this
“what did do in past life to deserve this”
don’t know how describe how bad it is unless see for self. twenty years behind. underestimate. probably even more
(n then there small small group of international students that studied in US or UK with their aspie supremacist rhetoric copied from places like instagram tumblr tiktok. truly out of body shocking amazing dichotomy. sarcasm)
n this just. tamer less extreme version of what saw. because. don’t know how describe
whatever common autism myth that is be dispelled in US, it still main belief here.
seriously can’t even. don’t even know how to. there no word truly describe how am feeling.
#ableism tw#ABA tw#< tagging it because. well. all the tactics#ABA therapy tw#loaf screm#vent#idk#long post
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(Tw for ableism, aspergers, etc.)
I want to talk about aspie supremacists, and accidental aspie supremacy.
First, what does Aspie supremacy mean? It is the belief that autistics with "aspergers" (a bad term for multiple reasons. I've talked about it before.) or those who are considered "high functioning" have a "superior form of autism" and should have more authority or influence within the community. This leads to the marginalization and silencing of high support needs autistics. The concept of "Aspie supremacy" perpetuates an ableist hierarchy that undermines the principles of inclusivity, intersectionality, and solidarity within the disability community.
Aspie supremacists, whether consciously or unconsciously, perpetuate ableism by marginalizing those with high support needs. They speak over us, disregard our experiences, and promote harmful stereotypes that undermine our value and contributions. This behavior is not only hurtful but goes against the core principles of neurodiversity and inclusivity, and I am tired of seeing it so frequently accepted.
Even if it isnt labeled as aspie supremacy, it is still harmful. One of the biggest challenges lies in the unlabelled nature of this supremacy. It often operates covertly, disguised as a preference for certain autistic traits or as a focus on specific experiences within the spectrum. By prioritizing these aspects without acknowledging the diverse range of needs and experiences, we inadvertently silence and exclude people like me.
Unlabeled aspie supremacy is extremely prevalent in both online and in person neurodivergent spaces, usually taking form as a lack of mention, education, and understanding of high support needs autistics. YES, only ever talking about level one autistics and ignoring the struggles and ideas of high support needs autistics IS aspie supremacy, whether purposeful or not. If you are only listening to and reading from low support needs autistics with no attempt to listen to higher support needs autists, you are contributing to the problem.
If this is something you are doing accidentally, I want you to please think about why it is you don't make an attempt to listen higher support needs autistics, and acknowledge your mistake. You should then try to fix this, and begin listening to our experiences, and spreading them through reblogs or similar means.
#tw aspergers#aspergers tw#tw ableism#ableism tw#tw aspie supremacy#actually autistic#neurodivergent#aac user#autism#nonspeaking#nonspeaking autistic#aac device#aac users#disabled#aac#the tism#autism acceptance#autistic#nothing about us without us#autistic experiences#autistic and queer#autistic community#neurodiversity
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Crazy how some yall will talk about ableist neurotypicals and ableist allistics but then in the next breath be ableist to physically disabled people especially to those who need more help, cannot work , even those who are legit autistic like you...the people you just got done trying to talk about being treated bad like you by neurotypicals that you would defend but then turn round and treat bad self..
it so weird being a part of two different communities when one sees the other as being lazy, a waste , not doing anything/contributing to society etc
some of yall on my side until I talk about being physically disabled too much then hot take to you..
like defending other autistic people unless they need more support than you or are also physically disabled (or both)
soo you don' like ableists but you be ableist just to someone with different disabilities? that makes a lot of sense (sarcasm)
(another problem being a lot of the ones like this are "aspie supremacists" or something of that category ive noticed )
#disability#disabled#physical disability#chronic pain#actually autistic#actually disabled#actuallyautistic#autism#actually autism#neurodivergent#neurodivergencies#neurodivergence#neurodiversity#ableist#ableism#ableist bullshit#internalized ableism#fuck ableists
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